like just that two minute interaction dont think one could ever stand being with someone like emily. the opposite of understanding or soulmate, whatever that is.
@@ItsMe-bt4tm I don’t think you actually know what that word means. I think you just use it because you’ve seen others do so but don’t actually get the context. You’re the person who laughs at the joke then can’t explain when asked why it was funny
Bro this clip says so much. I'm not even one of those people, I only watch some clips on UA-cam and barely that. But even I can tell what happened here. Nick wants a family (wife and child) and wants to live here in the states where he knows people, has his entire life, etc. Malena doesn't want at least 1 of those things. Nick feels that these are non-negotiables for him. He wanted them with Malena but you can't make someone want the same things as you. Therefore, you have to go try to find someone that can. At his age he realizes that he needs to meet that person relatively soon to properly "vet" them for real long-term compatibility before marriage and kids. Also understanding that it's concerning when you have money and resources that someone might latch onto you for the WRONG reasons. He's afraid that this isn't going to happen and in a few years give up on what he really wants and give into what Malena wanted in the relationship instead, assuming she's still single and wanted him back. As someone a bit older than even Nick, with a good job, house, and money, I totally get it.
I'm similar age to Nick and in a similar phase in life. I simply wont date someone who does not want kids somewhat soon. I don't want to be too old for when I have kids. I want to be able to play sports with my kid when he/she is a teen. If I have a kid at 42 for example, when they're 15 i'd be nearly 60 years old.
@@baronn9809 I try not to get into these things, but nick is in his 30's now and Melena is still in her 20's. Not every woman wants to have children that early in life, she probably wants to enjoy her 20's before she properly settles down (if she wants to have kids of course). Most women in todays age don't start having kids until their late 20's or early/mid 30's. She did some amazing stuff with all her behind the scenes for events and camp stuff. She has amazing talent and she could make a great career in stuff like that in the future. I love nick & Melena and I am heartbroken its over, I hope Melena knows she rocked and I would totally watch her own streams/irl stuff if she ever did them in the future.
@emmaasaysblah1660 She doesn't want kids. And most women who have kids later have professional careers. Event planning for streamers isn't exactly white collar.
Fanfan definitely eased the blow but Emily is still right, they are both right in certain aspects. I just think it sucks if Nick has to give up what he wants in life just for the sake of not being alone. That isn't a compromise, and it could just lead to life-long bitterness or constantly asking yourself "what could have been". I hope you find someone Nick who wants the same things you want.
Nah Emily is too much. Nick was obviously making a joke about his situation and she tried to turn on him like he was the bad/weird guy Man just wants a family. There is nothing wrong with that. He made a joke at his expense about how he is going to fail and have to beg for Malena back because he is scared he could have no one else in life and would give up on his dream Emily is trying too hard to be funny while Nick is being vulnerable
Tbf, 10 years ago, he probably wasn't thinking about kids and the long-term future. That said, it shouldn't have taken 10 years to have that conversation and come to a conclusion one way or another.
I mean, nick knows that for many reason it's almost impossible for him to find someone like malena; she was the cornerstone of his happiness to be fair; i wouldn't be surprised if at some point nick just decided to leave everything and move to norway to get her back.
I'd argue that he has his life together so much so that it'd be fairly easy for him to find another partner if he just puts himself out there. His physical health was his only apparent weakness at one point but now he looks at least 10 years younger
assuming theyre on really good terms and literally only split up because of different life goals, that is probably what is going to happen. You don't realize what you have until its gone
Yeah.. its a sacrifice for sure but not as big of a sacrifice as it was back in 2021 when things in texas were really happening. No kids seems like the dealbreaker for him so thats probably the main thing
I think his point was that Malena was the love of his life and he won't find anyone better in 2 years, so he'll come crawling back to her. It's quite the pessimistic outlook, but I thought it was a self-deprecating joke. If it wasn't, it's understandable considering he just got out of a 10+ year relationship.
ima be real the way emily thinks will scare potential bfs. like melena doesnt want kids and wants to stay in norway but nick wants kids and doesnt want to stay at norway. just 2 different wants and she see it like melena is a second choice.
@@TheQWER9 I have buddies of mine, with girlfriends at the time who said they never want to get married. Eight years and new girlfriends later, two are now married with kids and in December we are headed home for another's wedding. Sometimes you just need the right person for it to make sense. Yes, I know people believe everyone's different/unique, but these things have a funny way of changing.
Ngl, I wouldn’t be upset if Nick just quit streaming and went back to malena, I would do the same if it meant that, that was the better option because it’s hard to separate from someone who you loved especially after YEARSSSSS
This is interesting. I'm only commenting because they're putting it out there but this feels like a very distinct difference between streamers and youtubers as they mature in this influencer spaces. It feels like youtubers have(?) the option of stepping away or cutting back on their careers to further their personal lives while streamers have to make (or their partners have to make) a decision to choose between their career and relationships. The sample set is small and this is purely anecdotal on my part but between 2019 and 2024 that I've had my eyes in this space, I've seen more (non-streaming) creators step away from their youtube channels to focus on their personal relationships (or burn-out which would affect their personal relationships) but then in the streamer side, many relationships have just out-right ended. I understand that both things are happening in both categories all the time obviously but strictly speaking as a person watching both spaces as my sample size, it feels like a trend. It feels like something newer streamers should keep in mind on how to navigate if they plan to enter this space. This could all be nothing as people break up and many of these people are young and that's very normal.
If you listen to what's actually being said here, the implication is that Nick wasn't willing to move to Norway that's the main issue, NOT Malena not wanting kids in general. Sounds like she just doesn't want to have kids in America.
@@dreamcastdazia4753 Yeah I've been watching him for like 6 years. Malena has expressed multiple times not wanting to raise kids in America where they can be gunned down while in class. She wants to have kids and be near her family, something Nick seemingly isn't willing to do. The fact that you think how Malena acts on stream usually when Nick brings up kids, as content, is the same as her real opinion, while asking me if I've ever watched them, is extremely weird.
Maybe manolda is testing nickola tesla. Manolda pretty much already proved that she would be willing to move across the ocean to be with mr polom. But he would do the same? Does he choose money over love? Season finale is gonna be pretty pog
I don't think he'd have a problem living in Norway. He already said he doesn't but she doesn't want to have his kids. That's an auto deal breaker. He's financially very well off and wants a family.🤷🏿♂️
That dark triad ego showing through and the type of woman than falls for it. Look at her expression change as nick goes from passive to assertive about it. 0:40
Emily isn’t a Nick glazer , she doesn’t need views or anything from Nick like smaller streamers so she’s just more real. What she said made sense, he’ll go off two years banging whatever looking for a better Malena then crawling back when he can’t find one.
@@lionking2531 uh nah that's not how I took it. I took it as him jokingly saying he won't be able to find a woman or anyone who wants him and have to crawl back to Malena and beg her to take him back and give up on his dreams of having a child
A new form of cringe from Emily that is hard to deal with. That was painful, but I guess that is just how she is. Pushing into the uncomfortable all the time.
Can't always have it both ways unfortunately. Her ability to roll with the cringe is unparalleled but it comes at the cost of her being a bit socially inept
If he dated Malena for that long, he more than likely heard her say several times no to kids during their relationship. He was dumb to risk it all on her choice changing.
Why Dr K? So you can be parasocial and know more about how he's doing? Dr K is such a double edged sword. It's good to spread awareness of stuff, but it also makes people way too parasocial
Since the unofficial VOD channel decided that they aren't going to upload anymore Can the official clip channel or someone else consider doing it I'm sure many would appreciate it Cheers
There is a new channel that does it, it's like Nmp Live or something like that, maybe not full VODs but puts up quite long segments 30 minutes to even an hour
It is a "safe word" that he and especially Malena used to use which essentially means 'stop talking about this now' because the conversation is getting too honest or personal etc.
Just make it official already ffs. Melena left nick because it was so obvious that him and Xtra Emily has been flirting for years. I they are already dating and making emily pregnant was the final straw that made milena leave
I felt like the reason why they separated: Malena - wanted to have a family already. Nick - continue his career and earn for their future. Malena’s last post kinda confirms she does want to stop content creation already but who really knows. Lets all hope for the better.
Its's quite the opposite. The guy is desperate for a family and kids. And she has been saying on stream/YT for years that she doesn't want kids. Especially in America. Sometimes people who love each other see the world very differently. And you cant force each other to want the same things. When that goes for so long - some people change their minds, others break up and go different paths. And some grow bitter and fall out of love.
The fanfan save was insane at 1:46
god save
it was insane fanfan is amazing i love heeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
like just that two minute interaction dont think one could ever stand being with someone like emily. the opposite of understanding or soulmate, whatever that is.
Massive fanfan W
fanfan is the man
Fanfan is the sanest one in thr car damn
BWAHAHAHA
nah mister arthur wins that title, just not getting involved in that convo at all ahahah
Yeah she is just homophobic, so very supportive to the traditional value
bro how the FUCK was fanfan the most rationale and fair. EE was straight dumping nmp.
Thats because EE is a moron
Thank god fanfan was there to talk Emily down cause this clip could’ve been another hip gate if they let her cook
hip gate?
Parasocial 😂
@@ItsMe-bt4tm I don’t think you actually know what that word means. I think you just use it because you’ve seen others do so but don’t actually get the context. You’re the person who laughs at the joke then can’t explain when asked why it was funny
@@HeartbrokenHeartshooter so wtf does hip gate mean
@@BrandenBlackfordhe talking about the “parasocial” word
Am i tripping or did fanfan give a proper response for once? 😂
Them new pills are working
@@TheInfamousDopepills? Proper response?
oh wow as if she's not playing a persona
Bro this clip says so much. I'm not even one of those people, I only watch some clips on UA-cam and barely that. But even I can tell what happened here. Nick wants a family (wife and child) and wants to live here in the states where he knows people, has his entire life, etc. Malena doesn't want at least 1 of those things. Nick feels that these are non-negotiables for him. He wanted them with Malena but you can't make someone want the same things as you. Therefore, you have to go try to find someone that can. At his age he realizes that he needs to meet that person relatively soon to properly "vet" them for real long-term compatibility before marriage and kids. Also understanding that it's concerning when you have money and resources that someone might latch onto you for the WRONG reasons. He's afraid that this isn't going to happen and in a few years give up on what he really wants and give into what Malena wanted in the relationship instead, assuming she's still single and wanted him back. As someone a bit older than even Nick, with a good job, house, and money, I totally get it.
I'm similar age to Nick and in a similar phase in life. I simply wont date someone who does not want kids somewhat soon. I don't want to be too old for when I have kids. I want to be able to play sports with my kid when he/she is a teen. If I have a kid at 42 for example, when they're 15 i'd be nearly 60 years old.
@@Plague_Doc22I think he would give up on kids
@@baronn9809 I try not to get into these things, but nick is in his 30's now and Melena is still in her 20's. Not every woman wants to have children that early in life, she probably wants to enjoy her 20's before she properly settles down (if she wants to have kids of course). Most women in todays age don't start having kids until their late 20's or early/mid 30's. She did some amazing stuff with all her behind the scenes for events and camp stuff. She has amazing talent and she could make a great career in stuff like that in the future.
I love nick & Melena and I am heartbroken its over, I hope Melena knows she rocked and I would totally watch her own streams/irl stuff if she ever did them in the future.
@emmaasaysblah1660 She doesn't want kids. And most women who have kids later have professional careers. Event planning for streamers isn't exactly white collar.
@@baronn9809 I doubt it honestly. For us who want kids at some point it's extremely important.
I would say its a top 3 life goal of mine.
Fanfan definitely eased the blow but Emily is still right, they are both right in certain aspects. I just think it sucks if Nick has to give up what he wants in life just for the sake of not being alone. That isn't a compromise, and it could just lead to life-long bitterness or constantly asking yourself "what could have been". I hope you find someone Nick who wants the same things you want.
Nah Emily is too much. Nick was obviously making a joke about his situation and she tried to turn on him like he was the bad/weird guy
Man just wants a family. There is nothing wrong with that. He made a joke at his expense about how he is going to fail and have to beg for Malena back because he is scared he could have no one else in life and would give up on his dream
Emily is trying too hard to be funny while Nick is being vulnerable
fanfan the new shield
This breakup hit me hard as a parasocial UA-cam only viewer of 3 years...
In your defense the COVID and post years have really seemed longer than any other this side of Y2K.
Same, I’ve never been so sad about a steamer break up before
@@junkboy0 I thought I was the only one.
How many years you got pre-Y2K?
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@@thegargoylegaming7292hey buddy :)
Fanfan was actually goated in this
I just hope he has this conversation with the woman in question ahead of time. I'd hate to see him waste another 10 years.
Facts
Tbf, 10 years ago, he probably wasn't thinking about kids and the long-term future. That said, it shouldn't have taken 10 years to have that conversation and come to a conclusion one way or another.
FanFan was really hearing Nick. That was so refreshing.
I mean, nick knows that for many reason it's almost impossible for him to find someone like malena; she was the cornerstone of his happiness to be fair; i wouldn't be surprised if at some point nick just decided to leave everything and move to norway to get her back.
I wouldn't be surprised either, because that's exactly what he said in the clip. lol
You're delusional she's a dime a dozen.😂
I'd argue that he has his life together so much so that it'd be fairly easy for him to find another partner if he just puts himself out there. His physical health was his only apparent weakness at one point but now he looks at least 10 years younger
@@SkippaMcHavn This is the truth, but the bulk of his audience is lonely men coping like he and they are the same.😂
assuming theyre on really good terms and literally only split up because of different life goals, that is probably what is going to happen. You don't realize what you have until its gone
I swear to God I feel so bad for Nick, hope he finds peace in life.
He did it to himself
Fanfan is a good friend and is one of those you should cherish and keep around 🙏🏽
idk who that woman in the back is but she is for sure the voice of reason in that car, pretty much explaining nick intentions to the others
FanFan
She's another Twitch streamer
uhhhh
FanFan W friend for figuring out what he meant
Malena might not be waiting in 2 years.
💯 as she shouldn’t
@@_AverageAlex_ shaded
Nick did the right thing. Plus Malena was clear what she didn't want for the longest time.
Honestly, I thought Nick was going to move to norway so that melina could be close to her mom to take care of her.
Yeah.. its a sacrifice for sure but not as big of a sacrifice as it was back in 2021 when things in texas were really happening. No kids seems like the dealbreaker for him so thats probably the main thing
Melina is the girl who farms simps on her stream. Malena is Nick's ex lol
Uproot his life just to be with a woman that has openly stated she'll never give him kids?
That's a fools deal.🤷🏿♂️
I think his point was that Malena was the love of his life and he won't find anyone better in 2 years, so he'll come crawling back to her. It's quite the pessimistic outlook, but I thought it was a self-deprecating joke. If it wasn't, it's understandable considering he just got out of a 10+ year relationship.
ima be real the way emily thinks will scare potential bfs. like melena doesnt want kids and wants to stay in norway but nick wants kids and doesnt want to stay at norway. just 2 different wants and she see it like melena is a second choice.
and plus if nick moves hes sacrificing alot. and the same with her! if she moves over shell be sacrificing alot.
In 2 years Malena will already have a norwegian husband and 2 kids.
She already said she doesnt want kids 😂
@@TheQWER9 I have buddies of mine, with girlfriends at the time who said they never want to get married. Eight years and new girlfriends later, two are now married with kids and in December we are headed home for another's wedding.
Sometimes you just need the right person for it to make sense. Yes, I know people believe everyone's different/unique, but these things have a funny way of changing.
@@oken6325it would suck if malena just didnt want kids with him
Facts
imagine how fucked up it would be for nick if she did have kids with another man in the next years
Ngl, I wouldn’t be upset if Nick just quit streaming and went back to malena, I would do the same if it meant that, that was the better option because it’s hard to separate from someone who you loved especially after YEARSSSSS
That's codependency that's not good for him.
@@A-RedHerringtheres a difference between codependency and not wanting to throw away 10 year relationship
This is interesting. I'm only commenting because they're putting it out there but this feels like a very distinct difference between streamers and youtubers as they mature in this influencer spaces. It feels like youtubers have(?) the option of stepping away or cutting back on their careers to further their personal lives while streamers have to make (or their partners have to make) a decision to choose between their career and relationships.
The sample set is small and this is purely anecdotal on my part but between 2019 and 2024 that I've had my eyes in this space, I've seen more (non-streaming) creators step away from their youtube channels to focus on their personal relationships (or burn-out which would affect their personal relationships) but then in the streamer side, many relationships have just out-right ended. I understand that both things are happening in both categories all the time obviously but strictly speaking as a person watching both spaces as my sample size, it feels like a trend.
It feels like something newer streamers should keep in mind on how to navigate if they plan to enter this space. This could all be nothing as people break up and many of these people are young and that's very normal.
fanfan W
Malena, might have moved on in two years.
I honestly don't think Emily meant to make it weird it's just her content brain speaking or something
My guy was a kid, but Malena doesn’t or maybe can’t. I get it and it’s tough.
If you listen to what's actually being said here, the implication is that Nick wasn't willing to move to Norway that's the main issue, NOT Malena not wanting kids in general. Sounds like she just doesn't want to have kids in America.
@@Noooiiiissseee She doesn't want to have kids period. Have you even watched NMP before???
@@dreamcastdazia4753 Yeah I've been watching him for like 6 years. Malena has expressed multiple times not wanting to raise kids in America where they can be gunned down while in class. She wants to have kids and be near her family, something Nick seemingly isn't willing to do. The fact that you think how Malena acts on stream usually when Nick brings up kids, as content, is the same as her real opinion, while asking me if I've ever watched them, is extremely weird.
@FanFan droppin the save...! LOL
Maybe manolda is testing nickola tesla. Manolda pretty much already proved that she would be willing to move across the ocean to be with mr polom. But he would do the same? Does he choose money over love? Season finale is gonna be pretty pog
I don't think he'd have a problem living in Norway. He already said he doesn't but she doesn't want to have his kids.
That's an auto deal breaker. He's financially very well off and wants a family.🤷🏿♂️
@@A-RedHerringi think it’s she doesn’t want them to grow up in america more than anything (not parasocial btw)
@@jd7241 this is true, she never full on said that she doesn't want to have kids with him
lets be honest Nick threw the bag
Has to katchiii the right one
That dark triad ego showing through and the type of woman than falls for it. Look at her expression change as nick goes from passive to assertive about it.
0:40
Nick not being able to bring up her name for more than 10 minutes = Impossible
if fen fen wasnt there that was interesting :D
Nick bro no one know what will hapen tomorrow how u know after 2yrs everything will b same
Fanfan is super legit she gets it 🔥
Emily is trying too hard for content. Not her fault; she lives and breathes twitch but she should at least try to not comes off as insensitive
Alternate point of view: Emily was being real, not trying to sugarcoat or support Nick. She was basically calling BS on his description/motives
Emily isn’t a Nick glazer , she doesn’t need views or anything from Nick like smaller streamers so she’s just more real. What she said made sense, he’ll go off two years banging whatever looking for a better Malena then crawling back when he can’t find one.
@@stephenmason9527 Well anyone who could read the room could tell that Nick was just making a bad joke about him not finding anyone
@@lionking2531 uh nah that's not how I took it. I took it as him jokingly saying he won't be able to find a woman or anyone who wants him and have to crawl back to Malena and beg her to take him back and give up on his dreams of having a child
Angel on one shoulder, devil on the other
A new form of cringe from Emily that is hard to deal with. That was painful, but I guess that is just how she is. Pushing into the uncomfortable all the time.
Can't always have it both ways unfortunately. Her ability to roll with the cringe is unparalleled but it comes at the cost of her being a bit socially inept
@@oxsila A bit socially inept? She definitely got stuffed in lockers.
Many fish in Texas bro..
that is not a happy ending
Fanfan W
If he dated Malena for that long, he more than likely heard her say several times no to kids during their relationship. He was dumb to risk it all on her choice changing.
I mean this is just how life goes sometimes.
@@mx2000No this is that dumb feminist poison mindset she has. She's been duped into thinking kids = bad.
Lost cause.
Except *a lot* of women who "don't want kids" in their twenties do change their minds and want kids when they're in their thirties
in4 nmp gets himself canceled
But who says that she will take him back after 2 years? HUH
W fanfan
I wonder if malena will be available in two years
It's time for the nmp dr.k episode fr
Why Dr K? So you can be parasocial and know more about how he's doing? Dr K is such a double edged sword. It's good to spread awareness of stuff, but it also makes people way too parasocial
Since the unofficial VOD channel decided that they aren't going to upload anymore
Can the official clip channel or someone else consider doing it
I'm sure many would appreciate it
Cheers
There is a new channel that does it, it's like Nmp Live or something like that, maybe not full VODs but puts up quite long segments 30 minutes to even an hour
Just pick Emily Nick.
He said pineapple at the end. Anyone know what thats about
It is a "safe word" that he and especially Malena used to use which essentially means 'stop talking about this now' because the conversation is getting too honest or personal etc.
L emily
Hahahahahahahahaha OMG @Emily
!!! Nick's not dating Malena anymore, so he can start hanging out with Alinity again Lol
Just make it official already ffs. Melena left nick because it was so obvious that him and Xtra Emily has been flirting for years.
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they are already dating and making emily pregnant was the final straw that made milena leave
W emily and the end
Nick sometimes says the weirdest things .....just too far no saving it
I felt like the reason why they separated:
Malena - wanted to have a family already.
Nick - continue his career and earn for their future.
Malena’s last post kinda confirms she does want to stop content creation already but who really knows. Lets all hope for the better.
Its's quite the opposite.
The guy is desperate for a family and kids. And she has been saying on stream/YT for years that she doesn't want kids. Especially in America.
Sometimes people who love each other see the world very differently. And you cant force each other to want the same things.
When that goes for so long - some people change their minds, others break up and go different paths. And some grow bitter and fall out of love.
you got the total opposite of it
do you watch these people?
Why would Malena wait 2 years for that?
Where tf was they driving?
Twitchcon
why does nick hate black women?
um how did we get to this conclusion?
Bro was complaining about driving to TwitchCon Eu with 2 chicks and Arther and now doing the same thing in the US