LOVE first before any other thing What happens if that money isn’t there anymore? What will hold both parties together? Cos tomorrow even with all the money(status or whatever)you may look at that person with so much disgust and not find any other reason to be in the relationship or marriage,that’s why so many relationships are going south and once hate enters,GAME OVER… Love may not be everything but Love brings understanding,tolerance,patience,compassion,consideration,selflessness,forgiveness,willingness to stay You just genuinely love this person for who that person is and not what he/she can do for you. When both party genuinely love each other It would definitely last However as a man have money ooo Even if na the least
The fact is that nobody will "love" you just for who you are for a long time and in a CLOSE relationship or under the same roof if you cannot do 'anything' for them. Maybe we are getting this LOVE title all wrong
Watching from Kenya. I just want to say if we look at the history of marriage and the reasons why pple marry ,love has never been a number one motivation. Security, survival and many other social-economic factors are the main things.
You also didn't cite that That's why people keep up with rubbish and abuse and the rest because the reason they married is still secured.....and really how is that life... that's just selfish in my books, once what you want is affected the person diminishes in your eyes. Real reasons for marriage God's purpose and will on earth be established and companionship.
I don't double date and it's not me deceiving myself. It's just what I want and the energy I also want from my partner. I feel unclean having multiple partners
@@swiitdoll Well I don't think it's African problem though. I feel its all about contentment. We need to develop the spirit of being contented and grateful for what we have ✌️
@@amourelove475 It's not about being single. It's staying committed to the relationship when you find one. Am single and not searching or mingling. Relationship is not something you should rush, being single is not a crime too. You take your time and get someone who share same energy and ideology with you. Believe me good guys dey
From my little experience in life about relationship, I can confidently say its a 100% gamble no matter how careful u are at it.. but there are things u must do to help u scale through when everything go south. 1. Try to find happiness outside a relationship. 2. Try to avoid damaged people, no matter how much pity u feel for them. 3.try to make more money 💷 LOVE is not the same fo4 everybody, as u grow older ur love language or understanding keeps changing.
Its much deeper than that! You attract what you are. Saying that be careful of damaged people… you are damaged as well. Your upbringing has a huge factor as well when jt comes to choosing a partner. This relationship thing is deep, and sorry to say this video was informative but surface level. If you as a person dont know what u want out of a relationship or ur needs its a problem in relationship. You will never be satisfied. There are so many other aspects but this is just a few.
Its much deeper than that! You attract what you are. Saying that be careful of damaged people… you are damaged as well. Your upbringing has a huge factor as well when jt comes to choosing a partner. This relationship thing is deep, and sorry to say this video was informative but surface level. If you as a person dont know what u want out of a relationship or ur needs its a problem in relationship. You will never be satisfied. There are so many other aspects but this is just a few.
Before you for fall for someone something will attract you to the person. It’s the attraction that you fall for. It could be a smile, intellect, shoes, or a compliment. After some time love can start. As I was writing this I remember the movie I watched the lady was screaming in pain and the man heard it and was attracted to her. Also there are some women, all attraction fades if you can’t hit the spot in the bedroom. They are not necessarily promiscuous, but if you can’t do it the relationship will end.
Interesting discussion. The guy on the far left with the green cap, pls let others speak. Plus off record discussions are off records.Bringing to the public what u discussed backstage is unprofessional and libellous. I think Don Jazzy handled the discussion excellently. The ladies had a lot they couldn’t say , due to Mr Green cap 😳
Don Jazzy's level of honest is out of this world, he's just frank and believes he owes nobody explaination for his kind of person, being truthful and opening up for who he's is just something very uncommon, I mean VERY VERY UNCOMMON, lot of us are just hypocrites
Laugh wan kee me when Nedu shouted “Ahh noo, noo“ (44:45) and Jazzy tell am “you don remember some bad thing wey u do abi? Jazzy is the realest Don🔥😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not really .. it’s simply well manners , excellent knowledge to be , selfless seeing another as greater than u, kind compassionate to the needs of others , respectful with boundaries understanding & being of great assistance to others in their need. Avoiding all quarrels n living in peace atall times .That’s love ! It’s not romantic .. it agape . Once u got that for the common man , family n friends trust me ur relationship or marriage wud b superb cos the foundation of wat makes a great person is already solidly set in stone. A selfish arrogant person is never capable of any good qualities of ppl interaction .. they quarrelsome as hell don’t ever see they maltreat of others cos they always in their own head all about themselves . Dint deceive urself such ppl can’t ever have others best interest st heart not even u so run
Jazzy is making a very valid point....if you can go out and like another person and end up doing one on two with that person ..what makes you feel your partner cannot fall into same ditch
I enjoyed this episode alot but i was saddened even as i watched. It made me realise the opinion we have of marriage is based on what we have seen, experienced or witnessed. All the more reason we need to see more good , godly marriages out there (because indeed they are there but bad news travels faster and wider). I can watch this and feel i truly can not experience marriage in the sense of what it was designed to be my the designer. Its a no brainer to say you cant have reasons or incentives to want to marry a person, those things are important yeah but i think rather the question to ask is why one wants to get married? If you do not not knw the purpose of something as defined by the inventor, abuse of that thing is inevitable. Dont be fooled o, there are good, loving, faithful, Godly and very happy marriages out there without any polutions of the age we live in. They are there because It is possible. I dont mean to sound religious but God created marriage; Marriage shld then be run by the inventor's manual on marriage (scripture) not by Culture.
Quite interestingly Don Jazzy personality is super awesome. It's just a live and let live .. Well I thought I only loved Toun's Voice but she seems to be sitting strong in my heart.. ❤️❤️
This episode is amazing with Don jazzy na super blessing. If both genders can take what they dish out the relationship pool will run smoothly. One ❤ guys
Lol..exactly..'who sabi this one..abeg shift, because I humble come una show'. Even me I fit leave the show with wetin dat babe dey always yarn. Nonsense, thinking she was being honest..no rich person would her attractive if she keep showing she in it for the money. It is a turn off..money wey no easy to get.
Am I really here to learn, bcuz I definitely believe in Love and be a one woman man. I admonish u guys not to dirt pple who does it and are fighting to do it. Nobody is perfect but we should try to be a better version
Naomi is 100 percent right. If love was not a decision, but some emotional coincidence, then it wouldn't be the special thing it is. That choice and decision to care for, show affection, show respect, be there for, give time to a person is love.
Faithfulness has nothing to do with money. Know this and Know peace. Standing by a man with no money does not earn you his faithfulness. If you are worth his faithfulness, no matter how promiscuous he is, rich or poor, he will give it.
I thought don jazzy is just humble but man is also very very truthful I wish everyone is dis life will be dis truthful then all will be well Thanks guyz for been back with dis new episode so so happy dat I will be listening and seeing u guyz more often again
I believe this conversation went this way as none of these people knew the definition of the term love but have rather substituted it with a different preconceived notion! It is true that people want different things and are free to choose what they want. But at the same time we should not disguise our desire for a better life for “love” The moment you say you can never marry someone below your class, that’s the moment the deciding factor for you becomes class. It forms the foundation for whatever feeling you eventually develop and term it “love”. Marriages now are built on wrong foundations in the guise of “love”. Attraction is quite different! You can be attracted to people who are rich, or handsome or for different reasons. You may believe yourself to not be attracted to people for similar/opposite reasons. Do you want to marry someone you are not attracted to? Mostly a NO for most people. Is it possible to eventually fall in love with someone you were not initially attracted to? Possibly Yes! Why because love seeps in beyond understanding. Love may mean different things to different people but there’s a common denominator - it does not discriminate! And until we are able to define and accept what that means, this podcast has been a waste of time.
This statement 'Marriages now are built on wrong foundations in the guise of “love”' is a matter of perspective, and different people may have different opinions on whether marriages are built on the wrong foundations. Some people may argue that many modern marriages are built on a superficial understanding of love and are not based on deeper emotional connections or shared values. Others may argue that love is still a vital foundation for marriages, but that other factors such as communication, trust, and mutual respect are also important. The truth is that each marriage is unique and the foundation of it is based on the understanding and agreement of the couple, and what works for one couple may not work for another.
I wonder when people will start to accept the fact love is never enough. That's why many people will keep getting hurt because they think love is the ultimate.
" so you envy him just because of that? So e nor reach to envy?!😂😂😂🤣 The truth is, the WHY is different from person to person. Some want to get married for just companionship, so if the partner loses concentration, the love expires.
Love is care, trust, concern for another person. It is placing your focus on one individual, knowing you don’t have an unlimited amount of resources or attention. It’s building your life up and having that person in mind the whole time.
That's not true Naomi said what she wanted to say there is nothing like forming nawao how u wan make she behave she literally told you that jazzy is big and she is respecting him.
I love Don Jazzy so much, what a legend! I love that he remains true to himself and very honest... the end of this video was really hilarious 😂😂😂 S/O to Nedu, Husband Material, and Toun.
Naomi reflects the ideals of a good number of women in 49:00. Paraphrased, "Cheating is a deal breaker. However, rich men are permitted to cheat, their status earns it."
@@tefmedia My submission here is, I wasn't surprised, because these are opinions we see online and on the streets every now and them. I used to be pissed by some of Naomi's take, but not anymore; she reflects the ideals of a good number of her gender in this parts and we need her for balance. I might disagree with some of her takes, but I've come to realize that she's a pivotal part of the show, and she makes the discussion interesting.
@@TheSidelineSpectator😂😂😂😂 I think it's more of survival and hypergamy, than it is about low self esteem. More like, "I'm hurt by his actions, however; he gives me the good things of life; how would I survive if I leave, what's the assurance of something similar or better out there" 7 out of 10 with this ideals would walk without flinching if they had the financial security themselves.
Am just watching this episode now in August 16th 20204, and am so embarrassed that someone would say you guys are fooling yourself after watching 30 seconds clip.You guys are what I watch everyday,honestly speaking,I started watching u guys not up to 2 months (2024) but before then I have never said anything about this podcast,I wasn’t just interested,but when I finally got an opportunity to watch one episode,I went back and started watching both old and new 😂,very educative and interesting and entertaining ❤I love you guys 🎉
I like the open convo with Don baba Jay, truthfully and sincerely,men go through this kind of mindset, untill the take a decision not to be like that, dede Chinedu, love is a commandment, just like naomi said, love and affection comes after you have decided to marry a person from checking things like, compatibility, commitment, respect,understanding,how to raise children and personal convictions about life... But then from the spiritual point of view,a man or woman who lives according to the life of God won't go through this... The life is different and it is clear... Normal business relationship dey get issues so marriage suppose get too and thats why there is a commandment for forgiveness, 🌹🌹🌹🌹 be happy and live by the leading of the spirit he will never be wrong .. marriage is still beautiful and interesting... We just have raised a generation that lacks the spirit of commitment and discipline
I never watch finish, but so far what I can see from the conversation so far is you have to be comfortable, confident and content in who you are and where you are in life before adding someone else to your life. Overall people do marry for many different reasons and not just for love.
Money is important but what’s money without love?? And remember money is like a spirit… today you see it tomorrow it might not be there… Love is what will keep you both… I will have both sha😂😂
FAZIO FROM SIERRA LEONE 🇸🇱 To be honest I started watching this podcasts a days ago and OMG i can't have enough sleep coz of the addiction to watch more of it 😊😅 Please in the next episode I want you guys to invite Majid (Nar money dae stop nonsense) firstly the music jam even in SL we do luv the song but the message is partially true coz money can only stop few nonsense not all coz R-Kelly should not have been in preason for so long. (POWER IS THE ULTIMATE NONSENSE STOPER) 👌 🙌
Husband material by any chance if you read this text, please let's this be your next episode topic to clear the air more and to let's people understand this message well as you guys always did 😊
Thank you so much for this entertaining convo, big up guys🚀💖 Can we please just reduce on SPEAKING ON TOP OF EACHOTHER OR CUTTING EACHOTHER OFF 😌 thank you though
I no even know say, una don drop video oooo 🤷 I guess I couldn't tell from d change of name I just saw it on Instablog and rushed here surprised. Welcome back d honest bunch 👏👏♥️🥰
I won't sit to allow any woman I paid bride price for to come and say she can see other men, before you make those rules, tell your parent to scrap off your bride price, let's share everything 50/50 and then you can tell me this story.
Respect to each of you Naomi frankly spoke you really need to cut some slack for a lady that stays with a guy that’s not buoyant yet cos a hungry man is really angry oo.. hmmm
Don Jazzy, there's nothing like butterflies. In reality, marriage is a COMMITMENT. It's okay to say you are enjoying being single, but waiting for butterflies to happen is CAP. It would never happen.
I calmly disagree sir, Butterflies is just another word for attraction. How do you marry without attraction? It is actually the first thing you'd experience most times. Commitment is what you engage in after the wedding and in the marriage.
@@teecymartins Donjazzy already said that he has being with ladies whom he was attracted to, but then, there was always another finer person. so the butterflies he is talking about here is not attraction. Jazzy is referring to someone that would solely sweep him off his feet such that he would no longer be attracted to any other person for life. that is impossible cos there would always be a finer or more appealing person. so going by his logic, Jazzy may never get married and that's fine. But if he wants to be married and stay married, that's where commitment comes in (pick one person, and CHOOSE to stay committed to that person).
@@akinseyi7886 yeah, I feel you now and you're definitely correct. He has to make that decision, it doesn't come as a feeling to stop cheating. Because it is flesh instigated. He has to decide to stick with one woman.
I think he is just being honest, if millions of couple were to be sat down and interviewed, you will find out that “commitment" was an option they chose just so to be married and fulfil societal norms. 5 years or less into a lot of marriages, these same commitment tend to wear out 99% of the time thereby we find more “cohabitants" instead of “couples”. Problem is that, no one is ready for this sort of honesty for the fear of what people/hypocrites (battling the same issue) would say.
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Hahahah nedu dey always know the right story for any gist abeg avoid friends way dey work for radio 😂😂😂😂
Everyone saying they love jazz's honesty because he's famous and rich, if one unknown person share same opinion they will say the person is useless
Exactly bro
No mind hypocritical Nigerians
DonJ..God bless you. I love u so much
💯
Correct person
Marriage was never for love, love is an abstraction, it's lust and desire to procreate, Marriage is for money/security and has always been.
Nedu and lie na 5&6 this guy dey compose die 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣fear short men
You dey craze, I be short man too na 😂
LOVE first before any other thing
What happens if that money isn’t there anymore?
What will hold both parties together?
Cos tomorrow even with all the money(status or whatever)you may look at that person with so much disgust and not find any other reason to be in the relationship or marriage,that’s why so many relationships are going south and once hate enters,GAME OVER… Love may not be everything but Love brings understanding,tolerance,patience,compassion,consideration,selflessness,forgiveness,willingness to stay
You just genuinely love this person for who that person is and not what he/she can do for you.
When both party genuinely love each other
It would definitely last
However as a man have money ooo
Even if na the least
exactly
U no lie
The fact is that nobody will "love" you just for who you are for a long time and in a CLOSE relationship or under the same roof if you cannot do 'anything' for them.
Maybe we are getting this LOVE title all wrong
Love vanishes too
Anyone who believes that LOVE is unconditional is grossly delusional.
2:46 i love listening to Husband material. He is so so intelligent and speaks so intelligently
Watching from Kenya. I just want to say if we look at the history of marriage and the reasons why pple marry ,love has never been a number one motivation. Security, survival and many other social-economic factors are the main things.
True words
You also didn't cite that That's why people keep up with rubbish and abuse and the rest because the reason they married is still secured.....and really how is that life... that's just selfish in my books, once what you want is affected the person diminishes in your eyes.
Real reasons for marriage God's purpose and will on earth be established and companionship.
I don't double date and it's not me deceiving myself. It's just what I want and the energy I also want from my partner. I feel unclean having multiple partners
You sabi book guy
Very rare of an African man.
@@swiitdoll Well I don't think it's African problem though. I feel its all about contentment. We need to develop the spirit of being contented and grateful for what we have ✌️
I’m single 😢
@@amourelove475 It's not about being single. It's staying committed to the relationship when you find one. Am single and not searching or mingling. Relationship is not something you should rush, being single is not a crime too. You take your time and get someone who share same energy and ideology with you. Believe me good guys dey
Great discussion as usual. Edu, limit your interruptions when someone else is speaking.
I'm Ghanaian 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭 and I love this show I swear everything. The best show 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Neduuuu !!!! 😂 he always has gist !😩 please be keeping small secret!
From my little experience in life about relationship, I can confidently say its a 100% gamble no matter how careful u are at it.. but there are things u must do to help u scale through when everything go south.
1. Try to find happiness outside a relationship.
2. Try to avoid damaged people, no matter how much pity u feel for them.
3.try to make more money 💷
LOVE is not the same fo4 everybody, as u grow older ur love language or understanding keeps changing.
Its much deeper than that! You attract what you are. Saying that be careful of damaged people… you are damaged as well. Your upbringing has a huge factor as well when jt comes to choosing a partner. This relationship thing is deep, and sorry to say this video was informative but surface level. If you as a person dont know what u want out of a relationship or ur needs its a problem in relationship. You will never be satisfied. There are so many other aspects but this is just a few.
Its much deeper than that! You attract what you are. Saying that be careful of damaged people… you are damaged as well. Your upbringing has a huge factor as well when jt comes to choosing a partner. This relationship thing is deep, and sorry to say this video was informative but surface level. If you as a person dont know what u want out of a relationship or ur needs its a problem in relationship. You will never be satisfied. There are so many other aspects but this is just a few.
Before you for fall for someone something will attract you to the person. It’s the attraction that you fall for. It could be a smile, intellect, shoes, or a compliment. After some time love can start. As I was writing this I remember the movie I watched the lady was screaming in pain and the man heard it and was attracted to her. Also there are some women, all attraction fades if you can’t hit the spot in the bedroom. They are not necessarily promiscuous, but if you can’t do it the relationship will end.
Interesting discussion. The guy on the far left with the green cap, pls let others speak. Plus off record discussions are off records.Bringing to the public what u discussed backstage is unprofessional and libellous. I think Don Jazzy handled the discussion excellently. The ladies had a lot they couldn’t say , due to Mr Green cap 😳
Naomi is speaking from personal experience. She is dating or have dated a broke guy before. The pain and emotions in her voice says it all.
“Can I iron your face-mask?” @husbandmaterial be too much 😂😂😂😂
This Naomi babe just dey cap nonsense 😂😂
Don Jazzy's level of honest is out of this world, he's just frank and believes he owes nobody explaination for his kind of person, being truthful and opening up for who he's is just something very uncommon, I mean VERY VERY UNCOMMON, lot of us are just hypocrites
Laugh wan kee me when Nedu shouted “Ahh noo, noo“ (44:45) and Jazzy tell am “you don remember some bad thing wey u do abi? Jazzy is the realest Don🔥😂😂😂😂😂😂
Love is not a spirit that possess you
It is a conscious decision to have affection and dedicate yourself to another human
I love this
Not really .. it’s simply well manners , excellent knowledge to be , selfless seeing another as greater than u, kind compassionate to the needs of others , respectful with boundaries understanding & being of great assistance to others in their need. Avoiding all quarrels n living in peace atall times .That’s love ! It’s not romantic .. it agape . Once u got that for the common man , family n friends trust me ur relationship or marriage wud b superb cos the foundation of wat makes a great person is already solidly set in stone. A selfish arrogant person is never capable of any good qualities of ppl interaction .. they quarrelsome as hell don’t ever see they maltreat of others cos they always in their own head all about themselves . Dint deceive urself such ppl can’t ever have others best interest st heart not even u so run
So apt
@@oyato1 what you just described is not love
Omo that girl on pink, deh hustle jazzy 😂🤣😂😂
The biggest highlight of this season is that intro of De Don,HM sabi this hype thing walahi 🥂
Those that pray together stay together. A good woman is for a good man. A good man is for a good woman. May God guide us all
A very nice one, shout out to Don jazzy he makes me feel humble, a very humble man he is 🙌
Jazzy is making a very valid point....if you can go out and like another person and end up doing one on two with that person ..what makes you feel your partner cannot fall into same ditch
I too love husband material… he knows how to do his work diligently and so are the rest of the crew. Sending love ❤
I enjoyed this episode alot but i was saddened even as i watched. It made me realise the opinion we have of marriage is based on what we have seen, experienced or witnessed. All the more reason we need to see more good , godly marriages out there (because indeed they are there but bad news travels faster and wider). I can watch this and feel i truly can not experience marriage in the sense of what it was designed to be my the designer. Its a no brainer to say you cant have reasons or incentives to want to marry a person, those things are important yeah but i think rather the question to ask is why one wants to get married? If you do not not knw the purpose of something as defined by the inventor, abuse of that thing is inevitable.
Dont be fooled o, there are good, loving, faithful, Godly and very happy marriages out there without any polutions of the age we live in. They are there because It is possible.
I dont mean to sound religious but God created marriage;
Marriage shld then be run by the inventor's manual on marriage (scripture) not by Culture.
Very true 👍
A great show with large portion of sincerity dished out. That said @Edu interrupts the other contributors, its a talk show let other speak frankly!
Nedu should learn how not to interrupt someone when they speak.
My thoughts too 😢
Plz Nedu be advised.
Facts
He talks too damn fucking much.
Exactly!
I love Don Jazzy his so playful my kind of person ❤❤❤much love Don,
Its Don Jazzy's honesty for me. Respect boss🙌
Make una try dey allow, una guest talk.
No carry all the talk, talk.
Quite interestingly Don Jazzy personality is super awesome. It's just a live and let live ..
Well I thought I only loved Toun's Voice but she seems to be sitting strong in my heart.. ❤️❤️
This episode is amazing with Don jazzy na super blessing.
If both genders can take what they dish out the relationship pool will run smoothly.
One ❤ guys
It’s the way Don jazzy was looking at Naomi for me like “Wetin this one dey talk”😂😂
I thougt I was the only one that saw it
Lol..exactly..'who sabi this one..abeg shift, because I humble come una show'. Even me I fit leave the show with wetin dat babe dey always yarn. Nonsense, thinking she was being honest..no rich person would her attractive if she keep showing she in it for the money. It is a turn off..money wey no easy to get.
Am I really here to learn, bcuz I definitely believe in Love and be a one woman man. I admonish u guys not to dirt pple who does it and are fighting to do it. Nobody is perfect but we should try to be a better version
Naomi is 100 percent right. If love was not a decision, but some emotional coincidence, then it wouldn't be the special thing it is. That choice and decision to care for, show affection, show respect, be there for, give time to a person is love.
Faithfulness has nothing to do with money. Know this and Know peace. Standing by a man with no money does not earn you his faithfulness. If you are worth his faithfulness, no matter how promiscuous he is, rich or poor, he will give it.
What is amazing is amazing, My guys here, the amazing quartet, You guys are sound and awesome... Cheers guyz....
I thought don jazzy is just humble but man is also very very truthful
I wish everyone is dis life will be dis truthful then all will be well
Thanks guyz for been back with dis new episode so so happy dat I will be listening and seeing u guyz more often again
“DJ Cuppy brother wey no well” is derogatory coming out from someone like Nedu.
I cringed hearing that statement
He said "wey them say he no well"....listen well, think well.
love is the willingness to like and care about someone to a great extent. it involves making sacrifices and is based on decision more than feelings.
So happy this podcast is back! Toun's honesty is always so admirable, literally just says it as it is!
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Hi
Omo... Don Jazzy is mad honest. I swear!
Don is a blessing to 9ja, Africa,& the world at large, is just exciting seeing him all day 🍷
Love for me is "RESPONSIBILITY" to an individual, not the chemical reactions of hormones in the body.
It makes sense
Love is not responsibility. Responsibility is responsibility, nothing more
I really love the show Nedu and husband material keep it up and more hight to the program ❤❤🎉🎉
My God Don's level of sincerity is a top notch ❤❤❤
Gush!!! I love Nedu’s sense of humour,in fact his personality is so attractive
I believe this conversation went this way as none of these people knew the definition of the term love but have rather substituted it with a different preconceived notion!
It is true that people want different things and are free to choose what they want. But at the same time we should not disguise our desire for a better life for “love”
The moment you say you can never marry someone below your class, that’s the moment the deciding factor for you becomes class. It forms the foundation for whatever feeling you eventually develop and term it “love”.
Marriages now are built on wrong foundations in the guise of “love”.
Attraction is quite different! You can be attracted to people who are rich, or handsome or for different reasons. You may believe yourself to not be attracted to people for similar/opposite reasons. Do you want to marry someone you are not attracted to? Mostly a NO for most people. Is it possible to eventually fall in love with someone you were not initially attracted to? Possibly Yes! Why because love seeps in beyond understanding.
Love may mean different things to different people but there’s a common denominator - it does not discriminate!
And until we are able to define and accept what that means, this podcast has been a waste of time.
This statement 'Marriages now are built on wrong foundations in the guise of “love”' is a matter of perspective, and different people may have different opinions on whether marriages are built on the wrong foundations. Some people may argue that many modern marriages are built on a superficial understanding of love and are not based on deeper emotional connections or shared values.
Others may argue that love is still a vital foundation for marriages, but that other factors such as communication, trust, and mutual respect are also important.
The truth is that each marriage is unique and the foundation of it is based on the understanding and agreement of the couple, and what works for one couple may not work for another.
Well said
💯
this might just be the funniest episode of this season..i wan laugh tire😂😂😂😂..don jazzy no dey feel nay atall..🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love is never enough, the earlier people emancipate themselves the better
Love is definitely enough sir/ma
What we need to understand is what love means.
how about accompanying the love you have for someone with contentment!this goes both way!
@@teecymartins I totally agree with you. Many people don’t even know what love truly is.
@@teecymartins gbam
I wonder when people will start to accept the fact love is never enough. That's why many people will keep getting hurt because they think love is the ultimate.
Toun is always saying exactly what I’m thinking tbh 😂😂 love eettt love herrr ❤❤
" so you envy him just because of that? So e nor reach to envy?!😂😂😂🤣
The truth is, the WHY is different from person to person. Some want to get married for just companionship, so if the partner loses concentration, the love expires.
Love is Kindness & Loyalty to the person you with - Because when money & looks fade away, it will take other things to keep y'all together....
It's the way @donjazzy keeps looking at Naomi vomit her feminism for me😁😁😁 The girl no just one face reality.
She sounded dumb and I think it’s as a result of where she’s coming from
The best description ever was how this guy described don jazzy
Love is care, trust, concern for another person. It is placing your focus on one individual, knowing you don’t have an unlimited amount of resources or attention. It’s building your life up and having that person in mind the whole time.
Me too I'm a very nice guy ohh... How will just abandon them? no na, we go carry everyone along.
Chaiii... I really enjoyed this episode 🙌🏾😁. Naomi was not being her honest self today, because she's forming for Don Jazzy 😅🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣😅
@@sharonosaze I thought I was the only one that saw it o. lol
That's not true Naomi said what she wanted to say there is nothing like forming nawao how u wan make she behave she literally told you that jazzy is big and she is respecting him.
Don Jazzzy is just something else... can't help but love that man... sha mk e come sign me oo I sabi sing 😏
Seriously Nedu 😂😂 you are really funny, respect no dey for that thing oo.
I love Don Jazzy so much, what a legend! I love that he remains true to himself and very honest... the end of this video was really hilarious 😂😂😂
S/O to Nedu, Husband Material, and Toun.
Don jazzy humbleness is admirable!
“Humility”
What do you expect, his he a super human or God ?
@@worldwave1085 you know it’s possible for you to walk by and not reply than you to just write anything that comes to your mind.
@@thetruthsayer8347 I’m sure you’ve received an alert or recommendation based on this gesture already. 🌚
@@gbengaajetomobi5509 not yet. Do you want to start?
Naomi reflects the ideals of a good number of women in 49:00.
Paraphrased, "Cheating is a deal breaker. However, rich men are permitted to cheat, their status earns it."
Broooo that's low self-esteem. You shouldn't accept irresponsibility because of money.
@@TheSidelineSpectator that’s just her worth
I was weak when she made that statement mehn… Itz so unfortunate.
@@tefmedia My submission here is, I wasn't surprised, because these are opinions we see online and on the streets every now and them.
I used to be pissed by some of Naomi's take, but not anymore; she reflects the ideals of a good number of her gender in this parts and we need her for balance.
I might disagree with some of her takes, but I've come to realize that she's a pivotal part of the show, and she makes the discussion interesting.
@@TheSidelineSpectator😂😂😂😂
I think it's more of survival and hypergamy, than it is about low self esteem. More like, "I'm hurt by his actions, however; he gives me the good things of life; how would I survive if I leave, what's the assurance of something similar or better out there"
7 out of 10 with this ideals would walk without flinching if they had the financial security themselves.
Don jazzy dey enter Toun's eyes. She just dey gree for am
It`s only in Africa that love doesn`t exist due to poverty!!!
You mean the scam your gender called love?
Naomi is saying the truth, if I don’t have money 💰 I won’t be happy seriously 😊truth be told
Lmao! Husband material is wayyy too funny!! I cried laughing towards the end! 🤣🤣🤣
All am hearing is love is transactional
We all want something in return.
Awe, make everyone just do whatever makes them happy jare.... There is no one way to tell this story of life, choose your path and walk it.
For the first time in my entirety, I listened to a 58minutes podcast....And it is worth listening to. In Life, Just be honest!!!
Don Jazzy is naturally a good person!
How he rebuked his friend for disclosing that information: decency!!
Am just watching this episode now in August 16th 20204, and am so embarrassed that someone would say you guys are fooling yourself after watching 30 seconds clip.You guys are what I watch everyday,honestly speaking,I started watching u guys not up to 2 months (2024) but before then I have never said anything about this podcast,I wasn’t just interested,but when I finally got an opportunity to watch one episode,I went back and started watching both old and new 😂,very educative and interesting and entertaining ❤I love you guys 🎉
Beautiful storyline, mind blowing humility @Donjazzy
I like the open convo with Don baba Jay, truthfully and sincerely,men go through this kind of mindset, untill the take a decision not to be like that, dede Chinedu, love is a commandment, just like naomi said, love and affection comes after you have decided to marry a person from checking things like, compatibility, commitment, respect,understanding,how to raise children and personal convictions about life...
But then from the spiritual point of view,a man or woman who lives according to the life of God won't go through this... The life is different and it is clear... Normal business relationship dey get issues so marriage suppose get too and thats why there is a commandment for forgiveness, 🌹🌹🌹🌹 be happy and live by the leading of the spirit he will never be wrong .. marriage is still beautiful and interesting... We just have raised a generation that lacks the spirit of commitment and discipline
A man that doesn't have money can never be a happy man
If na me talk half of wetin Don Baba J talk ehn, carpenter for don dey spray my cross like this 🤣🤣🤣 Nice episode y’all 👊🏽
I missed you guys thank God you guys are back with full vibes ❤
For me.....
"TRUE LOVE EXISTS 💯"
We wey believe in Love no plenty again in this earth sha
I never watch finish, but so far what I can see from the conversation so far is you have to be comfortable, confident and content in who you are and where you are in life before adding someone else to your life. Overall people do marry for many different reasons and not just for love.
What a way to kick start 2023. I feel we all see marriage differently
Yo ... husband material is bringing violence this season 🤣🤣🤣. The beginning God when and am I a chewing stick.
Jazzy don boost code.... oboy that girl nor go ever carry that girl go better place again ooo...🤣🤣🤣
This Naomi thought process can be very funny, she say na MANAGE, you get money as the lady too.
No mind the girl. Na dem dey do pass
At 16:08 😂 😂 ashewo dey my eyes 😂😂😂 BABA J😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nedu literally told chris rock's joke from tambourine, word for word 😂
Ehhh, see as God just dey look this conversation likee.......wowh.
We will never actually find true happiness and joy this way.
In this show I'll just like to accept that Naomi is just playing the devil's advocate if not 🤣🤣🤣otilo ozuo
I tell u
Totally agree
Money is important but what’s money without love?? And remember money is like a spirit… today you see it tomorrow it might not be there… Love is what will keep you both… I will have both sha😂😂
Don Jazzy’s opinion on relationships gat me thinking 🤔.
FAZIO FROM SIERRA LEONE 🇸🇱
To be honest I started watching this podcasts a days ago and OMG i can't have enough sleep coz of the addiction to watch more of it 😊😅
Please in the next episode I want you guys to invite Majid (Nar money dae stop nonsense) firstly the music jam even in SL we do luv the song but the message is partially true coz money can only stop few nonsense not all coz R-Kelly should not have been in preason for so long.
(POWER IS THE ULTIMATE NONSENSE STOPER) 👌 🙌
Husband material by any chance if you read this text, please let's this be your next episode topic to clear the air more and to let's people understand this message well as you guys always did 😊
Lol
I love Don jazzy’s sincerity 😂
Omo Mr.Nedu no be so ooo, Jazzy tell you something for private you carry am enter podcast 😂😂😂
I love this show. Looking forward to more episodes ❤️🎉
Thank you so much for this entertaining convo, big up guys🚀💖 Can we please just reduce on SPEAKING ON TOP OF EACHOTHER OR CUTTING EACHOTHER OFF 😌 thank you though
I laughed so hard towards the end 😂 Kai I really miss you guys ❤
I no even know say, una don drop video oooo 🤷 I guess I couldn't tell from d change of name
I just saw it on Instablog and rushed here surprised.
Welcome back d honest bunch 👏👏♥️🥰
I won't sit to allow any woman I paid bride price for to come and say she can see other men, before you make those rules, tell your parent to scrap off your bride price, let's share everything 50/50 and then you can tell me this story.
Respect to each of you
Naomi frankly spoke you really need to cut some slack for a lady that stays with a guy that’s not buoyant yet cos a hungry man is really angry oo.. hmmm
Don Jazzy, there's nothing like butterflies. In reality, marriage is a COMMITMENT. It's okay to say you are enjoying being single, but waiting for butterflies to happen is CAP. It would never happen.
I calmly disagree sir,
Butterflies is just another word for attraction. How do you marry without attraction? It is actually the first thing you'd experience most times. Commitment is what you engage in after the wedding and in the marriage.
@@teecymartins Donjazzy already said that he has being with ladies whom he was attracted to, but then, there was always another finer person. so the butterflies he is talking about here is not attraction. Jazzy is referring to someone that would solely sweep him off his feet such that he would no longer be attracted to any other person for life. that is impossible cos there would always be a finer or more appealing person. so going by his logic, Jazzy may never get married and that's fine. But if he wants to be married and stay married, that's where commitment comes in (pick one person, and CHOOSE to stay committed to that person).
@@akinseyi7886 yeah, I feel you now and you're definitely correct. He has to make that decision, it doesn't come as a feeling to stop cheating. Because it is flesh instigated. He has to decide to stick with one woman.
I think he is just being honest, if millions of couple were to be sat down and interviewed, you will find out that “commitment" was an option they chose just so to be married and fulfil societal norms. 5 years or less into a lot of marriages, these same commitment tend to wear out 99% of the time thereby we find more “cohabitants" instead of “couples”.
Problem is that, no one is ready for this sort of honesty for the fear of what people/hypocrites (battling the same issue) would say.
@@akinseyi7886 lol the beautiful ones are yet to be born sef
Lovely to see this again
Mehn I'm glad I put on this post notifications, I've learnt a lot