The more I learn about women from their own online words, the more I see what they do and it sickens me. That anyone would such awful things to someone else and then have the audacity to play the victim.
So, conversation goes like this.. He .. do you ever fake it She ... sometimes but in the past He ... with me... She........ no.... of course not, you can tell when I come,, can't you? He.... er , yeah of course... Etc... I was with someone who could take an hour or so, she'd let me know and rearrange matters to get there, that was great and as a guy having hours of sex at a time is a bonus and not a chore. 15 minutes or so seems about average with women I've been with for them to get there so instant screamers is a bit of a red flag . Enjoy it, ask for something if you need it and if you have lost focus or just not getting anything out of the shag don't fake it ( or say "bored now" 😅) no, grab his balls and tell him you want his babies.... Seriously tho, be honest and you might get better sex even if the conversation is difficult . Good vid. Cheers Steve.
Honesty and communication is everything in the bedroom I think! But also I've found some men, not all, are not very good at listening. Or maybe it's ego "I know what I'm doing, everyone else liked this" getting in the way. I had a partner who I was frequently saying "that's too rough, I don't like that", even trying to push his hand away and he'd still continue. In the end I'd give up, and just let him get on with it because it was clear he wasn't going to listen to what I liked or didn't. Sad times. LOL
The more I learn about women from their own online words, the more I see what they do and it sickens me. That anyone would such awful things to someone else and then have the audacity to play the victim.
Okay, so everything is on me, communication wise and pretty much everything else. So why is that? I thought we were equal ?
Can't be bothered anymore. Seems like too much of a chore so I just don't. I have two hands with no demands and no recriminations.
So, conversation goes like this..
He .. do you ever fake it
She ... sometimes but in the past
He ... with me...
She........ no.... of course not, you can tell when I come,, can't you?
He.... er , yeah of course...
Etc...
I was with someone who could take an hour or so, she'd let me know and rearrange matters to get there, that was great and as a guy having hours of sex at a time is a bonus and not a chore.
15 minutes or so seems about average with women I've been with for them to get there so instant screamers is a bit of a red flag .
Enjoy it, ask for something if you need it and if you have lost focus or just not getting anything out of the shag don't fake it ( or say "bored now" 😅) no, grab his balls and tell him you want his babies....
Seriously tho, be honest and you might get better sex even if the conversation is difficult . Good vid. Cheers Steve.
Honesty and communication is everything in the bedroom I think! But also I've found some men, not all, are not very good at listening. Or maybe it's ego "I know what I'm doing, everyone else liked this" getting in the way. I had a partner who I was frequently saying "that's too rough, I don't like that", even trying to push his hand away and he'd still continue. In the end I'd give up, and just let him get on with it because it was clear he wasn't going to listen to what I liked or didn't. Sad times. LOL