A girl who’s working in a supermarket just complimented my hair so spontaneously and genuinely, and I complimented her back. Not just because she’s looking amazing but also because of her energy and positivity. I love this support between women. I’m not used to it... I was used to my old group of fake friends who always put women down behind their back. I loved the compliment from this girl. It’s the kind of friendship I’m looking for! Growing together, being genuine, having real fun and loving ourselves. I still don’t have a female friend like this, but I’m striving to become the best version of myself to elevate me and other amazing girls!!!
I got the most genuine thank you I have ever received. It made me deal good for 2 days straight. ❤ It really fees so nice when you are complimented or thanked so genuinely.❤
Your content is so massively helpful to me as an autistic woman. I've always struggled with female friendship and having an outline of how to tell that it won't end in drama (again) gives me confidence. I've been gobbling up your content and implementing everything I've learnt. My relationship has leveled up beyond belief!! I was worried that he was slipping away but since I've been focusing on myself and feeling good and tuning into my feminine energy, his energy towards me has completely transformed!! My main focus has been healing my anxious attachment style. I'm new here by the way ❤
girl PREACH. this is solid advice. especially about her having strong morals. i realized this is what is missing from some of my friendships. side note: your hair and makeup is perfection in this video.
Absolutely love ALL of this!! Myself and my now bff check all of this! We met through a mutual friend who thought we would hit it off, and now we are both even closer. Realized in my 30s, married with kids and all, I needed someone who also is intentional about friendship. Someone with same values, lifestyles, interests, age bracket, income bracket even, who could pour into me, as much as I would into them. Most ppl don’t have a problem meeting ppl, many ppl who are lonely have plenty ppl around them. It’s building intimacy, with the right ppl they are lacking. While I had that, those ppl weren’t within driving distance, and I knew I needed at least one person nearby in that close circle category.
I'm a girl 22 years from sudan (living in saudi arabia).. and would love to have sisters who loves themselves and interested in phycology and self improvment
So basically I have to search for myself in other women, as in my 'soul'mates because these are all qualities I own and exude but I barely have friends who reflect this back at me. Dear lovely women reading this and relating to this, if you are like me please let's be friends cuz I'm tired of lowering my own vibration to match someone's who wouldn't even bat a lash to work towards matching me at my own 👐
I want to manifest woman friends who hate gossip and aren’t chronic complainers. Also as a SAHM i can’t go out often so the women I bump into are tired moms who are heavy into complaining & embrace the mommy-wine culture - so I just stick to myself.
I just started listening to his video. Im working with a therpist. I didn't think of myself as a pick me girl. I do not have girlfriends. i only gravitate towards male "friends". Thank you for this perspective. I have been trying to figure out why this dynamic plays out in my life. i wonder if its because i have mommy abandonment issues, and some daddy issues too. I witnessed domestic violence between them.
I watched your videos every day for like the last month. You changed my life so much❤️ A few days ago I cut off a toxic friend, it was so scary. And it hurt, but cancer removal surgeries also hurt for a bit of time. However it is best for your body and mind when it is removed. 💗
I grew up with the most amazing brother. We’re only 1 1/2 years apart in age so we had a lot of mutual friends. I guess in my experience growing up, I did feel more comfortable with boys and more comfortable with other girls that were comfortable with boys. I felt like Society was ruining femininity and far too many girls were lost in catty behaviors or taught to act certain ways through society making them unauthentic. I felt like men were allowed more authentic freedom. It’s very sad. I’m a product of the 80’s. Watch 80s and 90s movies and it’s obvious. So no I wasn’t truly a pick me because I was not trying to gain boys attention over girls or making men more important. I was simply attracted to authenticity. I’ve come a long way and I’ve grown in wisdom. Definitely my very best of friends are strong confident amazing women! I agree with all you are saying! Absolutely! I just felt compelled to express a perspective that had happened that’s a little different then the pick me take on some of these women and where some of them might be coming from. But yes there are those ones that have the pick me behaviors.
I am the same way. I feel like some women just feel more comfortable around guys because guys don't act catty, bitchy, jealous, judgemental towards them. I am at a stage of my life where I want to make more valuable, high quality female friends (hence watching this video) but I will always feel more relaxed and comfortable around guys.
With toxic people its best to ghost . If you feel like they will deny your concerns, tell you that you’re overreacting or use your vulnerability against you. Please just ghost them. Take this as your sign that its time! Just doubting if the relationship is bad is a red flag 🚩
I watched this video a few days ago and it really spoke to me about a specific friend. God officially removed them from my life yesterday. They were extremely toxic, always had a victim mindset or some type of drama going on. The situation didn’t end well between us and I am hurting this morning but I also feel a weight off my shoulders at the same time. I’ve been watching your videos for a few months and I’m learning so much. Thank you for all that do. ❤️
Lol 😂 ironic I was the girl who hung with the boys and didn’t connect well with the girls because they were always mean to me…. I’m only 5 mins in… I guess I have to watch the rest of the video to reconcile this, and come to a conclusion. I would very much like to have some close feminine friends.
Omg yes I need more girly friends that I can relate to and talk about our feelings! I’m binging your videos again lol but somehow never watched this one! Yess I love how you recommend us to always use feeling statements! Such a great way to feel what’s going on in our body!
today, i am having the first ever day of my college life. In 2 hours. and I want to make these years at its fullest. I manifest healthy female friendships. In the previous grade, I was in, I had my best friends and me being their mutual friend.. I detached them The one who was almost with me for 5 years, did not gave me a strong vibe. She made me feel like, I am doing things wrong. It did hurt for sometime but now I feel feel much much better plus I have a best-est friend, since we were in l kg, she realises that our bond is stronger than her friend. 1111❤
SERIOUSLY GIRL SOOOO HAPPY I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL YOU ARE AMAZING NEEDED THIS VIDEO TODAY on my journey also and i need more women like me and you in my life ❤❤❤❤❤
Hearing this made me realize I’m the toxic friend when I don’t even mean to be .. that’s sad Also about the guy situation .. I grew up with a lot of brothers and I just find more comfort being around men.. But I don’t see myself as a pick me honestly
I have a rbf and strong facial structure and a strong walk .. I smile when I can, but sometimes have anxiety or depression symptoms and keep to myself.. I don’t attract anyone that wants to be friends and im pretty asf but even men dont approach.. i feel like my rbf and severe social anxiety makes people assume im mean ..
Hello Alexis! I wonder what’s your insight in a situation where one feels off about a friend who’s not really toxic and is good but something just feels off. Is that something I should take as a sign that simply maybe we don’t align? or does that mean I have something to heal within me?
Could be either your a “pick me friend” or they might feel they are lower than you. I don’t know but sometimes I’m very direct with women when asked a question. Some see this as a turn off. I want to attract women who are similar, who will tell me direct when I’m’ screwing up. But not Putting me down. I hope you find your forever friend. You’ll be okay.
I Have Never Had A Woman Friend Or A Male Friend, But It Has Not Spoiled My Self Esteem, And When I Finally Get One, God Almighty Will Give Me An Amazing One, Then Most People Will Start Like Me, It All Starts With One Single Loyal Loving And Spiritual Friend Who Truely Loves Me And Wants To Be Part Of My Plans
How do I detach myself and not care, without becoming mean? I feel like I'm hurting my friends when I say I don't care, whhen I am burnt out etc. Because they always listen to me. It feels off when I don't.
my friend is acting weird lately, she ignores she doesn't even say hi sometimes and try to make plans with our male friends without thinking of asking me to join and i don't even feel like communicating with her bcs i feel like its obvious she wants to push me away , i try so hard to make friends with females but for a reason idk it doesn't work , guess i should stop trying
Hi friends that decide to be in solitude. Try me! Talk to me! Please! There are more people in this world love you for you, I believe you are on the journey to attract your own tribe. This may seems very lonely at first. But I believe you will find them.
I’m that friend now I have to find a few women that’s like myself. ❤
Yes girl! That is the key to finding these friends, is becoming one first ❤
A girl who’s working in a supermarket just complimented my hair so spontaneously and genuinely, and I complimented her back. Not just because she’s looking amazing but also because of her energy and positivity. I love this support between women. I’m not used to it... I was used to my old group of fake friends who always put women down behind their back. I loved the compliment from this girl. It’s the kind of friendship I’m looking for! Growing together, being genuine, having real fun and loving ourselves. I still don’t have a female friend like this, but I’m striving to become the best version of myself to elevate me and other amazing girls!!!
Absolutely LOVE this for you girl! This is such a great reflection of your energy ♥️
I got the most genuine thank you I have ever received. It made me deal good for 2 days straight. ❤ It really fees so nice when you are complimented or thanked so genuinely.❤
Your content is so massively helpful to me as an autistic woman. I've always struggled with female friendship and having an outline of how to tell that it won't end in drama (again) gives me confidence. I've been gobbling up your content and implementing everything I've learnt. My relationship has leveled up beyond belief!! I was worried that he was slipping away but since I've been focusing on myself and feeling good and tuning into my feminine energy, his energy towards me has completely transformed!! My main focus has been healing my anxious attachment style. I'm new here by the way ❤
Aww welcome Hannah! I am so happy to have you here and what a beautiful realization. Sending you lots of love 🤗
girl PREACH. this is solid advice. especially about her having strong morals. i realized this is what is missing from some of my friendships. side note: your hair and makeup is perfection in this video.
Absolutely love ALL of this!! Myself and my now bff check all of this! We met through a mutual friend who thought we would hit it off, and now we are both even closer. Realized in my 30s, married with kids and all, I needed someone who also is intentional about friendship. Someone with same values, lifestyles, interests, age bracket, income bracket even, who could pour into me, as much as I would into them.
Most ppl don’t have a problem meeting ppl, many ppl who are lonely have plenty ppl around them. It’s building intimacy, with the right ppl they are lacking. While I had that, those ppl weren’t within driving distance, and I knew I needed at least one person nearby in that close circle category.
I'm a girl 22 years from sudan (living in saudi arabia).. and would love to have sisters who loves themselves and interested in phycology and self improvment
So basically I have to search for myself in other women, as in my 'soul'mates because these are all qualities I own and exude but I barely have friends who reflect this back at me. Dear lovely women reading this and relating to this, if you are like me please let's be friends cuz I'm tired of lowering my own vibration to match someone's who wouldn't even bat a lash to work towards matching me at my own 👐
yess sure would love to:)
I relate to your comment. Love from Argentina 💓
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Love youuu:) from INDIA
2 years later but I relate to your comment ❤
I want to manifest woman friends who hate gossip and aren’t chronic complainers. Also as a SAHM i can’t go out often so the women I bump into are tired moms who are heavy into complaining & embrace the mommy-wine culture - so I just stick to myself.
My closest friends complain all of the time! It can be so draining
I just started listening to his video. Im working with a therpist. I didn't think of myself as a pick me girl. I do not have girlfriends. i only gravitate towards male "friends". Thank you for this perspective. I have been trying to figure out why this dynamic plays out in my life. i wonder if its because i have mommy abandonment issues, and some daddy issues too. I witnessed domestic violence between them.
I watched your videos every day for like the last month. You changed my life so much❤️ A few days ago I cut off a toxic friend, it was so scary. And it hurt, but cancer removal surgeries also hurt for a bit of time. However it is best for your body and mind when it is removed. 💗
Aww my girl I am so proud of you for being on your inner work journey and making these changes! Your future self is thanking you ♥️🙏🏽✨
Can you do the video on 5 places where you meet friends ? ❤
I grew up with the most amazing brother. We’re only 1 1/2 years apart in age so we had a lot of mutual friends. I guess in my experience growing up, I did feel more comfortable with boys and more comfortable with other girls that were comfortable with boys. I felt like Society was ruining femininity and far too many girls were lost in catty behaviors or taught to act certain ways through society making them unauthentic. I felt like men were allowed more authentic freedom. It’s very sad. I’m a product of the 80’s. Watch 80s and 90s movies and it’s obvious. So no I wasn’t truly a pick me because I was not trying to gain boys attention over girls or making men more important. I was simply attracted to authenticity. I’ve come a long way and I’ve grown in wisdom. Definitely my very best of friends are strong confident amazing women! I agree with all you are saying! Absolutely! I just felt compelled to express a perspective that had happened that’s a little different then the pick me take on some of these women and where some of them might be coming from. But yes there are those ones that have the pick me behaviors.
I am the same way. I feel like some women just feel more comfortable around guys because guys don't act catty, bitchy, jealous, judgemental towards them. I am at a stage of my life where I want to make more valuable, high quality female friends (hence watching this video) but I will always feel more relaxed and comfortable around guys.
With toxic people its best to ghost . If you feel like they will deny your concerns, tell you that you’re overreacting or use your vulnerability against you. Please just ghost them. Take this as your sign that its time! Just doubting if the relationship is bad is a red flag 🚩
I watched this video a few days ago and it really spoke to me about a specific friend. God officially removed them from my life yesterday. They were extremely toxic, always had a victim mindset or some type of drama going on. The situation didn’t end well between us and I am hurting this morning but I also feel a weight off my shoulders at the same time.
I’ve been watching your videos for a few months and I’m learning so much. Thank you for all that do. ❤️
Lol 😂 ironic I was the girl who hung with the boys and didn’t connect well with the girls because they were always mean to me…. I’m only 5 mins in… I guess I have to watch the rest of the video to reconcile this, and come to a conclusion. I would very much like to have some close feminine friends.
Omg yes I need more girly friends that I can relate to and talk about our feelings! I’m binging your videos again lol but somehow never watched this one! Yess I love how you recommend us to always use feeling statements! Such a great way to feel what’s going on in our body!
today, i am having the first ever day of my college life.
In 2 hours.
and I want to make these years at its fullest.
I manifest healthy female friendships.
In the previous grade, I was in, I had my best friends and me being their mutual friend.. I detached them
The one who was almost with me for 5 years, did not gave me a strong vibe.
She made me feel like, I am doing things wrong.
It did hurt for sometime but now I feel feel much much better
plus I have a best-est friend, since we were in l kg, she realises that our bond is stronger than her friend.
1111❤
I know I comment like 3 times already but last one I promise lol. You’re so inspiring. I need a friend like you 😀
SERIOUSLY GIRL SOOOO HAPPY I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL YOU ARE AMAZING
NEEDED THIS VIDEO TODAY
on my journey also and i need more women like me and you in my life ❤❤❤❤❤
She's sweet and insightful. Love that you found this channel 😊
Aww welcome in love! I’m so happy to have you here 🥰
Ooo and a video on how to work on strengthening your own values and morals e.g. have unshakeable morals and values
You are so beautiful inside and out. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge ❤
Your Videos are so calming and teaching I watch them every morning
Hearing this made me realize I’m the toxic friend when I don’t even mean to be .. that’s sad
Also about the guy situation .. I grew up with a lot of brothers and I just find more comfort being around men.. But I don’t see myself as a pick me honestly
It's great that you realized that. Be gracious to yourself 🙏💖
I love your positivity and light ❤❤❤
New subbie! I absolutely love your tik tok content & now I’m here😊♥️
Welcome beautiful. I am so happy you are here 🥰
I needed this video thank you girl you are amazing 🤍
I have a rbf and strong facial structure and a strong walk .. I smile when I can, but sometimes have anxiety or depression symptoms and keep to myself.. I don’t attract anyone that wants to be friends and im pretty asf but even men dont approach.. i feel like my rbf and severe social anxiety makes people assume im mean ..
please make a video about how to meet them where to meet them etc! xx
I have a UA-cam shirt on this 🥰
@@awwlexis thanks Alexis! I hope I find a female friend who is a clone of you 😂
Hello dear,
I really love your content, please talk about how to become confident.❤
Thanks so much for the information
Thank you for making this
Lol...can't believe I just watched this video. Interesting content..
Thank you
Hello Alexis! I wonder what’s your insight in a situation where one feels off about a friend who’s not really toxic and is good but something just feels off. Is that something I should take as a sign that simply maybe we don’t align? or does that mean I have something to heal within me?
Could be either your a “pick me friend” or they might feel they are lower than you. I don’t know but sometimes I’m very direct with women when asked a question. Some see this as a turn off. I want to attract women who are similar, who will tell me direct when I’m’ screwing up. But not Putting me down. I hope you find your forever friend. You’ll be okay.
I Have Never Had A Woman Friend Or A Male Friend, But It Has Not Spoiled My Self Esteem, And When I Finally Get One, God Almighty Will Give Me An Amazing One, Then Most People Will Start Like Me, It All Starts With One Single Loyal Loving And Spiritual Friend Who Truely Loves Me And Wants To Be Part Of My Plans
How do I detach myself and not care, without becoming mean? I feel like I'm hurting my friends when I say I don't care, whhen I am burnt out etc. Because they always listen to me. It feels off when I don't.
Can you do a more detailed video on wat a “pick me girl”is ?
Does this 'where to meet this women' video already exist?😍
Yes I have it posted as a UA-cam short ♥️
Amazing
what if i don't already have people to chose between them and i don't know where to get them?
my friend is acting weird lately, she ignores she doesn't even say hi sometimes and try to make plans with our male friends without thinking of asking me to join and i don't even feel like communicating with her bcs i feel like its obvious she wants to push me away , i try so hard to make friends with females but for a reason idk it doesn't work , guess i should stop trying
Id love to have woman friends that can just be friends.
Hi friends that decide to be in solitude. Try me! Talk to me! Please! There are more people in this world love you for you, I believe you are on the journey to attract your own tribe. This may seems very lonely at first. But I believe you will find them.
Tiktok is banned here, so can you link the video if you've already made.. about where to meet such friends? I can't find it so idk if you've made it.
Nahhhh too much drama … I’m gonna be my own bestie
Wisdom
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I found your page a few days and I’m loving all your content. Thank you for being you 🤍
Aww thank you love! Happy to have you here 🤗