I enjoyed the story. It is true we have to love ourselves first and foremost. At the end of the day it is our parents and siblings that will love and be there for us to the end. Hmong women are stronger then we give them credit for. I apppluad you for having the courage to walk away and learn to love yourself! Very empowering!!!
Happy to hear that you’re cancer free. I am so glad that you did not stay with your ex husband. Him and his family don’t deserve to get a second chance from you because they didn’t help you through your battle. I totally agree with you on why is it that if the husband is sick, his family want the wife to stay with him and take care of him but if the wife was to be sick then his family want him to go marry another wife.
This is why when I hear about a wife leaving a sick husband it’s ok to support her leaving him because if it was the guy this is how he would be (just like this couple). I’m glad this lady left him because I would say she is stupid if she still stay with him after ask that she went through and he wasn’t there for her.
So proud of you sister. You are a true warrior. Congratulations for being cancer free. God has great plans for you. The trial you went thru was just to help you see the true colors of your ex husband. Continue to fight n live yourself. I'm still fighting breast cancer and I hope n pray that I become cancer free one day. It's all in God's hands. You made it!
Good luck sister, and I know that you'll win that "silly" cancer. Hold yourself strong and live through it all. It won't be easy at times, but you are the stronger and will be the winner.
He wasn’t there for you at your worst, now he don’t deserve you at your best. Love yourself and forget those who weren’t there for you when you fell ill.
Sister I'm proud of you. At the end of the day it is you fighting for another chance to survive and it was for your kids. I experienced the same in terms of health. I woke up telling myself I had to fight this.
Kicking someone’s car out of jealousy does not translate to love lmao it means one day..that car door will be your head…should’ve ran and never look back
I was thinking the same thing, and especially when he was making a threat of killing. Killing and hurting someone or making any threats are biggest red flags to end a relationship and not marrying that person.
True. He was a psycho from the beginning. She's pretty stupid to marry him despite all the red flags- especially his violent personality. Yet even in the best of relationship, betrayal can still happen. Sad that in reality we can't trust anybody entirely but ourself.
I'm so glad you divorced your husband. If he can't love you and be there for you at your worst, he don't deserve you. You deserve better. I'm so glad you beat cancer! May love find you and you live a happy life.
He didn’t love you at your worst. He doesn’t deserve you now. If he truly loved you he would’ve been there for you all those years. He gets what he deserves
So sorry you went through this. Only your parents and siblings will be there to lift you through the goods/bad time. You are blessed with a loving family standing beside you.
What a miracle - wow I fighting for so long! And the true colors of everyone came out. I’m so happy for you and wish you the best because you deserve it. May you live your best life.
THIS TYPE OF STORY MADE MY BLOOD BOILING TO THE SKY... HMOOB MEN ALWAYS HAD THE RIGHT OF WAY ON EVERYTHING. GOD BLESSED. YOU SURIVED THIS HORRIBLE DISEASE. HAPPY YOU LET OF HIM. HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU 2ND TIME. LOVE YOURSELF SISTER. SO SUPPORT FROM YOUR SIDE OF THE FAMILY.
Perfect example of people who only want to "be there" during your successes/wins/goods. But when you're dying, they act like they don't know you so proud of this lady! Some people don't understand "in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, til death do us part"
Txiv neej ces yeej phem li no xwb os me niam hluas aws. Txhob cia siab tias lawv yuav hlub yus os mog. Thaum muaj mob kiag lawm ces thov saib xyuas yus tus kheej kom zoo xwb os mog.
Txhob tu siab os Mi Niam tsev aw, tsis yog NWS yuav txawj plhis os ib Leeg yeej ev rawv ib tug mob os mog ib hnub NWS Tus mob yuav Los txog es luag yuav TSO NWS tseg li NWS TSO yus tseg ib yam thiab os nawb, be strong kom yus yeej yus Tus mob nawb mog 🙏🙏
Sister you still have your family to support you...I don't have any one to help me...I only drove myself to the Dr every time no one was there to help me...I am glad you have good ending and happy..
Be brave sister. I'm so proud of you. Yep, drop that potato like it's hot. He already did that to you when you first got sick....his parents are the worst for not backing you up.
You’re a fighter, sister! I’m so happy you are healthy and better now. Your husband took the easy way out and didn’t honor your vows. He doesn’t deserve you.
Tus vivncaus, kuv hlub koj thiab nrog koj tus siab kawg li. Kuv zoo siab hais tias koj qhov cancer ploj lawm. Koj zaj neej neeg xws kuv zaj. Kuv qhov cancer ploj lawm thiab txij li thaum lub 4 hlis ntuj los txog rau tamsim no. When I was going through cancer, I longed for a cancer buddy. I was so lonely and depressed and felt no one could understand me. I am so proud of you. I am a mental health therapist so I work with a few women that are going through cancer and am glad that we can be there for each other. If you ever need someone to talk to please reach out.
@@qualee8807 It's an awesome song and so fitting for winning both in life and the game. Poker is really a very, very patient game if you want the best chance to win. Life is just like a super dynamic poker game: you win some, you lose some, and what's important is how you control and handle those results. Maximizing, minimizing, value control, prospects, player analysis, and so on, all in the hope of achievement as the game progresses.
May aw koj hais tus me niam tsev lub neej mas tu siab kawg nkaus li os es tus me viv ncaus aw kuv hais Rau koj os koj tus txiv siab phem dhau Rau koj lawm koj zoo los koj tsis yuav lawm nus yog ib qho zoo kawg li os pab koj zoo siab nawb mog
Me koj niam aw..cas koj yuav hais tau zaj neej neeg no tu siab ua luaj 💔💔Thov kom tus me niam tsev ko tsuas muaj zoo muaj zog hlub koj tus kheej kom zoo2 nawj mog
Yes, at 38:00, exactly what I've been thinking the whole time. "TILL DEATH DO US PART" Not even dead yet and your partner already gone. So twisted and sexiest how our Hmong community live by. So hungry for power. I am so happy to live in the US and can get education and can support myself and not have to rely on a men. Now, it works both ways. So happy for your strength and thank you for sharing your story.
In this world and life only the love of a parent is real. Doesn't matter if you are man or woman. Never expect your significant other to love you unconditionally. Taking care of yourself is most important and if it must happen, be grateful fake friends and lover are filtered out.
Tu mi niam tsev aw txob tu siab os mog. Nrog koj zoo siab. Tu txiv zoo li koj tu ntawv ca txob suav tias yog koj tu txiv os. Ma nriag dua tu tsiab os nawb
Hey stop feeling sad. Whip those tears and thank God and love yourself. Because it could be worse if you was to stay with him. Go to church and let God bless you and let him give you strength and guidance and move forward. One day you will see his new wife torcher him for you. You will be fine. This might be a test to see how much he love you. In this way you can be stronger.
Ua li koj thiaj paij tau kev ntsim siab. Tos tam sim no poj niam pib mus yuav txiv mos ab lawm los vim yog txiv neej qhia. Txij no no ces kawm txoj kev uas poj niam muaj mob ces txiv neej tsis tus es cia li mus yuav dua ib tug niam yau. Poj niam yuav tau kawm txiv neej lub maib no thiab nawb. Yog hnub twb muaj mob ces poj niam kav tsim mus nrhiav tus tshiab thiab tsis txob tu lawv lawm.
Sister! U are blessed. U are a warrior. U are survivor. I applaud you. Yep, that's so sad that our hmong community's rules of laws are all about pleasing and being fair and almighty to the men only. Why?? It's because we hmong women let it happen.
Yup keep fighting for you, your kids and only for the ppl that truly matter. Don't give up. Just know at the end of the day you will be there for yourself and your kids will be there only for you, your parents your siblings will only be there for you. Love yourself first. I'm so happy for you and you are beautiful no matter what. ❤❤
You did the right thing sister! You don’t need a txiv dev that only love you when you’re in good health & beautiful only. You deserve someone better that truly love you sick or not . GL to you. Sadly, most people will only love you when you’re in good health, beautiful and can benefit them . 😢
Tus niam laus no nws zaj neej neeg tu siab heev li os txawm yog kv los yeej xaiv kj txoj kev xwb os kj ua yog lawm os thov ua kj tsaug os cov txiv neej nws g hlub thaum yus zoo nkauj xwb thaum yus muaj mob g hlub g tu yus yog kv los yeej nrauj kiag xwb os niam laus aw
Thaum txiv neej mob es peb cov poj niam thiaj li tu lawv yoo kev hlub tos lawv ho yog thaum peb cov poj niam mob ces lawv cov txiv neej yeej tsis tu peb tsis hlub peb tsis yoo tos peb li os cov niam tsev aw lawv nrhiav khiav ua txuj keb ub keb no Kom dim peb xwb os
You are a strong woman! You are blessed to have such great parents and siblings that supported you through it. Lesson for all: never go to clan “leaders” for help or resolution because they are all chauvinistic men that will only side with the husband. Next time just find a lawyer and go to court. In America, no need to go to clan leaders. They can’t do jack for women.
I'm so proud of you for fighting and staying alive for your childrens. He didn't deserve you!!! God have shown you his true self so continues to love yourself and find your new happiness. 💜
Trying to get this comment on...lol...I guess, challenges are really everywhere... These are the stories that we need to really understand. They are the real challenges of life. I will finish comment later, but May, thank you for the wonderful story.
Integrity, pride and honor in loving. We have got to get this right. You need to have love, to feel love, and to appreciate love at any time or situation. If all that you had was these three things with your spouse throughout your life, it would have been a fulfilled and respectable life. You can do anything, go through anything, and still feel the sense of joy and satisfaction if you hold true these values. Don't let anything stop you from living right. And of course, the real challenges are the unforeseen debilitating sickness and illnesses. We are all going to encounter them in some form sooner or later. These are the hardest tests because we can never know and never prepare for them. It hits you like a bullet and tears the very soul apart. It confuses, frustrates, and molds morality. Desires diminishing, and hope and dreams forever altered. We must stay strong to our course and accept the reality that is given. If we give in, we break our vows, and life has no meaning. To those that value, such cruelty cannot be forgiven, and hearts are forever broken and will never be the same. Please stay true through any time or weather, and you will come out in the end so much better.
This story makes me so sad. I feel you. I feel the same way as you. I am afraid oneday when I am sick my husband will treat me like you. I dont trust anyone only myself. I always love myself and only love my husband 50/50 only and I told him so too. I never love my husband wholeheartedly because I know only myself cannot betray me.
But congratulations on winning cancer! What you did in this story is 100% right. Plus, you didnt use him, he actually OWED you because he vowed to love you. So the leader has no rights to say that to you. That the reason I dont take advices from hmong leaders because they sided with hmong men only.
You’re in the right! Continue to hold your ground girl you deserve the best from here on out. ❤
I enjoyed the story. It is true we have to love ourselves first and foremost. At the end of the day it is our parents and siblings that will love and be there for us to the end. Hmong women are stronger then we give them credit for. I apppluad you for having the courage to walk away and learn to love yourself! Very empowering!!!
Happy to hear that you’re cancer free. I am so glad that you did not stay with your ex husband. Him and his family don’t deserve to get a second chance from you because they didn’t help you through your battle. I totally agree with you on why is it that if the husband is sick, his family want the wife to stay with him and take care of him but if the wife was to be sick then his family want him to go marry another wife.
Sadly… that’s our retarded and unfair Hmong cultural of how women are treated.
This is why when I hear about a wife leaving a sick husband it’s ok to support her leaving him because if it was the guy this is how he would be (just like this couple).
I’m glad this lady left him because I would say she is stupid if she still stay with him after ask that she went through and he wasn’t there for her.
So proud of you sister. You are a true warrior. Congratulations for being cancer free. God has great plans for you. The trial you went thru was just to help you see the true colors of your ex husband. Continue to fight n live yourself. I'm still fighting breast cancer and I hope n pray that I become cancer free one day. It's all in God's hands. You made it!
God bless you.
Good luck sister, and I know that you'll win that "silly" cancer. Hold yourself strong and live through it all. It won't be easy at times, but you are the stronger and will be the winner.
Thank you. I fight everyday and as long as God still wakes me up the the morning I will continue to fight. ❤
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He wasn’t there for you at your worst, now he don’t deserve you at your best. Love yourself and forget those who weren’t there for you when you fell ill.
Ua ca zaj neej neeg no tus siab ua yog ua tau li lub siab xa ce tsi yuav txiv lawm os nyab tsiab teeb aws
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I love this story! Give people that are sick hope.
Sister I'm proud of you. At the end of the day it is you fighting for another chance to survive and it was for your kids. I experienced the same in terms of health. I woke up telling myself I had to fight this.
God bless you sister . God gave you a second chance, cherish you life and seek his kingdom.
God bless you sister. may you live a long and healthier happy life.
Kicking someone’s car out of jealousy does not translate to love lmao it means one day..that car door will be your head…should’ve ran and never look back
I was thinking the same thing, and especially when he was making a threat of killing. Killing and hurting someone or making any threats are biggest red flags to end a relationship and not marrying that person.
True. He was a psycho from the beginning. She's pretty stupid to marry him despite all the red flags- especially his violent personality. Yet even in the best of relationship, betrayal can still happen. Sad that in reality we can't trust anybody entirely but ourself.
😊😊
I'm glad that she knows her worth and left that man for good! This is such an inspiring story!
Bravo!!! I love this story! Proud of you for standing your ground and a true fighter! 💪💪
I'm so glad you divorced your husband. If he can't love you and be there for you at your worst, he don't deserve you. You deserve better. I'm so glad you beat cancer! May love find you and you live a happy life.
He didn’t love you at your worst. He doesn’t deserve you now. If he truly loved you he would’ve been there for you all those years. He gets what he deserves
Txhob tu siab ma niam laug ua tsaug rau qhov koj zoo lawm zoo siab nrog kj uas koj tus mob zoo lawm
Finally, a story I am proud of.😊
The true test of love is when your sick. That's when you know the true love of your spouse
So sorry you went through this. Only your parents and siblings will be there to lift you through the goods/bad time. You are blessed with a loving family standing beside you.
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I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm glad you survived and got rid of the trash. May your remaining life be filled with love and joy. Good luck
What a miracle - wow I fighting for so long! And the true colors of everyone came out. I’m so happy for you and wish you the best because you deserve it. May you live your best life.
God was testing him and he failed. Love yourself!
THIS TYPE OF STORY MADE MY BLOOD BOILING TO THE SKY... HMOOB MEN ALWAYS HAD THE RIGHT OF WAY ON EVERYTHING. GOD BLESSED. YOU SURIVED THIS HORRIBLE DISEASE. HAPPY YOU LET OF HIM. HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU 2ND TIME. LOVE YOURSELF SISTER. SO SUPPORT FROM YOUR SIDE OF THE FAMILY.
Tu siab tshaj li os niam yug los ob poj niam tus me niam laus aw caa kv nim mloog kj zaj dab neeg es kv nim mloog quaj mloog quaj li os 😭😭
Tu siab heev li os yom..hlub koj os nawb
Hmoob yeej zoo li
💛💛💛💛
Ua tau yog kawg.
You're a true warrior! Don't ever take back that cheater jerk. Best wishes to you sister
You look very young in this beautiful picture
Perfect example of people who only want to "be there" during your successes/wins/goods. But when you're dying, they act like they don't know you
so proud of this lady!
Some people don't understand "in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, til death do us part"
Family is love.. your spouse is not a guarantee of love but family love is forever...
Txiv neej ces yeej phem li no xwb os me niam hluas aws. Txhob cia siab tias lawv yuav hlub yus os mog. Thaum muaj mob kiag lawm ces thov saib xyuas yus tus kheej kom zoo xwb os mog.
Hlub koj heev os vivncaus aw. Kuv mloog cov neej neeg mas ua rau kuv haj ham hlub kuv cov me Poj niam hmoob heev os
Txhob tu siab os Mi Niam tsev aw, tsis yog NWS yuav txawj plhis os ib Leeg yeej ev rawv ib tug mob os mog ib hnub NWS Tus mob yuav Los txog es luag yuav TSO NWS tseg li NWS TSO yus tseg ib yam thiab os nawb, be strong kom yus yeej yus Tus mob nawb mog 🙏🙏
This story is worth listening to. What a strong mama. I am so proud of you sister. Keep doing you and focus on your children.
Kuv hlub tus viv ncaus ngob rau zaj neeg no heev
I so proud of you 33:12
Sister you still have your family to support you...I don't have any one to help me...I only drove myself to the Dr every time no one was there to help me...I am glad you have good ending and happy..
Love you sister, gald you left that him. Keep loving yourself...
Go's bless you sister, stay healthy & well hlub koj os
Be brave sister. I'm so proud of you. Yep, drop that potato like it's hot. He already did that to you when you first got sick....his parents are the worst for not backing you up.
I’m eating and crying. 😢😢😢 praying for you,sister.
Cov me viv ncaus aw...thaum peb ib tus viv ncaus khiav tawm thaum tus txiv tab tom mob2 los peb txhob cem2 thiab os hmloog tej zaj no xwb thov hlub peb cov poj niam thiab nawb. Vaj tswv hlub koj os..
Zoo siab rau koj yeej koj tus mob lawm thiab zoo rau qhov koj muaj niam thiab txiv hlub koj os koj ua yog lawm vim luag twb tsis tu koj ne .
Such a sad sad story, congratulations on your recovery. Cancer free.
Never go back to a person who doesn’t love you…😩🤠…!!!
niam luas aw koj zaj neej neeg zoo ib yam li kuv lub neej tag niam luas lub neej muaj muaj mob mag tu tu siab heev
You’re a fighter, sister! I’m so happy you are healthy and better now. Your husband took the easy way out and didn’t honor your vows. He doesn’t deserve you.
This is one of the best story I've heard!❤️
Hate relatives like the guy’s side! Remember if he/she’s hurting you and leave you to die, don’t ever go back!
I’m so happy to hear you are cancer free:) love yourself only.
A lot of good hmong men out there, this story is just about one man only..
Therapy make people smarter. Cov neeg txhawb txoj kev phem yuav niam yau ces yog dev ibyam.
Amen sister. Props to you
Tus vivncaus, kuv hlub koj thiab nrog koj tus siab kawg li. Kuv zoo siab hais tias koj qhov cancer ploj lawm. Koj zaj neej neeg xws kuv zaj. Kuv qhov cancer ploj lawm thiab txij li thaum lub 4 hlis ntuj los txog rau tamsim no. When I was going through cancer, I longed for a cancer buddy. I was so lonely and depressed and felt no one could understand me. I am so proud of you. I am a mental health therapist so I work with a few women that are going through cancer and am glad that we can be there for each other. If you ever need someone to talk to please reach out.
Tus niam tsev no hais lus muaj tseeb thiab hais yog lus kawg
This lady just like a Tundra!!❤❤….Now that Tundra has a bad engine….Lady’s ya get it??…✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Karma hit him HARD!!…This lady she found a new engine…..so that Tundra run good again!!…Amen ✝️
Nrog koj tu siab tau ib tug txiv siab ntais ntuj hlub tsis tau koj li nws cov lus cog tseg. Zoo siab koj rov zoo los lawm
He doesn’t deserve you. So happy you know your worth.
“You’ve got to know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to run” by Kenny Roger
LOL, Love Kenny G, and life is like "Poker", there are chances, risks, and rewards at every turn.
I try to live my life like this song. Lol love it.
@@qualee8807 It's an awesome song and so fitting for winning both in life and the game. Poker is really a very, very patient game if you want the best chance to win. Life is just like a super dynamic poker game: you win some, you lose some, and what's important is how you control and handle those results. Maximizing, minimizing, value control, prospects, player analysis, and so on, all in the hope of achievement as the game progresses.
Hlub koj heev os sister aw. Zoo siab tshaj uas koj zoo rov qab los lawm. Hlub koj tus kheej os mog.
Zoo siab Koj zoo lawm os tus mi Niam tsev aws saib xyuas Koj tus kheej kom zoo nawb mog
Congratulations on winning sister. Hope you well and that you deserve everything you work hard for!
Cov txiv neej ua thaum tuaj tham koj es npav tuag thiab tua neeg ces cov no yog cov lim hliam tshaj.
May aw koj hais tus me niam tsev lub neej mas tu siab kawg nkaus li os es tus me viv ncaus aw kuv hais Rau koj os koj tus txiv siab phem dhau Rau koj lawm koj zoo los koj tsis yuav lawm nus yog ib qho zoo kawg li os pab koj zoo siab nawb mog
You are one strong woman. Great job for standing up for yourself and I agree 100% with you on Hmong traditional culture.
Me koj niam aw..cas koj yuav hais tau zaj neej neeg no tu siab ua luaj 💔💔Thov kom tus me niam tsev ko tsuas muaj zoo muaj zog hlub koj tus kheej kom zoo2 nawj mog
Yes, at 38:00, exactly what I've been thinking the whole time. "TILL DEATH DO US PART" Not even dead yet and your partner already gone. So twisted and sexiest how our Hmong community live by. So hungry for power. I am so happy to live in the US and can get education and can support myself and not have to rely on a men. Now, it works both ways. So happy for your strength and thank you for sharing your story.
In this world and life only the love of a parent is real. Doesn't matter if you are man or woman. Never expect your significant other to love you unconditionally. Taking care of yourself is most important and if it must happen, be grateful fake friends and lover are filtered out.
Tu mi niam tsev aw txob tu siab os mog. Nrog koj zoo siab. Tu txiv zoo li koj tu ntawv ca txob suav tias yog koj tu txiv os. Ma nriag dua tu tsiab os nawb
He didn't love you when you needed him the most. That's sad. I'm happy that you are better. Stay strong and positive!❤
Well said sister! So glad u divorced that loser. Well wishes & good luck to u!
Hey stop feeling sad. Whip those tears and thank God and love yourself. Because it could be worse if you was to stay with him. Go to church and let God bless you and let him give you strength and guidance and move forward. One day you will see his new wife torcher him for you. You will be fine. This might be a test to see how much he love you. In this way you can be stronger.
Txiv neej cesaiv xaim yog nws muaj mob ces yuav kom yus tu nws koj mob ces nws yeej siab xub li ntuw mog
Love yourself don't care about him
I am so proud of you sister. Leave that txiv dev and his dab family!
Ua li koj thiaj paij tau kev ntsim siab. Tos tam sim no poj niam pib mus yuav txiv mos ab lawm los vim yog txiv neej qhia. Txij no no ces kawm txoj kev uas poj niam muaj mob ces txiv neej tsis tus es cia li mus yuav dua ib tug niam yau. Poj niam yuav tau kawm txiv neej lub maib no thiab nawb. Yog hnub twb muaj mob ces poj niam kav tsim mus nrhiav tus tshiab thiab tsis txob tu lawv lawm.
Zoo siab tshaj uas koj txoj kev mob zoo lawm os sister🙏 Thiab zoo, zoo siab rau koj niam koj txiv, koj cov viv ncaus thiab koj cov nus uas lawv pab, pab koj thaum koj niag txiv siab phem ntawv tsis hlub tsis tu thiab tsis saib xyuas koj. Yeej yog li koj hais os, tsuas yog yus tsev neeg thiaj hlub yus xwb. Zoo qhov koj tsis nrog ib tug neeg siab phem2 li koj niag qub txiv nyob vim nws tsis deserve koj txoj kev hlub os. Thiab Hmoob ces tsuas tsa tus txiv neeg cai xwb es tus niam tsev ces lawv yeej muab lov cai tag li xwb. Hmoob ces txawm yuav mus nyob txog lub ntuj twg los Hmoob yeej saib poj niam tsis muaj nqis/tsis muaj cai li no. Txawm li cas los koj twb zoo lawm ces hlub koj tus koj kheej os mog. Take care!
Nrog koj tu siab kawg, txiv neej hmoob siab yeej phem2 lawv tsuas hlub thaum yus khwv tau rau lawv noj xwb.
Sister you are so strong, God bless you and wishing you a everlasting love after this ordeal.
👏👏👏 Good Job Sister!!!
Not good to have friends, friends are just bad influence, friends are not worth having sometimes...
tsuas yg peb cov poj niam xb o thiaj ua tau lub siab loj tu tau ib tug txiv neej xb. O txiv neej ces 99℅
yeej tu g tau cov poj niam muaj mob
Sister! U are blessed. U are a warrior. U are survivor. I applaud you.
Yep, that's so sad that our hmong community's rules of laws are all about pleasing and being fair and almighty to the men only. Why?? It's because we hmong women let it happen.
Tus me niam tsev txhob tu siab nawb mog koj twb yeej Tus mob lawm ces yeej meem zoo siab rau yus tus kheej xwb nawb mog
Yup keep fighting for you, your kids and only for the ppl that truly matter. Don't give up. Just know at the end of the day you will be there for yourself and your kids will be there only for you, your parents your siblings will only be there for you. Love yourself first. I'm so happy for you and you are beautiful no matter what. ❤❤
Mloog tau kv ma chim tiag2 rau cov txiv neej ko
You did the right thing sister! You don’t need a txiv dev that only love you when you’re in good health & beautiful only.
You deserve someone better that truly love you sick or not . GL to you.
Sadly, most people will only love you when you’re in good health, beautiful and can benefit them . 😢
Tus niam laus no nws zaj neej neeg tu siab heev li os txawm yog kv los yeej xaiv kj txoj kev xwb os kj ua yog lawm os thov ua kj tsaug os cov txiv neej nws g hlub thaum yus zoo nkauj xwb thaum yus muaj mob g hlub g tu yus yog kv los yeej nrauj kiag xwb os niam laus aw
Thaum txiv neej mob es peb cov poj niam thiaj li tu lawv yoo kev hlub tos lawv ho yog thaum peb cov poj niam mob ces lawv cov txiv neej yeej tsis tu peb tsis hlub peb tsis yoo tos peb li os cov niam tsev aw lawv nrhiav khiav ua txuj keb ub keb no Kom dim peb xwb os
You are a strong woman! You are blessed to have such great parents and siblings that supported you through it. Lesson for all: never go to clan “leaders” for help or resolution because they are all chauvinistic men that will only side with the husband. Next time just find a lawyer and go to court. In America, no need to go to clan leaders. They can’t do jack for women.
I'm so proud of you for fighting and staying alive for your childrens. He didn't deserve you!!! God have shown you his true self so continues to love yourself and find your new happiness. 💜
Hmoob ua ntej rov quav lawm os.
😭😔🙏
Trying to get this comment on...lol...I guess, challenges are really everywhere...
These are the stories that we need to really understand. They are the real challenges of life. I will finish comment later, but May, thank you for the wonderful story.
Integrity, pride and honor in loving. We have got to get this right. You need to have love, to feel love, and to appreciate love at any time or situation. If all that you had was these three things with your spouse throughout your life, it would have been a fulfilled and respectable life. You can do anything, go through anything, and still feel the sense of joy and satisfaction if you hold true these values. Don't let anything stop you from living right.
And of course, the real challenges are the unforeseen debilitating sickness and illnesses. We are all going to encounter them in some form sooner or later. These are the hardest tests because we can never know and never prepare for them. It hits you like a bullet and tears the very soul apart. It confuses, frustrates, and molds morality. Desires diminishing, and hope and dreams forever altered. We must stay strong to our course and accept the reality that is given. If we give in, we break our vows, and life has no meaning. To those that value, such cruelty cannot be forgiven, and hearts are forever broken and will never be the same. Please stay true through any time or weather, and you will come out in the end so much better.
Koj pab kwv tij thiaj coj lis ko xwb os luag pej kum tsi coj lis ko nawb.
This story makes me so sad. I feel you. I feel the same way as you. I am afraid oneday when I am sick my husband will treat me like you. I dont trust anyone only myself. I always love myself and only love my husband 50/50 only and I told him so too. I never love my husband wholeheartedly because I know only myself cannot betray me.
I love this story. Meka says.." Tell death do us apart" hmong ces
Hlub koj mog Tus sister
But congratulations on winning cancer! What you did in this story is 100% right. Plus, you didnt use him, he actually OWED you because he vowed to love you. So the leader has no rights to say that to you. That the reason I dont take advices from hmong leaders because they sided with hmong men only.
yog ma yus hlub yus tus kheej xwb mog
Cov neeg zoo li koj tus txiv ces thaum nws tau koj tus mob nws mam li nco koj mog