Dave just keep this one in the archive 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 This nigga fucked up ... He a motivational teacher teaching people how to Exceed, Excell, & Overcome. Whole time his wife is the test subject. I am done ... I am over this Hot Seat!
This interview was top tier, you stayed right in him even predicting his style of “just talking just to talk” he falls right into doing what you tried to save him from doing!
Bingo and that's how he gets his side chicks. It's worked for him, he surrounds himself with an audience which thinks he is smart and doesn't challenge him.
I had an ex like this. I imagine he partially overwhelmed them with word salad but he never actually thought things through. He was constantly trying to prove he was smarter than me because his ego wouldn’t let him not be the smartest person in the room.
CPR-Commitment, Perseverance and Resiliency. He is not even committed to his marriage. He could not persevere past 21 days with his blue heart. He is not resilient enough to invest in his craft to actually put in the work to become an expert at his motivational speaking craft. David did a phenomenal job providing guidance and challenging him to figure out what he was trying to communicate. That young man needs to revisit what his passion really is and how he can execute. Wish him well!
He’s still coming out on the better end.. his wife stayed, she’s accepting his outside baby, he has a home and a job. SHE IS the one suffering… not him.
Imagine him as a lifetime partner, oh don't worry we give the 22 blue hearts 😂 . That's literally I'm manipulation in the mind frame of saying it's okay if I do this as long as I can because she's going to stay. But you forget we are all humans and we all break down and we have hearts and minds and souls their combined they feel every emotion that comes that way. Adversity is not him dealing with his consequences of his own actions. Adversity is showing him that he needs to be a better person especially a husband that leads when a family that he has especially the young boys that would look up to him of his sons. Is a narcissism way the manipulates the people around him. A side chick give you so much crap because you're not together y'all just messing around. The minute you marry even a side chick it going to feel the same as when you was married to your wife . Because now you have the same responsibilities the same way I'm living in the same way of coexisting with this person. This generation of man has felt many other generations of man.
@@therrychristophe828it doesn't 😂 no excuses. The universe works in mysterious ways, one of them applies to our actions. You can't overcome adversity at all until the universe and God says so. Karma do exist. Narcissist always think they're in the right and that's where they fall completely short at. Narcissist always prompt each other up also.
Nah they’d sound a lot more coherent but still not knowing what they’re saying. I think he knows what he’s saying but he doesn’t know much. Teenagers can grow and learn to know more. This guy is in Gods hands at this point. Receiving the Grace is actually harder than learning as a teen. 👀
You know when women complain about carrying the emotional weight in a relationship... this is a prime example of that. No, she didn't notice 21 blue hearts because it is insignificant in relation to the gravity of the emotional turmoil that you put her through. He really thought he did something there.
OMG THANK U !!!!!!! i was going to touch on that lil comment he made about her..she doesnt care about those damn hearts shes dealing with something sooo much more deeper and hes the issue...i hope his wife leaves that she finally figures out he is a POS and bounces
@@Vee_Davis-wb9wd naw she’s a decade in. Unfortunately, men like him intentionally select women whom they know they can manipulate. Word salads, cheap gifts, trips and love bombing will keep her fulfilled.
Honestly just listening to him talk tells me that he is NOT with an intelligent woman. Not to knock her but no intelligent woman can deal with a man like this even if he hadn’t cheated. How can you have an intelligent conversation with him.
I have never experienced so much secondhand embarrassment from watching a podcast as I am right now. It's literally making me cringe. Idk how I'm going to finish this. My anxiety is off the charts 😂
His wife is the one who needs to tell her story and speak- from what I gathered from this is she is a ride or (literally) die, birthed 2 of his kids, he cheats on her, had another kid outside of marriage and now decides he is one facing “adversity”. Sorry sir but she sounds like the real hero of this story-- her adversity was forgiveness, commitment, overcoming all of this “nonsense” and still finding a way to move forward as a wife and partner. She a real one! Bring her on- we need the followup and other side of this!
This guest is acting like he's sending his wife flowers every day. What is your plan. Thoughts become words, words become action, actions build Character. What is your plan dude. Omg 🤨🙄
The fact that he thinks the sweetest job is doing nothing, told me everything I needed to know about his character. If I'm doing nothing at work, regardless of pay, I don't feel accomplished or motivated. You can't be a motivational speaker if you're not motivated in your life.
Not that this applies to this fool, but those jobs are gold if you’re trying to make big changes. I had a wfh job like this and I was able to take classes and freelance at the same time.
@@kaileymoyes agreed. roles that allow you the space to focus on your true passion/purpose whatever that may be. or in other cases discover what you’d like to do. but that does not apply to this young man.
I think what he meant was what he did IN the marriage was the adversity and not the marriage itself. If its the marriage he's talking about then that's crazy😂😂
His poor wife! She married this weak man, he valued her ability to support his continuous bad decisions. Im so sad for her believing that he is worthy of her womb. This man is immature, she stayed to support him almost get shot and not only does he cheat on her, he has a baby on her. Babygirl RUN!!! She deserves better man
At 4:30, this is what happens when a young man reads someone else's book, gets an idea to share what he learned, but then tries to present it as his own knowledge or as if he is an expert. The reason he is having a problem explaining it is because he is not the original creator of the content.
I think he was being very kind by assuming this guy actually had any type of business plan in good faith; even though it was clear after a couple minutes that he was improvising the whole thing.
Wow....this was BRUTAL! He truly needs to work on his craft, if this is what he is pursuing! The talking in circles, inability to answer basic questions, unlearned, throwing out words with no substance! I wish him the Best! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@melt.3568 After the first two minutes the shock was overwhelming. At four minutes in… I had to get me a bottle and a glass because there was no way I was finishing that interview unbuzzed. 😅😂
I’m 6 minutes in and he can’t explain his methods… this is horrible. “I don’t want to go into a whole ramble about it.” Exactly. He’s rambling. He claims to be a motivational speaker and is rambling. He can’t explain his EEO method but just says “survive it”. His adversity was surviving this interview. He needs to continue his JOB at the post office.
If him sending an extra blue heart in a text message is supposed to be an example of “exceeding and excelling” in marriage the bar is officially below Hell.
It must be a nightmare arguing with this dude. I got a feeling this quiet humility is reserved for other men, not his wife/romantic partners. And patting himself on the back for a failed emoji challenge vs deliberate & consistent efforts to understand and improve himself (therapy, mentorship etc) is insane.
he wasn't listening. That's the type to look like they are being respectful and listening to the other person speak, but they only hear what they want, and give you some long winded response that has little to nothing to do, or add to what the other person asks or says.
Im glad this man humbled him and told him the truth instead of catering to his ego just because he's a man. Bro code needs to be thrown in the trash to make these men better ppl.
This young man could use a year of silence. At least a year of no speaking, unless he's asking clarifying questions. Just be quiet, focus on his family, go to work and study. He needed this cringy moment, and I hope he heeds the wisdom he received here. May he and his family heal, evolve, and live in Divine Alignment and Purpose✨️🙏🏾✨️
This was so disappointing, he doesn’t even know what he’s talking about. You don’t have to front having a strong amount of intellect, because then you come off as small minded around a bunch of people who are actually intelligent, he embarrassed the hell out of himself the entire interview.
Nothing unique about his story. He cheats, his wife takes him back and now he thinks he can teach people how to overcome, excel and exceed? To succeed as a speaker he needs a better story and a better way to convey the message.
Shands is passionate about helping entrepreneurs excel because the fact that he could sit there and engage with a complete narcissist shows me he cares for real lol
Did anyone else catch this? When he was talking about commitment, it struck me that he didn’t really share how he’s proving his commitment to his wife after his infidelity. Instead, the focus was all on how dedicated she is to him by her staying in the car while he put her in danger. It made me wonder if anyone else felt that was a bit one-sided? Like he told the story of their entire 7 years of marriage in that one flashback.
I feel like those acronyms are created by him from a desire of his to develop his own character, he just need to use them for himself until he really embodies them…
The fact that he thought they were going to connect on the difficulty of marriage but this man LIED to him and his “adversity” is infidelity……. BIG DIFFERENCE
This interview completely gave me confirmation that without having a mentor to lean on or ask questions that I am on the right path with my ideas, plans, and goals. Thanks Dave! 💪🏾✌🏾
This reminds me of the old American Idol auditions when people got on there claiming they could sing, but couldn’t carry a tune a we wondered who lied…but we were entertained by it. Most of these hotseat guests have similar behaviors, demeanors, and lack of ability to articulate a clear path to their goals.
I think I finally get it… he just loves saying the words’ my wife ‘… no shade. But It’s not about the actual marriage and what any of it means . But, the Man just loves saying my wife. It gives him validation somehow. Ditto👌🏾
I was wondering how looking at someone ends in gun shots…. Why didn’t someone just look away? He put every woman in his presence in danger over what? He is not smart with a huge ego.
I was scrambling all over the place to find the full video. 😂😂😂 most “motivational speaker” personality men are just like this, full of sht. Talking in circles the whole interview is crazy.
Absolutely no one. He keeps using circular references to describe the words he says. He’s used to talking, not having to actually KNOW anything. I da hear his mouth getting dry. Lol😂
This was cringy, I’m flushed with second-hand embarrassment. The young man was clearly out of his depth. Not only could he not articulate HIS idea, he looked genuinely lost, confused and bewildered as Mr Shands patiently dropped those pearls of wisdom.
SAME! I’ve never seen a host hold someone’s feet so intensely to the fire. Then on top of that, give the person unsolicited advice, guidance and understanding when it’s so desperately needed.
Why did you used to lie so much? I know two people who are pathological liars but I don’t know if they can or will ever grow out of it…. But I’d love to know why the people who do it do it…
The diverting of answers. No answer was directly answered to the questions… Seems like he has a lot of stories that need refining and he needs a speaking coach. This was painful to watch because many business owners who are just starting are like this. I commend him for getting in the Hot Seat.
Yall remember in living color, damon wayans played the incarcerated brother who was trying to talk knowledge from behind bars but he wasn't making any sense? That's who I think of when I listen to this man overcome adversity
So wait a minute she was placed in a life threatening situation and he cheats on her? That's how you reward her for being committed to you? Wow, I almost gave this man props for being courageous by admitting his infidelity for the world to see but he has major flaws. Honestly, and I'm sorry if this comes off as rude, but his wife has little to no self respect. Their marriage can only last if they heal themselves individually because they were just 2 broken people who ended up together because they were never whole when they were single.
This man does NOT give a fuck about his marriage. Men who preach being “whole” gotta look whole. That marriage is for the look so he can keep scamming. The way you do anything is his you do everything. Look at this interview. 😂 he scamming her too.
He brought up the MARRIAGE as the adversity and had to switch tactics when he let slip that he cheated on her. I really don’t think it was his intention to reveal that. He was gearing up to complain about his wife.
i can say this with all my heart....i would have walked out on him after he 1 told me he cheated and 2 brought back a child from his affair partner...nawww my adversity i would have to over come is me not taking something and ramming it in to a body part....he would have to gtfo of my face
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I just wish I could understand their English better
@@Mickah-67what do you mean?
Dave just keep this one in the archive 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂
This nigga fucked up ... He a motivational teacher teaching people how to Exceed, Excell, & Overcome. Whole time his wife is the test subject. I am done ... I am over this Hot Seat!
The way Kev just blew this up on tiktok 😂😂 thank you for the content
This interview was top tier, you stayed right in him even predicting his style of “just talking just to talk” he falls right into doing what you tried to save him from doing!
He is used to talking in circles. Most cheaters are.
Wow.. Interesting observation
Bingo and that's how he gets his side chicks. It's worked for him, he surrounds himself with an audience which thinks he is smart and doesn't challenge him.
Indeed, a bullshitter
NOTED! Thank you!
He couldn’t even answer questions about his own business. 😫
He dropped this blue heart tactic like it was a great thing lol
😂
It was clear: It was not an attempt to CONNECT, it was a TACTIC to ... deceive? Damn.
He should have chosen a different color 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Home Boy thought he did something with those text lol
@@Dud512but Crips wear blue…Crip walking was famous.. hence make the heart the color Crips rep! That’ll resonate with everyone. Duh!
GENIUS!
🔵💙🚩
It was the “oh” for me, like he made such a profound discovery LOL
He’s probably the smartest person in his social circle
Yeeeeeooooooooo! And i know a dude like this but we are NOT on the same level he be on some ninja ish for real but act like he wise😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They always are. 😟
Honestly though 😂 needs new circles for SURE
I had an ex like this. I imagine he partially overwhelmed them with word salad but he never actually thought things through. He was constantly trying to prove he was smarter than me because his ego wouldn’t let him not be the smartest person in the room.
Or he just believes that he is
CPR-Commitment, Perseverance and Resiliency. He is not even committed to his marriage. He could not persevere past 21 days with his blue heart. He is not resilient enough to invest in his craft to actually put in the work to become an expert at his motivational speaking craft.
David did a phenomenal job providing guidance and challenging him to figure out what he was trying to communicate.
That young man needs to revisit what his passion really is and how he can execute. Wish him well!
Well said!
Ate with this comment
😂😂😂😂
He’s not overcoming “adversity”, he’s dealing with the consequences of his own actions
Nobody said your own actions couldnt count as adversity you created for yourself😂😂😂
He’s still coming out on the better end.. his wife stayed, she’s accepting his outside baby, he has a home and a job. SHE IS the one suffering… not him.
Imagine him as a lifetime partner, oh don't worry we give the 22 blue hearts 😂 . That's literally I'm manipulation in the mind frame of saying it's okay if I do this as long as I can because she's going to stay. But you forget we are all humans and we all break down and we have hearts and minds and souls their combined they feel every emotion that comes that way.
Adversity is not him dealing with his consequences of his own actions.
Adversity is showing him that he needs to be a better person especially a husband that leads when a family that he has especially the young boys that would look up to him of his sons.
Is a narcissism way the manipulates the people around him.
A side chick give you so much crap because you're not together y'all just messing around.
The minute you marry even a side chick it going to feel the same as when you was married to your wife .
Because now you have the same responsibilities the same way I'm living in the same way of coexisting with this person.
This generation of man has felt many other generations of man.
@@therrychristophe828it doesn't 😂 no excuses. The universe works in mysterious ways, one of them applies to our actions.
You can't overcome adversity at all until the universe and God says so. Karma do exist.
Narcissist always think they're in the right and that's where they fall completely short at. Narcissist always prompt each other up also.
This is what it's like talking to teens who think they have everything figured out but really don't.
Precisely why i wont have kids! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly! He doesn't know words.
Nah they’d sound a lot more coherent but still not knowing what they’re saying. I think he knows what he’s saying but he doesn’t know much.
Teenagers can grow and learn to know more. This guy is in Gods hands at this point. Receiving the Grace is actually harder than learning as a teen. 👀
Arrested development.
I came over from TikTok 🤣😂 It’s his wife that needs to be the motivational speaker.
😂😂😂
Not sure if the wife is motivational or a fool cause I don't know...the line between commitment and enabling is very faint in this scenario
Same 😂😂😂 Context made it sooo much worse 😂
Whew lawd another Jackson situation she would be a coach for 5k
Now I got to go to tik tok 😂
You know when women complain about carrying the emotional weight in a relationship... this is a prime example of that. No, she didn't notice 21 blue hearts because it is insignificant in relation to the gravity of the emotional turmoil that you put her through. He really thought he did something there.
OMG THANK U !!!!!!! i was going to touch on that lil comment he made about her..she doesnt care about those damn hearts shes dealing with something sooo much more deeper and hes the issue...i hope his wife leaves that she finally figures out he is a POS and bounces
It's really really is, he would definitely scream you don't support my dreams and whole time he freaking sucks!
@@Vee_Davis-wb9wd naw she’s a decade in. Unfortunately, men like him intentionally select women whom they know they can manipulate. Word salads, cheap gifts, trips and love bombing will keep her fulfilled.
Honestly just listening to him talk tells me that he is NOT with an intelligent woman. Not to knock her but no intelligent woman can deal with a man like this even if he hadn’t cheated. How can you have an intelligent conversation with him.
The fact that he even thought he did something with that is embarrassing within itself
I have never experienced so much secondhand embarrassment from watching a podcast as I am right now. It's literally making me cringe. Idk how I'm going to finish this. My anxiety is off the charts 😂
I thought I was the only one 😂😂😂my heart is literally racing from this nonsense! It's like GET TO THE POINT!! GOD!!🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
My chest literally hurts. 🫤😟😣
Sameeeee lmaooo
Yo! SAME!!!
It’s giving I lied on my resume 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
Big lied 😅😅😅😅 like bruh wtf are you talking about?
😂😂😂😂😂😂 fr
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
His wife is the one who needs to tell her story and speak- from what I gathered from this is she is a ride or (literally) die, birthed 2 of his kids, he cheats on her, had another kid outside of marriage and now decides he is one facing “adversity”. Sorry sir but she sounds like the real hero of this story-- her adversity was forgiveness, commitment, overcoming all of this “nonsense” and still finding a way to move forward as a wife and partner. She a real one! Bring her on- we need the followup and other side of this!
Now I want to hear her story! 💯💯
Seriously 💪🏾💪🏾
David stopping him to tell him he needs to work on his story telling, is the most David thing David could do 😂
I feel sad for her.
This guest is acting like he's sending his wife flowers every day. What is your plan. Thoughts become words, words become action, actions build Character. What is your plan dude. Omg 🤨🙄
This woman stayed through a near homicide and and a side baby? She’s the person I want to hear from - respectfully 😂
This man wss gone kill himself just to avoid a man
His gun story is so suspect. 😂😂
😂 poor thing
Right? Even his best example of commitment wasn’t something that he did - it was her story. 🥴
jenniferrrrrrrrrrr, eggzactly! Where's the wife!?
The fact that he thinks the sweetest job is doing nothing, told me everything I needed to know about his character. If I'm doing nothing at work, regardless of pay, I don't feel accomplished or motivated. You can't be a motivational speaker if you're not motivated in your life.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Not that this applies to this fool, but those jobs are gold if you’re trying to make big changes. I had a wfh job like this and I was able to take classes and freelance at the same time.
@@kaileymoyes agreed. roles that allow you the space to focus on your true passion/purpose whatever that may be. or in other cases discover what you’d like to do. but that does not apply to this young man.
Uhm…….no.
If a man ever said being married to me was an adversity .....and has the nerve to have had kids outside the marriage ..he's wild
I think what he meant was what he did IN the marriage was the adversity and not the marriage itself. If its the marriage he's talking about then that's crazy😂😂
“Stories mad long and idk where it’s going…” 😂😂😂😂
Plot twist It’s going nowhere!😂
At all ! 😂😂😂
I can tell he never pitched in on group projects in school and still expected credit 😂
His poor wife! She married this weak man, he valued her ability to support his continuous bad decisions. Im so sad for her believing that he is worthy of her womb. This man is immature, she stayed to support him almost get shot and not only does he cheat on her, he has a baby on her. Babygirl RUN!!! She deserves better man
Worthy of her womb😢😢😢so true
She also needs to realize he isn't worthy of her time, energy, or presence
At 4:30, this is what happens when a young man reads someone else's book, gets an idea to share what he learned, but then tries to present it as his own knowledge or as if he is an expert. The reason he is having a problem explaining it is because he is not the original creator of the content.
Definitely a possibility. Good perspective.
This the one ! 🎯
This just HAS to be true! And it's sad.😑
Yes sounds like HE got motivated, and now is repeated what motivated him, but he hasn’t quite lived it out yet.
“I’m not inspired and I’m not motivated” Big Shands holds no punches on these & I love 😂😂😂
I think he was being very kind by assuming this guy actually had any type of business plan in good faith; even though it was clear after a couple minutes that he was improvising the whole thing.
Wow....this was BRUTAL! He truly needs to work on his craft, if this is what he is pursuing! The talking in circles, inability to answer basic questions, unlearned, throwing out words with no substance! I wish him the Best! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
We all gotta put in work!
Brutal 😩
No he needs to work on his life and becoming a better person. He need MAJOR emotional therapy and growth he has the mindframe of a 14 year old
This lets me know being single ain’t that bad.
Facts 😂
Right... Like sheesh 😬
This needs to be an SNL skit😂😂😂😂😂
It’s giving this 😂
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It does
I’m sure it will be! 😂😂😂
You mean this isn't? 😅
I'm so embarrassed watching this
@@melt.3568 After the first two minutes the shock was overwhelming. At four minutes in… I had to get me a bottle and a glass because there was no way I was finishing that interview unbuzzed. 😅😂
I know a scammer when I see one 😂😂😂
Bugging lol he is not at all aware enough to swipe 🤣
@@olivegod you are not wrong 🤣
He’s not smart enough to scam. 😂😂😂😂
I feel dumber listening to ohhh boy ramble about nothing🤣🤣🤣
I’m 6 minutes in and he can’t explain his methods… this is horrible. “I don’t want to go into a whole ramble about it.” Exactly. He’s rambling. He claims to be a motivational speaker and is rambling. He can’t explain his EEO method but just says “survive it”. His adversity was surviving this interview. He needs to continue his JOB at the post office.
Lol facts my same thoughts
TOOOOO FUNNY im YELLING at my phone
his JOB method is Just Obviously Bullshitting 😭
The one that is "easy". Wouldn't trust him to take the trash out! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@t-moemoseley8308 sounds like he's barely doing THAT at the job he gets paid to do!🤦🏽♀️
Damn tiktok brought me here because this is crazy AF 😂
Me too 😂😂😂
Me too I had to see the whole video and it’s worst than I expected.
Same 😂
The wife is the one exceeding excelling and overcoming. She needs to be the motivational speaker.
It's the fake yawn/burp for me 😂 Classic nervous tick hilarious.
Omg I kept noticing that like dude cmon now😂😂😂😂
If him sending an extra blue heart in a text message is supposed to be an example of “exceeding and excelling” in marriage the bar is officially below Hell.
The only motivation I’m getting from this is how to hold people accountable for their bullshit answers 😂😂
Forreal 😂😂😂
I’m from Jersey this dude is nothing but a slick talking New Yorker says a lot without saying anything
Interviewer: How do you overcome adversity?
A Motivational Speaker: Just survive it.
😐
😂
The interviewer was trying to throw him bones that he refused to expound on smh.
His entire business model.. And people actually pay for that?!
Just like that 😂😂😂😂😂
that's it! speech over, errbody go home. thanks for my check
It must be a nightmare arguing with this dude. I got a feeling this quiet humility is reserved for other men, not his wife/romantic partners. And patting himself on the back for a failed emoji challenge vs deliberate & consistent efforts to understand and improve himself (therapy, mentorship etc) is insane.
Insane!
Facts
I did not foresee blues hearts leading me to find out he is/wants to be a motivational speaker.
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I can say he listened well no interrupting or getting defensive … hope it landed
he wasn't listening.
That's the type to look like they are being respectful and listening to the other person speak, but they only hear what they want, and give you some long winded response that has little to nothing to do, or add to what the other person asks or says.
Im glad this man humbled him and told him the truth instead of catering to his ego just because he's a man. Bro code needs to be thrown in the trash to make these men better ppl.
I feel so bad for his wife. I would be so embarrassed if this was my husband.
This young man could use a year of silence. At least a year of no speaking, unless he's asking clarifying questions. Just be quiet, focus on his family, go to work and study. He needed this cringy moment, and I hope he heeds the wisdom he received here. May he and his family heal, evolve, and live in Divine Alignment and Purpose✨️🙏🏾✨️
Girl I don't even want to imagine what he comes up with after a month of silence
Im praying for his wife
This was so disappointing, he doesn’t even know what he’s talking about.
You don’t have to front having a strong amount of intellect, because then you come off as small minded around a bunch of people who are actually intelligent, he embarrassed the hell out of himself the entire interview.
The way I said what when he said “you gon have to pay me for that session”😂😂😩😩
Nothing unique about his story. He cheats, his wife takes him back and now he thinks he can teach people how to overcome, excel and exceed? To succeed as a speaker he needs a better story and a better way to convey the message.
FACTS
Couldn’t have said it better girl. Like please. Wish him the best. But I’m good.
He needs to sit down somewhere in a corner, and stay there until he is sorry for putting his dumb ass "tactics" that help no one.
But the audacity and unmitigated gull to mf say HE overcame some shii
And he has done ZERO SELF WORK….
Shands is passionate about helping entrepreneurs excel because the fact that he could sit there and engage with a complete narcissist shows me he cares for real lol
If people paying him to MOTIVATE, I know that I can get paid. 😂
Did anyone else catch this? When he was talking about commitment, it struck me that he didn’t really share how he’s proving his commitment to his wife after his infidelity. Instead, the focus was all on how dedicated she is to him by her staying in the car while he put her in danger. It made me wonder if anyone else felt that was a bit one-sided? Like he told the story of their entire 7 years of marriage in that one flashback.
Yall too nice in the comments. This dude uses this slick talking on women and its how he cheated on his wife. Whats this nonsense he talking about
Exactly! This is embarrassing to watch. I don’t even think he knows what he talking about tbh 😂😂😂😂
He’s not even smart enough to be slick
Right. He’s not good at making a point because he doesn’t have one. You can tell he’s used to just word salading people into submission.
@@MiVista_Alyssaexactly what I was thinking!! 😂
He very clearly just likes listening to his own voice
Everything made sense once he explained that he’s a cheater.
How can you motivate someone when you can't even explain what it is you do...imagine paying this dude for chaos 😮
He need to just stay at post office
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😂😂😂
Lmfaooo 💙
😂😂😂😂
Cuz he deadass aint got it!
How did you sit through this without laughing hysterically??? Please teach me this kind of restraint 🤦🏾♀️
Yeah this interviewer is a true professional 😂
Here from Twitter. Instant regret 😂😂😂.
lol 😭
Same 🙋🏿♀️
Nah this was gold 😂
😂😂😭😭😭
The motivational speaker getting motivated to give up motivating. 💙
I love how Dave ain't giving him no slack lol said exactly how I felt
How is the man being interviewed a motivational speaker? I can’t listen to him for more than 2 minutes.
I feel like those acronyms are created by him from a desire of his to develop his own character, he just need to use them for himself until he really embodies them…
Yes. He is lost. He does not know how though.
Please call the police.
😭😭😭😭😭😭 I beg
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😭😭😭😭😭😂😂 crying!!!!
Lol
The fact that he thought they were going to connect on the difficulty of marriage but this man LIED to him and his “adversity” is infidelity……. BIG DIFFERENCE
“ who said you can’t go through adversity that you caused for yourself “ i Al ost knocked they mf head off over the phone screen 😂😂😂
Big scammer energy no real plan no real advice no real story giving read the back cover of the book vibes
😂😂😂
Lost me in the first couple of minutes cause him talking was a process 😭 just trying to understand one sentence lmaoo
My dude basically said he tried to give his wife a piece of his heart one day at a time. 🤣😂🤣
For 3 weeks 😂😂
Not a piece of his heart 😂
@@Lemons19902010 🤣😂🤣
💀💀💀😂😂😂
Only last 21 days smh 🤦🏽♀️ he need to find a new “career”
This interview completely gave me confirmation that without having a mentor to lean on or ask questions that I am on the right path with my ideas, plans, and goals. Thanks Dave! 💪🏾✌🏾
You got it!!
This reminds me of the old American Idol auditions when people got on there claiming they could sing, but couldn’t carry a tune a we wondered who lied…but we were entertained by it. Most of these hotseat guests have similar behaviors, demeanors, and lack of ability to articulate a clear path to their goals.
Tv gold😂😂😂😂
This was extremely hard to watch. He really struggle to articulate his thoughts. How can you speak to others!?!
Why is no one talking about how he put his wife and younger sister in danger because of reckless behavior and ego??
Hahah I’m on that part now and I’m sitting here like wow this dude simply isn’t smart
6:43
Dave:
Whats your adversities currently?
Speaker: …..This interview? 😅
Bruhhhhh!!!!!!! You wrong! lol
@@therealseangary 😂🤷🏾♂️ .. All jokes aside shout out to him for transparency!
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Yo this comment had me cracking up!!!😂😂😅
the bar is below hell
He lost me with hearts thing…he really thought he was doing something. 😂😂😂😂😂
I think I finally get it… he just loves saying the words’ my wife ‘… no shade. But It’s not about the actual marriage and what any of it means . But, the Man just loves saying my wife. It gives him validation somehow. Ditto👌🏾
Yes
His story about the guy with the gun didn’t do anything but show how his lack of results based thinking gets him in dumb ass situations.
I honestly wanted to hear the ending lol
@@averyb.476there was never going to be an ending. He lost his point, and is not articulate
Exactly this
I was wondering how looking at someone ends in gun shots…. Why didn’t someone just look away? He put every woman in his presence in danger over what? He is not smart with a huge ego.
This gave me anxiety 😂 my goodness.
Sameeeeee 😂😂
All due respect WHAT THE HELL IS HE TALKING ABOUT! he need to journal his thoughts. If his wife forgave him, he need to forgive hiself.
I was scrambling all over the place to find the full video. 😂😂😂 most “motivational speaker” personality men are just like this, full of sht. Talking in circles the whole interview is crazy.
I'm here from tiktok and Kevonstage.
Lmao he CANNOT teach you to Exceed, Excel or Overcome NOTHING! 😂
He seems a little slow.
Little!!??
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@@chocolateradiance7216
I was just being generous.
This man is a scammer and doesn't need to mentor nobody
Absolutely no one. He keeps using circular references to describe the words he says. He’s used to talking, not having to actually KNOW anything. I da hear his mouth getting dry. Lol😂
Lmaoo
*Nene Leakes voice* he’s a con artist
@@oniquebundhi2411 this is most hood dudes who has done time. If anything he needs a smart man to follow.
This dude needs his “motivational speaker” card pulled 🤣🤣🤣🤣
These self proclaimed motivational speakers speak to small minds alike.
This was cringy, I’m flushed with second-hand embarrassment. The young man was clearly out of his depth. Not only could he not articulate HIS idea, he looked genuinely lost, confused and bewildered as Mr Shands patiently dropped those pearls of wisdom.
I love this!
You gained a new follower! The fact that you checked him along with schooling him with knowledge!!
SAME! I’ve never seen a host hold someone’s feet so intensely to the fire. Then on top of that, give the person unsolicited advice, guidance and understanding when it’s so desperately needed.
He feels like a liar to me, I used to lie alllllllll the time.... I just feel it idk.
He started off by lying that's why it took him so long to finish his sentences in the very beginning of the video
Why did you used to lie so much? I know two people who are pathological liars but I don’t know if they can or will ever grow out of it…. But I’d love to know why the people who do it do it…
@@kirawong4629 fear, lack of confidence
@@MunchlaxJthat’s interesting. I’m glad you grew past that
He was doing that heart thing to make himself feel better. I can guarantee you that is not what she asked from him to feel safe with him emotionally.
him taking the awkward silences as an opportunity to say the “i’m just kidding” excuse 😂😂
He said "Me and my man,my wife..." he call her bro everyday.
I think he was going to say marriage and jumped to my wife instead
No he said his “ mar.. my wife “
Came here for a good laugh at some stupidity and left with some great entrepreneurial advice.. love this.
I didn’t believe not one word out his mouth. He’s a master capper
I’m more interested in hearing from his wife tbh
I'm interested in hearing why the hell she still with him !!!
@@AyeteeemmThat part!
The diverting of answers. No answer was directly answered to the questions… Seems like he has a lot of stories that need refining and he needs a speaking coach. This was painful to watch because many business owners who are just starting are like this. I commend him for getting in the Hot Seat.
Side eye since “the best position in the post office” .. we are 3:01 in and I CAN NOT
Yall remember in living color, damon wayans played the incarcerated brother who was trying to talk knowledge from behind bars but he wasn't making any sense? That's who I think of when I listen to this man overcome adversity
Please interview the wife!!!
The circle speak is strong with this one 💙
21:51 it was in this moment David saved the show😂 and many from logging off . Where’s the story going bro… def needs to connect
I'm still lost on what he was trying to convey, LOL😂
😂😂😂😂 i love David he cracks me up . He ask questions i would ask also
Great minds think alike!
David u really give out a lot of great genuine advice, I can tell u really love what u do
I do what I can!
David...this one was brutal 😂
I had to come watch this after the Instagram post…
So wait a minute she was placed in a life threatening situation and he cheats on her? That's how you reward her for being committed to you? Wow, I almost gave this man props for being courageous by admitting his infidelity for the world to see but he has major flaws. Honestly, and I'm sorry if this comes off as rude, but his wife has little to no self respect. Their marriage can only last if they heal themselves individually because they were just 2 broken people who ended up together because they were never whole when they were single.
But the blue hearts … 💙💙💙💙💙💙
This man does NOT give a fuck about his marriage. Men who preach being “whole” gotta look whole. That marriage is for the look so he can keep scamming.
The way you do anything is his you do everything. Look at this interview. 😂 he scamming her too.
He brought up the MARRIAGE as the adversity and had to switch tactics when he let slip that he cheated on her. I really don’t think it was his intention to reveal that. He was gearing up to complain about his wife.
@@aleciawebb4841😅 not the blue hearts
i can say this with all my heart....i would have walked out on him after he 1 told me he cheated and 2 brought back a child from his affair partner...nawww my adversity i would have to over come is me not taking something and ramming it in to a body part....he would have to gtfo of my face
The blue heart wasn’t even the bad part it was the cherry on fucking top 💀💀💀
I'm only 6mins in- He's a grifter😂😂😂 What is this rambling?! Thank you for holding his feet to the fire.