No wonder your marriage works staying away from his phone is very important 2stay away from his family you cant be frds with your mom inlaw or his sublings keep distance maintain respect 3 respect is very important 4 never ever fight him over that ati anafurahishwa na matako if you value n love yourself you cant fight a man over a messange or that he have admired nyash. 5.communication is the key dont go to solve your issues with family or her family you two should lower your pride solve it both of you like matured people let nobody know about him in your family even if their is conflict you can forgive him but your family will never forgive him NB to all married womans do something for your husband everyday soo that the day he will be absent he will miss it from you kama ni mayai unampikia do it daily even if you fight do it daily or serving him his favourite meal daily do it ati ona ugikua niakaririkanaga kaundu kau kamwee tu. There are more but let me stop there take it or live it.
This was sooooo good to listen to. I like the way Joyce is real explaining about sex with a pinch of humour. Leo nimekufa na nikafufuka 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, ghaaai, Joyce
Monicah uguo urehaga atarani a ihiko , ninjui gwaku onakorwo ti perfect 😂😂😂 ninjùì nìugeragia mùno tondú ona ithuì ithomo ni tuthomaga nyingi guku gwaku
Why are people so negative about marriage, ati 10 years is not enough experience, come after 25 years. That's a lie from hell. People who are reasoning like this are the ones that are in terrible marriages and are miserable. Poleni. When you allow God to choose for you, he gives you the best and you enjoy throughout your marriage. Marriages work from year one to 50 years. If starts well, it ends well. If it starts bad it ends bad. It's not to mean that there will not be challenges, but you'll be able to overcome and you’ll be happy. Godly marriages work. Try trusting in God.
All that was true in yester yrs b4 smartphones & WiFi. Today, the spirit of immortality has been released heavily through social media & pornography. I've seen v. good men who hv been faithful for yrs suddenly change when they get to 30s & 40s. Social media & pornography has destroyed unassuming pple like pastors & pastors' wives.
Waao this is very informative,transactional and for sure it has really impacted my life in a possitive way. The fact that you were almost 30yrs and still a virgin has really strengthened me to keep pushing until God brings that man in my life.Thank you very much you Joyce and Monicah and to single ladies out here, marriage is ordained by God so is a good thing lets keep pushing until our time comes...
Ur were not alone mimi nliwa nafikiria its just as small as a little boy ,wacha tu I thought my husband was abnormal ,hady nkauliza my freind kaa wengi wanakua hivyo hizo zingine wacha ntatembea metha ya kagoni ❤
Am 31 years old i have never seen my mom pack go back to her parents house and she came from a well up family she is in marriage for 50years everytime my dad want trouble my mom always make herself unavailable dont talk back listen n shut up let him roar jifanye uko na kazi always lower your pride the first one to apologize is not weak lower pride to avoid u both having pride it cant work love alone cant keep or make marriage work
Am sure you accepted this man because he was already build up. If he never had money, am sure hata haungemsalimu. Ladies these days don't need love, they want your money, ikiiwha, unaendea mwingine.
Me niko na that talent of making peoples marriage work but M not married i dated 9years i let go nikaona if i get into marriage with him it wont work but he was the best guy
Its good to abstain from sex, it helps alot in so many ways, you'll get to focus on yourself and career wise, you get to do self discovery, you become more confident, spiritually strong, not easy to be distracted and its easy for one to say NO, you become more mature and more principled and focused and you don't care about society madness....Am not married but i congratulate this lady for practicing sexual absteinance its the best practice and it pleases the LORD koz God hates sexual sin...Sex was meant for ONLY married couples( church marriage) but again God doesn't recognize the "come we stay" marriages koz before him ni usherati...The issue of infidelity there's no need for one to tolerate it, just EXIT from such a disrespectful marriage. When it comes to infidelity it has nothing to do with the devil, if a man can't practice self control and he cheats on his wife, it has nothing to do with the devil but the cheaters choice... There's no trophy in cheating...
@@joynyambs5902 church marriage is good, sio lazima you hold a big wedding nop, another one if one don't have finances wanafunganishwa tuu church na a priest in the presence of several witnesses.... Personally am a Christian and I don't believe in traditional marriages koz term "tradition" Iko na maundus maingi traditional which aren't Godly...
Hey @flonya, don't worry. As long as you use some lubricant first few days there will be no pain. But try use natural one like olive or glycerin. But please wait until marriage, it's so sweet when you have the right person.
Wow!! my God is faithful.... Iam happy to recive this content of encouragement.....lam a true beliver , pray warrior and also a virgin , who have maintained it for 26years .... Upto now. l believe l will also get a man chosen by God to be mine, because l have been praying God about it.... I will maintain it until the church marriage day because l made that covenant onto God , and God has been on my side
Very real. I love the reality of it and the appreciation of Godly approach. Her innocence in experience. It's true for the 1st timers you feel like you are sinning. it is sweet-bitter experience, but the sweetness will later exceed the bitter part. Its just like giving birth to a child. Pain is a lot but the joy after that exceeds the earlier painful experience. Happy that i can connect with her experience.
Hau ha kwaria na tongues niudu wa shama( shhhhhhhhhhhh) ni hajaka muno Tondu di muira Ona akorwo diaririe na tongues na ni daitire maithori nginya ngiurio kai daigwa atia😂 Ngiuga ni maithori ma shama
this interview is on another level. nimeheka from beginning end. Hilarious lady she is saying it directly waaah. mpaka monica is lost for words. Joy should be interviewed by tata an mama wa murio
Monicah!!! Am learning, getting theory before practicals!!! But the last part though...neither the Bible nor the Church teach that. Would mean that any other type other than adultery and fornication are allowed which is not the case. I take that with hands full of salt...
Amen my sister your marriage will be a success and a testimony to the whole world . I also married a virgin for 42 Year I have faithful to her Marriage works Shalom . The devil is a liar we have faithful men and women in marriage.
What i don't like na the people who come to encourage athers na kitu kama ya marriage alafu the keep tell i past a test na hawasemi what test sasa unaficha nini if you want to advise people
Joy huna experience yatutosha kuonea about marriage. Ten years is just the other day. I have been married for thirty three years and I have seen it all.
Huyu anafaa kwenda kwa mama witu wa murio😂😂😂, Ngugi wa karanja wi naku 😂😂😂😂😂, ati " tutware kahora , ni hindi show yambiriria, 😂😂😂, uncle witu chukua hii ❤
This is a great show especially for those young girls who have remained faithful to God and salvation.
Today's guest is amazing, she's so passionate about marriage, bring her more. She's so informative.
I love her honesty and accepting to be vulnerable…am learning.
Thanking God after 17 years of marriage
she is a vibe
😢😢😢😢😢 I got married nikiwa virgin but my husband died so sad still waiting God to bless me with another husband
May God remember you for His glory
@@paulmuriithi1187 sorry . there is still hope
Wana!
apply online
Pole mama 🫂 🫂
I salute this 👠 woman.
Despite many challenges marriage works. We r in 29th yr
unasalute ujinga .Kwan aliexpect nn baada ya harusi
No wonder your marriage works staying away from his phone is very important 2stay away from his family you cant be frds with your mom inlaw or his sublings keep distance maintain respect 3 respect is very important 4 never ever fight him over that ati anafurahishwa na matako if you value n love yourself you cant fight a man over a messange or that he have admired nyash. 5.communication is the key dont go to solve your issues with family or her family you two should lower your pride solve it both of you like matured people let nobody know about him in your family even if their is conflict you can forgive him but your family will never forgive him NB to all married womans do something for your husband everyday soo that the day he will be absent he will miss it from you kama ni mayai unampikia do it daily even if you fight do it daily or serving him his favourite meal daily do it ati ona ugikua niakaririkanaga kaundu kau kamwee tu. There are more but let me stop there take it or live it.
Notes to be taken to young couples in marriage
This was sooooo good to listen to. I like the way Joyce is real explaining about sex with a pinch of humour. Leo nimekufa na nikafufuka 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, ghaaai, Joyce
Huyu akitoka hapa kwa Metha ya Kagoni aende straight kwa Ngugi wa karanja mara moja 😂😂😂😂 for the next episode 😂
Hehe
Alikua huko last year check out ...
😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly my thoughts 😂😂😂
Ngugi akaagwa na giti😊
Monica, when it comes to listen to your channel, mabo ya kanisa "CWA, MOTHERS UNION" we put aside, lazma tuelimishane. So don't worry about us monica
Monicah uguo urehaga atarani a ihiko , ninjui gwaku onakorwo ti perfect 😂😂😂 ninjùì nìugeragia mùno tondú ona ithuì ithomo ni tuthomaga nyingi guku gwaku
😂😂😂😂😂 this is the funniest show ever I really enjoyed
People need to hear this
Please bring her back please 🙏🙏🙏❤️
People need to have the good best couple to give you the advice na pia kuna lubricants
Monica huyu amepotea njia 😂😂 alikua aende kwa uncle wa murio mena tata 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂 I had to put my earphones
I love this!!
When you are angry, please pray before having the conversation with your spouse
Best advice of the night 🌸🩷
Huyu aende kwa uncle witu Ngugi wa murio🤣🤣🤣leo metha ya kagoni iko on 🔥🔥met us learn, sex was created by God enjoy with your husband
Why are people so negative about marriage, ati 10 years is not enough experience, come after 25 years. That's a lie from hell. People who are reasoning like this are the ones that are in terrible marriages and are miserable. Poleni. When you allow God to choose for you, he gives you the best and you enjoy throughout your marriage. Marriages work from year one to 50 years. If starts well, it ends well. If it starts bad it ends bad.
It's not to mean that there will not be challenges, but you'll be able to overcome and you’ll be happy.
Godly marriages work.
Try trusting in God.
All that was true in yester yrs b4 smartphones & WiFi. Today, the spirit of immortality has been released heavily through social media & pornography. I've seen v. good men who hv been faithful for yrs suddenly change when they get to 30s & 40s. Social media & pornography has destroyed unassuming pple like pastors & pastors' wives.
@@frashiahwangari2177yes..ten years si kitu..I want a testimony from people married over 30 years ..
Onanii Ngai ahe múndú 🤣🤣 ngarehe testimony.
Waao this is very informative,transactional and for sure it has really impacted my life in a possitive way. The fact that you were almost 30yrs and still a virgin has really strengthened me to keep pushing until God brings that man in my life.Thank you very much you Joyce and Monicah and to single ladies out here, marriage is ordained by God so is a good thing lets keep pushing until our time comes...
Amen
Ur were not alone mimi nliwa nafikiria its just as small as a little boy ,wacha tu I thought my husband was abnormal ,hady nkauliza my freind kaa wengi wanakua hivyo hizo zingine wacha ntatembea metha ya kagoni ❤
😂😂😂😂😂this mama is ridiculously funny! Aki si Ive laughed! What a show!!!
There is nothing to love at here ,She is a serious woman in marriage
Am 31 years old i have never seen my mom pack go back to her parents house and she came from a well up family she is in marriage for 50years everytime my dad want trouble my mom always make herself unavailable dont talk back listen n shut up let him roar jifanye uko na kazi always lower your pride the first one to apologize is not weak lower pride to avoid u both having pride it cant work love alone cant keep or make marriage work
When you keep quiet,he says you are rude
Weuh ..na uko na mtu?
She looks very young hakai 40yrs she is beautiful indeed
Ndi 16 😂😂😂😂😂 asante
l salute this lady ..love u Monica my darling show is🔥🔥
huoni anacheka kulingana na venye alijienjoy
Am sure you accepted this man because he was already build up. If he never had money, am sure hata haungemsalimu. Ladies these days don't need love, they want your money, ikiiwha, unaendea mwingine.
Guku umuthi kwagirite ta hiti 😂😂😂😂🙌🙌
Ngugi host joy, itakua moto sna, Monica is very shy about this😂😂
Yah, Monica ako na kashy...
Monica😂😂😂wanyu riii holy mary😂😂😂😂 huyu akitoka huku tunamtakaa kwa nguji wa karaja😂 those dudes are very real in talking
Metha haijazoea mambo haya, even kagoni is worried.
In our culture,people shy away from topics like this yet this issues affect almost every marriage.thats why communication among couples is not there.
This one is pure vibe like our murio family 😂 Ngugi Wa Karanja please invite her for us😅 I love her already 😅
Me niko na that talent of making peoples marriage work but M not married i dated 9years i let go nikaona if i get into marriage with him it wont work but he was the best guy
Its good to abstain from sex, it helps alot in so many ways, you'll get to focus on yourself and career wise, you get to do self discovery, you become more confident, spiritually strong, not easy to be distracted and its easy for one to say NO, you become more mature and more principled and focused and you don't care about society madness....Am not married but i congratulate this lady for practicing sexual absteinance its the best practice and it pleases the LORD koz God hates sexual sin...Sex was meant for ONLY married couples( church marriage) but again God doesn't recognize the "come we stay" marriages koz before him ni usherati...The issue of infidelity there's no need for one to tolerate it, just EXIT from such a disrespectful marriage. When it comes to infidelity it has nothing to do with the devil, if a man can't practice self control and he cheats on his wife, it has nothing to do with the devil but the cheaters choice... There's no trophy in cheating...
Kwa hivyo Mimi sijaolewa nifanya traditional marriage only
@@joynyambs5902 church marriage is good, sio lazima you hold a big wedding nop, another one if one don't have finances wanafunganishwa tuu church na a priest in the presence of several witnesses.... Personally am a Christian and I don't believe in traditional marriages koz term "tradition" Iko na maundus maingi traditional which aren't Godly...
Good advice
💯
10yrs.. congratulations siku hizi hata 1yr ni harder
please 🙏 joy we need you kwa mama wa murio😂😂 Monica is shy
This show "I choose marriage" is a good one....I am still a virgin and such stories make me freak out coz I hate pain
Wacha hizo wait until the wedding day wee....
Hi flonya
Hey @flonya, don't worry. As long as you use some lubricant first few days there will be no pain. But try use natural one like olive or glycerin. But please wait until marriage, it's so sweet when you have the right person.
Kindly wait until marriage. If you use natural lubricants the first days, it's not painful. But don't use saliva please. 😊
Me in my first time marriage I use everything but end up in hospital. En hymenectomy procedure was done. Now am fine
Kui witu ndunatuira parental guidance advised 🙆🙆🙆... Wueh... Fire 🔥
I love the way Joy is connecting with God.
Glory be to God
I am not am not married but I really appreciate what joy is sharing. Many women should hear this.
Omg she's really funny. I can listen to her all day😂😂😂😂
She's nice
😂😂😂Wonderful Counciling.Thank you gal❤❤🎉
I am jane ND am 26 years am still a virgin na kamurigo siangushi,,, thank you guys for encouraging me to continue being me🔥🔥
Abstain kabisaaa for the glory of the Lord
And am here 26 years old with two kids enjoying my marriage my dear break it 30 is knocking soon😂😂😂😂
Amen😂😂
As long itakuliwa tu haina noma.
Congratulations 👏
My opinion. This would be interesting if Kagoni matched this ladies energy...Kagoni anabehave kama dada😂
Madam joy i really love ur courage n a good councillor
Asante
Wow!! my God is faithful.... Iam happy to recive this content of encouragement.....lam a true beliver , pray warrior and also a virgin , who have maintained it for 26years .... Upto now. l believe l will also get a man chosen by God to be mine, because l have been praying God about it.... I will maintain it until the church marriage day because l made that covenant onto God , and God has been on my side
Very real. I love the reality of it and the appreciation of Godly approach. Her innocence in experience. It's true for the 1st timers you feel like you are sinning. it is sweet-bitter experience, but the sweetness will later exceed the bitter part. Its just like giving birth to a child. Pain is a lot but the joy after that exceeds the earlier painful experience. Happy that i can connect with her experience.
Kagoni ako na alama ya mshagao especially when she is explaining. About that kiudu😂😂😂😂😂😂
Great content ..with Joy actually wale mnasema aende lwa Ngugi si mpo nyinyi na mwili na damu
So Joy is right..
You people are a blessing! I'm totally blessed. God bless both of you:)
Amen
Ngûgî wa Karanja MC and mûrîo family oyai njûng'wa mûtûjoin. Metha is on 🔥 today Hallelujah
Uyu n murio uramugis
Eeeh.... hii Ngûgî anaweza penda sana😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I have seen my match in terms of principles and character. Kumbe i wasn't alone.
Woi monicah kai umuthi gucenjirie atia.
😂😂😂😂😂, the way she casually says 'indo' 😂😂😂😂
She's really according marriage the respect it deserves... "Marriage bed with your own husband is an altar" I love this
Monicah laughing 😂😂😂😂 knowing she's a rider 😂😂😂😂😂
Such a beautiful show,big up Monica ❤❤
Hau ha kwaria na tongues niudu wa shama( shhhhhhhhhhhh) ni hajaka muno
Tondu di muira
Ona akorwo diaririe na tongues na ni daitire maithori nginya ngiurio kai daigwa atia😂
Ngiuga ni maithori ma shama
Nginya kúigua thitima shock matú,magúrú na ciíga ciothe😅…Wueh 17 years on nimeona
@@marysolomon7399 tuko wengi
Marriage is very sweet. When u marry ur friend n respect him n he loves you n remains faithful
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 fiery....🤣🤣🤣🤣 the explanation is fire nginya uria gukoraguo .... 😂😂😂😂
Congratulations girl.
May God continue blessing your marriage.
Most of us passed through try an error until Mr Right came.
this interview is on another level. nimeheka from beginning end. Hilarious lady she is saying it directly waaah. mpaka monica is lost for words. Joy should be interviewed by tata an mama wa murio
Noma sana marriage aint easy may God keep us the married covered by his grace..sio rahisi
Very informative message. There is still hope for those who are waiting until marriage.
Yes
Joy...she was a youth preacher at Shalom ACK Church Githurai. Well behaved girl. She was also working at a certain pharmacy in Githurai. Kudos girl.
I thank God darling
Uyu niwagwitu biu... Tata wamurio eku
Waiting patiently on God...
For sure an learning more,may your marriages Joy and Monica be sustained by the most high maker.
Mrs kangoni Leo unakaa sand baby girl
Ngugi wa karanja wina mugeni 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Ngugi wa Karanja MC muriio family. Kujeni huku😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 is the husband watching? Ngai 🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️ najua anawatch volume ikiwa 0, from minute 38😂😂
Mbna unafanya n forward ady 38😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@rosemarykamau7074 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My husband is telling me Kai uyu wa kagoni oi doggy....
Wooi,route ya guthii nairobi nu nyingi.Kifo ya mende 1:00:09
Kuna ata salvation army, I am glad I understand Kikuyu. Am your number one fun
Nguuugi wa kaaranja uncle wa murio wikuu 🎤
My darling leo show iko sawa
Its kudrill na gùtobokia for me 😂😂😂😂😂 khai 🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️🙆🏻♂️ Ngugi wa karanja kujia mwenzako
Wewe you were suppose to hav interview with wamurio's family...😅😅😅
Was just wondering whether this is the same joy who once worked at Isinya health center.
Monica and how she's shy 😂😂😂
Monica uyu niagugute ooriu mum aroigire wi kairitu keega. Onanduramenyania styles 😂😂
Riu ici Muhiki wa Kagoni ataweza na Venye Monica ako Shy🤔🙆🤷🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ti shy, 😂 aríkagia wega muno, kahorakahora😂😂😂😂
Monicah!!! Am learning, getting theory before practicals!!! But the last part though...neither the Bible nor the Church teach that. Would mean that any other type other than adultery and fornication are allowed which is not the case. I take that with hands full of salt...
😁😁😁😁umuthi guthakarire iii ati niarohoreruo muri......😁😁😁ngenete ma ta hiti
Mama wa murio kujia joy i can't imagine hiyo show itakuwa aje.
Si angesema alipitia nn tulearn
😂😂😂😂umetoa huyu wapi.Apelekewe Ngugi wa Karanja for the next episode.
Hello,kagoni ucio ni wa kwa Ngugi ma no kai umuthi watuika Ngugi ❤❤reke ndikenere nii😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love metha ya kagoni ❤
Muriio family kujeni huku metha😂😂😂😂
Tumefika
Amen my sister your marriage will be a success and a testimony to the whole world . I also married a virgin for 42 Year I have faithful to her Marriage works Shalom . The devil is a liar we have faithful men and women in marriage.
Amen 🙏
Uyu kaba angihostirwo ni mama wa murio😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Kagoni ndamenyerete waganu😂😂😂😂
Muthuri wa Joy e guku hihi eiguire ndeto ici😅😅ndetu chara ruku
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Aki monica unaniua na kicheko .. yaani unajifanya kabisa huelewi mambo ya style una..........😅😅😅
Waaaah The Heading is on 🔥 I don't understand Kikuyu but am sailing along. Comments in English is guiding me to at least understand abite
Joy angikoruo kwao ni Kiria-ini ni WA mucii gwitu kigoro Gatanga nii ndakwama " maitho secy
She is a good story teller.
What i don't like na the people who come to encourage athers na kitu kama ya marriage alafu the keep tell i past a test na hawasemi what test sasa unaficha nini if you want to advise people
Joy huna experience yatutosha kuonea about marriage. Ten years is just the other day. I have been married for thirty three years and I have seen it all.
There's a group that will feel ministered to by those 10 yrs of her experience.... especially the very newly married
Thie ukamie
@@TrizaRexIan😂😂😂
She is not married to your husband. Not all men put women through hell, we do have some loving and respectful men out here.
I thank God for those 10 year,,I don't take it for granted,,,, it's all about God,,,,,, 🙏
Huyu anafaa kwenda kwa mama witu wa murio😂😂😂, Ngugi wa karanja wi naku 😂😂😂😂😂, ati " tutware kahora , ni hindi show yambiriria, 😂😂😂, uncle witu chukua hii ❤
Monika leo 😂 wacha tuu
Leo kimewaka mwaki wa thandì hapa kwa metha uuuui
Ngugi wa Karanja eku,agire uyu😅😂
Today the show was killing🎉🎉🎉be blessed🙏