It feels good to have someone that shares the same thought patterns. I am a victim of treating pretenders as actual friends. We have passed each other in traveling and i feel i owe you a lot for opening my eyes to travel. I got to where you are now with getting tired and wanting to slow it down. I met my lady in Cali Colombia. Anyway thanks Zoe! Really
I'm from NYC Harlem I moved to Brazil 6 months ago permanently I got jammed up and called 3 different friends for a $100.00 until I got paid the following week I never even got a text back from my so called friends i was hurt for a minute but kept it moving life lessons
Friendship = A mutually beneficial arrangement with another self. Love, Friendship, Loyalty, Respect are all actions in my opinion...... They are Verbs not Adjectives. Great video Fam. Much needed topic
great video Zoe. friends need to have awareness of their roles when they are close to people if they wanna be close to people or not. You don't have to always try to be peoples friend even if you have similar circles or interest there's nothing wrong with associates... and you never know that can change in the future to something better or worse. if youre gonna be someone's friend be mindful and be genuine to them never act carelessly or be lazy in a friendship.
That story U told about the so called friend who would not lend that dude the $100 NEVER was that dude's friend! He just THOUGHT that he was his friend but he was mistaken! After that there is ONLY 2 ways to handle this so called friendship in my opinion: 1. Don't F with him at all ever again! 2. ONLY continue to accept his phone calls or talk to him IF he had any knowledge or connections that I thought would benefit ME! Me personally, I would choose option 1 ! 🤔👍🏾
Once I became an adult, the friend mentally went out the window. I have two or three very very close associates and everyone else are distant associates. A very very close associate would be the person or persons I consider my right and left hand and they would see me as the same, that is not the case for distant associates, they are distant for a reason. I hope this is helpful to some of your followers, remember adults are truly responsible for themselves!!! Facts!
Great topic. I have two types of friends, one's that would lend money and ones who won't. The one's that don't lend, I don't have to worry about them asking for anything 😂. The ones that would lend maybe are not the ones I have a lot in common. This is why I don't call anyone a best friend. There's no such thing as a best friend. Your friends are people who give their time, who will be at your wedding, or who will be at your funeral!
Great topic that causes us to reflect. Honestly, I consider people as associates, close associates, and friends as my main categories. I only have 2 actual friends. To be my friend, we have to have gone through some real shit. For example, one of my friends saved me in my early 20s when I lost my debit card in a strip club. My guy wen the extra mile and didn't bat an eye. To this day, my dude will call me randomly every couple of weeks (we live 500 miles apart) just to shoot the shit. We take mancations as a crew every 2 years just to tear up the town. Good dude right there!
Big facts Zoe It’s sad to say that pretenders can penetrate any social status circle like water they can seep in any crack smh.But, pretenders can only pretend but for so long.We have to be careful because people can give you the representative of who they are but not the real them.I have face this in relationships.
Are friends really associates or colleagues; remember friends are there because you have something or there is somethings beneficial to them in the relationship. Like you said get jammed up, or lose something that is of importance in the relationship see how long they stay around. If you lend someone money don't expect to get the money back. For example, If you lend someone $100, that person will need to have more than the $100 before they start to think about paying you back. Money will ruin a relationship faster than anything else. Don't bring money into a relationship.
No I think your missing the message, this has nothing to do with saving anyone, everyone needs help at some point and time no matter how big or small we all come in need of assistance at some point and that’s the responsibility of a friend if you are considering one. Your thinking big problems that’s a save em situation but little things shouldn’t be a problem if you’re a real friend.
No such thing in today's society if there is anything I have learned is you have to adjust to the times being nice will only leave you in a world of shit im now times your own family will dog you out two things we need now to survive in to days self discipline and self love you have to stay centered on your self and understand you or all you have when you accept that you will unstoppable because your mind will be free and you stop careing what other people do or think the world is not a nice place so you can't be nice either of you will get used up and left with nothing
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This is a good word. We all need to hear or be reminded of this. Thanks, Zoe!
It feels good to have someone that shares the same thought patterns. I am a victim of treating pretenders as actual friends. We have passed each other in traveling and i feel i owe you a lot for opening my eyes to travel. I got to where you are now with getting tired and wanting to slow it down. I met my lady in Cali Colombia. Anyway thanks Zoe! Really
You’re welcome brother and congratulations
Great content, very informative
Glad you enjoyed it
As my late grandmother used to say "MIND WHO YUH CALL FREN"
Respect, family great video your topics be right on point keep them coming💪🏾
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The number 1 thing to being a friend is , how constant are you in there lives and the trust you have built up.
Friends how many of us have them 👍🏽
What about your friends?
Will they stand their ground?
Will they let you down? hey yay
I'm from NYC Harlem I moved to Brazil 6 months ago permanently I got jammed up and called 3 different friends for a $100.00 until I got paid the following week I never even got a text back from my so called friends i was hurt for a minute but kept it moving life lessons
Yo Zoe I have a question which shipping company I can have products ship to me from New York to Brazil
Friendship = A mutually beneficial arrangement with another self.
Love, Friendship, Loyalty, Respect are all actions in my opinion......
They are Verbs not Adjectives. Great video Fam. Much needed topic
Wise words! Loved todays Sermon brotha!
Thank you
Good sermon
Grown man content 💪🏾💪🏾
You never know who your real friends are until you are in need.
Or tested
great video Zoe. friends need to have awareness of their roles when they are close to people if they wanna be close to people or not. You don't have to always try to be peoples friend even if you have similar circles or interest there's nothing wrong with associates... and you never know that can change in the future to something better or worse. if youre gonna be someone's friend be mindful and be genuine to them never act carelessly or be lazy in a friendship.
Good conversation piece bros… especially today! 💯
That story U told about the so called friend who would not lend that dude the $100 NEVER was that dude's friend! He just THOUGHT that he was his friend but he was mistaken! After that there is ONLY 2 ways to handle this so called friendship in my opinion: 1. Don't F with him at all ever again! 2. ONLY continue to accept his phone calls or talk to him IF he had any knowledge or connections that I thought would benefit ME! Me personally, I would choose option 1 ! 🤔👍🏾
Once I became an adult, the friend mentally went out the window. I have two or three very very close associates and everyone else are distant associates. A very very close associate would be the person or persons I consider my right and left hand and they would see me as the same, that is not the case for distant associates, they are distant for a reason. I hope this is helpful to some of your followers, remember adults are truly responsible for themselves!!! Facts!
Hello Zoe 😊🖐 Thanks
great video
Great topic. I have two types of friends, one's that would lend money and ones who won't. The one's that don't lend, I don't have to worry about them asking for anything 😂. The ones that would lend maybe are not the ones I have a lot in common. This is why I don't call anyone a best friend. There's no such thing as a best friend. Your friends are people who give their time, who will be at your wedding, or who will be at your funeral!
Great topic that causes us to reflect. Honestly, I consider people as associates, close associates, and friends as my main categories. I only have 2 actual friends. To be my friend, we have to have gone through some real shit. For example, one of my friends saved me in my early 20s when I lost my debit card in a strip club. My guy wen the extra mile and didn't bat an eye. To this day, my dude will call me randomly every couple of weeks (we live 500 miles apart) just to shoot the shit. We take mancations as a crew every 2 years just to tear up the town. Good dude right there!
Big facts Zoe
It’s sad to say that pretenders can penetrate any social status circle like water they can seep in any crack smh.But, pretenders can only pretend but for so long.We have to be careful because people can give you the representative of who they are but not the real them.I have face this in relationships.
We cant be redpilled on women but blue pilled on friendship
I don’t know about that pill thing I’ve never subscribed to any of that.
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Sound doctrine
Are friends really associates or colleagues; remember friends are there because you have something or there is somethings beneficial to them in the relationship. Like you said get jammed up, or lose something that is of importance in the relationship see how long they stay around. If you lend someone money don't expect to get the money back. For example, If you lend someone $100, that person will need to have more than the $100 before they start to think about paying you back. Money will ruin a relationship faster than anything else. Don't bring money into a relationship.
I have real friends for many years I definitely know the difference it is what it is
I feel you are missing the personal responsibility part. Always think that no one is coming to save you.. You alone is responsible to your own self.
No I think your missing the message, this has nothing to do with saving anyone, everyone needs help at some point and time no matter how big or small we all come in need of assistance at some point and that’s the responsibility of a friend if you are considering one. Your thinking big problems that’s a save em situation but little things shouldn’t be a problem if you’re a real friend.
No such thing in today's society if there is anything I have learned is you have to adjust to the times being nice will only leave you in a world of shit im now times your own family will dog you out two things we need now to survive in to days self discipline and self love you have to stay centered on your self and understand you or all you have when you accept that you will unstoppable because your mind will be free and you stop careing what other people do or think the world is not a nice place so you can't be nice either of you will get used up and left with nothing