I Hate Being Introverted

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  • Опубліковано 4 сер 2022
  • I hate being introverted.... but not really.
    There are a lot of things to hate about being an introvert, but if you look hard enough there are a lot more things to love. In today's video I'm going to share with you guys how I learned to embrace this HUGE part of my self and how I learned to set some pretty big boundaries with the people in my life.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 36

  • @wanderlovesus7777
    @wanderlovesus7777 7 місяців тому +29

    People always say introverts need to talk more, nobody says extroverts need to shut up 🙄

    • @Boe3
      @Boe3 7 місяців тому +3

      That’s the realest comment I’ve seen in a long while! 💯🔥

    • @Boe3
      @Boe3 7 місяців тому

      It’s because the majority wins and we are the minority

    • @chrystianaw8256
      @chrystianaw8256 7 місяців тому +3

      They do in Europe

  • @neverending9188
    @neverending9188 Рік тому +23

    I don't hate being introverted but i do hate my social anxiety

  • @nyc4life448
    @nyc4life448 2 роки тому +47

    Seems more like 70 - 80% of people are extroverted. It is hell being introverted in a world dominated by people who are in constant need of other people's attention and validation. That right there must be mentally and physically draining, always gotta be seen and heard, laffing at lame jokes that don't come close to being funny. I've managed to embrace being introverted. If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn't change a thing.

    • @BridgetHallisey
      @BridgetHallisey  2 роки тому +6

      It does seem that way. I know a lot of introverts that you would never know are introverts. They live seemingly normal lives because they can do extroverted things. That doesn't mean they like them but they do, sometimes they have to. We all fall on a spectrum. Some introverts at the extreme end can't do extroverted things and deal with other problems like social anxiety. Others are towards the middle and can do extroverted things but still get their energy from being alone. The same goes with extroverts. There are extroverts who can spend hours and hours in small groups talking to people but when it comes to being on stage in front of a crowd - they panic. It really just depends.

  • @codered6993
    @codered6993 Рік тому +55

    I never hated it to be an introvert.. I just hated all the people that tried to change me..

    • @infectieon
      @infectieon 8 місяців тому +4

      I just want to be funny and talk with my friends but they dont hangout with me but they always hangout with eachother im just like a backup backup friend i just want to be cool with them. Ive known them for like years why am i so boring bruh , am i just supposed to be an outcast i dont want to be an outcast

    • @Kavlor1
      @Kavlor1 4 місяці тому

      Yes. People trying to change you have a problem not you. I can't force someone to enjoy certain food or like a certain colour or have the same sense of humour. You can't make someone like the same things , that is what introversion is a core aspect of a lifestyle preference.

  • @TheRoarWithin
    @TheRoarWithin 2 роки тому +27

    I feel like an alien. It’s hard to believe 30-50% of people are introverted in day to day life.

    • @BridgetHallisey
      @BridgetHallisey  2 роки тому +5

      It is hard to believe. There are a lot of introverts who can/have to do extroverted things. Most of us really fall on a spectrum and some of us are at the more extreme end. Some of us introverts also deal with social anxiety so that is a huge factor too.

  • @royal3161
    @royal3161 Рік тому +26

    I hate being an introvert, I just want to connect with people but it's hard.

    • @BridgetHallisey
      @BridgetHallisey  Рік тому

      It is hard, but sometimes you have to focus on the things that are great the introverted life... there are a lot

    • @choilpisellogrosso3848
      @choilpisellogrosso3848 Рік тому +1

      ​@@BridgetHallisey such as?

    • @BridgetHallisey
      @BridgetHallisey  Рік тому +4

      @@choilpisellogrosso3848 We're great listeners, which often makes us better/eloquent speakers. We typically tend to be more creative, which always has its perks. We're good at reading people. There's so many things.

    • @choilpisellogrosso3848
      @choilpisellogrosso3848 Рік тому +1

      @@BridgetHallisey i mean i don't get how extroverts don't have these characteristics, i for exemple am not a good listener cause i'm never focused thus always asking who's talking to repeat what they just said. that's just an example but i feel like i resonate with almost nothing you mentioned, meanwhile i know many extroverst Who totally do. being extrovert doesn't mean being loud and superficial, it just means that it is easier for you to approach other people, to be generally more talkative (not al ways) and to recharge your batteries through socializing. other than that i feel like there are no differences directly connected to being extroverted or introverted, just that it can be very stressful to be the second one
      just my two cents

  • @williamwood7735
    @williamwood7735 27 днів тому +1

    The hardest thing I do as an introvert is getting people to understand how I react to social encounters. People invite me to events and I accept. The day of the event my anxiety takes over and I do not attend. I will stress over missing the event. Then there’s seeing the person that invited me and trying to explain why I did not attend. Usually I lie.
    Not many people understand introverts.
    Thanks for sharing your videos. There’s a lot here that I can incorporate into my view of being the way I am.

  • @Justprettytingz
    @Justprettytingz 9 місяців тому +6

    I literally feel like everyone hates me and finds me so annoying because of this. Like if you dont engage in small talk when expected for example , people resent you, might insult you , talk about how they didnt like you anyways. Like extroversion is the only way for me to get along with people 😢

  • @youtubentotodaynononon
    @youtubentotodaynononon Рік тому +6

    I hate to be introverted. I hate to be afraid of people, not being able to talk to anyone or even go outside sometimes.

  • @yevahakobjanyan
    @yevahakobjanyan Рік тому +8

    i hate being an introvert bc i have no social skills. its no fun not being able to speak in front of people, lack of communication skills, not being able to maintain friendships, cant make friends normally, cant connect with people, being afraid of going outside, scared of judgement and so much more. from what ive experienced theres nothing fun about not liking to socialize

  • @stormsumeet
    @stormsumeet Рік тому +4

    I'm okay with myself but I hate being around others and having to try to act like everyone and I can't because I'm shy

  • @chrystianaw8256
    @chrystianaw8256 7 місяців тому +2

    Being introverted is only difficult in North America, where there's a bias for extroversion. But being an introvert is preferred, and the norm in many European countries

    • @oeillet7676
      @oeillet7676 3 місяці тому

      really? wow i didn’t know that, i thought extrovert was the norm everywhere

  • @dinajones2761
    @dinajones2761 Рік тому +5

    I’m the same way. The more I’m on this planet and in the work force I see that people especially extroverts tend to be extremely self centered and judgmental. I truly don’t care what anyone thinks however I know small talk is needed to keep a job or just being nice and interacting with foolish coworkers so they feel secure smh and don’t report you for no reason. I bet you love animals. Animals are genuine

  • @akairibbon4658
    @akairibbon4658 9 місяців тому +2

    Being introverted is great once you attain this level of self-actualization. I feel like getting older favors introverts naturally as people drift away anyways.

  • @Snowchris1
    @Snowchris1 Рік тому +1

    LOL you described me perfectly Im so happy I'm not alone

  • @user-wc8cn7pt6m
    @user-wc8cn7pt6m 3 місяці тому

    I hate being an introvert. I really, really needed this.

  • @titiaroa
    @titiaroa 8 днів тому

    I Hate begin introvert bc just I overthing when I have conversetion to people, but if one of my friend is with me i wil commnuicate with people freely, but this year I got class with out my friend it was the worset year ever

  • @user-ml3ih4iu2j
    @user-ml3ih4iu2j 2 місяці тому

    I like being a intervert I just don't like being around extroverts because they talk so much

  • @hesam4270
    @hesam4270 3 місяці тому

    Is it strange that i hate being an extrovert?