***** finally someone realistic ! I think that the bullshit was made because they didn't want people to say well if I'm ugly and ugly means fail at pick up then fuck it I'll go do something else ! but no instead maybe they lied and made up that bullshit to keep everyone interested in pick up so they can attend seminars and make money off of them
@@Black-Circle One can be handsome and have a weak jawline ( and it's not really the case for him ). I have a "kind of" stronger jawline and i'm still ugly or at best average ( without mentionning my receiding hairline ).
***** absolutely fucking true ! he was being realistic and cutting off the crap ! finaly some honest rsd coach ! if you're too stupid to think that an ugly dude has the chance of picking up hot babes then how the fuck do you not accept to pick up ugly girls ? because they're ugly !!! so basically looks matter!
I thought this comment was a joke. Some of biggest slobs ( not attractive face, gut, broke too ) I've known completely kill it with women . When he approaches they look like they to walk away, but within a minute he has them hooked, cause he practically thinks he's a god among men and women love that shit . Guys don't let the OPs failure in life persuade you from bad experiences to thinking looks are everything. The fact you have limiting beliefs alone already shows why you arnt having success with women. I've seen shit that would make your head spin . Good Luck.
bruno dee Do you think Owen Cook is a good looking guy? Julien? Not exactly what most people consider attractive or handsome. Initially looks may matter, but I know some broke and even homely guys that have gorgeous wives and girlfriends.
bruno dee Oh is that what girlfriends "implies" LOL ...How many fucking videos do you need to watch of Owen, Julien, Todd, simple pick up dressed in roller skates and Batman costumes, even homely guys getting women? If you think it's all smoke and mirrors, you're limiting yourself. Believe what you want, but you're wrong.
if you buy into everything you see on youtube, you sir have revealed yourself as an idiot. pickup works but not the way it is sold, marketed, and charged thousands of dollars.rsd just finally acknowledged that looks matter. DUh!
Okay Bruno...whatever you say. None of it is real. They are all paid actors. No one got laid or hurt in the making of these videos.. ...It's all fake Bruno...Duly noted.
trueshadow64 I go for average to unattractive girls according to people and I still get called ugly a girl just called me really ugly and she's unattractive to most people I liked her she rejected me I have good game game doesn't mean shit
LOL its simple really, dont need to complicate things Girls are attracted to value - looks/height offers value - alpha male dominant positive personality also attracts girls + social proof also offers value What girls says and what she emotionally reacts to is two different things
Kimbo Youwin You can be dominant, alpha and confident but if you are ugly it will diminish it all away. Women want good looking men, you can be quiet shy introvert and a good looking man you will attract more women, than a loud average looking, dominant alpha male. My brother is a straight up introvert, very shy, and sometimes he can be a little beta, but his good looks brings in super hot women. In reality, this whole personality attracts women is bullshit, personality keeps women, but it does not attract women. Same thing for us men, women’s good looks attracts us, her personality keeps us.
Ugly with confidence: “Where the hell does he got that attitude??? He’s got no fucking way to back it up!!!” Handsome with confidence: “OMG!!! He’s so fucking badass and alpha!!!” Ugly without confidence: “Eeeewww, such a creep. I felt so disgusted when he asked me for directions!!! At least he can disappear soon!!! Handsome without confidence: “OMG!!! He’s like super shy!!! It’s so cute!!!” Ugly ladies man: “Does that women have super low self esteem or something!!! Why the hell do they allow him to even touch them???!!! I bet they are just whites he hired!!!” Handsome ladies man: “Well offcourse!!! He’s a total stud!!! I bet he’s such a heartbreaker!!! But I’ll definitely make him settle down!!!” Ugly virgin: “Well obviously, duh!!! He better gets used to be like that!!! It’s so creepy that he even thinks about touching me!!!” Handsome virgin: “OMG that is so fucking cute!!! He’s saving himself for someone special!!! I want to be his first!!!”
Looks do matter...physical attraction is the first gate to pass. If you're not a physically attractive person, you have to compensate somewhere else...its a matter of how motivated you are.to compete for the higher quality mates.
Captain Krieg but they're not the ones that are going to sleep with themselves, women are. I've seen dudes I thought looked gremlins, but female companions I was with said he was handsome. You may think you're ugly , doesn't mean she does
I was feeling suicidal before watching this, (not to do with my looks or women, just generally) but this video made me feel a bit better. It's realistic and honest, but with actionable steps rather than just being depressing and negative. I get a good vibe from him, he is sensitive to people's feelings whilst remaining objective and straightforward and delivering with a positive demeanour. Really really great video.
My man, thank you for finally admitting this. So many pua's talking about ''presence'' and ''intent'' and all of that bs yet disregarding the LARGEST factor in attraction.
Things are just way easier if you are good looking. I've been doing Door2Door sales and the most beautiful girls (or guys) didn't even have to say a lot to sell while the less good looking people really had to work on their communication skills.
From my own observations, the better you look, the less work you have to put in. Also, wearing expensive clothes makes you more appealing to older women; not so much for younger ones.
The older ones that are closer to hit the wall or have already hit the wall are the ones impressed with man dressing nicer ect, For when he's not that good looking. And the guys that dress nice but not so good looking odds are will get cheated on if she is average or above average looks, if she's average looks and he is average looks and dressed nice he might have a chance of not being cheated on for when he gets the girl. If he's anything less than average looks I won't be shocked if he gets cheated on by the women average looks or above average looks. And that because I'm a purple pill man a purple pill man knows women could cheat on him but want a relationship still despite the risk and Hope's not to be cheated on. I'm also a black pill man that knows women are just as shallow as men even though women lie to others and themselves by saying personality is more important than looks.
Looks play a role when seducing girls. Look's don't matter: This belief helps you to start taking action, when you are a beginner - it means "looks won't stop you!". When you, however, just run arround like a headless chicken approaching hot, dressed up girls, looking like shit and thinking "looks don't matter" "You are cute, I want to meet you /Who are you?" you will get frustration and pain. As Alex said, grooming is really importat, but what is also important is to adjust your game to your looks -> focus more getting through the resistance, gaming "maybe" girls.
Deepak Wayne - hidden cam pickup I think in that case, the bigger problem is that they "run around like a headless chicken" with bad game -> that results in frustration and pain. Getting in shape and putting on better clothes works indirectly -> guy feels better about himself and starts to act more confident. But it's not the looks on its own. That's my view on this.
Nah, looks are a direct influence, not indirect. I practiced game for over 15 years, going out every weekend, reading anything I could get my hands on, and deluding myself into believing my looks didn't stop me, but still failed miserably. Only after dramatically fixing my looks did I start getting women. Just as an experiment, I did everything the PUAs say NOT to do, yet _STILL_ had much better results than before. Looks are vitally important, and people are doing real damage by claiming otherwise.
Anony Mous well said. i love learning and experiments. i found an epic video to share if you want, also did my own experiments, and am interested in videos/experiments you can talk of or share.
WayneDatingLifestyle - hidden cam pickup if you hit on every hot girl you see as a 3 or 4/10 guy it only takes one to say yes and you have a smoking hot girlfriend if you're emotionally strong it's really just that easy.
Fina-fucking-lly someone states the truth. Sick of all these simple pickup and other pick up guys selling the idea that "Anyone can pick up girls" are so full of shit. Hit the head of the nail with this one Alex.
+Brett Ross Anyone can pick up girls if they understand the difference between looking attractive and being attractive. Good looking guys are as much losers with women as are ugly guys. It's about approach, not genetics.
rsd and simple pick up sell the idea that you can get girls and anyone can get girls but that requires a lot of work if you wan to hit a high level of consistency which means constantly going out and applying their teachings and then if you stop going out then you lose the grove so if your ugly yes you can get women attractive women I personally know 3 ppl who are ugly and are able to get hot chics to date them but obviously its harder for them compare to me . Alex is right about a a lot of things dressing up grooming yourself those are all details that rsd overlooks sometimes . I see it in a way of an rpg game if your a level 10 warrior with shitty armor and weapons how are you going to defeat and tame the wild beast whose at level 70? Most women even the hottest ones they are socially in level 70 and when they see a level 10 chump approach them they will reject him even if it is a good looking guy. Now does the average person have enough time to go out like pretty much everyday and do approaches? no they dont and thats the truth But...I still like seeing their seminars and will probably go to a hot seat and maybe even a bootcamp.. in the end you leanr a lot from approaching women so ya thats how I feel about pick up at this moment .
Good looking is just one part of being attractive, not the whole thing. Saying it’s does not matter is just as false as it’s the only thing that matter.
This guy speaks the truth. I can't believe some of u r actually saying "but I know so and so who isn't good looking and gets girls." Yeah but what if that same guy was to take care of himself, he would be a force to be reckoned with. Think big not small.
Долг lover If ur short like i am (5'9"), then u have to be muscular to make up 4 lack of height. I c short buff men with beautiful women all the time in Los Angeles
@@absalom0412 if you're super buff but short it might make you look like you're overcompensating. I doubt that's attractive to women. Also, Face > Body
The big reason looks matter, is because they are a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself. Your looks (grooming/hygiene) show self-respect or a lack of self-respect. If you don't brush your teeth enough, you don't wash your hair, you smell, etc, then you are broadcasting to the world, not only to women, that you don't respect yourself. If you don't go to the gym/workout in some form, and eat crap, you disrepect your body, have no self-control, your self-worth value is out of whack, therefore no wonder women don't respond to that, why should they? So take care of yourself for YOURSELF. Get some self-worth/self-respect. That's what will translate into confidence. Of course, then you have guys (me included) that don't realize when something is off, like sense of style or haircut because we don't really know what looks best so that's when a coach or sytlist is really needed, which is really important to take care of. And I believe that women primping for hours before going to the clubs, like Alex said, is not only for fun, but it's also because they are conditioned to believe that their looks are one of their most valuable traits, so they need to make the most of them, so beyond fun, it's simply a necessity for them. And thanks Alex, i live in Vegas, and I really couldn't figure out where all the women were in the daytime. I have a hell of a time trying to find them in order to do daygame. So you're saying they go out shopping at 8am in the morning???
Dark Phoenix yea but you can dress nicely well groomed and have good hygiene but that hasn't helped me and probably others too I know from a man's point of view looks matter too, to a degree but this guy dosent really give any ideas of improving your chances
Dark Phoenix You can groom all you want, but if you do not have good genes it is all for nothing. You have to be physically good looking man to attract females. Why you think women think that Jason Mamoa is hot? He looks scruffy, like he does not shower, but he has the height and masculine good looks that women love. This grooming thing is gay.
The big reason looks matter, is because( delete long winded platitudes ) because it's an indication of good genetics and in the reproduction game genetics is king .
Nah, My grandma said the same thing. I don't care how my hair looks as long as it's not itchy and dirty, because I could have a hairstyle no ones seen, but women still won't give me a second look. Guess what though. The more I don't care about others opinions the more the women approach me. I could have a dirty jacket on and they still come. Y'all see it as "oh he doesn't care about himself," but I see it as not caring what others think. Always gonna be haters and fans.
***** Good video man, also, the problem is tho, and this was me before, i was getting my confidence from materialistic things, such as a good watch, the nice shirt and the perfect hair gel, rather im still learning to gain this value and confidence from other things, other life qualities, ofcoarse groom yourself for your best, but when i am out and about there is always people with better style than you, but thats were the you are enough bit shines i quess but thanks Alex ;)
Looks do matter to women but it's not as important as a man's wealth or game. Believe me a women will leave you if you don't provider her with security or have game despite your good looks. Look at Donald Trump, Biggie, Harvey Weinstein, Flava Flav, Jermaine Dupri etc all these guys aren't the best looking but still get the best looking girls. Looks only matter to a woman when she's young but when she's older or has kids she wants a man that can provide. Also no woman will respect a good looking guy that has no charm or is a Beta Male.
THIS! Thank you Nowadays a bunch of incels cry about how they lost the genetic race due to their lack of facial attractiveness, people need to understand that women go ONLY for looks upto a certain age...below 25..and after that they judge you by the money you have..
You risk attracting gold diggers if you're rich and why would you want to attract women who are not in their prime? (they will only get worse with age). Also the sex after marriage is also declining studies show. Melania doesnt love Trump anymore if you watch some clip of them. Guess why shes staying with him? Money. This is pretty mild info to be honest. Head over to LMSFACE to fully swallow the blackpill.
How to get laid if your short and ugly (1) Maximise your appearance (workout, clean facial skin, groomed) (2) Good Fashion (3) Learn Game (4) Social Proof ( be the popular fun guys with tons of friends that are girls) (5) Be very good at something (6) Learn comedy (7) Get sleeves tattoos
Ey, at 6:55 I see a woman in the background that got approached by one of your students ... Just kidding XD. Seriously now, you are an inspiration for me.
This was good. Hey alex what are some tips for gym I've just started and Im going 3 days a week 5x5 dead-lift, military press, bench, squats and some accessory. Are there any changes I should make?
Bc it's the main purpose of gender. We try to find someone sexually n emotionally appealing with good hygiene n decency. Why can't we accept that fact. Women just like to put themselves on a pedestal (some). Guys are like that too hahaha
Daniel Jones Yet often the community tries to downplay looks to the point of them being straight up dishonest. Nobody ever dares to directly say "Looks do matter. Point blank.". From other pickup guys (even RSD) you often get the sense that you can make up for everything, if your game is just good enough. But that's bullshit. That's the point Alex was making.
Daniel Jones I gree with you, but I do think Tyler realised this. Tyler always said that you should take care of yourself. Saying looks don't matter is to show all these ''ugly people'' that you can get out of that negative thought loop that being ugly is equal to no success with women.
Where can you really meet a style-savy-dude/girl? A style consultant in stockholm/uppsala seems to be really expensive for a student like myself. Got any advice alex? :)
I'm a 5'9", 350 lb 24 year old in a ~200k person city in the American South. I've lost about 90 lb since January and at this rate, I'll have my goal body in about 3 years (after skin surgeries and whatnot). However, with my (compression) clothes on, I'll look normal in about 18 months to the person on the street, and at that point my looks won't be an excuse. When sexy-times come I'll just keep a shirt on or something, I'll figure it out. My grooming is fine, and I'm a friendly guy. I've been working on being more grounded and masculine to balance myself out. How should I approach my game throughout the next 18 months while still being a fat-fuck, knowing that I'm progressing toward my goal each day? What beliefs, gaming styles, strategies, etc. should I internalize/employ to obtain some level of success?
What I think you should address is that your FACE matters too. People think no matter how ugly they are, once you work out and keep yourself groomed that would change the fact that you are ugly. Bullshit. If you are ugly to women you will still be ugly no matter how much you groom and work out.
Before this video i saw this video that the guy was saying it doesnt matter how you look. He said if you use his secrets you wil get any girl you want. Im thinking to myself "why would you want to be ugly or think this mess?" i know for a fact that women like a good looking guy just as much as a guy likes a hot chic, they really do and men should care enough to bathe and do something for themselves so they can at least look decent.
Do you have bootcamps in Perth, WA? Most i ever known of are UK or USA good to hear an Aussie accent... In regards to looks... i think when they say looks don't matter they mean being a 'pretty boi' and since evolutionary women respond to behavioral cues in men when it comes to attraction it doesn't matter. i do agree you have to be presentable tho... what is your take on this?
Kinda old but... Compliments are shallow shit, if it doesn't get you laid, then it's BS. For example : "awww you're so nice", sounds good, but it means she will never fuck yah.
Looks do matter. I dress well, always had my own trendy style. I've had girls call me cute and goodlooking back when i was in my early 20's. I'm 30 now and still slim and i'm 5'8 tall. I think i'm a goodlooking guy, nothing great but i look good. So i like me and i'm fun and confident but girls dont' always like me looks wise who i approach in clubs. So even though i'm probably to others average looking and dresses cool i don't get girls so easy as a guy who girls find attractive. A friend of mine used to get girls easy in clubs from just looking at them. I didn't think he was that much better looking than me. But as i said, i like how i look. But from the girls prospective, they dont find me that great to where the girls are really into me. But then there are other guys who arent as goodlooking as me in my eyes or dont dress well. They just dress like the average guy, no style. But they have girls - prob social circle. I suppose the point is - i dress well and have had compliments and i like how i look - but even with all this - its not easy esp on dating apps/sites.
Ok now this has become nuisance. For years pick up coaches have tried to convince us that looks don't matter, now all of a sudden they do. Make up your mind
The main thing I've learnt to increase your chances of pulling girls is do tons of approaches. If you're willing to go through lots of No's then you'll yet a yes in there somewhere.
awesome video..u explained the nuances of game...equilibrium is key if your ugly u must be well groomed..if your good looking and in good shape u need to be goof your stupid to make the girls feel comfortable
I think the purpose of the phrase "looks don't matter" is to force unconfident people to take action and start approaching girls. But some guys just take this too literally. They don't take care of themselves and just learn game because it's easier to just learn techniques than to actually change who you are. I think game is not only about picking up chicks but also improving every aspect of your life and that includes the way you look. I'm only 5'6", average looking and I have an ugly 1 inch scar on the right side of my face but I still got girls (some of them were fucking hot). I also go to the gym, read books, dress well, have humor and interesting hobbies, smart, and I practice game. Thanks to you and rsd.
David Edwards so white do white women marry within their own race 93% of the time i dont think thats by accident so i think its safe to say that race matters.
I havent done any cold aproach before, but its literally impossible for me to get a reply out of any woman, and I mean ANY woman in the whole world on any dating site.At this point I,m pretty confident my looks are the culprit. I think my dress and grooming are fine in my profile pics, but women still seem to think I am infected with black death or something. Do you really believe that anything you say to a woman in a 5 minute pickup session on the street is gonna overcome that kind of hardcore aversion that they show to ugly men on dating sites?
4 Week Natural But I dont get why no women reply to me.Obviously theyre put off by the way I look. So wether i believe its my looks or not, theyre still not gonna like me.
***** BTW I never used to think I was ugly or anything, but I still couldn't get any, and it turns out after a lot of years it was my looks at fault, because I can use some other guys picture and get a phone number in like 5 minutes.
The belief you're setting man is "its literally impossible for me to get a reply out of any women" and "women don't like me because of my looks". Beliefs are EVERYTHING mate. Ask yourself the hard questions and give yourself honest answers and change your beliefs to ones you prefer. And the first belief you should have and KNOW is "There is no reason why I'm not enough."
4 Week Natural Well as far as online goes, I asked myself the question "is there anything else I can do" and the answer was "no".How long to you bash your head against a wall before you realize that the wall is not moving? Is it just your belief that the wall is not moving, or is it just a reality that the wall is stronger than your skull? If I believe the wall will break, will it actually change the dynamics of the situation? no it wont. Having said that perhaps you can pick up in person, just that its a real problem to do it that way for some personality types.Women are much more responsive in real life.They are just brain dead online....
I know I’m not good looking but my personal hygiene from butthole to teeth body hair haircut ear and nose hair feet and toe nail and wardrobe always on point
Hehe...love it....looks don't matter..if u have power fame or money...you get the girls...deep down women on want money...if u are good looking and broke u have NO CHANCE BRO
Im a good looking guy but one thing i dont have is conversation skills and even when a girl goes out of her way and APPROACHS ME her self i still end up fucking it up because I have no idea how to hold a convo. still would choose good looks over game skills because with game I can improve but with looks, if your ugly, you are ugly and you cant change that.
U dont have to be beautiful. But either ur a cute dude in a girls eyes, or ur very masculine alpha. So those two options if you are not very good looking. Good luck guys!!
looks maxing stylish clothing haircut which suits you dental work white straight teeth hit gym get an athletic physique low body fat eat healthy alot of greens for glowing skin you can go from a 3 too a 6
Yes. Im just shy of 5'9 and i even have a little more to grow (Im 19 but i started growing about 2 years later than everyone else so doctors say that i have to grow until 20 - 21 years old). I have a decent face (atleast according to everybody, including the internet who once gave my face and 8 out of 10 but i will NEVER accept that) and a relatively fit body with a 6 pack... im still single 😂😂😂 So yes, height IS very important for men. I mean ik i never tried to flirt with a woman or ask her out or give her compliments but ive personally seen how girls ask men out on youtube and on vlogs and even in RL once! Plus women say that they give signals that they like the man and i havent seen much recently. Women are being nice to me and are friendly and giggly and shit just because they dont want to be mean, just like men do. I mean, i hope i will grow to atleast 5'10 until i stop growing and i am possitive that sports are helping me. For the last year i grew with over an inch so yeah, with me the best of luck and i also wish you the best of luck 😊😊😊
Finally someone cutting through the bullshit.
***** finally someone realistic ! I think that the bullshit was made because they didn't want people to say well if I'm ugly and ugly means fail at pick up then fuck it I'll go do something else ! but no instead maybe they lied and made up that bullshit to keep everyone interested in pick up so they can attend seminars and make money off of them
+Necrosis Pain agree completely
EXACLY even tho men are more shallow than women , men are still the one who bitch and moan about shallowness
sarah ibrahim Not at all,opposite is the truth.
@@Slavenius92 sex occurs in both genders. No one is more shallow than the other lol
A handsome guy explaining that looks matters ??? .... well that's great !
@@Black-Circle One can be handsome and have a weak jawline ( and it's not really the case for him ). I have a "kind of" stronger jawline and i'm still ugly or at best average ( without mentionning my receiding hairline ).
@diztiinct this guy is Good looking but Tusk is extremley handsome
@@Black-Circle You must be kidding. The upper half of his face is Pierce Brosnan.
Wtf is the point of your comment? You want him to just make shit up just to stroke your ego??
There's no reason you're not enough....except this, and that and this and that. lol
DDoms99 There's NO reason! None! lol hurr durr
***** I'm just fuckin around brah.. making fun of his mantra.. obviously takes more than only confidence to pull hotties.
***** absolutely fucking true ! he was being realistic and cutting off the crap !
finaly some honest rsd coach !
if you're too stupid to think that an ugly dude has the chance of picking up hot babes then how the fuck do you not accept to pick up ugly girls ? because they're ugly !!! so basically looks matter!
@@Scarface1337_ Love your handle..lmao
LOOKS ARE EVERYTHING
DON'T EVEN TRY IF YOU'RE UGLY
if your born ugly, try to looksmaxx. i did. if in vain, GO ER.
psl vibes, enjoy loneliness and wanks
psl vibes, enjoy loneliness and wanks
I thought this comment was a joke. Some of biggest slobs ( not attractive face, gut, broke too ) I've known completely kill it with women . When he approaches they look like they to walk away, but within a minute he has them hooked, cause he practically thinks he's a god among men and women love that shit .
Guys don't let the OPs failure in life persuade you from bad experiences to thinking looks are everything. The fact you have limiting beliefs alone already shows why you arnt having success with women. I've seen shit that would make your head spin . Good Luck.
Kevin a piece of what? gun?
The truth is finally out. Usually you get: Looks don't matter, just buy our awesome magic pill product.
bruno dee Do you think Owen Cook is a good looking guy? Julien? Not exactly what most people consider attractive or handsome. Initially looks may matter, but I know some broke and even homely guys that have gorgeous wives and girlfriends.
bruno dee Oh is that what girlfriends "implies" LOL ...How many fucking videos do you need to watch of Owen, Julien, Todd, simple pick up dressed in roller skates and Batman costumes, even homely guys getting women? If you think it's all smoke and mirrors, you're limiting yourself. Believe what you want, but you're wrong.
if you buy into everything you see on youtube, you sir have revealed yourself as an idiot.
pickup works but not the way it is sold, marketed, and charged thousands of dollars.rsd just finally acknowledged that looks matter. DUh!
Okay Bruno...whatever you say. None of it is real. They are all paid actors. No one got laid or hurt in the making of these videos.. ...It's all fake Bruno...Duly noted.
trueshadow64 I go for average to unattractive girls according to people and I still get called ugly a girl just called me really ugly and she's unattractive to most people I liked her she rejected me I have good game game doesn't mean shit
If you are ugly (groomed or ungroomed) your options are limited. There is a saying: 'you can't make chicken soup out of chicken poop'.
Finally a PUA that does not say lies to sell you stuff...
LOL its simple really, dont need to complicate things
Girls are attracted to value
- looks/height offers value
- alpha male dominant positive personality also attracts girls + social proof also offers value
What girls says and what she emotionally reacts to is two different things
Kimbo Youwin You can be dominant, alpha and confident but if you are ugly it will diminish it all away. Women want good looking men, you can be quiet shy introvert and a good looking man you will attract more women, than a loud average looking, dominant alpha male.
My brother is a straight up introvert, very shy, and sometimes he can be a little beta, but his good looks brings in super hot women.
In reality, this whole personality attracts women is bullshit, personality keeps women, but it does not attract women. Same thing for us men, women’s good looks attracts us, her personality keeps us.
Spot on m8
@MATHA NOSHTO-MAN yes and if you try to be dominant when your unattractive. You get thrown in jail.
Ugly with confidence: “Where the hell does he got that attitude??? He’s got no fucking way to back it up!!!”
Handsome with confidence: “OMG!!! He’s so fucking badass and alpha!!!”
Ugly without confidence: “Eeeewww, such a creep. I felt so disgusted when he asked me for directions!!! At least he can disappear soon!!!
Handsome without confidence: “OMG!!! He’s like super shy!!! It’s so cute!!!”
Ugly ladies man: “Does that women have super low self esteem or something!!! Why the hell do they allow him to even touch them???!!! I bet they are just whites he hired!!!”
Handsome ladies man: “Well offcourse!!! He’s a total stud!!! I bet he’s such a heartbreaker!!! But I’ll definitely make him settle down!!!”
Ugly virgin: “Well obviously, duh!!! He better gets used to be like that!!! It’s so creepy that he even thinks about touching me!!!”
Handsome virgin: “OMG that is so fucking cute!!! He’s saving himself for someone special!!! I want to be his first!!!”
@@federicodarino8150 true that
Looks do matter...physical attraction is the first gate to pass. If you're not a physically attractive person, you have to compensate somewhere else...its a matter of how motivated you are.to compete for the higher quality mates.
the problem is guys who have low self confidence because of their looks... They see themselves as ugly, downward spiral...
Captain Krieg but they're not the ones that are going to sleep with themselves, women are. I've seen dudes I thought looked gremlins, but female companions I was with said he was handsome. You may think you're ugly , doesn't mean she does
thats why you get on your purpose and earn more money to
improve your looks
This video should be called 'Grooming Matters'.
I was feeling suicidal before watching this, (not to do with my looks or women, just generally) but this video made me feel a bit better. It's realistic and honest, but with actionable steps rather than just being depressing and negative. I get a good vibe from him, he is sensitive to people's feelings whilst remaining objective and straightforward and delivering with a positive demeanour. Really really great video.
your honesty is refreshing
yo dude. i went to your last hot seat in Miami,FL. and I'm glad you've come out and said this shit. respect.
My man, thank you for finally admitting this. So many pua's talking about ''presence'' and ''intent'' and all of that bs yet disregarding the LARGEST factor in attraction.
Things are just way easier if you are good looking. I've been doing Door2Door sales and the most beautiful girls (or guys) didn't even have to say a lot to sell while the less good looking people really had to work on their communication skills.
From my own observations, the better you look, the less work you have to put in. Also, wearing expensive clothes makes you more appealing to older women; not so much for younger ones.
The older ones that are closer to hit the wall or have already hit the wall are the ones impressed with man dressing nicer ect, For when he's not that good looking. And the guys that dress nice but not so good looking odds are will get cheated on if she is average or above average looks, if she's average looks and he is average looks and dressed nice he might have a chance of not being cheated on for when he gets the girl. If he's anything less than average looks I won't be shocked if he gets cheated on by the women average looks or above average looks. And that because I'm a purple pill man a purple pill man knows women could cheat on him but want a relationship still despite the risk and Hope's not to be cheated on. I'm also a black pill man that knows women are just as shallow as men even though women lie to others and themselves by saying personality is more important than looks.
Looks play a role when seducing girls.
Look's don't matter: This belief helps you to start taking action, when you are a beginner - it means "looks won't stop you!". When you, however, just run arround like a headless chicken approaching hot, dressed up girls, looking like shit and thinking "looks don't matter" "You are cute, I want to meet you /Who are you?" you will get frustration and pain. As Alex said, grooming is really importat, but what is also important is to adjust your game to your looks -> focus more getting through the resistance, gaming "maybe" girls.
Deepak Wayne - hidden cam pickup I think in that case, the bigger problem is that they "run around like a headless chicken" with bad game -> that results in frustration and pain. Getting in shape and putting on better clothes works indirectly -> guy feels better about himself and starts to act more confident. But it's not the looks on its own. That's my view on this.
Nah, looks are a direct influence, not indirect. I practiced game for over 15 years, going out every weekend, reading anything I could get my hands on, and deluding myself into believing my looks didn't stop me, but still failed miserably. Only after dramatically fixing my looks did I start getting women. Just as an experiment, I did everything the PUAs say NOT to do, yet _STILL_ had much better results than before. Looks are vitally important, and people are doing real damage by claiming otherwise.
Anony Mous well said. i love learning and experiments. i found an epic video to share if you want, also did my own experiments, and am interested in videos/experiments you can talk of or share.
WayneDatingLifestyle - hidden cam pickup if you hit on every hot girl you see as a 3 or 4/10 guy it only takes one to say yes and you have a smoking hot girlfriend if you're emotionally strong it's really just that easy.
manish you are a fool!
All you need is money. If you don't have money or looks you have to dress really good and be in the best shape possible.
Fina-fucking-lly someone states the truth. Sick of all these simple pickup and other pick up guys selling the idea that "Anyone can pick up girls" are so full of shit. Hit the head of the nail with this one Alex.
+Brett Ross Anyone can pick up girls if they understand the difference between looking attractive and being attractive. Good looking guys are as much losers with women as are ugly guys. It's about approach, not genetics.
rsd and simple pick up sell the idea that you can get girls and anyone can get girls but that requires a lot of work if you wan to hit a high level of consistency which means constantly going out and applying their teachings and then if you stop going out then you lose the grove so if your ugly yes you can get women attractive women I personally know 3 ppl who are ugly and are able to get hot chics to date them but obviously its harder for them compare to me . Alex is right about a a lot of things dressing up grooming yourself those are all details that rsd overlooks sometimes . I see it in a way of an rpg game if your a level 10 warrior with shitty armor and weapons how are you going to defeat and tame the wild beast whose at level 70? Most women even the hottest ones they are socially in level 70 and when they see a level 10 chump approach them they will reject him even if it is a good looking guy. Now does the average person have enough time to go out like pretty much everyday and do approaches? no they dont and thats the truth But...I still like seeing their seminars and will probably go to a hot seat and maybe even a bootcamp.. in the end you leanr a lot from approaching women so ya thats how I feel about pick up at this moment .
Good looking is just one part of being attractive, not the whole thing.
Saying it’s does not matter is just as false as it’s the only thing that matter.
Moochie Not the whole thing but a must.
Charlie Fox the almost whole thing
Its over
Looks are key, relationship is the real deal fax
This guy speaks the truth.
I can't believe some of u r actually saying "but I know so and so who isn't good looking and gets girls." Yeah but what if that same guy was to take care of himself, he would be a force to be reckoned with.
Think big not small.
Its over
Hygiene, nice, exercise and be a nornal person
Facial aesthetics is what gets you women . It's all about face .
kevin wilson Physical build is just as important
absalom0412 Unless you're talking about height then you're wrong
Долг lover If ur short like i am (5'9"), then u have to be muscular to make up 4 lack of height. I c short buff men with beautiful women all the time in Los Angeles
absalom0412 5'9 is still acceptable, under that and under 5'8 I doubt muscles would work.
@@absalom0412 if you're super buff but short it might make you look like you're overcompensating. I doubt that's attractive to women. Also, Face > Body
Good video. Totally agree!
Thank god im good looking. Thanks mum and dad
Gomen01 lol 😂 😂
Ospik Mo
Lol
Me too!
only you think that :D
The big reason looks matter, is because they are a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself. Your looks (grooming/hygiene) show self-respect or a lack of self-respect. If you don't brush your teeth enough, you don't wash your hair, you smell, etc, then you are broadcasting to the world, not only to women, that you don't respect yourself. If you don't go to the gym/workout in some form, and eat crap, you disrepect your body, have no self-control, your self-worth value is out of whack, therefore no wonder women don't respond to that, why should they? So take care of yourself for YOURSELF. Get some self-worth/self-respect. That's what will translate into confidence. Of course, then you have guys (me included) that don't realize when something is off, like sense of style or haircut because we don't really know what looks best so that's when a coach or sytlist is really needed, which is really important to take care of.
And I believe that women primping for hours before going to the clubs, like Alex said, is not only for fun, but it's also because they are conditioned to believe that their looks are one of their most valuable traits, so they need to make the most of them, so beyond fun, it's simply a necessity for them. And thanks Alex, i live in Vegas, and I really couldn't figure out where all the women were in the daytime. I have a hell of a time trying to find them in order to do daygame. So you're saying they go out shopping at 8am in the morning???
Dark Phoenix yea but you can dress nicely well groomed and have good hygiene but that hasn't helped me and probably others too
I know from a man's point of view looks matter too, to a degree but this guy dosent really give any ideas of improving your chances
Dark Phoenix You can groom all you want, but if you do not have good genes it is all for nothing. You have to be physically good looking man to attract females. Why you think women think that Jason Mamoa is hot? He looks scruffy, like he does not shower, but he has the height and masculine good looks that women love. This grooming thing is gay.
The big reason looks matter, is because( delete long winded platitudes ) because it's an indication of good genetics and in the reproduction game genetics is king .
Nah, My grandma said the same thing. I don't care how my hair looks as long as it's not itchy and dirty, because I could have a hairstyle no ones seen, but women still won't give me a second look. Guess what though. The more I don't care about others opinions the more the women approach me. I could have a dirty jacket on and they still come. Y'all see it as "oh he doesn't care about himself," but I see it as not caring what others think. Always gonna be haters and fans.
Style consultant...Have never heard of that before..But then again, I live in rual Missouri..
Thank's for being honest.
sure thig its the least i can do!
Perhaps not a rant, but I'd be interested to hear your views on feminism and its impact on society, game, etc.
***** Good video man, also, the problem is tho, and this was me before, i was getting my confidence from materialistic things, such as a good watch, the nice shirt and the perfect hair gel, rather im still learning to gain this value and confidence from other things, other life qualities, ofcoarse groom yourself for your best, but when i am out and about there is always people with better style than you, but thats were the you are enough bit shines i quess but thanks Alex ;)
Mitch Philly D?
Is 5.9"height enoughf to be handsome if all other factors are okay
Looks do matter to women but it's not as important as a man's wealth or game. Believe me a women will leave you if you don't provider her with security or have game despite your good looks. Look at Donald Trump, Biggie, Harvey Weinstein, Flava Flav, Jermaine Dupri etc all these guys aren't the best looking but still get the best looking girls. Looks only matter to a woman when she's young but when she's older or has kids she wants a man that can provide. Also no woman will respect a good looking guy that has no charm or is a Beta Male.
THIS! Thank you
Nowadays a bunch of incels cry about how they lost the genetic race due to their lack of facial attractiveness, people need to understand that women go ONLY for looks upto a certain age...below 25..and after that they judge you by the money you have..
You risk attracting gold diggers if you're rich and why would you want to attract women who are not in their prime? (they will only get worse with age). Also the sex after marriage is also declining studies show. Melania doesnt love Trump anymore if you watch some clip of them. Guess why shes staying with him? Money.
This is pretty mild info to be honest. Head over to LMSFACE to fully swallow the blackpill.
This guys on point!
Video title: Looks matter
“1/10 just shower = 11/10”
How to get laid if your short and ugly
(1) Maximise your appearance (workout, clean facial skin, groomed)
(2) Good Fashion
(3) Learn Game
(4) Social Proof ( be the popular fun guys with tons of friends that are girls)
(5) Be very good at something
(6) Learn comedy
(7) Get sleeves tattoos
You mentioned being too good looking around the 5:25 mark. Can you explain more on that? I believe that I have that same problem.
Lol, you ain't even that good looking.
Groundbreaking video. What's the next one about? Breathing being important to live? Eyes are fundamental for sight?
Ey, at 6:55 I see a woman in the background that got approached by one of your students ... Just kidding XD. Seriously now, you are an inspiration for me.
can guys wear concealer to hide acne's without being gay?
Tara Trowbridge No.
This was good. Hey alex what are some tips for gym I've just started and Im going 3 days a week 5x5 dead-lift, military press, bench, squats and some accessory. Are there any changes I should make?
Michael Mynott This is a perfect workout 4 beginners
And looks matter when a man is selecting a woman!
Women are far more picky
@@blackpill2894 we have to be
@@nasakiki6159 For what attention? You choose to be picky.
@@blackpill2894 they are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are more sexually driven than woman, so the supply for sex is on woman's hands.
Bc it's the main purpose of gender. We try to find someone sexually n emotionally appealing with good hygiene n decency. Why can't we accept that fact. Women just like to put themselves on a pedestal (some). Guys are like that too hahaha
Why can't visitors get rid of your ad? The "i" blocks the "x."
Under 30 years old under a 7 means no dates. Over 30 under a 7 without a 6 figure salary means no dates
not exactly
Loved this, speaking the truth here.
RSD have said this exact same thing for a long time.
Daniel Jones Yet often the community tries to downplay looks to the point of them being straight up dishonest. Nobody ever dares to directly say "Looks do matter. Point blank.". From other pickup guys (even RSD) you often get the sense that you can make up for everything, if your game is just good enough. But that's bullshit. That's the point Alex was making.
Daniel Jones I gree with you, but I do think Tyler realised this. Tyler always said that you should take care of yourself. Saying looks don't matter is to show all these ''ugly people'' that you can get out of that negative thought loop that being ugly is equal to no success with women.
wow
Great info - Thanks
Alex what’s your height?
Where can you really meet a style-savy-dude/girl? A style consultant in stockholm/uppsala seems to be really expensive for a student like myself. Got any advice alex? :)
I'm a 5'9", 350 lb 24 year old in a ~200k person city in the American South. I've lost about 90 lb since January and at this rate, I'll have my goal body in about 3 years (after skin surgeries and whatnot). However, with my (compression) clothes on, I'll look normal in about 18 months to the person on the street, and at that point my looks won't be an excuse. When sexy-times come I'll just keep a shirt on or something, I'll figure it out.
My grooming is fine, and I'm a friendly guy. I've been working on being more grounded and masculine to balance myself out. How should I approach my game throughout the next 18 months while still being a fat-fuck, knowing that I'm progressing toward my goal each day? What beliefs, gaming styles, strategies, etc. should I internalize/employ to obtain some level of success?
I don't mind your ranting at all Alex! You're the. Best!
I was hoping you'd be brave enough to say 'things you can't control matter as well'.
If looks aren't there, why should someone even consider approaching women?
The Swedes on the horses are stylish. Most women love a man in uniform.
They have 0 soul.
What I think you should address is that your FACE matters too. People think no matter how ugly they are, once you work out and keep yourself groomed that would change the fact that you are ugly. Bullshit. If you are ugly to women you will still be ugly no matter how much you groom and work out.
This video is actually really good
so Alex, which RSD instructor are we hating on in this video?
So Alex, is it OK if I use a flat iron on my hair? I'm a guy.
100% true
Finally, someone using good game.
Its over Paulie
Pauline?
@@AlexSocialDatingAndConfidence Paulie from the Rocky series
how about if you have a glass eye that stands out a little?
Before this video i saw this video that the guy was saying it doesnt matter how you look. He said if you use his secrets you wil get any girl you want. Im thinking to myself "why would you want to be ugly or think this mess?" i know for a fact that women like a good looking guy just as much as a guy likes a hot chic, they really do and men should care enough to bathe and do something for themselves so they can at least look decent.
Do you have bootcamps in Perth, WA? Most i ever known of are UK or USA good to hear an Aussie accent... In regards to looks... i think when they say looks don't matter they mean being a 'pretty boi' and since evolutionary women respond to behavioral cues in men when it comes to attraction it doesn't matter. i do agree you have to be presentable tho... what is your take on this?
the truth has been spoken
great stuff alex
I have huge dimples on my cheeks and some girls actually compliment me about them this good or are they just being nice?
Kinda old but...
Compliments are shallow shit, if it doesn't get you laid, then it's BS.
For example :
"awww you're so nice", sounds good, but it means she will never fuck yah.
Looks do matter. I dress well, always had my own trendy style. I've had girls call me cute and goodlooking back when i was in my early 20's. I'm 30 now and still slim and i'm 5'8 tall. I think i'm a goodlooking guy, nothing great but i look good. So i like me and i'm fun and confident but girls dont' always like me looks wise who i approach in clubs. So even though i'm probably to others average looking and dresses cool i don't get girls so easy as a guy who girls find attractive. A friend of mine used to get girls easy in clubs from just looking at them. I didn't think he was that much better looking than me. But as i said, i like how i look. But from the girls prospective, they dont find me that great to where the girls are really into me. But then there are other guys who arent as goodlooking as me in my eyes or dont dress well. They just dress like the average guy, no style. But they have girls - prob social circle. I suppose the point is - i dress well and have had compliments and i like how i look - but even with all this - its not easy esp on dating apps/sites.
Finally somebody tells the truth.
Alex! Please make a video about being more proactive and setting personal goals. Cheers
THIS!!!!
***** tell us all about what its like being too good looking? lol
***** Cheers mate this could be the difference between being an average bro to an achiever. Respect for putting your work out there
***** yaaaaa
bruno dee yeah I never figured out what do you mean by looking too good was a problem if you're an alpha :/
Ok now this has become nuisance. For years pick up coaches have tried to convince us that looks don't matter, now all of a sudden they do. Make up your mind
raff5184 no- I’m honest, and I clarify the distinctions
Alex can you make a video about health, nutrition, herbs, supplement and fitness? Thx
The main thing I've learnt to increase your chances of pulling girls is do tons of approaches. If you're willing to go through lots of No's then you'll yet a yes in there somewhere.
No type of approach will help you if we’re not physically attracted to you
What is the conclusion?
The face is what matters the most.
Body. Haircut. Grooming/hygiene. Fashion. You have full control over those.
awesome video..u explained the nuances of game...equilibrium is key if your ugly u must be well groomed..if your good looking and in good shape u need to be goof your stupid to make the girls feel comfortable
Stockholm is superficial. So of course you like the city because the girls love you.
How about if your a millionaire
Can go either way
“If you’re good looking and you add aggression, confidence you become just too overwhelming” fuck that’s true
Finally someone tells the truth!
I think the purpose of the phrase "looks don't matter" is to force unconfident people to take action and start approaching girls. But some guys just take this too literally. They don't take care of themselves and just learn game because it's easier to just learn techniques than to actually change who you are. I think game is not only about picking up chicks but also improving every aspect of your life and that includes the way you look. I'm only 5'6", average looking and I have an ugly 1 inch scar on the right side of my face but I still got girls (some of them were fucking hot). I also go to the gym, read books, dress well, have humor and interesting hobbies, smart, and I practice game.
Thanks to you and rsd.
Alex,do a rant of your disagreements with traditional pick-up mindsets,and of course give us your,more healthy view on things. Thanks
Well i suppose i have to rebook my appoint with the plastic surgeon
the old discussion about looks...
1:45-1:56 that was too funny. Haha
Ethnicity plays a huge role too.
Brolly MothaFucka
It's only a piece of the pie and is never the main factor. Alex covers this in Social Encrypted.
Jario Stereo Can i have a link
You should check out guys like Mr. Locario on youtube who swears up and down that looks do not matter at all.
Not sure. I've seen women list on there profile they dont date men based on certain physical features. Black white fat short etc
Selector Jah I argue with him all the time.
David Edwards so white do white women marry within their own race 93% of the time i dont think thats by accident so i think its safe to say that race matters.
You need the whole package ... work on your style and physical appearance and also do the inner work. I’ve learned that you need to do it all.
Exactly, women want it all. LMS.
Looks matter.Money dont mean shit. And most people who have status or on top of the social hierarchy are attractive
Interesting vid
I havent done any cold aproach before, but its literally impossible for me to get a reply out of any woman, and I mean ANY woman in the whole world on any dating site.At this point I,m pretty confident my looks are the culprit. I think my dress and grooming are fine in my profile pics, but women still seem to think I am infected with black death or something. Do you really believe that anything you say to a woman in a 5 minute pickup session on the street is gonna overcome that kind of hardcore aversion that they show to ugly men on dating sites?
That's a belief you're setting man. Realize that, own it, then change it to something you prefer.
4 Week Natural But I dont get why no women reply to me.Obviously theyre put off by the way I look. So wether i believe its my looks or not, theyre still not gonna like me.
***** BTW I never used to think I was ugly or anything, but I still couldn't get any, and it turns out after a lot of years it was my looks at fault, because I can use some other guys picture and get a phone number in like 5 minutes.
The belief you're setting man is "its literally impossible for me to get a reply out of any women" and "women don't like me because of my looks". Beliefs are EVERYTHING mate. Ask yourself the hard questions and give yourself honest answers and change your beliefs to ones you prefer. And the first belief you should have and KNOW is "There is no reason why I'm not enough."
4 Week Natural Well as far as online goes, I asked myself the question "is there anything else I can do" and the answer was "no".How long to you bash your head against a wall before you realize that the wall is not moving? Is it just your belief that the wall is not moving, or is it just a reality that the wall is stronger than your skull? If I believe the wall will break, will it actually change the dynamics of the situation? no it wont.
Having said that perhaps you can pick up in person, just that its a real problem to do it that way for some personality types.Women are much more responsive in real life.They are just brain dead online....
I noticed that you are looking like Steven Gerrard.
I know I’m not good looking but my personal hygiene from butthole to teeth body hair haircut ear and nose hair feet and toe nail and wardrobe always on point
Hehe...love it....looks don't matter..if u have power fame or money...you get the girls...deep down women on want money...if u are good looking and broke u have NO CHANCE BRO
Starting to like this channel. Balances out some of the other stuff you hear.
Im a good looking guy but one thing i dont have is conversation skills and even when a girl goes out of her way and APPROACHS ME her self i still end up fucking it up because I have no idea how to hold a convo. still would choose good looks over game skills because with game I can improve but with looks, if your ugly, you are ugly and you cant change that.
Damn, this camera is good.
U dont have to be beautiful. But either ur a cute dude in a girls eyes, or ur very masculine alpha. So those two options if you are not very good looking. Good luck guys!!
looks maxing stylish clothing haircut which suits you dental work white straight teeth hit gym get an athletic physique low body fat eat healthy alot of greens for glowing skin you can go from a 3 too a 6
Julian goes out being fat with greasy hair not showered and Tyler's says that you have gone out for a month without showering and still got results.
I guess if your game is fucking beast then you don't need looks but if it's newbie-mediocre then if you look like shit, it matters.
Haon Nesretep LOOKS DONT MATTER WHEN YOU HAVE GAME. But, most of you don't. Tyler also says that.
Yet he has great communication skills, master story teller and dresses like a cool guy. Of course fashion and how you present yourself matter.
Haon Nesretep
julien is already a cute guy...
IF YOU NEED A BEAUTIFUL KID MARRY A GOOD LOOKING GUY OR GIRL
I imagined Alex and Tyler getting into arguments
Dood what if u're a 4'10 guy?? Should u just enjoy life to the fullest and accept the fact that u will never get laid??
Evan Pax Find a 4ft 2in woman!?!
Yes. Im just shy of 5'9 and i even have a little more to grow (Im 19 but i started growing about 2 years later than everyone else so doctors say that i have to grow until 20 - 21 years old). I have a decent face (atleast according to everybody, including the internet who once gave my face and 8 out of 10 but i will NEVER accept that) and a relatively fit body with a 6 pack... im still single 😂😂😂
So yes, height IS very important for men. I mean ik i never tried to flirt with a woman or ask her out or give her compliments but ive personally seen how girls ask men out on youtube and on vlogs and even in RL once!
Plus women say that they give signals that they like the man and i havent seen much recently. Women are being nice to me and are friendly and giggly and shit just because they dont want to be mean, just like men do.
I mean, i hope i will grow to atleast 5'10 until i stop growing and i am possitive that sports are helping me. For the last year i grew with over an inch so yeah, with me the best of luck and i also wish you the best of luck 😊😊😊