Fergie big girls don't cry lyrics

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  • @ericavillanueva2868
    @ericavillanueva2868 5 років тому +5726

    2020 and I'm still here listening to this beautiful song. Who's with me?

  • @kellyhill4732
    @kellyhill4732 2 роки тому +189

    This whole album was a constant when I went through a divorce becoming a single mom at 28 with 3 kids. I'd never been on my own & I was in an abusive & controlling marriage. This album helped me restore some self esteem & life expectations, boundaries. I belted this song with tears streaming down my face more times than I can count.

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 2 роки тому +12

      Aww, hope you are doing better now.

    • @carlazamora6712
      @carlazamora6712 2 роки тому +4

      you got this queen! stay strong kuz those babies are watching you they are watching you be the strongest woman ever the one who doesnt take shit from anyone not even their dad. 👏👏 i made one of the hardest decision of my life as i was still in the hospital holding my new born son knowing i had nowhere to go i stood strong i knew that if i even went home from the hospital with him i would scar the precious gift God gave and i am dedicated to raise a man of God who knows who he is and is not an emotional reck.. now my baby is 18 months God provided even now that times are not hard they are great the blessings keep on raining! hold on to Gods hand and he will help you through it all so your children never have to see a single soul bring you down remember you are their super hero sorry for that long paragraph

    • @ladymargaret6186
      @ladymargaret6186 2 роки тому +3

      I hope you are doing well now... Rooting for you...

    • @gregbailey45
      @gregbailey45 Рік тому +3

      Been there, feel ya!
      'Cept I was a single dad of 4!

  • @kinziecronkhite5851
    @kinziecronkhite5851 5 років тому +2798

    was jamming to this as a kid in 2004 n still here in 2020

    • @kaybo5249
      @kaybo5249 4 роки тому +86

      this song came out in 2006...

    • @izzymarieeee
      @izzymarieeee 4 роки тому +25

      Kinzie Cronkhite I was born in 2004 and jamming to it in 2009 as a kid 😂❤️

    • @gracefoster9739
      @gracefoster9739 4 роки тому +1

      Same here

    • @jennyr7808
      @jennyr7808 4 роки тому +2

      Izzy Marie same🤛🏽🤟🏽

    • @williamvargas1244
      @williamvargas1244 4 роки тому

      x2

  • @salmatarabi7044
    @salmatarabi7044 9 місяців тому +90

    Anyone else in 2024?

  • @Harry-rh9qc
    @Harry-rh9qc 4 роки тому +3037

    I feel like a strong independent woman listening to this song.
    But I'm a 16 year old man
    Ps: I recently turned 17; it feels so great to live a life like this!
    I'm 18 now lol

  • @cupcake7534
    @cupcake7534 9 років тому +41

    Aah, finally found this song after years! This reminds me of my childhood...I used to listen to this and sing those lyrics...now that I have become older, I understand the meaning of this song and it comforts me...

    • @crazycandyce2580
      @crazycandyce2580 9 років тому +2

      Same here girl, same here.

    • @cupcake7534
      @cupcake7534 9 років тому +2

      Crazy Candyce big girls still...cry

    • @arandomnerd1359
      @arandomnerd1359 9 років тому +2

      when I was little when that song came on I would cry when she said "big girls don't cry."

    • @cupcake7534
      @cupcake7534 9 років тому

      Rebecca Hernandez hahaha, literally same.

    • @cropakittenmatenez5995
      @cropakittenmatenez5995 8 років тому

      I love this song 💖💖💖💖💖

  • @wrath642
    @wrath642 9 років тому +369

    2007 was the best year of my life. Things seemed to be going always uphill. Young, new experiences from meeting new people, playing outside all the time, riding bikes, the first crush, ding dong ditch, the first school dances. Economical situation seemed fine, youtube was amazing in 2007, even Runescape lmao. Music was great (not realizing this till now unfortunately). Things changed dramatically so quickly. Part of why I think we enjoyed it was because we had no idea it would all disappear. To us, we were just living life and it seemed to be default that the world was such a nice place. At that time I was able to make friends with everyone. I was friends with people who I grew up to be complete opposites of and later end up hating but as kids we were all able to be friends because that's just how things were. Life was full of color and fresh as could be. God I miss those times and hope to give my children the amazing childhood I was lucky to have.

    • @bl4576
      @bl4576 9 років тому +5

      so true..... 2007 feels like 80 years ago. and i miss it. it was the best year of my life and i had the best childhood. People who were born in the 90's or 00's had the best childhood ever. RIP 1990-2007

    • @Alieungirl
      @Alieungirl 9 років тому

      how old were you in 2007?

    • @bl4576
      @bl4576 9 років тому

      Dazy Kid
      Me? well, i was born in 1998. So, i was 9

    • @Alieungirl
      @Alieungirl 9 років тому +1

      Bella Latte Oh me too :)

    • @wrath642
      @wrath642 9 років тому

      Dazy Kid
      11-12

  • @NickRyanBayon
    @NickRyanBayon 3 роки тому +335

    This hits different when you're an adult and lived it.

    • @mikaylagrabowski7944
      @mikaylagrabowski7944 2 роки тому +3

      Mikayla Jenna Marie Grabowski grandma

    • @griselmendoza1107
      @griselmendoza1107 2 роки тому +3

      Spider man peter Parker and raven Rachel Roth shaun the sheep and lina the hedgehog

    • @francedc4247
      @francedc4247 2 роки тому +1

      Fck yes

    • @aprilbyyy1705
      @aprilbyyy1705 2 роки тому +3

      Hi I wanna tell you Jesus Loves You So Much He Gave His Life for our sins so we can be forgiven from our sins and Go To Heaven! Gods Love For Us Is Unconditonal ✝️

    • @brandylittle9186
      @brandylittle9186 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly

  • @ozzyplascencia103
    @ozzyplascencia103 5 років тому +1534

    It's so sad that you don't even hear this kind of music anymore 😕

  • @ilovellys
    @ilovellys 10 років тому +226

    2007 feels like it was decades ago

    • @ilovellys
      @ilovellys 10 років тому +2

      me to 1 was only 10 I think lol

    • @Peace2Love15
      @Peace2Love15 10 років тому +2

      feels like 80 years ago

    • @_Maxten
      @_Maxten 10 років тому

      2007 feels like it was 2 years ago to me

    • @slashkaz9564
      @slashkaz9564 10 років тому +1

      ***** Look up Toontown rewritten if you don't have it, it's completely free and fanmade! :D

    • @LaLaLoopsyCutie
      @LaLaLoopsyCutie 9 років тому +1

      I was in kindergarden at the time.. damn I miss 2007 for me where my homework was writing a letter or coloring something

  • @xxjayjaygamerxx247
    @xxjayjaygamerxx247 7 років тому +112

    I was singing this to my little 4 year old cousin Braydon. He's at the hospital battling AML Leukemia. Stay strong Braydon! Love u😘❤️😭

    • @eleniiliopoulou4012
      @eleniiliopoulou4012 6 років тому +3

      Hope he is fine now💕 I love him too💕

    • @MrCrabs-sy1og
      @MrCrabs-sy1og 6 років тому +2

      Hope he's fine, everything will be fine

    • @rileyslays
      @rileyslays 6 років тому +1

      I hope he is doing better. ❤️

    • @coltonmayes6240
      @coltonmayes6240 5 років тому

      Prayers for you and him and family

    • @chatoyantpaw
      @chatoyantpaw 5 років тому

      -Jayda Roger
      Aw I hope he wins the battle.

  • @weluvsisi9908
    @weluvsisi9908 4 роки тому +984

    Do you now cry from the nostalgia or from understanding the lyrics?

  • @briannalee1998
    @briannalee1998 7 років тому +2956

    When I was little, I loved this song, but I didn't understand the meaning. Now I'm almost twenty and in my last relationship I felt the same way, like I was becoming too dependent on him and I needed to get over my issues, and to learn to be happy, independent, and myself without him again. Even though I knew it would hurt to end it, it would've been much worse if we went on without solving our individual issues and I had to learn to fully love and depend on myself first before entering a relationship again.

    • @16princessdaisy
      @16princessdaisy 6 років тому +19

      I'm exactly in this situation myself and I think I'm in love but I know it's not the best for me, I need to solve my personal issues as well but it's so hard to end it...

    • @barbarapandza5707
      @barbarapandza5707 6 років тому +4

      Imma try that with him. Kinda feel like an idiot when I can't find myself with the person I love (?) Seven years... I belive we can survive everything. And so... this... growing up

    • @lorenamendoza911
      @lorenamendoza911 6 років тому

      5

    • @lorenamendoza911
      @lorenamendoza911 6 років тому

      3

    • @lisagraves153
      @lisagraves153 6 років тому +11

      10 year heartbreak right here. I have to grow up without my first love.

  • @panama660
    @panama660 6 років тому +3626

    Big girls don't cry because they're weak, they cry because they've been strong for too long...

    • @fightingmedialounge519
      @fightingmedialounge519 6 років тому +60

      That doesn't really sound right.

    • @jujai.akainu
      @jujai.akainu 6 років тому +44

      What the hell is this quote?

    • @saphii_the_first
      @saphii_the_first 6 років тому +139

      Big girls don't cry because they don't want to be SEEN as weak. They're are actually very strong and to hold back all those tears is really hard to do. This is modern society, people get judged no matter what their doing, so for a girl not to cry means that they are strong in a different way.

    • @perlagalvan521
      @perlagalvan521 6 років тому +1

      Big girl don't cry

    • @user-ud1qf4qn5o
      @user-ud1qf4qn5o 6 років тому +44

      It means that they’ve held in all of their emotions for too long.

  • @AlastorPlayz_
    @AlastorPlayz_ 4 роки тому +596

    I've been jamming to this ever since I was a kid. 2003 baby. Anyone else tear up at the fact that our childhood is over? I miss being a kid even though I wanted to be older. I wouldn't miss the chance to be a kid again for just one day.

    • @devilslotus4351
      @devilslotus4351 4 роки тому +15

      Yess I have distinct memorys of being three and singing this in the car. It hurts so much to think about for some reason. Childhood ignorance maybe.

    • @AlastorPlayz_
      @AlastorPlayz_ 4 роки тому +2

      @@devilslotus4351 I feel you man

    • @justin.mp4592
      @justin.mp4592 4 роки тому +13

      Meee😔. I’m turning 18 (legally an adult) in October and let me tell you. I miss being a kid. Everything was so simple back than. I miss how everything was but all I can do is take a deep breath and keep on moving forward. I didn’t have much fun in my teenage years and it’s honestly makes me sad sometimes but when I listen to this song, it sparks happiness in me :)

    • @jjz8722
      @jjz8722 4 роки тому +16

      Your only as old as you feel. I'm a 44 year old. Keep a young mind , play video games , ride a bicycle, live laugh , have fun try and not worry too much. Chill it's all good.

    • @yoongi_pyz4781
      @yoongi_pyz4781 4 роки тому +1

      yeah :((

  • @alexanderpagan8189
    @alexanderpagan8189 3 роки тому +142

    My ex broke up with me and dedicated this song to me. He’s following his dreams and sadly I couldn’t be the one who helped him achieve them. I love you jaden, I wish you the best ❤️

    • @BigSisterWolf
      @BigSisterWolf 2 роки тому +10

      Don't let the twisted lyrics lie to you, hon. If you need to cry, let it out.

    • @winglessfairy564
      @winglessfairy564 2 роки тому +3

      @@BigSisterWolf ❤️❤️❤️

    • @boeing757pilot
      @boeing757pilot 2 роки тому +3

      Now it's time to clarify your dreams and follow them...

  • @kylieordono7561
    @kylieordono7561 10 років тому +87

    If we cry, it's okay... even though we are old enough.. you cry cause you're strong not weak.. if you love and hurt, love more. If you love more and hurt more, just love more... until it hurts no more :)

    • @danguolestrumilaite2597
      @danguolestrumilaite2597 10 років тому +2

      so hust just love but its lasting for the time totime sowecant be lusers tous but forathers itsglad to be not so in cutting my nails becouirse if iagonanget easier but love it the stone of treasure soits nevr hugging butdry and so fresh its our blod we are like wompire when we love but youcansay ilove my jeus idid soi know ican adore you

    • @jecerylmerto5641
      @jecerylmerto5641 10 років тому +25

      Let me tell you a good quote to come along with that:
      "People don't cry because they're weak,
      It's because they've been strong for too long"
      ~Johnny Depp

    • @madoric13
      @madoric13 10 років тому +2

      Danguole Strumilaite A wompire???? :3

    • @favymoran
      @favymoran 9 років тому

      True

  • @gemcatcher1002
    @gemcatcher1002 9 років тому +548

    Why don't they play stuff like this on the radio anymore?

    • @charlizelugo
      @charlizelugo 9 років тому +3

      I know *smh* & *sighs*

    • @OhYeahItsJake
      @OhYeahItsJake 9 років тому +14

      gemcatcher100 this song is actually played a lot

    • @gemcatcher1002
      @gemcatcher1002 9 років тому +12

      OhYeahItsJake well at least not on my radio station it doesn't:/

    • @leighanorton7399
      @leighanorton7399 9 років тому +1

      gemcatcher100 what kind of radio do u got LOL it should play it mine does

    • @ILikeCHEEZ9
      @ILikeCHEEZ9 9 років тому +6

      gemcatcher100 The old 103.5 kiss fm used to play this and other songs like it a decade ago but sadly not anymore

  • @beautybysarah16
    @beautybysarah16 9 років тому +104

    Currently getting over my first heartbreak

    • @kaitlynhammond5218
      @kaitlynhammond5218 9 років тому +3

      Meee too.

    • @pandaprince7063
      @pandaprince7063 9 років тому +3

      Me too

    • @jennifermoat8186
      @jennifermoat8186 9 років тому +8

      All three of you look to be 10-12 years old and you're listening to a song from 6 years ago to get over your play ground relationship😂😂😂😂

    • @jennifermoat8186
      @jennifermoat8186 9 років тому +1

      Well probably from like 9 years ago

    • @TheStitchPlays
      @TheStitchPlays 9 років тому +2

      OKalexandria you fight through girl

  • @crimsonstang
    @crimsonstang 3 роки тому +19

    I remember hearing this song on the radio as a kid on the way back from fishing in Puget Sound with my dad. Good times. Can't ever go back, only in memory now.

  • @gabisanhs
    @gabisanhs 5 років тому +1395

    Am I the only one listening to this in 2020??

  • @Dejanique95
    @Dejanique95 8 років тому +266

    My mom had me addicted to this song 😍💕🙌🏾

  • @aidansmith7025
    @aidansmith7025 8 років тому +42

    I'm a dude and I like this song cause I heard it as a kid playing Kingdom Hearts 2. XD, this song brings back real good memories.

    • @goku65838
      @goku65838 8 років тому

      kingdom hearts Best game of of all time KH3 will be G.O.A.Y

    • @aidansmith7025
      @aidansmith7025 8 років тому

      +Tj H When's it gonna come out?

    • @LixalLogue
      @LixalLogue 8 років тому

      +Aidan Smith no one knows, but 2.8 comes out in like November I think

    • @aidansmith7025
      @aidansmith7025 8 років тому

      Ugh

    • @goku65838
      @goku65838 8 років тому

      +Aidan Smith kh3 is def set out for 2017 release date around September

  • @Yamislittleangel55
    @Yamislittleangel55 2 роки тому +13

    My mother passed away yesterday...and I remembered this song. Rest in peace mum...I'll work harder for you. It's time for me to be a big girl now...And big girls do cry...

  • @blackmagicroses1
    @blackmagicroses1 6 років тому +1254

    *Listens to this while crying*

  • @charlee2273
    @charlee2273 8 років тому +64

    My favourite song when I was 9/10. Honestly, this song is so nostalgic. Whenever I would get upset, my mother would turn on this song quietly and it would calm me down. I still do it to this day.

    • @maddiejames1028
      @maddiejames1028 7 років тому

      Charlee Aww! You just warmed my heart! Happy Holidays! ❄️

  • @chloe_3787
    @chloe_3787 6 років тому +631

    Remeber, big girls do cry. We cry when we get hurt. We cry when we get mad. We cry when people break our hearts. We cry when we just can't take this world anymore.
    Girls reading this, it's important you know that. We walk this planet earth with fake smiles plastered on our faces everyday. "Oh, I'm fine," we lie when we're really broken inside. Do not believe that smile because every girl hurts, and you aren't alone. When you're alone, crying into your pillow because you're at your absolute breaking point, you are not different than any other girl because somewhere, she is doing and thinking the exact same thing.
    It's okay to cry because this world is cruel. Life is tough, but you are tougher, so cry it out then pick yourself back up and keep going because you are not alone.

    • @arianaryals2275
      @arianaryals2275 5 років тому +26

      Guys hurt just as bad.....I'm a girl btw lol Guys will hide behind a fake smile too. We all do at some point.

    • @lakshmiandraca8395
      @lakshmiandraca8395 5 років тому +5

      That was deep

    • @aweirdbobadrink3824
      @aweirdbobadrink3824 5 років тому +10

      Reading this brought me to tears. Thank you, I needed this😌

    • @Poisoned_Noodle
      @Poisoned_Noodle 5 років тому +6

      Ariana Ryals can’t girls have anything without men being the center of everything? This is a girl trying to empower other girls who are hurting. If you’re aching to help the hurting guys then go do it. This is a post for girls, under a UA-cam song for girls

    • @AleshaaRees
      @AleshaaRees 5 років тому

      So True

  • @rylhaileyreyes130
    @rylhaileyreyes130 4 роки тому +70

    when i was young like 5 years old my grandma used to make me listen to this song and we always vibe to this song. i really don't know what the lyrics meant before i just like the flow of the song. whenever i cry we always listen to this song. she passed away when i was 12 years old and now im turning 18 tomorrow and I've realized the the lyrics meant as i always have breakdowns and i always cry. i love you mama see you.

    • @Hope4Real_
      @Hope4Real_ 4 роки тому +3

      I think the lyrics mean what you want them too .. for me as a kid back then I never payed attention to the lyrics I literally just thought it meant big girls aren’t supposed to cry now I can relate to this song in so many ways .. expectations, disappointments , losses , gains etc it truly is an amazing song !

    • @bririvera3606
      @bririvera3606 3 роки тому +3

      omg i’m sorry my mom did the same when i was little :(

    • @rylhaileyreyes130
      @rylhaileyreyes130 3 роки тому +2

      @@bririvera3606 awww🥺🥺 if only we knew what are the lyrics really meant that time ☹

  • @maryclaireemar9679
    @maryclaireemar9679 6 років тому +3257

    2019 listeners? 😊😊

  • @lullaby_honeymoon5918
    @lullaby_honeymoon5918 4 роки тому +2492

    “Big girls don’t cry”
    Me, a stressed and depressed college student: [crying] *HhHhhhh*

    • @michaelmiller8455
      @michaelmiller8455 4 роки тому +31

      D+ for grammar college girl.

    • @stryder3747
      @stryder3747 4 роки тому +18

      Lullaby_Moonchild Lmao big mood

    • @kafirahadam6631
      @kafirahadam6631 4 роки тому +11

      Lullaby_Moonchild Lmfao we all have to cry because of the coronavirus

    • @lullaby_honeymoon5918
      @lullaby_honeymoon5918 4 роки тому +13

      Chips Ahoy boi True!
      The coronavirus was like: “Fuck them kids” 😂
      Man, it makes me feel disdain about it :/

    • @stryder3747
      @stryder3747 4 роки тому +5

      Lullaby_Moonchild I hate that so much lmao. Yeah I can see the coronavirus saying that shit 😂😂😂
      I’m in Texas, some colleges have began sending students in housing away

  • @noorkareem4155
    @noorkareem4155 9 років тому +70

    I once started crying in class cuz I had a fight with my friend and my crush came and sang it to me, he has a bad voice but it was sweet

  • @stephb9256
    @stephb9256 3 роки тому +61

    This song still brings tears to my eyes in 2021... hits ya right in the feels 🥺

  • @silverwolf9642
    @silverwolf9642 8 років тому +393

    Man, songs like this just make you wish that you enjoyed the past when you had the chance to. Back then, all I wanted to do was get a driver's license, move out, and be out on my own. But the difference between now and back then was how I used to love car rides because I didn't mind them playing these types of songs over and over. Now days, if I'm not driving I hate car rides because "Love Yourself by Justin Bieber" plays every other time.

    • @adriannaa72
      @adriannaa72 8 років тому +8

      that last part is true asl

    • @silverwolf9642
      @silverwolf9642 8 років тому +1

      Seth Yeah maybe if I wasn't broke lol

    • @oliviapearce9879
      @oliviapearce9879 8 років тому +4

      !!!!!!!!!!!! i couldnt of put it better

    • @asherzanepaynegibson4042
      @asherzanepaynegibson4042 8 років тому +4

      true just turned 18 not what I expected!!

    • @lukefrance9558
      @lukefrance9558 8 років тому +9

      SilverWolf well an aux cord exist and can put every song you want

  • @kyoukajirou6322
    @kyoukajirou6322 6 років тому +695

    I love the way she says "blanket"

    • @nataliehanna4891
      @nataliehanna4891 6 років тому +37

      I like the way she says "school yard"

    • @FaZeMandTaZeM
      @FaZeMandTaZeM 6 років тому +31

      I like the way she says “valentine”

    • @maddiehemingway5652
      @maddiehemingway5652 6 років тому +22

      Carrie Michele I like the way she says “straightin’”

    • @dianapantaleeva2590
      @dianapantaleeva2590 5 років тому +8

      And also 'lingers' 😍 i love the part where she says it

    • @lungkislungkis
      @lungkislungkis 5 років тому +8

      I like the way she says "serengeti"

  • @itsasecret12781
    @itsasecret12781 11 років тому +223

    still listening in 2014

    • @someonelopez3736
      @someonelopez3736 11 років тому +6

      me 2

    • @jadequartz8002
      @jadequartz8002 11 років тому +6

      who doesent

    • @rileygardner2103
      @rileygardner2103 11 років тому +5

      Jordyn Budy Bitches I recken.

    • @jermyajackson8696
      @jermyajackson8696 11 років тому

      Y yall saying duh and who dosent just like the freakin comment ......DAMN I HATE PEOPLE LIKE THAT!!!!!!!

    • @callofduty4702
      @callofduty4702 11 років тому +5

      Jermya Jackson Why are you over reacting? She might have not meant it in a bad way. Lets all be nice now. lol

  • @abluntuser940
    @abluntuser940 6 місяців тому +2

    Shoot I’m a guy and I sing this to myself all the time. (Big Guys don’t cry). Hits those feelings man.

  • @sportslife1710
    @sportslife1710 10 років тому +51

    As a little kid I always cried because my parents fought A LOT around me, they always told each other that they wanted to divorce, so I always went to my room and cried when no one was around. Now, for some reason I have a strong personality to where I don't cry at all anymore, unless I get seriously injured or something like that.

    • @staytrippyman7384
      @staytrippyman7384 10 років тому +2

      same with me i never really cry anymore

    • @juliettemartinez-bw5sw
      @juliettemartinez-bw5sw 10 років тому

      Same :)

    • @holimora
      @holimora 10 років тому +2

      My parents used to fight in front of me when I was a child. I remember that I used to think that I was the only person who has not her parents together. But now they are together again since the last year. At first, I was afraid because I didn't want that my 6-years-old brother suffer the same, but now I think the thing's going fine.

    • @toychicaorblackcloud4222
      @toychicaorblackcloud4222 10 років тому +2

      Yep i did that, too. But now my parents still fight and I'm only 10 yrs old and i don't cry I'm a big girl. Big girls don't cry. I just lock me and my lil bro n sis in my room with a lot of food and drinks

    • @kobelipsey0616
      @kobelipsey0616 10 років тому +2

      For all of yall its not good to hold in tears cause it just gonna hurt more I used to that and I still kind of do it but I'm tryna work on it

  • @nancyzhang8290
    @nancyzhang8290 8 років тому +354

    this is one of those songs that you get so addicted to that you listen 24/7 until you get so sick of it and then remember it practically a month later

    • @anitramorria8015
      @anitramorria8015 7 років тому +5

      i was wondering why i keep listening to it lololol very addictive

    • @josebenitez432
      @josebenitez432 7 років тому +2

      guess I love singing to this song and I'm a guy

    • @thiago475
      @thiago475 6 років тому

      yep lul

    • @zemariatwesley394
      @zemariatwesley394 6 років тому +1

      Nancy Zhang 🤟

    • @adihernandez2171
      @adihernandez2171 6 років тому

      Enough me fury them Klan up u last thing be the most floor good fun go not sure coco mom

  • @BobMarley-bx7lx
    @BobMarley-bx7lx 8 років тому +123

    I am a straight semi-masculine boy/man who is 17 years old and I can say that I have liked this song since I was little :)

  • @DivineCosmicAlchemist
    @DivineCosmicAlchemist 7 місяців тому +1

    This shit hits way harder now that I’m grown. I use to sing this song on karaoke when I was 14. It was my go to karaoke song and the tears I’m dropping now just from listening to the lyrics now and relating at the age of 27 just made my innerchild cry out.

  • @MrsDawn953
    @MrsDawn953 5 років тому +163

    A song that says big girls don't cry, making a 15-year-old girl cry
    Thanks for this, nostalgia and my damn missing of old days... 😢

  • @madg9634
    @madg9634 5 років тому +1557

    Life asked death one day “ why does everyone love me but hate you?” Death said “ because you are a beautiful lie and I’m a painful truth”
    And that hit hard

    • @ShaolynLSuroy
      @ShaolynLSuroy 5 років тому +6

      Mad G 👍😢

    • @jxstadri
      @jxstadri 5 років тому +4

      So true☝️😭

    • @ruthdelacey5473
      @ruthdelacey5473 5 років тому +29

      you're getting down deep in the abyss sister

    • @madg9634
      @madg9634 5 років тому +6

      Ruth DeLacey sorry😭

    • @mah0625
      @mah0625 5 років тому +9

      Let me tell you something sweet heart. You painted my ceiling. Bless you.

  • @andix7512
    @andix7512 9 років тому +447

    My hamster loves this song

  • @slayergirl6983
    @slayergirl6983 3 роки тому +24

    I'm a 21 year old big girl and I still cry. Never too old to cry! Sometimes it helps to cry.

  • @opal_vrc
    @opal_vrc 9 років тому +18

    This song is helping me same with hurt cuz its basically talking bout how i feel and its helping me realize, I don't need a guy to push me around cuz I just gotta get up and walk off

    • @dimitrijames00001
      @dimitrijames00001 9 років тому

      I listen to razorblade by blue October for two reasons
      1. It reminds me why i cut.
      2. It makes me proud of the shit i do.

  • @trinitygibson4550
    @trinitygibson4550 5 років тому +800

    Who’s heartbroken here in 2019 listening to this still

  • @ashlynnegoldman1922
    @ashlynnegoldman1922 5 років тому +1426

    Fergie: Big girls dont cry
    Me: IM NOT A BIG GIRL 😭😭

  • @terriquinlan7683
    @terriquinlan7683 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you. It's a lovely song, and a good one to remind big girls. Now, if you want a great female, you have to hear Divinyls, Only Lonely.

  • @CSgirl322
    @CSgirl322 9 років тому +14

    This was my favourite song for the longest time when I was four.

  • @Jasonchudj
    @Jasonchudj 8 років тому +124

    Big girls DO cry ,when their hearts are breaking

    • @izzyhernandez8802
      @izzyhernandez8802 8 років тому +5

      true

    • @charlottemay9058
      @charlottemay9058 8 років тому +6

      or their nails

    • @Jasonchudj
      @Jasonchudj 8 років тому +2

      +Charlotte May or their legs

    • @romanpheniox3198
      @romanpheniox3198 8 років тому

      Sia

    • @huskyloverlilac
      @huskyloverlilac 7 років тому +9

      zhubox03 yep.... like me...
      Rip Great Grandpa Don... And Great Grandma Pam, AND uncle Dug, miss you guys more then you may have ever known...
      You probably know now...
      expessally at night... while im staring and my own great grandpas shirt and remembering the last hospital visit before you were gone.
      God i wish i could see them again..
      But i know... they will always be with me...
      In my heart..
      As they dance in the sky's and stars of heaven... ✨

  • @purplekbear4
    @purplekbear4 10 років тому +22

    this song brings back so many memories :(

    • @kobelipsey0616
      @kobelipsey0616 10 років тому +5

      Right I'm thinking about life right now

  • @kandrasmith3726
    @kandrasmith3726 2 роки тому +7

    All these years I've listened to this song and I'm just now understanding it 😭 yes I needed this today!!! 🖤 Find your own way kings and queens and give yourself everything you deserve.

  • @lex5832
    @lex5832 8 років тому +1935

    Who else is on the old-song marathon? Lol I am.

  • @okkk934
    @okkk934 4 роки тому +76

    Sometimes you will outgrow people. Other times, you’ll realize that you haven’t given enough attention to yourself in a while. Feeling lonely can often mean that we are in desperate need of ourselves, and at times, we are the ones that need to give ourselves a big hug and say “it’s okay”. Learn who we are, accept our failures and accomplishments, and be at peace with where we stand and where we are heading. “Be with myself and center, clarity, peace and serenity.” I hope this helps anyone who needed to hear this. ❤️

  • @four-twenty4205
    @four-twenty4205 9 років тому +17

    I can't help but think of my uncle when this is on..... he died last year in june at the age of 42 and i think i can hear this music but he can't.... it breaks my heart into pieces.

    • @spartacartman220
      @spartacartman220 9 років тому +5

      Aw, poor love! He's still with you, in your heart. Don't worry, things get better. 🌺❤️

    • @four-twenty4205
      @four-twenty4205 9 років тому +2

      Sparta Cartman Thank you for your respects..... even though i dont know you it means alot xx

    • @jennifermoat8186
      @jennifermoat8186 9 років тому +1

      He'lol always be with you babe 💞💞 sending love and good vibes xx

    • @jennifermoat8186
      @jennifermoat8186 9 років тому

      *he'll

    • @destinylincoln5536
      @destinylincoln5536 9 років тому +1

      DNF Danninetyf nan died 2013 9 dec miss her to bits RIP

  • @ericaguadalupe6835
    @ericaguadalupe6835 2 роки тому +24

    What’s so crazy is that I rediscovered this song when my boyfriend and I ended 5 years of a relationship just two days ago on Valentines day (go figures loll)
    But we moved in together and started a home but in the end he realized he couldn’t move forward with me and I’m actually in the midst of moving out and moving past the sentiments and lost intimacy with someone who I loved with more than 100% of me. It’s so tender and bittersweet but at the same time we knew maybe it wasn’t just meant to be right now.
    To all my sisters out there girls you are absolutely strong no matter what predicament you’re under if you’re in the midst of overcoming keep your head up keep smiling and remember to take care of yourselves ❤️

    • @griselmendoza1107
      @griselmendoza1107 2 роки тому +1

      Arnold justin kai lucas dax Noah koda Preston Mary Jane cassie kendrix jen rose Emma Shelby Sarah blue ranger pink ranger

  • @anaseman9558
    @anaseman9558 9 років тому +467

    Well apparently I'm not a big girl, because I'm fucking sobbing.

  • @fashionholicable
    @fashionholicable 11 років тому +124

    this reminds me of flip phones and 6th grade.

    • @Playerpretend6
      @Playerpretend6 11 років тому +23

      lmao that the best thing i ever read ever on youtube lmao

    • @ammmm5057
      @ammmm5057 11 років тому +3

      Lmfaoooooooooooooooo

  • @cloroxbleach1990
    @cloroxbleach1990 8 років тому +863

    Big girls cry when their hearts are breaking 💔

    • @ThatOneTomboy
      @ThatOneTomboy 8 років тому +11

      Clorox Bleach aye how you get outta my secret stash bleach?😂

    • @toroyoko
      @toroyoko 8 років тому +10

      thank you bleach 😥🙏🏽👌🏽 what would I do without you 😩

    • @lushabae6629
      @lushabae6629 8 років тому +12

      Clorox Bleach I fucking see u everywhere!!?!?

    • @snoopyloops3879
      @snoopyloops3879 8 років тому +7

      Lusha Bae because there is like thousands of UA-cam accounts named that

    • @ayaanmanuel529
      @ayaanmanuel529 8 років тому

      Lusha Bae SAMEEE!!!!

  • @lif3_toughbro_017
    @lif3_toughbro_017 4 роки тому +41

    2021 and I’m still listening to this song, can’t let my boiz know this😳

  • @morganasaccount9701
    @morganasaccount9701 9 років тому +11

    This brings back memories :)

  • @jackspedicey2.011
    @jackspedicey2.011 9 років тому +606

    Who is still watching this is 2016?!

  • @aureatetm859
    @aureatetm859 8 років тому +1457

    Alright, kiddos. Big girls do cry. We cry. It's not good for you to hold in all those tears that will turn into cuts on your forearms one day. Let it all out, and don't be afraid to. Just remember that there are people who love you, no matter what. Keep that in your heart for the rest of your life. Don't get a boyfriend early in your life and shatter your heart, wait until the right time and guy come along. Keep your head up, honey. :3

    • @annaayscue9590
      @annaayscue9590 8 років тому +7

      that's inspiring thanks

    • @aureatetm859
      @aureatetm859 8 років тому +4

      Anna Ayscue
      _Always._

    • @friendlyfire4995
      @friendlyfire4995 8 років тому +12

      Honestly, I don't care to much for this 'inspirational' speech of yours. It's almost like.. you have no idea what you're talking about. You are wrong about that and it bothers me.

    • @aureatetm859
      @aureatetm859 8 років тому +10

      Friendly Fire
      _How does it bother you? And yes, I know what I'm talking about. And you don't have to read it if it bothers you._

    • @friendlyfire4995
      @friendlyfire4995 8 років тому +5

      +Silenå “Master of Weird Faces” Beåuregård There's Two ways to cope with something. Positive coping and negative coping. You act like there is only one-the negative one. You only referred to cutting as a byproduct therefore only mentioning the negative opinion. That's why you are wrong. That's why what you said bothered me.

  • @brandytrent1509
    @brandytrent1509 Рік тому +2

    2023 still here if your still here listening to this your amazing never forget that j keep your head up always 🤞🏼❤️🤗💜

  • @Pantherplz3
    @Pantherplz3 9 років тому +77

    A broken heart brought me here... :'(

  • @asdf-up8ff
    @asdf-up8ff 6 років тому +392

    This song helped me with my first love, when he left me i said i dont want to live anymore.... 😔
    Now Im married with someone else and i have a beautiful doughter 😊

    • @algerianboi_213
      @algerianboi_213 6 років тому +4

      @The LaggingGamer get out

    • @shortcircut9338
      @shortcircut9338 6 років тому +1

      alba_pasha_ aww good for you have a long and happy life😁

    • @mickykaylaa
      @mickykaylaa 5 років тому +2

      Doughter? Sounds like you can’t be a mother when you can’t even spell your own offsprings gender right

    • @michellelalone2312
      @michellelalone2312 5 років тому +3

      This makes me believe thank you ❤

    • @kimberlysoberano7826
      @kimberlysoberano7826 5 років тому +1

      *daughter*

  • @mackenzieesslin3111
    @mackenzieesslin3111 8 років тому +20

    I love this song I remember when this song came out it was the most popular song on the radio at the time, I would listen to it all the time and one day I became curious and decided to look it up and I fell in love with it. Fergie is awesome 😍💜

  • @audreypelfrey5452
    @audreypelfrey5452 3 роки тому +1

    2021 anyone? this song is everything.

  • @dxniela03
    @dxniela03 8 років тому +151

    I miss the old times where our generation wasnt considered "F****d" up

    • @FamAD123
      @FamAD123 8 років тому +34

      Every generation is considered fucked up by the one that came before it.

    • @jasmijnb5952
      @jasmijnb5952 8 років тому

      +FamAD 123 you're so right

    • @communityEsc
      @communityEsc 8 років тому

      @FamAD_123
      Preach.

    • @remboyavelino3251
      @remboyavelino3251 8 років тому +1

      So true

    • @bleach7183
      @bleach7183 7 років тому +5

      Same...
      I miss it everyday.
      It was when kids weren't fxcked up with that toxic shit that some people call music.
      What happened to all the great bands, I mean, Fergie had great music back then.
      What happened??

  • @jasmine-gm5zm
    @jasmine-gm5zm 8 років тому +49

    "I'll be your best friend and you'll be mine Valentine" is my favourite part

  • @laureltree9390
    @laureltree9390 8 років тому +19

    I remember listening to this when I was a little girl, it was new then. It meant a lot to me then...

  • @arikorose
    @arikorose 4 роки тому +20

    Anybody listening to this beautiful song on New Year's Eve wishing that 2021 wont be like this year?

  • @akwamarilla
    @akwamarilla 4 роки тому +765

    Fergie: Big girls don’t cry
    *my 23 year old ass crying everyday*

  • @brendamendez490
    @brendamendez490 7 років тому +27

    This song reminded me that I could still move on in life. That crying doesn't always solve your problems. I am still in love with this song! #2018Anyone

  • @IzzaPlays
    @IzzaPlays 8 років тому +84

    I remember listening to this in 3rd grade...

  • @leslietikotikoca
    @leslietikotikoca Рік тому +2

    2023 and still vibing

  • @crackosaurus
    @crackosaurus 8 років тому +317

    I'm eating a king sized kit kat bar right now. Tastes great!

  • @sierraabde1017
    @sierraabde1017 6 років тому +19

    My mom and i used to sing this song together in the car with the volume turned up all the way. Miss her

  • @alyssasprague8538
    @alyssasprague8538 9 років тому +7

    Man, I haven't heard this song in yeeeeaaarrrss. The last time I listened to it was when I first got an mp3 player. And when my mom broke it, that was the last time I heard this. Brought back some memories tbh

  • @josephlewis9237
    @josephlewis9237 3 роки тому +4

    Such a beautiful song. I love it. It's almost as beautiful as Fergie herself. This song really touches my heart and pulls on my heartstrings. It reminds me of my youth and my Primary schoolmates.

  • @chloeemslie4864
    @chloeemslie4864 8 років тому +8

    hearing this now 5 years later brings back memories of my mom and I jumping and dancing around my room having an amazing time of our life and now my parents are divorced and I cried listening to this song now so big girls do cry I 💖 this song

    • @biggrandma8997
      @biggrandma8997 7 років тому

      Chloe Emslie I USD to listen this song with Mt aunt

  • @nandhinisiva166
    @nandhinisiva166 8 років тому +523

    Big girls cry when there is like 4 essays due,finals r tom, and u have no idea what ur doing with ur life

    • @savannahmoon7533
      @savannahmoon7533 8 років тому

      Nandhini Siva it will get better clearly he didn't deserve you

    • @ladybug9238
      @ladybug9238 6 років тому

      Nandhini Siva I agree

    • @kayebee9697
      @kayebee9697 6 років тому +2

      Savannah TheBro reading is fundamental

    • @jeovanacosta6772
      @jeovanacosta6772 6 років тому +2

      Take It easy girl, trust in God, the things are going to be fine 😊

    • @pelorosaculogordo2890
      @pelorosaculogordo2890 5 років тому +1

      Exactly

  • @TheRockStarQueen6
    @TheRockStarQueen6 10 років тому +21

    You guys are missing the point "big girls dont cry" is an old saying and teaches strenght even when you are dealing with pain basically holding back the pain to be strong even if we all break down crying sometimes it represents strength in women

  • @novacancy6000
    @novacancy6000 4 роки тому +33

    I remember jamming to this as a kid, now as an adult I can actually relate to these lyrics so hard

  • @JulianneCrider
    @JulianneCrider 10 років тому +28

    I love this song..I honestly almost cried when I heard this the first time

  • @artsylens0206
    @artsylens0206 5 років тому +34

    Christmas dec 2019 , listening in my own vibe.. 🍀🌲🌲🌲

  • @lia-XO
    @lia-XO 8 років тому +93

    I'm 12, I used to listen to this since I was 5

  • @asmrsunsets7721
    @asmrsunsets7721 3 роки тому +26

    I never truly understood the meaning of this song until I broke up with a really good person to work on/better myself . I get it now.

  • @amykelley9792
    @amykelley9792 9 років тому +58

    this song goes with when i feel like giving up on things

  • @aiseaysa9096
    @aiseaysa9096 9 років тому +11

    2015 still listen.. still awesome

  • @itsinthefreezer1143
    @itsinthefreezer1143 5 років тому +78

    My auntie used to play this when driving me and my cousins to school, and now I'm a grown ass man listening to it 😅

  • @rc4854
    @rc4854 3 роки тому +3

    Makes so much more sense today than it did a decade ago.❤️YES!! I finally love ME!! I found my Peace and Serenity through all of the chaos!! Big Girls Don’t Cry.❤️

  • @nataleetaylor9807
    @nataleetaylor9807 6 років тому +210

    Is it sad that this has been mine and my mom's song since I was 4... I miss her

    • @allisoningle9629
      @allisoningle9629 5 років тому +5

      same girl same. I miss my mom alot. I listen to this song when I miss her

    • @myronl.509
      @myronl.509 5 років тому

      what happened?

    • @jessvemza1058
      @jessvemza1058 5 років тому +1

      Natalee Taylor ofc not my mom left when I was a kid this song was her favorite and I still listen to it every day to remember her

    • @idiotsandwich7878
      @idiotsandwich7878 5 років тому

      oh sweetheart :(

    • @nataleeenciso4235
      @nataleeenciso4235 5 років тому

      OMG, but how do we have the exact same spelling of name.

  • @_toyukun5588
    @_toyukun5588 11 років тому +9

    I haven't heard this song in years!

  • @nairabittencourt6125
    @nairabittencourt6125 5 років тому +19

    This song represents so well my therapy process. At some point it was like I was staring at my young self and telling her that I'm gonna miss her like a child misses their blanket but I've got to get a move on...some old monsters in our lives need to be defeated; some will always be there, we only need to learn how to live with them. And it's okay to hold hands to them sometimes...

  • @wendymyer8492
    @wendymyer8492 3 роки тому +19

    I’m listening to this bc im getting bullied at school :D

  • @QuantumR96
    @QuantumR96 8 років тому +20

    For some reason I always get goosebumps when she says "yes you can hold my hand if you want to, 'cause I want to hold yours too"

  • @maxmears9680
    @maxmears9680 5 років тому +178

    This was my mothers favorit song. I listen to it on memory of her.

  • @Megan_44
    @Megan_44 9 років тому +4399

    choose the cats over the boys and no one gets hurt

    • @kittykat4835
      @kittykat4835 9 років тому +16

      +iam vete why thank you. :3

    • @kittykat4835
      @kittykat4835 9 років тому +7

      +Megan Amen. :3

    • @Megan_44
      @Megan_44 9 років тому +9

      Shawn Rishwan only if you hunt, fish and want to end the day watching some hockey 🇨🇦

    • @ShawnMadeInUSA
      @ShawnMadeInUSA 9 років тому +2

      iam vete yes

    • @makenna.travis7843
      @makenna.travis7843 9 років тому

      My profile name XD

  • @spartamuzic
    @spartamuzic 2 роки тому +1

    I remember this song always got me emotional inspiring joyful 10+years ago was thinking the lyrics in my head and had to find it. 😌🙏