How to Write a Memoir: 4 Things You Need

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  • @GiselleGianella
    @GiselleGianella 2 години тому

    Kelly, you brought tears to my eyes when you spoke about the book before the book and thought about my Japanese grandmother and Italian great-grandmother who crossed the oceans to finally land in Peru in the 1900s... I love your sincere and clear message that flows from your beautiful Soul; thank you for being among us and for being such a great example to emulate; I say this with all my heart and more moving tears. Much love and blessings to you. Can't wait to see you next week!

  • @gsancak
    @gsancak 18 днів тому +1

    An amazing starting point! I decided to write a short memoir and was looking for this initial guidance, many thanks! I will come back when it's ready and share it with you -a promise to keep me motivated!

  • @lily-xz8qq
    @lily-xz8qq 2 роки тому +14

    I am almost seventy, writing my "book before the book". At about 60k words in my endeavor, this was very helpful. Thank you for sharing your valuable knowledge.

  • @faithmomsbelieve
    @faithmomsbelieve 11 місяців тому +3

    I am writing a book about the hope that held me through the loss of six babies in pregnancy and my firstborn at 20 months old. My story truly is tragedy to triumph as I am now a joyful Mama of two miracles. Thank you for these videos. They are so helpful.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  10 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing💛 We're so glad our videos are helping you tell your story.

  • @Charles_Shima
    @Charles_Shima 2 місяці тому +2

    it's 2024, and I am glad to have found your video! I am in process of writing my memoir.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  2 місяці тому

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @barbielockett5839
      @barbielockett5839 2 місяці тому +2

      Thank You, I found your channel on UA-cam..I am writing the first book, about my babyhood, my adopted mother, and a baby who was abused she adopted, with hands that were burnt on a coalstove, and then the growing up, seeing Angels..❤

  • @Shilohlove0608
    @Shilohlove0608 8 місяців тому +3

    I have spent the last 2 hours watching Kelly give me hints on the memoir I'm writing. The enthusiasm and professional tips are so inspiring and I'm taking notes as fast as I can type. From this research I am gleaning that I am somewhere between writing the book b4 the book and knowing my reader. One of these days I'm going to book a chat and go from there to figure out the best direction to take. I am also reading Kelly's book as homework and will continue with my writing class and reading and watching these videos. I'm inspired, THANK YOU.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  8 місяців тому

      We're so glad our videos and Kelly's book have been helpful! We look forward to chatting with you when you're ready.

  • @elenitheodorakos6943
    @elenitheodorakos6943 22 дні тому

    As someone who already wrote my memoir without googling first and now has to re write it, this is fabulous! I wish I had watched this first but still very helpful now.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  5 годин тому

      We're so glad it was helpful! Re-writing is a completely normal part of the process!

  • @alicecosta1157
    @alicecosta1157 7 місяців тому +2

    I am starting to write off my 100 list, so far so good, this video clarifies where I need to go, so much help from your videos, loving it.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  7 місяців тому

      Wonderful! We're so glad you're writing down your story!

  • @sacred.sultry.society
    @sacred.sultry.society 2 місяці тому

    Beautiful video. Thank you for this valuable information!! I’m definitely in the “book before the book” phase. I can feel it throughout my entire body just waiting to burst out. Two time cancer survivor here! ITS TIME!!!
    My book is titled-
    Light of the Illuminatress:
    A Warriors Rise to Greatness
    ✨❤️‍🔥✨

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing! The book before the book is important to write💖

  • @prempillay
    @prempillay 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for these key elements to guiding the writing of my memoir. I am in the thick of writing "the book before the book." The content is raw, rich and radical and is calling for shaping as I follow the writer's pathway towards my book.

  • @casey4384
    @casey4384 Рік тому

    I know all these things but it’s like getting a B-vitamin infusion to hear your positive, upbeat, clear reminders. Thank you so much for the time you’ve invested in these videos. I’m still doing the writing-around bit, but will definitely keep your service in mind for when I get closer to submission time.

  • @tonyadionne
    @tonyadionne Рік тому

    This is the best UA-cam video I've seen on writing a memoir thus far. Extremely helpful.

  • @jrelevates1574
    @jrelevates1574 Рік тому +4

    The biggest key- just get writing. Rules are fun, but just write. If you overthink it, you'll never do it. Just Do It.

  • @hanmer44
    @hanmer44 Рік тому +1

    Fantastic , I’m on it. Expertly explained .

  • @madebyrequest
    @madebyrequest 3 місяці тому

    This is very helpful. Thank you so much!

  • @jiji_arra
    @jiji_arra 5 місяців тому

    Magnificent! Thank you

  • @sacredfireacupuncturesurre9603
    @sacredfireacupuncturesurre9603 2 роки тому

    Amazing timing getting this today. Wow! Prob need to write the book before the book, but gives me HOPE for focusing on a project I have some control over. Thanks a million !!!

  • @KJ-zr2ko
    @KJ-zr2ko 7 місяців тому

    Wow. That was fantastic.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  7 місяців тому

      Thank you! We're glad it was helpful.

  • @roydcruz
    @roydcruz Рік тому

    more about the reader than the author!!! thank you for that thought!!!

  • @petersosi3926
    @petersosi3926 11 місяців тому

    Awesome… very helpful.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  11 місяців тому

      We're so glad! Thanks for commenting.

  • @shenequadupree6539
    @shenequadupree6539 2 роки тому

    THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

  • @rubengonzales7573
    @rubengonzales7573 2 роки тому

    Very helpful- thanks

  • @lindseycacy
    @lindseycacy 2 роки тому

    So helpful!!!!!!

  • @geobrega605
    @geobrega605 11 місяців тому

    Great insights about memoirs. I have been writing my memoir for the last eight months . I will definitely contact you.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  11 місяців тому

      Wonderful! We'd love to be a part of your book journey.

  • @tenzinbhagen1766
    @tenzinbhagen1766 2 роки тому

    🙏 Thank you Kelly. As I continue struggle in my writing journey, your videos have been watched like my bible. And of course your book, too. I wish to connect with you sometime. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @muskokaponies
    @muskokaponies Рік тому

    Firstly , I have Your book and enjoyed the read and am now referring to it as a manual . My very small book is written and I am now wading thru the self publishing sea of information . My first question is …. I live in Canada, my story is based on a real life, now deceased , woman who did something very unique in her small town, in the state of Virginia. I am planning to market the book in that area, a tourist town , and would be thrilled to actually sell 100 copies . Should I go with a self publishing company in the states or do the process up here , are there any ramifications where your isbn number comes from ? Where your publisher is ?
    Thanks for all you do .

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  Рік тому

      Thanks for commenting! You can find out more about ISBN numbers here: knliterary.com/2017/03/28/how-to-become-your-own-publisher-why-to-buy-your-own-isbn/
      With your other specific questions, we recommend that you book a call with us to see if our self-publishing service might be right for you: knliterary.com/schedule/

  • @50s_momentum
    @50s_momentum 5 днів тому

    I want to write a short story, memoir. How many pages should it be? Should I make it double-spaced? Should I write it by hand first?

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  5 годин тому +1

      Great questions! The length of the book will depend on your goals. Keep in mind that if you write it by hand you will eventually need to transfer it into typing for editing and publishing!

  • @markrich7693
    @markrich7693 Рік тому

    Do I have to write down everything on all the pages on a notebook as not just about myself

  • @youejtube7692
    @youejtube7692 2 роки тому

    Hi Kelly, I have a very practical question: I'm 55 and am planning to write a memoir with a specific theme and it occurred to me to ask an old school friend if she would be my editor. She is retired from the publishing world and is somewhat of a witty wordsmith herself on social media. We live on opposite sides of the planet and haven't seen each other since school (35 years) except on Facebook and Instagram, but we've always had a nice rapport and she pretty much fits the demographic of who my story will be for. I have a very small income, as most of my time is spent volunteering for a small charity which I set up. So my question is regarding paying for her services - I was thinking to offer her a percentage of the royalties, assuming some books will sell. Is this unusual? What kind of percentage might be acceptable? How do you charge your authors? Many thanks.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  2 роки тому +1

      If you'd like to book a call with us, one of our matchmakers would be happy to discuss our pricing. It is very unusual for an editor to work for royalties. You can also get a sense of industry-standard editorial freelancer rates here: www.the-efa.org/rates/

    • @youejtube7692
      @youejtube7692 2 роки тому

      @@knliteraryarts thank you!

    • @emmanuelawosusi2365
      @emmanuelawosusi2365 Рік тому

      @@knliteraryarts how can I write a autobiographical memoir?

    • @annasamek5179
      @annasamek5179 Рік тому

      Sorry, but it looks like you want your friend to work for you for free. Ask yourself why should she do it?Would you work for free for her?

  • @TheRickyd7
    @TheRickyd7 Рік тому

    Hope I didn't make a mistake of sharing my autobio/memoir I have been writing, for well over 15 years or 20 years, with a ghost writing firm cronus writing? About the struggles and triumphs in the recovery from a TBI from an MVA 81101. Along with the different perspectives you may be able to take through recovery, physically & mentally. I have written two different writings of it, one that is titled, The Trials and Tribulations of Traumatic Brain Injury Recover, which the titled is waaaayyyy tooo long, meaning if that was put on the cover it would be a pretty penny to have that printed on the cover! And the other titled The Tris and Tribs of TBI! Dont know what kind of writing the ghost writers have done thus far, the rep told me that they have four chapters completed, and have yet to look at them even! I do not trust them, I have a feeling that they are steeling my ideas to make their own money off it? I did the cheap mans way to copywriting the book, put it in an envelope and mail it to yourself and do not open it,.= evidence! Don't know if that still works, doing that? I guess because I am disabled equals, they can take full advantage of me, he doesn't have the smarts enough to come after us after we make millions off his ideas> This book has the potential to become a NYT Best seller! Oh well, will have to wait and see if I am getting played as a sucker?

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  Рік тому

      You have every right to reach out to this company with your concerns and to see what progress is being made on your book.

  • @ontherocks23
    @ontherocks23 Рік тому

    Should each chapter have its own "sub-theme"?

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  Рік тому

      It depends on how you choose to organize your book. That's certainly a way to think of it!

  • @samanthastacey735
    @samanthastacey735 Рік тому

    How is this? My theme is identity, as shown through the search for Mum's birth mother, discovering Mum had a twin and reuniting them.

  • @robertthomason8905
    @robertthomason8905 5 місяців тому

    Can you be anonymous? Until death? I won't care then. 👻 Last friend 😢 but what a journey from 1968 to present. the Polaroid and details for most. Everyone remembers the pivotal moment in time.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  5 місяців тому

      Some authors write under a pen name. You can learn about the pros and cons of doing this here: knliterary.com/2019/06/07/using-a-pen-name/

  • @OzzyCoop
    @OzzyCoop 6 місяців тому

    Why don't any of these professional writers or editors on YT talk about actually writing. The process, outlining, drafting, chopping and editing. The why is useful but nobody talks about the how.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  6 місяців тому

      Thanks for commenting! We have book outline templates that can help you create you outline: resources.knliterary.com/3-Classic-Book-Outlines
      It's difficult to give general writing and editing advice because each author's project, voice, and goals are unique. This is why working one-on-one with an editor is so helpful.

  • @geronimototem
    @geronimototem 5 днів тому

    I'd ask for help, but none of you people seem to be even A LITTLE responsive.

    • @knliteraryarts
      @knliteraryarts  5 годин тому

      The fastest way to reach us is always directly through our website! knliterary.com/

    • @geronimototem
      @geronimototem 45 хвилин тому

      @@knliteraryarts And here's the generic AI response. Get the Zero sum model out of your heads.