Family and friends are always ok with you as long as you are not doing better than them. They will do anything to bring you down the moment they realize their is potential or opportunity for you to grow. Usitake wakujue sana, mambo ingine jiwekee.
11 months ago I came all the way to canada after so many years of abuse in kenya,i came on my own,in a foreign country without knowing anyone and so far i thank God, he's been Ebenezer,each time i need to know something or to navigate through something God always sends me a stranger in a foreign land to help me,so lets learn to depend on God and not human beings. I am glad she made it thro the ordeal. She will make it through.
The worst wounds, the deadliest of them, aren't the ones people see on the outside. They're the ones that make us bleed internally, are family members one you trust the most! Chaii, we as ppl can do better .
Dear people do not compromise. Don’t compromise your plan because of people. Owen anashindanga akisema kama ulikuwa na plan za kuchange from b1 to f1 alafu uambiwe upeane mali don’t compromise ata abel mutua mkurugenzi diastories hukuwa na a lot of similar stories
There’s a place of plenty & a place of promise.Lot choose a place of ‘’ plenty’’ and had issues Abraham was blessed in the place of promise.Pray to God to know her rightful place
I came to Germany as aupair . I had a distance cousin who was leaving in Germany . I visited her once and na story zake zilikuwa venye nitapsta makaro Thank God i never listened to her i had friends who guided me through , i joined nursing school finished got Job and am now a Germany citizen . I got my papers through school and work
Pongezi girl. God got you. Most people literally refuse to help you so you suffer and opt to return back to shags..keep helping whoever comes to your path dear, 😊
if they did not help you ukiwa kenya, ukifika US usiwatafute. its better to approach wapija njia than those kind of relatives. they will mislead and waste you coz wako na wivu.
Anyone who depends on human being is cursed, our help only comes from God, involing around relatives its a mess you create on your life coz they will always pull you down when you try to stand up. Focus on God who is a rewarder of every good thing we do.
That is very painful 😢, God bless the person who advised her on how to go about it. Huyo cousin kuna wengi kama yeye na Mungu ata deal na yeye . That’s the lowest of low.
American fam kuna kitu sjawai get mbona watu ukua wanyama ivo apa stato yani ? juu ii ni moja wapo ya story mob za vile watu ukapitia in the arms of their very own . Mazeee ni poa umepeana ii story mazeee zile story za vile family wanamess watu wao apa Stato ni noma tena sana . Ii nayo nimetiii ii ni eye opener . As for uyo cousin yake Mungu atamlipishia kucheza na maisha ya mtu innocent ivo aki ya nani Sir God halali .
Uyo cousin yake ni mbwa may she never know peace...so sad for her hope she healed....and she gets a good life there...at least alisaidika kuliko kurudi coz it would have been more painful
Because there's somewhere things went wrong with the coming of church and colonizers a division was created because even not to long ago in the 60s father used to make an order to a child somesha Hawa watoto they used to make orders like that you had to get along now there's no one to do that
This does not happen kwa families only BUT Kenyan people abroad. Not all Kenyans, BUT a huge % of our people don't like helping their people! You can get more help from West African easily than your people. Very sad, but true.
Unambiwa acha kuinvolve familia kwa mambo yako ,unaanza kupayuka payuka ,nakuambia utatii,itatake time lakini utatii mtu yangu ,ile uchawi na ill 🤢🤧 intentions ziko huku njee my guy, Trust GOD only
All the parties had evil motives in their hearts. May God have mercy on us. I thank God the lady is safe. Let other people learn from this story and never repeat the same mistake. Marriage is a life long decision, itshould not be about what you are getting out of it but should be about what you intend to bring out of it.
@Kishngatia3735 Why do we like pointing fingers, why don't we own our problem? Was the lady 18 years old or younger? When judging any matter leave emotions out of it then place yourself in the first as " lady" and ask yourself how you would handle the issue, then as the " cousin" then as the " illegal man". Now imagine if the man had known what the lady's plan prior, how would he react? Ask yourself as many questions as people. Emotions will only crowd your judgement. I hope you get the understanding if not then with all humility I can not help you.
May God help her forgive the cousin and move on to further her education it's not yet Over until God says so. 😭😭😭😭 so sad how now but may God have mercy on us
I am so sorry that this girl went through this horrible Situation. Hi story iko na a very big problem. I dont Support her cousins but iko na so much blame shifting. Why did this girl not take responsibility of her own life? If you find yourself in a mess, don't blame others. Take responsibility of your life!
So,kwa comment section kila mtu ana demonize family members,,yet we are all family members to other relatives,and probably wanasema the same thing about us,,,,,ni vyenye tu we keep talking of in-laws,yet pia sisi ni in-laws kwa wengine.
The only thing the devil does, is misdirect you. Leading you to oblivion, pain. If you look into anyones life and ask where they went wrong, there was a deception from a very trusted source. Thats why they say the devil is a master deception, he came to still kill and destroy. Jesus came so we might have life and have it more abundantly.
Leo wacha ni comment positive kwa Huyu jamaa-- truth be TOLD-- Kenyans in the U.S.A ni moto wa kuotea mbali, ni kama wivu ingine ProMax na usipochunga ukioata a na ule roho chafu!!! Mungu tu akuusaidie--- as we speak 🗣️ I know of a lady mkisii Ako na ball ya msee hawezi msaidia but jamaa pia sio beshte yangu saana, so I muted because it's too late-- i know the guy benefits to win this ladies juu mama yake ni mtu kanisa saana!! Be careful DIASPORANs!! Pole kwa huyo alichimbishwa na cuzo!!
How much was her cousin paid😂😂 I think it was so naive of her to agree to something where the party involved had not signed into any agreement. I mean she wasn’t forced or drugged. God have mercy on
If the family never even encouraged the idea to invite her from Kenya, how then does the cousin all of a sudden invite her to the State she lives in????Then insist to hook her up with a guy!!!!!??? The young lady had a gut feeling not to comply but she did anyway.
For anyone reading this always remember..you had a purpose BEFORE anyone else had an opinion.
you said it gee,,their is a song ya charles wachira says the same thing
@KelvinKamau-h5f never heard of him
Family and friends are always ok with you as long as you are not doing better than them. They will do anything to bring you down the moment they realize their is potential or opportunity for you to grow. Usitake wakujue sana, mambo ingine jiwekee.
Imagine ata your best friend is your rival low key..trust noone just do your thing... trust your instincts and be prayerful 😢 family sometimes 💔
Me story za fam nliwacha manze heri uteseke tu bana buh rem Ukiwa na God everytime you pray akuna siku God atakuwacha
Apo sawa kabisaaa nakubali . Enyewe bila God ii maisha ni Ngumu . Mi story za fam nlichorea kitambooooooooooo.
Most people want to learn through their own experience instead from others, family wacha tukutane matanga.
Wachanana family members, do your thing
11 months ago I came all the way to canada after so many years of abuse in kenya,i came on my own,in a foreign country without knowing anyone and so far i thank God, he's been Ebenezer,each time i need to know something or to navigate through something God always sends me a stranger in a foreign land to help me,so lets learn to depend on God and not human beings. I am glad she made it thro the ordeal. She will make it through.
The worst wounds, the deadliest of them, aren't the ones people see on the outside. They're the ones that make us bleed internally, are family members one you trust the most! Chaii, we as ppl can do better .
Dear people do not compromise. Don’t compromise your plan because of people. Owen anashindanga akisema kama ulikuwa na plan za kuchange from b1 to f1 alafu uambiwe upeane mali don’t compromise ata abel mutua mkurugenzi diastories hukuwa na a lot of similar stories
Mimi naamini my daughter will come to America next year in Jesus name 🎉🎉
There’s a place of plenty & a place of promise.Lot choose a place of ‘’ plenty’’ and had issues Abraham was blessed in the place of promise.Pray to God to know her rightful place
Some relatives are wicked. Maybe, she wanted her to be deported. Wicked!
Most relatives
I came to Germany as aupair . I had a distance cousin who was leaving in Germany . I visited her once and na story zake zilikuwa venye nitapsta makaro Thank God i never listened to her i had friends who guided me through , i joined nursing school finished got Job and am now a Germany citizen . I got my papers through school and work
But that one was not been malicious most people wanajaribu kutafuta although some fail
Pongezi girl. God got you. Most people literally refuse to help you so you suffer and opt to return back to shags..keep helping whoever comes to your path dear, 😊
if they did not help you ukiwa kenya, ukifika US usiwatafute. its better to approach wapija njia than those kind of relatives. they will mislead and waste you coz wako na wivu.
That's foolishness for that gal how can she go entertain a relative who refused to help u
@@teresiahwachira1099easier said than done,extend grace
@@teresiahwachira1099kwanza ni yeye alitafuta huyo cuzo venye alifika US, the biggest mistake
Ustegemee familia guys, if they never helped you ukiwa down what makes you think wata kusaidia now that you're on the same level 😢
Anyone who depends on human being is cursed, our help only comes from God, involing around relatives its a mess you create on your life coz they will always pull you down when you try to stand up. Focus on God who is a rewarder of every good thing we do.
That is very painful 😢, God bless the person who advised her on how to go about it. Huyo cousin kuna wengi kama yeye na Mungu ata deal na yeye . That’s the lowest of low.
Hope she finally finds peace. That's why I don't open up easily to the family except my children
Hata marafiki sio familia tu 😢
A good lesson to love some family from a far. Not easy to deal with some family members
Yes love from a distance
American fam kuna kitu sjawai get mbona watu ukua wanyama ivo apa stato yani ? juu ii ni moja wapo ya story mob za vile watu ukapitia in the arms of their very own .
Mazeee ni poa umepeana ii story mazeee zile story za vile family wanamess watu wao apa Stato ni noma tena sana . Ii nayo nimetiii ii ni eye opener . As for uyo cousin yake Mungu atamlipishia kucheza na maisha ya mtu innocent ivo aki ya nani Sir God halali .
Hio Ni Kweli, Ogopa Family!, New Subbie
Very sad but God did not leave her nor forsake her, she is a citizen now and may God give her the Grace to forgive her cousin.
She's a citizen?? thought amesema alipewa green card
Gaaai..mungu amuonekanie..woria here watching from st louis mo.
St. Louis pande gani,😊
This is so inhuman,may God's grace be upon her and she achieve her dream of furthering her education
God mbele siku zote
God's favour will always locate her and safe her from that trauma🙏🙏
if you want to do something, never take suggestions. If you fail doing what you wanted, it's easy to retrace your steps
Weh! Wewe eeeeiiiiiish! Mambo na kuzikiza advice za relatives, apantaka sikia. Wamenitenda kutenda in the past, hadi nikachuna sikio 🙉👂😮
Focus on your dreams and leave the rest to God Aki, watu Ni wabaya kama masheitoh nkt mtu ajijuwe
This very true good bless you for altetness
Tafuta story kwa JCM ya mzee alikuwa akuje US wakamchomea nyumba Na documents juzi maybe you can advice him
Uyo cousin yake ni mbwa may she never know peace...so sad for her hope she healed....and she gets a good life there...at least alisaidika kuliko kurudi coz it would have been more painful
Mambo ya family it's a no, I remember story Jana
Woiyee pole pia mimi nimejaribu kupata visa lakini wapi hope next year God atanionekania
You are such a storyteller!!!! Love it
Well said...ogopa familia
Aki it is so sad. Family members are wicked.
That's too painful 😢 😭😭😭
Cousins wana wivu sana
Because there's somewhere things went wrong with the coming of church and colonizers a division was created because even not to long ago in the 60s father used to make an order to a child somesha Hawa watoto they used to make orders like that you had to get along now there's no one to do that
Sijui nisrme story yangu na rafiki ama i be quiet..wueh ogopa friends
Hae Owen nitumie invitation letter
What kind of nonesensical advise from the cousin...May God deliver us from household wickedness. Thanks for the Story Owen
With God nothing is impossible, am happy for her
i tell you how are you doing
Infact I was watching Ile vida ya Jana yesterday I missed it
This does not happen kwa families only BUT Kenyan people abroad. Not all Kenyans, BUT a huge % of our people don't like helping their people! You can get more help from West African easily than your people. Very sad, but true.
Guys, always remember to pray to God to open your eyes to see the evil before your eyes.
Good stori teller…
Unambiwa acha kuinvolve familia kwa mambo yako ,unaanza kupayuka payuka ,nakuambia utatii,itatake time lakini utatii mtu yangu ,ile uchawi na ill 🤢🤧 intentions ziko huku njee my guy, Trust GOD only
All the parties had evil motives in their hearts. May God have mercy on us. I thank God the lady is safe. Let other people learn from this story and never repeat the same mistake. Marriage is a life long decision, itshould not be about what you are getting out of it but should be about what you intend to bring out of it.
What do you mean all parties,,the lady was advised by the cousin
@Kishngatia3735 Why do we like pointing fingers, why don't we own our problem? Was the lady 18 years old or younger? When judging any matter leave emotions out of it then place yourself in the first as " lady" and ask yourself how you would handle the issue, then as the " cousin" then as the " illegal man". Now imagine if the man had known what the lady's plan prior, how would he react? Ask yourself as many questions as people. Emotions will only crowd your judgement. I hope you get the understanding if not then with all humility I can not help you.
THANKS MAN💯💯💯💯💯
First is fear your spouse,anyone very close to you is deadly
Apo ata hakuna family manzee😢😢, the cousin fixed her intensionally 😢
Friends are far better than family manze
Guys we need to think for ourselves 🤐 and have discernment
Thanks for sharing this story, God ako na yeye.
They say family first but family is the first to get u hurt
My daughter doing the same with his father in law he makes sure my daughter was deported and he makes sure a friend
May God help her forgive the cousin and move on to further her education it's not yet Over until God says so. 😭😭😭😭 so sad how now but may God have mercy on us
Family ni moto ya kuotea mbali, ukitaka kukaa poa na familia lazima ujifanye mambo yako haiendi poa.
My daughter was doing it to his father in law and he makes sure my daughter was deported
That's sad all around. Glad she's doing well after all.
wueh thank God she is ok..family hukua trash kwangu🚮🚮
Family ni kutupa walai walai 😢
Ongopa familia thaty true.
😂😂😂😂 Mungu ndio atatupea chance sisi tulio wachwa na family zetu pia
Saaad story...but glory to God finally victorious
So someone was killed but family wants to keep it secret.
Most relatives are so wicked and I can never trust any relative abroad
Shocking and sad 😔
Family members are toxic and evil.leave them alone
Hello Sir,are you offering jobs in the US,.?kindly respond.
Once you ask for help from your family and they don't, is better you stay apart
I am so sorry that this girl went through this horrible Situation. Hi story iko na a very big problem. I dont Support her cousins but iko na so much blame shifting. Why did this girl not take responsibility of her own life? If you find yourself in a mess, don't blame others. Take responsibility of your life!
@ I don’t want to react to your comment first because I must say I didn’t really understand what you mean by that.
Be ware of family members and friends.hatari
Damn! Its a cold world.
I've went through hell karibu nikufe . Family 💔💔💔😢
Envy hatari
Ogopa watu sio familia tu
speaking out of experience, heri maji kuliko damu
First to come today
That's sad mazeh😮
😭😭😭So heartbreaking n painful
So,kwa comment section kila mtu ana demonize family members,,yet we are all family members to other relatives,and probably wanasema the same thing about us,,,,,ni vyenye tu we keep talking of in-laws,yet pia sisi ni in-laws kwa wengine.
Weeee! dunia ina mambo lukumba lukumba
nimefeel bro
WHY WE LOVE NEGATIVE NEGATIVE NEGATIVE 🙃 😮😮😢😢😢😅
That's just sad. She wanted her deported.
The only thing the devil does, is misdirect you. Leading you to oblivion, pain. If you look into anyones life and ask where they went wrong, there was a deception from a very trusted source. Thats why they say the devil is a master deception, he came to still kill and destroy. Jesus came so we might have life and have it more abundantly.
Relatives wengine 🚮🚮but it’s jealousy and fear of you will overthrow them
Nowadays I stays alone bro!!!!!
Leo wacha ni comment positive kwa Huyu jamaa-- truth be TOLD-- Kenyans in the U.S.A ni moto wa kuotea mbali, ni kama wivu ingine ProMax na usipochunga ukioata a na ule roho chafu!!! Mungu tu akuusaidie--- as we speak 🗣️ I know of a lady mkisii Ako na ball ya msee hawezi msaidia but jamaa pia sio beshte yangu saana, so I muted because it's too late-- i know the guy benefits to win this ladies juu mama yake ni mtu kanisa saana!! Be careful DIASPORANs!! Pole kwa huyo alichimbishwa na cuzo!!
Very sad and painful indeed but all glory to Almighty God for helping her, what a great lesson to learn?
What a painful price to pay!
KABISA FEAR FAMILY KABISA
That's so heartbreaking
How much was her cousin paid😂😂 I think it was so naive of her to agree to something where the party involved had not signed into any agreement. I mean she wasn’t forced or drugged. God have mercy on
Hii nayo ni ngori
If the family never even encouraged the idea to invite her from Kenya, how then does the cousin all of a sudden invite her to the State she lives in????Then insist to hook her up with a guy!!!!!??? The young lady had a gut feeling not to comply but she did anyway.
Weeh... ata mimi nmeshangaa...
This is so sad 😢
Bruh story na fam achana nayo i got most of 'em very stuwpid people.
Familia wacha tu.
Waaaaah😮😮😮😮