This man HATES any kind of conflict and drama! He’s serious about it! Nothing wrong with that, but that will happen in any relationship. It’s not always the honeymoon phase.
You don't "resolve conflicts" with neurotics, narcissists and other significantly dysfunctional types ... you leave them. You have a lot to learn. You can't change other people. Funny how the young and inexperienced and the _least_ able to do it are always the ones who want to deal with it. 😄 Meanwhile those who've taken the hits throughout the years have had it and JUST WANT HEALTHY people, peace, quiet and joy from the strength & rationality of their partner. Go for health, not for dysfunction. "Duh", right? How hard is it to figure THAT out? Well, most don't. lol
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 You know nothing about what I’ve learned. However, forgiveness is a beautiful thing. We are all flawed and I can only imagine how insecurities would flare when everyone is dating the same guy with limited time, and your life is on TV for all to see. Yes this what they signed up for, however it is a completely different dating environment and we can’t quite relate can we? Unless we’ve been on the show ourselves. Diagnosed (Rare) or Non-Diagnosed Narcissists come on the show YES, and they SHOULD be avoided for marriage, but when issues arise, it doesn’t automatically mean the person isn’t healthy or ready for a relationship. Someone with insecurities is worthy of love, it’s up to the person whether or not they want to put up with it. He doesn’t have to lol! He really doesn’t. Many of the women partook in “drama” on this show, even if it meant standing up to a bully. A healthy partner is great and what I wish for him. My point was, there is going to be arguments in relationships, the honeymoon phase won’t last forever. He seems to get very flustered in dealing with the smallest conflict. Hopefully it’s just the show or the pressure and not how he would handle an issue in relationships. However I can’t know that. Now sending Christina home… I think was a good call! Now if we go into MATTs season… girls like Victoria should be kicked off the show for bullying. That shouldn’t be tolerated ever…. I couldn’t even watch that season. Anyway, have a lovely day, God bless 🙏
@@shelbycovington4831 the more I see of her, the more I like her. She’s an incredibly genuine and sweet person and she deserves one of those amazing love stories that lasts a lifetime.
I'm sure Bailey will find the right person for her but that person just isn't Zach. At least he's honest about his feelings and isn't wasting anyone's time.
Bailey is a QUEEN. I respect how she handled this, and Zach showed genuine empathy. I'm glad he didn't string her along. But also.... Christina? Wow, she did a total 180. Waaaaaay too overly confident.
woman use “like” and “literally” as buffer words to indicate they’re not done talking. This is due to women being constantly talked over by men throughout history.
I love this bachelor…he is SERIOUS about the finding the one he wants, he is not with the DRAMA. I have always wondered why men love evil women…so, it is refreshing seeing a man like Zach not tolerate crap like that.
Also what was the big deal about what Christina said? Didn't she say, although it's sad and she was our roommate, it's inevitable? What's wrong with that? She said it was sad. She said it was inevitable because she would have had to go anyway if there was no connection with Zach.
"This LITERALLY like feels like LITERALLY a rollercoaster of emotions..." Wow ladies, like you so like do not, like use the word "LITERALLY" like correctly. It like, makes me like think that like, maybe you dont like even know what the like definition of the word like means!?!
Emotional intelligence is great which Cristina lacks aswell as the fact that she became a mean girl when she felt like her relationship is threatened......it's like those girls who get mad at a guy and show their true colours after the guy rejects them
Bailey, Christina & Cat on BIP2023 please! I didnt agree with some of the antics of Christina but Zach and his decision to send her home was based on some other cast members throwing her under the bus. If they talk about others, do it to their face and dont pull this LukeP b.s. like on Hannahs season. And Football?Deja-vu (Peters season).
I agree. If you want people to feel safe sharing, that means all people. Christina is odd but honest. Charity is playing victim here. Talk back, woman. Don't hold it in, cry, and let others speak for you. Not a good look or good partner material.
Omgosh! Women …. Stop begging for a man’s attention. If the feeling isn’t there, it isn’t there! Furthermore, Christina comes from a family that isn’t use to being told, “No,” ever! The women in her family win at all cost. Believe me, I know this first hand!
🌴🏖️why Christina Mandell had t b rude to t girls was uncalled for. Drama is not Zaks personality, at all. He said so frm get go. Glad he sent her home.
I mean to be fair, the comments Christina made to her weren’t really anything offensive. Christina hadn’t really done anything to Brianna or anyone to warrant anyone being mad at her at that particular point in time. And her point about inevitability wasn't wrong either. All but one will go home. But what happened with Charity was really mean whether she meant it or not. If anyone had any reason to be mad at Christina, it’s Charity and not Brianna.
Sending Christina home, when he liked her, was reactive and childish. Going along with a couple of girls negative comments about Christina always says more about the accusers than the accused.
Perhaps you're giving him too little credit, and he actually was repulsed by her infantile & emotionalist behavior, utterly despicable in an adult, that she displayed on the stairs with him and on the other stairs? Any healthy person would be. This repulsion to dysfunction is the immune system against these life-destroyers. Good job, Zach!
I like Christina. I don't see what she's done "wrong". She's only given her opinions. Cpl other girls seem childish trying to seem mature. Those are the ones you'll see true colors come out. Stay tuned lol
Emotional intelligence is great which Cristina lacks aswell as the fact that she became a mean girl when she felt like her relationship is threatened......it's like those girls who get mad at a guy and show their true colours after the guy rejects them
I learned Christina is besties with her ex husbands new girlfriend aka her daughters step mom and I think that goes to show her character and that shes a girls girl, but got a bad edit
The fact you weren't powerfully repulsed by her despicable 'help me, help me, help me x 43" speaks so bad about you... Sorry but you don't have the immune system against dysfunction... which will result in you tolerating these types around you which will result in you having tons of drama with them. Get some standards.
Sorry but it’s called the Bachelor not the Friendlor. Them acting like they are bff’s within 4 days of being around each other is ridiculous. The reality is that they should be focused on their relationship with the bachelor, not the relationship the other women have with the bachelor. I’m also not falling for this villain editing anymore. I fell for it during Peter’s season with Hannah Ann and now I literally can’t believe how much I love her and how they were able to so easily manipulate my feelings towards her
Emotional intelligence is great which Cristina lacks aswell as the fact that she became a mean girl when she felt like her relationship is threatened......it's like those girls who get mad at a guy and show their true colours after the guy rejects them
I liked Christina Mandrell. The other women were too sensitive. If you didn't like hearing about her one on one date all the time. Walk away...leave the room. I think she only got like that when she drank, but I liked her. I think Zach might have had issues with her having a kid. He totally teared up like he was bummed out about it. Also the other women seemed jealous of her since she met his family. Grow a spine girls. Its called life. Brianna who told Zach about Christina was overly sensitive and quite frankly got to be annoying...like she was overthinking way too much. People who run to the Bachelor about problems in the house...never get picked. Its Bachelor 101...common sense.
Ladies...trust your instincts! If you feel like it's not right or it's not there then don't ask someone else to validate your feelings.
he told her he didn’t want her and she still wanted to stay
It IS inevitable. He’s sending everyone but ONE PERSON home.
Glad to see Charity finally getting screen time. I've liked her since night 1.
Too bad Christina had to ruin that moment for her.
I felt so bad! She deserved that happy moment, and Christina blew it up.
I feel bad
This man HATES any kind of conflict and drama! He’s serious about it!
Nothing wrong with that, but that will happen in any relationship.
It’s not always the honeymoon phase.
I think it’s specific to the show. I think he’ll be different in a relationship but it’s only so ep 3 so we’ll see
Yeah we will have to see what happens!
I guess it’s better than Clayton staring into space and going into a trance while people argue lol 😆
You don't "resolve conflicts" with neurotics, narcissists and other significantly dysfunctional types ... you leave them.
You have a lot to learn.
You can't change other people.
Funny how the young and inexperienced and the _least_ able to do it are always the ones who want to deal with it. 😄
Meanwhile those who've taken the hits throughout the years have had it and JUST WANT HEALTHY people, peace, quiet and joy from the strength & rationality of their partner.
Go for health, not for dysfunction. "Duh", right? How hard is it to figure THAT out? Well, most don't. lol
@@exnihilonihilfit6316
You know nothing about what I’ve learned.
However, forgiveness is a beautiful thing. We are all flawed and I can only imagine how insecurities would flare when everyone is dating the same guy with limited time, and your life is on TV for all to see.
Yes this what they signed up for, however it is a completely different dating environment and we can’t quite relate can we? Unless we’ve been on the show ourselves.
Diagnosed (Rare) or Non-Diagnosed Narcissists come on the show YES, and they SHOULD be avoided for marriage, but when issues arise, it doesn’t automatically mean the person isn’t healthy or ready for a relationship.
Someone with insecurities is worthy of love, it’s up to the person whether or not they want to put up with it. He doesn’t have to lol! He really doesn’t.
Many of the women partook in “drama” on this show, even if it meant standing up to a bully.
A healthy partner is great and what I wish for him.
My point was, there is going to be arguments in relationships, the honeymoon phase won’t last forever. He seems to get very flustered in dealing with the smallest conflict.
Hopefully it’s just the show or the pressure and not how he would handle an issue in relationships. However I can’t know that.
Now sending Christina home… I think was a good call!
Now if we go into MATTs season… girls like Victoria should be kicked off the show for bullying. That shouldn’t be tolerated ever…. I couldn’t even watch that season.
Anyway, have a lovely day,
God bless 🙏
It's not conflict, it's drama he's trying to avoid. Big difference.
That Oklahoma girl who put her in her place, that’s what I’m talking about. Lol Oklahoma girls say it like it is.
Is her name Brooklyn? I have some trouble keeping track of who's who.
Shoutout to Brooklyn for being a real one.
I love Brooklyn
@@shelbycovington4831 the more I see of her, the more I like her. She’s an incredibly genuine and sweet person and she deserves one of those amazing love stories that lasts a lifetime.
I'm sure Bailey will find the right person for her but that person just isn't Zach. At least he's honest about his feelings and isn't wasting anyone's time.
Bailey is a QUEEN. I respect how she handled this, and Zach showed genuine empathy. I'm glad he didn't string her along. But also.... Christina? Wow, she did a total 180. Waaaaaay too overly confident.
….and SELF centered!
These r not women, they r girls. With nonsense, irrelevant, dramatic problems. How would they handle a real crisis Im curious??
Plus Christina seemed like she was drinking too much.
And noooo accountability for her actions. Gone! Bye!
Bailey is absolutely stunning 💜
Charity is so beautiful.
Absolutely
I love Brooklynn. She says what needs to be said in a good way without being rude.
"like....like...like...like" Is that the only vocabulary they know?
You forgot "literally." They use that one quite often as well but NEVER correctly! Lol
and the third goddamn verbal parasite of our times: to be honest/honestly
Yes! This is the Bachelor! 😉
woman use “like” and “literally” as buffer words to indicate they’re not done talking. This is due to women being constantly talked over by men throughout history.
@@gumption582 Really? Hahaha! I've never heard of such a thing! I figured it was just some kind of a nervous habit or something.
Ok I thought I liked Christina but what she did to charity is not okay.
No
Brooklyn wins the night for saying what everyone wanted to say to Christina! You go, cowgirl!
She was a phony rube from the get go. Glad they both went!
Did she think she was gonna get ALL the 1st one ones for the rest of the season? So glad she had to shut the F up!
But later, Brooklyn becomes a tattletale. I guess it is best to get rid of the competition any way you can.
Charity is so pretty ❤️
I SAID THE SAME THING! She looks like a doll
Not just outer beauty.
I felt sad for Bailey departure. Brooklyn put Christina in her place at cocktail party.
Christina is really making the Mandrell's look unclassy! MHO
She started out fine, but what a turn around when too much drinking.
I just love the fact that Zach is also watching this back right now too
Charity reminds me of a young version of Cecily Tyson. Just beautiful!
yes!!!! I see it!!!
She's very pretty.😊
Christina knows she's out and now only auditioning for BIP
I love this bachelor…he is SERIOUS about the finding the one he wants, he is not with the DRAMA. I have always wondered why men love evil women…so, it is refreshing seeing a man like Zach not tolerate crap like that.
Also what was the big deal about what Christina said? Didn't she say, although it's sad and she was our roommate, it's inevitable? What's wrong with that? She said it was sad. She said it was inevitable because she would have had to go anyway if there was no connection with Zach.
Christina is kind of like Tierra on Sean’s season of the bachelor
without the sparkle and eyebrow
I agree with both of you
@@piumirajapaksha7620 🤣
"This LITERALLY like feels like LITERALLY a rollercoaster of emotions..."
Wow ladies, like you so like do not, like use the word "LITERALLY" like correctly. It like, makes me like think that like, maybe you dont like even know what the like definition of the word like means!?!
Edit: my apologies it's not just the ladies. Zach is just as bad with the "likes."
😂
Emotional intelligence is great which Cristina lacks aswell as the fact that she became a mean girl when she felt like her relationship is threatened......it's like those girls who get mad at a guy and show their true colours after the guy rejects them
Bailey, Christina & Cat on BIP2023 please! I didnt agree with some of the antics of Christina but Zach and his decision to send her home was based on some other cast members throwing her under the bus. If they talk about others, do it to their face and dont pull this LukeP b.s. like on Hannahs season. And Football?Deja-vu (Peters season).
I agree. If you want people to feel safe sharing, that means all people. Christina is odd but honest. Charity is playing victim here. Talk back, woman. Don't hold it in, cry, and let others speak for you. Not a good look or good partner material.
Loveeeee Brooklyn!
say LIKE like one more, like, time, bails!
Like like like like….no vocabulary… unbelievable. Sound so desperate. Immature
Christina is reminding me of Luke P from Hannah’s season
I feel like she was wasted
I'm wondering the same. She looked really, really sleepy too. Maybe that's the effect alcohol has.
can young people not speak proper English without every second word being 'like'
Nooo why they make Christina like thissss I really liked her
How are they making her? She chooses to act that way. Also it's a tactic for her to be in bache in paradise
So sad, I like her! ❤
I think Bailey is bachelorette material
Bailey will be the one to get chased in paradise 🥹
Yes
Omgosh! Women …. Stop begging for a man’s attention. If the feeling isn’t there, it isn’t there! Furthermore, Christina comes from a family that isn’t use to being told, “No,” ever! The women in her family win at all cost. Believe me, I know this first hand!
Its sad that she left a child at home to "find love". How desperate can you be ?
Like, like, like, like. Ugh. Can we just stop saying like every other word?
gosh i felt it for her
Charity was so arrogant and we all are so happy she's exited. Thank goodness. She was a total nut ball.
Charity just left last night, not 3 weeks ago. I think you meant someone else
🌴🏖️why Christina Mandell had t b rude to t girls was uncalled for. Drama is not Zaks personality, at all. He said so frm get go. Glad he sent her home.
So Brianna was right about Christiana. Everyone owes Brianna an apology
Nah Brianna’s situation wasn’t that deep
@@misosoup846 not to us but clearly for the women in the house.
I mean to be fair, the comments Christina made to her weren’t really anything offensive. Christina hadn’t really done anything to Brianna or anyone to warrant anyone being mad at her at that particular point in time. And her point about inevitability wasn't wrong either. All but one will go home. But what happened with Charity was really mean whether she meant it or not.
If anyone had any reason to be mad at Christina, it’s Charity and not Brianna.
@@sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 I agree. I think brianna was just jealous christina was getting all this attention.
Team Christina
Christina was not nice to Charity when Charity got the rose. Christina seems very immature and insecure.
he'll regret it for sure, trust me
1000%
I was thinking the same thing, girls were jealous, saw her as a threat, best girl for him was her
Sending Christina home, when he liked her, was reactive and childish. Going along with a couple of girls negative comments about Christina always says more about the accusers than the accused.
Nobody wants to marry a mean girl but I think it was how she responded to his questions. Plus, it was pretty weird "help me, help me" meltdown.
I loved Christina Mandrell. She seemed cool and fun. Everybody else was too sensitive or jealous of her.
Perhaps you're giving him too little credit, and he actually was repulsed by her infantile & emotionalist behavior, utterly despicable in an adult, that she displayed on the stairs with him and on the other stairs?
Any healthy person would be. This repulsion to dysfunction is the immune system against these life-destroyers.
Good job, Zach!
He doesn't like drama. Christina is drama. He was wise to let her go.
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 Was she drunk?
Colton vibes 🌈
They always hire someone to stir up conflicts in this show. I think I know who that person was.
I like Christina. I don't see what she's done "wrong".
She's only given her opinions. Cpl other girls seem childish trying to seem mature. Those are the ones you'll see true colors come out. Stay tuned lol
I just think the other women are being weak when they say Christina is making it harder to have chemistry with Zach.
i get voicing your opinions but sometimes there is a time and place, and that certainly wasn’t the time or place lmao
Emotional intelligence is great which Cristina lacks aswell as the fact that she became a mean girl when she felt like her relationship is threatened......it's like those girls who get mad at a guy and show their true colours after the guy rejects them
I learned Christina is besties with her ex husbands new girlfriend aka her daughters step mom and I think that goes to show her character and that shes a girls girl, but got a bad edit
The fact you weren't powerfully repulsed by her despicable 'help me, help me, help me x 43" speaks so bad about you...
Sorry but you don't have the immune system against dysfunction... which will result in you tolerating these types around you which will result in you having tons of drama with them.
Get some standards.
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 are you okay exnihilonihilfit6316?
@@exnihilonihilfit6316you mad as hell
3:18.... what did she say?
"all those han and she's a roommate, like that's inevitable"... what? 😂
This guy really isn't anything special lol
Don't worry Christina will send home soon too
Sorry but it’s called the Bachelor not the Friendlor. Them acting like they are bff’s within 4 days of being around each other is ridiculous. The reality is that they should be focused on their relationship with the bachelor, not the relationship the other women have with the bachelor. I’m also not falling for this villain editing anymore. I fell for it during Peter’s season with Hannah Ann and now I literally can’t believe how much I love her and how they were able to so easily manipulate my feelings towards her
Emotional intelligence is great which Cristina lacks aswell as the fact that she became a mean girl when she felt like her relationship is threatened......it's like those girls who get mad at a guy and show their true colours after the guy rejects them
I don’t understand the level of drama going on. This guy is a stranger
Christina is rude
Bailey should have kept her mouth shut.
I liked Christina Mandrell. The other women were too sensitive. If you didn't like hearing about her one on one date all the time. Walk away...leave the room. I think she only got like that when she drank, but I liked her. I think Zach might have had issues with her having a kid. He totally teared up like he was bummed out about it. Also the other women seemed jealous of her since she met his family. Grow a spine girls. Its called life. Brianna who told Zach about Christina was overly sensitive and quite frankly got to be annoying...like she was overthinking way too much. People who run to the Bachelor about problems in the house...never get picked. Its Bachelor 101...common sense.
Was she forced to drink all that alcohol?
Oh, she did it by her own volition. OK.
She was all drama. Good riddance.
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 Literally. Drunk words are sober thoughts.
The other women are weak and I think there is some jealousy towards Christina.
STOP BEING SO ENTITLED TO THINK PEOPLE CARE ABOUT YOUR VALIDATION WHEN PEOPLE DONT !!!!!