What understanding, hate is hate, period! As much as each to their own and their own personal decisions, empathy is important . Lack emotional intelligence .
Hatukatai lkn ameenda sana, hiyo time ni gani anasema ati mtoi atolewe na ndege nanyuki mpaka nai ati na arudi every day, tulisema zote hivo c Dunia itaisha tu juu watu hawatakuwa wakizaana?
He doesnt hate kids. He has a conscience. He wont sire a kid and watch him suffer, abandon or make him a bastard. He is a man of substance unlike so many men walking the streets with kids they've never even seen. If we had more like him we'd have less single parents less fatherless kids less households headed by women❤❤❤❤️
I understand him, there are some things one goes through when growing up or while raising kids I.e. from pregnancy, giving birth and raising them, you would not wish someone else would go through. I am a victim, nilipata moja nanikatosheka. Sasa nikiona a woman who is pregnant naskia thithi
Then why wouldn’t he be a that “Man“ and make a difference?!He drunk from that cup so he knows the taste. Step in and offer those kids that what he feels they need and what he lacked as a kid? He either needs help or he is seeking for attention💥
I understand this guy fully cz I went through the same things and I protect my family because what I went through I don't want my kids to go through the same.
Steve ako so real.... He is sayingthe truth,most people get their kids when they have not prepared na inabidi tu wawepende.... Lets stop being hypocrites ...
I understand Steve vizuri tena sana 💯💯 I don't understand why people don't gerrit 😂 anyway not everyone will understand you in this journey called life ... thanks Steve for being you , you're rare 👏🏿.
Great show Jeff as always❤..Mimi I support honesty..Steve aliongea what's in his heart..and people got shocked coz they know it's true..we have some husbands who cannot even take care of their own kids wanaona daily..forget wale Wa huko outside ... sio fees , sio chakula, sio nguo Na mtu anataka kuitwa "baba nani😅😢 ...Wacha watu waseme ukweli ...he spoke the things some men think & display everyday...so it's nothing new...hizo massage bado tunapangia kuenda..nothing has changed...I support!Lekshara kabisa in giving his honest opinion !!
Jeremiah 1:5 God says, “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I sanctified you; and I ordained you a prophet to the nations.
But Steve anaongea ukweli ni sisi hatunwelewi,kama ningipatana na yeye kabla nilae singepata watoto 😢😢vile nimeteseka na wao, but na hope siku moja Mungu atanikubuka juu siwezi warundisha kwa tumbo😢😢😢😢, Steve I love you so much ❤❤
I agree with him when it comes to having kids when you are mentally and financially stable;Bringing kids in this world just for the sake of it/or the society expects you to have kids isn’t ok;plus get kids that you can afford to give a decent life
Oh I got your points Steve 😢.I'm single mum of 3 boys....but I have not yet given up of getting real man who will love my handsome boys..Nothing hard for my God. That what I believe 🙏
Then they should get out of the world . Unafueahia wanaje juu ulizaliwa. Si watu wakatae kuzaa tuone utafuata wanawake wagani. Devils excuses. You are not Gkd the giver of life. Dont thjnk it is everyone who is able to sire. Your statements actually tells you are a lier that you love children. You even compare a child na muguruki?. Riu ona niurarumana. So selfish. Mungu tu owe ungigucenjia iF you can protect a child, start helping the orphans.
1 most of first borns can relate 2 i also don't have goosebumps when i see kids 3 most men don't actually love kids 4 the decision of finding money before kids sounds funny the wealth can varnish in blink of an eye 5 When you get loved and love genuinely somethings are Soo natural
As a psychologist I can tell u this guy doesn't hate kids. He went through trauma so the sight of a child triggers unhealed wounds. He is insisting on unkept kids ;because it reminds him of his tattered clothes when he was young.The list is endless but I can assure u he can't harm a child but he can find help for the child at a distance. That's my analysis.
I understand Steve ,I love kids but I hate when they cry...I have a daughter n I really want a second born but I'm not ready to hear him or her crying I can't withstand..I'm traumatized...whenever a baby cries I get triggered
He never wore tattered clothes he says he was a smart kid, BT he was hated by extended family and used to receive bad beatings from his mum.He must have felt unwanted
I'm listening to this guy for the first time ever; he's so mature. People should respect his very mature stand about children. Kids are a huge responsibility. Parenthood is the only career that one can't retire from. Once a parent, forever one!
I think after listening to Steve now for the second time I understand him .....but I hope that he'll fully heal.....out of all the hardship while growing up he can make a good dad
I can't judge this guy 😢 Most single mothers and fathers their children goes a lot and they make children have trauma from childhood. 2nd how he's saying he don't love kids, ithink people they misunderstood him. If people say the truth maybe wale wana judge Steve wengi wao wametoa mimba bcoz hawakua wame plan kupata mimba
Dear Steve, why are you explaining yourself? It is your decision not to want kids, let it remain as it is. I support you, I detest people who can't respect other people's decisions or points of view. Tusisumbuane. Why do we have street kids if every child "has their own bowl"? Steve , don't sire if you can't raise. Stick to that, I'm proud of you.
I totally understand and conquer with him.Mimi nilipitia magumu kuliko hayo na Kuna swali family walishindwa kunijibu mpaka wa leo.Wanaulizanga juu nilipendwa time nilianza kuearn,how can they convince/prove to me that If I sire kids and name after them hawatawafanyia kaa Mimi?I have never gotten that answer
Am a mother and I also hate a child crying mimi ata siezi kaa na mtoi wa mtu i got mine when i was still a baby too she cry i cry Me for now i don't know how i can handle a child I support steve❤
No Wanda most of us hua tunaelezea vile tulikua tunachapwa tukiwa watoto na kulala njaa kama nikitu normal juu wazazi hawakua prepared kutupata...look at them now with our kids hadi ukiwashoutia hua wanareact
Wah, ûyû akorûo etereire akarutaga mwana nanyuki na ndege kîroko na agacokio hwai-inî, agîtwarûo cukuru, nîndetîkîra ndakagîa mwana,,,,,murekere I tu, no harîa ûgî wake ûkinyîtî
I was shocked to realize I had been dating a man who hates children with passion.He was extremely good until that time I sired a kid.He has never talked to me nor seen his own kid.ti kwega ground nî tofauti
The environment we grew and live shapes our thinking and personality.......ushawai imagine mwanaume anafanya maternity 😢... remember this guy anafanya massage na anaina nunus of different women.....niachie tu hapo
Fact is, you can’t offer what you don’t have. Likewise a mango seed can’t bear apples. You must not like kids to end up having them, we also like characters in movies etc not to end up marrying them 😅. God is Love! Love is a command not a request in the Bible just incase you are a true believer. These are decisions made dependent on his experiences. What he needs is help tho I wouldn’t be surprised to hear him say he doesn’t need any.
This man is speaking sense ,I think our understandings ndo mbayaa
This is it,,,,,, Period
No sense, bro, he lacks emotional intelligence
What understanding, hate is hate, period! As much as each to their own and their own personal decisions, empathy is important . Lack emotional intelligence .
Help me understand.
Hatukatai lkn ameenda sana, hiyo time ni gani anasema ati mtoi atolewe na ndege nanyuki mpaka nai ati na arudi every day, tulisema zote hivo c Dunia itaisha tu juu watu hawatakuwa wakizaana?
He doesnt hate kids. He has a conscience. He wont sire a kid and watch him suffer, abandon or make him a bastard. He is a man of substance unlike so many men walking the streets with kids they've never even seen. If we had more like him we'd have less single parents less fatherless kids less households headed by women❤❤❤❤️
Pls whatever ideas you may raise or advise I think it's too late you could have come earlier before the so called mess
I understand him, there are some things one goes through when growing up or while raising kids I.e. from pregnancy, giving birth and raising them, you would not wish someone else would go through. I am a victim, nilipata moja nanikatosheka. Sasa nikiona a woman who is pregnant naskia thithi
Then why wouldn’t he be a that “Man“ and make a difference?!He drunk from that cup so he knows the taste. Step in and offer those kids that what he feels they need and what he lacked as a kid?
He either needs help or he is seeking for attention💥
He fears responsibility of children.
We all wish our family or our kids to be better than ourselves.... Steve is very right 👍
I understand this guy fully cz I went through the same things and I protect my family because what I went through I don't want my kids to go through the same.
Steve i support you 100% being real ndio fom
Steve ako so real....
He is sayingthe truth,most people get their kids when they have not prepared na inabidi tu wawepende....
Lets stop being hypocrites ...
Steve you have explained well akili kichwani mwaoo❤❤❤❤
yes
I understand Steve vizuri tena sana 💯💯 I don't understand why people don't gerrit 😂 anyway not everyone will understand you in this journey called life ... thanks Steve for being you , you're rare 👏🏿.
Childhood trauma
Ûramuelewa tondû wîna tûindo twaku; ithuî athîni nî ithuî tûtanyitaga.😊
@@waridim9249nii uyu dingimuelewa, mudu uthuire ciana mwitigire todu no orage mwana wa mudu.
Siwez choka kusikiza steve ❤❤❤❤❤❤coz hakuna kuboeka he is a vibe
Great show Jeff as always❤..Mimi I support honesty..Steve aliongea what's in his heart..and people got shocked coz they know it's true..we have some husbands who cannot even take care of their own kids wanaona daily..forget wale Wa huko outside ... sio fees , sio chakula, sio nguo Na mtu anataka kuitwa "baba nani😅😢 ...Wacha watu waseme ukweli ...he spoke the things some men think & display everyday...so it's nothing new...hizo massage bado tunapangia kuenda..nothing has changed...I support!Lekshara kabisa in giving his honest opinion !!
Waooh you are talking so much sense. Thx no Ngai ni Ngai maùndu ini mothe.
Jeff i like your professionalism and Steve is a vibe thank you beautiful people,👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
❤️❤️❤️ Thecha njaaaa I love you keep it up. From south Sudan juba 🙏
Some amount of egocentrism but the day you get your child. ..you will love with passion
This man is real pia mimi spendi watoto that is why nasemanga nkijipata na mimba ya pili natoa coz i have the ability to raise only one kid
Jeremiah 1:5 God says, “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I sanctified you; and I ordained you a prophet to the nations.
Honest, no hypocrisy true to himself..let’s learn to respect different views of lifestyle. Better than irresponsible parenting!!!
Kudos Jeff! Solomonic wisdom with a very sober information 🙏🙏
sawa
God,,give your son wisdom,and may your endless love reach out and open his eyes.
People pretend sana, I think people should learn how to mind their own business, better a real person than a hypocrite who laughs with you
Like father like son
No, you can't hate and be compassionate to children at the same time. The guy sounds so painfully wounded.
Heal Steve, heal Baba.
Wewe heal kwanza😂😂
Labda ni shoga, with those studs
Ata mseme aje...steve to me is talking sense and i can never judge him at all at all.
Kuna vitu i relate but all in all God is still God
TY
Steve is real, and has explained his stand, get kids when you can be able to provide for them, ata Mimi mtoto mchafu is a no no no sishiki ng’o.
weeee sawa
But Steve anaongea ukweli ni sisi hatunwelewi,kama ningipatana na yeye kabla nilae singepata watoto 😢😢vile nimeteseka na wao, but na hope siku moja Mungu atanikubuka juu siwezi warundisha kwa tumbo😢😢😢😢, Steve I love you so much ❤❤
tuko kimoja sis sioni makosa yake kama wangu naweza wameza saa ii wangekua kwa tumbo
I need stone's for foundation but i support this Man 💯.let learn to respect other people's decisions 😊
Good Steve I support you on bring children when ready so abstain....
sawa
I agree with him when it comes to having kids when you are mentally and financially stable;Bringing kids in this world just for the sake of it/or the society expects you to have kids isn’t ok;plus get kids that you can afford to give a decent life
When you think you are standing, check the ground. When you think you are stable, things can happen.
Noo Jeff.. Your kids should never suffer since u suffered... For this reason am in Qatar to give them the very best
Oh I got your points Steve 😢.I'm single mum of 3 boys....but I have not yet given up of getting real man who will love my handsome boys..Nothing hard for my God. That what I believe 🙏
I relate to Steve 💯 I am recovering from trauma. Cucu witu erirwo atherukie anyue thufu ,,,,Ngai no mwega!
May God heal your heart. Kuaria ma Ngai no we gutire ungi. May God be forever praise and may those who spoke these words be put to shame.
hii interview imekua fupi aje😅 i agree with steve 100% i wish people would be real and stop being hypocritical hypocrites
Steve is so real, far much better kuliko hawa deadbeats wamejaa huku, if you are not ready for kids, don't have them. Simple!
Sawa sawa
True not fair bringing a kid in this world,whom you cannot takea.
Na akikuja bahati mbaya utamtupa
This guy is nice I can listen to him for hours
Onani ndingienda kagio riu kia mùndù....I want to live my life now...period ☹️
Be strong kahii we love ❤️ you
Mimi sioni haja yakusikiliza huyu jamaa 🙆 rekei theshe jaa 💃
@@Kennedy-dj4ktno pride is there he is expressing himself
Mmm atazeeka tumuone@@PurityNyakio-l4v
Sawa theca out basi 😂😂😂
@@veronicawanjiru6258 theshire jaa tene tene💃
I don't support him.
I agree with Steve,watu ndio wanaunderstand differently.Haja gani kuleta watoto duniani wateseke.
Pure truth......demure for demure's✌🏿
Thank you Jeff for bringing this guy again, atleast ame fanya tumuelewe vizuri, he's so real and sincere ❤
I totally understand this guy. I prefer people to stay away from parentalhood than sire kids to despise.
Then they should get out of the world . Unafueahia wanaje juu ulizaliwa. Si watu wakatae kuzaa tuone utafuata wanawake wagani. Devils excuses. You are not Gkd the giver of life. Dont thjnk it is everyone who is able to sire. Your statements actually tells you are a lier that you love children. You even compare a child na muguruki?. Riu ona niurarumana. So selfish. Mungu tu owe ungigucenjia iF you can protect a child, start helping the orphans.
Onaugie standards, nouri bataatara andu. Acio maragutongia niaria maciaritwo na maraciarwo .
I love the courage....manzeee the standard iko safi
Steve huongea ukweri ata Mimi na m support 😊💯
1 most of first borns can relate
2 i also don't have goosebumps when i see kids
3 most men don't actually love kids
4 the decision of finding money before kids sounds funny the wealth can varnish in blink of an eye
5 When you get loved and love genuinely somethings are Soo natural
It's not true, men love children more than anything..
They don't love kids yet they were/are kids😅
As a psychologist I can tell u this guy doesn't hate kids. He went through trauma so the sight of a child triggers unhealed wounds. He is insisting on unkept kids ;because it reminds him of his tattered clothes when he was young.The list is endless but I can assure u he can't harm a child but he can find help for the child at a distance. That's my analysis.
Thanks for that analysis
I understand Steve ,I love kids but I hate when they cry...I have a daughter n I really want a second born but I'm not ready to hear him or her crying I can't withstand..I'm traumatized...whenever a baby cries I get triggered
He never wore tattered clothes he says he was a smart kid, BT he was hated by extended family and used to receive bad beatings from his mum.He must have felt unwanted
I agree with you, he has unresolved issues from his childhood
The word hate has defined who he really is.very proud He also a narcist
Poor boy😢😢😢😢.i now understand him.He doesn't hate kids but kid's suffering 😢😢
I'm listening to this guy for the first time ever; he's so mature. People should respect his very mature stand about children. Kids are a huge responsibility. Parenthood is the only career that one can't retire from. Once a parent, forever one!
I now fully understand Steve.. He don't hate kids... He hates to bring kids on earth to suffer...
I think after listening to Steve now for the second time I understand him .....but I hope that he'll fully heal.....out of all the hardship while growing up he can make a good dad
I can't judge this guy 😢 Most single mothers and fathers their children goes a lot and they make children have trauma from childhood. 2nd how he's saying he don't love kids, ithink people they misunderstood him. If people say the truth maybe wale wana judge Steve wengi wao wametoa mimba bcoz hawakua wame plan kupata mimba
From what Steve Is saying I totally agree with him koz me too sipendi watoi wachafu na wako na makamasi,but napenda watoi
Steve i like your standards ... i understand childhood trauma
True kabisa. Gd discussion.
This guy is so real
It's good to be real.💯 Understanding you well njamba ya Wamûyû.
Gwîtîya equals to "respect oneself."
Big up man!
Big up
Not everyone should have kids, He is speaking his mind and should be allowed to do so freely. His opinion should be respected.
Dear Steve, why are you explaining yourself? It is your decision not to want kids, let it remain as it is. I support you, I detest people who can't respect other people's decisions or points of view. Tusisumbuane. Why do we have street kids if every child "has their own bowl"? Steve , don't sire if you can't raise. Stick to that, I'm proud of you.
He is just real
If you listen to this guy keenly,, you will understand him. He is being honest.
We should reflect where we've been in order to perfect where we are going 🙏🙏
Steve is very honest,
Plz Jeff, I wish do a platical thing to we get him Well.
Kabisa monicah una msikiza with a positive mind see it in a different way
Wakaniaru is just perfect…I hope he has read UNPLUGGED…1,2,3….I just wish he reads them kama bado
I understand Steve and his stand . One needs to listen to him without this African and religious mentality and you will get him .
I support him kuliko uzae alafu utese mtoi ama uanze kuachia watu wenu majukumu yako ...
I totally understand and conquer with him.Mimi nilipitia magumu kuliko hayo na Kuna swali family walishindwa kunijibu mpaka wa leo.Wanaulizanga juu nilipendwa time nilianza kuearn,how can they convince/prove to me that If I sire kids and name after them hawatawafanyia kaa Mimi?I have never gotten that answer
I support your words,,✔️✔️✔️❤
Let's call the truth truth,he's real
Am a mother and I also hate a child crying mimi ata siezi kaa na mtoi wa mtu i got mine when i was still a baby too she cry i cry
Me for now i don't know how i can handle a child
I support steve❤
Steve is suffering from OCD.He has fear of contamination and dirt.This is a symptom of OCD.
Me and Steve same WhatsApp group 😊 I love this conversation
👍👍Mimi pia we are 3 now
🤣🤣🤣🤣
No Wanda most of us hua tunaelezea vile tulikua tunachapwa tukiwa watoto na kulala njaa kama nikitu normal juu wazazi hawakua prepared kutupata...look at them now with our kids hadi ukiwashoutia hua wanareact
Wah, ûyû akorûo etereire akarutaga mwana nanyuki na ndege kîroko na agacokio hwai-inî, agîtwarûo cukuru, nîndetîkîra ndakagîa mwana,,,,,murekere I tu, no harîa ûgî wake ûkinyîtî
He is just real. So many people out there lie alot how they love children but they are deadbeats.
Sawa
Steve you are so real.
sawa sawa
I live in Europe and many people don't kids for they say they won't be able to to take for the kid fully
Thats Carol mutuku she said it,and very true,my bishop told us this,men don't have love for kids
I was shocked to realize I had been dating a man who hates children with passion.He was extremely good until that time I sired a kid.He has never talked to me nor seen his own kid.ti kwega ground nî tofauti
I just like the way u talk direct n ur not changing ur story 🧐
Steve you have a point i stand with you
He is talking facts 💯 pelekeni makasiriko yenu nahuko
I love Steve because he is real and he talks sense
Uko sawa steve
sawa
Let him live his life. If he doesn't like it, so be it. Wacha atengeneze wanawake.
sawa sawa
I support you Steve💯 keep it up bro❤
Steve usibanduke. Be you
ok
Uou must have a history. Nonginya teire andu kuria ngai aturutite. By telling them they will be able to appreciate what God has given them.
I understand you steve, ur talking sense
Anything conceivable is too old to die,so life start at conception
The environment we grew and live shapes our thinking and personality.......ushawai imagine mwanaume anafanya maternity 😢... remember this guy anafanya massage na anaina nunus of different women.....niachie tu hapo
Steve is an honest man, he is wounded and in the process of healing, time is the best physician.
Nice conversation.
Truth be told many dead beats fathers hate their kids and Steve was just bold enough to speak himself out
Tuko wengi jeff kwa ground I understand him pia mimi nilipitia hiyo
Steve bringing a conversation that African society is not ready for..
The context is clear. You are right. Who likes dirty kids, hungry kids, suffering kids? No one.
I support you.
Huyu kijana ajielewi mara anasema,"Ndingienda mwana wakwa akigerera maria ndagereire"meaning wakati ukifika atapata watoto
Fact is, you can’t offer what you don’t have. Likewise a mango seed can’t bear apples. You must not like kids to end up having them, we also like characters in movies etc not to end up marrying them 😅.
God is Love! Love is a command not a request in the Bible just incase you are a true believer.
These are decisions made dependent on his experiences. What he needs is help tho I wouldn’t be surprised to hear him say he doesn’t need any.
Stephen has a point, watu ndio hawamuelewi.
Then he has childhood trauma
I would want to know the background of Steve but he is very authentic