So much wisdom, so much to learn, so smart and honest talk. I can tell you went through a lot in your life because whenever you talk about hardships, every words you say hit the spot. The only Tibetan UA-camr I would say that deserves so much respect only because of truth and honesty.
100% agreed with you. Very well said Lhakpa la! i hate cheaters.... If another girl steals your man, there's no better revenge than letting her keep him. Real men can't be stolen!!!!! People who cheated in their first relationship were three times as likely to cheat in their next relationship ! Once a cheater, always a cheater!
Your videos are always meaningful ! I love your all videos ! One of my best tibetan UA-cam these days. Please upload videos more ! Can’t wait to see your next vlog. Don’t be stress out and enjoy your life. Everything will be okay !
Once he cheat, he will never change, he will cheat again without a bit of shame and guilt. He broke your heart and almost took half of your life with the emotional pain. You’re right, I am 100% sure & he will definitely comeback to you for nothing but to take half of your life. It’s a shocking and unbelievable because how can a person you love the most can be like that but it’s a truth that I learned from my relationship.
Amazing analysis...When someone separates from a partner in a long relationship, there’s a history in it, and it takes time to Heal and start fresh. Self-respect is important and time to focus on yourself.
How shameless that woman must be! Such woman should be exposed publicly and should be taught a life lesson so that no other man or woman ever dare to destroy any family....It shows their upbringings also, I can understand and feel the pain that wife must be going through.Karma will not leave them for cheating and hurting others..If that woman hadn't responded and given chance to that man, such incident would not happen.
Ur vlog are meaningful and heart touching conversations. Right now many of Tibetan vlog are unboxing or showing places and eating corner . Those are really not making that much sense. Ur way of vlog is sensible and heart touching and beside I love the way u r. U r inside out. No biased. I like u very much.
This is first time watching your video, very straight forward and honest answers. I love it and appreciate your honesty. There always have consequences for people who cheat and lie no matter what.
U r absolutely right...i would forgive him once for my child and i will also not forgive him again for my child. Not just for your mental health and happiness but your child also. May god give strength to this lady. Your world dont just revolve around your husband. There are many things to do out there you should keep yourself occupied in other things to divert yiur mind.
Women should respect women. If he/she is in a relationship, just stay away from them. Don’t try to be a sugar baby instead, find someone who is single.
I have been through that road. My husband cheated on me. So, i decided to divorce him for my feature. Now its been many years and I'm happy inside out. Lately i saw him cheating on his wife. I was happy for myself that I'm no longer with him.
If another woman steal your man, there is no better revenge than letting her keep him. "REAL MAN CAN'T BE STOLEN". If he can cheat on his own wife and his own child you think he won't cheat her "the so call girlfriend". Once a cheater always a cheater.
I salute your boldness and agree with you 🫡. To share such advice, you need a strong heart! Take care! We love you! You have a charm of not getting bored how much people listen you, and that’s a great quality a content creator must have. I have seen UA-camrs expressing their regrets that they shouldn’t have shared thier most personal side of life such as about kids and house internal matters in public. Somethings are best kept in private so that people shouldn’t interfere in present and future. You can always share your ideas without getting into your personal matter. Anyway, that’s just my personal opinion. Thank you for you robust and thoughtful advice 👏
3rd time is absolutely not forgivable. It will definitely be hard for a few months . Hope you find the strength to make a decision whatever it may be. Take care
Are you comfortable sharing your surgery experience and how after surgery benefits you it will inspire people going through critical illness, reason I ask is you have recover amazingly and went back to normal how u were before surgery. Pls don’t think I m noisy just wanted get inspired
The practical way to go is filing for divorce and if the mother does not have any source of income she can request spousal alimony. Divorce is complicated when there is a child so it’s best to work together and make the custodial decisions jointly for the child’s well-being. The mother can request for child custody and the father can have visitation rights and vice versa. Whoever is earning needs to pay child support alimony to the custodial parent. Indian law allows for child and spousal alimony. India’s New Divorce Law 2023 makes the whole divorce process straight forward. The new law allows for No-fault divorce and within 20 week time frame it’s done. You don’t have to prove infidelity and will save you from confrontational trauma. Less drama more peace of mind. Divorce will teach us a big lesson - don’t marry if you are not ready for commitment - choosing your partner wisely - don’t make babies if you can’t afford to pay child alimony. Most importantly for Tibetan women if you ever decide to get married- make sure to get it legally registered in India or wherever you are residing. You will have less stress financially and health wise stemming from childcare if you ever have to go through divorce or separation for any XYZ reasons. Everybody knows raising a child is not easy - it’s a life long commitment and takes lot of time, energy, dedication and of course money so make your spouse share their responsibility and the only way to enforce is by seeking legal help. There are many Tibetan lawyers who can assist you. Reach out - don’t suffer in silence 🫶❤️🩹
If that woman wouldnt shown any signal or arouse any expectation on that man, then he wouldnt have that courage to do all the shits....That woman should know the other womans pain and should stop him .He wont be able to touch that woman unless or untill he tie her or threaten her on gun point...That bitch should not wave her tail first....She has broken a family,And the man is equally responsible for it..They will face the KARMA one day....They will get paid for their bad deeds sooner or later...
Stories from both sides are very clear.Both of them have accepted their faults and expressed their guilt.BUT they had still continued to do the same mistake.Their neighbours and the community are well aware of their sinful act...
@@Tibetan-ChannelThe boy accepted that he had affair with the other girl. First he accepted only he was texting and secondly, he accepted he had slept with the girl. Now, the girl is asking for advice for her action. A for ball is telling the wife to leave him - that’s her advice. Two side story in brief.
@@Tibetan-ChannelIt’s not rocket science. The man got greedy & selfish, and took the unrighteous path of adultery. He had wife but he still desired after other women. The Man knowingly & intentionally hurt his wife’s trust and destroyed his marriage by not having control over his LUST. Cheaters cheat for Lust & momentary excitement but it’s never Love. These people are their own enemy and destroy even what they have already. It’s very sad that it’s becoming a disease 🦠 in our Tibetan society because of Instagram and social media. Couples should appreciate each other & strive for pure Love with mutual respect.
Dear a for ball your direct advice to separate is easy said but difficult in practice. Extra marital affairs are common in Tibetan society which includes all the generations old and young. Whatever decision to be taken should be properly looked into all the matter including welfare of children so involved.
Yeah since it’s difficult in practice it’s better she leave then live with a cheater. If looked into children welfare then why not husband not start to cheat then stay true in relation. He wouldn’t have started first, when the time come that he they both need to look for child’s future then it’s time when he had cheated more then three times. So basically it’s better she leave her husband then live with a cheater. Child will be more embarrass in future if you think of child’s future too much. Personally, I would rather leave my husband then let my child know his father as a cheater. Vice Versa if the wife cheat as well.
As I know cheating in a marriage is not a common thing that we should consider. But rather it’s a serious thing that’s immoral during your relationship with a person. So whether it’s difficult or not is not ur concern I think. And I think being in a relationship who doesn’t respect you and ur children. It’s better to have ur own life on ur own hand
It is easy said then done! 1959 generations saw lots blood shed during upheaval of Chinese occupation. May be that memory keeps their emotions in check and avoid serious conflict with those involved. However younger generations tend to take decisions based on raw emotions as result we saw numbers of murder in this regard. One in France who murmured his wife and her new boyfriend as we all are aware . Second murder happened in Switzerland where an unstable boyfriend murder his girlfriend on the basis of suspicion of cheating. Thirds one was a mysterious murder whereas suspects are stills at large. If you look into matter totally it was also due to family disputes! So we human looked into matter in two dimensions and in reality it is more than two dimensional. And also highly emotional issues. It is difficult to draw a red line.
Yeap, its just a warning for her three times. If still like a glue sticker or believe in day dream that cheater will change she will get more hurt in future. Its not easy to leave suddenly but small short period pain is better than future long pain. Better to leave trash virus. I feel one big mistake of many fool girls is they think cheater lover will change, so again and again forgive. So a lover or friend, check partner's character is the first important than outlook or money. Intelligent girl will take the warning seriously and take action right away and get rid off trash lover. For anyone living alone is hard at first but we came alone naked hv to go alone, so have to get used to it. May all living beings free from suffering. May all find happiness & success!!!🕉️
I have been cheated by my tibertan boyfriend never ever imagined that he would do it but he did it anyway with a third class 21 yr old kid. 😢 His face is so innocent i never imagined that he would do it😢
I don't know about girls but but but many of my friends had left for their life, I missed them very much but not contacting them, if I do contact them again I then feel sad and get emotional😢😢😢
So much wisdom, so much to learn, so smart and honest talk. I can tell you went through a lot in your life because whenever you talk about hardships, every words you say hit the spot. The only Tibetan UA-camr I would say that deserves so much respect only because of truth and honesty.
Right
So many good points shared, especially how cheating and the repeated breaking of trust can cause ongoing relational trauma
100% agreed with you. Very well said Lhakpa la! i hate cheaters.... If another girl steals your man, there's no better revenge than letting her keep him. Real men can't be stolen!!!!! People who cheated in their first relationship were three times as likely to cheat in their next relationship ! Once a cheater, always a cheater!
Your videos are always meaningful ! I love your all videos ! One of my best tibetan UA-cam these days. Please upload videos more ! Can’t wait to see your next vlog. Don’t be stress out and enjoy your life. Everything will be okay !
In the video, I witnessed a woman delivering a sincere and unfiltered speech!!👏🏻👏🏻
Once he cheat, he will never change, he will cheat again without a bit of shame and guilt.
He broke your heart and almost took half of your life with the emotional pain.
You’re right, I am 100% sure & he will definitely comeback to you for nothing but to take half of your life.
It’s a shocking and unbelievable because how can a person you love the most can be like that but it’s a truth that I learned from my relationship.
“SELF RESPECT “ a woman wit self respect is woman of substance .
You are really educated person and also so honest! Your mind is really really clean I'm proud of you!
You and kunga la should do a podcast video once and go crazy topics
Amazing analysis...When someone separates from a partner in a long relationship, there’s a history in it, and it takes time to Heal and start fresh. Self-respect is important and time to focus on yourself.
How shameless that woman must be! Such woman should be exposed publicly and should be taught a life lesson so that no other man or woman ever dare to destroy any family....It shows their upbringings also, I can understand and feel the pain that wife must be going through.Karma will not leave them for cheating and hurting others..If that woman hadn't responded and given chance to that man, such incident would not happen.
Ur completely right if we r loyal n caring we expect same from our partner.otherwise it is merely a sacrifice not a normal relationship.❤ Ur advice
Ur vlog are meaningful and heart touching conversations. Right now many of Tibetan vlog are unboxing or showing places and eating corner . Those are really not making that much sense. Ur way of vlog is sensible and heart touching and beside I love the way u r. U r inside out. No biased. I like u very much.
This is first time watching your video, very straight forward and honest answers. I love it and appreciate your honesty. There always have consequences for people who cheat and lie no matter what.
Yes u r absolutely right Lhakpa la,it’s really hurts when some one cheated .love u Lhakpa la ur all blog r really very interesting.thank u
U r absolutely right...i would forgive him once for my child and i will also not forgive him again for my child. Not just for your mental health and happiness but your child also. May god give strength to this lady. Your world dont just revolve around your husband. There are many things to do out there you should keep yourself occupied in other things to divert yiur mind.
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Women should respect women. If he/she is in a relationship, just stay away from them. Don’t try to be a sugar baby instead, find someone who is single.
I have been through that road. My husband cheated on me. So, i decided to divorce him for my feature. Now its been many years and I'm happy inside out. Lately i saw him cheating on his wife. I was happy for myself that I'm no longer with him.
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Cheating is the worst enemy in a relationship specially in a marital status!
Salute to ur words. Nowadays loyal and true ones are not valued these days. Sad though.
Great points..🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
You are absolutely right.she should leave the so-called cheated husband and move on.
wow so sweet of you la,you are our one and only favorite,We guys love you from southern 🇫🇷.May god bless you la
Enjoy your life and stay away from negativity.. lots of good wishes and best of health A for Ball. You are the best
Yes,Same problem for me.he was always cheating.We don't want Cheater.It's Better to live alone.👍No tension
Always happy watching ur volgs ❤ the best volger so far ❤
I think this story same tsepak and pema 🤣🤣🤣 cho tsepak already left pema.. 🤣🤣
Ur right Ach I’m full support for you ❤
Heart breaking to watch you cry 😭
She is tough women
Bravo !! Good advice for all girls❤
You're one of my favorite youtubers . Now share with us some funny 😝🤣 and joks from New Delhi🙏
Well said Lhakpa la 🙏🙏🙏
Definitely it’s best to stay away happily and independently from that senseless man. How dare he could do this even she has given chances.
Stay happy .. kind people alway got cheat by bad .. I alway see that you are kind and frank . Fan of you .
Very very inspiring and interesting talked ❤❤❤❤❤
Take care be strong we love you keep going don’t stop UA-cam please you say everything is true. God bless your family.
If another woman steal your man, there is no better revenge than letting her keep him. "REAL MAN CAN'T BE STOLEN". If he can cheat on his own wife and his own child you think he won't cheat her "the so call girlfriend". Once a cheater always a cheater.
Absolutely rite!
I salute your boldness and agree with you 🫡. To share such advice, you need a strong heart! Take care! We love you! You have a charm of not getting bored how much people listen you, and that’s a great quality a content creator must have. I have seen UA-camrs expressing their regrets that they shouldn’t have shared thier most personal side of life such as about kids and house internal matters in public. Somethings are best kept in private so that people shouldn’t interfere in present and future. You can always share your ideas without getting into your personal matter. Anyway, that’s just my personal opinion. Thank you for you robust and thoughtful advice 👏
Well said.
Bomo khari khatuk pe denpa lap sung👌
You are right 💯👍👍👍❤️🙏🙏🙏
I agree with you dear ❤ from New York
Drukta is so cute 🥰🥰🥰
Intresting topic .
Acha lhakpa I like u alot because ur educated and concern woman
Very well advise . Whoever this lady she need to break up with her husband is better I think that way too
Good advice ❤
Love it acha ❤ the way you talk 🫶🏻
Better single then sad and lonely in a relationship.😢
Totally agree madam ❤
❤ thank you for sharing your
3rd time is absolutely not forgivable. It will definitely be hard for a few months . Hope you find the strength to make a decision whatever it may be. Take care
There is no third time. If he slept with someone the first time, It's done. cheater will always be cheater. They only get better at hiding.
Are you comfortable sharing your surgery experience and how after surgery benefits you it will inspire people going through critical illness, reason I ask is you have recover amazingly and went back to normal how u were before surgery. Pls don’t think I m noisy just wanted get inspired
There are some things which should be leave as personal stuff
Stay happy and strong!!
Luv u genla Ples stay happy 💐🙏
Omg the way you explain is wow. I’m always big fan❤❤❤❤❤
Very good point plz every day put videos👍👏🙏🏼👌🥰😘❤️
Well said 👍
I always love watching your videos 💕
Yes lhakpa la you are 100 percent right
The practical way to go is filing for divorce and if the mother does not have any source of income she can request spousal alimony. Divorce is complicated when there is a child so it’s best to work together and make the custodial decisions jointly for the child’s well-being. The mother can request for child custody and the father can have visitation rights and vice versa. Whoever is earning needs to pay child support alimony to the custodial parent.
Indian law allows for child and spousal alimony.
India’s New Divorce Law 2023 makes the whole divorce process straight forward. The new law allows for No-fault divorce and within 20 week time frame it’s done. You don’t have to prove infidelity and will save you from confrontational trauma. Less drama more peace of mind.
Divorce will teach us a big lesson - don’t marry if you are not ready for commitment - choosing your partner wisely - don’t make babies if you can’t afford to pay child alimony. Most importantly for Tibetan women if you ever decide to get married- make sure to get it legally registered in India or wherever you are residing. You will have less stress financially and health wise stemming from childcare if you ever have to go through divorce or separation for any XYZ reasons.
Everybody knows raising a child is not easy - it’s a life long commitment and takes lot of time, energy, dedication and of course money so make your spouse share their responsibility and the only way to enforce is by seeking legal help. There are many Tibetan lawyers who can assist you. Reach out - don’t suffer in silence 🫶❤️🩹
Thank you for this video
Vary much well said genla.
You are a great and powerful girl la....take care la acha la
Once a cheater is always a cheater
That’s what I was going to write
Always.....
100%👍
Totally agree
If that woman wouldnt shown any signal or arouse any expectation on that man, then he wouldnt have that courage to do all the shits....That woman should know the other womans pain and should stop him .He wont be able to touch that woman unless or untill he tie her or threaten her on gun point...That bitch should not wave her tail first....She has broken a family,And the man is equally responsible for it..They will face the KARMA one day....They will get paid for their bad deeds sooner or later...
Wow good advice 🙏🙏🙏
Once a cheater, never trust them
You are right sister good kok👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻💕🙏🏻
Good advice 👌👍❤❤❤
You are right,Acha la👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Thanks your good advice acha
It appears that you possess a wealth of experience, making you the ideal candidate for handling questions of this nature.
Love u since u have beautiful family ❤️🇺🇸
You are right gen la
Stay strong my dear
You r 100% right👍
Very trueeeeeee.
Very true .
Take care, enjoy, have fun and stay safe
I’m agree with you Lhakpa la.
Thank u 🙏 love ur son ❤from my family ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Swiss
Love u Lhakpa lak ❤❤❤ love from Switzerland 🇨🇭 Fribourg 😉🍀Take care
There are always two sides to a coin. First hear from his side of the story and then give suggestions.
Stories from both sides are very clear.Both of them have accepted their faults and expressed their guilt.BUT they had still continued to do the same mistake.Their neighbours and the community are well aware of their sinful act...
@@Ranrig where the hell is both sides accepting their faults? In the vidoe I can hear what is being said by the wife.
@@Tibetan-ChannelThe boy accepted that he had affair with the other girl. First he accepted only he was texting and secondly, he accepted he had slept with the girl. Now, the girl is asking for advice for her action. A for ball is telling the wife to leave him - that’s her advice. Two side story in brief.
@@pemasherpa6637 As I mentioned it is the wife who said her husband has accepted his wrongdoings . He want to hear directly from the man himself
@@Tibetan-ChannelIt’s not rocket science. The man got greedy & selfish, and took the unrighteous path of adultery. He had wife but he still desired after other women. The Man knowingly & intentionally hurt his wife’s trust and destroyed his marriage by not having control over his LUST.
Cheaters cheat for Lust & momentary excitement but it’s never Love. These people are their own enemy and destroy even what they have already. It’s very sad that it’s becoming a disease 🦠 in our Tibetan society because of Instagram and social media.
Couples should appreciate each other & strive for pure Love with mutual respect.
Absolutely ....
very good advace i agree with u keep it up.
That's gal in good timing with bad place 🧐
Dear a for ball your direct advice to separate is easy said but difficult in practice. Extra marital affairs are common in Tibetan society which includes all the generations old and young. Whatever decision to be taken should be properly looked into all the matter including welfare of children so involved.
Yeah since it’s difficult in practice it’s better she leave then live with a cheater. If looked into children welfare then why not husband not start to cheat then stay true in relation. He wouldn’t have started first, when the time come that he they both need to look for child’s future then it’s time when he had cheated more then three times. So basically it’s better she leave her husband then live with a cheater. Child will be more embarrass in future if you think of child’s future too much. Personally, I would rather leave my husband then let my child know his father as a cheater. Vice Versa if the wife cheat as well.
As I know cheating in a marriage is not a common thing that we should consider. But rather it’s a serious thing that’s immoral during your relationship with a person. So whether it’s difficult or not is not ur concern I think. And I think being in a relationship who doesn’t respect you and ur children. It’s better to have ur own life on ur own hand
It is easy said then done! 1959 generations saw lots blood shed during upheaval of Chinese occupation. May be that memory keeps their emotions in check and avoid serious conflict with those involved. However younger generations tend to take decisions based on raw emotions as result we saw numbers of murder in this regard. One in France who murmured his wife and her new boyfriend as we all are aware . Second murder happened in Switzerland where an unstable boyfriend murder his girlfriend on the basis of suspicion of cheating. Thirds one was a mysterious murder whereas suspects are stills at large. If you look into matter totally it was also due to family disputes! So we human looked into matter in two dimensions and in reality it is more than two dimensional. And also highly emotional issues. It is difficult to draw a red line.
💯 right
I m always watching ur video and I proud of u
Yeap, its just a warning for her three times. If still like a glue sticker or believe in day dream that cheater will change she will get more hurt in future. Its not easy to leave suddenly but small short period pain is better than future long pain. Better to leave trash virus. I feel one big mistake of many fool girls is they think cheater lover will change, so again and again forgive. So a lover or friend, check partner's character is the first important than outlook or money. Intelligent girl will take the warning seriously and take action right away and get rid off trash lover. For anyone living alone is hard at first but we came alone naked hv to go alone, so have to get used to it. May all living beings free from suffering. May all find happiness & success!!!🕉️
So true ❤
Acha Lhakpa . That s very true , once man cheated, He is always a cheater,
I have been cheated by my tibertan boyfriend never ever imagined that he would do it but he did it anyway with a third class 21 yr old kid. 😢 His face is so innocent i never imagined that he would do it😢
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U too take care 💕
I don't know about girls but but but many of my friends had left for their life, I missed them very much but not contacting them, if I do contact them again I then feel sad and get emotional😢😢😢
Very good acha you are right
Strong 💪 voice
Really nice 👍
Love you always 💓