6 things we wish we had known before marriage

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  • @margiehalpern4573
    @margiehalpern4573 2 роки тому +84

    Lots of wisdom here, for marriages of any vintage!! The initial fizz of falling in love is great. I married very late (the year I turned 50). I certainly enjoyed that fizz! And of course my husband and I have enjoyed and appreciated the good times, big and little, that we've shared over the years. But what I have loved even more is having a stalwart companion with whom to face the difficult times. By now we've both experienced eldercare challenges. Some health issues and surgeries. Knowing that my husband is all in, one hundred percent...priceless.

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +5

      I love that you found that kind of love Margie

  • @amenamen5204
    @amenamen5204 2 роки тому +31

    Your marriage saved me from settling so many times , God bless you 💖💖

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +5

      I am so, so glad. May God light your way.

  • @juliettu7
    @juliettu7 2 роки тому +28

    I love how you really listen to each other without interrupting one another. God bless you! 🙏

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      I appreciate that! Thank you!

  • @annquinlan3791
    @annquinlan3791 2 роки тому +44

    I’m getting married in five months- love hearing your perspective about marriage!

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +34

      How exciting!!! I am so glad you enjoyed the video. I am actually working on a very special project for engaged women right now because I don't think there is enough guidance for women specifically through engagement! Can't wait to share more about it!

  • @AbbyElizabeth03
    @AbbyElizabeth03 2 роки тому +10

    There’s something so beautiful about embracing imperfection. When you’re aware of imperfection, there is a huge weight lifted off one’s shoulders. It’s truly so humbling. It brings you right back to being a child, relying on someone else for everything. God holds us at all ages.
    Even when you’ve had a rough day, looking into your loved one’s eyes is the comfort that is so special because what a gift it is that his God-given expression can comfort me so well.
    It’s wonderful to have young Catholic couples to look up to, fully embracing the struggles and joys of marriage.

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      Really appreciate your thoughtful comment, Abby!

  • @lydiastone4702
    @lydiastone4702 2 роки тому +43

    It is beautiful how you guys pray a short little prayer together before bed, I would definitely like to do this one day when I am married! Thank you for this great video and for showing us the lessons you've learned from the past six years!

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching Lydia!

  • @Spuddylol
    @Spuddylol 2 роки тому +36

    this is amazing ive never seen two people so in sync. Keep it up and best of luck and prayers for the rest of your guys's lives

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +7

      That's really kind. Thank you so much.

  • @maegan22
    @maegan22 2 роки тому +12

    Thank you for this!! 1-effort: how much can I put into this? (He just got home from work, so she gave him an apple snack). 2-being in love doesn't compare to true love 3:15. 3-you never know how much time you have together... Treat each mo.ent as if it could be your last together. 4-time is the most valuable asset, live in the now. 5- 8:39 role as mom is different than role as dad.6- 10:05 your marriage is not going to be perfect, and it's never going to be perfect because we are imperfect humans. 11:00 Emily's response: we're both always growing, evolving, changing. We have to figure out how to love (and serve) each other as we change. (how can we love each other in this season?) Also liked hearing about the surrender novena at the end of the video🙂

  • @akhutt
    @akhutt 2 роки тому +6

    The portrait of Zion in the back... So cute!!😍😍

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      My dad painted it and gave it to us as a gift at Christmas! We love it so much!

  • @Monica-mt4zn
    @Monica-mt4zn 2 роки тому +30

    You guys are 🔥 may God bless you and your house for the rest of your life, for the work and effort you put in spreading this good, uplifting, wise advices in today's world.

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      Wow - thank you Sandy! That really means a lot to me!

  • @TheLastDay-BobReese
    @TheLastDay-BobReese 2 роки тому +5

    I can hardly wait for the "6 Things We Wish We Had Known Before Becoming Grandparents" video.

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      I don't know that UA-cam will exist by then heheheh

  • @xx_furby_lover_xx5812
    @xx_furby_lover_xx5812 2 роки тому +13

    Thank you for this! I'm 17 and never dated but I love watching your content for I can know what I'll be looking for in the future.

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      I am so glad you are here! :)

  • @esmarieofficial
    @esmarieofficial 2 роки тому +4

    My boyfriend and I recently started talking about getting engaged. This was good to hear!!

  • @alondraceja9618
    @alondraceja9618 2 роки тому +14

    I love you guys so much! This notification made my day! Thank you for your vulnerability ❤️

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +2

      I so appreciate your comment and am grateful you get excited when we post! Thanks for watching, Alondra!

  • @BlessedisShe
    @BlessedisShe 2 роки тому +10

    Just beautiful. Praying for you both, always!

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank you sister !

  • @annikasalman8731
    @annikasalman8731 2 роки тому +11

    Such a good video! My fiancé both watched this and it gave us such good advice as we enter into marriage!

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      I am so glad! Congratulations on your engagement Annika!

  • @katelynisaak5544
    @katelynisaak5544 2 роки тому +5

    This made me cry!! Thank you so much for a beautiful video, words and witness of our Lord. I truly felt His love through this video.

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      That is wonderful to hear; thank you so much Katelyn

  • @jacklyn5578
    @jacklyn5578 2 роки тому +2

    something i’ve learned is that ✨marriage doesn’t fix things, it enforces them✨ ergo ones must learn to work through conflicts in these relationships?

  • @Littlemermaid17
    @Littlemermaid17 2 роки тому +1

    Truly beautiful- you two are weapons in the kingdom of God. May you be blessed ✝️

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank you very much.

  • @bettyr5274
    @bettyr5274 2 роки тому

    Daniel is really wise here. Congrats to both of you!
    Count your blessings that both of you are open to growing and put the Lord at the center of your lives. That makes marriage so much easier.

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much!

  • @mariadelrosariomarquez8984
    @mariadelrosariomarquez8984 2 роки тому +7

    This is a great video! I shared it, because so many marriages are struggling with their imperfections. God bless you! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing!

  • @VihanDamaris
    @VihanDamaris 2 роки тому +1

    This was really cool and wise! Thank you for explaining things from experience so those who aren't married like me could mentally prepare!

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you Vihan!!

  • @cassandrafischer8662
    @cassandrafischer8662 2 роки тому +5

    Lovely video, and advice I'll definitely take to heart. I also can't help but chuckle with Daniel saying, "they're going to think we planned this!" After only being married for 3 and a half months, my husband and I have similar trains of thought when talking so often 😂

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      I can't wait to meet you and your husband in person one day my sister!!!

  • @HaleyMary
    @HaleyMary 2 роки тому +2

    This is beautiful! Congrats on your anniversary and here's to many more to come!

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much!

  • @beavadakkoot
    @beavadakkoot 2 роки тому +2

    Love watching your videos! The feelings come and go, depending on where you are at right now, but the choice and the true soul love to each other stays when you put God first,l 🙏❤️ getting married this year and I can't wait to serve even more

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Love that! So excited for you!

  • @martianwalker31
    @martianwalker31 2 роки тому +5

    Congratulations on your anniversary and hope you've got maaaaany more years to come 💐💐💐

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @ashleyh.2178
    @ashleyh.2178 2 роки тому +2

    Although I am not married, this is beautiful advice! Thank you for sharing what a God like covenant is. May God bless your family.

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much AKH!

  • @theronelletomeraasen8461
    @theronelletomeraasen8461 2 роки тому +5

    Great examples you both.

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you! 😃

  • @Meredithgraces
    @Meredithgraces 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you, Emily and Daniel 💗

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank YOU Meredith! You are a sweet soul and I'm grateful for you!

  • @obeyatta7674
    @obeyatta7674 2 роки тому +2

    Wooow, it’s been 6 years already. We thank God🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      We can't believe it either!

  • @elenahermineregal2824
    @elenahermineregal2824 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much! This is so helpful for a couple which is just married 6 months. 😊

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      I'm so glad! thank you!

  • @abigailbudan6485
    @abigailbudan6485 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for all of this lovely wisdom! I’m getting married in 4 months and this was so encouraging ❤️

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Wonderful! Congratulations on your engagement

  • @elizabethbuerke7854
    @elizabethbuerke7854 2 роки тому +4

    Oh my gosh! When did Daniel have blood clots? How did I miss that? Was it in a previous video?

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +5

      I think we talked about it briefly in one of our previous marriage videos. When it was happening, I shared a little bit on Instagram. He had those blood clots just a few weeks before Zion was born in 2018. It was quite a time!

  • @rinivarghese5107
    @rinivarghese5107 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks Emily for sharing this video! I do watch most of your videos and they have always helped me...God bless you and your works! ❤️

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      I am so glad. Thank you Rini

  • @jacklyn5578
    @jacklyn5578 2 роки тому +4

    God, it’s me again, i’ve seen what you’ve done for others

  • @nicoleyoshihara4011
    @nicoleyoshihara4011 2 роки тому +1

    So grateful for your insights and wisdom! God Bless you and your family 🥰❤💕

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much!

  • @rebecadequeiroz6033
    @rebecadequeiroz6033 2 роки тому +1

    This was beautiful ! Thank you guys 🥰

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching Rebeca

  • @Julia-jz9vl
    @Julia-jz9vl 2 роки тому +2

    Oh i‘m so happy for your both. Of many many more. ❤️❤️

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much Julia!

  • @joellaschuppener1439
    @joellaschuppener1439 2 роки тому +1

    So good. :) thank you.

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Glad you liked it!

  • @patricksantini4090
    @patricksantini4090 2 роки тому +1

    Congratulations, to you both. God Bless you and your family, always. 😊Patrick

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you! You too!

  • @_florinab
    @_florinab 2 роки тому +2

    You guys are such an inspiration for me ! You are people of faith, I don't share your faith but I can find myself in yours words and it feels so good. Thank you so much for sharing your raw feelings with such honesty 🙏

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Wow, thank you!

  • @Joan685
    @Joan685 2 роки тому +1

    Congratulations Emily and Daniel !! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank you Joan!

  • @OliviaKruis
    @OliviaKruis 2 роки тому +1

    Love this! So so good ♥️

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank you Olivia!

  • @moochiwuvschachi
    @moochiwuvschachi 2 роки тому

    Seriously bless you and the witness you are!

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you very much!

  • @addie-eileenpaige6460
    @addie-eileenpaige6460 2 роки тому

    These are such great insights.

  • @redpill344
    @redpill344 2 роки тому +1

    I like this youtuber 😊
    ❤️ From Asia

  • @rosemaryrk1742
    @rosemaryrk1742 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful ❤️

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  2 роки тому

      Thank you! 😊