HOW TO DEAL WITH JEALOUSY - THE ULTIMATE GUIDE

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  • Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
  • I'm sharing with you the 3 ways to move through envy and jealousy super easily, in my Ultimate Guide to dealing with Jealousy.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 44

  • @CupofEmpathy
    @CupofEmpathy  4 роки тому +2

    Let me know in the comments if you have any questions/requests for videos!

    • @widrus
      @widrus 4 роки тому

      Thank so much for your content!
      Your channel helps me a lot to train the NVC language as in your movies you often use real-life situations and observing how you go thru this process is a great example!
      I've posted it recently already under one of your other videos but maybe this way it will jump to the top of your list:
      I would love to see how you resolve a conflict in a NVC-way within a couple where one partner would like to start a family and the other one is not ready yet.

    • @CupofEmpathy
      @CupofEmpathy  4 роки тому

      @@widrus Thanks Widrus!!

    • @824tonimarie
      @824tonimarie 4 роки тому

      Thank you for all your videos, they have been extremely helpful in my life with being in touch with my feelings and needs and expressing them in a NVC way. Waiting for part 2.

    • @AnoahWang
      @AnoahWang 4 роки тому

      I need NVC for approaching a person I like

    • @philipgould9700
      @philipgould9700 4 роки тому

      i think that what you are sharing is very valuable. i want to pursue this field of study, i am reading Marshall Rosenberg, now. How can I go further.?

  • @AmyWhickerTutor
    @AmyWhickerTutor 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much for this guide to moving through jealousy. It's like wanting from a place of abundance :) We don't have to think of it from a scarcity mindset like "the more you have, the less there is for me." Because there is plenty success, and plenty joy, and I want everyone to have success and joy. 💕

  • @karenorr547
    @karenorr547 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much for this video.💗
    Could you please do one on the other kind of jealousy - the fear of loss? 🙏

  • @Joelina456
    @Joelina456 3 роки тому +1

    This video deserves 1 million views, I thank you so much from the bottom of my heart, you helped me so much!

  • @brittanyedstrom5319
    @brittanyedstrom5319 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks for the video. Definitely waiting on the video about fear of loss!

  • @AmyWhickerTutor
    @AmyWhickerTutor 4 роки тому +2

    Omg you pranked me!!!!! I totally fell for it 😂

  • @lenavoyles526
    @lenavoyles526 Рік тому

    I find the NVC needs most helpful. Also, I do not experience jealousy as fear - I usually experience it as joy - “If that person achieved this amazing thing I can too” - but if I experience it negatively then the feeling is sorrow, mourning a need that is not met and a preference that can never be fulfilled in the particular form for which I felt such fondness.

  • @RonieSaleh
    @RonieSaleh 4 роки тому

    So many questions being answered, thank you!

  • @שושנהזכרבסקי
    @שושנהזכרבסקי Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @rchris0510
    @rchris0510 4 роки тому +2

    This is so helpful!!!!

    • @CupofEmpathy
      @CupofEmpathy  4 роки тому +1

      Happy to hear! I just uploaded part 2 did you see it? ua-cam.com/video/9QH8ERFLQws/v-deo.html

  • @saramarie5744
    @saramarie5744 4 роки тому

    This calmed my heart today. It helped me create space for my partners.

  • @ellena858
    @ellena858 3 роки тому

    I like the idea of understanding that jealousy is just a sign of a need I need met. I like the idea of looking at it like if it happened for this person, and that person then I’m just next in line (as in law of attraction). Lastly, I like the thinking about if we get something too easily it’s possible to not trust it. All good ways of thinking

  • @johncabral1702
    @johncabral1702 2 роки тому

    my partner Didi and I just viewed this, and we learned a lot. John, Chicago

  • @louben5573
    @louben5573 3 роки тому

    I like this kind of video, thank you for uploading and best from Amsterdam cozy-old west side

  • @friedagijsbers7598
    @friedagijsbers7598 2 роки тому

    Thank you very much for the nice videos that you freely share on your website.
    I've been involved with NVC for some time now and a few days ago I was looking for inspiration around jealousy. I was delighted to find your videos around this emotion and even happier to discover that you also distinguish between 'jealousy of what others have' and jealousy out of 'fear that others will take something from you'.

    You announce a video "fear of others taking something from you".
    Do you still intend to make/post this?

  • @AnnaSzaucka
    @AnnaSzaucka 3 роки тому

    Thank you for you invaluable content! Do you mind sharing a link to the other video about jealousy if it's ready? I've been looking for legit content regarding jealousy in relationships. Thank you :)

    • @CupofEmpathy
      @CupofEmpathy  3 роки тому

      I will! I havent had the inspiration so far, but if you are on my email list you receive an email with each new video? You can register here: cupofempathy.com/

    • @joannadee3
      @joannadee3 9 місяців тому

      @@CupofEmpathythanks for this video! Did you ever find inspiration for the fear of loss video?

  • @MerMapp
    @MerMapp 8 місяців тому

    Hi there! Unfortunatelly, I don't see the video linked for how to move through the other kind of jealousy where you're afraid to lose something. I'm currently in a relationship where my partner is very jealous of me having male friends and is basically wanting me to not see them at all and I'm trying to find a way to help him through that.

    • @CupofEmpathy
      @CupofEmpathy  6 місяців тому

      Im sorry something came in between and i ended up never making that one, but thanks for letting me know that this might still be useful. In the meantime, there is a free webinar for love relationships coming up, and there is a Q&A where you can ask any questions. If you want you can come and i could help you a bit on the way with this. This is the link if you are interested: cup-of-empathy.webinargeek.com/nvc-for-love-relationships-6

  • @n.s.6913
    @n.s.6913 3 роки тому

    I just thought of another other idea!...A video where you translate a snippet of a popular text from jackal into giraffe! There is this widely-used self-help personality system called "the enneagram." It's very insightful but the verbiage is so jackal sometimes! I suspect is does harm as well as good. I've often thought, "I'd love to translate all of this into Giraffe language!" I am still learning NVC though and wouldn't quite yet trust myself with such an endeavor heh.

    • @CupofEmpathy
      @CupofEmpathy  3 роки тому

      I like it! I would not immediately know what snippet of text to use though..

  • @stinglegion7848
    @stinglegion7848 4 роки тому

    Wow

  • @danpenia219
    @danpenia219 4 роки тому +1

    Great because I'm jealous of your boyfriend.
    Lucky guy

  • @alforliniteaching5670
    @alforliniteaching5670 3 роки тому

    The word for the survival type of jealous y is not jealousy. English fails .