Calm & Cosy ASMR Podcast #32 - Healing Isn’t Easy.

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  • @drakulinchik
    @drakulinchik 4 місяці тому +524

    i’m so happy that you took some time off youtube and decided to share everything that happened! i want you to know that you’re loved by us and we really, really appreciate your journey and you! ❤️🥹

  • @Brett-y4r
    @Brett-y4r 4 місяці тому +201

    Seeing her cry is so hard, but I feel you times are really tough. Kiara and I promise everything’s gonna be OK.

  • @winterseyfer9056
    @winterseyfer9056 4 місяці тому +51

    Being in your early 20s is incredibly hard. Moving away from family, taking college classes, trying to figure out where you “fit in”. Nobody gets it perfect and struggling like this is so common, but a lot of people don’t talk about it. The biggest thing I have learned through my 20s, I’m 26 now, is that you can’t run away from yourself. If you are going through something like this, you can’t just shake it off. The biggest thing you can do for yourself is give yourself a break, and invest in your mental health with a good therapist. ❤️❤️ Sounds like you are really trying to figure this out and that’s all you can do. It will get better with time. Love your ASMR videos but really, take care of yourself first. Your ASMR community that you created will always be here.

  • @Helena_GB
    @Helena_GB 4 місяці тому +93

    Keara you really don’t deserve this. You take time out of your day to help us even when you’re struggling and we all appreciate it so so much. Over the years you’ve become a friend to me instead of someone I watch on UA-cam. You helped me find my faith and helped me feel peace with myself. The storm will pass eventually and Jesus will help you find your way

  • @sarannyachakraborty14
    @sarannyachakraborty14 4 місяці тому +316

    It's hard to struggle, the whole journey isn't something to look forward to, it's scary, and it's definitely HARD. But hang in there Keara, soon everything will be okay, healing isn't easy and it takes time. Last 3-4 week I struggled so much with my mental health, it became insane, I was so stressed with everything, my exams coming and other issues. But now I am doing much better. I am in a better headspace at the moment and I am so so grateful for it. So it gets better, and you are my friend, you are OUR friend, yes we might have not met, I do not know you personally, but I know you virtually, and I feel a connection with you ❤ I love you

    • @kearacornella
      @kearacornella  4 місяці тому +124

      This comment almost brought me to tears. I am so honored to have such wonderful people supporting me. Thank you for taking the time to write this, it means so much more than you know. ❤️

    • @Ayano-z6k
      @Ayano-z6k 4 місяці тому +19

      It's not even towards me and this made me like tear up low-key..

    • @sarannyachakraborty14
      @sarannyachakraborty14 4 місяці тому

      @@Ayano-z6k big hugs

    • @twilightxcullenx
      @twilightxcullenx 4 місяці тому +9

      This is the sweetest comment! 🥹

    • @TinyLittleVeloure
      @TinyLittleVeloure 4 місяці тому +5

      ⁠@@kearacornellaWE LOVE U KEARA!!

  • @dyamariwan9161
    @dyamariwan9161 4 місяці тому +230

    I just lost my baby brother and have been diagnosed with cancer myself soo life has been really really tough lately…im trying my best to stay positive and live i know my brother wouldn’t want me to be depressed, im considering therapy but i don’t really know how to express what im feeling…but ill try my best and im sooo happy you posted again welcome back🤍🤍

    • @Grace_ward
      @Grace_ward 4 місяці тому +29

      I am so sorry to here that I don’t have experience of what pain your going through but he will be up there pushing you through difficult time and stay strong and fight through the pain and if you ever need help gets someone to push you through💗🫶🏻🌅

    • @dyamariwan9161
      @dyamariwan9161 4 місяці тому +8

      @@Grace_ward thankyou so much for your words i teared up reading this…
      He was my dearest person in the world so losing him hurt me more than my own condition but i know he’s in a better place now and is not suffering anymore so i will be strong for him.

    • @dyamariwan9161
      @dyamariwan9161 4 місяці тому

      @@chelseatrundley803 thankyouuu very much 😭🤍

    • @Noname-vw7vj
      @Noname-vw7vj 4 місяці тому +9

      I will pray for you ❤

    • @dyamariwan9161
      @dyamariwan9161 4 місяці тому +8

      @@Noname-vw7vj that’s literally the kindest thing im very greatful🤍

  • @kwindle7895
    @kwindle7895 4 місяці тому +38

    I just turned 33 and I HATE change. Like physically my body gets ill when things change. I live 21 minutes from my sister and sometimes thats too far. I feel you, ive been there. You are so young and handling such big things, i know its hard now but you should be proud of yourself. AND God is with you, i just finished one of these WHAT THE HECK seasons, the worst of my life. 3 months. I held strong to my faith knowing it wont last forever, something will come of it just like it will for you. You WILL be rewarded for your obedience. I know its cliche but it really will get better, being vulnerable and sharing with someone is the first step. Youve got this❤

  • @mistysoup1824
    @mistysoup1824 4 місяці тому +11

    It feels really comforting to hear you talking about feeling so alone because I have been feeling the same way recently. Terribly, terribly alone

  • @summerrismyfav
    @summerrismyfav 4 місяці тому +31

    the instagram thing is so real, I find myself sometimes just not even allowing myself to open up instagram as I’ve compared myself SO much and it’s honestly one of the most draining things.
    comparison really is the thief of joy

  • @gfaith3439
    @gfaith3439 4 місяці тому +90

    I’m also 20, striving to have a stronger relationships with Christ and boy is it hard to make friends. I feel you girl😭 praying for you!

  • @debsj4523
    @debsj4523 4 місяці тому +3

    You’re so strong for being vulnerable in sharing what you’re going through, thank you for your bravery. I often suffer from nightmares, and one thing that has helped, mostly with the fear of what i may dream next is what my therapist told me. You can’t get hurt in your dreams, nobody truly hurts you physically and you can’t die in them either. I think our dreams are our bodies naturally therapy, they can give us the answers we need. Your new therapist may be able to help you work out their meaning, then they will become dreams rather than nightmares. Take care, and thanks again for being so strong. Sending love from the UK ❤

  • @AGwashere_13112
    @AGwashere_13112 4 місяці тому +33

    im so glad your back keara!! im so sorry about what youve been going through, you dont deserve that at all. dont feel pressured to be ok, just like you tell us, its ok to not be ok

  • @kronk6561
    @kronk6561 4 місяці тому +4

    Hey Keara! I’ve never commented on your UA-cam videos but I’ve been watching you for a while, I just wanted to say a few things. First off, Goodjob for coming on here and being vulnerable! That’s a hard thing to do especially considering the things you were struggling with. Next I wanted to say, take a deep breath, you’re doing so good! You’re so determined to fix things and get better which is so amazing, you’re helping yourself out a lot. Also I’m not religious but if God is what I’ve heard him to be then I think he’s already really proud of you for picking yourself up and not staying down. You might not feel like you’re doing enough, but your heart is in the right place and I think he sees that! You got this girl!

  • @koalabear0017
    @koalabear0017 4 місяці тому +34

    You saying you set a standard for yourself to be okay, I relate to that so much! I just got diagnosed for ADHD. So herring that you also feel that makes me feel so much better!❤❤❤❤

  • @Pinkdolphin7035
    @Pinkdolphin7035 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm glad you're doing what you think is right for you. Honestly most people that struggle don't have the courage to take time off if what can cause the struggle which makes you a very brave person, not just taking the break, but also being open about taking it and making sure that you're OK with taking the break. I also know what it's like to be alone and having nightmares every night. Sometimes I still go through struggles sometimes. I found that Journaling help sometimes and it helps with knowing what you used to love doing and doing what makes you happy once again. We all love you and appreciate your honesty and just being here with us. ❤❤❤❤ I'll pray for you and be here for you to make sure you get through this. ❤❤

  • @annas4191
    @annas4191 4 місяці тому +2

    much love.
    i've struggled sooo much with mental and physical especially the last few years. you are not alone. you are strong and resilient.

  • @RoseyorRose-df4pp
    @RoseyorRose-df4pp 4 місяці тому +6

    I'm so happy that u have opened up to us, I have been in your shoes it got so bad and my thoughts got bad so i love that u are here, and u will get through this

  • @iluvjesus3
    @iluvjesus3 4 місяці тому +22

    one thing i would recommend if you’re into writing is journaling your prayers! i feel like i get so much more of my emotions out and i’m conversing with God. i’ve been through many seasons where I don’t rely enough on Jesus too, but even just journaling to him five minutes a day will help you a lot. keep your head up!!

  • @bakerrb
    @bakerrb 4 місяці тому +16

    i’m really happy to see your doing better and really sad that you had to go through all of this. the courage you took to sit down and talk about this, and even post this video is incredible. your videos put me to sleep and calm me down. this video made me cry to see how much you had to go through. i will be by your side every step of the way and so will God and Jesus ❤❤

  • @livswift
    @livswift 4 місяці тому +4

    aw keara seeing you cry literally made me cry. I know how you feel with the angry thing. Like I am NOT an angry person and would never want to hurt the people I love but somehow I always do. I never hang out with anyone and I feel like I should feel bad but I genuinely like being alone. I think you are so strong and so resilient. I'm really happy you took the time you needed away from youtube. Your are so loved by us and we will stand by you no matter what!!!!!!

  • @jillianmcdanielluvya
    @jillianmcdanielluvya 4 місяці тому +85

    Psalm 34:18
    Proverbs 3:5
    Psalm 23:4
    Matthew 6:34
    I find these helpful for when I find myself in a bad season and forget that God is near hopefully they might be useful to you

  • @vaishnavi4955
    @vaishnavi4955 4 місяці тому +9

    its really okay keara, we're all here for you and we understand what you're going through, you are loved

  • @EmileyCai
    @EmileyCai 4 місяці тому +9

    You are so many people’s comfort person and you also deserve your time, rest and love”💕

  • @rebeckah511
    @rebeckah511 4 місяці тому +4

    i was super happy as soon as I saw a new thumbnail from you! i'm so excited and grateful you're back! i enjoy following your journey. I'm much older than you and you're definitely not alone in not having friends, not going out to socialize and not being okay. comparison has been a big issue for me and i've realized i'm on social media WAY too much so i'm trying to prioritize reading my bible more, studying it, praying and get a little involved in christian community. i need and desire community with other women believers in my church but i also like my privacy. i am thrilled to continue following your journey. God bless you Keara. thank you for coming back and being open. Love you.

  • @maddieruth_x
    @maddieruth_x 4 місяці тому +3

    I love you girl! I just moved out of my abusive household and as good as it sounds it’s been soooo hard. I’m obviously so blessed but at the same time i feel so alone. On top of that i just got my heart absolutely shattered by my first love. No matter how far you run, you’ll never be able to get away from your problems. I love you and it WILL get better

  • @hannahscj
    @hannahscj 4 місяці тому +4

    Keara i am so proud of you for getting through this. Trust me, it will get better. I am even more proud that you can come back to UA-cam and express yourself. I’ve missed you so much and I’m just so glad that you have returned and I wish the best for you. Stay strong you are amazing❤

  • @alyshaowensmoto758
    @alyshaowensmoto758 4 місяці тому +6

    Keara, first i want to say that im so happy to see your face and hear that you are safe, i was worried girlie, your my fav asmrist, but i also want to say that im so proud of you for acknowledging your emotions and your feeling, you’re handling so much in life with going to school, moving, your relationship and all the trials and tribulations in life, i want you to ALWAYS remember that it’s okay to feel these emotions, it’s okay to be confused and angry and every small emotion that you can’t place in a catagory, god will always be beside you and walk with you through every moment, find joy in things that make you smile even if it’s a small one, meditate if you have to, pray, do anything that helps, never feel ashamed of your feelings, i want you to know that you are so LOVED, by your family, supporters, me and every person that has the luxury of meeting you, love you queen 🫶🏾❤️

  • @MadsRoblox-u6i
    @MadsRoblox-u6i 4 місяці тому +6

    I just wanted to take a moment to express how grateful I am for you and your content. Even though you haven't posted for months, I understand that you were going through a tough time and needed to take care of yourself. Your health and well-being are so important, and I'm glad you took the time you needed. Your videos have always been a source of inspiration and comfort for me, and I can't wait to see what you share next. Thank you for being so open and honest with your journey, and for always being such a positive influence. We missed you and are so glad to have you back! ❤We love you Angel! 😇

  • @Lyrawashere
    @Lyrawashere 4 місяці тому +9

    Keara we are SO happy to have you back. It is absolutely okay to take time to yourself to heal!! We love you and admire you for putting your mental health first.❤

  • @CosyBear-f8v
    @CosyBear-f8v 4 місяці тому +5

    You are a great person, and even not watching the video yet I know it wont change my mind. It is so hard to admit a struggle. Personally I can't do that so thank you for making me feel comfortable to be able to watch your videos and even be able to think about how I can change. I love you and your channel.

  • @Giseleisntcool
    @Giseleisntcool 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m so glad that u are getting better ❤ I’ve been subscribed to u for a long time and I absolutely love ur videos, they make me so happy!

  • @llifewnoelle
    @llifewnoelle 4 місяці тому +9

    you are a role model. i was struggling a couple months ago with a lot. then i found your channel, and i started to feel like someone cared. life can be tough. it can put you through a lot but the most important thing to remember is that Jesus is always there. He is there every step of the way. keep pushing Keara. we are all here for you if you need it. we love you so much. it will all get better soon. ❤

  • @aria.aaep1
    @aria.aaep1 4 місяці тому +4

    keara. thank you for this. thank you for sharing your feelings with us❤so many people feel alone at times and i promise you it will get better❤you have so many people in your life that care about you, want to see you succeed, and be with you through the good and bad🙏this podcast episode got me very emotional because i can relate to this in so many ways🥹i feel so validated.❤thank you for being so open and honest.. don’t ever say sorry for crying, everyone needs a moment to let it out💞i love you so much and you’ll get through this💓sending you so much love❤️🫶

  • @Belle16x
    @Belle16x 4 місяці тому +29

    EEEEKKKK SO EXCITED TO HAVE YOU BACK!!!!!! 💗💗

  • @CoraVibes
    @CoraVibes 4 місяці тому

    I’m so happy that you were so open to us about yourself❤. Your ASMR always helps me get over my bad days. Always supporting you!

  • @ArianaGrande656
    @ArianaGrande656 4 місяці тому +76

    Keara, don’t cry! You’re going to make me cry if you cry! Please don’t cry! You’re so amazing and so beautiful!

    • @ender_908
      @ender_908 4 місяці тому +16

      No, cry men, cry clean your soul and mind

    • @evelynk7729
      @evelynk7729 4 місяці тому +17

      It’s fine to cry

    • @user-ct8qx4zy2t
      @user-ct8qx4zy2t 4 місяці тому +8

      Crying is perfectly normal. It’s an expression of your feelings. It’s like you’d say “don’t smile” or “don’t be happy”

    • @malakiscool77
      @malakiscool77 4 місяці тому +5

      she can cry it’s a normal thing

    • @luckka0
      @luckka0 4 місяці тому +3

      Its okay to cry..

  • @abbastv-1794
    @abbastv-1794 4 місяці тому +11

    All of us are your friends and I thing we are all pleased with that.
    Hope you’ll get better soon stay strong and we’ll always be there for you 🫶🏽

  • @natalyc7689
    @natalyc7689 4 місяці тому

    The sweetest souls are always the ones who’ve been through so much and your so strong and brave and thoughtful to explain yourself even tho you don’t have to

  • @Ella33492
    @Ella33492 4 місяці тому +5

    We love you keara your such a uplift to my mental health

  • @imsummerlolhi
    @imsummerlolhi 4 місяці тому

    girl truly i am so glad to see you back! not only cause your asmr is amazing, but also because you’re so sweet and i’ve been worried. i’ve missed you so much, and it’s okay to take breaks and we all understand when you can’t bring yourself to explain why. i’ve been struggling too lately and have been really stressed and it started causing health problems, it’s good to rest even if there is work to do! you’re not in this alone, and we all appreciate you. i hope you continue to get better! much love💗
    also i LOVEEE your pants!!!

  • @Sadiesinkfan.
    @Sadiesinkfan. 4 місяці тому +15

    Hi Keara! I struggle with depression and addiction but you make me forget everything❤ I love you so so much🫶❤️

  • @Isabelle.R_CO28
    @Isabelle.R_CO28 4 місяці тому +2

    Keara, we get it, it's super hard to cope or just to struggle in general. The journey of struggling is a very difficult path to face or challenge. Its really scary and hard and painful. Trust me everything will be okay soon. Trying to heal isn't always the easiest but it just takes some time. The last couple months I have also struggled with mental health. Family issues, school, and other issues I'm trying to cope with. But now Im becoming strong again and doing so much better. I am just in a better space and I am so freaking grateful to be here on earth and where I am at. You may not have many friends but YOU are OUR friend. We all may have not met in person or every like talked but we know you virtually, and we all feel some sort of virtual connection with you. You are so amazing and so loved by all of us. Sometimes therapy or just talking to someone could be a struggle because you may not want to but when the moment comes you will realize it is so helpful. Thank You So So So So So Much for coming back to UA-cam. I have been watching your content since day one. We are all so happy and hear for you. Once again you are not alone. We Love You So Much.

  • @Heddaa
    @Heddaa 4 місяці тому +1

    You speak so well, I am very thankful that you posted this❤️ Life isn’t always great, and thats okay. Youre stong. I’m praying for you ❤️

  • @KenleyZ
    @KenleyZ 4 місяці тому +3

    yay your back!! Your such a comforting channel I missed the podcast soo much ❤

  • @Mariaclara1160-k7v
    @Mariaclara1160-k7v 3 місяці тому +1

    YIPPEEE YOUR BACK!!!!!!😁😁
    bro I missed you so much😔but like OMG you help me so much it’s not just asmr it what you say and your podcasts help me so much in going through a rough time but when I feel sad I just listen to your podcast I hope you get better and I love you!

  • @claire8923
    @claire8923 4 місяці тому +1

    i am so glad to have you back. you are so loved, and i’m so sorry about your struggles. you are so pretty keara jesus loves you ❤️‍🩹

  • @Alyssa-e8u
    @Alyssa-e8u 4 місяці тому

    It’s very hard to struggle I have gone through this myself, and I’m so happy that you are healing after some hard months for you and we are all her off you through everything! And we AND GOD will always love you and help you be confident and positive and this is all gods plan for you which will make you much stronger from everything you’ve been through! It will get better you are OUR FRIENDS ALWWYS!! And of course your beautiful, kind and very comforting and we are all so glad to have you back!!🫶❤️

  • @Millie-yd8vg
    @Millie-yd8vg 4 місяці тому +5

    I’m so proud of u that u shared this with us and u should never say sorry for leaving to help with ur mental health I love u so much please don’t cry angel we love uuuuuu

  • @twilightxcullenx
    @twilightxcullenx 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m so happy that you took a bit of a break of UA-cam, it’s so hard to struggle like that but I know that your strong and can fight through it! Sending all my love ❤
    Also please don’t cry u made me cry! ❤

  • @Hummingbird1422
    @Hummingbird1422 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi Keara! I've been watching your channel for about a year now (ever since i began watching ASMR) and you're definitely my favorite creator! We missed you so much and are so glad you're back and doing better. Always remember that we support you no matter what! 🫶🏼

  • @LeahStark-e5k
    @LeahStark-e5k 4 місяці тому

    You got this! You will get through this! The light at the end is coming! Stay positive and keep praying! 🩷🩷🩷

  • @TrinityHopkins-bn2df
    @TrinityHopkins-bn2df 4 місяці тому +4

    Little do you know girl I have been watching your videos for almost 2 or 3 years now and though I have never met you I have never connected to a person more, I feel you deep down and I understand the struggle, I'm Trinity and I'm too Christan and believe me if it's anyone that is going to get you through this chapter of your life, its the Man Upstairs

  • @ari-ne4lk
    @ari-ne4lk 4 місяці тому

    i’m so incredibly proud of you!! and i’m so happy that you have something to connect and find comfort in like christ. i don’t believe in a higher power myself but im so happy you have found something you trust in and taking that time to actively connect in that space. im so proud that you’re healing keara and we will be with you every step of the way. xx ❤️

  • @Martami169
    @Martami169 4 місяці тому

    I'm so sorry you've been going through this Keara. This podcast almost brought me to tears became this is somehow the exact same thing I've been going through for the past few months. I know exactly how it feels to be alone for I've been feeling terribly lonely for the past few months. I wanna deeply thank you for making this video and for not being fake. Thank you for trusting us and being your true self. It meant a lot to me because i realized I'm not alone on this. Your'e such an amazing person with a golden heart♡ sending you lots of love and prayers ❤

  • @ggkk1104
    @ggkk1104 4 місяці тому +3

    i'm glad you took the time to heal, we love you💌

  • @russotorres227
    @russotorres227 4 місяці тому

    hey girl! watching this made me want to give you a big hug and i am so sorry that you have been going through this. know that you are not alone. i will be praying for you!! ❤️

  • @heartofetheriaaa
    @heartofetheriaaa 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for being open, honest and vulnerable - it is very difficult to do so and you are so brave for sharing this with us. We are all on our journey together and I wish you love and faith to get through this period in your life - you are incredibly strong and we all appreciate you so so much. 💗💗💗

  • @xoxo.jomaa11
    @xoxo.jomaa11 4 місяці тому +5

    Im cryinggg, Keara I literally love you so much you are my best friend , my emotional support bestie , and my THERAPIST, I know it’s stuff ! Life’s tough as you said it’s a roller coaster, but just know girl you are STRONG you are so so strong and your gonna get through this, Jesus is right next to you . Sitting right next to you , holding your hand. He loves you , and he’s with you , and we all are here for you . I’m so happy your back, but remember your health always comes first. Love you so much girl 🫶🏼🥹💖

  • @Stella-d8w
    @Stella-d8w 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for sharing every stories with us🥺❤️
    Keara you are doing amazing and loved❤️
    And we are so sooo proud of you.❤️
    (Don’t cry 😢 We’ll always be there for you🫶🏻)

  • @MiracleBoba
    @MiracleBoba 4 місяці тому

    We love you Keara, take as much time as you need, healing is important💗

  • @rainymercedes6025
    @rainymercedes6025 4 місяці тому

    i’m so sorry you are going through this. i am feeling similarly to you and find life very hard right now. you are not alone and we love you ❤

  • @JiMiNyOuGoTnOjAmS.
    @JiMiNyOuGoTnOjAmS. 4 місяці тому

    I’m so proud of you Keara, and so happy that you have taken some time for yourself. We really love and appreciate what you do for us ❤️

  • @hollyferguson1401
    @hollyferguson1401 4 місяці тому

    I have always loved your videos! There is something about you that is so comforting and I’m 10 years older than you 😂! It is amazing how age doesn’t really matter when it comes to our life struggles. There are many days I have felt the feelings you describe. I’ve been up and down on the roller coaster as well, most recently it was because of some postpartum depression and anxiety after having my son. I know it’s not exactly the same, but when you said something about how we all obviously want to be happy and we want it NOW, that resonated with me. It takes time and hard work, but this season will pass. You are so wise to speak words of truth about our walk with Jesus. He is right there with us, even if we can’t feel him or see him always.
    Thank you for being so open. I KNOW you make people feel seen because I feel that way after watching this, so thank you for being an authentic voice on social media!
    Much love and prayers to you! ❤

  • @not_bubblegumpop1520
    @not_bubblegumpop1520 4 місяці тому

    I just wanna say thank you so much for the clarification and the time you took to really be real and explain what’s going on so we understand because you didn’t have to do that and that took a lot of strength and it just shows how much you care about us. I’m so glad your doing better and making sure your getting what you need first and foremost! We have your back Keara and whatever you decide whether you need another break or if you post a bunch of these to feel better, we are right here with you and supporting you all the way! We love you! ❤

  • @swiftie13-z8k
    @swiftie13-z8k 4 місяці тому

    Keara, I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. I was so worried about you and I'm so excited that you're back! I'm glad that you're doing better. I understand that feeling of being alone. I hate being alone. I'll be praying for your healing journey and that your life would be filled with peace. Love ya Keara! You've always been my favorite asmrtist ❤

  • @Liv_Lover-4
    @Liv_Lover-4 4 місяці тому

    I hope that everything soon works out. You are such a kind person and things like this are so hard and you are doing so so well. Healing takes long but it does come and I hope that is comes to you very soon. You are so loved and appreciated by all of us ❤️

  • @zoecoolfish124
    @zoecoolfish124 4 місяці тому

    i think its so amazing how you come on and do this thing and make this a safe space for everyone i literally love your vids and these have been helping me with my struggles :) and you will be okay i understand how hard these things can be and you got this!!!

  • @blinkmimi11
    @blinkmimi11 4 місяці тому +2

    we love you keara please take care of yourself xx

  • @elizafoll
    @elizafoll 4 місяці тому

    im really happy you did the right thing and took time off, everybody need it

  • @charslifestyle
    @charslifestyle 4 місяці тому

    having the strength to sit down and record is amazing. your so strong ❤

  • @Jafiki91
    @Jafiki91 4 місяці тому +1

    Wishing you all the best on your journey Keara. The struggle is definitely real but we know you're strong. You can do this. Maybe for the bad dreams you could try keeping some kind of journal? Write them down and then write about why you don't need to be afraid of them or how you could counter those fears.

  • @hopewilke
    @hopewilke 4 місяці тому +1

    i feel so comforted by this honestly, i just moved into college and have 0 friends and feel so alone :( missing my family terribly

  • @b3ll4isb3tter
    @b3ll4isb3tter 4 місяці тому

    im so so glad your back keara!! it was really difficult seeing you cry to be honest, i wish i could give you a hug!! it will get better, i promise ❤

  • @chadarnold6182
    @chadarnold6182 4 місяці тому +6

    I want to hug you so bad. I'm going through depression. And my mental health is so bad. I know way too much things for my age. I was ALWAYS thinking and not living. But you took that away from me thank you so much you beautiful amazing soul. God is with you and he will stop this and you are so strong. Its amazing how you are pushing through. I'm trying so hard too but I cry everyday and been failing all my tests in school. Bringing my self down is the hardest thing I've ever done I'm sad tired and I get mad so easily at my closet friend and she's ok with it which is horrible. So I showed her your channel and now she doesn't compare herself to me she knows she's beautiful and she's helping me even more. I love you❤ I'm going to bed soon after I pray for you angel💞💞💞

  • @littleizzy99
    @littleizzy99 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm also on a healing journey lately and need another social media break probably ♥️ so taking breaks is totally fine! I'm journaling again with affirmations and I write down every single night: It's okay to take breaks. I need to remind myself daily because I'm really bad at taking time off for myself 🥲 always struggling, always not creating, enough not being productive enough etc... these thoughts are harmful and yet so hard to ignore. I'm trying not to panic so here's your daily reminder it's okay to take breaks ❤
    Okay I have to say some more. I relate so much. I'm almost 25, never had a relationship, don't really have any friends, I'm spending most of my days at home on social media or being creative. I'm a writer and my characters are my friends. They give me so much strength and I'm sending some of their strength your way Keara. You're a fighter and we both got this! I believe in you.
    I'm also currently on my journey with god, trying to build a relationship with him. I'm buying a bible soon and it gives me so much joy and contentment to be with god. Knowing he'll protect me helps me feel safe.

    • @littleizzy99
      @littleizzy99 4 місяці тому

      I'm also starting a new therapy next week and starting all over sums it up pretty well. I can relate to this too and I wish you all the best 🫶🏻

  • @HarperMason-zm9nz
    @HarperMason-zm9nz 4 місяці тому +2

    Yay!! She is back! Missed you and hope your break was beneficial

  • @charlottestark4195
    @charlottestark4195 4 місяці тому

    Hey, Keara! Your videos are so cozy and have always put me to sleep when I'm feeling stressed. It worries me that you're not feeling so good right now, but I just want to tell you how proud I am that you have been so self-aware and that you're on the journey of healing. We support and love you so much! In the end, everything that is meant to be will be if you trust God. :) I've been getting in to Christianity and exploring religion, and it makes me so happy to see you so close to God, and inspires me. Also, side note for the nightmares, I usually like to do some deep meditation right before bed when they happen to me. I just play some rain sounds or calm music and then sort of think of affirmations and go over my day and feelings. It really helps me, and I hope you get the chance to try it! I'm praying for you, Kea.

  • @JessicaLangner-y2p
    @JessicaLangner-y2p 4 місяці тому +1

    Hi I think it’s amazing that you took a break to figure things out that is going on in your life.your wonderful and remember you are one bright and shining girl I love you!🎉❤

  • @mgabrielle1
    @mgabrielle1 4 місяці тому +2

    Sometimes changing therapists is for the better, at some point your therapist can only help you to get to a certain place. Having a fresh start can be very daunting but ultimately may bring you more peace and understanding that you may need. ❤
    Also for your bad dreams, often I find that they are trying to tell me or show something that I’m not seeing. Our mind processes all our emotions and experiences from the day during our sleep . If I can’t sleep I try and find a phrase/affirmation that I repeat that helps to calm me.

  • @VlogsByElla1429
    @VlogsByElla1429 4 місяці тому +9

    FYI it’s gonna be a long one
    Keara, I know we don’t know each other and we haven’t met in person before but I wanna say this not only from the bottom of my heart, but as someone who just experienced something similar. Struggling is ok, it is nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to hide. Struggling is scary, hard, and intimidating. But I want you to know that seeking for help is the best thing you can do. I went through six months of difficult, stressful, hard, and frustrating curve balls. I was crying myself to sleep every night. And the one thing I learned from it is don’t try to hide it and think you can handle it all by yourself. It is ok if you need help. And as you said, the healing process is a long process. All of my struggles started to slowly go away around the middle of June and I am still in the healing process. And I still cry myself to sleep some nights. But always know you are never alone. As someone who loves and believes in God, I know he will always be with you. Pray when you’re in your highest and pray when you are in your lowest. He is walking through this with you. I know it has been a long one but, I just wanna close this with a positive note. Coming back to UA-cam shows how strong of a person you are. You made the right decision to take some time off. And always know that if you need some time to get life together, don’t feel bad. We all understand that life is hard and can be mean sometimes. But just know that we are here for you and will support you through every little thing. We love you and hope for the best moving forward❤❤❤

  • @ladeziumhall4032
    @ladeziumhall4032 4 місяці тому

    Nice to see you back missed u keara ur podcasts so chill

  • @zaystuff6641
    @zaystuff6641 4 місяці тому +2

    Healing really isn't easy and I could relate a lot to what you said. It's a huge blessing that even though its hard to get up, get going, and do something, you still got up even if it was a little. I wanted to share some verses that have helped me in my on going struggles and i hope they can help you too. (Psalms 34:17-18, all of Psalms 138, Philippians 4:6-7,Isaiah 43:18-19)
    Its okay to cry especially to God. Even if you cant get out any words God hears your words through your tears and He will turn your pain into praise. Im proud of you for enduring this whole situation.

  • @1234readyandplay
    @1234readyandplay 4 місяці тому +3

    i’m so glad you’re okay ml!! i noticed you weren’t posting for a minute and got a little worried

  • @rosav5017
    @rosav5017 4 місяці тому

    keara you've got this!! i'm also 20 and pls pls pls remember to give yourself grace to just let your brain develop -- even though i've been lucky with friends & family, there are ALWAYS harder days, and we're literally so, so young, our minds are forming as we live and that's such a rollercoaster. you haven't messed up, or made a wrong decision; nothing is final. it WILL get better, and i like to say that 'no emotion is wasted' -- you will get through this and when you do you will learn so much about yourself & the hardships u are capable of surviving. give it time. give it a year. we have enough time on earth xx

  • @therealrainbowunicorn3894
    @therealrainbowunicorn3894 4 місяці тому +1

    We love you and missed you so much! You are my favorite asmrtist and whenever I watch you, it literally feels like you are a big sister to me! Take care of yourself! You deserve it! I have horrible anxiety as well and I’m so sorry you are going through all of that! My mental health has been up and down for a long time. I also am not an angry person but when I am angry I am REALLY angry.

  • @EclipseX3
    @EclipseX3 4 місяці тому

    I’m really glad you’re back, and so is the other people out there in the world, too! The world can be cruel, and so is social media. I’ll start praying for you, too! Proverbs 3:5 is my favorite bible verse in the Bible, and I think you should read it to help with your mental health. As the title says, it’s true! Healing isn’t that easy sometimes, or all the time. I’m glad you shared your story with us, Keara! We’re all sending love and care for you!! 🫶

  • @Mushroomlover06
    @Mushroomlover06 4 місяці тому

    I’m so happy you’re back! I have missed you so much! ❤❤❤
    I genuinely have been thinking of you lately. And was hoping you would post soon. You’re so loved.

  • @Lovelytalkstotheworld
    @Lovelytalkstotheworld 4 місяці тому +2

    I was depressed for many years, felt the emptiness in my soul al the time. And then I stopped taking 💊 started traveling across the country living in a van with no money for about a year, I won’t say it’s for everyone but it helped me a lot. The emptiness was filled with all the daily challenges I’ll say. Now, when I look back I can’t believe how I made it. 😂. Or let time heal girl. Believe in yourself. ❤

  • @reesecall
    @reesecall 4 місяці тому

    I honestly like the more simplistic setup, its such a vibe. Maybe some leaves or smth or a sign with the Calm and Cozy podcast led sign on the wall would be cute ☺ hope your having a good day!

  • @Lavzyt
    @Lavzyt 3 місяці тому +1

    I’ve only been on your channel for like 20 minutes but I’m rooting for u ❤

  • @Izzymarder
    @Izzymarder 4 місяці тому +1

    It hurts to see u so sad and feeling so alone I hope u know we are all here for u as u are always here for us we love u Keara ❤

  • @Char..13.
    @Char..13. 4 місяці тому +3

    Hey keara, seeing you cry was so incredibly hard. You are such a help to me every night. I am currently on my journey with Jesus, and just hearing about your struggles helped me understand so much, why u haven’t be posting. You are so strong, I can tell this is so hard for you and you are so amazing. But i want to tell you that u help so many people, you are so strong and we all love u! We all support you. I am so glad you are pushing through. I love u so much, every video every short just helped me and so many people. Thank you for your work. Please remember that you are loved and Jesus has a plan for YOU. Thank u for everything and vocalising your struggles with us. Love you keara.

  • @cw_catwoman
    @cw_catwoman 4 місяці тому

    We're so glad to have you back, Keara. You will always have a friend here. I know what you're going through feeling completely alone. It's tough. But keep praying. ♥️✨ God bless you!

  • @gummycatgames
    @gummycatgames 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m so sorry you went through that I know the feeling of being empty and sad I will be praying for you ❤️

  • @PAISLEE1313
    @PAISLEE1313 4 місяці тому

    To be honest I have been in a very depressed state for the past month and stuff and just seeing this video just makes me feel so much better when ever I watch Keara I just feel so much better, thank you for that keara❤❤❤ I’ve missed these kinds just videos where you talk to us❤ I’m so sorry about what’s been going on in your life I feel really bad❤ if u ever need someone to talk to ill be here forever and for always❤❤❤

  • @NatalieSngZiQi
    @NatalieSngZiQi 4 місяці тому +1

    its ok keara stay strong! you fall 7 times you rise 7 times

  • @lwauraa
    @lwauraa 4 місяці тому +1

    Stay strong girl 🩷 we love you and we’re so happy you’re back 💞

  • @caregiver1418
    @caregiver1418 4 місяці тому +2

    So happy that I came across you, tonight. I'm 52, so yes, much older than you and I've been through it all when it comes to Mental Illness and being impulsive in my past. Wow....was I ever impulsive. I was living for Jesus way back when and then, at 33, I got accepted for Nursing School....moved to a huge city with my 7 year old son and it was a rollar coaster ride from there on out. Years went by and many new adventures, many tears, many depressive setbacks (aren't those fun - yes, i'm being sarcastic)...everything that I tried or put my hand to failed....no, I passed nursing school with flying colors.....but, everything else...it wasn't until 15 - 16 years later that I decided to run back to Jesus, whom I now serve and love wholeheartedly. I cannot see how people survive without Him and the Peace & Direction which He gives. My health has spiralled downwards very fast and there a few big issues that I have healthwise but for the first time in my life, I'm content and at peace. Jesus never did leave me in all those years.....I raised my beautiful boy who is now 29, have a beautiful family and Jesus. What more could I ask. Take care of yourself just learn how to breath and take your time with small, simple things first. Our minds can be our worst enemies. If you truly cry out to Jesus and let Him know exactly how you're feeling.....ask Him for his comforting, his direction, knowledge and wisdom that comes from him only....you'll be just fine. Every child finds it hard uprooting from family and friends. You've got this darling. God bless, protect and keep you safe and strong each and every day and night. xo

  • @Jackadoo_editz
    @Jackadoo_editz 4 місяці тому

    I’m so sorry that you had to go through that. We are here with you

  • @AiylaTariq
    @AiylaTariq 4 місяці тому

    It’s ok keara all of your supporters are here with you !😊