Hi, A fellow bazi enthusiast here. One of my sons is a ren monkey DM with a ren tiger in the hour pillar. He is rather emotional and sensitive, and often showing manipulative behavior to get what he wants, e.g. pretending to cry to get the sweets that he wants. It's like the reverse of ungrateful punishments, where he acts and plays emotions to make other follow what he wants--a bit like passive-aggresive and subtle lies, but not like the gaslighting type. I did meet with one of the bazi experts but she did not raise any flags about the clash. But the consultant did mention about him being emotional and a bit manipulative. "Clashes are not always negative, and combinations are not always positive." What do you think about that ren-ren clash? Have you encountered it before? Personally, I still think and worry about it every now and then, of the idea of oneself always having troubles with their own ideas, or worse, children; especially since many texts said that the hour pillar may indicate the later stage of one's life. Thanks.
As you have already had a reading for your son and the Clash was not a problem, it is likely it is good for his Chart. The "manipulative" behavior you describe sound quite normal for a young child, so I also would not be worried. I do NOT do BaZi Analysis, so can't be of much help. I also have not (to my knowledge) dealt with someone with a Monkey-Tiger Clash within their Natal Chart.
Hi,
A fellow bazi enthusiast here.
One of my sons is a ren monkey DM with a ren tiger in the hour pillar.
He is rather emotional and sensitive, and often showing manipulative behavior to get what he wants, e.g. pretending to cry to get the sweets that he wants.
It's like the reverse of ungrateful punishments, where he acts and plays emotions to make other follow what he wants--a bit like passive-aggresive and subtle lies, but not like the gaslighting type.
I did meet with one of the bazi experts but she did not raise any flags about the clash. But the consultant did mention about him being emotional and a bit manipulative.
"Clashes are not always negative, and combinations are not always positive." What do you think about that ren-ren clash? Have you encountered it before?
Personally, I still think and worry about it every now and then, of the idea of oneself always having troubles with their own ideas, or worse, children; especially since many texts said that the hour pillar may indicate the later stage of one's life.
Thanks.
As you have already had a reading for your son and the Clash was not a problem, it is likely it is good for his Chart. The "manipulative" behavior you describe sound quite normal for a young child, so I also would not be worried. I do NOT do BaZi Analysis, so can't be of much help. I also have not (to my knowledge) dealt with someone with a Monkey-Tiger Clash within their Natal Chart.