Should Christians Date Non-Christians/New Christians?

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  • @JesscaJoy
    @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +60

    Hello my loves 👋🏻😊
    Comment what video(s) you’ll like to see next!

    • @hopeikui2081
      @hopeikui2081 6 років тому +8

      Boundaries in a romantic relationship.

    • @taliyah4629
      @taliyah4629 6 років тому +11

      recommendations for dressing modestly but still cute after coming back to Christ? this has been the hardest thing for me surprisingly....had to throw away all my (jezebel-inspired) clothes n now my closet empty :-(

    • @hopeikui2081
      @hopeikui2081 6 років тому +2

      @@taliyah4629Your gorgeous 😍

    • @taliyah4629
      @taliyah4629 6 років тому +1

      hope ikui thank u!

    • @trueliving7833
      @trueliving7833 6 років тому +1

      Melissa Barclay I heard it could be either God on certain numbers or evil spirits it takes discernment. I heard 11:11 is a bad spirit 😨

  • @Iammjadaa_
    @Iammjadaa_ 6 років тому +112

    I lead somebody at school to Christ

  • @silvijosabajo7579
    @silvijosabajo7579 6 років тому +131

    I was in a relationship with a non christian some years ago. I didn't know It was a sin and back then I was still kind off living for me instead of for Jesus. One day I started talking about Jesus with her through the phone when suddenly a demonic voice answered back saying; "You are making me very angry". I was shocked because up-to that point live was perfect. Great girl nice character, everything I thought I wanted. It took some months for me to realize that If I wanted to commit to Jesus I would have to end the relationship. It was extremely hard but God brought me through It.
    So my advice to anyone would be to not even experiment with this. Jesus spoke to me personally through that same scripture. I am now married to an amazing woman who loves Jesus. I do wish I never stepped into that relationship cause It brought a lot of hurt with It for me and that girl. Just trust God to provide brothers and sisters.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +21

      Silvijo Sabajo Wow 😮Thank you for sharing this with me and everyone else who reads this. This is very true! The demons manifested when you started speaking about Jesus, praise God for you obedience he’s blessed you with the right woman for you 😊💗

    • @tisoyph
      @tisoyph 6 років тому +2

      Praise God! ☝️💓

    • @khai.h3930
      @khai.h3930 6 років тому +2

      Amen brother that took alot of strength to do so (I'm dealing with it myself at the moment) glad to know you found the one he has made especially for you 🙌

    • @HotelCharliHill
      @HotelCharliHill 5 років тому +1

      That's intense. Do you think she had said that due to the antichrist spirit within her? Or did it sound like it was the demon itself within her? Did she even know that her voice changed to say it? Glad you dodged the bullet! Praise God!

    • @butterflyrw5393
      @butterflyrw5393 5 років тому

      amen

  • @deiamate8317
    @deiamate8317 5 років тому +55

    Me and my current boyfriend got together before he became a Christian, I brought him to church and within a few months he gave his life to Christ. He was already very open to it but east truly saved, now we have God at the centre and try to do things the right way all the time and he’s extremely encouraging and has grown in his faith a lot. He really pushed me to hey baptised and I know I wouldn’t have done it if God wouldn’t have put him in my life and I know God used him in that way. I do completely agree with the video, but I think there are very few situations in which the guy can be saved and the relationship can work. I don’t think you should rush into it atall especially if it’s this situation, but even when he wasn’t a believer he respected me a lot and respected my decisions, he didn’t like drinking or partying and God had mercy on him and now he’s a completely different person, My advice is IF you really really think there’s potential, take them to church, if they aren’t open to it atall and don’t want anything to do with it, then end it there and then. But I knew he’d come to know God, I had the feeling and we have a strong relationship walking with the lord, that’s just my personal experience ❣️

    • @julines2842
      @julines2842 5 років тому +6

      Andreea Mate this is exactly what me and my boyfriend are going through! The roles were switched from your situation but finding God has changed my life! Thank you for sharing! 💛

    • @strawberryshake6176
      @strawberryshake6176 5 років тому +2

      This is my friend's experience too except that they arent married uet. But her boyfriend who at first goes to cellgroups because of her now goes to cellgroups even if she werent able to make it. My friends and I could also see that hr is falling in love with God by how he reacts to things now and how he is now eager to learn more and volunteers more.

    • @paigekumlin9741
      @paigekumlin9741 5 років тому

      Amen ❤️ i am in the same boat as you !

    • @justapseudonym7
      @justapseudonym7 4 роки тому

      Praise Jesus!! I am so happy for you ❤️❤️

    • @mvs303
      @mvs303 4 роки тому +1

      I agree with what you say. I have started to do this-bringing him to church and youth group-and he seems open to Christianity and submitting himself to Christ, we even had a serious conversation about this whole thing. It’s still very early on and I continue to ask God to lead me the right way, so we’ll see how it goes.

  • @tamarawelch2712
    @tamarawelch2712 6 років тому +38

    You are speaking to the young and the older here. Some of us older are real late bloomers. Everyone needs this message that God is giving you. Thank you. Nothing is new under the sun. Refreshing to hear The Father working through you in Christ!

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +1

      Tamara Welch I really appreciate this 😄😊 thank you so much Tamara God Bless you! Your words mean a lot to me 💗

  • @PEMexicano1932
    @PEMexicano1932 6 років тому +69

    “Let me drink water bc this is deep” 😂😂 loved that part !

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +1

      ND+ Lol 🤣 had to do it!

    • @willamdafoe9300
      @willamdafoe9300 6 років тому +1

      LOL! I drank water too at the same time.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +3

      Manolis Margetousakis 😂😂😂 y’all are too funny #stayhydrated

  • @NyaCrea
    @NyaCrea 6 років тому +51

    So true, my boyfriend actually was the one to wake me up from the new age deception 🙏🏻❤️

    • @krayziejerry
      @krayziejerry 6 років тому +3

      can you help me with topics, videos, etc to show my new age friend that it's all demonic? Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

    • @TysonIsKetchy
      @TysonIsKetchy 6 років тому +3

      watch Steven Bancarz@@krayziejerry

    • @tinicoleofficial
      @tinicoleofficial 5 років тому

      Nya Crea well that’s really good!👏🏾 the Father will prosper him for helping you wake up from that stuff💯

    • @tinicoleofficial
      @tinicoleofficial 5 років тому

      TysonIsKetchy yep! Great guy to watch👏🏾

    • @edengarden6811
      @edengarden6811 5 років тому +2

      So being a non believer having a relationship with a christian is a good thing, they can lead you to Christ and you can show them Christ though you

  • @kylelehigh8497
    @kylelehigh8497 6 років тому +32

    Yeah I just puked up a bunch of alcohol and what I ate earlier today. You're right sister. Don't sin, it's never worth it guys

  • @yulandoleo2010
    @yulandoleo2010 6 років тому +38

    I love the fact that you understand that a man is the head and that Christ is the head of the man. That will help you in your relationship with your husband. Lots of christian women don't want to admit that men are the head. Men being the head means he must respect, love and protect his wife. If men decide to be pure then society would be so much better. Satan knows that so he attacks the men and in so doing, society gets weak. Satan attacks the family because the family is the building block of the world. Better families mean better society.
    Keep on studying the Bible, make it a daily habit. As God reveal new things in His words, make the changes. Make sure that whatever you believe about the word of God can be found in two or more places in the Bible. If it can be found in two or more places in the Bible then it is sound. But never accept any obscure or pieces of scripture, it must match with other scriptures on the same topic.
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    2 Timothy 2:15
    Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word 0f truth.
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    As you study you will realize that there are new things that you will learn, If they match up with the teachings of the rest of the Bible then they are acceptable.
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    2 Tomothy 3:16
    All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
    Acts 17:11
    These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.
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    I am really Happy that you have found Jesus. Please hold on to Him. Let nothing come between you and Christ. The deceptions of the last day will be so real, if you are not studying and living the Word of God you will be deceived, so keep studying and living the Word.
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    Matthew 24:24
    24 For there shall arise false Christs, and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders; insomuch that, if it were possible, they shall deceive the very elect.
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    Teach others as well, that is the best way to remember, study, live and teach the Word of God.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +1

      Yulando Leo 🙏🏻 Amen!

    • @botamochi178
      @botamochi178 5 років тому

      It's mainly because of the Church, isn't it? They don't tell you that the woman (the wife) is the body of the man (the husband) who is the head, and that every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonours his head, Christ.

  • @vikakwabe6654
    @vikakwabe6654 6 років тому +83

    I’ve been in this before .
    And I can say from my experience
    That It’s not your job as a wife to lead a man to God. . Before God presented eve to Adam , Before woman was created
    God never saw the need for Adam to not be alone
    He never spoke about it or even made any statement concerning that
    This means
    The order of things according to the scriptures
    Is that man needs to walk with God ,
    Needs to know a God
    Have a relationship
    Before he needs a woman a man who doesn’t have any relationship with God doesn’t need a woman yet, he needs a relationship with God . Then you later come into the picture . So don’t put yourself in the picture when you are not needed at that moment . There’s a time and season for everything . And God likes order . If you’re being lead to help him know God that’s fine . But to date him is not your place at that moment. You’re not needed . According to God he doesn’t see that he needs to not be alone .
    So in conclusion,
    The order should never be changed
    Man needs God first and to walk with God
    And then he needed woman and woman is presented to him
    And it amazes me that God was able to supply man with everything he needed . So trust him he knows .
    God understands your needs
    And he will supply all that
    But right now if you are thinking of settling for a man who has no relationship with God
    Relax ., he doesn’t need you yet
    Find God and then find me that should be your alibi.
    You can help him grow if you’re led to do so
    But to commit and be in a relationship can also affect your growth. Your salvation is personal and don’t allow anything to affect that .
    Do not be deceived bad company corrupts good morals
    And remember there’s a time and season for everything
    So be lead in everything you do
    Even in helping someone grow
    There’s a way that seems right to man but that way will always and from experience led me to destruction
    Trust in the lord and he will direct your path
    Because his motives are for good and never for evil
    🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +4

      vika kwabe Yes Ma’am! Preach girl. 💗🙌🏻✨

    • @khai.h3930
      @khai.h3930 6 років тому +3

      I could not have said it better sister amen to THAT I learned this the hard way 👏

    • @juju1992ful
      @juju1992ful 6 років тому

      Yes yes yes!!

    • @TastyFood726
      @TastyFood726 6 років тому

      vika kwabe Most Christians in today's lukewarm churches don't know that Adam was alone because his very first wife that was created at the same time he was from the dust of the earth Lilith left Adam to be with Lucifer. She didn't like Adam telling her what to do because she wanted to be the boss of him and fled from him. The Angels even went after her to convince her to go back to Adam and she refuse so then Satan saw his opportunity to seduce Lilith and she ended up joining him.

    • @TastyFood726
      @TastyFood726 6 років тому

      Lilith and Lucifer had sex and created the Chinese race that's why the Chinese have always worship the dragon they even claim that's who gave birth to them

  • @freedominglory5330
    @freedominglory5330 4 роки тому +3

    So true, just make sure the one you marry you don’t go off them saying yes I’m a Christian, but you see their life style.
    My husband is a baby Christian and let me tell you it’s so hard. Please be evenly yoked.
    Marry someone you can talk to them about Jesus all the time. One that you can pray with.
    I’m writing this from my own experience I wish I took longer to get to know him.
    In your relationship you both should draw closer to God because of eachother.

  • @antonirostw9232
    @antonirostw9232 6 років тому +23

    Great videos! I’m struggling with my faith at the moment and you really showed me to put all of our problems and worries in front of the God, he will help us go through them:)

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +2

      Antoni Rostw He really will! He’s very faithful 😊
      Galatians 6:9 Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. 💗

  • @jordanbeckfilms
    @jordanbeckfilms 6 років тому +5

    So true. Find someone who inspires you to grow closer. Have a relationship that shines the love between Christ and his church.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому

      Jordan That’s Right 🙌🏻

  • @the.imprint
    @the.imprint 6 років тому +17

    No don't look around it. Tell them that if they love you enough they would try hard to find God and that if they don't love you enough they won't and they'll find someone else. Because if you date them and let them into your home, you're letting in a person with the devil strapped to his back along with him.

  • @saintuary3281
    @saintuary3281 6 років тому +17

    God bless you 😭💖 you explained everything so well and its so biblical

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому

      Nini Vang 💗💗 God Bless Youuuuu ✨🙌🏻

  • @shelw6899
    @shelw6899 6 років тому +9

    One day, there was this really cute guy who came to my volleyball game from a different school and eventually, I had gotten his number. A few weeks into messaging him online, I asked whether he was christian. It turns out that he wasn't. I knew I had to let him go, but I held on to him, because I didn't want to continue to feel lonely and stay single. He was talking about how he wanted to do inappropriate stuff with me, which made me feel really guilty, because it I know it wasn't okay. I knew he wasn't going to be leading me any closer to God and he's just a distraction from the enemy, seeing this video has finally convinced me to cut him off officially. God bless💫💕

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +3

      Shel M Praise the LORD 🙌🏻 Sister you have a high calling don’t look back! Let the Lord lead you, it’s for you own good :)

    • @talosq7982
      @talosq7982 6 років тому +3

      Jessica Joy Just like in Sodom and Gomorrah; Luke 17:32 “Remember lot‘s wife“; don’t look back lest you be consumed.

  • @yasirjamal7380
    @yasirjamal7380 6 років тому +17

    If there was a “ supper like” button I would click that as well 😊 this was such an amazing video Jess. You’re beyond talented and I love how shared your story so smoothly! Keep up the excellent work!! God bless you!

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +1

      Yasir Jamal God Bless you Yas!! 💗💗💗🤗 you’re so encouraging

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +1

      Yasir Jamal did you peep how I crunched the water bottle 🤣

    • @yasirjamal7380
      @yasirjamal7380 6 років тому

      Jessica Joy aha yep, I most definitely didn’t miss that. Throw back!

  • @Fetch94
    @Fetch94 6 років тому +12

    Amen. I like how you touched on the subject of spiritual maturity, it would be great if you went into greater depth in regards to it. 1Peter 2:2.
    1 Corithians 3:2

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому

      Franco Traverso Totally will in videos I’ll be posting throughout time 🤗

  • @clarkkent3730
    @clarkkent3730 5 років тому +3

    Charm is deceitful and Beauty fades, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised... Proverbs 31 nkjv

  • @gillfilly
    @gillfilly 5 років тому +7

    Hey Jessica, you are spiritually mature and deep routed in the Lord! Keep it up!!

  • @jessepacheco4295
    @jessepacheco4295 6 років тому +21

    Hey sista Christians should date Christians take care sista

  • @krayziejerry
    @krayziejerry 6 років тому +4

    I love being single, I will never go back into a worldly relationship with a non believer.

  • @OneJRMO
    @OneJRMO 6 років тому +4

    I really love how everything you say is backed up with scriptural reference and how you rightly divide the word of truth in practicality without compromising despite the norms of the world. Really appreciating your channel. God bless you!

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому

      Wachitembo Mukuka wow this is so encouraging 💗 God bless you I really appreciate it

  • @marataleungo4893
    @marataleungo4893 5 років тому +2

    thank u for speaking the truth...these days its rare to find someone who speak the TRUE word of God without sugar coating GOD'"S word...we really thank God

  • @jayce1654
    @jayce1654 5 років тому +2

    Amen to everything you said in this video! I have been there and am not proud of it... But I left a very toxic relationship after 6 years and am single now. I feel so much closer to God and am so much happier as well. The one thing this is so important to also think about is if someone claims to be a Christian but their actions do not match up with it. We need to test people to see whether they will help us on our journey with God or if they will stand in our way.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  5 років тому +1

      Jayce JvR That’s right sister! Thank you so much for sharing this with me God Bless you The Lord has BIG plans for us 💘🙌🏻

  • @magdalenaruth2325
    @magdalenaruth2325 4 роки тому

    Thank you sister. I liked a guy recently but he was not a believer in Christ and I knew it was not going to work out. It was hard to accept but I have to trust God because He knows what’s best and I am waiting for the person He places in my life 🙂

  • @dknight25
    @dknight25 5 років тому +6

    My first golden rule when I meet a girl is if she's not a believer there's literally no chance of a relationship. I might invite her to church, but I wouldn't be in a relationship with an unbeliever. But if she is, then I'd have a long frienship and a short boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. It's better that way spending the time to know the person as a friend and not too much time getting personal as my girlfriend; from a certain point in the friend relatiomship both should be already committed to what they're seeking and not about wasting their time.
    It's becoming increasingly difficult to find young Christian couples these days. I don't settle and I wait for the one I prayed my Father for.

  • @Progamerjay100
    @Progamerjay100 6 років тому +13

    I married a man who claims to be a "non-practicing" christian. Let's just say, I am not happy.

    • @kevinbetancourt747
      @kevinbetancourt747 6 років тому

      What are u thinking about doing now ? Must be a tough situation.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +11

      Kierra Uniq I’m sorry to hear that sister, so strong of you to share that with me. I pray for everyone who comments and watches my videos and your situation is something I’ll also pray about. Fast and pray deeply for your husband sister. God can work with your marriage

    • @biancalopez9684
      @biancalopez9684 6 років тому +3

      Im in a similar boat, after 3 yrs of lies and abuse he finally agreed to make some changes get saved and baptized and serve God but our spiritual maturity is on totally different levels & I back slid during those three yrs along with him, he wasnt leading then and still isnt leading me to God now... Im still contemplating divorce. (Yes, I know he is a new believer & has growing to do and its a process but I Just dont know what to do after so long of being physically spiritually and emotionally miserable)

    • @Iam-ava
      @Iam-ava 5 років тому +1

      May the holy ghost guide him to the truth

  • @marisaneto6000
    @marisaneto6000 5 років тому +2

    Hi Jessica thank you for this video, it blessed me a lot. May God continue inspiring you with lots of messages to bless others. 2 Corinthians 1:3

  • @ivanerodriguez7758
    @ivanerodriguez7758 6 років тому +12

    Yes we need more videos like this thank you

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому

      Ivane Rodriguez Thank you Ivane! 🙌🏻

  • @Whimsicaltalesx
    @Whimsicaltalesx 5 років тому +4

    I really needed this now. Thank you Jessica, thank you Lord Jesus.

  • @madidear
    @madidear 3 роки тому

    I AM SO HAPPY I FOUND UR CHANNEL!!! Thank you sis for making these things so crystal clear backin it up with scripture. I recently got out of a six year relationship with my childs father and one of the biggest reasons I left was because he not only was an unbeliever but he constantly disrespected my faith in the Lord. One time i put on a cartoon for my kid about Adam and Eve and my drunk baby daddy came in and said i dont want my son learning about THAT shit. like WOAH thats a problem. It was the hardest thing leaving this man but I know that God and his angels rejoiced when i left. Never again will I date an unbeliever.

  • @kaylekat8601
    @kaylekat8601 5 років тому +2

    I feel like I was supposed to hear this. I can relate to your last story because I just started dating a guy and he believes in god but still says his name in vain and isn’t a strong believer. I just recently started my walk with god and I still have trouble with fighting temptation and he gets that but at the same time I’ve fallen into it with him. I still have a lot to learn and he is further behind than me so this showed me it’s not good timing. I think I should end things which really sucks because we’ve liked each other for awhile and just now have a chance to date. But my single season was very short and I still have a huge amount of healing to do & need to strengthen my relationship with Jesus. Thank you for making these videos they’re very helpful.

  • @klady8046
    @klady8046 3 роки тому

    Girrrrlllll this is a word from GOD! Thank you for sharing. May GOD bless you & your Ministry in JESUS Name. Amen.

  • @haleygedamke750
    @haleygedamke750 5 років тому +2

    I’ve been watching a couple of your videos and balling my eyes out! I’m currently in the same situation that you were in with your ex and after 9 months of being with my boyfriend I was playing tug o’ war with God about whether being with him was what he intended or wanted for me so I ended the relationship completely on faith. I was in tears and snot, it was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. Then after a few months it didn’t feel right so I am with him now, and i truly love him and care about him so deeply, but I am sometimes wanting to see his faith grow through me and it just doesn’t work like that!
    I know the Lord has a plan for me either way this goes and I want his Spirit to move in him so badly, truthfully I want it more than he does.
    I just need prayer from all of you that could.
    Pray that he clears my head and steers me and my heart in the right direction, His direction!
    Thank you for making this video!

  • @faithfullyuncool
    @faithfullyuncool 5 років тому +2

    Very interesting discussion, appreciate your suggestion to help someone find a suitable mentor. I think that's a reallygood idea. Nice video. Peace! 💜

  • @tonicole2561
    @tonicole2561 5 років тому +2

    Thank you 🙏🏽 for standing up for your faith so that you don’t fall for just anything! I want to start 🌟 my blog and stand for Jesus and my faith to help others realize they don’t have to compromise their faith and love 💕 for Christ!

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  5 років тому

      Toni Cole I encourage you to do so! I’d love to be supporting you on it, come back and tell me where I can find you when you start 💛🙌🏻

    • @tonicole2561
      @tonicole2561 5 років тому

      I sure will Jessica Joy! Covenant Publishing picked up my 21 day devotional book I wrote called, “I AM Royalty through the Lineage of Jesus Christ” which I want to add UA-cam links in the book so I have to get going! Pray for me to continue letting the Holy Spirit guide me with the creative content I want to create for God’s purposes!! God Bless! 🙏🏽

  • @Lovelyjay88
    @Lovelyjay88 5 років тому

    Young sis you are stating facts! I admire your wisdom at such a young age. God is using you and I just wanted to encourage you for your faithfulness may he bless you one with a Godly loving husband.

  • @trulyblessedangel5822
    @trulyblessedangel5822 6 років тому +2

    This is my confirmation! Thank you very much. I just prayed and asked God about this guy that I've been dating...he never speaks about the Lord! I won't settle I will pray for him and resist temptation..I really like him though...but this is true I want to get in the will of God I'm 27 never been married..and Im just getting tired of being single...I'm so glad you touched on that subject. Thank you very much! New subscriber here by the way *Tyra*

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +3

      **TrulyBlessedAngel** it’s worth the “wait” sister trust God 💖 He has a great man he’s preparing for you so do your part, don’t settle my love. Galatians 6:9 Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
      ✨🙌🏻

    • @trulyblessedangel5822
      @trulyblessedangel5822 6 років тому +1

      @@JesscaJoy Thank you for that encouraging scripture my sister-in-Christ...What's a great way to resist temptation as far as wanting to be held or just attention you know?

    • @ev6564
      @ev6564 4 роки тому

      ​@@trulyblessedangel5822 I'm 19 and have never ever been on a date and these are some things that help me:
      Writing a letter to future husband and including Scriptures
      Praying to God, or not really even praying but just talking to God about it like you would a dear friend.
      Even though Jesus is like our husband, it helps to have some concrete things we can do especially on days we aren't feeling very patient. Hope this helps :)

  • @mikidazttzadikim1298
    @mikidazttzadikim1298 6 років тому +2

    Hi Jessica, awesome talk about relationships. This is a scripture I try to live by: "[37] Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. [38] This is the first and great commandment. [39] And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. [40] On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets." It is sometimes difficult, but we should find ourselves first abiding in Christ before anything else - to have Life and to live Life more abundantly! Thank you because you're an inspiration - you are now participating in the Body of Christ.

  • @carmenvee7392
    @carmenvee7392 5 років тому +1

    Am going thru this am in a relationship with a guy I have a child with and even tho they are “supportive” they are not supportive Am so happy I run into your channel

  • @My_Secret_Sketchbook999
    @My_Secret_Sketchbook999 3 роки тому +1

    Trust your HEART. You must do what YOU think is best for YOU. Ask yourself questions. If you feel you should change the religion that you are in then do it.

  • @Kilikina
    @Kilikina 6 років тому +2

    I enjoyed your testimony, thank you for sharing! You’re going to help a lot of people. I went through a terrifying experience myself after listening to a third eye activation video on UA-cam. There are so many! Meditation, chakra activations, reiki, etc. I haven’t made my testimony yet because I’m not fully delivered yet...apparently it’s going to take some time. I have been dealing with this for a year and I’m on meds. It sucks. But I’m so glad to know that Jesus is real and he has already saved me from a lot of torment. Keep spreading the good word! We gotta help people stay away from New Age! Speak your truth girl. Glad I found your channel. :)

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому

      Pixe1ina God Bless you! I wish I could give you a huge hug my sister 💗 Give your meds a rest and let God take over, he can heal EVERYTHING EVERYTHING ! I appreciate you sharing this with me I will keep you in prayer :)

  • @lealonamoananu5653
    @lealonamoananu5653 5 років тому

    this is how amazing God is, I am 19 yrs old and have been single since birth... even tho a lot asked me out but still have held onto my belief that God will bring the right one at the right time + obeying my mum and also enjoying my singleness season w/ my relationship w/ Christ. But recently starting to think this guy is something else so asked God and He led me to this video...Glory to God for you!

  • @hajimbarbie1700
    @hajimbarbie1700 5 років тому

    I am exactly on that situation right now. It is so difficult but I am trying my best to obey God and surrender it to Him . God bless you !

  • @citizensofheaven2987
    @citizensofheaven2987 6 років тому +14

    Never date a non-Christian and never date if you have already been a raised Christian and new Christian if doing so it's just going to be a bunch of non agreements and then if a new Christian it will be a lot of questions being asked. You should always both date if you are a Christian you should date another Christian at the same level as you. We should always learn from each other never just one way around where you're teaching your spouse and they're not teaching you.

  • @Billythekid8642
    @Billythekid8642 5 років тому

    Hallelujah Sister, keep it up, great information. The Truth will set us free. 🙏📖😇

  • @Star-os3xd
    @Star-os3xd 6 років тому +4

    I agree with the Word on this my sister in Christ!! I support you!! Awesome video! 😊

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +1

      Angel Thank you Angel 😇 God Bless you

  • @melaniecarrizalez724
    @melaniecarrizalez724 5 років тому +2

    I really needed to hear this, I've been struggling with this myself😭❤

  • @user-qd1ud3ib9i
    @user-qd1ud3ib9i 6 років тому

    Things that needed to be said! It’s so refreshing to see another young woman say these things and follow the Lord. Thank. You.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому

      A Thank you for this encouraging comment 💗 I appreciate it 🙌🏻

  • @kevinluke146
    @kevinluke146 5 років тому +1

    For the past few days i really had a hard time at school but most of your videos drag me back to jesus and proves that jesus is the only one who can lead me in a way and protect me from literally any danger.
    Thax a lot for making this kind of videos 🙋and I thank jesus for recommending it 🙌hope you will make more videos😀

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  5 років тому

      Kevin Luke ♥️😁🙌🏻

  • @laprincesawarrior4328
    @laprincesawarrior4328 6 років тому +1

    You’re so beautiful Jessica! Loved everything you talked about! I’ll remember everything you said !!! God bless you❤️

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +1

      Kimberly Escobar Meza Thank you Kim you’re such a pretty girl! God bless you my sister in Christ thank you for taking the time to leave a comment 💗

    • @laprincesawarrior4328
      @laprincesawarrior4328 6 років тому

      Jessica Joy ❤️❤️❤️ you’re so sweet!!!! ❤️❤️ make more videos!!! I’ll be sure to watch them :-)

  • @the.imprint
    @the.imprint 6 років тому +2

    There was a prophecy over me that Jesus would lead me to my true love in a big white church with pews in it. I'm not sure which one of three but my church is looking for a new pastor. Pray for this.

  • @Iammjadaa_
    @Iammjadaa_ 6 років тому +2

    Everyone just know Jesus loves u ,God has a plan for ur life you have a calling

  • @whitneyholland9438
    @whitneyholland9438 5 років тому

    Baby girl you are dead on it!!! Im ecstatic that you're speaking on it!! I know that I know that I know that this is a prophetic word!!!!💣💣

  • @DivineDianne
    @DivineDianne 5 років тому

    Everyone's experience is different. The most important thing is that you listen to God. What god tells you to do in your life is so important. My husband was a young christian. I grew up in Christianity and he was new, but God gave us dreams and visions and confirmation that we should be together and God used him to bring me closer to God. God used me to draw him closer as well. We have a marriage where GOD is in the center and we both draw each other closer and closer to him, constantly encouraging each other and building our faith together. God is all knowing. Ask him first what path to take and he will lead you.

  • @smaris3978
    @smaris3978 4 роки тому

    This video is perfect. You couldn’t have possibly explained it any better! I thank God for leading you to post this, this can help so many people!! God bless you! 🙏🏻❤️

  • @xmarianaisabelxx
    @xmarianaisabelxx 5 років тому

    I could have used this video like 10 or 11 years ago😂.
    But God has delivered me from so much from that time to now (and continually).
    Keep on spreading the truth, you are a light that shines brightly for our King🙌

  • @lealonamoananu5653
    @lealonamoananu5653 5 років тому

    oh and another thing, I have heard my pastors and many other pastors and youth leaders have shared on this topic it was amazing but this is by far the most clarified and understandable one I guess it's because you're young and it is relateable

  • @Jade.Brianna
    @Jade.Brianna 6 років тому +2

    Awesome word ! Definitely helped me out a bunch girl 💖🙏🏾

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому

      jade smith Thank you darling! I’m so glad this helped you 💗🤗

  • @kathleen_fung_
    @kathleen_fung_ 4 роки тому

    Wow! Love all the points you shared in this video. I’m a new believer and this really has opened up my eyes to a lot of things I get give to the Lord in my current relationship

  • @butterflyrw5393
    @butterflyrw5393 5 років тому

    Exactly - I settled and God showed me how much he warned me.. it's not worth it - praise Jesus.

  • @MA-yc7pz
    @MA-yc7pz 4 роки тому +1

    I am in a 2 year relationship with a non christian we met while I was really far away from God... Now I m closed do not know what to do is the best relationship I ever had I just turn 30 and he wants to marry me and truly loves me... ☹️But I am praying for Him to get saved does that count? He believes in God but doesnt know Him personally

    • @ezyx3977
      @ezyx3977 4 роки тому

      I can totally see how this can be very difficult for you, and that because the two of you are in love, it is difficult for you to step back and see what might be the implications for your faith. It's good that you're praying for God to save him, but one thing I learned--having done that before with may past relationships with non-believers--is that sometimes, God will not honor prayers that have selfish intents. Not saying wanting the person you love to be saved is selfish, but that there is also an added layer of wanting them to be saved so that the relationship can be justified.
      Believe me, I truly understand your struggle. I was in a relationship with a non-believer for 8 years. We had plans to get married. After that, I was in another ungodly "relationship" for 7 months. This last one crushed me unlike any other experience I've had before. By my own power I would nevet have gotten out, but many times I asked God, "God if he isn't really for me, then You will take Him away from me before I can make any drastic decision." For my 8-year relationship, God changed my heart and we broke up. For my 7-month relationship, God changed His heart and he left. So, pray to God for intervetion, and when He does something, listen and obey. I feel your struggle, and I want to tell you to get out of it now, but I also know it's difficult. So pray. Then choose who you love most.

  • @ariela4562
    @ariela4562 6 років тому +2

    thank you, this video is my confirmation

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому

      Vynyl’s Videos 💗 No problem sis. God bless ☺️ & I love your red sun glasses in your profile pic so cute!

    • @ariela4562
      @ariela4562 6 років тому

      Jessica Joy thank you. !💚

  • @prosperousrlt3110
    @prosperousrlt3110 6 років тому

    I was too dependant on my faith to help him, than to let go and let God. That statement along with your statements on a leading christian man in a relationship with God just resonated with me. It just woke me up spiritually. As females were created by God to be helpers/companions/confidants, you have just shown how priceless and invaluable a woman in a relationship with Jesus is. May the blessing you bestowed on me be given back to you 100 fold. Thank you and Godbless Queen.😊

  • @KingMessiah1999
    @KingMessiah1999 5 років тому

    Understand that i will judge you by your hearts not the religion...never the religion...i will judge you by your hearts...Love is love and Love wins all...

  • @karloaquinde3476
    @karloaquinde3476 6 років тому

    Wow sister great video. Our Father answered my prayer through what you had to share. I was also blessed to see how mature you are in the faith. And it's really kool to see you answer many comments and encourage people.
    I pray you continually grow in our Father's love and be a woman of noble character.
    Peace, a brother in Christ Jesus.

  • @lessleymartinez5741
    @lessleymartinez5741 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video I really needed it. You opened my eyes and now I'm happy that I finally know what to do. God Bless You!!

  • @lelo4275
    @lelo4275 4 роки тому

    I start dating muslim guy and I'm christian after few months I know is not gonna work every thing you say was right he can't pray for me, it just we can't walk in same direction it was hard for me to stop the relationship but Christ help me so much, for all my young sis out there you can pray for the guys but you can't save them only God can do that so don't west your emotion you can't walk your whole life with guy who don't belive or follow jesuse thats what I learn! thank you for the video jess

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 3 роки тому

    Yes, yes, yes to everything! Thanks for your encouragement and your strong Biblical stance. 💜

  • @audreylucero6881
    @audreylucero6881 5 років тому

    I Love The Way God Us Using You Sis God Bless You We Have To Know Our Worth 💎💎💎💎 Never Settle For God Has His Best For Us Trust His Plane Amen !!We Are Qweens's Jesus Christ Loves Us With Everything He Died On The Cross For Us !!!💜💜💜🌹🌹🌹

  • @aldwinbajar808
    @aldwinbajar808 5 років тому

    I had a lot of dreams of Jesus Christ since 2005 until 2019. One of your dream is almost same my own dream. He show to me the paradise and gave me a piece of gold like a post of great Wall.

  • @lashondamitchell4345
    @lashondamitchell4345 4 роки тому +2

    As I am sitting here in the dark engaged but has not seen my fiancé in three weeks because he is mad bout what I do not know because the communication is not good at all, maybe God is trying to tell me something

  • @kristinqu3408
    @kristinqu3408 3 роки тому

    I am a Christian who recently entered into a relationship with a non-believer.
    We had knew each other since more than a year ago and expressed mutual interest back then. However, due to the difference in faith, I decided to reject him after being close friends for months. That rejection had impacted me for 7 months as I struggled to remove this person from my mind. I would be thinking about him day and night (even though we already stopped seeing each other) and prayed to the Lord to have this feeling removed from me. He did at some points by showing me his awesomeness. However, me being weak in my faith, kept falling back to the same temptation. Eventually I gave in after having a long convo with him and we have been dating for a month now.
    It is a tough fight and I truly relate myself to Jessica when she said that "You can't be the one leading his faith in the relationship, it has to be JESUS." But at the moment I am just stuck in the middle. I am praying earnestly to God that may He lead me to the next step whichever is good for the both of us, despite of my total failure and distrust in Him. It might hurt, and this person might not be my Mr.Right....but i know the Lord our Redeemer will eventually help us through this. Stay strong and continue to pray for redemption for those of us who are struggling in a similar situation :)

  • @lubel9750
    @lubel9750 5 років тому

    Im so Thankfull for you, that God saves you and send us so precious messages through you. You take every message right, clear and quickly. Thank you very much for this i just find your channel today and im so joyfull 😭😍 what a beautiful Worship and inspirative video. You name everything what i haved know somewhere deep but i did not know how to name it. I Will pray for you tonight. Bless you🙏

  • @futuremlbplayer10
    @futuremlbplayer10 5 років тому +2

    I was waiting for the right woman my whole life. I wouldn't date girls if I couldn't even think about marriage. That being said. I met my wife and was amazed with her heart. She had the most pure heart for not having been exposed to Jesus or faith.
    God brought us together in the most spectacular way and now we worship the Lord together.
    Guard your heart but don't set up rules for yourself. Be an equal opportunity person of who you can love. That "perfect" man or woman may be out there just waiting for you but it may not be the person you have in your mind that is A B or C.
    I was able to lead my wife (girlfriend at the time) to Jesus. She had greater character than all of the Christian women I've had my chances with.
    If their hearts are open, don't rule out dating at least.
    I'm not trying to negate being unequally yoked, just know there are great hearts out there that don't know Jesus and haven't rejected him. Each person is different.

  • @kandice9727
    @kandice9727 5 років тому

    Hi Jessica! You're like the Christian friend I wait for. It's hard being a true Christian and have sooo many people around you just don't understand or just want to be off to this World. I promise the only thing that sustains me is God and I would be terrified if I lost my connection with him.

  • @MistereleBibliei
    @MistereleBibliei 6 років тому

    Woman,you should be my best friend.By far the only one that understood how I see things and why I see them like that.God bless you!

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  5 років тому

      Ana Allgood Be my Bestfriend thennnnn 👯‍♀️💗 God bless you doll

  • @athsrox
    @athsrox 5 років тому

    Yes I agree, but it's still so important to share God's word with non-believers and befriend people who other Christians may view as 'sinners' etc and not associate with. It's so important to be kind to homeless people and addicts etc.

  • @firstnamelastname4226
    @firstnamelastname4226 6 років тому +2

    I would if there was some kind of divinity in it. Like, if some how some way I was given, not a sign, but actual words from God. It's a dangerous time to date. Focus on heaven. Many devils lurking. But if people do date, don't let that relationship cause you to change your ways one tiny bit. It has to be a tight match. Trust me. These devils know who's a believer and they will give you a long miserable life to brake your spirit. DON'T LET IT !!!

  • @osh_hoq6217
    @osh_hoq6217 5 років тому

    I am so happy that I descovered your channel!!!!!!😘😘😘😘

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  5 років тому +1

      osh_ho q I am so happy My channel reached you 💛🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 praise be to God 😁

  • @juliamckee8967
    @juliamckee8967 6 років тому +4

    100% AGREE! Sending this to my best friend who is struggling with this at the moment.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +1

      Julia McKee Your friend is so blessed to have a friend like you! God bless you my sister 💗😊

  • @jesusismylordsavior6604
    @jesusismylordsavior6604 4 роки тому

    Girl, I don't know why I'm watching this. I got married two weeks ago to my childhood best friend and Christian bestie haha. I just love your personality. 💕

  • @VigilantMario
    @VigilantMario 6 років тому +25

    Nope!

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +3

      Vigilant Vlog 🙌🏻🤗

  • @badassanimemoment7607
    @badassanimemoment7607 5 років тому

    Wow! Thanks sister for this amazing video it really help me and remind about my boyfriend because I think my boyfriend is not believer but now I will tell him about jesus😍thanks for this video!🤗🙏🙏God bless u

  • @AmberGirlyTips
    @AmberGirlyTips 6 років тому

    I really liked this video and I think it was very important and want to share this with some of my friends. You just spoke the complete truth and didn’t sugar coat it at all and that what this world needs!!!

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  5 років тому

      Amburito Casdorito 🧡🙌🏻 Thank you so much that was very uplifting!!
      I hope you do share this with your friends I’d greatly appreciate it and I hope they do also 😄

  • @noahb9928
    @noahb9928 5 років тому

    Great video!! Can you talk about your experience with praying in tongues?

  • @jessepacheco4295
    @jessepacheco4295 6 років тому +23

    Hey my sista exactly an unbeliever is gonna do worldly things to them it's no big deal. Before I was saved me and my wife were unbelievers arguing all the time very painful a lot of strife well I was saved little over a year ago a lot of stuff we used to do together I don't do it goes against my Christian beliefs I thought we were going to separate. When you have light and darkness it doesn't mix my son's are believers but she still hasn't come to the Lord back when I was going through the pain I would tell God to change her first but nothing would happen not till Jesus changed me first everything fell into place. I fasted and prayed for her and God verbally told me my prayers have been answered either way I would have to be obedient so my little sista God knows what we need he will send you the right person if you have patience and obedient I see the love you have for Jesus he comes first everything else will work out take care sista have a great day God is good

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +2

      Jesse Pacheco love this I’m so happy to see the lord work in your marriage in that way! 💗

    • @cammiek3348
      @cammiek3348 6 років тому

      So inspiring... I feel no Christian man would want me due to my past history (trauma loop of making fear based decisions) and having 3 different fathers to my 5 children. But my heart has always been with The Most High and Jesus "saved" me 3 years ago. I need to fast and pray in singleness and trust that one day I will have a righteous husband. I "settled" based on the fear to live alone, and I prayed for my x's and they haven't yet changed and are toxic for my children. Wish I had this knowledge years ago!

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +1

      Cammie AK Cammy I want you to watch this series I just finished watching from pastor Micheal Todd, he talked about the situation you’re currently in and it’s SO GOOD and has set me free from the issues I also had.
      ua-cam.com/video/H7h5BHax06c/v-deo.html
      Love you sis

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому +1

      Cammie AK there’s 8 “episodes” to that series watch them all

    • @cammiek3348
      @cammiek3348 6 років тому

      @@JesscaJoy Oh thanks!! I'm gonna watch right now!

  • @a45williams
    @a45williams 5 років тому

    God called you to encourage your fellow Christians. Keep using scriptures as you demonstrate your point, good job!

  • @rayharris1142
    @rayharris1142 4 роки тому

    This video gave me so much hope, I literally cried watching this! God bless

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  4 роки тому

      Ray Harris 🤍 God bless you sister

  • @ktl7498
    @ktl7498 5 років тому

    Great testimony. Youth shared it so warmly and gently but so clear. God bless you. Record more if God is leading to this. :)

  • @Julia-jn7lx
    @Julia-jn7lx 5 років тому

    Hey Jessica, my aunt is a non christian and she is like "i don't believe in god, i don't need that blabla"
    Am I allowed to spend time with her? You know she like calls me a lot and wants to spend time with me and stuff. What would you do?
    And...
    How do you react when someone considers you as a fanatic, only because you are living according to the bible? My dad doesnt want to listen when I tell him something he is doing wrong according to the bible (like drinking a lot of alcohol every evening etc) and when I tell him he's like "Youre obsessed with that and a fanatic" and stuff u know.. love your videos btw🤗

    • @MareeBeaar02
      @MareeBeaar02 5 років тому

      if i were you, i’d pray for your family who are unbelievers. it’s okay to be around your family as long as it doesn’t bring you down to do things that aren’t of God like smoking or something like that. the only thing u can do is pray for them and plant the seed about Christ to them.

  • @davidmer968
    @davidmer968 5 років тому

    Iv already fallen and live with an unbeliever and live in sin. She's supportive of my beliefs but just as you said she's not helping me develop my relationship with God. She relies on me and I know I need out but don't want to hurt her or even push her away from the Lord. I thought maybe I could help her come to the faith but after two years nothing has changed. Any advice would be appreciated. God bless.

  • @enrikefranco8725
    @enrikefranco8725 4 роки тому

    Ameeeen sister!
    This was good! 😁🙏🏼🙌🏼💯🔥

  • @DanielCanepa331
    @DanielCanepa331 6 років тому

    I saw you on the passenger seat, the man you’ll be with will pull over to support your calling whenever you need to stop to collect fruits. The fruits are the lost sheep. And it’s good fruit as long as you keep yourself holy and without blemish. The man is understanding and strong and incredibly patient. God bless you.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  6 років тому

      Daniel del Reino How is it that you saw this

  • @binadybudhi5234
    @binadybudhi5234 4 роки тому

    Beautiful advice! Thanks for sharing.

  • @kimberlyeya1413
    @kimberlyeya1413 3 роки тому

    Actually I let go of him earlier, before I watched this because I know there something wrong about our relationship. It's really hurt and hard to let go of him but I will choose to follow God.

  • @desireesmith862
    @desireesmith862 5 років тому +2

    Can you make a video about having non Christian friends and wanting them to go to God and how to deal with that. I have so many non Christian friends and I pray for them and I want them to be saved but that’s all I can do about it.
    Edit: This video saved me from something worse! I like a non Christian and he’s sweet and all but number one temptation and two everything else it says in the Bible.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  5 років тому

      Sour Apple I’m working on a video that I’m posting soon on how to witness to non believers so I hope that helps you!! ♥️ I’m so proud of you, keep trusting The Lord and his timing he needs you to himself just a while longer, he will bring you the perfect man at the perfect time!

    • @esethu.M
      @esethu.M 5 років тому

      I know I'm probably late but I once listened to my Bishop's messages and he says, no one can ever change a person but the holy spirit. You can't change your friends but you can pray for the holy spirit to help you as you witness to them. Keep praying for them , you are a good friend. God bless!!!

  • @dailytransformationthrough2169
    @dailytransformationthrough2169 5 років тому

    This video is so amazing. It shows how much time you have spend in the word of God and being open and honest with Him and actually listening and doing what He says.
    As I'm typing I'm reminded that I can't give or share what I don't have... This video really encourages me to spend time with God, to listen and do what He says.

  • @vanessafreeman5824
    @vanessafreeman5824 5 років тому

    You have such an anointing on you and I’m so glad I found your channel. I found you through your deliverance from New Age video. You sound so wise beyond your years and make it seem so easy to explain everything I want to ever say. God bless you sis and stay encouraged always.

    • @JesscaJoy
      @JesscaJoy  5 років тому

      Vanessa Freeman ♥️✨😁 Thank you so much sis! I’m blessed to have you here