Barack Obama Reacts to Michelle's Claim of Not Liking Him for 10 YEARS of Their Marriage

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  • Barack Obama reacts to Michelle Obama's past comments saying she ‘couldn’t stand’ him for 10 years of their marriage. The former president, who has been married to Michelle for 30 years, admits to the role he claims he played in her frustrations at the time.
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  • @nessamunik2044
    @nessamunik2044 Рік тому +1333

    I appreciate people that speak honestly about marriage...

    • @Zanoladab
      @Zanoladab Рік тому +19

      Like will Smith and Jada💀

    • @vielkaabad7144
      @vielkaabad7144 Рік тому

      Try to find a picture of Michelle Obama pregnant. It’s fine with me they are adults and they are free to live their life’s as they want. But do not do evil things. Obama created 7 wars and deported more illegal aliens than any other president. In God we trust not in any man.

    • @J03LM1
      @J03LM1 Рік тому +24

      You mean you appreciate "women" that speak honestly about marriage...
      Had that been a man saying this about his wife or specifically Barrack saying this about Michelle all hell would've broke loose.
      Even in this interview he still has to keep quiet about whatever he may not like about her.

    • @nessamunik2044
      @nessamunik2044 Рік тому +8

      @@J03LM1 Haa a mind-reader?
      Like my comment states, "I appreciate PEOPLE who speak honestly about marriage". I've never been one to live in a distorted reality whereby everything is rainbows and sunshine all the time for rest of our lives, so to have adult men and women share light on the hardships of making a marriage work is greatly appreciated. Romance novels and rom-coms have made people think that relationships/marriages are smooth sailing when that's just not realistic.
      The wisdom and knowledge obtained (from real people with healthy relationship habits) allows one to see marriage for what it truly is and allows one to make conscious decisions in regards to it.
      Whatever trigger my comment may have caused you, hope you work on it and wish you well with that.

    • @randall5073
      @randall5073 Рік тому +1

      I agree and it would be good if he was honest about his marriage.

  • @MichaelJohnson-wk8tk
    @MichaelJohnson-wk8tk Рік тому +1123

    I couldn't imagine any thirty year marriage not having a not so great period. I'm happy to see these two remarkable survive and thrive. I salute the Obamas on their union and pray for their prosperity.

    • @phillipbates9587
      @phillipbates9587 Рік тому +5

      Definitely

    • @jay-mm3zi
      @jay-mm3zi Рік тому +4

      🎉😮😮

    • @jay-mm3zi
      @jay-mm3zi Рік тому +2

      😮😢

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому +2

      Yep!!!

    • @THEDOORIZCLOSED
      @THEDOORIZCLOSED Рік тому +13

      10 years of dislike is wild tho. Shes strong to stand by him through all of that. And im glad he was strong enough to not step out on her

  • @Kristene.L
    @Kristene.L Рік тому +759

    There isn't one couple that has been together for that many years that doesn't have a period of time when they didn't like the other person. I have 23 years in a relationship, and there have been some ups and some bumps, but if you love each other, you keep traveling the road 😊

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes Рік тому +21

      Exactly! People went ballistic like this is unusual.

    • @PianoDad
      @PianoDad Рік тому +11

      Thanks so much for saying this. My wife and I are going through this right now and I’m really scared.

    • @TJrules299
      @TJrules299 Рік тому +19

      Fair - but if you read her book you learn about how selfish that man was. He wasn’t a team player in the marriage or with raising the kids. That’s just different. A lot of this talk about oh this is normal is about someone not carrying their burden. Barack was about Barack and his career. We all benefited from it. But that’s a sucky situation that she had to make the vast majority of adjustments around because he wasn’t a fully active father for years. And this behavior is acceptable because this is what is expected of men.

    • @aewtx
      @aewtx Рік тому +19

      The thing though is the amount of time. 10 YEARS. All relationships have ups and downs, but for that long? Amazing she stuck around.

    • @natgenesis5038
      @natgenesis5038 Рік тому

      @@PianoDad divorce soon or ?!😅

  • @sittingonthemoon2083
    @sittingonthemoon2083 Рік тому +1010

    I love the fact that he has a great sense of humor

    • @couldbe8348
      @couldbe8348 Рік тому +11

      That’s all he has

    • @sittingonthemoon2083
      @sittingonthemoon2083 Рік тому +25

      @@couldbe8348 Trump is that you 👀

    • @aewtx
      @aewtx Рік тому +13

      I love that the did that clip with him having trouble with dunking his cookie into his milk and saying, "Thanks, Obama." He could make fun of himself. Orange would never ever do that.

    • @johnwise4341
      @johnwise4341 Рік тому

      Barack is a simp. He looked annoyed but he played it safe. He’s another Will Smith.

    • @geminigirltwo
      @geminigirltwo Рік тому +4

      @@sittingonthemoon2083 😂😂😂 probably

  • @karasays01
    @karasays01 Рік тому +649

    Michelle saying she couldnt stand him for 10 years is not the same as saying she hates him. This is real and I think this discussion will help others get real with their emotions and conversation in relationships. relationships are not complex we make it complex. it takes honesty, empathy and most of all respect to be at the core for it to work between oneself and between your spouse or partner. yes communication is key. but without respect theres no true relationship. the obamas respect is clear and this and love is what sets them a part from other presidents and other public figures. They respect themselves and appear to respect each other.

    • @kimamethyst6338
      @kimamethyst6338 Рік тому +10

      Agreed

    • @AS-vq3wt
      @AS-vq3wt Рік тому

      She hates him and he hates her. It's pretty obvious. They're both so fake and disgusting.

    • @vielkaabad7144
      @vielkaabad7144 Рік тому

      Try to find a picture of Michelle Obama Pregnant. Obama is a war lord. He created 7 wars, he is the president who sent most illegals back to their counties. Very criminal government.

    • @joycewagner6336
      @joycewagner6336 Рік тому +8

      Very true. Hate is much different.

    • @bobbyfuller3118
      @bobbyfuller3118 Рік тому

      Barry Obama is a homosexual, married to a Michael Robinson, who is a transsexual. Their two kids were adopted. You will never see a picture of Big Mike pregnant. How come they didn’t ‘come out’?

  • @charlesthompson7436
    @charlesthompson7436 Рік тому +372

    Most long time marriages have some rough patches especially when kids are included and in the end it is quite an accomplishment to be part of a long time marriage. These two are still amazing and inspiring.

    • @shawnshell5961
      @shawnshell5961 Рік тому +9

      10 years isn’t a rough patch; it’s an era.

    • @pb4ugo19
      @pb4ugo19 2 місяці тому

      The problem is that this level of understanding is not applied to the avg couple. When a couple posts, most people scream "divorce" or "he/she is toxic" "you shouldn't forgive them" "they're a narcissist" etc. Obama was a very flawed/lacking husband and father early on in the marriage per Michelle's book. I actually like that he isn't perfect as it makes him human like the rest of us, but I'm just saying he gets a pass because he is an extraordinary and beloved figure, wheras others' would not.

  • @annjohnson8437
    @annjohnson8437 Рік тому +373

    Michelle Obama is not alone. Most stay at home parents with career-driven spouses can totally relate. ❤

    • @rasta487
      @rasta487 Рік тому +58

      Right? And she was an Ivy League educated attorney.

    • @diamond852
      @diamond852 Рік тому +21

      Women deserve better.

    • @T1Oracle
      @T1Oracle Рік тому +20

      This is why every type A needs a type B to manage the backseat.

    • @jaelenrandolph2030
      @jaelenrandolph2030 Рік тому +7

      @@T1Oracle never thought of it this way

    • @Justyn-ns8jo
      @Justyn-ns8jo Рік тому

      Girl speak for yourself. She’s very accomplished. Just because your to stupid to do anything other than stay at home don’t put that off on anyone else. Your the loser here. She’s literally an attorney and a host of other things. Your accomplishment list is short not hers

  • @Hipsnkurves
    @Hipsnkurves Рік тому +122

    I so appreciate her honesty about marriage 👏🏼

    • @vielkaabad7144
      @vielkaabad7144 Рік тому +1

      I agree and it would be nice if they would speak honestly about their marriage.

    • @erwynbalbuena9900
      @erwynbalbuena9900 3 місяці тому

      His marriage to Michael?

  • @marathongirl1000
    @marathongirl1000 Рік тому +487

    I'm not an Obama fan but I give Michelle total props for keeping it 100 about marriage! People that pretend it's all roses and sunshine are doing just that pretending. Refreshing to hear the truth and even more so seeing it being worked through.

    • @idostuff91
      @idostuff91 Рік тому +15

      Nobody asked if you were a fan.

    • @AbiyeKetema
      @AbiyeKetema Рік тому +11

      I think you're missing a point, she just want to show that her appreciation is not bias.

    • @TheHighPriestess111
      @TheHighPriestess111 Рік тому +4

      You not being an Obama fan neither makes him nor breaks him, in fact it’s completely irrelevant.

    • @brothersoflegacy
      @brothersoflegacy Рік тому +1

      I appreciate you candidness

    • @DanielWetmore-xm9ct
      @DanielWetmore-xm9ct Рік тому +1

      I like your comments... can we be friends? because I'm new here God bless you ❤

  • @SarahRenz59
    @SarahRenz59 Рік тому +159

    I have to think that the 10 years Michelle references is the decade Obama spent in politics at the national level: US Senator from 2005 - 2008, and President from 2009 - 2016. Let's face it, most people who want those jobs that badly have a very...shall we say "healthy" ego. That doesn't lend itself to being a supportive spouse. Also, when you get to politics at that level, you have a much bigger support staff; Michelle had to compete with campaign managers, strategists, advisors, etc for her husband's time. She may have signed off on his plans when he first proposed them, but I doubt you can know what it's really going to be like until you're well into it. I've always appreciated the Obamas' candor and sense of humor about their relationship, and I'm glad they were able to get through the rough patch with a better understanding and appreciation for one another.

    • @womanwoman4680
      @womanwoman4680 Рік тому +6

      I agree with everything you said. It's couldn't have been easy for her(Mrs Obama) all those years, but I admire her for staying strong , and she concertanted on raising her family alongside living a very demanding public life. I am a lifelong fan of hers.

    • @mariaamezcua4761
      @mariaamezcua4761 Рік тому +8

      She literally said when the kids were little.

    • @amab1853
      @amab1853 Рік тому +2

      Yes, I think you're absolutely right about the time frame. Because when pres. Obama ran for senate I think their daughters were still toddlers at the time. Michelle was honest. Alot of moms who probably have to sacrifice their careers to support their husband's ambitions while raising kids probably feel the same

    • @AndrewJM
      @AndrewJM Рік тому

      ​@@amab1853so whats the alternative?

    • @CaseyAffleck-si6uv
      @CaseyAffleck-si6uv Рік тому

      @@mariaamezcua4761 what's up now how are you doing today how is everything over there

  • @jujubees711
    @jujubees711 Рік тому +110

    Love Barack. His responses are always so easygoing and graceful...

    • @pincorporated
      @pincorporated 9 місяців тому

      😊 He always made us feel better. After every crisis, here comes the warm n fuzzies. Trump not so much. He refused to be PC, defend blacks even if not really wanting to. What kinda politician is that? Never felt good after whatever situation. Thugs wanna take over the suburbs. Wonderful. We want to hear sweet lies although few months later, graffiti and some vibe did take over to where it was unrecognizable. Steve Harvey is under attack now by his honesty about his ex. Truth allows for self defense soo........

  • @briananellis
    @briananellis Рік тому +450

    I love how he didn’t say “well I didn’t like her either lol”

    • @johnwise4341
      @johnwise4341 Рік тому +24

      He needs a bad bitch. She played him. She looks like Dennis Rodman and he looks like model. Black men deserve better.

    • @briananellis
      @briananellis Рік тому +167

      @@johnwise4341 anyways

    • @kentara_excelsior
      @kentara_excelsior Рік тому

      That's a word and what most petty ass black men would do. Luckily he is mixed. 😂

    • @kentara_excelsior
      @kentara_excelsior Рік тому +107

      @@briananellis right 😂😂.

    • @michaelmaps2004
      @michaelmaps2004 Рік тому +80

      ​@@johnwise4341 they are perfect for each other. Maybe if he was with a different woman he wouldn't be where he is today.

  • @ryanjohnson985
    @ryanjohnson985 Рік тому +116

    This sums up marriage 💯%! 😂

    • @ryanjohnson985
      @ryanjohnson985 Рік тому

      @@stevedj101 You must drink Bud Light and voted no for the legalization of marijuana so you and your old blue bloods can keep banging behind closed doors!

    • @theresa4863
      @theresa4863 Рік тому

      Soft ball interviews... Let's get to all their lies, and the destruction they have caused in this country

  • @samiawilliams151
    @samiawilliams151 Рік тому +81

    I love the transparency

    • @dejavu9605
      @dejavu9605 Рік тому

      The Russian Collusion hoax. Operation Hurricane and operation Fast and furious

    • @johnwise4341
      @johnwise4341 Рік тому +7

      He should be transparent and leave her. Any wife that says they didn’t like their husband for 10 years was your enemy the whole time. And the fact that this chick said it to the public shows just how much she does not honor or respect him. She did not see his potential and that’s not a woman a man needs. 😤

    • @goddessvision6001
      @goddessvision6001 Рік тому +15

      ​@user-vm4ho1hf1bthat is just your own projection own it

    • @stevedj101
      @stevedj101 Рік тому

      man you are brainwashed. You must have taken 4 booster shots and just took of the mask.

    • @noelgenoway9360
      @noelgenoway9360 Рік тому

      @@johnwise4341 Thanks John Stupid for nothing!

  • @destinedtobediamonds6942
    @destinedtobediamonds6942 Рік тому +182

    I've never seen the entire interview so First Lady's statement alone and out of context seems very harsh especially knowing that the media is waiting for something to report negatively about their family. However, it appears to me that she was giving the women words of wisdom to hold on to their marriages and love unconditionally even during the rough seasons. Also the words like and love aren't the same. Just like you can love your children and not like their behaviors. President Obama mentioned how the children were priority numbers 1-4 so he probably felt like a 5th wheel in his own home. He was probably frustrated. This is a common mistake in most marriages. The bigger picture is that they survived it all. They held on for better and for worse. Most of all, their problems didn't overshadow and destroy his destiny.

    • @dianehawes2763
      @dianehawes2763 Рік тому

      Or ojust owe you 😊😊😊

    • @dianehawes2763
      @dianehawes2763 Рік тому

      Oo😊o

    • @4real266
      @4real266 Рік тому +2

      Well said

    • @CJLeoSunShe
      @CJLeoSunShe Рік тому +4

      It’s not out of context. She literally said she didn’t like him for 10 years lol

    • @rayRay-pw6gz
      @rayRay-pw6gz Рік тому +3

      She was the family work horse because Barack chased a life of politics. It was hard to work and take care of the family when your husband is not around all the time . And when he ran for President she was not 100% on board in the beginning of his run. And after eight years in the White House, they have a lot of catching up to do in a new life as seniors and adult children. No one’s life is easy . They were a great role model to the whole world for the AMERICAN DREAM . 🇺🇸❤️👍✌️🦅

  • @sweetsgourmet
    @sweetsgourmet Рік тому +93

    Michelle not liking her husband for 10 years is relatable to every married person. At least the Obamas are real about it.

    • @damaris2085
      @damaris2085 Рік тому +4

      Facts! 😂

    • @ayidonno
      @ayidonno Рік тому +15

      How do you stay with someone you don't like for 10years? Holy crap

    • @ldive
      @ldive Рік тому +8

      @@ayidonno Not like and hate are not synonymous. Hate is different. You can still love someone but not like them (at times) as well.

    • @Bossdonbigga
      @Bossdonbigga Рік тому +1

      @@ayidonnopeople stay at jobs they hate for way longer the point is they loved each other I love getting paid but I can get money anywhere but they were irreplaceable to each other that’s unconditional love

    • @phhiggins
      @phhiggins Рік тому +3

      Nah that's weird af

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Рік тому +131

    Thanks to Mr. ,and Mrs .Obama for keeping it real! I have to get the whole of this interview.

  • @freemagicfun
    @freemagicfun Рік тому +425

    They were by far the classiest First Family in my lifetime! So much crap was thrown their way and they handled all of it with grace and charm. 😎

    • @KB-ke3fi
      @KB-ke3fi Рік тому

      They were inserted cons.

    • @kimstone6764
      @kimstone6764 Рік тому +6

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @traveler142
      @traveler142 Рік тому

      lol... you people are delusional... Barry and his boytoy Michael sent more money in CASH to the Middle East than All Presidents combined.
      killing children with drones was especially nice... Barry and Biden is what you get when the USDOD decides elections, we get War.
      I heard that it took months to get the smell of Popeyes chicken out of the White House.

    • @travelseatsyellowlab
      @travelseatsyellowlab Рік тому +2

      ​@@kimstone6764😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @hollychristian3957
      @hollychristian3957 Рік тому +4

      They are lisrs

  • @justmissjana
    @justmissjana Рік тому +166

    He just gets it, with empathy and all❤

  • @AbiaSaloise
    @AbiaSaloise Рік тому +27

    A class act.. Barack has a great way of answering every questions..

    • @BalkanManic
      @BalkanManic 10 місяців тому

      cant say the same about her though. Never marry these dumb rats

  • @ladyliberty5771
    @ladyliberty5771 Рік тому +35

    Every marriage hits a rock. It's what you built up to that point that can help you through it. She speaks truth and so does he. Why I respect them so very much.

  • @rosetobeynelson5749
    @rosetobeynelson5749 Рік тому +10

    I have been married for 9 years, and I totally agreed with Michelle. Marriage is very hard when kids are involved with different activities. My husband is a very good man, but there have been times that i couldn't stand him. What kept us going, God, and our vows.

  • @cocovernon8394
    @cocovernon8394 11 місяців тому +18

    I love their respect for one another. They are both very compassionate, loving , kind and honest. That’s a huge recipe for LOVE.

    • @vidamariaixchel4962
      @vidamariaixchel4962 10 місяців тому

      They’re both gay. 😅

    • @lisariggs5688
      @lisariggs5688 9 місяців тому

      Coco…and you know them how? You know nothing but the act you see on TV. Get in the real world…you sound naive.

    • @pernilladomander7648
      @pernilladomander7648 3 місяці тому

      Those kids are not their children eighter.

  • @hikari9433
    @hikari9433 Рік тому +26

    People don't realize the level of work and commitment it takes to be in a decades long strong marriage with children.

    • @diamond852
      @diamond852 Рік тому +4

      The level of work ... for the wife. Sad but true.

    • @hikari9433
      @hikari9433 Рік тому +7

      @@diamond852 No, For both. The fact even of keeping the couple alive and doing things for the other when you don't feel like it, is a commitment men also have to make in a marriage, all while providing for the family. The difference is most men don't usually express themselves or complain about it. As a society we really need to stop disregarding men's contribution to a family or taking it for granted.

    • @tamirasamuel7894
      @tamirasamuel7894 Рік тому +3

      I think this is also because we’ve reduced men’s roles in a family as a provider only that husbands aren’t truly viewed as a primary person in the relationship. It’s very frightening at times because we’ve erased men as a whole in our society and not batted an eye.

    • @diamond852
      @diamond852 Рік тому

      @@hikari9433 Ideally both partners should work at their relationship but in practice men are often the checked-out and reluctant half of the partnership. It's not anyone's fault but theirs.
      There was a study published by Forbes that showed that the number one reason for divorce is lack of commitment. Number 3/4 was infidelity. I don't remember number 2 but another one up there was too much conflict. If we consider that most divorces are initiated by women then we can clearly see that this dynamic doesn't work for women either.

    • @diamond852
      @diamond852 Рік тому +1

      @@tamirasamuel7894 Who is the "we" in "we've?" Nobody told men not to play active roles in their relationships and families. In fact this is a major women why women are opting to be single and childfree. They don't want to be married single mothers to children or their husbands.

  • @Angeleyez37tx
    @Angeleyez37tx Рік тому +60

    Miss them so much!! Never any drama and they handled everything with class!!

    • @kallen868
      @kallen868 Рік тому +6

      I dunno...the tan suit and spicy mustard on a burger still got people shook!😂

    • @NH-tb2sm
      @NH-tb2sm Рік тому +10

      The good days of America and the White House

    • @GreenWitch1
      @GreenWitch1 Рік тому +11

      Absolutely! They have been missed 😢

    • @abbied
      @abbied Рік тому

      @@kallen868 Huh?

    • @C.VEEJay
      @C.VEEJay Рік тому

      ​@Kallen868 Don't forget the arugula!😂

  • @kevinharris3993
    @kevinharris3993 Рік тому +24

    Marriage is a give and take. I don't care how great your marriage is. Trouble comes as well as happiness to it.

  • @marianhreads
    @marianhreads Рік тому +11

    I'm glad they stuck together in those 10 rough years, but as importantly, that they found a way to be happy again together.

  • @lifewithPam
    @lifewithPam Рік тому +32

    God bless them both.

  • @Sam4e82
    @Sam4e82 Рік тому +53

    That's what marriage is all about.

    • @stevedj101
      @stevedj101 Рік тому

      are you delusional? Michelle is Big Mike. Look it up, do some research. But not the mainstream fake channels.

    • @4real266
      @4real266 Рік тому +1

      Hmm. Not liking your husband for 10 years. I don't think so. And ...am.. that's on her.....not him. Wonder if he knew that back then....did she express that to him back then? Mr President is so cool, even in his response to that statement it shows what an awesome person he is.

    • @diamond852
      @diamond852 Рік тому

      No. That's what one-sided marriage is all about. Raise your standards!

  • @briyates942
    @briyates942 Рік тому +23

    Anyone who’s been a real long term relationship knows….you may not always like them. But you always love them. I cannot stand how negative my man is about himself sometimes. But that’s just a thing I don’t like. That doesn’t mean I can’t help and love him through it. Work with them. He dislikes how impulsive and random I can be with my adhd but yet again that’s why he loves me too. Because spontaneous adventures are his thing too. There is always a give and take

  • @Backpack16
    @Backpack16 Рік тому +11

    We all have faults. Our rough patches, is how we navigate, this thing called life.

  • @gracechaffee2960
    @gracechaffee2960 Рік тому +33

    And they are both funny too.

  • @123maksal
    @123maksal Рік тому +11

    Michael and I….

    • @rose-mariemcguire4972
      @rose-mariemcguire4972 27 днів тому

      What's up with NO message?

    • @rose-mariemcguire4972
      @rose-mariemcguire4972 27 днів тому

      When backgrounds are total opposites. Four seasons to earn a bachelor's in early education + a grand-aunt career educator. I played teacher since 3rd grade on the front porch using each step as the next grade up! Playing which hand has the small stone game!
      I'm writing books on my life and @ 87 the peddle to the metal is NOW!! THIS IS A WONDERFUL WORLD!🎉🎉 3:10 🎉❤

  • @pmhwong
    @pmhwong Рік тому +13

    Somebody wise told me, marriage is not about 50-50, or 70-30.
    It's 100-100. Both sounds commit fully without keeping score.

  • @CustodianVirgil
    @CustodianVirgil Рік тому +10

    This is honestly very introspective for a politician

  • @ll8432
    @ll8432 Рік тому +25

    I can relate with her. 😅She is right.

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 Рік тому +2

      Me too.

    • @Kimmie33166
      @Kimmie33166 Рік тому +9

      Me too. She gets it. You can love your spouse but not always like them.

    • @earleneworrell
      @earleneworrell Рік тому +3

      Me to just like I can't stand my kids at times why not your better half their is nothing but LOVE ❤❤

  • @damaris2085
    @damaris2085 Рік тому +31

    This is so real! Ive only been married for 8 and there is weeks that I dislike my husband so much lol but, then we get back into a good phase and everything is rainbow and flowers 😂
    Marriage is definitely a roller coaster.

    • @sabrinagonzales4456
      @sabrinagonzales4456 Рік тому

      At least they always had a way better marriage/relationship than 99.999% of Hell, nowhere, sinkingship, lowdown, cheating ass, facade, worldly funeral marriages. That’s why the divorce rate is high and it will get higher. 50/50 is too low level. A 100/100 is the real deal.

  • @jarcha4200
    @jarcha4200 Рік тому +8

    I have a friend who raised 8 children. She said for many years she just kept “ my head down with the goal of keeping the kids alive and staying married”(she is Catholic). They were married 65 years and deeply in love when he passed away. They created a wonderful, loyal, loving, supportive family together.

    • @happybutterfly7124
      @happybutterfly7124 10 місяців тому +1

      God bless her for birthing 8 kids. I thought I wanted 4, until my first one came out weighing 8 lbs, 11 oz. When that anesthesia wore off, I was hurtin!

  • @nicoledang27
    @nicoledang27 Рік тому +106

    I totally understand Michelle. She is so relatable

    • @ramencurry6672
      @ramencurry6672 Рік тому

      @@pepperpower1652 is there a specific reason why she made you angry?

    • @sunniertimer598
      @sunniertimer598 9 місяців тому

      Very few people would agree with you.

  • @katied.8839
    @katied.8839 Рік тому +8

    If you bothered to read their books you’d understand why! Barack’s career took off much faster than their young love was ready for (or expected)

  • @patriciadorner8007
    @patriciadorner8007 Рік тому +3

    Micheal Micheal Micheal

  • @Drjulie804
    @Drjulie804 Рік тому +9

    Malicia! I feel like a proud auntie when I hear your commentaries. I've come to know you through 90 day. Great job again. Keep going!!!

  • @CruzR1111
    @CruzR1111 Рік тому +17

    There’s plenty of people who love their spouse or parent etc but don’t like them. My husband is amazing but for a few years there he was a bit of a&&hole 😂 and I definitely wasn’t easy to be around either. Hopefully you just keep trying to work on improving yourself and your relationship together and the effort pays off. 17+ years on and we are genuinely like and love each other and ourselves. Good on the Obamas for being honest and relatable. ❤

  • @wesley4824
    @wesley4824 Рік тому +6

    His perseverance, and success as a politician may have contributed greatly in keeping them together

  • @Tisme65
    @Tisme65 Рік тому +70

    This is more common than people will want to admit😮 that's why I love Michelle Obama❤

    • @johnwise4341
      @johnwise4341 Рік тому +6

      If she didn’t like him she shouldn’t waste his time. She only stayed for the benefits. Eventually she gonna go bald like Jada and convince him to slap Trump.

    • @sanecollins
      @sanecollins Рік тому

      ​@@johnwise4341 😂😂😂

    • @VictoriousSage
      @VictoriousSage Рік тому +3

      ​@@johnwise4341 You think all marriages are fairy tales, in whichthey lived happily ever after? Michelle is being real.

  • @agness7983
    @agness7983 Рік тому +29

    I’m glad they stayed together and continue together until death do they part,cause they look great together😊😊

  • @Sweet_Southern_Pecan
    @Sweet_Southern_Pecan Рік тому +4

    I appreciate Mrs. Obama's candid feedback about their marriage.
    I met a woman who told me she was frustrated with her husband the 1st 15 years of their marriage...

  • @antionettewestbrook9957
    @antionettewestbrook9957 Рік тому +58

    I could listen to them talk all day. Gotta love them🥰

    • @goddessvision6001
      @goddessvision6001 Рік тому +2

      ​@albertbundy8857🤪🥴🥴🥴🥴

    • @KB-ke3fi
      @KB-ke3fi Рік тому

      After about 5 seconds I start to puke.

    • @stellawil
      @stellawil Рік тому +4

      @@KB-ke3fi you start to puke , yet, you’re watching the video. Got it

  • @monicabrowne8882
    @monicabrowne8882 Рік тому +5

    An AMAZING couple, parents and individuals😍. I love them. So wonderful to hear about their honest testimonies on their marriage. A great example to for all newlyweds to follow.

  • @LoveAlways1002
    @LoveAlways1002 Рік тому +135

    When I say I love this couple, I loooooooooooooove this couple 😭😭😭
    I know we are all human and everybody has their flaws however, they seem to genuinely have unconditional love.... not perfect... but genuinely committed to choosing love daily.... through the good and bad
    I pray I'm able to experience loving a husband for 30+yrs and receiving that love back ❤❤❤❤

    • @davidmckibben1931
      @davidmckibben1931 Рік тому +2

      He loves his husband so what

    • @vielkaabad7144
      @vielkaabad7144 Рік тому +3

      Try to find a picture of Michelle Obama pregnant.

    • @vielkaabad7144
      @vielkaabad7144 Рік тому

      It’s fine that they have different sexual preferences however be honest and come out. Pretty dishonest behaviour. Obama is a lord wat. He created 7 wars and sent back more illegals back to their counties. The Obama couple made a lot of money just like most politicians. It’s all about the money.

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 Рік тому +2

      Same!!

    • @Vegangg
      @Vegangg Рік тому +2

      Yikes

  • @sabrenacarter9917
    @sabrenacarter9917 Рік тому +8

    She’s trying to help that divorce rate decrease 👏🏾👏🏾so many people give up on their marriage after the first sign of struggle. Then they just expose their kids to different boyfriends or girlfriends 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @johnstamos2365
      @johnstamos2365 2 місяці тому

      The divorce rate will continue to increase because women are modern and feel equal to the man!

  • @armchairguru1921
    @armchairguru1921 Рік тому +27

    I love that man!

  • @jarcha4200
    @jarcha4200 Рік тому +3

    She speaks the truth. Marriage is for the long hall (with a couple of exceptions). Congratulations to every couple that keeps it together long term!

  • @kouklakee
    @kouklakee Рік тому +10

    This man has the gift of gab !

    • @theta799
      @theta799 Рік тому +2

      Which one? They are both men.

    • @MMgoodies
      @MMgoodies Рік тому

      @@theta799 you would know right

    • @theta799
      @theta799 Рік тому

      ​@@MMgoodies Must be nice to be that naive - the world is a wonderful place!
      But in reality - imagine the worst possible and then multiply it by a trillion, and even that won't be enough.
      But - go back to sleep.

  • @CARTER.J
    @CARTER.J Рік тому +10

    Michelle is so pretty

  • @jenniferb.5787
    @jenniferb.5787 Рік тому +7

    Love, love, love them!!!!!!!

  • @kbrown6635
    @kbrown6635 Рік тому +16

    Miss them

  • @ttruitt1770
    @ttruitt1770 Рік тому +33

    What good role models for the youth of not only the United States; but the world. All the best to the Obama’s!

  • @Jennine2589
    @Jennine2589 Рік тому +16

    What an exemplary couple, wonderful president and first lady. This is what America needs.

    • @theta799
      @theta799 Рік тому +3

      That's actually a president and his husband.

    • @ScottFernando-ry2ho
      @ScottFernando-ry2ho Рік тому

      Hi, How many man are in your hand begging for your attention, because your beauty is so charming, and I believe no man can see you without telling you how beautiful you are, I believe your husband must be really lucky to have you in he's life, Dear. no man can resist your beauty. so tell me if you are the second woman GOD created after eve, how are you and how are you doing today

    • @CaseyAffleck-si6uv
      @CaseyAffleck-si6uv Рік тому

      what's up now how are you doing today how is everything over there

  • @sylgaucher573
    @sylgaucher573 Рік тому +5

    This is real though, my husband and I understand that we may not always like each other but we always love each other. We are human, the person that you are around all of the time might just annoy you sometimes and that’s ok!!

  • @deniseowens4543
    @deniseowens4543 Рік тому +21

    I MISS HIM SO MUCH!!

  • @d3cryptk33p3r
    @d3cryptk33p3r Рік тому +27

    Barack would never say that publicly about her. Michelle outta pocket.

    • @soulcrushaolskool6866
      @soulcrushaolskool6866 Рік тому +15

      She kept it a buck and she's still rocking with him. She didn't say anything wrong cuz it happened a long time ago.

    • @AceVenturaaa
      @AceVenturaaa Рік тому +21

      Nah she was giving this generation free game . Michelle was saying that ppl give up on their marriages too easily & u may not like eachother all the time but ur committed to making it work. It was as real as a person can get. And she did it w/o bashing him.

    • @johnwise4341
      @johnwise4341 Рік тому

      She is a bad wife to exploit her marriage to strangers, and even more tacky considering she’s the former First Lady. Women have no dignity or honor when it comes to their husbands. She and the rest of the insufferable women should just get a mansion where they can all marinate in each other’s presence.

    • @hazelboyce7230
      @hazelboyce7230 Рік тому +8

      @@AceVenturaaaThank you! I don’t understand why it is so difficult for people to get that.

    • @d3cryptk33p3r
      @d3cryptk33p3r Рік тому +2

      @@hazelboyce7230 that's not the issue whether I get it or not. let somebody else say that shit not her. besides there are a whole lot of husbands that should be hated by theirs wives, I doubt Barack truly fits the example of that. they had rough patches sure, but to use the word hate is way out of pocket.

  • @estherstrategicadvisor749
    @estherstrategicadvisor749 Рік тому +54

    ....and THIS is WHY we LOVE them! You can LOVE someone and NOT LIKE them because of their actions. This is the perfect example of HONORING your marriage vows. #FightForYourMarriage

    • @pisto30
      @pisto30 Рік тому +2

      @Planes & Pixels AMEN

    • @KB-ke3fi
      @KB-ke3fi Рік тому

      yeah with a man....michele

    • @stellawil
      @stellawil Рік тому +1

      @@KB-ke3fi trump is married to Melvin 😂😂😂

    • @stellawil
      @stellawil Рік тому +2

      @Planes & Pixels I can appreciate your point. I grew up in and married in a high control group. I was chastised for divorcing a toxic, abusive person. I was labeled as an immature, spiritually weak woman who did respect the sanctity of marriage. Nothing was said to him 🤦🏾‍♀️. I had to do what was best for my son.

    • @Gemmarose9012
      @Gemmarose9012 Рік тому +2

      @@planesandpixels If a spouse is unfaithful, unloving, and dishonest, they are BREAKING the vows and therefore the commitment is void. Married people understand this, especially in modern times which is why divorce rates are high. This is not the 1950’s.

  • @kimberlyherring7072
    @kimberlyherring7072 Рік тому +8

    I love them so much love that they keep it real !!! Not fake .

    • @selenasanchez7336
      @selenasanchez7336 Рік тому

      The love between them is amazing they glow when they talk about each other. Love Them. Barack and Joe Biden are very close friends which gives me comfort cause Barack is still in office I Know Joe Has him and Michelle a Beautiful Guess Room 👌😊

  • @meicealways5842
    @meicealways5842 Рік тому +4

    Mr Obama looking back refreshed again! That stress ain’t in him no more ❤

  • @tcdecatur2077
    @tcdecatur2077 Рік тому +10

    I’ve been married 15+ years and there are times that my husband’s blinks are too loud and annoy th out of me. This happens.

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @nyaraherosilim3578
      @nyaraherosilim3578 6 місяців тому

      Thanks for cheering me up after a horrid Christmas/New year! I randomly caught your message and laughed so much! I'm still laughing. My husband does something strange with his fingers. I can't explain nor understand!😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @HerLovesBooks
    @HerLovesBooks Рік тому +2

    Marriage is not for the weak. I love the transparency. You love people but liking them can be very fluid.

  • @theegreendragon
    @theegreendragon Рік тому +2

    She could have kept that between themselves.

  • @DWilson7070
    @DWilson7070 Рік тому +6

    Michele should not have said that....

    • @johnwise4341
      @johnwise4341 Рік тому

      Marriage isn’t work if you love someone. She hate that man. He don’t look happy. I get Will Smith vibes. Free Obama!

    • @favored6007
      @favored6007 Рік тому +1

      She was being honest about people who are commenting that they are a perfect couple. I'm sure he was not surprised by what she said.

  • @normaworthy3540
    @normaworthy3540 Рік тому +3

    I love the Obamas! I can relate to Michelle. I have been with my husband since High School, going on 48 years altogether! We've had challenging times too, that God has helped us to navigate through! I love my husband dearly, and all of our good days outweighs any of the not so good ones!👍🏽♥🙌🏽

  • @wickandde
    @wickandde 9 місяців тому +1

    This is relatable for everyone, more so than picture perfect lives people pretend to have on social media. So appreciate the honesty ❤

  • @JayByard1010
    @JayByard1010 Рік тому +4

    I loved the fact she humanized the former president although he’s in high ranking position he still human with everyday flaws and everyday problems I think as humans we tend forget this.

  • @deborahemielita5949
    @deborahemielita5949 Рік тому +3

    Men don’t handle the little kids, they always expect the Mom to do that. In my experience-there are exceptions but that’s fairly general. Very transparent of Michelle to admit that, that creates a lot of tension in A marriage! Maybe that will change?

  • @lesmav3759
    @lesmav3759 Рік тому +13

    All the people should thank them just to be honest about marriage !

  • @illusionsdelusions7552
    @illusionsdelusions7552 Рік тому +2

    Lol even with 8 years in the White House that's the most cautious I've ever heard him answer a question

  • @MrsBrittanyGold
    @MrsBrittanyGold Рік тому +5

    I love their honesty.

    • @DanielWetmore-xm9ct
      @DanielWetmore-xm9ct Рік тому

      I like your comments... can we be friends? because I'm new here God bless you ❤

  • @roxannevlogs7329
    @roxannevlogs7329 Рік тому +19

    Such a smart beautiful couple 🥰🥰

  • @joycewagner6336
    @joycewagner6336 Рік тому +26

    It's wonderful that they were both open and honest about the reality of their marriage. Every marriage goes through periods like this. You can love someone and not be able to stand. It sounds odd to some people, but it's true. They set a great example for other couples. They went through a difficult period, but they kept working on the marriage and came out on the other side of that difficult period.

    • @DanielWetmore-xm9ct
      @DanielWetmore-xm9ct Рік тому

      I like your comments... can we be friends? because I'm new here God bless you ❤

  • @RaquelHerring
    @RaquelHerring Рік тому +2

    These are the best people that have ever been in the White House. Figures they wouldn’t be what we have always gotten. Intelligence, love and class. Like a breath of fresh air.

  • @orenbyrd
    @orenbyrd Рік тому +5

    Could her words be truer? Marriage is hard; but the rewards if you make it past the years of immaturity, competition & needed growth you end up with a relationship you wouldn't trade in for the world!!! Sadly most people give up before they reach the rewards of the hardwork & tough times endured!!!

    • @happybutterfly7124
      @happybutterfly7124 10 місяців тому

      Married the year we turned 24, neither of us knew what a thriving, healthy marriage looked like. We were both raised by people old enough to be our grandparents. Our parents weren't married to each other and very rarely interacted. Although we were raised to go to church, neither of us understood God's purpose for us individually, or as a couple. I eventually became a Christian and began to learn God's original intent was for a man & a woman to love each other unconditionally. I finally learned that my ex never stopped dating other women. It takes 2 people who are willing and committed in order to have a successful, happy marriage.

  • @sondranewall4462
    @sondranewall4462 Рік тому +71

    They are both extremely intelligent, charming, classy, and appear to fit together very well. Their daughters are also bright, gorgeous, and successful. I think Michelle Obama and Jackie Kennedy were the most beautiful, upper class, first ladies of my lifetime. The Obama's certainly did a fabulous job raising their children, who have turned out to be fabulous, young adults. Of course those kids were raised with a lot of advantages, having 2 exceptionally bright, upper class parents. I admire that entire family, and have the utmost respect for them.

    • @travelseatsyellowlab
      @travelseatsyellowlab Рік тому +8

      ​@@stevedj101I take it you must like men since you seem to have seen underneath what you presume to be a man.

    • @zakiakassam5674
      @zakiakassam5674 Рік тому +6

      ⁠​⁠@@travelseatsyellowlab👍👍👏👏👏 well said !!

    • @lindabb7064
      @lindabb7064 Рік тому +6

      @@zakiakassam5674, I really hope stevedj 101 is a bot or a six-year-old because his emotional intelligence sounds like that.

    • @elias4416
      @elias4416 Рік тому

      @@stevedj101 Michelle is a man it’s true

    • @AF-rv2xl
      @AF-rv2xl Рік тому +2

      @@lindabb7064 I report those comments everytime. It was Joan Rivers who suggested such a thing in her racist jealousy. These people who perpetuate this disgusting slam are the same

  • @akowonjoadeola4034
    @akowonjoadeola4034 Рік тому +5

    You know it's okay"....when you just have to accept it...the way it is😂💁

  • @chesun4579
    @chesun4579 Рік тому +8

    2 years of campaigning + 8 years of office

  • @violeta-kristinajanoniene8412
    @violeta-kristinajanoniene8412 5 місяців тому

    You All Are STRONGEST !! PUT YOUR STRENGTH TOGETHER !! 💜 Sunfortūne F.

  • @eightiesmusic1984
    @eightiesmusic1984 Рік тому +37

    Good to see so many positive comments here. The way they were with Virginia McLaurin when she visited the White House at the age of 101 was incredibly empathetic and warm. The exchange between them could not have been more perfect if it had been scripted. It was spontaneous and heartfelt by all three. Very sad she died. RIP.

    • @vielkaabad7144
      @vielkaabad7144 Рік тому +1

      Try to find a picture of Michelle Obama pregnant.

    • @a-typbeatz7761
      @a-typbeatz7761 Рік тому +14

      @@vielkaabad7144 you’re obsessed, huh? My mom has 4 kids and never wanted to be photographed while pregnant like many women, so what exactly is your point?

    • @EggZausted1
      @EggZausted1 Рік тому

      ​​@@a-typbeatz7761 I think the troll is trying to insinuate that she is a man, like all of the "sheep" do. Funny how he thinks Michelle is a man, but then doesn't question Marjorie Taylor Green, who is a very manly looking woman, who just so happens to be blonde, white and spouts the same garbage and lies that many in the right do. Plus that's the only negative they can come up with when it comes to Michelle, that and the school lunch programs. They can't attack the actual success they have had, so they turn to childish bullying and name calling.

    • @ayidonno
      @ayidonno Рік тому

      @@vielkaabad7144 you think everyone woman like being photographed pregnant?

    • @bossstarling217alt2
      @bossstarling217alt2 Рік тому +1

      @@a-typbeatz7761 Your mother isn't famous.

  • @KatMatthews91
    @KatMatthews91 Рік тому +23

    They are truly great! Love their humor ❤

  • @lagunn327
    @lagunn327 Рік тому +28

    LOL! Normal and honest! ❤

    • @ScottFernando-ry2ho
      @ScottFernando-ry2ho Рік тому

      Hi, How many man are in your hand begging for your attention, because your beauty is so charming, and I believe no man can see you without telling you how beautiful you are, I believe your husband must be really lucky to have you in he's life, Dear. no man can resist your beauty. so tell me if you are the second woman GOD created after eve, how are you and how are you doing today

  • @eatinwitskizz
    @eatinwitskizz Рік тому +3

    It all boils down to Honesty and Love if y’all want the marriage to work it will if you don’t it Won’t‼️

  • @Gemmarose9012
    @Gemmarose9012 Рік тому +8

    There has never been a time when I haven’t liked and loved my husband. I’m glad they were able to overcome their issues.

    • @catherineomondi7850
      @catherineomondi7850 Рік тому +2

      Your husband never campaigned for congress or president, did he? I am sure even Melania would say she wasn't a fan of her husband's decision to run for president and didn't like her White House years. A lot of politician's wives would say the same thing. Al Gore's ex wife has admitted that the pressures of his campaign, his run, and his loss put too much stress on their marriage and contributed to their divorce. Even the children complain about the situation (Nancy Pelosi's daughter has complained). I don't think it's unique for her to feel this way considering the life he chose for his family.

    • @Gemmarose9012
      @Gemmarose9012 Рік тому +5

      There are a lot of people saying “that’s marriage” or “that’s typical” and all I said was not in my case and I’m glad they worked it out. I’m sure politicians and their wives would be relieved to know you jumped to defend them though…for absolutely no reason since I said nothing negative.😂

    • @diamond852
      @diamond852 Рік тому +1

      ​@@Gemmarose9012 Thank you. People making it look like a marriage like this is a good marriage 🙄

  • @davidparnell6008
    @davidparnell6008 Рік тому +10

    Awesome

  • @fozziebear888
    @fozziebear888 Рік тому +2

    Hi Melia. Luv this video on the Obamas! Ur my favorite Journalist Host on TV!!! Keep smiling ❤

    • @ScottFernando-ry2ho
      @ScottFernando-ry2ho Рік тому

      Hi, How many man are in your hand begging for your attention, because your beauty is so charming, and I believe no man can see you without telling you how beautiful you are, I believe your husband must be really lucky to have you in he's life, Dear. no man can resist your beauty. so tell me if you are the second woman GOD created after eve, how are you and how are you doing today

  • @bettybaker683
    @bettybaker683 Рік тому +14

    Good interview Nate👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Ch0senJuan
      @Ch0senJuan 4 місяці тому

      Nate read this and told me to tell you “Thanks. Nice nose”

  • @robertward8035
    @robertward8035 Рік тому +4

    Gotta love Michelle ❤.

  • @brendaknight5128
    @brendaknight5128 Рік тому +1

    Why do people on these talk shows keep asking the same questions?

  • @gussfish8670
    @gussfish8670 Рік тому +1

    Did she ever wonder if he liked her.

  • @JazzyB9481
    @JazzyB9481 Рік тому +5

    I've always had a crush on him. There, I finally said it 🤭 and he's getting better and better with age

    • @245Carol
      @245Carol 10 місяців тому

      Yeah. Well, we can't all be normal.

    • @TryingtoTellYou
      @TryingtoTellYou 5 місяців тому

      bahargaegahgeagh I fell out of my chair reading this@@245Carol

  • @Crystal5672cats
    @Crystal5672cats Рік тому +4

    I think even though we might not like our family members at times that doesn’t mean there isn’t love and commitment to the relationship.

    • @DanielWetmore-xm9ct
      @DanielWetmore-xm9ct Рік тому

      I like your comments... can we be friends? because I'm new here God bless you ❤

  • @drummer5773
    @drummer5773 5 місяців тому +2

    Is that when she became "Mike"?😂

  • @drakependragon8439
    @drakependragon8439 Рік тому +1

    What a surprise that Barry isn't even liked Moochelle

  • @tyrannosaurusburke
    @tyrannosaurusburke Рік тому +15

    I have to admit that when I first saw the title of this video, my heart sank a little. I feel like if Barack and Michelle split up, I would take it as hard as if my own parents split up.

    • @mathmanchris666
      @mathmanchris666 Рік тому +3

      @DoughnationCreative thats not really how marriage works, especially since they appear to like each other and thrive but ok