Friedrich Nietzsche says: “It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages". Hope you all like this video.. Please make sure to check out the full Philosophies for Life channel and for more videos to help you find success and happiness using ancient philosophical wisdom, don’t forget to subscribe. Thank you so much for watching.
Key learning 1- a healthy relationship is about friendship( mutual joy and reciprocal good news) 2- good conversation. 3-Dont promise feelings of love but actions of love 4-be selfish ( focus on own needs & self growth)
Feeling is not about love but desire. Nietzsche desired Lou as he admired her, they had great conversations, she admired him and saw him as a friend but didn’t desire him.
Love and friendship go together as one, one with out the other is not really love or friendship. My husband of 25 yrs is the most sexy, interesting, fun, best friend I could ever imagine. We are continuously astonished by our own marriage and how much fun it is even now.
"Friedrich Nietzsche never walked down the aisle himself, though he proposed marriage multiple times, to the same woman, who rejected each of his overtures. Perhaps, as may have been the case with Thoreau as well, this experience of unrequited love lent a bit of sour grapes to his future thinking on women and matrimony." Art of Manliness
Actually, he had those views and had wrote about them before ever proposing matrimony. In understanding Nietzsche, one needs to understand the time he wrote in, the common vernacular of Deutsch spoke and written then, the heavy use of idioms used in the German language, and how all this gets translated into English in a way where it’s literal translation and how it was intended can be askew. Nietzsche didn’t think there had ever been a man yet who’d reached the status of an ubermench, in a male dominated world, or, if there ever would be necessarily. So his thoughts on a women ever getting there seemed even more remote. His view on this wasn’t due to any misogyny he harbored in himself as much as it was to a penetrating observation. He as well gave women their due for being powerful in the ways available to them being subjugated as they were throughout history. Just as he cited there can be powerful men among the downtrodden who hold to slave morality who know how to exploit it well, and can lead. In times past, and perhaps still present, the high priests for an example. Despite all his criticism of Christianity, it’s alleged he told some acquaintances that, Jesus of Nazareth of the humble and slave morality class of people, nonetheless came the closest of being an ubermench if only he would of attributed what he preached to himself, a man, and not god. In Thus Sprach Zarathustra, when he’s speaking with the old woman who’s telling him about women, when she tells him “better carry a big stick!” The intent isn’t so he can beat them being master over them, rather it’s an expression for, that women, in the ways they do have power, are a force to be reckoned with! If one spoke Deutsch, understood the language, and was familiar with the common vernacular used at Nietzsche’s time, I think they’d get the intent. But Readers of translations, as good as they are, take that more literally thinking it’s meant as a sign he needs to be lord and master over the women he’ll come into relationships with. Due to this, too many think him a terrible misogynist and he wasn’t.
@@randstrickfaden4148 you gotta understand terms like misogyny are just blanket terms used by those (mostly women) who miss context and refuse to self realize
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The first two points were really good. Then the 3rd point hit and it became clear why Nietzsche kept getting rejected. Unconditional Love is a real thing. And it's the foundation of any relationship. Just like you can Promise everlasting love to your child. You can promise it to your partner. In fact you can Promise unconditional Love to every person you meet. It's the foundation of the relationship, every relationship. You still need trust, respect, and happiness. But unconditional love must me promised in all relationships if you want them to stand the test of time :D P.S. YES you can control your emotions Nietzche. It's not that hard
Lol, sorry but please understand that the same way people find it hard to understand logic is the same way some people find it hard to understand emotions even less truly control them. To put emotions off, they will eventually resurface thus they were never truly controlled.
Healthy relationship is the same things self discipline .. Healthy relationship has a analysis about weakness n excess ourselves to accept some people .. With those things got have talented development.. Like a hobbies as a food travelling , touring , working , and something all your needs.. Thanks ..
I find 'reciprocated goodwill' to be the most realistic term to define friendship. In my experience, enduring and successful friendships require reciprocity, kindness, inspiration, cultivation, teamwork, and mutual happiness. The concept of constructive criticism from true friends resonates, as it encourages personal development. That's why it requires a lot of effort from both parties that we must be willing to invest to earn that friendship because, once again, friendship revolves around giving and receiving.
He was quite a philosopher, no doubt. But if there’s anything he wasn’t qualified to address, it would’ve been the subject of what constitutes healthy relationships.
Individuals must listen to each not to answer but to get to know each other before forming realshionship and these days one of the biggest problems currently is that Individuals don't listen to others if 2 peopl disagree without arguing ,all they do is yell at each other, no progress ismade.Both stil think they are right.
.. Aristotle Onassis said that the reason he became a shipping billionaire, was so that he would get enough sex... I think there is a lesson to be learned here.
I believed he understood nature and its laws. Nature is perfect. It hates equality and believes in individualism. I think he understood that and respected it. Kind of like stoicism, but with an "update" kind of?
7 days ago? I got this one, my dude! It's implying that one is being selfish by dedicating so much effort to a beloved, and not to others. Imagine you have 10 dollars. If you give it all to your beloved, it would be a selfish act, because you weren't able to share that money with other people who probably needed it more. Obviously, just keeping the money would be the most selfish thing, but pouring it all into a beloved is just a step below that. A truly selfish man would give all his money away to a charity. ----------- In another funny parallel, you can see this when it comes to celebrities. People throw money at celebrities and streamers, and internet people all the time. And people wonder why a streamer can make 100,000 dollars a month, and it's because people throw money at them. And in a way, it's selfish, because funneling money will always be more selfish than dividing it among those who need it most. If you don't love someone, you can give your money more freely to those who need it, because you don't have a biased, selfish interest to give it to a specific person.
@@POPCORN_BRAWL he died of a brain infection that was consistent with Syphilis but it was 1900. We've learned about more brain diseases since then but who knows.
The selfish part can be explained in two ways. I'll start with the easy one first. You should be selfish to your core values. Your religion, your beliefs on family, your political views. You should be selfish enough to establish boundaries and stick to them. And in a perfect world, you also meet someone who's selfishly adherent to their own core values, and you two just mesh up really well. You can be equally selfish, because you align. Otherwise one would be forced to change. And not everyone can change something like their religion or political beliefs without it causing immense inner turmoil. Secondly, the more nuanced version of being selfish is to recognize that in order to devote your time to a lover, you must selfishly funnel it to them, and not share it recklessly with others. If you want to love someone, you can't be self-lessly giving all your time to your friends and family, and never spend any time with your lover. You have to be selfish enough to devote time to them, and not abandon them to be with others. This can also apply to money, or any other resource. If you give all your money to charity, what would you have left to give to a partner? You have to be wise enough to acknowledge selfishness. That you can say "hey, I'm not giving my money to charity. I want to be selfish and give it to the partner that I CHOOSE, and that's a choice I will stand behind. I am deciding to be selfish, and take control of who gets my time and resources. Selfish in control is still selfish.
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What is Love and marriage then Let’s go back to what the Ancient Greek philosopher Plato has to say He broke it down into three stages first stage is called Eros or erotic love common amongst young and early adult stage second is called Filia or friendship love common in the middle aged relationship thirdly is called Agape or Charity charitable love common in old age stage of relationship k!
Friedrich Nietzsche says: “It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages".
Hope you all like this video.. Please make sure to check out the full Philosophies for Life channel and for more videos to help you find success and happiness using ancient philosophical wisdom, don’t forget to subscribe. Thank you so much for watching.
Key learning
1- a healthy relationship is about friendship( mutual joy and reciprocal good news)
2- good conversation.
3-Dont promise feelings of love but actions of love
4-be selfish ( focus on own needs & self growth)
Be A LITTLE selfish.
I have been in love several times. I've learned that being in love is temporary insanity.
Feeling is not about love but desire. Nietzsche desired Lou as he admired her, they had great conversations, she admired him and saw him as a friend but didn’t desire him.
And slept with his friend and random men just to write a book.😂😂
Love and friendship go together as one, one with out the other is not really love or friendship. My husband of 25 yrs is the most sexy, interesting, fun, best friend I could ever imagine. We are continuously astonished by our own marriage and how much fun it is even now.
"Friedrich Nietzsche never walked down the aisle himself, though he proposed marriage multiple times, to the same woman, who rejected each of his overtures. Perhaps, as may have been the case with Thoreau as well, this experience of unrequited love lent a bit of sour grapes to his future thinking on women and matrimony." Art of Manliness
ah yes, art of manliness, a high tome of wisdom
Actually, he had those views and had wrote about them before ever proposing matrimony. In understanding Nietzsche, one needs to understand the time he wrote in, the common vernacular of Deutsch spoke and written then, the heavy use of idioms used in the German language, and how all this gets translated into English in a way where it’s literal translation and how it was intended can be askew. Nietzsche didn’t think there had ever been a man yet who’d reached the status of an ubermench, in a male dominated world, or, if there ever would be necessarily. So his thoughts on a women ever getting there seemed even more remote. His view on this wasn’t due to any misogyny he harbored in himself as much as it was to a penetrating observation. He as well gave women their due for being powerful in the ways available to them being subjugated as they were throughout history. Just as he cited there can be powerful men among the downtrodden who hold to slave morality who know how to exploit it well, and can lead. In times past, and perhaps still present, the high priests for an example. Despite all his criticism of Christianity, it’s alleged he told some acquaintances that, Jesus of Nazareth of the humble and slave morality class of people, nonetheless came the closest of being an ubermench if only he would of attributed what he preached to himself, a man, and not god. In Thus Sprach Zarathustra, when he’s speaking with the old woman who’s telling him about women, when she tells him “better carry a big stick!” The intent isn’t so he can beat them being master over them, rather it’s an expression for, that women, in the ways they do have power, are a force to be reckoned with! If one spoke Deutsch, understood the language, and was familiar with the common vernacular used at Nietzsche’s time, I think they’d get the intent. But Readers of translations, as good as they are, take that more literally thinking it’s meant as a sign he needs to be lord and master over the women he’ll come into relationships with. Due to this, too many think him a terrible misogynist and he wasn’t.
@@randstrickfaden4148 you gotta understand terms like misogyny are just blanket terms used by those (mostly women) who miss context and refuse to self realize
@@randstrickfaden4148 Oh gosh! This was just a great read! Thank you very much 🙏🌷
Love this Channel!. Thank you all for your work. This is the kind of content people should watch often in any social media. Something helpful instead of pure nonsense distraction
The first two points were really good. Then the 3rd point hit and it became clear why Nietzsche kept getting rejected. Unconditional Love is a real thing. And it's the foundation of any relationship. Just like you can Promise everlasting love to your child. You can promise it to your partner. In fact you can Promise unconditional Love to every person you meet. It's the foundation of the relationship, every relationship. You still need trust, respect, and happiness. But unconditional love must me promised in all relationships if you want them to stand the test of time :D
P.S. YES you can control your emotions Nietzche. It's not that hard
Lol, sorry but please understand that the same way people find it hard to understand logic is the same way some people find it hard to understand emotions even less truly control them. To put emotions off, they will eventually resurface thus they were never truly controlled.
Healthy relationship is the same things self discipline .. Healthy relationship has a analysis about weakness n excess ourselves to accept some people .. With those things got have talented development.. Like a hobbies as a food travelling , touring , working , and something all your needs.. Thanks ..
I find 'reciprocated goodwill' to be the most realistic term to define friendship. In my experience, enduring and successful friendships require reciprocity, kindness, inspiration, cultivation, teamwork, and mutual happiness. The concept of constructive criticism from true friends resonates, as it encourages personal development. That's why it requires a lot of effort from both parties that we must be willing to invest to earn that friendship because, once again, friendship revolves around giving and receiving.
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Nietzsche is a smart fella.
He was quite a philosopher, no doubt. But if there’s anything he wasn’t qualified to address, it would’ve been the subject of what constitutes healthy relationships.
But he really loved that horse!
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Great sharing
Individuals must listen to each not to answer but to get to know each other before forming realshionship and these days one of the biggest problems currently is that Individuals don't listen to others if 2 peopl disagree without arguing ,all they do is yell at each other, no progress ismade.Both stil think they are right.
Thanks
The great Philosopher Mr. Spock once said, wanting is not the same as having".
Great philosopher ... mmm I dunno about people, relationships & marriage !! It’s exhausting.
.. Aristotle Onassis said that the reason he became a shipping billionaire, was so that he would get enough sex... I think there is a lesson to be learned here.
Just because you find someone who fits you doesn't mean they will desire you.
"Be little selfish "Nietzsche.
I believed he understood nature and its laws. Nature is perfect. It hates equality and believes in individualism. I think he understood that and respected it. Kind of like stoicism, but with an "update" kind of?
"when we ignore our needs" - this concept by you have been addressed both from selfish and selflessness point of view. Is it correct?
It is very useful for us(young guys)
"If order to become selfless, one would have to cease to care for beloved"- Can anyone explain?
7 days ago? I got this one, my dude!
It's implying that one is being selfish by dedicating so much effort to a beloved, and not to others. Imagine you have 10 dollars. If you give it all to your beloved, it would be a selfish act, because you weren't able to share that money with other people who probably needed it more.
Obviously, just keeping the money would be the most selfish thing, but pouring it all into a beloved is just a step below that. A truly selfish man would give all his money away to a charity.
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In another funny parallel, you can see this when it comes to celebrities. People throw money at celebrities and streamers, and internet people all the time. And people wonder why a streamer can make 100,000 dollars a month, and it's because people throw money at them. And in a way, it's selfish, because funneling money will always be more selfish than dividing it among those who need it most.
If you don't love someone, you can give your money more freely to those who need it, because you don't have a biased, selfish interest to give it to a specific person.
There are destinations and there are free will that man has to find his own way to what his choices will be. Life is always a riddle.
Amen
Nice!
Best philosopher ever
@@portorportor8247 that was just the Syphilis.
@@POPCORN_BRAWL he died of a brain infection that was consistent with Syphilis but it was 1900. We've learned about more brain diseases since then but who knows.
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But Nietzsche had not a single healthy relationship because he did not wanted to be Nietzsche but a superman.
Didn't understand the selfish part
The selfish part can be explained in two ways. I'll start with the easy one first.
You should be selfish to your core values. Your religion, your beliefs on family, your political views. You should be selfish enough to establish boundaries and stick to them. And in a perfect world, you also meet someone who's selfishly adherent to their own core values, and you two just mesh up really well. You can be equally selfish, because you align. Otherwise one would be forced to change. And not everyone can change something like their religion or political beliefs without it causing immense inner turmoil.
Secondly, the more nuanced version of being selfish is to recognize that in order to devote your time to a lover, you must selfishly funnel it to them, and not share it recklessly with others. If you want to love someone, you can't be self-lessly giving all your time to your friends and family, and never spend any time with your lover. You have to be selfish enough to devote time to them, and not abandon them to be with others. This can also apply to money, or any other resource. If you give all your money to charity, what would you have left to give to a partner?
You have to be wise enough to acknowledge selfishness. That you can say "hey, I'm not giving my money to charity. I want to be selfish and give it to the partner that I CHOOSE, and that's a choice I will stand behind. I am deciding to be selfish, and take control of who gets my time and resources. Selfish in control is still selfish.
I feel sorry for Nietzsche, he never understood female nature... No wonder he never won the love from this women.
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The ... very ... LAST ... philosopher who should give advice on human relationships, let alone romantic ones! 🤢🤮
What is Love and marriage then Let’s go back to what the Ancient Greek philosopher Plato has to say He broke it down into three stages first stage is called Eros or erotic love common amongst young and early adult stage second is called Filia or friendship love common in the middle aged relationship thirdly is called Agape or Charity charitable love common in old age stage of relationship k!
Guy had issues with women in his life.
@@POPCORN_BRAWL hmm