PARENTING: very powerful tip | குழந்தைகள் தவறு செய்தால், அது பெற்றோரின் தவறு | Dr Ashwin Vijay
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- Опубліковано 3 тра 2022
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Hey Guys!
I would like to convey a small message to all the parents out there. If you see a good character with your kids, then we should be the reason for it. Similarly, if you have a mischievous child, often angry or arguing, then we as parents are responsible. Most of the time, parents do not take credit for such bad behaviors shown by our children.
We take all the credits for the good things that happen with our children but not the bad ones. This can be from the age group of 3 years to up to 18 years. We tend to find faults with our friends, neighbors, school, and colleges.
Let me explain it clearly for you.
We are the reason for our children’s behavior. Children are like mirrors. Children watch family members and go. Family is the first thing a child knows about in this world. As parents, it is our duty to rectify our faults before we blame our children.
A lot of you have been asking how to raise a child amidst the modern-day technologies and gadgets and all the fuzz and buzz.
Here is my answer to all those parents.
As parents, we need to raise our standards first and build qualities that are noteworthy. If we do it, our children will follow the same. If we practice bad things in life and instruct your children to follow a routine, it will never happen.
Only if we develop the necessary standards and quality, only then we can raise good children. It is a simple and strong message which you need to understand.
Please share it with your friends. If you are a parent, please share it with other parents for whom it may be useful.
Hope this video was helpful.
Thank you
மருத்துவர் அஷ்வின் விஜய்,
Dr Ashwin Vijay
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oru concept ohh , illa knowledge pathi important ah learn pannum podhu sudden ah mind la pickup aga mattadhu sir romba late ahh agudhu then slow ah dha sir mind adha absorb pannudhu eadhavadhu solution irundha sollunga sir please pls
Nice tip sir I admit it is parent responsibility and need more help on this how can I co tact you sir
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நானும் நீங்கள் சொல்லும்படி வளர்க்கத்தான் (அவர்களே வளரத்தான்) ஆசைப்படுகிறேன்.. ஆனால் இன்று நம் குழந்தைகளை நாம் வளர்க்கவில்லை.. சோசியல் மீடியாக்கள்தான் வளர்த்துகொண்டிருக்கின்றன... நம் முன்னோர்கள் நமக்கு சொன்னதை நாம் சொன்னாலும் கேட்கும் சூழ்நிலையில் அவர்கள் இல்லை(மீடியா அவ்வளவு பலம் வாய்ந்தது)... எந்த ஒரு நல்ல பொருளுக்கும்./விஷயத்திற்கும விளம்பரம் தேவையில்லை.. ஆனால் விளம்பரங்களில் (நல்லவைகளை காட்டி தீயவைகளை விற்கிறார்கள்)... சத்தியமாக முடியல டாக்டர்.... இயற்கைதான் காப்பாற்றவேண்டும்.. இந்த தலைமுறை குழந்தைகளை....
உங்கள் குரலைக் கேட்டாலே தைரியம் வருகிறது.
சமூக பார்வை யோடு இருக்கும் உங்கள் பதிவுகள்,அனைத்தும் மிகச் சிறப்பு...நீங்கள் மருத்துவர் எனும் அடையாளத்தை விட சமூக அக்கறை உள்ள சிறந்த மனிதர்...
👍 Nam attil
அருமையான பதிவு டாக்டர்.மிகவும் நன்றி🙏🏻
உண்மையிலேயே இவ்வாறான வாசகங்களைக் கேட்க இப்பேச்சைக் கேட்பவர்கள் கொடுத்து வைத்தவர்கள்.
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Yes sir parents are the first n foremost role models to children. Very simple n powerful msg. Thank you for posting
You are a real hero and God bless you for your Love and taking care of our society 🙏❤♥💙💜💖🙏
Ur 100 percent right Doctor. Being a teacher I always be a role model for my kids.
ஆரோக்கியமாக,தைரியமாக வாழ ஊக்கப்படுத்தும் நீங்கள்,, பிள்ளைகளை எப்படி சிறந்த வர்களாக வளர்கவேண்டும் என்று அழகான விளக்கம் கொடுத்தீங்க நன்றி,,, ஆசிரியர்களிடம் ஒழுங் கீனமாக நடந்து கொள்ளும் மாணவர்களின் செயலுக்கு, அவங்க பெற்றோர்களின் வழி நடத்துதுதல் தான் காரணம் 👍👍👍
மகனுடன் நானும் என் தரத்தை மேம்படுத்துகிறேன். Really a great tip and what you said was crt. My lil one is just reflecting what he see.
சூப்பர் சார் 👍👌. This is absolutely Right
When I am getting down I search and listening ur voice with speech.. Such boost to meee dr..........
Great sir! Parents life is children's hand diary! They refer each page to lead their life! Thanks for emphasizing this to parents🙏
wonderful and much needed message
Well said Dr. You are absolutely correct. Parents must be the role model for kids. I m running a preschool.
Keep rocking.
Very true sir..I believe it 100%...Especially the small kids before facing the society they learn everything watching us whether its bad or good..very nice message Sir..Thank you for sharing a very valuable message.
With the current social media distraction and influence by external factors, PARENTS are NOT always to be blamed. This topic is very biased here. Esp. kids after 18+ behave as though they know everything in this world. PARENTS have multiple responsibilities (with their parents, kith/kins, inlaws, office, family etc) and KIDS seldom appreciate their difficulty these days. Maybe Doctor Ashwin doesn't have experience of such happenings. So, in summary, bringing up Kids of this age is not easy and there is no ONE stop formula to get them on the path. "We are the reason for children behavior" works in theory and "NOT IN REALITY". Appreciate your practical reviews and videos. Anyone can talk theories. Good Luck.
Very true....kids are influenced by many factors... parents words are the last one they will follow. Howmuch ever best we do for them ...they think us as their hindrance
Very true nama eppadi pathu valathalum indha society?
Within 18 you have to take care of ur qualities in front of them .. after 18 u need not to brought up them
You have to prioritise your kids and shouldn't push your responsibilities away for petty reasons. You have to adapt to the current generation instead of neglecting your kids.
Very useful message sir, 🙏Thank you 🙏🙏
Nandri Dr.
True.. personally i eat alot of junk and will eat only few veggies.. and i used to shout for when u get angry..after i became a mom slowly i changed myself for my baby.. i feel happy seeing this video❤
நல்ல பதிவு நன்றி ஐயா
You are a great doctor I ever seen
Arumaiyana concept. Thank you Sir
100% correct sir... Namma marunatha namma pasagalum maruvaga👍
Awesome doctor life science is the main thing we need to study now
100%√ perfectly said Dr Ashwin Vijay, Usually parents should be a good friend to child apart from others, My Father was a good friend and strickt teacher, i utilized him so far, now i used to Drink Alcohol outside even i had a seperate freedom room in my house, last couple of years iam facing all over society people individually, because he were used me as a strickt condition human being, in Rehabilation centre pyscastic Dr asked a question to Everybody, what are the main source of expectation do you like from your parents? Everybody gave his own answer, myself: Good Habit,Respect others and Humanity.
So, All over "AHAMOH" our sir prediction was awesome√
Sir share all important parenting information as much as possible.. Thank you 🎉
Truly great advice for parents
Good Advise👏👏Thank U Anna😍🤗
Sir you re doing great service to society I'm from srilanka I'm always your subscriber you re telling current problems parents face in this digital life
Very true sir neega solradhu ellamey puriyudhuga sir..... Nanum neriah visayagala ennoda padagalukaga mathikiten sir ........🙏🙏
Great tip Dr. Lead by example.
Great doctor🙏🏼
Very true doctor, most of the time we won't accept it. Best advice for the day , Thank you 😊
Tqvm Dr. 🙏🙏💜💜💐❤️🌹Very powerful awesome and awakening message. Tqvm Dr🙏🙏🌹🌹🌸🌺
Nalla thagaval sir. Nandrighal
நல்ல பதிவு அண்ணா
Great message sir.
Very useful
Thank you Dr
🙏Thank you Doctor
Mistake is being realised
Hi Doctor sir Very very good message thank u keep smiling 😊
sir worth message to this generation . 👏
Super Doctor well said 🎉
இன்றைய சூழலில் ஒரு. அவசியமான பதிவு... நன்றி ஐயா
👍 Jai Arjun & Sai vinya
It's very true.thank you so much sir
Super message Thank you so much sir 👍
Really very useful information doctor
Super sir 🙏 simple but ithan childrens ku base sir, thank you sir
Thank you!
Thank you for your information sir very useful for us
Be the change you wish to see in the world 👍
Good point 👌. Another example is parents they spend more time with the mobile phones or watching TV and how could they restrict their children not to watch TV.
Very strong point
Very good information brother vaazhga valamudan ungal samurai saving thodara vaalthukkal your videos download and send my friends and relatives anna neenga sollra visiyam ellam romba ush fulla eruku nanrigagal kodi neenga Nalla erukunum vaazhga valamudan anna 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hi rock star. How are you?
Very very important message for this time. 99% children behaviour has changed. I also can't control my anger with my children. Try my level best. 👍👍👍👍❤❤❤❤❤❤
I will follow sir, Thank you so much😊
மிகவும் பயனுள்ள தகவல்களை பதிவு செய்யும் உள்ளத்தை வணங்குகிறேன், நன்றி
👍 P.POONGUZHALI R.POONGAVANAM
You are awesome Dr.Your presentation style is impressive.
Good msg sir Thank you sir🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹
Yes sir you are right. My daughter is 5+.. Single child. Struggling a lot. Now a days I don't understand what to do and what not to do
Really useful tip sir
Very nice bro. Neengal sonnathellam naan en paiyavidam iruppen. Paiya mba padikkirar. Very good child bro. Ellarum bale mechipargal paiyava. Neengal ungal ammavudan edutha video parthen bro. Very Very nice. Normala veedil pesikira madiriye irundhadhu.
Super said...well said👍
Appreciate sir...100%true..
Thank you so much
Lead by example..parents should be a role model for children
Very useful, sir.
Very well said
Very useful vedio dr thank you so much doctor
Yes Dr 100% True 👍
Thks Dr very useful msg
Thanku sir...will share sure😊
Well said..
Very true aaya,Tq for sharing aaya
Gm Doctor. A beautuful mesage conveyed. Thanhkyou 🙏🏽😊. Our children are our reflection!!!!
👍 vinitha dharnesh
Thanks lot sir💐
🙏🏼...
Dr...
Tq so much Dr....
Useful message for parents..
👍 Sivagami Muniandy
It's true sir.thankyou
Thanks a lot for sharing anna ❤❤👍
Thank u sir, very useful 🙏
Thank you sir.
🙏🏼மிகவும் சரியான தகவல் நன்றி. 👏🏿💐
👍 Kannagi Kannagi
Thank you
Thank you so much sir this information very useful to me
Very true words sir
Thank you sir 🙏
Very helpful msg sir.plz You put more video for parenting tip .
tthhis video is really helpful to all parents like me
Romba thanks sir 🎉
You are great and correct bro
Thank You Sir... Very Useful Information..
👍 Kalajaisriram 2012
Excellent.Thank you.👌
👍 Vaidyanathan M.S
மிகச் சரியான பதிவு. நம் வழியாக இவ்வுலத்திற்கு வந்த குழந்தைகளுக்கு நாம் தான் முன்னுதாரணம். நம்மைப் பார்த்து தான் வளர்கிறார்கள் என்பது மறுக்க முடியாத உண்மை . அருமை அருமை
👍 Uma Mukunthan
Awesome doctor, golden words 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
👍 prasannamyth s
Worth message sir .. Thank you so much for the valuable parenting tips sir .. could you create more content on parenting.. from age 1 .. thanks ...
Super sir iam also like you but some times I mad mistakes this advice help for me I will change my self first then I want to tell my children ..thank you so much for this video. .
Very well said Doctor🙏.
👍 Divya vinodh
மிகச் சரியாக சொன்னீர்கள் Dr..
நாங்கள் தான் முன் மாதிரியாக இருக்க வேண்டும்..
அப்படி செய்பவர்களது குழந்தைகள் தான் சிறப்பாக இருக்கிறார்கள் என்பதும் 80% நாம் கண்கூடாக காணும் உண்மை..
நன்றி Dr 💐🙏
👍 Pramila Jay
அழகான பதிவு
👍 Poovarasan
True words Dr