What REALLY Happened between Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni? Body Language Analyst Reacts!

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  • @TheBehavioralArts
    @TheBehavioralArts  6 годин тому +20

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    • @Nicole-b2y6z
      @Nicole-b2y6z 2 години тому +2

      Please do some videos analyzing Candace Owens. I used to love her but something about her lately seems manipulative/deceptive to me but I can't quite place my finger on it. She also seems to deflect a lot when asked tough questions in interviews (or she'll talk in circles). Would LOVE to see your input!

  • @evelynfrederick
    @evelynfrederick Годину тому +174

    "I think Blake Lively is ready to direct.". He was definitely trying to hide the hurt he feels for how much he lost to her.

    • @lexione14
      @lexione14 Годину тому +14

      Definitely. He knows it's not easy directing. Total dig at her.

    • @BKME19
      @BKME19 59 хвилин тому +34

      Also, trying to say let her direct the next one since not only did she take over the whole production, but made sure her edit was the Final Cut DESPITE testing audiences actually mainly favored Justin’s cut. Blake is wicked!

    • @AutisticAxlRose
      @AutisticAxlRose 50 хвилин тому +14

      ​@BKME19 Wicked? Ahhh you being kind to her 😂 Shes way way worse and i feel alot more will come out.

    • @Smyla78
      @Smyla78 10 хвилин тому

      + Now we know he had just come out of the basement 😥

  • @lorad.722
    @lorad.722 Годину тому +183

    People who falsely accused people of S. Assault & S. harrassement should go to jail !
    She literally tried to destroyed him !

    • @juliettirina6829
      @juliettirina6829 51 хвилина тому +4

      I was waiting for this video and your analysis ❤

    • @anythingcanhappen290
      @anythingcanhappen290 35 хвилин тому +2

      And allegations pdf actions. A lot of people miss that. She alleged he was inappropriate with an underaged character. Mind u it's an underaged character because the actress playing the character is 23.

    • @heatherlicious8224
      @heatherlicious8224 22 хвилини тому +1

      (Cough Amber Heard Cough)

    • @michael-4k4000
      @michael-4k4000 11 хвилин тому

      Thats why I am TEAM BLAKE

    • @LaraCroftEyes1
      @LaraCroftEyes1 5 хвилин тому +1

      Blake is lying about being SH.

  • @BKME19
    @BKME19 Годину тому +235

    Blake Lively would have been better off not filing this suit. The bad publicity would have likely died out. She reignited a flame thinking it would help her case, but it is further exposing herself.
    Blake Lively self sabotages.

    • @roshnioriordan3767
      @roshnioriordan3767 Годину тому +32

      She wants the rights for the sequel from JB and he wouldn’t sell it to Ryan Reynolds when he asked. However there is a morality clause in all these contracts and therefore if she files a SA case against him, Colleen Hoover can then take the rights back from JB and give it to BL… this is so sinister it’s actually quite troubling

    • @mikedebruyn
      @mikedebruyn Годину тому +7

      So your saying she should stay quiet so that he can keep doing what he did to her to others? Interesting...

    • @lovemochi86
      @lovemochi86 Годину тому +16

      ​@@mikedebruynbut has she provided any non- cherry picked evidence to prove her claims though? Many men have been victimized by false claims so best we wait for actual evidence

    • @BKME19
      @BKME19 Годину тому +7

      @@mikedebruyn do your research on the case. Blake Lively has lied and grossly exaggerated on many things. Are you part of her smear campaign team? 🤣

    • @BKME19
      @BKME19 Годину тому +5

      @@roshnioriordan3767 bingo!! Someone with sense! 👏

  • @whatislife1012
    @whatislife1012 57 хвилин тому +163

    Blake Lively is ACTIVELY trying to ruin a good man. Justin went through his career without any issues, until he decided to cast this muppet.

    • @fluteplayervictoria4100
      @fluteplayervictoria4100 38 хвилин тому +2

      .....

    • @badlilkitty96
      @badlilkitty96 30 хвилин тому +3

      Why would someone that wanted to give a gift to survivors and help them do this? She thinks she is a lot more smart than she is. lmao

    • @JamieWedge
      @JamieWedge 19 хвилин тому +3

      I agree that another woman is trying to destroy a man.

  • @tgram8245
    @tgram8245 Годину тому +136

    I think the tone deaf actions speak volumes ie Ryan making fun of Justin with Nice Pool. Blakes interview talking about her fashion that she brought to the movie, her relationship with her sisters and mom, have nothing to do with what the movie is about which led me to believe she never read book.

  • @veronicab15
    @veronicab15 Годину тому +130

    Yeah
    I believe him. People didn't side with him because of a smear campaign, but her behaviour during the tour. I saw another video of how their lawyers presented evidence. Her side edited so many things out in messages in order to win ofc. So far, I believe him.

    • @bionicnichola9251
      @bionicnichola9251 Годину тому +6

      She's slipped up on other occasions with other people. Being a celebrity has gone to her head.

    • @Pookie__53
      @Pookie__53 55 хвилин тому +5

      💯💯💯💯

    • @mollyanne9697
      @mollyanne9697 25 хвилин тому +1

      Also her complaints were not much of anything. No persons career should be ruined over petty complaints that are presented so deceptively.

  • @shainanash8518
    @shainanash8518 Годину тому +73

    this was the wrong part for Blake, This is on her. She is vindictive.

    • @mollyanne9697
      @mollyanne9697 19 хвилин тому

      @@shainanash8518 saw the movie and imo BL did not capture the character

  • @Mrs.JimMorrison
    @Mrs.JimMorrison Годину тому +74

    Justin met with the intimacy coordinator and rehearsed what was suggested and then acted. If Blake didn’t attend those sessions, it’s going to be an element of surprise. I think it’s a lack of communication. Obviously she read the script, why did she accept the role, if she’s uncomfortable with the topic of DV. Because it’s clear she misrepresented the topic of the movie.

    • @yvettemedina3781
      @yvettemedina3781 31 хвилина тому +1

      Exactly, why did she continue if it was so horrible

    • @amymoorehead7185
      @amymoorehead7185 26 хвилин тому +1

      So, the other people on the film that back her up, and the "improvisation" of intimacy, what do we do with that?

    • @mollyanne9697
      @mollyanne9697 17 хвилин тому

      @@amymoorehead7185 I feel that it’s a mistake to wear director and actor in a film. I understand in the moment these lines can get blurred.

  • @taraarutunian
    @taraarutunian Годину тому +51

    Justin shows emotional restraint, is self-reflective, and attempts to reframe what happened with grace. Blake has been self-serving time after time. As fair and careful as Spidey is being, I'm not sure we really need to wait for this to unfold further- just simply look at how each of them operates and it's not too hard to see what's really happening.

  • @heatherbeau4759
    @heatherbeau4759 Годину тому +29

    From the first time I saw her, she rubbed me the wrong way. I can't remember what it was. That first impression stuck.

  • @An_Drea_Calling
    @An_Drea_Calling Годину тому +151

    Justin was soooo gracious with those compliments he publicly made about Blake. Her accusing him of a smear campaign is ridiculuous.

    • @noise6869
      @noise6869 Годину тому +4

      Definitely!

    • @NicolaMaxwell
      @NicolaMaxwell Годину тому +4

      @@An_Drea_Calling Definitely agree

  • @sm5574
    @sm5574 2 години тому +112

    29:57 and then there's Amber Heard: "I didn't punch you. I hit you."

    • @wildcatblue13
      @wildcatblue13 Годину тому +5

      Depp was so innocent in everything 😂 , too toxic people together

    • @mikedebruyn
      @mikedebruyn Годину тому +1

      @@wildcatblue13 Depp also lost in the lawsuit in the UK where it was not judged by jurors but by judges.

    • @-.-hyuga-.-882
      @-.-hyuga-.-882 Годину тому +14

      ​@mikedebruyn the lawsuit in the UK was horsesh*t. The judge was friends with the owner of the newspaper & the judges son works at rhe news paper company that was sued.

    • @sm5574
      @sm5574 Годину тому +10

      @@wildcatblue13, I never said Depp was a saint. But he wasn't a proven liar like Heard.

    • @sm5574
      @sm5574 Годину тому

      @@mikedebruyn, Depp wasn't as interested in winning the US lawsuit as he was in having his side of the story made public. And Amber Heard handed it to him on a silver platter.

  • @NicolaMaxwell
    @NicolaMaxwell 2 години тому +115

    I'd never heard of Blake until the interview with Flaa, the disrespect shown to that wonderful lady made me sad. 😢 I wouldn't watch this movie, not my thing but it seems like a hot legal mess now. Thank you Spidey!!🙏🏼

    • @camdecorations9779
      @camdecorations9779 2 години тому +5

      Deadpool' wife

    • @NicolaMaxwell
      @NicolaMaxwell 2 години тому +6

      @camdecorations9779 Lol. Yeah, I found that out then too... I didn't like the first movie. I don't think Ryan Reynolds is a good actor but that's just me. People seemed to like Deadpool.

    • @NicolaMaxwell
      @NicolaMaxwell Годину тому +2

      @Reuben-n7u Apologies, I don't understand what you mean.

    • @ximar0ckstrx
      @ximar0ckstrx Годину тому +1

      Flaa was extremely rude towards Blake. Idk about you, but we learn when we're 10 not to talk about a woman's body, especially on regards to being pregnant. Whether Blake was pregnant or not, don't speak on her body. You can say "congratulations" or whatever, but you say "oh, your bump is coming along nicely" when Blake had NO visible baby bump was rude. If a man had done that, you all would tear him to shreds. But because it was a woman, and it fits your hate-blake narrative, you're conveniently ignoring that Flaa's behavior was rude AF. Any woman would become defensive and be rude right back if found in that situation. So stop the bullshit. Flaa was an 🫏🕳 herself

    • @johare94
      @johare94 47 хвилин тому +9

      ​@ximar0ckstrx she said it with a big warm smile on her face, and she obviously had a bump and she was vocal about her pregnancy. Its not like she was 3 months and didn't speak about her pregnancy. She was in no way rude to her. BL was rude and overly defensive then proceeded to ignore/belittle the interviewer for the remainder of the time. Very unprofessional and classless.

  • @katze918
    @katze918 2 години тому +99

    this woman should stop.

    • @That1grI
      @That1grI Годину тому +12

      Her ego is too big

    • @biprofessional3835
      @biprofessional3835 Годину тому +1

      Pickmesha

    • @alisonzunguze8183
      @alisonzunguze8183 43 хвилини тому +3

      Agreed. She should apologize publicly, settle things. And take the L as a life lesson. Digging her heels will end badly for her.

  • @bionicnichola9251
    @bionicnichola9251 Годину тому +35

    Blake is a typical celeb. She opens her mouth before she thinks.. when she said about Princess Kate she totally lost me

  • @veronicab15
    @veronicab15 Годину тому +36

    So this whole thing could be a massive over reaction from a privileged person because of the need to fix their public image for reasons unrelated to their momentary comfort.
    Most women feel way worse on a simple trip with the subway in a big city.

  • @TheSofres
    @TheSofres Годину тому +38

    Look at her costar in 10:19. His eyebrows furl together.
    Also she was a coproducer on this film. Which means she would have say and she was a powerful enough star that she could have say “no, I don’t like this”. The fact she directed Justin in certain scenes, saying the character had to be sexier,
    Yeah she’s not innocent.

    • @appalachianwoman561
      @appalachianwoman561 29 хвилин тому +1

      Let's not forget Blake has a habit of dating her costars. It started all the way back on Gossip Girl when she dated the guy that played Dan I think his name is Penn. Then she moved on to Ryan Reynolds who was still very much still married to Scarlet during the filming of Green Lantern. So I think she has a thing for falling for her costars and that as he gets older and loses what little sex symbol status he had, Ryan got jealous of Justin in this movie knowing his wife's history. Blake's a nepo baby, how on earth she got the roles she did when her acting is wooden and she can only play one character witch is a version of herself under a different name in roles is wild. I think that this might just end her, her family aren't that powerful in Hollywood and Ryan has been aging badly, they better hope they did invest their money wise in other ventures because Hollywood studios will quit calling.

    • @nicolepsy
      @nicolepsy 26 хвилин тому

      Statements are not necessarily facts

  • @prosk8er1995
    @prosk8er1995 Годину тому +14

    The guy in pink looks so fed up lol.

    • @mariee.5912
      @mariee.5912 46 хвилин тому +5

      He lloks like he was forced by his contract to be there.😅 poor thing.

  • @priscillagovender5368
    @priscillagovender5368 Годину тому +68

    that night where JB says she BL is ready to direct is the night she made his team /family wait in the basement while her hubby and Hugh jackman have the attention and spotlight while they waited for over an hour before they could go up so not sure if that is why he responded that way

    • @An_Drea_Calling
      @An_Drea_Calling Годину тому +20

      I think it was the most polite way of saying "I'm done working with her. After this, I'm done with this film."

    • @KatyMoses
      @KatyMoses 21 хвилина тому +2

      Thank you for that info. I was wondering if it were that night. Must have been a gutting feeling. Considering everything going on, he handled things very graciously.

  • @algernon2005
    @algernon2005 49 хвилин тому +21

    She had her bodyguard present at all times . JB couldn't pass her bodyguard and come to her trailer without her permission.
    Her text messages contradict her story now

  • @tenecia1962
    @tenecia1962 2 години тому +37

    At 13:00 it's almost like Blake was trying to predict what scene was " out there" so that she could get ahead of the narrative...

    • @jen10272001
      @jen10272001 33 хвилини тому

      I'm wondering if she's worried if there's footage showing his inappropriate behavior and how it made her uncomfortable. She has agreed not to talk about his inappropriate behavior on set and in return he won't retaliate against her. That is what was agreed to when he signed the 17 point document. She clearly hasn't seen the footage they are talking about so she is worried.

  • @bxbxb1
    @bxbxb1 Годину тому +45

    PLEASE LET THE COURT TRIAL BE TELEVISED!!!

    • @Always_Thinking
      @Always_Thinking 24 хвилини тому

      Federal Court no cameras allowed - unless for some reason they make an exception!

    • @lupiasensio5617
      @lupiasensio5617 21 хвилина тому +2

      I think the lawsuit of Justin is in California for that reason, his lawyer wants to have Amber 2.0.

    • @bxbxb1
      @bxbxb1 13 хвилин тому +1

      @lupiasensio5617 camilla vasquez COMING UP SOON

  • @judithmartin953
    @judithmartin953 Годину тому +23

    I think Justin should have said "Blake thinks she's ready to direct"

    • @mollyanne9697
      @mollyanne9697 9 хвилин тому

      @@judithmartin953 Blake took over that film

    • @DawnDavidson
      @DawnDavidson 8 хвилин тому +1

      That would have been too direct. What he actually said has an ambiguity that I think he intended. He seems to have been trying to “make nice,” and to say something that could be interpreted as complimentary while also deflecting and trying to get past the question. Saying “she thinks she’s ready to direct” would invite the question from the interviewer, “oh, so *you* don’t think she’s ready, then?” That would have been a fairly confrontational conversation to have when I think he was just trying to finish it up and get away unscathed as much as possible.
      Thanks for bringing this up, though, it really highlights how much a single word can influence the interpretation of a sentence, and how important it is to consider all the aspects of verbal and non-verbal communication. It can be so subtle!

    • @mollyanne9697
      @mollyanne9697 5 хвилин тому

      @ well said

  • @shainanash8518
    @shainanash8518 Годину тому +24

    Blake talks and doesn't listen, she doesn't shut up, he is afraid of her

  • @stephanieann6626
    @stephanieann6626 54 хвилини тому +29

    I’m confused, if they had an intimacy coordinator, why did Blake feel the need to do it herself just to complain about it later?

    • @observer5864
      @observer5864 35 хвилин тому +6

      The million-dollar question!

    • @Always_Thinking
      @Always_Thinking 22 хвилини тому +3

      I wonder why the she wanted the bedroom scenes filmed at her house🤔🤔

    • @ElisabethChytil-hw4fs
      @ElisabethChytil-hw4fs 18 хвилин тому

      ​@@Always_Thinking oh, really? Yes, that is interesting 🤔

    • @DawnDavidson
      @DawnDavidson 18 хвилин тому

      @@Always_ThinkingI am unaware of the details of filming. But that said, and based only on your question, I could imagine myself feeling a lot more comfortable doing an edgy scene from inside my own home and space.

    • @Always_Thinking
      @Always_Thinking 10 хвилин тому

      @DawnDavidson At first that crossed my mind but then I thought about it & felt "my bedroom" is such a private & intimate space that belongs only to my husband & I. IDK but maybe it lands different for me because my husband has passed 🤔🤔

  • @412fk
    @412fk 2 години тому +44

    I’m going to start calling myself an intimacy coordinator now

    • @NicolaMaxwell
      @NicolaMaxwell Годину тому +1

      @@412fk 🤣🤣🤣

    • @michauxbôts
      @michauxbôts Годину тому +1

      ¿…Does that pay well?

    • @noise6869
      @noise6869 Годину тому +2

      @412fk 😂😂😂😂

    • @lexione14
      @lexione14 Годину тому

      Heck yea. Me too

    • @ivanovskameow999
      @ivanovskameow999 13 хвилин тому

      I'll be an avoidance coordinator, much more my work style 😂

  • @everydaywithsandra
    @everydaywithsandra Годину тому +14

    Blake seems very self involved and I don’t think she is honest she wants press she wants the rights to the movies and seems to want Justin out have no interest in the movie or her or Ryan either

  • @Hummingbird25
    @Hummingbird25 Годину тому +9

    It was obvious Blake was caught in a lie and she knew it. She was the one on charge and she was taking over as the director. Ryan did the same thing with Deadpool

  • @gwendee5070
    @gwendee5070 Годину тому +22

    I believe she was going through a sensitive period at the time, as she was nursing her infant while also filming. A VERY BIG BUT!!!! It seems she didn’t read the book (baldoni mentioned in his defamation) or understand her character ( clothing choice which was ridiculed by fans) nor did she grasp Baldoni’s approach to the role. I think she may have perceived him as being genuine, possibly mistaking his method acting for reality. Additionally, she might have been feeling pressure due to her husband’s competing movie, a Deadpool and Wolverine film, which was vying for fame and recognition. Meanwhile, Baldoni said in his defamation Blake was made several attempts to take control of the filming process along with her husbnad Ryan.

    • @enagreco3280
      @enagreco3280 32 хвилини тому +1

      Yes, agree

    • @ElisabethChytil-hw4fs
      @ElisabethChytil-hw4fs 14 хвилин тому

      Yes, I have heard that too. Also, wasn't it at the Premiere or a Red Carpet Event when Blake Lively came out with the bit about her husband Ryan Reynolds re-writing scenes which then were the ones that made ot into the final cut?

  • @BKME19
    @BKME19 Годину тому +36

    I’d love to hear your input on Brandon Sklenar possibly knowing Blake is problematic and is using his water bottle as a way to distract himself during that interview. Or even the fake laughs he did so he can show engagement towards Blake, but without having to verbally say anything. He seems like he’s trying to just quietly get along with Blake as he knows it could help his career, but might secretly find her entitled.
    Also, to please address what appears to be Colleen Hoover’s oblivion to Blake’s behavior in that interview.
    It’s all quite interesting! 👀

    • @EEmB
      @EEmB 47 хвилин тому +2

      To me Skelnar behaves like a flying monkey, and the way young Lily is fawning is giving me huge red flags.

    • @BKME19
      @BKME19 20 хвилин тому +1

      @@EEmB Blake completely loves that she’s married to Ryan Reynolds and has self-crowned herself as some queen of Hollywood. Despite neither her or Ryan being particularly good actors. Hollywood is a weird never ending High School. SMH

  • @ElisabethChytil-hw4fs
    @ElisabethChytil-hw4fs 20 хвилин тому +3

    Just a question because I'm puzzled: on another channel it said that Blake Livelys' husband, Ryan Reynolds spent a lot of time on the set. If that should be true, then I have to wonder why it has been possible for things to go so awry.

  • @Chrissiela
    @Chrissiela Годину тому +14

    Trying not to take sides, even though I can't help but lean toward Baldoni because of the added context provided with the additional texts. But it's not just the added context, it's that that the added context begs the question: Why manipulate the texts to force them to read a certain way, if you believe they already support your narrative? Also, didn't she claim there was no intimacy coordinator and, in her "demands" demand they HIRE one? Could be misremembering the wording of that, will have to go back and look again, but I thought that was one of her demands, while his texts clearly show they hired one before filming even began ad she didn't want to meet with them (prior to the start of filming, at least). Good analysis, though. I have lots of guestions.... for the rest of the cast and crew, including Colleen Hoover.

    • @jen10272001
      @jen10272001 43 хвилини тому

      She requested an IC be present during all intimate scenes. Justin kept adding new things in on the go like biting her lip etc while the IC wasn't present.

  • @shainanash8518
    @shainanash8518 Годину тому +9

    She couldn't do the "original" well, more less a sequel.

    • @jessecherney3481
      @jessecherney3481 40 хвилин тому

      Agreed, I watched the movie and I have to say she didn't do a great job. I think like Scarlett Johansson would have done a better job. She's a better actress

  • @asheburypress882
    @asheburypress882 2 години тому +47

    She seems like someone who has selective perception.

    • @mikedebruyn
      @mikedebruyn Годину тому

      Sure but one of the things that a director needs to do is to make sure to get the best performance out of his main actors. If she has selective perception it means that she was not managed well during the filming wouldn't you say?

    • @andoletube
      @andoletube 41 хвилина тому +1

      More like she's a total air-head. I've never heard an intelligent comment come out of her mouth.

    • @asheburypress882
      @asheburypress882 30 хвилин тому +1

      @@mikedebruyn No, I would not say. Again, you can give someone direction, and they can see, hear and give you what they want… And at the end of the day, you might have to accept that that is the best you’re gonna get out of them.
      Random example
      Director: So, your character has just received some devastating news while at the subway platform. It’s a closeup, so really connect in the eyes.
      Actor: I feel like my character would wear designer heels.
      Director: Sure. Heels. Ok. Now, about connecting with those emotions…
      Anyways, she has shown icing out and deflecting interviewers that are not deemed top tier, so I can only imagine what happens when the cameras are off. I’ll try and stay open minded, tho.

  • @beverlygriffin670
    @beverlygriffin670 Годину тому +10

    Fantastic analysis, Spidey! I love how you point out what you see. And you explain everything so well. Love your videos. ❤ Thank you.

  • @bcastle2397
    @bcastle2397 Годину тому +14

    I've watched SO many UA-cam attorneys with a "legal analysis" of this topic, but it takes an intelligent and insightful man like Spidey to explain it in a way we all understand! Go Spidey!!👍❤

  • @Influences
    @Influences Годину тому +8

    21:39 he was allegedly relegated to the basement before this haha so he was probably pissed and trying to keep it together.

  • @megacampiona
    @megacampiona 33 хвилини тому +3

    I'm trying to reserve my judgment until the trial (if there is one), but there are things that make me incline more in his favor (accepting that both parties have made serious mistakes PR wise). The way the both markted the movie (he emphasizing the DV aspect of the story, and her focusing on the florals, marketing her booze brand and even calling one of the drinks as the ab*ser in the movie), their behavior in interviews (he has always been respectful and thoughtful in his answers, she has been dismissive, rude, and superficial), but most of all who has the power in this scenario.
    She is the powerful one. She decided to take on the job of dressing her character and she brought her own clothing, causing the budget of the movie spiral, she decided she wanted to be a producer, and se ended up being a producer. She wanted certain scenes her way, and in a middle of a writer strike, her husband wrote the most important scene of the movie for her (unbeknownst to the director of the movie, who knew aboyut that during the press interviews on the premiere red carpet). The fact that the author and some actors, and even JB didn't contradict her in interviews, makes me believe that no one wanted to cross her, because all the power she and her husband have in Hollywood.
    Also, before the movie was released there were talks abut BL's "bad behavior" in the movie (and previously), and I feel like that's why she started this mess to bring him down, trying to "rehabilitate" her reputation. I think she didn't calculate the possible consequences and it's not going to be well for her. I hope I'm wrong, for her sake.
    As always, I love your analysis :)

  • @thesnoopydance645
    @thesnoopydance645 Годину тому +15

    Love everything you say from around minute 29 on. From the beginning of this I thought: let's just wait until all evidence comes out before we cast our opinions/ judgements.

  • @kananiwolf256
    @kananiwolf256 12 годин тому +91

    What a fabulous analysis! Two actors with different methodologies to their craft. In this particular situation, chaos has ensued. It’s so uncomfortable to witness. As a result, for me, the desire to see the film in real time has diminished. He said, she said and vice versa. As usual Spidey, the last portion of Justin’s interview is quite telling. I am curios what the crew members experienced. They usually know the score!
    Thank you!🙏 ❤

    • @TheBehavioralArts
      @TheBehavioralArts  11 годин тому +41

      Yeah i’dd really love to hear from cast and crew, if he was inappropriate surely it would have been noticed or sensed by people other than Blake, if she’s exaggerating, it should also become clear from their testimonies. Either way, they both have the right to express how they sincerely felt and these accusations should be investigated further.

    • @kananiwolf256
      @kananiwolf256 10 годин тому +10

      @@TheBehavioralArts I absolutely agree!!! Thank you always!!!

    • @LindaC616
      @LindaC616 Годину тому +8

      ​@kananiwolf256 I'm the same way. No desire to see these films. Didn't see Mr and Mrs Smith, didn't see Rum Diaries, etc

    • @RSAMommacyndi
      @RSAMommacyndi Годину тому +9

      I agree. This is a movie that I will not watch by choice.

    • @soofriends
      @soofriends Годину тому +6

      ​@TheBehavioralArts Do you think that people knew what Weinstein was doing to women, and pretended not to, because their career depended on them not noticing or knowing? I worry that will happen here too. Lively, and more importantly Reynolds, are power players in Hollywood who can help or hurt careers. The others might lie or pretend they saw nothing if Baldoni is telling the truth because they fear retaliation from Reynolds/Lively.

  • @amassimilla884
    @amassimilla884 48 хвилин тому +5

    My take...
    There was an agenda from the beginning and I feel that Blake knew that she could have her way no matter what and when she saw an opening to possibly file something down the road so that she could get her way and Ryan and her could end up directing the next movie... She took it.
    She never read the The book she didn't want to meet with the intimacy coordinator... And Justin wanted to get into character now. I'm not saying there isn't limitations, but if you don't have those conversations before then or you decide you don't want to have an intimacy coordinator, it's like saying oh well. We're supposed to play this sport, but I don't want you to play it rough because it doesn't make me feel comfortable... So you should just back down and not play as good because it doesn't make me feel comfortable...
    Also it's very telling when her actions after the movie was released was very telling. Now Sony may have told her to act a certain way but you don't have to go around promoting your hair care products and skin care products.
    That right there just felt like it was completely set up and this whole thing just feels sketch.
    And especially with it's obvious that Ryan Reynolds was trolling. Justin baldoni in Deadpool... People will do anything to get their way to make themselves not look bad or to play the victim.
    I really hope the truth comes out. Whether Blake is telling the truth Justin's telling the truth or it's somewhere in the middle, the celebrity scandals are getting ridiculous.

  • @3DogMama
    @3DogMama Годину тому +18

    My pre-bias against Blake Lively definitely influenced my interpretation of this conflict. End of the day, I don’t know what to think! 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @Always_Thinking
    @Always_Thinking 15 хвилин тому +4

    Still puzzles me that she waited 2 years from when the movie wrapped to file charges 🤔

  • @abigailbrown4355
    @abigailbrown4355 Годину тому +3

    Could Justin's little smile at "this movie wouldn't have been the same without her" be Justin being slightly amused by that statement after he's just said it?
    It's sort of along the lines of both self-satisfaction that he managed a politically correct answer as well as a touch of duper's delight. Like it's an awareness that the statement sounds relatively positive about Blake, but he knows it has deeper meaning.

  • @mastadon6384
    @mastadon6384 2 години тому +24

    I watched a video breaking down the legal end of this just yesterday. I immediately thought I hope Spidey makes a video on this. And bam here we are.
    Thank you for making these videos. They have really helped me to understand my gut feelings on situations and the science of why in it all.

  • @lindseymahoney7603
    @lindseymahoney7603 2 години тому +12

    Stopped what I was watching as soon as the notification popped up 🥰 glad to be here Spidey. Hope you and your beautiful family are well. Now let’s get to the video 😁 xxx

  • @Mindyours1999
    @Mindyours1999 Годину тому +4

    Thank you for presenting the information available in an unbiased way.

  • @teaterzin2836
    @teaterzin2836 30 хвилин тому

    Than you so much! Been waiting for this one from you!

  • @katfromthekong414
    @katfromthekong414 35 хвилин тому +1

    I think it's amazing that you always find a unique and relevant way to analyse current topics, even if they may not have too much footage and also that you always advocate for objectivity! This channel is just so much fun! 👌😊

  • @joybwillett
    @joybwillett Годину тому +4

    The true side of BL that we can clearly see.

  • @noise6869
    @noise6869 Годину тому +7

    I was hoping you would have covered this!! Wanted to suggest you, didn't know how to do❤ thanks Spidey 🎉🎉🎉

  • @RachelGedney
    @RachelGedney Годину тому +4

    Great analysis Spidey, it adds to Emily D Baker's legal breakdown of the filed documents on both sides, which are extensive. Her legal knowledge is as excellent as your body language analysis. 🙏

  • @biprofessional3835
    @biprofessional3835 Годину тому +2

    Hey everyone, I wanted to share some important information about federal civil rights law, especially regarding retaliation. It’s important to know that if someone makes a complaint in good faith, they are protected under the law from retaliation by their employer. This means that the focus isn’t on whether the complaint was ultimately proven correct, but on the fact that retaliation for speaking out is unlawful. Let’s be careful not to be misled by arguments that focus on the validity of the complaint itself, but rather understand the protections against retaliation. Knowledge is power!

  • @lizi1115
    @lizi1115 45 хвилин тому +2

    Adhere is pronounced like AD-HEER, not A-DEER. Sorry, I had to call that out because it threw me off each time you said it. That aside, great video on this topic. It’s cool getting an intelligent perspective from an expert on body language. You nailed Blake’s body language when talking about the intimacy coordinator! I’m subscribed!

  • @AmorYMigas
    @AmorYMigas 37 хвилин тому

    Thank you! This was super helpful for me. I realize I had jumped to a conclusion about one of the people here and hadn’t seen more of the interviews and heard or read more to be better informed.

  • @FionaC1
    @FionaC1 Годину тому +3

    26:01 that comment about her whispering in his ear struck me - in her lawsuit she complains about *him* whispering (inappropriate things) in *her* ear… 🤔 Projection? Or maybe he thinks whispering between actors is normal? Or…?

  • @AyitaIam
    @AyitaIam 32 хвилини тому +2

    I don't have your expertise, but we were also trained in body language, psychology as linguists in the Army. ( i was a 98c, cryptological warfare spec. ) Really appreciate ur vids as a refresher. Diving deeper into both of their past interviews etal. , Blake gives off very ," never been told no," head of the mean girl vibes. I have no doubt that Ryan also was referring to Justin with his nicepool guy in Deadpool. So often, it seems that when two highly ego driven, pretty privileged famous celebs get together, they tend to feed into each other this superiority complex and excuse any bad behavior towards others. I hope truth prevails.

  • @StellaDee-l9e
    @StellaDee-l9e 13 хвилин тому +2

    Even if there had been no "allegations" or accusations, I found the marketing of the movie to be SO unprofessional - the fact that the director is speaking on his own, apart from the cast, the messaging was SO different, Blake's tie-in to hair products WHILE promoting a film (so tacky!), Ryan and Hugh Jackman showing up on one appearance, Blake casually mentioning her husband's re-write.
    I CANNOT believe that ANY studio like SONY that had any involvement in this movie - would allow that!
    The commenters who make excuses for Blake (she was contractually obligated NOT to focus on DV, etc) don't take into account the other things (her brands being promoted, her husband's presence, her attempting to undermine JB during the promotion) which made no sense.
    So just from that alone I got the sense something was way off in the production and release of this movie.
    I also thought it was UNBELIEVABLY unprofessional for BL to START making accusations about JB's behaviour DURING the promotion of the film (fat shaming, kissing too long, etc.)
    That is SO unprofessional and SO dangerous. If you are accusing someone of inappropriate, s/harassment, you don't do it on the red carpet.
    f-f-s.
    Something obviously went wrong on this film but people defending BL should remember how VERY serious her accusations are - and how UNSERIOUS she was in the way she launched them initially (during the promotion of the movie! - what????) and then waited until 2 days before Christmas to launch a "complaint" (not a suit) that was so damaging (but then called into question after the damage was done. The new social media age tactic).
    Don't know what happened but I have been put off completely by her handling of any of this.
    No, I'm not a h8er, I actually always liked her from a distance, didn't know much about her - but if you have seriously been abused, harassed, mistreated - you don't dazzle with your over-the-top dress, making jokes, promoting your brands and your husband, while casually tossing accusations at someone at the same time. And then waiting until Christmas to formalize an accusation.
    There is a mis-match there in her actions that makes it hard to believe she was an abused victim.
    Really hope the truth comes out but doubt it ever really will.
    Seems to me JB did a great job trying to keep the more serious theme of the movie in focus and didn't say anything negative about anyone. While it appears BL wanted to dominate the red carpet, marketing strategy AND get people to doubt JB all during the promo of the movie.
    What a sad social media age we are in - where the "herds" will just run with an accusation, assume everything is true, question nothing, and be willing to destroy a person over it. Never mind the NYT - who apparently did not do any due diligence and failed to report professionally, also keeping it one-sided.
    Americans, please learn to think critically.
    You can't have a society where an accusation is enough to destroy people. Especially when a legacy media like NYT is involved. That's not their job. KEEP THEM ACCOUNTABLE.
    Next time, it could be you.

  • @missgenusa
    @missgenusa Годину тому +2

    Again really appreciate your analysis of all the subjects you cover… you are always trying to be non judgemental and unbiased.
    In today’s vids, it really opened the discussion on views of each party on the situation and how two things can be right at the same time.
    Thanks again for your great work and I send lots of love to you and your family!
    🫶🇨🇦

    • @TheBehavioralArts
      @TheBehavioralArts  2 хвилини тому

      @@missgenusa thank you so much. I think it’s so important to be non bias in a case like this 🤗

  • @melissabailey4160
    @melissabailey4160 2 години тому +10

    Spidey, can you analyze Justin's lawyer in his interviews. That guy is a character! And he's making a lot of bold promises .

  • @kate7478
    @kate7478 49 хвилин тому +1

    That nonverbal eyebrow thing also applies to dogs who learned it from us. They use their eyebrows only if they’re domesticated.

  • @aiaesthetics1124
    @aiaesthetics1124 33 хвилини тому +2

    If ryans wife is telling the truth she wouldn’t have needed to edit those messages 😮

  • @LindaC616
    @LindaC616 Годину тому +3

    Happy New Year to you and the fam, Spidey!

  • @LadyJay79
    @LadyJay79 2 години тому +3

    I can’t wait for your take on this Spidey!

  • @barborella5420
    @barborella5420 2 години тому +9

    I was SO waiting for you to analyse the case !!!! 👏 I’m commenting before even watching it hahahaha

  • @shastagem
    @shastagem 23 хвилини тому

    Best video I have seen covering this , great job ! 👏

  • @Misbehavedcollection
    @Misbehavedcollection 18 хвилин тому +2

    She just seems so complex, defensive and rude. I don't know how Ryan deals with her.

  • @captainfoxheart
    @captainfoxheart 48 хвилин тому +5

    Snakely is so horrible and manipulative but mainly selfish like a child that she didn't even think about or care that it would destroy Ryan as well as everything

    • @noise6869
      @noise6869 44 хвилини тому +2

      Snakely😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lizi1115
      @lizi1115 11 хвилин тому

      Exactly! She has an awful and entitled personality. The worst nepo kid. She didn’t even read the book! And then didn’t want to work with the intimacy coordinator but then filed an SA complaint/lawsuit.

  • @green_eye_gossip
    @green_eye_gossip 30 хвилин тому +1

    12:22 also Justin’s laugh is telling. Like, he’s watching her try to lie. He didn’t call her out, he just laughed.

  • @AngelColeman-c8h
    @AngelColeman-c8h 2 години тому +19

    Spidey can you do Brett Cooper's whole situation!!

  • @mangoWHOAman
    @mangoWHOAman Годину тому +16

    Your last point about Baldoni method-acting was good. Relatedly, the fact that he was slipping in and out of Ryle's character while *simultaneously* being the movie director creates a power dynamic that might have been too much for Blake. As the villain, Baldoni's character may have been scaring Blake's character, his victim in the movie. As the director, maybe Baldoni telling Blake actor what to do or giving her notes is received a little differently, cause she too might be having a hard time slipping out of character, and is still responding to Baldoni as the villain.

  • @Mermaidaisy
    @Mermaidaisy 31 хвилина тому +1

    The most embarrassing part is the title of the movie "it ends with us" 😭

  • @terrikoop416
    @terrikoop416 Годину тому +1

    This is how I feel. It’s definitely frustrating because it seems as if you don’t want to form an opinion yet, you get accused to being on a specific side, but I want to be slow to speak and slow to be angry. I have my concerns, but at this point that doesn’t really mean anything. Your videos have really helped me look at things in every part of my life in a more unbiased way, so, thank you!

  • @lexione14
    @lexione14 Годину тому +5

    Im getting vibes from BL that early on she got god complex and got caught up in something that snowballed. Meaning she saw opportunities to try to take over certain aspects of the movie. Probably discussed alot with her husband. I feel there's alot of outside influence coming from her as if someone has been in her ear. You know when someone says something as if repeating it from what you've been told. Maybe it started with her "liking" and intimate scene too much, hubby got jealous and she ran with a story of harassment to deflect. Ph that comment JB made about BL is ready to direct was a total dig at her. I understood it to mean her she wants to be in charge and she thinks she can do thrn let her. I do feel bad for the book's author dragging this amazing story into petty drama. Yes I said petty. Spidey I absolutely love watching your videos. Your insight has educated me alot on human behavior. ❤

  • @Sytrylt
    @Sytrylt 2 години тому +24

    To be fair, the scenes BL says were improvised were not according to JB ! (Him and his lawyers) They say, in the lawsuit against the Times, that it was scenes that the intimacy coordinator proposed in the meeting Blake refused to have and Justin had to have alone with the IC.
    I could understand how the meeting with the coordinator would have to be before starting filming, if you want to prepare everything and not disturb the planning. So him asking her to have a meeting on Zoom/FaceTime, with him and the IC sounds pretty reasonable (it would have been better in person, but he gave her the choice to do either. Her choice though was to say no to both options and wait when it would delay them in filming). I'm waiting to learn and see more. But for now, if JD has proof like they say about the meetings with the IC, and she corroborates that... that would be very important and different from what BL said happened.

    • @scarlett8895
      @scarlett8895 Годину тому +1

      Intimacy coordinator should be there to make sure that everyone's comfort zone and boundaries are respected, and nobody has to do anything that hasn't been previously agreed upon. She CAN'T decide or make suggestions without having both parties' input. If she did that it would be highly unprofessional on her part, and she should stop doing the job in the first place.
      Blake POSTPONED (not refused) meeting with the IC for the first time, where I'm sure they weren't meant to discuss the entire extent of intimate scenes present in the movie. What she complained about is that the IC wasn't present DURING filming of intimate scenes, which should've been essential.

    • @mikedebruyn
      @mikedebruyn Годину тому +1

      An intimacy coordinator does not suggest scenes but suggests changes so that everyone is comfortable with them. So it is strange that Baldoni has not shown those scenes in the original script but now say were out of the blue suggested by the coordinator?

  • @sandyadamson2986
    @sandyadamson2986 2 години тому +24

    So she admits there was an IC.

    • @LiliS319
      @LiliS319 2 години тому +2

      "Which shouldn't be happening, by the way" alludes to the idea that there was a point at which there was _no_ IC. A very smart way to say it as well, because it's not easy to call her out on it. Then she follows up by saying there _was_ an IC. If she wanted to communicate that there was an IC _all along_ then this is not how her sententes would have been strung together. Not alluding to it would sound something like "Not at all, those rumours are fake. That should not be happening and thankfully it did not happen in this case"
      So what her reply is really saying is that there was an IC _eventually_ , which has been her claim all along, I think.

    • @karysroberts9008
      @karysroberts9008 Годину тому

      She couldn't deny that she'd acted in the role of an ic because there is literally videos of her showing Justin how she wants to play a scene & it was more passionately than how he was doing. We also know from his messages to her that an ic had been employed before filming & he wanted her to come to see her & she said no its fine I'll meet her when filming starts. So it appears that regardless of there being an ic she was also stepping into that role. Which tracks with his accusation that she was overstepping into everything eg. Wardrobe ​@@LiliS319

    • @Nikkinitelite
      @Nikkinitelite Годину тому

      Omg did you watch the video!? There was an intimacy coordinator for the show, but absent during intimacy ad libbing he allegedly did. He changed intimacy scenes without the coordinator present. He took already rehearsed scenes and changed them in the moment to his liking, absent coordinator. Both can be true

  • @4ledki
    @4ledki 11 хвилин тому +1

    She is the one that pushed JB towards her ,hence the interviewer said it looks like you were the intimacy coordinator. Shame on her for encouraging to improvise and then acuse him for not having an intimacy coordinator.

  • @ekatrinya
    @ekatrinya 57 секунд тому

    What a great analysis! Thanks.

  • @christialuella6594
    @christialuella6594 Годину тому +3

    May I ask, the hair twirl is baseline however is the twirl indicative of insecurity? In women I notice they groom when they feel threatened or intimidated

  • @mariee.5912
    @mariee.5912 56 хвилин тому

    Yay!! Spidey. I really appreciate your channel. After announcing how busy you're with life, you have been posting almost every Saturday. I also acknowledge that the videos quality, guests and content are great. ❤
    PS. My face is an exclamation point. 😅

  • @IvekPivek_
    @IvekPivek_ 52 хвилини тому +1

    A very nuanced analysis. I do believe they both could have gone without the lawsuits, and would have benefited from better using that intimacy coordinator they hired.

  • @victoriaemerson-ds8du
    @victoriaemerson-ds8du 58 секунд тому

    Spot on, thank you for this analysis!!!

  • @cristinamesae.1250
    @cristinamesae.1250 28 хвилин тому

    Amazing as always!

  • @marykutschke5158
    @marykutschke5158 Годину тому +1

    I am learning to wait on my judgement. Let the lawyers sort this out.

    • @AmyB369
      @AmyB369 35 хвилин тому

      Yep I agree need more discovery and depositions from the crew especially the script supervisor

  • @charismalorelye4516
    @charismalorelye4516 48 хвилин тому +1

    Title of this video is deceptive. Basically Spidey says we don’t know who is in the right or in the wrong and not to judge until it’s time for trial. I feel like I just wasted my time.

  • @antoniageorgieva9610
    @antoniageorgieva9610 Годину тому +20

    Ever since I saw that lightbulb is moving, that’s all I can focus on 😂

    • @NicolaMaxwell
      @NicolaMaxwell Годину тому +4

      Haha the magnet floating lightbulb is fun!!😂😂😂

    • @lexione14
      @lexione14 Годину тому

      I saw it too 😂

    • @NicolaMaxwell
      @NicolaMaxwell Годину тому +3

      @lexione14 🤣🤣🤣 I want one, they're on Amazon

    • @lexione14
      @lexione14 55 хвилин тому +2

      @NicolaMaxwell i want one of those glass figures on the shelf too. I love his set up.

    • @AutisticAxlRose
      @AutisticAxlRose 53 хвилини тому +3

      Ok, ADHDers! Lol. 😂 Oh the tiny things that distract us😂

  • @suAN-talk
    @suAN-talk 32 хвилини тому +1

    Spot on at 26.43 especially ur interperation on JB going into his character as ryle. Think BL is not as professional on carrying out her charactor as lily and misinterpreted the whole scenario.

  • @Seventytwodegrees
    @Seventytwodegrees 50 хвилин тому

    I'm suspending judgement right now.

  • @bm44023
    @bm44023 14 хвилин тому

    I think the main issue we are all docovering is Ryan took over directing deadpool and the couple thought it would be a piece of cake to do the same with It Ends with Us. We dont really know them and what goes on in their lives. This analysis and the two lawsuits have given quite an insight into their worlds. BL and RR put on such a PR show to everyone trying to come across as a lovey couple, I guess now we know its all a big show, we really dont know what goes on in their lives.

  • @CXTwo89
    @CXTwo89 Годину тому +7

    How is she “Ms.” when she’s supposedly legally married? (This isn’t a question aimed at disproving anything said, I’m just curious)

    • @An_Drea_Calling
      @An_Drea_Calling Годину тому +1

      I think it is a vanity thing. Ms sounds younger, but tha is just my guess as a non-native speaker.

    • @jessicazopl
      @jessicazopl Годину тому +2

      A lot of married women who keep their last name choose to be Ms. Ms is typically a catch-all (like Mr).

    • @parisian44
      @parisian44 Годину тому +8

      Politally correct term used in the USA. Ms is used since 1967 in the USA to permit women to not give their marital status when being adressed orally or in writing , much like the neutral term Mr. for men . Since 1990 all women are called Ms. unless they request Mrs or Dr. Miss is only used for small children

    • @An_Drea_Calling
      @An_Drea_Calling Годину тому +1

      @@parisian44 Parisian, thank you for explaining it. :)

    • @CXTwo89
      @CXTwo89 Годину тому

      Thank you all for explaining this to me. I really thought all married women went by “Mrs”. I stand corrected lol

  • @victoriachiciuc2316
    @victoriachiciuc2316 46 хвилин тому +1

    I absolutely agree that it's all about interpretation! Exactly my point! I can understand where both Blake and Justin are coming from and it's sad to see what they are going through.
    Idk if they talked and tried to understand each other in private, because it seems like they both made their own conclusions and didn't communicate.

  • @lg7429
    @lg7429 19 хвилин тому

    Thank you Spidey! Could you do an analysis on Luigi Mangione's court appereance with the red sweater, matching his lawyer? Thank you🙏🏻

  • @margierose05
    @margierose05 Годину тому +4

    Could she be using pacifiers during the whole interview because the whole interview process is just stressful? Or how can you really tell is definitely her baseline. I feel like if the movie had so many issues, the whole interview season would be stressful.

  • @FionaC1
    @FionaC1 Годину тому

    Great analysis! 👍🏻

  • @chaser1254
    @chaser1254 2 години тому +2

    I cant look at any of them, but Your video? Watching always with interest

  • @lhr8833
    @lhr8833 27 хвилин тому

    If I’m being SH I’m not taking any initiative to add or instruct any intimate scene. I would have been following exactly what the coordinator said and ask her presence in the scene. The only one that looks uncomfortable is him, while she is the one leading.

  • @pattimikeska807
    @pattimikeska807 15 хвилин тому +1

    I wonder how Colleen Hoover and the cast feel about her blowing up any chance for the second book to be filmed? Obviously, if you’ve read it, Jason Baldini‘s character will not be in it. But I’m not interested in seeing Blake Lively in any subsequent movies.

  • @Nikkinitelite
    @Nikkinitelite Годину тому +2

    Random question, have you ever played the game LA Noir? We all became behavioral analysts 😂🤣😂🤣

    • @mininjas
      @mininjas 38 хвилин тому

      Great game!

  • @vesaversion298
    @vesaversion298 11 хвилин тому

    There's no way there can be a sequel for a miovie that is literally says it ENDS with us.