Breaking the chain of toxic relationships & the power of self-esteem in dating | Mental Makeover

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  • @lenkaklapalova
    @lenkaklapalova 10 днів тому +1

    I'm trying not to cry while watching this, Lauren. We as human beings have so many other voices installed in us that tell us we need to conform, we should not stick out, we should not be this, that, the other thing... And not in dating only, but at work, at home, anywhere! I'm 43 and am still shaking those old patterns off. Thank you for making this video.

  • @mahadewiiii
    @mahadewiiii 5 місяців тому +13

    Your relationship advice is spot on Lauren! As a 40 year old woman who never had any self-confidence or felt good enough unless I was loved by a man … and ended up having 2 disappointing (to put it mildly) marriages that made me feel like crap, I could have used this advice 20 years ago! 😅 Although I actually really need to hear it right now too! ❤ You are incredibly wise and this video should be “prescribed viewing” for all women young and old!

    • @laurencurtis
      @laurencurtis  5 місяців тому +1

      🥹 thank you soooo much 🩷

  • @anabelle._e
    @anabelle._e 5 місяців тому +10

    I’ve dealt with the shattering of all my confidence from putting too much of my worth into someone to a point where my social timing has been off for months, I have gone from being extremely extroverted to experiencing social anxiety around friends and the other day driving down the highway, I started convincing myself I was incapable of getting to my destination without needing to pull over and let someone else drive- and I fly planes! And I’ve done gigs for years! Speaking to people can’t suddenly make me so nervous when I’ve always loved it! This video makes me feel sooo comforted and related to. You are incredibly emotionally mature and it is so helpful to connect how perhaps this is a larger issue and that a LOT of women deal with this because its roots are structural. Gonna go watch the Barbie movie now💕

  • @WhatNotToDoAnthony
    @WhatNotToDoAnthony 5 місяців тому +13

    All you need to be happy...is you. Never allow your happiness to come from somene else, that way you will never be truly happy

    • @scraperzoey004
      @scraperzoey004 4 місяці тому

      Okh like😘

    • @JennyAmponsah
      @JennyAmponsah 4 місяці тому

      So true 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾well said!

  • @auzangelful
    @auzangelful 5 місяців тому +4

    Wow what a subject! I am keeping this video because it describes my exact life. I was with a man for 20 years who was toxic and ground me and my self confidence and self esteem to the ground. When I finally left it took 5 years to start dating. Each and every relationship failed. The last one lasted 8 years and that was the one that changed me forever. I went to a dark place, very dark for many years. Fast forward to now I have been diagnosed with CPTSD. I have great support, great doctor, a great psychologist. I have been alone for many years and I have learnt to love my own company. In my case, I find it's better to be alone and happy rather than miserable in a toxic relationship. It is what it is, and if I never find someone again, I'm at peace with that. Good video Lauren!

    • @laurencurtis
      @laurencurtis  5 місяців тому

      You are incredibly strong! I hope you find someone who deserves you ❤️

  • @ena624
    @ena624 5 місяців тому +9

    I loved to hear this... You've made a huge impact on me and my mental health when it comes to break ups. In one of your older videos when you just met Reece I think, or before that, you said something along the lines of "You're always going to find someone, even when it feels like you won't.", and it stuck with me so much that I was able to make some hard decisions having that reassurance in the back of my mind. It helped me break out of toxic relationships and find my feet afterwards having faith there's something better to come. Thanks for that

    • @laurencurtis
      @laurencurtis  5 місяців тому +6

      Oh my gosh thank you so much for sharing that, you’ve made my day ❤

  • @Christiansen365
    @Christiansen365 5 місяців тому +6

    Firstly, you look rested, bright and even more beautiful in this video than ever before…maybe it’s your wisdom shining through. 😊 I loved this talk. Such good advice! I’ve been following you for what seems like a decade and I’m loving your content more with each video. 🥰

    • @laurencurtis
      @laurencurtis  5 місяців тому +2

      Oh my gosh what a beautiful comment! Thank you so so much 😭🩷

  • @Becky1416
    @Becky1416 5 місяців тому +3

    You’re so wise Lauren! You would be a great therapist 😅

    • @laurencurtis
      @laurencurtis  5 місяців тому +2

      Awww thank you!! I wanted to be one in high school 😂

  • @daniellelewis6356
    @daniellelewis6356 5 місяців тому +7

    Love goggle box followed you for 10 years love from England ❤

  • @sarahmcphee9594
    @sarahmcphee9594 3 місяці тому

    This is exactly what I needed to hear! I could relate so much it was such a good reminder and feels good to know everyone shares similar thoughts and feelings. Loved it so much I took notes hahah can't wait for more like this!

  • @Cas_Tella-wh2cd
    @Cas_Tella-wh2cd 3 місяці тому

    You the cutest I like it,saw you on youtube,i copped it ❤

  • @nicole_mackie_the_heart_healer
    @nicole_mackie_the_heart_healer 2 місяці тому

    Hey Lauren! Love the new "Mental Makeover" and I LOVE what your talking about in this video! Totally resonates with me! Im a relationship breakup coach for women.. Im all about building self-love and confidence after a breakup! Maybe one day we should collab on a video! :)

  • @codyrichards9342
    @codyrichards9342 3 місяці тому

    I'm only about ten mins in. but this is just hitting me so hard. Loz you aren't only hitting the female group, your gays are listening my darling

  • @sirpagandetyptoft6793
    @sirpagandetyptoft6793 4 місяці тому

    Since I began dating my sock the days of toxic relationships are over

  • @Ohkeh640
    @Ohkeh640 15 днів тому

    More makeup routines

  • @FoodFoodVlog-gd2pt
    @FoodFoodVlog-gd2pt 5 місяців тому

    Great

  • @Koki_Special
    @Koki_Special 5 місяців тому

    Hi

  • @user-fv9te9bi3n
    @user-fv9te9bi3n 4 місяці тому

    Hello

  • @MarleyGonzales-q6m
    @MarleyGonzales-q6m 9 днів тому

    Good

  • @user-ur4io5lh5s
    @user-ur4io5lh5s 5 місяців тому +1

    "love" seeking reality dating tends to hire/cast the most abhorrent guys because dRaMa is apparently beloved to viewers. Even when a women is caught as being vile herself people skip over how awful the men are as well

  • @annakatharinasponagel4630
    @annakatharinasponagel4630 5 місяців тому

    There is a reason for gender roles. Women are not just being raised to be mothers, biologically it's in their nature to be mothers. That's why women are more emotional, sensitive and nurturing. These are not bad but very valuable hings. And I don't think we have to pretend to be men or some "bossbitch".

  • @user-hw2mk4wv2b
    @user-hw2mk4wv2b 5 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jackhuston3687
    @jackhuston3687 5 місяців тому

  • @MakeupLvr33
    @MakeupLvr33 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @Cas_Tella-wh2cd
    @Cas_Tella-wh2cd 3 місяці тому

    ? Is your camera a phone and you flip it sideways

  • @komediPhan0
    @komediPhan0 4 місяці тому

    My

  • @Londonase---2
    @Londonase---2 5 місяців тому

    Your beautiful buddy

  • @classmate_mariana
    @classmate_mariana 5 місяців тому +1

    Eu odeio Deus

    • @dianahu6201
      @dianahu6201 3 місяці тому

      Oi Mariana:) mas Deus te ama demais. Oro para que vc sinta o amor dele e a paz que excede todo entendimento humano. 🙏

  • @Londonase---2
    @Londonase---2 5 місяців тому

    Plz respond to my comment I clicked on your video bc I want to date women and I wanted to hear your input am sorry I am uncomfortable with anything s--ual or kissing in a relationship I wouldn't want a woman to have power over me and make me do things I'm uncomfortable with women are my buddies plz I'm sorry I just want to be in a relationship with a woman but I'm seeking only friendship and hugs In a relationship I've lost all my female friends bc their boyfriends didn't like me bc of my gender I'm sorry buddy😭😭😭😭😭