Long distance is a tricky thing. You can have feeling for someone but when you meet them, you can realize that you both aren't compatible. She is so insecure it's annoying.
I agree with you! Chidi said he had apprehension about her character…she’s the f’ing manipulative and thinks this blind man will accept me because no one else wants him and she could wrap him around her bony finger. Just because a person travels ( her choice);doesn’t mean that person you visit will jump your bones as soon as they touch down. Her expectations were off the chain. Her low self esteem is something she’s had since childhood, she did manage to get two men to impregnate her, her family exposed her card when they called her out about choosing a blind man to objectify and obsess over. HE DOSEN’T WANT HER! Even the monkey tried to bite her…she was trying to touch and obsess and the monkey sensed she was off and wasn’t having it!…just sayin’…
Yes before she met him Chidi thought she was going to be skinny as she’d described herself. However, at the airport he kept saying “you are big “ Maybe he was put off by that?
He’s a devoted Christian probably. There are people like that. He chose to play the long game & flirt but wasn’t going to do the deed. It’s a clash of values & culture. I presume he liked her. Dude is in his 30’s and blind so his choices are limited. Dude relies solely on his sister for survival. Rayne is taking it the wrong way. I also have stopped humping chicks for spiritual reasons. He didn’t tell the truth about what happened to his eyes, it could’ve been something worse. Probably a stone got into it as a kid or something. I guess he should’ve told her all along before leading her on. Maybe he doesn’t like her character, she comes off as a spoilt brat (the chicken incident) Both parties not willing to compromise on values/opinions
You misread this, it isn’t about her self esteem. She had no issues sending nude pictures to him. She said that him being blind meant that he wasn’t attracted to her because of her looks and they have a deeper connection as her looks isn’t an attribute in his attractiveness and connection to her.
If these rolls were reversed, and a guy showed up and expected sex, the entire internet would be burning down. He has a right to decide he isn’t interested in here
Exactly and sometimes when you meet in person you just don't feel the same chemistry as online, plus throw in the way she is acting. Huge turn off and red flag. Plus , if he slept with her & then dumped her HE would be slammed for using her for sex 🙄 I say this as a woman tired of the hypocrites
Both of these people are playing a game. He doesn’t care for her. She’s desperate for someone to care for her. He’s in it for the $ from TLC. She’s one of the strangest people I’ve seen, but the poor woman is starving for love. I hope she finds it. (New Mexicans are weird about their chickens).
How does she go from being a non believer to believing that his blindness is faith/ a miracle/ spiritual/ a divine intervention for the reason they are together? That’s blasphemous .. that’s why his sister in the next episode is filling up with rage.. she’s sensing her high level of hypocrisy
As bonkers as she is I’ve kept saying he told her they’d be trying before they buy…or before they commit to a relationship. But people have kept going on calling her names for having a se* drive, it’s how the earth is full of animals including us, it’s human nature. I’m a huge believer in try before you buy, would you buy a bed and mattress you had to keep for at least 10 years without trying it? Adult time is a big part of a relationship, she’s desperately lacking in confidence, she’s said so many times she years to be romanced and wowed, he led her on to think that’s what she was going to get. Then he decided no, he even said he should have told her before she got there.
He said he was a born again Christian in episode 1 for those that dont know it means he recommited himself to christ. So im sure he talk sexually with her at one point. But he decided to commit to his religon after
There's a thing, I think its called religious psychosis, where a person literally thinks every single thing is a sign just for them... it's over the top and too much at times when Rayne does that, she should chill with that a bit ❤😂
He has the right to change his mind!!! Yall are getting annoying because if I met her in person then I wouldn’t want to touch her either and maybe he doesn’t want to be mean and just took an easier route out because she clearly doesn’t have it all upstairs so why further escalate the issue 🥴 especially while she’s still there.. I’d play it off too until she left 🤷🏽♀️
Right?! I would do the same thing even if it seems selfish. A lot of people definitely haven't dealt with that situation and still they'll comment about it like they know exactly what they're talking about lol
She needs to do some deep work on that anxious attachment. I think Chidi is just not into her. He had to pick up on some of the quirkiness though. Was he hopeful that she was different in person, maybe. Did he still decide to go along with being on the show to make himself known and maybe secure more resources through it, also maybe.
0:23 holy crap, I’m nervous, I can see and I wouldn’t dare say on that fence those two are perched on near the water, I’d lose my balance and be in it or the fence collapse 😂
There is another possibility. Remember CHIDI SISTER said he was at school... She came to Nigeria to stay with him and they had to move in with the sister and husband , who are probably Christians. No way they would allow CHIDI to sleep in the same room and be overly affectionate in their home and in public. African society you wouldn't see much PDA. 🤷🏾♀️ Maybe she should've rented her own space for both of them but then he would need help because of is disability. She is just a little cookbook however you look at it.
She is a dangerous ticking time bomb, I saw when they were walking the bridge together, he hit into the railing twice, uncalled for. The best part is when the monkey snapped at her.❤❤❤
It is so conflicting to say that Chidi's blindness is part of God's plan for them to meet, yet later refer to that same god as "false" A person who is actually spiritually minded will accept other people's beliefs and understand that we all have our own spiritual paths. Each path is different but ultimately based on love.
I feel for Rayne. She seems like she loves him and she is accepting his vow to God and then he comments about her being in a alternate universe. I think he wants a caretaker. My favorite couple is the sweet guy with autism and Matilda
I’m sorry but she is nuts because the preview of the next episode with his sister she just was starting at that point smh . She still trying to make this man change his way of thinking
Rayne needs a therapist buttttt, With all due respect to Nigeria, Rayne,and Chida she should be happy to enjoy the culture , community 9: 9:069:069:069:06 an 9: 9:06 landscape of the country. To much emphasis and pressure was placed on sex . I would have immersed myself in the culture and yes cuisine. She may have dodged a bullet. I didn’t see any communication concerning tests for aids and other sexual diseases. Not to mention money pox and other illnesses that she should have been considered with. The yellow light means slow down. Rayne slow down get yourself a good therapist and don’t worry about sex with someone who doesn’t want you. Dance 💃 like no one is watching and 🎉celebrate your life, kids, and enjoy the next adventure for the culture, cuisine and community. Ignore the 9:06 I couldn’t remove them
You could tell he was hurt by that! I would be too. She says Chidi is misguided by his faith but then turns around and says something extremely insensitive and misguided to him. 😬
My thought is Chidi's sister is making sure he is protected and not making a typical Nigerian move being a object for the American Throw outs that seem to flee there as if it is a gift or something. I just hope she does not know Loren
I'm starting to think that tlc is going to mental hospitals , people living on the streets and jails to get the people for these shows
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Rayne is weird as hell, but Chidi lied to her, & they have no relationship. She needs to go home! 😱🥶😨😰
No they don't have a relationship.. because they've only been talking for a couple months after no communication for 3 yrs, before filming started.
They are both lying and fake 🙄
@@annicklagace7414I agree! I think it's nuts that they think and say they they've been dating.
Your comments are on point. Her self-esteem is nonexistent. She's ia definitely quirky, but she needs to work on herself. It's so sad!
True! I've never seen a woman beg for sex!
Long distance is a tricky thing. You can have feeling for someone but when you meet them, you can realize that you both aren't compatible. She is so insecure it's annoying.
It depends on the ppl I guess
Rayne has zero self esteem. She needs to find love for herself. She's nuts and not making good choices our of desperation.
It's all so creepy😮
Could it be that he is not attracted to her in person? The in person vibe changed somewhere along the line, perhaps..idk ..what do you think??
I agree with you! Chidi said he had apprehension about her character…she’s the f’ing manipulative and thinks this blind man will accept me because no one else wants him and she could wrap him around her bony finger. Just because a person travels ( her choice);doesn’t mean that person you visit will jump your bones as soon as they touch down. Her expectations were off the chain. Her low self esteem is something she’s had since childhood, she did manage to get two men to impregnate her, her family exposed her card when they called her out about choosing a blind man to objectify and obsess over. HE DOSEN’T WANT HER! Even the monkey tried to bite her…she was trying to touch and obsess and the monkey sensed she was off and wasn’t having it!…just sayin’…
Rumor is they hadn’t been in communication for a long time when she came back talking to him asking him to do the show with her.
Yes when she became enraged & unhinged!
Yes before she met him Chidi thought she was going to be skinny as she’d described herself. However, at the airport he kept saying “you are big “
Maybe he was put off by that?
He’s a devoted Christian probably. There are people like that. He chose to play the long game & flirt but wasn’t going to do the deed. It’s a clash of values & culture. I presume he liked her. Dude is in his 30’s and blind so his choices are limited. Dude relies solely on his sister for survival. Rayne is taking it the wrong way. I also have stopped humping chicks for spiritual reasons. He didn’t tell the truth about what happened to his eyes, it could’ve been something worse. Probably a stone got into it as a kid or something. I guess he should’ve told her all along before leading her on. Maybe he doesn’t like her character, she comes off as a spoilt brat (the chicken incident) Both parties not willing to compromise on values/opinions
She’s got big issues to sort out before been with anyone regardless
You misread this, it isn’t about her self esteem. She had no issues sending nude pictures to him. She said that him being blind meant that he wasn’t attracted to her because of her looks and they have a deeper connection as her looks isn’t an attribute in his attractiveness and connection to her.
If these rolls were reversed, and a guy showed up and expected sex, the entire internet would be burning down. He has a right to decide he isn’t interested in here
Exactly and sometimes when you meet in person you just don't feel the same chemistry as online, plus throw in the way she is acting. Huge turn off and red flag. Plus , if he slept with her & then dumped her HE would be slammed for using her for sex 🙄 I say this as a woman tired of the hypocrites
@@biancajade728 so true. It’s happened to me!
@@biancajade728Looks like most of these thirsty women on the show have no vision for the future!😮
Once the infatuation was gone I'm convinced chidi just started listening to what she was saying and how weird, awkward and off-putting she actually is
He's blind but she's tragically tone deaf
I don't understand her she needs serious therapy. TLC this season has made some very poor decisions. It's sad what they have done this season.
He made sense because I understand how people can change their mind
Both of these people are playing a game. He doesn’t care for her. She’s desperate for someone to care for her. He’s in it for the $ from TLC. She’s one of the strangest people I’ve seen, but the poor woman is starving for love. I hope she finds it. (New Mexicans are weird about their chickens).
How does she go from being a non believer to believing that his blindness is faith/ a miracle/ spiritual/ a divine intervention for the reason they are together? That’s blasphemous .. that’s why his sister in the next episode is filling up with rage.. she’s sensing her high level of hypocrisy
He should have told her not to come he’s a RED FLAG 🚩 and she is a double 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
She told him herself that if he could see he wouldnt be with her so she planted that seed on her own its natural for him to reconsider ???
Shes a little crazy. I dont blame him for changing his mind.
Only a little?
As bonkers as she is I’ve kept saying he told her they’d be trying before they buy…or before they commit to a relationship. But people have kept going on calling her names for having a se* drive, it’s how the earth is full of animals including us, it’s human nature.
I’m a huge believer in try before you buy, would you buy a bed and mattress you had to keep for at least 10 years without trying it? Adult time is a big part of a relationship, she’s desperately lacking in confidence, she’s said so many times she years to be romanced and wowed, he led her on to think that’s what she was going to get. Then he decided no, he even said he should have told her before she got there.
He said he was a born again Christian in episode 1 for those that dont know it means he recommited himself to christ. So im sure he talk sexually with her at one point. But he decided to commit to his religon after
she is very weird. she needs help.
There's a thing, I think its called religious psychosis, where a person literally thinks every single thing is a sign just for them... it's over the top and too much at times when Rayne does that, she should chill with that a bit ❤😂
He has the right to change his mind!!! Yall are getting annoying because if I met her in person then I wouldn’t want to touch her either and maybe he doesn’t want to be mean and just took an easier route out because she clearly doesn’t have it all upstairs so why further escalate the issue 🥴 especially while she’s still there.. I’d play it off too until she left 🤷🏽♀️
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THIS!
Agree
Right?! I would do the same thing even if it seems selfish. A lot of people definitely haven't dealt with that situation and still they'll comment about it like they know exactly what they're talking about lol
Chidi needs to find a woman who shares the same faith as him that will appreciate his virtues.
She needs to do some deep work on that anxious attachment. I think Chidi is just not into her. He had to pick up on some of the quirkiness though. Was he hopeful that she was different in person, maybe. Did he still decide to go along with being on the show to make himself known and maybe secure more resources through it, also maybe.
0:23 holy crap, I’m nervous, I can see and I wouldn’t dare say on that fence those two are perched on near the water, I’d lose my balance and be in it or the fence collapse 😂
This seems like some sort of con or game he was playing with her, i feel bad she wasted 5 years thinking this guy had genuine feelings for her.
There is another possibility. Remember CHIDI SISTER said he was at school... She came to Nigeria to stay with him and they had to move in with the sister and husband , who are probably Christians. No way they would allow CHIDI to sleep in the same room and be overly affectionate in their home and in public. African society you wouldn't see much PDA. 🤷🏾♀️ Maybe she should've rented her own space for both of them but then he would need help because of is disability. She is just a little cookbook however you look at it.
She is a dangerous ticking time bomb, I saw when they were walking the bridge together, he hit into the railing twice, uncalled for. The best part is when the monkey snapped at her.❤❤❤
😂😂😂😂😂 that was funny with the monkey 🐒 snapping at her.
Even the monkey knew better.
he’s a devout Christian. he doesn’t believe in sex before marriage if possible. and that’s it
I agree she was probably turned down mostly because of her strong believes. Not because the men did not like her she looks.
It is so conflicting to say that Chidi's blindness is part of God's plan for them to meet, yet later refer to that same god as "false"
A person who is actually spiritually minded will accept other people's beliefs and understand that we all have our own spiritual paths. Each path is different but ultimately based on love.
Chidi don't want the kitty..😂 can you blame him?
I feel for Rayne. She seems like she loves him and she is accepting his vow to God and then he comments about her being in a alternate universe. I think he wants a caretaker. My favorite couple is the sweet guy with autism and Matilda
I’m sorry but she is nuts because the preview of the next episode with his sister she just was starting at that point smh . She still trying to make this man change his way of thinking
She a little scary 🫣
Rayne needs a therapist buttttt, With all due respect to Nigeria, Rayne,and Chida she should be happy to enjoy the culture , community 9: 9:06 9:06 9:06 9:06 an 9: 9:06 landscape of the country. To much emphasis and pressure was placed on sex . I would have immersed myself in the culture and yes cuisine. She may have dodged a bullet. I didn’t see any communication concerning tests for aids and other sexual diseases. Not to mention money pox and other illnesses that she should have been considered with. The yellow light means slow down. Rayne slow down get yourself a good therapist and don’t worry about sex with someone who doesn’t want you. Dance 💃 like no one is watching and 🎉celebrate your life, kids, and enjoy the next adventure for the culture, cuisine and community. Ignore the 9:06 I couldn’t remove them
She just worried about ars worms 🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️🤲🏽
I would switch up on her too once experiencing her reaction to the chickens while admitting she eats chickens, too 😂
atp let me sign up for the show, its getting boring
The fact she tries to tie his traumatic experience and disability as a sign they were meant to be together is so weird, selfish and sick.
You could tell he was hurt by that! I would be too. She says Chidi is misguided by his faith but then turns around and says something extremely insensitive and misguided to him. 😬
My thought is Chidi's sister is making sure he is protected and not making a typical Nigerian move being a object for the American Throw outs that seem to flee there as if it is a gift or something. I just hope she does not know Loren
Not saying all of them but in general women love to attribute things to "forces" outside of themselves regardless of the actual terminology used.