Why on earth did she want to go out at night or to a party without her husband. Nawao, these new japa people are just miss behaving, I’ve lived in the UK for years, married and gave my husband his settlement, but I cannot imagine me going out if my husband says don’t go, nawaoo . Please advise these japa people to stop disgracing our reputation in the UK
The man did the best thing he needs to do as a man,our naija and African women are throwing away there culture and identity, Why is it only our naija and black girls are always having this issue??? Why are the Indians , Malaysia's and Asians generally not having this same issues??? I love the man
I am sure you missed a video where an Indian man celebrated his daughter and welcomed her back home after her divorce. Nigerian men abuse women all in the name of culture. Compared to Nigeria, it is not easy to work 2 jobs, manage the home and still take care of the husband like he is a baby. No family would have a problem abroad if they support one another instead of bringing in the egocentric African behavior.
Even the husband forgot to understand the fact that women are not controlled nor slapped abroad. We do it in Africa but abroad it’s different. Even so This guy should have known that women have more rights abroad.
Same thing happened before in same UK. The man made the govt know her Ielts was fake. After they returned to Nigeria, the man has now relocated to Canada without the woman. Women need to learn that anger needs to be controlled and get the best out of your marriage not to plan to bring the man down after all his sacrifices.
How are we even sure that the woman went for lady's hangout? How are we sure she did not go to see a male lover? In my opinion, if it was lady's hangout, would she have been that desperate? An outing that can be so important to a woman to the extent that she disobeyed her husband has to do with another man. This is a food for thought
If the love strong on both sides, then they would be that mutual and emotional respect, but if the love is coming is only coming from the woman then it’s a problem, except the man or the woman changes. Which is our prayers
When One hears all this stories, then one knows that one is not truly in a relationship but an abusive one that abuses you emotionally and extorts from you and dose not care about how you feel. It is well God fights for the sincere ones
welcome back to Nigeria to both of them. The man do well abeg. You see all these ladies forget that they will give birth to a male son and one day that son will get married. the Law of KARMA never forgets. now that they are both in Nigeria Let her go and call Area 9 police ....Men are not stupid
This is the problem with some women. The Bible does not command a man to respect his wife, the Bible commands the man to love his wife. The Bible commands the woman to respect her husband the Quran commands the same. It amazes me when women talks about their husbands respecting them. As long as women continue to have this kind of mentality, divorce will not stop, and in most cases, when divorce happens, it is the women that suffer more.
If u dont like how Tolu speaks, man up pay the whole rent, feeding and all the bills and a woman will obey you. You cant have equal rights with paying bills and want to be a boss. Even if you leave one marriage to the other, the second marriage will still struggle if you want to control a woman and you cannot fully provide for your wife and kids. Money is power
Let's even assume it's an order. Just one question to the man responding, DF and other folks. Will you lock your girl child outside in the middle of the night because she disobeys your "orders"? OR What would you do if a man locks your girl child outside in the middle of the night because she disobeys his "orders"?
Two wrongs don’t make a right and we must all imbibe in treating others as we want to be treated. A number of men at times emasculate themselves particularly as a result of wanting so badly to be authoritative which then turns sour. We all understand that culturally Nigerian🇳🇬 men are placed higher than women but that is in great ‘9ja’-Nigeria and it’s a beautiful and admirable thing when done appropriately but here (the UK🇬🇧 and Western society generally, that hierarchy is non existent. Every one is equal. Sadly a lot of our great 9ja men possess very fragile egos (and them and their egos become highly rigid), leading to ‘YAWA’/‘WAHALA’. Some must learn to do away with steering up conflicts at any or every given opportunity because they are threatened by the success of the other or insecure as a result of upbringing. (She wants to go out, let her go, one day one day she go tire now, as my great 9jas go yan, not so? Her slapping him 1st was totally unwarranted, if you can dish it out, you must also learn to take it. I fully support the man for dragging her back to 9ja as she wanted to be sly knowing her papers too were questionable. She comes across a lil unruly albeit her spouse could have avoided locking her out of their marital home). The West is an incredibly tricky place to reside in, cross that thin line between love and hate with a tinge of lawlessness and one would find themselves in a thoroughly dreadful position. It’s better to be very level headed when approaching household or relationship matters. We all face challenges of sorts and handling them requires intelligence. It’s a fascinating but truly sad story just as fascinating as the dynamics between men and women in romantic💕 ❤️🔥relationships. Thanks for sharing Daddy Freeze. Hope my comment is helpful✨💋😘Xx
A lot of ladies are ungrateful even when you want to assist it turn back at you. Do Good anyway as the energy anyone gives out is what you receive. Guys should live their lives for themselves. You first.
When you cannot run for each other what do you do? When you do not even know what the other persons is doing, what do you do? Abeg there is no relationship for that one. Husband go dey America, you do not even who he is staying with or where he is staying, na marriage be that?
The Leopard uses it spot to deceive it's pray. It's a Zulu proverb that says Ingwe idla ngamabala. Most women shows good works before marriage, submissive until they have gotten what they want, true colours come out.
What about a woman who was practicing her culture and the Bible here and the man still messed up? She would cook before going to night after all the days stress for the man to come in and find food at the end of the day all that submission was never appreciated. Abegi Woman get him own man get him own. If you are lucky to find a good one thank God and maintain the relationship well
Matured minds can understand....I see. Thanks for pointing that out. Everything is wrong with being a feminist... because feminism card gets played as long as it favors whomever is talking about it.@@kind2423
@@kind2423Matured minds can understand...nice one. Everything is wrong with being a feminist. They claim equality as long as its beneficial to them. Just in case your matured mind forgot.... This is my opinion as well. Thanks
If the love strong on both sides, then they would be that mutual and emotional respect, but if the love is coming is only coming from the woman then it’s a problem, except the man or the woman changes. Which is our prayers
Two wrongs don’t make a right and we must all imbibe in treating others as we want to be treated. A number of men at times emasculate themselves particularly as a result of wanting so badly to be authoritative which then turns sour. We all understand that culturally Nigerian🇳🇬 men are placed higher than women but that is in great 9ja-Nigeria and it’s a beautiful and admirable thing when done appropriately but here (the UK🇬🇧 and Western society generally), that hierarchy is non existent. Every one is equal. Sadly a lot of our great 9ja men possess very fragile egos (and them and their egos become highly rigid), leading to ‘YAWA’/‘WAHALA’. Some must learn to do away with steering up conflicts at any or every given opportunity because they are threatened by the success of the other or insecure as a result of upbringing. (She wants to go out, let her go, one day one day she go tire now, as my great 9jas go yan, not so? Her slapping him 1st was totally unwarranted, if you can dish it out, you must also learn to take it. I fully support the man for dragging her back to 9ja as she wanted to be sly knowing her papers too were questionable. She comes across a lil unruly albeit her spouse could have avoided locking her out of their marital home). The West is an incredibly tricky place to reside in, cross that thin line between love and hate with a tinge of lawlessness and one would find themselves in a thoroughly dreadful position. It’s better to be very level headed when approaching household/relationships matters. We all face challenges of sorts and handling them requires intelligence. It’s a fascinating but truly sad story just as fascinating as the dynamics between men and women in romantic💕 ❤️🔥relationships. Thanks for sharing Daddy Freeze. Hope my comment is helpful✨💋😘Xx
What about a woman who was practicing her culture and the Bible here and the man still messed up? She would cook before going to night after all the days stress for the man to come in and find food at the end of the day all that submission was never appreciated. Abegi Woman get him own man get him own. If you are lucky to find a good one thank God and maintain the relationship well
If u disagree with western values dont go there
Exactly it’s simple
Why on earth did she want to go out at night or to a party without her husband. Nawao, these new japa people are just miss behaving, I’ve lived in the UK for years, married and gave my husband his settlement, but I cannot imagine me going out if my husband says don’t go, nawaoo . Please advise these japa people to stop disgracing our reputation in the UK
Let us move from slave and master mentality.
The husband was a bit oppressive by locking out the wife in the cold at 4 am , highly unacceptable 😮.
The man did the best thing he needs to do as a man,our naija and African women are throwing away there culture and identity, Why is it only our naija and black girls are always having this issue??? Why are the Indians , Malaysia's and Asians generally not having this same issues???
I love the man
How would u know if they do?? You hear about Nigeria's cos u are Nigerian..
I am sure you missed a video where an Indian man celebrated his daughter and welcomed her back home after her divorce. Nigerian men abuse women all in the name of culture. Compared to Nigeria, it is not easy to work 2 jobs, manage the home and still take care of the husband like he is a baby. No family would have a problem abroad if they support one another instead of bringing in the egocentric African behavior.
The woman Dey whine herself, did she forget her secrets 😂😂😂😂😂welcome back to them…smh
Slavery and Respect is two different things
Even the husband forgot to understand the fact that women are not controlled nor slapped abroad. We do it in Africa but abroad it’s different. Even so This guy should have known that women have more rights abroad.
Africa or abroad, there is no need to slap someone in marriage .
I really learnt from your program reason I can never travel abroad with any woman.
That man did well 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 now that’s a real African brother 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Omo yeee! This gist na waooo!! It get as e be ooo!! Chaii instant Kama
Same thing happened before in same UK. The man made the govt know her Ielts was fake. After they returned to Nigeria, the man has now relocated to Canada without the woman. Women need to learn that anger needs to be controlled and get the best out of your marriage not to plan to bring the man down after all his sacrifices.
How are we even sure that the woman went for lady's hangout? How are we sure she did not go to see a male lover? In my opinion, if it was lady's hangout, would she have been that desperate? An outing that can be so important to a woman to the extent that she disobeyed her husband has to do with another man. This is a food for thought
DF and stockfish. I think this is the 2nd or 3rd time he is talking stockfish. 😄
That is bad behavior to leave your man at home and go out and come back at 4am.
That’s not how a Godly woman should behave
The lady just gave herself to the devil to waste their precious opportunities.
Abroad has entered the woman’s head she’s talking like 🎉
DADDY FREEZ YOU ARE THE LAST VOICE FOR THE MEN
If the love strong on both sides, then they would be that mutual and emotional respect, but if the love is coming is only coming from the woman then it’s a problem, except the man or the woman changes.
Which is our prayers
An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth. Live by the sword and die by the sword.
When One hears all this stories, then one knows that one is not truly in a relationship but an abusive one that abuses you emotionally and extorts from you and dose not care about how you feel.
It is well
God fights for the sincere ones
welcome back to Nigeria to both of them. The man do well abeg. You see all these ladies forget that they will give birth to a male son and one day that son will get married. the Law of KARMA never forgets. now that they are both in Nigeria Let her go and call Area 9 police ....Men are not stupid
But there is still so much strong love, Hmmmmm but my ones heart is getting hardened now
There is so much abuse of power in Nigeria culture and that makes a lot of men very antagonistic
This is the problem with some women. The Bible does not command a man to respect his wife, the Bible commands the man to love his wife. The Bible commands the woman to respect her husband the Quran commands the same. It amazes me when women talks about their husbands respecting them. As long as women continue to have this kind of mentality, divorce will not stop, and in most cases, when divorce happens, it is the women that suffer more.
Women if you like keep listening to people like Tolu.
Let them continue listening to women like Tolu, their eyes will soon clear.
If you don’t like the way Tolu speaks you can’t move abroad. Plenty of Tolu’s everywhere ☺️
Definitely
If u dont like how Tolu speaks, man up pay the whole rent, feeding and all the bills and a woman will obey you. You cant have equal rights with paying bills and want to be a boss. Even if you leave one marriage to the other, the second marriage will still struggle if you want to control a woman and you cannot fully provide for your wife and kids. Money is power
walahi talahi sumobiliahi yasin olorun oba gbo😂😂😂
Let's even assume it's an order.
Just one question to the man responding, DF and other folks.
Will you lock your girl child outside in the middle of the night because she disobeys your "orders"?
OR
What would you do if a man locks your girl child outside in the middle of the night because she disobeys his "orders"?
is either Tolu is not married or she is not happy where she is. am a woman am not proud of her atall.
Two wrongs don’t make a right and we must all imbibe in treating others as we want to be treated. A number of men at times emasculate themselves particularly as a result of wanting so badly to be authoritative which then turns sour. We all understand that culturally Nigerian🇳🇬 men are placed higher than women but that is in great ‘9ja’-Nigeria and it’s a beautiful and admirable thing when done appropriately but here (the UK🇬🇧 and Western society generally, that hierarchy is non existent. Every one is equal.
Sadly a lot of our great 9ja men possess very fragile egos (and them and their egos become highly rigid), leading to ‘YAWA’/‘WAHALA’. Some must learn to do away with steering up conflicts at any or every given opportunity because they are threatened by the success of the other or insecure as a result of upbringing. (She wants to go out, let her go, one day one day she go tire now, as my great 9jas go yan, not so? Her slapping him 1st was totally unwarranted, if you can dish it out, you must also learn to take it. I fully support the man for dragging her back to 9ja as she wanted to be sly knowing her papers too were questionable. She comes across a lil unruly albeit her spouse could have avoided locking her out of their marital home).
The West is an incredibly tricky place to reside in, cross that thin line between love and hate with a tinge of lawlessness and one would find themselves in a thoroughly dreadful position. It’s better to be very level headed when approaching household or relationship matters. We all face challenges of sorts and handling them requires intelligence.
It’s a fascinating but truly sad story just as fascinating as the dynamics between men and women in romantic💕 ❤️🔥relationships.
Thanks for sharing Daddy Freeze. Hope my comment is helpful✨💋😘Xx
Just leave Tolu alone.If it works for her and hubby fine.A man is a man.And the circumstances can never be same no matter how we all try to paint it.
For real you can’t blame the man the woman is at fault.
A lot of ladies are ungrateful even when you want to assist it turn back at you. Do Good anyway as the energy anyone gives out is what you receive. Guys should live their lives for themselves. You first.
That is rubbish now. That is no relationship
That lady is lying and she will be a bad wife if she is not married
When you cannot run for each other what do you do? When you do not even know what the other persons is doing, what do you do? Abeg there is no relationship for that one.
Husband go dey America, you do not even who he is staying with or where he is staying, na marriage be that?
I do not believe she is on NMC register. She could have come in as carer but say she did osce and all. Na lie
The wife is at fault.😅
Do they have kids?
Tolu is obviously a bad wife. I say so from what she is saying in this discussion..
The Leopard uses it spot to deceive it's pray. It's a Zulu proverb that says Ingwe idla ngamabala. Most women shows good works before marriage, submissive until they have gotten what they want, true colours come out.
Muslim culture is more oppressive thn ours.Tolu
Still their ladies doesn't behave like ours.
Tolu is a single Mother
A.k.a Andrew 😂
Madam get inside the house you people are doing too much in Europe I pity woman living in Europe
What about a woman who was practicing her culture and the Bible here and the man still messed up?
She would cook before going to night after all the days stress for the man to come in and find food at the end of the day all that submission was never appreciated. Abegi
Woman get him own man get him own.
If you are lucky to find a good one thank God and maintain the relationship well
Tolu..Tolu..Tolu...
That’s why Tolu is married to a white man .
Tolu...you very much sound like a full time feminist. You are very combative and defensive when asked a question.
What’s wrong with being a feminist? She’s not combative for having an opinion. Mature minds can understand
Matured minds can understand....I see. Thanks for pointing that out. Everything is wrong with being a feminist... because feminism card gets played as long as it favors whomever is talking about it.@@kind2423
@@kind2423Matured minds can understand...nice one. Everything is wrong with being a feminist. They claim equality as long as its beneficial to them. Just in case your matured mind forgot.... This is my opinion as well. Thanks
@@kind2423Everything is wrong about being a feminist...Since you're the matured one I thought that was easy to know. Unless you are one yourself.
DF, your program is educating and really make sense. Hoping to see you in person someday. Pls send me your account number
If the love strong on both sides, then they would be that mutual and emotional respect, but if the love is coming is only coming from the woman then it’s a problem, except the man or the woman changes.
Which is our prayers
Two wrongs don’t make a right and we must all imbibe in treating others as we want to be treated. A number of men at times emasculate themselves particularly as a result of wanting so badly to be authoritative which then turns sour. We all understand that culturally Nigerian🇳🇬 men are placed higher than women but that is in great 9ja-Nigeria and it’s a beautiful and admirable thing when done appropriately but here (the UK🇬🇧 and Western society generally), that hierarchy is non existent. Every one is equal. Sadly a lot of our great 9ja men possess very fragile egos (and them and their egos become highly rigid), leading to ‘YAWA’/‘WAHALA’. Some must learn to do away with steering up conflicts at any or every given opportunity because they are threatened by the success of the other or insecure as a result of upbringing. (She wants to go out, let her go, one day one day she go tire now, as my great 9jas go yan, not so? Her slapping him 1st was totally unwarranted, if you can dish it out, you must also learn to take it. I fully support the man for dragging her back to 9ja as she wanted to be sly knowing her papers too were questionable. She comes across a lil unruly albeit her spouse could have avoided locking her out of their marital home).
The West is an incredibly tricky place to reside in, cross that thin line between love and hate with a tinge of lawlessness and one would find themselves in a thoroughly dreadful position. It’s better to be very level headed when approaching household/relationships matters. We all face challenges of sorts and handling them requires intelligence.
It’s a fascinating but truly sad story just as fascinating as the dynamics between men and women in romantic💕 ❤️🔥relationships.
Thanks for sharing Daddy Freeze. Hope my comment is helpful✨💋😘Xx
What about a woman who was practicing her culture and the Bible here and the man still messed up?
She would cook before going to night after all the days stress for the man to come in and find food at the end of the day all that submission was never appreciated. Abegi
Woman get him own man get him own.
If you are lucky to find a good one thank God and maintain the relationship well