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Chit Chat GRWM | How To Make The Most of Being Single. Stop Wasting This Time Sis!
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- Опубліковано 15 гру 2022
- There is so much beauty in being a single young woman but it’s so easy to become bored when you don’t know what ti do or how to make the most of it. So here are some of my thoughts on how to enjoy this season; from one single babe to another.
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More “singleness” content please Courtney! There isn’t enough of it and creators celebrating it and the benefits of it
❤️ noted! Any specific video requests/ ideas would be really appreciated
@@CourtneyDaniella How to plan and enjoy solo dates? Love your channel
@@CourtneyDaniella singleness within relationships
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@@CourtneyDaniella no, we want less.
Leave single women alone. You don’t preach to married women so what are your qualifications to be giving unsolicited advice to single women.
You aren’t an expert. Single women KNOW everything you’re saying, because they’re intelligent adults.
You would assume wives need your advice. So why do you not think single women are as intelligent and wise. Why do you assume they need your advice.
I’m only experiencing singleness in my 30s (I’m a single mom)… and instead being sad about my “failed” relationship with my fiancé I am choosing to enjoy every minute .. work on myself,travel, get healthy, eat good food .. it’s great .. I don’t even get lonely anymore
"You do not need to be in a white gown before you present yourself to God" WHAT. A. WORD! Thank you!
Literally just paused midway through and booked a solo trip to Italy ✌🏾
A WHOLE word. I recently became a mother and I'm finding so much joy in it because I spent the season before pouring into fixing my relationship with my family, sorting my financing and becoming money savvy, doing work with my therapist to find my voice and now I'm nurturing a child that is growing in a very healthy home. I'm still single but I'm enjoying travelling with my daughter, going to art galleries with her, studying for my Master's after finding my PgC from Cambridge and it's honestly because I appreciated the previous season so that the one I am in feels right. Ladies, please don't rush out of singlehood or not having children before really squeezing the juice out of it--the wisdom gained will truly serve you when the time comes!
I’m going to be super vulnerable. I’m 24 never been in a relationship and tbh it’s hard. I have sisters (younger than me) when they go out just to the grocery store and minor places they get attention, me? Never. It starts to mess with you like why? I feel so invisible when I go out, to the point I’m starting to think marriage or relationships might not even be my calling, hence I’ve stopped thinking about it. I get the usual sadness when I see couples and wish it were me, but it wears off when realization kicks in that it might never happen. Thanks Courtney for the video, but I may have given up on love happening for me.
you're beautiful Otey! God knows the desires of your heart. Leave this desire to Him, pray about it, work on yourself and growing closer to God, and your person will come around
Hey Courtney! I just discovered your podcast about 2 weeks ago and I've been hooked ever since! I recently started watching your personal contents here on YT and I'm so happy to be your subbie!! Your energy is such a breath of fresh air! The optimism is so contagious and I literally feel like I'm being healed when I watch your videos and the same effect applies when I listen/watch TMS. Thank you for sharing content full of wisdom to sisters all over the world.
Girl, is marriage 'famine" 😂😅 I kid, that disclaimer finished me. Thank you so much for this. Just watched a 'well meaning' podcast that really irritated my soul. This is the healthy perspective I needed. Thank you so much for sharing such a balanced view of singleness and marriage. ❤
I agree! I needed this video when I was 19 😂
But ever since I’ve started listening to your podcast my life perspective has changed!
Here’s to traveling and doing me in the new year 2023! 🤍 thanks Courtney 😊
I love being single! Once these corone numbers are down (again) I’m going to be out here at concerts and hopefully abroad. I do want a relationship, but the pickings are slim where I live, so I’ll have to possibly do a LDR. And if I do end up single for the rest of my life I’ll adopt 2 dogs and a pet tarantula 😊
This is random but I think the low bun style is really nice on you. It shows up your facial features a lot and I love it
You never skip a beat, always well spoken and hitting the best points! 💙
i am leaving a comment even though i usually dont i hope it wont be too long ♥️ but there’s so much i love about this as a muslim girl: we share so many values and so much of what u said resonated with me deeply. i’ll definitely rewatch this video so many times (didn’t know that we have the same exact story in the Quran about Joseph (peace be upon him) @6:18 ♥️) / ur advice is so poignant and your delivery is so gentle and wise ♥️ and i cant wait to watch more videos of urs please keep them coming (at a pace that’s comfortable to u 🥰 no pressure) and thank you for creating and sharing w us 💌
OMG, glad to see another muslim girl like me watching content on growth ❤
@@aishamatriarch hii lovely to see u here too
I loved this video so much!! It has truly inspired me, thank you!🫶🏾
LOVEEE your makeup 😍😍
AHHH!!!! YES YES YES AND AMEN! I completely AGREEEEE .
Can you please list your makeup products? ❤ ( mostly the concealer and setting powder you used) lovely video 😊
Did this exact routine here and the make up is in the description ua-cam.com/video/qvbvX0iUczQ/v-deo.html
I’m 24 and I’ve never been in a relationship. Although I desire marriage, I just want to be content in being single and making the most of it,whilst behind happy for those who are in relationships/getting married. And you inspire me in doing that 🤍
Almost 24, same exact situation. I want a husband one day, but I’ve had to heal from a lot and I just wanna enjoy my 20s, and “do things on a whim” like Courtney said. But for all those who are ready for marriage at this age that’s great too!
Except you may never get married, so we don’t need to be pressured to be happy ‘now’ like there is a time limit and we’ll definitely be married.
We may not be. So we’re allowed to feel disappointed. We don’t have to feel pressured to be happy like we’re going to ‘miss out’
@@dw3675 you could be single forever.
Why do we have to pretend all single women get married. MANY don’t.
But instead of being allowed to desire marriage and be sad that they aren’t married, they’re told ‘enjoy it now because you won’t be able to do things when you’re married’.
Well, that’s a LIE, because married people do things all the time and have MORE resources to do so.
And secondly, if you’re ALWAYS single then you don’t have to be pressured to have fun in your twenties.
Single women can be 60. But Christians are pressured to act like it only lasts till they’re 30, so they better ‘use it’ and ‘enjoy it’.
No, you can do that if you’re 50, you’ll HAVE to. You know why? Because you’ve been ALONE for decades desiring marriage. And when you felt upset, you were shamed for it because you were promised a marriage that NEVER came.
It is NOT a limited time. It is a LONG time for many. And they CAN’T enjoy because they’re broke and exhausted.
Wives have MONEY and time, AND love and respect and support.
You are so wise.
Lovely message 💌
📌Investing in oneself!!..Daniella this talk is Gold💙 Top tier🥰We love you💕💕💕
Girl, do you have a makeup tutorial? Your base is flawless. And also points were dropped
How do you recommend travelling safely as a single woman?? With a friend?? Bc I'm 18 and have never traveled anywhere by myself...
What’s a school governor? For those of us who aren’t in the UK
I’d also like to know
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You know what I think? I think that we have no choice but to tell ourselves that being single is great. For lack of alternatives, because the mentality is changing from traditionalism to left-wing idealism and makes us think we are missing out and/or even think it is wrong to go the traditional way. Then there is the emancipatory and digitalised debate. You can also have a career as a woman, and it's best to do it when you're still young, because everyone can do it in their mid-20s. But that is not the reality. Biology has its own timing and to always claim that God's timing will be right is a bit naïve. I am a Christian myself and God is the greatest, but without our will, no family or man can fly out of the sky for us. Sorry if I offend anyone, I mean that with all due respect, because I notice it in myself. Nowadays, you can't do shit right and then tend to do nothing at all. Like me lol haha
Then there's the dating scene these days with all the apps. You think there's always someone better out there. Until you convince yourself or get convinced that it's God's will and end up in a shitty relationship. Done it, seen it, dont recommend it haha
I hear where you’re coming from and I’m not offended at all, I think it raises some interesting points. However, I think that it sits on an assumption that when I say singleness I’m talking about a long term commitment to being exclusively single without actively dating or being open to it - this isn’t what i’m talking about when I talk about ‘singleness’ on my channel.
Secondly, I think that unless you get into a long term relationship in your late teens or very early twenties, the majority of us will experience periods of singleness whether that’s from having never been in a relationship before or being in and out of them as you find the ‘right one’. With that being said, it’s important to know that singleness is what you make it and it’s not this thing to be dreaded; because I’ve seen people get into bad or harmful relationships due to that perspective.
Enjoying singleness and actively looking / preparing for the relationship and partner you want are not mutually exclusive, arguably they go hand-in-hand. The sooner we embrace the beauty and opportunities singleness presents, the better - I think, we arrive in the relationships we actually want.
In response to your last point, I don’t think this is about sitting around thinking ‘there’s someone better out there’ at all but this is a different conversation in itself.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤️
Leave single women alone.
Single women don’t need married women preaching to them and lecturing. So they don’t need other single women doing it either
Are you alright?
@@lynnk.0 ehhhh
Singleness is NOT about being young. Single women are OLDER as well and don’t have time for holidays and having ‘fun’.
The problem is the Church criticises single women as if they’re children who will DEFINITELY get married but need to be good enough first. Then they pressure them to do it now, as if marriage is a few years away.
They forget single women are often older, so they don’t need the obvious advice, or the pressure to have fun, when they’ve already had DECADES alone and will probably have more.
So all the shaming about how they need to ‘prepare’ was for nothing.
Because they were FINE as they are, (just like wives aren’t criticised for how they are and are called perfect.) and because singleness is NOT some short time when you’re young.
It can last DECADES, so stop lecturing and pressuring them to have fun earn they’re struggling.
And actually RESPECT that it’s hard and a LONG time, for many. And they don’t need YOUR advice, because they’re wiser than you.
Why do you not ask their advice? You would ask a married 22 year old but talk DOWN and dish out advice to older single women.
Mam why are you on this video.
She's a 24 year old giving her perspective and experience as a young single woman.
Please post your own if this one doesnt serve you
So single women are ‘immature’ because they haven’t been married before, or don’t have as many friends as you.
Very uplifting - judging single women on how many friends they have. And it is judging
⁉️ Where are the videos of you assuming negative things about married women, the way you accuse single women of being desperate and idolatrous?
When do you assume they have so much money and time?
When do you criticise how many friend they have, as if it’s so easy?
She is not speaking about married women because she is not married , and has no experience to give advice on it.
She speaks on idolatry because it is something a lot of people struggle with, especially when there is a lot of social traffic around said idol ( aka single people and marriage ).
She isnt trying to usurp and upset anyone's priorities and situations.
She is not speaking about married women because she is not married , and has no experience to give advice on it.
She speaks on idolatry because it is something a lot of people struggle with, especially when there is a lot of social traffic around said idol ( aka single people and marriage ).
She isnt trying to usurp and upset anyone's priorities and situations.