'I miss him terribly': Parents of Purdue student killed in dorm open up about son's shocking death

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  • Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
  • The parents of Varun Manish Chheda, a Purdue student allegedly killed by his roommate, opened up about his shocking death. abc7.ws/3ghluZZ

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  • @angelp4724
    @angelp4724 11 місяців тому +619

    Rest in peace, the mum looks devastated and totally drained, poor parents

    • @ArranVid
      @ArranVid 11 місяців тому +19

      Most parents would be devastated and totally drained after the premature loss of their child, my parents too.

    • @shantanushekharsjunerft9783
      @shantanushekharsjunerft9783 11 місяців тому +1

      I have a 3 year old. The way he kisses his mom’s nose and her cheeks, he doesn’t do that to anyone. He comes to me when he wants to get out of the house and go playing. I love my mother and I see him doing the same. I cannot begin to imagine this poor lady’s grief.

  • @JenShea
    @JenShea 11 місяців тому +354

    How senseless. Even the police officer looked upset… my heart goes out to his parents. What a terrible loss.

  • @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea
    @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea 11 місяців тому +284

    That poor mother is barely holding on.

    • @fredwerza3478
      @fredwerza3478 11 місяців тому +16

      I honestly don't know how long the mother will last --- she looks as though life has no meaning for her anymore 😢

  • @binghamguevara6814
    @binghamguevara6814 11 місяців тому +138

    Beautiful parents. Beautiful son. I hope they find peace.

  • @komalnegicuj2284
    @komalnegicuj2284 Рік тому +340

    No parent should go through this.....may almighty give them strength to bear this loss...😢

  • @RSRJ15
    @RSRJ15 11 місяців тому +149

    This is just so tragic. The kid did nothing to his roommate. Such a loving family and now mom and dad are left devastated 😢

  • @footballartisan8990
    @footballartisan8990 11 місяців тому +81

    When you work unimaginably hard your whole life for your kids and want them to get everything and then this happens💔

  • @sadbwoy97
    @sadbwoy97 11 місяців тому +53

    Man I’m crying so hard rn because I’ve had some pretty bad roommates. This could’ve happen to any of us college dorm students. This is so sad man.

    • @allofscrubs
      @allofscrubs 11 місяців тому

      why u crying

    • @srikrishnak196
      @srikrishnak196 11 місяців тому +3

      Hi . You deserve a hug 🫂. Stay strong, 🥰

  • @ramonafiordalizanunez3479
    @ramonafiordalizanunez3479 11 місяців тому +106

    I am Truly sorry for your loss ..this is sick .u sent your kids to college just for someone to take your baby 😢

  • @seasonwalk5776
    @seasonwalk5776 11 місяців тому +48

    So young. Very breaking. It's terrible what the parents are going through. It's so sad. May Varun's soul rest in peace.

  • @chicagolowe
    @chicagolowe 2 роки тому +140

    I'm truly sorry for your loss.

  • @chicagolowe
    @chicagolowe 2 роки тому +162

    My heart aches for these parents. I don't understand the the anger that young people have today. life is so precious and actions before reasonable conversation and peace is just thrown out the window. I don't know if saying no, or sharing space with strangers or with people who aren't socially conscious or of different beliefs are necessarily a good thing anymore. Why can't we live in unity and love in this world? No one deserves to die in college in his own room. what's wrong with people today. Evilness and lack of respect for each other is rampant in 2022.

    • @ChaplinLoli
      @ChaplinLoli 11 місяців тому +1

      Recently I watched a different story in Chine where one dorm roommate poisoned another roommate out of jealousy, both were Chinese. Same culture. So it is not about different beliefs.

  • @lokket9995
    @lokket9995 11 місяців тому +103

    There is immense hate and aggression towards Indians, the last time I had to confront a racist they used a variety of expletives, mocked my accent and the colour of my skin. Thou racism has never bothered me but the lack of a reason for all the hate displayed by most Americans, Europeans and south east Asians has always made me sad.

    • @peezhead
      @peezhead 11 місяців тому +12

      We don't know if it had something to do with race though.

    • @Maya-sv1pz
      @Maya-sv1pz 11 місяців тому +1

      dude are you serious. it's America, people hates east asian alot more than anything else. Indians in fact are one of the most preferred ones there. plus in this case the roommate does look like a racist.

    • @pulithevar8135
      @pulithevar8135 11 місяців тому +42

      ​@@peezheadYou must be living in a mud house then.

    • @peezhead
      @peezhead 11 місяців тому +12

      @@pulithevar8135 I'm just not gonna really assume this incident has anything to do with race.

    • @gazthejaz8910
      @gazthejaz8910 11 місяців тому

      Completely agree, people who hate on a certain group of people based on skin color or background are seriously lacking in morals and are ill in the head

  • @GrowingGoodHair
    @GrowingGoodHair Рік тому +253

    That poor Mama is just existing now😢

  • @biswajithota2524
    @biswajithota2524 Рік тому +57

    I very much feel the pain as i have an adult son whom we love very much. Nothing like this should happen to any child.

  • @jessicadeshpande7988
    @jessicadeshpande7988 Рік тому +71

    This is atrocious. My heart goes out to the parents for what they are goimg through

  • @jennybridge5089
    @jennybridge5089 Рік тому +64

    So heartbreaking educated boy like tht cnt imagine wht this parents going thru r.i.p

    • @user-nn5qw5mu4m
      @user-nn5qw5mu4m 11 місяців тому +10

      Educated or not every life is valuable.

    • @learnitnow6265
      @learnitnow6265 11 місяців тому +9

      Agree. My thoughts exactly. These parents gave all they could to raise a fine young man all these years only for it all to be taken away so senselessly.

  • @roseannaallen2440
    @roseannaallen2440 11 місяців тому +15

    A parent’s worst nightmare. My heart goes out to these grieving parents. May God give you strength to cope with the loss of your precious son. Something like this, shouldn’t have never have happened. May Varum’s soul rest in peace.😢

  • @Noneofyourbizniz1
    @Noneofyourbizniz1 11 місяців тому +46

    It’s scary putting your child in a college room with a complete stranger they don’t know. Smh.

  • @Zeepjeliefs
    @Zeepjeliefs 11 місяців тому +16

    I wish the parents healing. Nobody deserves to go through this. So heartbreaking. They look like so sweet people😢

  • @fredwerza3478
    @fredwerza3478 2 роки тому +218

    I honestly believe every dorm room in America by 2050 will be singles. I went to college in the 80's and that was when people still talked to each other instead of looking at screens all day. We've seemed to lose the ability to communicate with each other, face to face as humans. The murderer in this case was just another of the younger generation who is totally disconnected from reality and only interfaced with a screen since birth. He has no concept of life and death, consequences of his actions, and the lasting pain he incurred with his horrible decision. How are we going to repair this broken culture we have created with this digital infrastructure that has taken over our world? Think carefully about that.

    • @learnitnow6265
      @learnitnow6265 11 місяців тому +16

      Excellent point. 100% correct. People have become more lacking in sensibilities, compassion and empathy. The guy was stoned faced as they led him out. He knows what he did, but he's without emotion and remorse. There's clearly issues that if not dealt with he could harm someone else again.

    • @ManiyaVinas
      @ManiyaVinas 11 місяців тому +8

      Meanwgike forgetting the serial killers and how such communities were a breeding ground for them

    • @AJ-rm7yy
      @AJ-rm7yy 11 місяців тому

      @@learnitnow6265 It's heartbreaking to hear about this tragedy. My thoughts are with the deceased and their loved ones during this difficult time. While I don't have all the details, it's important to remember that every situation is unique and complex. I came across news that the the person alleged with the crime has been deemed incompetent to stand trial due to mental health issues; he suffered from schizophrenia and his medical history showed that he had been prescribed antipsychotic medication as early as 2012.

    • @1RNik
      @1RNik 11 місяців тому +7

      At the very least the individual rooms need to have doors with locks. The killer had a history of mental health issues and should not have ben put in that dorm

    • @Fleshlight_Reviewer
      @Fleshlight_Reviewer 11 місяців тому +1

      It's the downfall of the regular family structure. The one world government wants this though

  • @nimeshpatel6006
    @nimeshpatel6006 2 роки тому +47

    This is so heart breaking. I wonder if universities do background checks on students when they live in a dormitory?

  • @queentemitayo
    @queentemitayo Рік тому +38

    This is an unthinkable tragedy. Praying for the family.

  • @dlee3938
    @dlee3938 11 місяців тому +13

    She’s heartbroken the way she touched her chest and broke down.

  • @srivenkat3142
    @srivenkat3142 11 місяців тому +4

    I just cannot image their loss, my heart goes out to them, beautiful family, May he rest in peace 🙏

  • @qwenqwen1476
    @qwenqwen1476 11 місяців тому +15

    Mam, I’m so very sorry for your loss.

  • @CarmelFan2024
    @CarmelFan2024 11 місяців тому +4

    Utterly heartbreaking. Sending you love and prayers.

  • @MozBizResources
    @MozBizResources 11 місяців тому +24

    May his soul rest in peace. 🙏

  • @rosalindwoo3206
    @rosalindwoo3206 2 роки тому +21

    It is really very sad for the loss of a son I will pray for him to Rest In Peace and May God ease your pain in loosing your son just like that.

  • @5050sotf
    @5050sotf 11 місяців тому +2

    As a mother I can't imagine my life without my son....... No parent should go through this.

  • @Oblivionm24
    @Oblivionm24 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you to the parents for opening up. Their grief is palpable.

  • @mbkumar5742
    @mbkumar5742 Рік тому +17

    Literally crying 😢

  • @xr2863
    @xr2863 Рік тому +165

    That roommate looks evil!!

    • @RollerBladingSuxs
      @RollerBladingSuxs 11 місяців тому +21

      Is he making South Korea proud or not?

    • @jairar2587
      @jairar2587 11 місяців тому +9

      @@RollerBladingSuxsyou sure he wasn’t North Korean ?

    • @Kierispet159
      @Kierispet159 11 місяців тому +6

      I never understood this kind of comment.
      How can you tell someone is "evil" ?
      So much for "not judging a book by its cover".

    • @vkapoor69
      @vkapoor69 11 місяців тому +27

      @@Kierispet159 Its called instinct based on body language. Even wild animals have the sense to tell difference between prey and predator. In this case its his eyes as he turns the corner. He is scanning the environment with his head held high instead of looking down in shame and regret. One needs to process all available information including the cover to judge. The best of us can make the correct judgements from the smallest cues. Somebody from South Korea would be a better judge of body language of South Koreans.

    • @fredwerza3478
      @fredwerza3478 11 місяців тому +1

      He has the kind of evil that Kim Jong breeds in his flock of drones --- not even human, but killing machines that will take on the West

  • @msgarima7273
    @msgarima7273 11 місяців тому +9

    Dont even have words Waheguru Ji Mehar karen 🙏

  • @VJAqui
    @VJAqui 11 місяців тому +19

    It's sad that adults are put into rooms with roommates they don't want to be in the same room with. I remember my years on campus fifty years ago. I had to pray my way thru it and so I was at peace to study my Science subjects. In these modern days rooms on campus should be all single rooms.

    • @susansmith493
      @susansmith493 11 місяців тому +1

      You can always choose to live alone off campus too.

    • @VJAqui
      @VJAqui 11 місяців тому

      @@susansmith493 if you have a car

    • @amaiaamaiaa
      @amaiaamaiaa 11 місяців тому +1

      @@susansmith493many universities require students to live in on campus dorms for at least the first year, sometime the first two

  • @legoshimadsen
    @legoshimadsen 2 роки тому +30

    Humans are just beasts in human skin

    • @manchuratt8900
      @manchuratt8900 Рік тому +9

      Humans are beasts. We are literally animals. People always tend to forget that fact.

    • @captainobvious6070
      @captainobvious6070 Рік тому +3

      ​@manchuratt8900 speak for yourselves and patriarchs. Most of us are good people with emotional INTELLIGENCE caught in a patriarchal psychopathic society that does not improve because it needs radical feminists for a radical shift.

    • @motivation_wastaken1046
      @motivation_wastaken1046 11 місяців тому +4

      It is the problem of sin which no one wants to accept, that we have gone away from the God who created us. Please read the Bible you will get your answers

  • @leena1797
    @leena1797 11 місяців тому +14

    It's sad. Hope the murder gets punished.

  • @zds3483
    @zds3483 Рік тому +11

    Pray that his dearly departed soul Rests in Peace & Tranquility. My sincere heartfelt condolences to his dear distraught parents. We send our children for their better future & it's so unfortunate that dey are killed for their own selfish motives.

  • @akhilat
    @akhilat 11 місяців тому +6

    This is heart renching.

  • @detoxlady6777
    @detoxlady6777 11 місяців тому +4

    Love for Varun and his family. My condolences. Rest in peace Varun.

  • @brooklynusa670
    @brooklynusa670 11 місяців тому +4

    I work with a Korean guy he is prone to violent outbursts with a scary seriouness . 'Cant imagine living with his type very scary poor Varun, he was probably so gentle & kind. My condolences to the family

    • @sara.cbc92
      @sara.cbc92 11 місяців тому +1

      Same here. I would never work with a Korean again

  • @tropicvibe
    @tropicvibe 11 місяців тому +14

    I can't even imagine this kid's last moments of terror being killed while playing games on his computer, the furthest thing on his mind in the safety of his dorm, omg. RIP and my deepest condolences to the family.

  • @TheSFCjaymo
    @TheSFCjaymo 2 роки тому +18

    THIS HURTS!!! I DO NOT GET IT!!!! 😢 😡

  • @chetanshukla768
    @chetanshukla768 11 місяців тому +22

    South Koreans have always been extremely vocal about disliking Indians but what happened with this boy is unpardonable and unimaginable. May his soul RIP.

    • @streetclick
      @streetclick 11 місяців тому

      😂

    • @airplanedude3103
      @airplanedude3103 11 місяців тому

      Botox race hating others, how ironic

    • @peezhead
      @peezhead 11 місяців тому +3

      We don't know if it had something to do with race or ethnicity.

    • @pulithevar8135
      @pulithevar8135 11 місяців тому +5

      ​@@streetclickYou should be featured in Logan Pauls next forest video. Lul.

  • @vishnuprasad2312
    @vishnuprasad2312 11 місяців тому +4

    Why tf would you ask her what she misses the most.that was a dumb quesiton

  • @pstuddy
    @pstuddy 11 місяців тому +18

    this why they need to change this setup of having roommates because everyone are strangers. need to have rooms individually

    • @fredwerza3478
      @fredwerza3478 11 місяців тому +1

      I really do think all colleges will have single rooms by 2040 --- the experiment of putting strangers into doubles has run it's course --- kids today just want to have their privacy and peace while they study and sleep

  • @Dreamcatcher108
    @Dreamcatcher108 11 місяців тому

    Very very sad. I hope no one goes through this ever.

  • @benkeel2966
    @benkeel2966 11 місяців тому +1

    Im soooooo sorry for these parents.
    Im so sorry😢❤🌹
    Im so sorry

  • @Aggie98bqn
    @Aggie98bqn 11 місяців тому +2

    So sad. Prayers 🙏🏼

  • @arvindsamant2642
    @arvindsamant2642 11 місяців тому +1

    My thoughts and prayers are with friends and family.

  • @amyli6401
    @amyli6401 2 роки тому +10

    It sounds suspicious while never heard anything from his son's roommate.

  • @sheetalkhatri8106
    @sheetalkhatri8106 11 місяців тому +1

    Prayers and strength to the family

  • @pallavisharma1649
    @pallavisharma1649 11 місяців тому +24

    Atleast some news channel started to take notice of these tragic loss of precious lives. Condolences to parents.

  • @pambudwal3667
    @pambudwal3667 11 місяців тому +1

    So sad heartbreaking 💔 🥲my heart goes out for the family

  • @Censina24
    @Censina24 11 місяців тому +1

    May he RIP my deep condolences to his parents and families😢😢😢

  • @s1228t
    @s1228t 11 місяців тому +1

    Very tragic 😢 God bless his soul and may his parents find peace

  • @beatpirate8
    @beatpirate8 11 місяців тому

    im so sorry. my heart aches for these parents of a lovely young man.

  • @cristinaaristizabal9882
    @cristinaaristizabal9882 11 місяців тому +3

    That poor mother😢😢😢😢😢

  • @billiestevens318
    @billiestevens318 11 місяців тому

    So sorry for your loss. It’s a beautiful town and a beautiful campus the last place I will picture something like this happening.

  • @sharmilajagdeo5330
    @sharmilajagdeo5330 11 місяців тому +2

    Parents send their kids away for better education and then someone took his life so sad I feel for the parents.
    Rest in peace son, brother.

  • @allisonhudgins2379
    @allisonhudgins2379 Рік тому +4

    Prayers for the family

  • @piecefool567
    @piecefool567 11 місяців тому +1

    My heart goes out for his parents. Nothing much to say 💔😔

  • @malik_tdot
    @malik_tdot 11 місяців тому

    Thoughts and prayers for him.. can’t imagine the pain the parents are going through 💔

  • @seenathomas6755
    @seenathomas6755 11 місяців тому +4

    Good God comfort them 😢 🙏

  • @kaioiamo1503
    @kaioiamo1503 11 місяців тому +2

    So very sorry for your loss.

  • @tanvitayal6300
    @tanvitayal6300 11 місяців тому

    No words cn express the grief

  • @LovingCandyXOxo
    @LovingCandyXOxo 11 місяців тому +3

    I used to work at uni and my coworker said dorms r more dangerous than we think cuz there is no background checks on ppl

  • @peace1170
    @peace1170 11 місяців тому +2

    Rest in peace!!
    Awful. 😢
    Prayers

  • @avivacohen8785
    @avivacohen8785 11 місяців тому +2

    So tragic
    My heart goes out ti the family. May GOD comfort you

  • @pankajbisht150
    @pankajbisht150 11 місяців тому +1

    Rip varun...God help those parents to which they r going through

  • @aishrk7803
    @aishrk7803 11 місяців тому +1

    Om Shanthi 🙏 May his parents find peace and strength in this time!

  • @coolbreeze2213
    @coolbreeze2213 11 місяців тому

    What a senseless act! Devastated parents! My heart goes out.

  • @miriamperera3456
    @miriamperera3456 Рік тому +6

    soo very sad Mum.

  • @GhostofMrsMuir1443
    @GhostofMrsMuir1443 11 місяців тому

    RIP. Mom, Dad, condolences to you. You don’t get over this loss ever but allow yourself to smile, enjoy live when you can.

  • @AET1689
    @AET1689 11 місяців тому +4

    To ask if there was any sense if there were trouble w the roommate- like nothing justifies someone being stabbed over a game !! A video game that can be reset and started all over ! The senselessness is appalling! RIP

  • @EdutainmentSeeker
    @EdutainmentSeeker 11 місяців тому +2

    Parents are ENTIRELY hollowed out in every conceivable way. There is no getting better from this, ever. There is no ‘time heals all wounds’ here. This will never ever heal.

  • @musfirahraees52
    @musfirahraees52 11 місяців тому +3

    "because he was my son, because he was my friend" :((

  • @Maya-sv1pz
    @Maya-sv1pz 11 місяців тому +10

    what's the motive??? what is wrong with that korean guy???!!

  • @Here4TheHeckOfIt
    @Here4TheHeckOfIt 11 місяців тому +1

    There is an unbelievable amount of people who absolutely have no respect for life. What is the perp's reason for doing this?

  • @joelc9439
    @joelc9439 Рік тому +3

    My Condolences to you!

  • @mytravls
    @mytravls Рік тому +20

    2 more Purdue students are dead this year. Both Indians.

    • @celestialknight2339
      @celestialknight2339 11 місяців тому +1

      Wow, how?

    • @savioblanc
      @savioblanc 11 місяців тому

      Not 2 more.
      Just 2 in 2 years.
      This case was a clear case of murder.
      The other involved an Indian student who went missing and then was found dead on the university campus, with no signs showing any foul play.
      That's still being investigated.

  • @dr.saharfatima9826
    @dr.saharfatima9826 11 місяців тому

    So true this room sharing in university residence is insane.

  • @dialac1
    @dialac1 11 місяців тому

    Damn. I hope God gives them the strength to live with this.

  • @CraigMacAlister
    @CraigMacAlister 11 місяців тому +2

    I have suffered the loss of loved ones. I understand your pain. May God grant you Peace.

  • @smungek
    @smungek 11 місяців тому +2

    The report should have told us why the S. Korean boy attacked him.

  • @utubevind
    @utubevind 11 місяців тому

    Rest in peace. Such a tragic loss. What is wrong in this world? Feels like No place is safe

  • @dj_bae
    @dj_bae 11 місяців тому

    God I can’t even imagine going through this as a mother. Horrific.

  • @claire2470
    @claire2470 11 місяців тому

    Healing prayers for the parents...

  • @anujasingh7178
    @anujasingh7178 11 місяців тому +1

    I hope the killer is punished and varun gets justice.. Prayers to God so the parents could find peace in their lives

  • @lmb4876
    @lmb4876 11 місяців тому

    I am so sorry for your loss

  • @neeluraina1474
    @neeluraina1474 11 місяців тому

    no words are enough 🙏

  • @annasaru
    @annasaru 11 місяців тому

    Very sad for parents for life to go through this.

  • @PraveenSrJ01
    @PraveenSrJ01 Рік тому +33

    I’m also Indian and I hope the roommate who did this in in prison.

    • @PuroSubs
      @PuroSubs 11 місяців тому +1

      So if he was not Indian, you would not hope that the roommate who did this was in prison?

    • @PraveenSrJ01
      @PraveenSrJ01 11 місяців тому +1

      @@PuroSubs that isn’t true at all. Please don’t extrapolate

    • @PuroSubs
      @PuroSubs 11 місяців тому

      @@PraveenSrJ01 So why even bring up that you're Indian?

    • @vkapoor69
      @vkapoor69 11 місяців тому

      What does that have to do with you being Indian? Seems irrelevant.

    • @PraveenSrJ01
      @PraveenSrJ01 11 місяців тому

      @@vkapoor69 I tend to sometimes get a little off the main topic so I apologize for that

  • @azpersonal
    @azpersonal 11 місяців тому

    What kind of madness is all this? Why do this if not for jealousy? The pain on the mum, omg, this is so unfair

  • @anilagarwal7575
    @anilagarwal7575 Рік тому +3

    I feel very sad.

  • @Corythehausbaus
    @Corythehausbaus 10 місяців тому

    The kid looks bright and have a great aura , so sad

  • @Fernandez218
    @Fernandez218 11 місяців тому

    this was my worst fear at that age. that's why i commuted to school and lived at home with my parents.

  • @danielleamar5631
    @danielleamar5631 11 місяців тому

    Senseless murder .God bless you both.may you have the strength and courage,to mourn ,your beautiful son.❤

  • @moubhattacharyya1141
    @moubhattacharyya1141 Рік тому +5

    What happened to the killer? Did the parents have a closure?

  • @drshankey8043
    @drshankey8043 11 місяців тому

    Tragic...
    Parents are absolutely drained.