My partner and I were married for like over ten years. We got divorced, we're still best friends. I'm Aro-ish (probably cupioromantic) Ace and didn't know it when we got married. The whole time my partner just felt like they were married to a best friend rather than a romantic partner. We figured it would be best to give each other the room to be ourselves and maybe be open to relationships with other people that honored what we needed out of a relationship that we couldn't do for one another. We still hang out like once a month and text all the time. Divorce doesn't always have to be this nasty thing people make it out to be. Sometimes its the best option to let people just be free to do other more fulfilling things.
Mr. Stereotype here! I would do none of the things mentioned in this video ever! Also very nice that you mentioned being non-binery. I don't feel like a man but maybe a woman or closer to non-binery. When I see a woman I don't fall in love. I get gender dysphoria have been like that for all my life. Never have I tought that I could be trans or non-binery Untill recently I have started to understand my own gender and sexuality thru different UA-cam videos. I was not weird for not wanting a girlfriend. I was not a weirdo for day dreaming about being a woman. I was just something that had no name for me yet. No small thanks to you for teaching me stuff I didn't know I needed in my life❤
My answers: Single Minor crime Best friend Boss (my boss is cool) Musician Don't have a room mate Already divorced, but wouldn't change a thing Foursome. The more the merrier. Chapped lips. Don't like the feel of lip gloss. Cats. Breakfast. I take the bus. Morning. I don't wear bras. Why are bras so uncomfortable? Never kiss again. I don't have a mouth anyway, but my chassis has touch sensors.
You are awesome, lynn. You are to warm hearts person for anything to do with crime. You are an innocent person. Love your open-minded, sweet person. Love your channel. You are a very cuddley person
Your videos have helped me to understand "Me"- new ACE and think I'm also Demi. Sadly it feels late in my life. I have no idea what to do with this information. The late 40s, 100% disabled and always have been single ( I feel so broken and undesired)
I can relate to the lip gloss issue. I just don't enjoy wetness on my face. I will wipe my mouth after every bite of food sometimes. It just feels wrong to me.
Still figuring myself out but my answers are : - single for the rest of my life because both of my 1st cheek and lips kisses were with people I'd rather not meet again so yeah - minor crime, I don't like the idea of having a potential reminder of an ex friend/partner - depends on a stranger and a friend but ig friend's more like it - my boss would definitely feel less awkward about it than my parents and the feeling is mutual - don't really have favorites but actor ig cause the musician is a minor (if I remember correctly) - don't have any roommates so a random person it is - I'd say divorce cause it was my choice to marry them anyway - I'd rather not have any at all but if I had to choose then threesome cause less people = less of a bother - chapped lips, hate the lip gloss texture - both honestly but dog person ig cause I'm a huge dog person - lift paid, I'm a picky eater so I'm not really fond of people cooking for me - morning, I have more breathing issues by the end of the day and I'm more upbeat in the morning - don't have boobs but never wear a bra again cause it's liberating ig - don't particularly like kissing so I'd rather have my hugs for the rest of the life
My mom is also somewhere on the Ace spectrum (not certain exactly where, I should talk to her about that), and we're both autistic. I think taking my mom to a sex shop and watching her try to solve for the social program would be kind of fun? So I wouldn't be bothered, and I think she'd probably be more bothered by the "I don't know what the normal course of action is" aspect than the "being in a sex shop with her child" aspect. So yeah, easy answer. Autistic non-allosexual interactions are so often just completely different from NT allosexuals
I'm a asexual person but all my answer to all the questions was absolutely no and never and nothing but my answer about the question one was Stay single forever
I feel like being Asexual and Demisexual most of the time but this is something I’d struggle to explain to anyone who doesn’t know about Asexuality in general
Regardless of if I have a choice in the marriage or if it's arranged I'm 100% initiating the divorce if I was forced to do it and I'd rather be able to chose someone isn't going to try to contest it. Also as someone without a licence in the US I don't think it's possible to exist without jaywalking. I'd be more then willing to do it openly as a minor crime , plus I haven't really done it but my State allows you to buy substances that are outlawed by mu country so I'm pretty sure that counts as well. And as for paying for lyft/breakfast if I'm taking the bus either way and it's capped per month I'd rather they give me money they think I'll use for a lyft that I can use for breakfast.
first one defo cuddles second depends on the tattoo stranger love friends but it would be too weird with friends. id rather my boss unlessi hse your loophole musician choose divorce neither ideal i guess 3 less people too awkard to mych effort. lip gloss i dont mind either tbh breakfast. night
OK so I would make out with neither but the stranger wins out over the best friend. Although which one? I'm a BIT more demonstrative with one than the other but it's not in a romantic way. Also the sex shop, I would and have gone with the same best friend (who texted our mutual friend Dan and almost accidentally texted his Dad, who is a pastor.)
Cuddles over kisses every time.
You have the right idea
A good spoon beats a bad fork. Every. Single. TIME!!!!!
yes!
My partner and I were married for like over ten years. We got divorced, we're still best friends. I'm Aro-ish (probably cupioromantic) Ace and didn't know it when we got married. The whole time my partner just felt like they were married to a best friend rather than a romantic partner. We figured it would be best to give each other the room to be ourselves and maybe be open to relationships with other people that honored what we needed out of a relationship that we couldn't do for one another. We still hang out like once a month and text all the time. Divorce doesn't always have to be this nasty thing people make it out to be. Sometimes its the best option to let people just be free to do other more fulfilling things.
Aces: "I thought this was going to be cooking questions about spices"
I am an Ace that thought that. I literally thought the video was about cooking spices.
debunking ace stereotypes is funn :D
It really is!
Mr. Stereotype here! I would do none of the things mentioned in this video ever! Also very nice that you mentioned being non-binery. I don't feel like a man but maybe a woman or closer to non-binery. When I see a woman I don't fall in love. I get gender dysphoria have been like that for all my life. Never have I tought that I could be trans or non-binery Untill recently I have started to understand my own gender and sexuality thru different UA-cam videos. I was not weird for not wanting a girlfriend. I was not a weirdo for day dreaming about being a woman. I was just something that had no name for me yet. No small thanks to you for teaching me stuff I didn't know I needed in my life❤
Welcome to the trans club!
@@casperthefriendlydragon9324 Thanks!
My answers:
Single
Minor crime
Best friend
Boss (my boss is cool)
Musician
Don't have a room mate
Already divorced, but wouldn't change a thing
Foursome. The more the merrier.
Chapped lips. Don't like the feel of lip gloss.
Cats.
Breakfast. I take the bus.
Morning.
I don't wear bras. Why are bras so uncomfortable?
Never kiss again. I don't have a mouth anyway, but my chassis has touch sensors.
Must have cuddles. I can go without kissing.
This is definitely not the romance repulsed ace questionaire :p
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You are awesome, lynn. You are to warm hearts person for anything to do with crime. You are an innocent person. Love your open-minded, sweet person. Love your channel. You are a very cuddley person
"Would you rather be made breakfast" Your head becomes a fried egg, appendages sausages, and abdomen is now a waffle.
Hey Lynn all asexuals stands together also I am kinda questioning my gender
The asexual community is literally the best. and questioning your gender is along journey I hope it's going well
@@lynnsaga1397 it is
Your videos have helped me to understand "Me"- new ACE and think I'm also Demi. Sadly it feels late in my life. I have no idea what to do with this information. The late 40s, 100% disabled and always have been single ( I feel so broken and undesired)
I can relate to the lip gloss issue. I just don't enjoy wetness on my face. I will wipe my mouth after every bite of food sometimes. It just feels wrong to me.
I'm demisexual and I do like my spicy time online with a very few selected people.
Still figuring myself out but my answers are :
- single for the rest of my life because both of my 1st cheek and lips kisses were with people I'd rather not meet again so yeah
- minor crime, I don't like the idea of having a potential reminder of an ex friend/partner
- depends on a stranger and a friend but ig friend's more like it
- my boss would definitely feel less awkward about it than my parents and the feeling is mutual
- don't really have favorites but actor ig cause the musician is a minor (if I remember correctly)
- don't have any roommates so a random person it is
- I'd say divorce cause it was my choice to marry them anyway
- I'd rather not have any at all but if I had to choose then threesome cause less people = less of a bother
- chapped lips, hate the lip gloss texture
- both honestly but dog person ig cause I'm a huge dog person
- lift paid, I'm a picky eater so I'm not really fond of people cooking for me
- morning, I have more breathing issues by the end of the day and I'm more upbeat in the morning
- don't have boobs but never wear a bra again cause it's liberating ig
- don't particularly like kissing so I'd rather have my hugs for the rest of the life
I'm Aegorose but I really can't stand kissing 😭😭😭 but I feel too bad telling others that because no one is gonna wanna compromise on that.
My mom is also somewhere on the Ace spectrum (not certain exactly where, I should talk to her about that), and we're both autistic. I think taking my mom to a sex shop and watching her try to solve for the social program would be kind of fun? So I wouldn't be bothered, and I think she'd probably be more bothered by the "I don't know what the normal course of action is" aspect than the "being in a sex shop with her child" aspect. So yeah, easy answer.
Autistic non-allosexual interactions are so often just completely different from NT allosexuals
I'm a asexual person but all my answer to all the questions was absolutely no and never and nothing but my answer about the question one was Stay single forever
First 🎉🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
thank you for being the first!
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As another demissexual, I agree with almost everything XD
I'm OK with talking about spicy things.
I actually still like the guy I had my first kiss with, so I would definitely be ok with being in a relationship with him
Where are y'all on the aroace spectrum? I'm demiaroace and sapioaroace
Potentially greyace or just ace
and arospike
I feel like I'm definitely ace, but I'm not sure where I am on the romantic spectrum
Aegosexula and Aegoromantic, to me it is awkward to people outside the spectrum so I go by Aroace only lol
I feel like being Asexual and Demisexual most of the time but this is something I’d struggle to explain to anyone who doesn’t know about Asexuality in general
@@RadiantTales_Tv I get it😭
Regardless of if I have a choice in the marriage or if it's arranged I'm 100% initiating the divorce if I was forced to do it and I'd rather be able to chose someone isn't going to try to contest it.
Also as someone without a licence in the US I don't think it's possible to exist without jaywalking. I'd be more then willing to do it openly as a minor crime , plus I haven't really done it but my State allows you to buy substances that are outlawed by mu country so I'm pretty sure that counts as well.
And as for paying for lyft/breakfast if I'm taking the bus either way and it's capped per month I'd rather they give me money they think I'll use for a lyft that I can use for breakfast.
Can i go eat gatlic bread instead
first one defo cuddles
second depends on the tattoo
stranger love friends but it would be too weird with friends.
id rather my boss unlessi hse your loophole
musician
choose divorce
neither ideal i guess 3 less people too awkard to mych effort.
lip gloss
i dont mind either tbh
breakfast.
night
OK so I would make out with neither but the stranger wins out over the best friend. Although which one? I'm a BIT more demonstrative with one than the other but it's not in a romantic way. Also the sex shop, I would and have gone with the same best friend (who texted our mutual friend Dan and almost accidentally texted his Dad, who is a pastor.)
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