"Give your father the same grace you give your mother, and give your mother the same accountability you gave your father." ~ Kevin Samuels #GodfatherUndefeated
It’s going to backfire and it will be DEVASTATING to BLACK FEMALES THAT HAD CHILDREN. As a young BW married and a mother as well I believe us good BW need to start separating ourselves from these type of females I don’t care if it’s my mother I’m cutting her off if she has a “hyena” mind set
I'm in my mid 40s now, and I met my father when I was 32 and heard his story. My mother was a POS, and to this day I don't have anything to do with her and will never have anything to do with her. Carrying a child for 9 months don't make you special, you will be judged by your character.
I'm 65, I've done everthing under the sun to love and help my mother and she still to this very day treat me as if Iam a stanger or an ordinary person.
The Most High Strengthen you fam! And your father too! We are going to win this battle over all who play the future of our people dirty. Most High Bless!
Being black doesn't automatically make you a good mother, and being a mother doesn't elevate you to sainthood. My mom lied, stole money from me and tried to steal the little bit of money my dad left me. I'm glad to see brothers speaking out on stuff like this and it's good to know that I'm not crazy for actually being pissed at my own.
Blk mothers rob their kids blind. They will live off of free checks that were meant for the kids then when the kid grows up they are starting at square one with nothing because their mother wasn't even trying to raise the kids right and teach them how to be successful. Alot of Black women are only living to get free stuff out of people. They are the only group of women who only see marriage as a source of income.
I wasted seemingly 23 years of being a Stepfather. NEVER Be a Stepped on StepFather, it's all for naught. It's a backseat waste of time, energy, and life. Don't do it!
One of my good friends never knew his father, until way later in life, shortly before his father died. He then found out, that his mother kept my friend away from his father.
As a single father with physical custody, I see why boys raised by single moms have so many issues. Because to be even remotely successful as a single parent, you absolutely must be aware of and accept your own personal flaws, so to limit them from affecting your relationship with and ability to parent the child.
I'm a single father as well and I'll say one of the biggest challenges they have with self is consistency. They react when emotional when raising kids leaving the lessons lost then the kids react emotional as well. I seen it so many times dating single mothers and when I brought it to them they automatically shut down like, "You think I'm a bad mom" and get defensive. Single fathers we know we have to lay a foundation and standard that we have to follow even when we don't want to. That's discipline. We can be in a good mood, watching the game, clowning, but if our kids violate we can switch to Dad mode, correct, and go right back to our good mood. That consistency and emotion taken out of the correction reaches kids much better than how an emotional single mother going off does.
I agree with the comments on this thread completely… I tell my son, now eleven, to learn from the mistakes of others, especially my own mistakes; which I tell him when it’s appropriate and relative to a current situation… I pour into his mind consistently, The Holy Scriptures and this phrase; that on his worse days, he MUST be better than I ever was on my best days… Without real masculine guidance from men, our future men won’t be men but some other version of a male… I salute all of you standing up for what is right and your rights…
@@MCClark I had a conversation about this with a sista back in my hometown. I live in Sacramento but I'm from Riverside it's east of LA came here in the military then stayed. But too many brothas like myself that may have left their hometown to go to college, military, or a bigger market for business success. It's like success has taken brothas out of the community more than the crack era. Even when they were high they'd give kids money and the game. Us that leave just leave. Individual success has affected our community just as bad if not worse as the crack era as a collective.
@@TyroneDewayne I think the issue with that is that the success that one finds elsewhere can’t be found in one’s city of origin… I’ll use myself for example, I’m an electrical engineer; plus, licensed in vibration analyst, thermography, sonography, laser alignment and laser measuring, all for industrial applications… Now, I’m from a city in northern Louisiana, there’s only a handful of employers that would even think on paying me what I’m worth, verses I can find employment all day long here in Texas… That leaves the only option of starting my own company back in my hometown, which would mean I’d have to also establish training for those individuals interested in the industry I’m involved in… The problem I see is this, first, there just isn’t much interest in STEM education in the black community as it should be, because many don’t see the value in it, and let’s be honest, there’s a better chance for someone to take a up a trade and make a decent to low six figure salary than a college grad to make that same amount in these current days… Second, hardly any one, especially our younger generations, they don’t want to put in the work… Most today have this microwave mindset and want it all right now… Our worse enemies most times are our own people, that crab in a barrel mentality… From those I’ve spoken to, thy is the number one reason why they don’t go back to where they came from… But, these are just my opinions from observations and experiences…
@@MCClark let's be real if they had trade schools for our young brothas and sistas that are go getters but might not be built for a classroom there would be no black people left in the military and they know it. They'll never have high school just be enough again they know especially with this generation of the youth there would be no military at all really. But our people getting in our own way is an issue. I'll be real I'm retired after a workplace injury, only 41, after getting this money I'm looking at opening a business in the community. But you have to think what hood is beefing with what hood that might cause this location to have limited customers. Or color or any goofy thought a black potential business owner has to think about when he wants to put a black owned business in the black community. But we can't give up on our people smh 😂
Going through this very thing with my wife. She says she ain't perfect, but when I ask her what her flaws are, it's complete crickets. Me on the other hand, I'm spending 150 a week on therapy to figure out why I'm the way I am. I'm aware of my flaws and am desperately trying to fix them. Pray for me yall, it's tough right now
The Most High Bless and Keep You my brother. Keep praying, keep reading, keep listening to sister Kendra, Dr. T Hasan Johnson and APeaceful Life. Keep moving forward. Peace and Blessings.
Prayers up brother These are the days... One question though How is the journey through therapy really working for getting to the root of knowledge of your own self a little better I'm not prying , please, no disrespect I'm actually thinking about it for keeping in charge of myself indeed but I don't know.... Plus I heard it can be expensive
"Living in a van at Walmart with a toddler" is a video I just watched. In the comments were people applauding a black mother destroying her black son by living homeless in glee. The conversation is no longer about "passports" or "high-value men" or "soft-era women". It's now a conversation about just plain human dignity and responsibility.
I saw this too!! I was like wow really?? She living homeless on purpose so she can make content. I honestly thought it was very sad to see her living like that with that little boy in tow. Where is his father?? Smh
@@sashawd9722 or she chose wrong. See black women have to start owning up to the shitty decisions they make. She chose that shitty man ad a shitty father. Thats on HER. She has the womb. Its her responsibility to make sure the man she lays down with is capable of being a father. She FAILED in that area just like 70% of black women. She obviously did not marry before she carried. Again. Black women have degrees but still can't manage their wombs right. Slow as fuck.
@@SuperTruthful that child is in an UNSTABLE environment. Brushing their teeth at walmart?? Living out of a van?? Why should the child suffer because the mom is a dumb ass who can vet men properly?? The child should have a 2 parent HOUSEHOLD. Not a one parent vanhold. Yall so fucking trifling.
One of MTR’s guests is my baby mom. He was real cool with her. She’s doing EXACTLY what he and most of us know as dead right WRONG. She’s been on his show 3 times. Had our son a year ago, moved away, sent pics and is breadcrumbing. 15 months and never met my first son.
One of those lies are "You father didn't want you" The mom that deleted her daughter for loving the father more than her failed to brain wash her daughter.
Man!! These comments from brothers make me want to call my parents and thank them for doing their best to still hold it together to this day for us, their children. Because I cannot imagine living years without knowing my father, my beginning, my guide, my sense of manhood. Damn! I’m sorry y’all are going through this brothers, keep your heads up.
I realized my son mother was being guided away from me by my mother and her mother… Straight on welfare…. While I was taking care of all of them… and others around us. Now my son mother, Mom was passed away she’s rebuilding a relationship with her father and my mother is sick an I am the only person at her bedside….. it’s crazy how the tables turn !!!
Dennis Spurling had a live stream regarding this very issue and man it was hard to hold back the tears listening to the pain of some of these young men when they finally had the chance to have a real conversation with their fathers and get their side of the story. One young man summed it up perfectly when he said "My childhood was stolen from me" with tears in his eyes. You are correct when say that most of these modern women are Narcs. You sound like you have read the DSM-5 and if you are reading that you have definitely encountered a Narc
Crimson mentioned something extremely vital to finding a workable woman to have a family with. Ask her what her flaws are! The longer they take to speak the answer the MORE stubborn a wife she will be! A woman that is aware of her flaws will less likely lose respect for you down the road cuz she will not over inflate her own value which can make a woman leave and take the children believing they are all the kids need.
Whenever I hear stuff like this, I realize how fortunate I was to have a mother that never bad talked my father in front of us and always allowed us to call and visit him. I love you Mom.
I'm fighting for my son right now in County Family Court. My son is 4 years old. I'm representing my self! I will not wait to tell my son the truth. I will fight right now...to be active in my son right now. I love you for this message!!! Thank you for this message!!! Black single mothers are the chief cornerstone for the destruction of our black culture as well as the character of our off spring for at least the last 60 years.
Everything you have said is absolutely TRUE.......They some vicious creatures........not even human beings.......they have devolved to devil creatures..........
They can never Destroy us Black Father's they can try but they will never succeed you can never Destroy anything the Most High is in control of... Please Remember This....APTTMH..
Which fathers? The ones they pinned another mans child on? The ones where they dont even know their name? Or the fathers who are actually proven to be that childs fathers?
This is SO TRUE what Kendra is speaking and teaching!!! One day my father got so depressed and despondent over a HUGE argument he and my mother wash having , that he dropped his head like a field slave and almost started to leave the family. He told me, "Son, I want you to know that I will always love you and your sisters?! " I responded back to him and told him that I LOVED HIM SO MUCH. At that time he stayed and did not leave us. My mother gave me the MOST EVIL look like she was going to kill me !!!
49 years ago I met a "Baby Momma" with 1 infant...I had no children myself..and a very good Professional income future.. 2 years into the relationship she left me and Married the deadbeat Father .... Divorce him and came back to me ( SIMP ..I know...NOW!) with another child...I took care of everyone....after 5 years of Marriage and 2 more children ( she never worked ..just ran the streets..) she Divorced me and Married a Drug Dealer...she lied to my kids and told them horrible things to make them hate..it worked....it was the WORST DECISION of my young LIFE!... I'm recently Retired and doing VERY WELL Financially..at 67 ...but this discussion hits home to me as a "Good ."Black Man.... Don't DO IT..Men😐😐 ! B1
Funny. I just found out that I had kids a set of twins, they are 6 now but I met them at 5, after that now I can't see them because of her, I been through this when I was a kids with my mother and father, this has to stop, afterwhile there won't be any more of us! I don't talk to my mother now and I'm not going to, I talk to my father more now than my mother!
Faaacts! This happened to me. My son came to me at 26 and said dad now i see who the problem was all of these years. I feel my life would have turned out different if you had been in it.
I’m broken now, just told my 11 year old a few days ago that I cannot be in her life anymore due to the consistent evil of her mother. My heart and soul literally cannot take it anymore. The only good thing that has come of this is that I have come up with a set of techniques that I’m sure will turn all of this around. Hopefully once and for all.
The hell you mean you CAN'T be in her life anymore? Unless you're being incarcerated, that is some straight bulljive! You aren't doing her ANY favors dipping on your child like that. Get your shit together bruh!
So you're problem is that u still care. Caring about your kids. IS THE BEST JUST TO HEAR THEM LAUGH or see them SMILE. Literally gives u life. U haven't leaned to completely cut off ur feelings or care about what the woman says. Men are assholes by nature. YOUR NOT BEING THAT ASSHOLE. UR NOT BEING THAT JERK. You don't have to be mean or evil, But u do have to do what it takes to keep BREATHING. So a couple of suggestions from a man with kids from 31 to 5. U keep see her. U keep talking to her, u keep being there for HER. Her mother doesn't want u to talk to her. Go get her a phone. She doesn't want u to see her start going up to her school. Before school or after. If she calls the police on u. EVERY TIME U TELL THEM YOUR DOING A WELFARE CHECK. BECAUSE THEY MOTHER IS UNSTABLE IN HER MIND. Don't yell do not raise ur voice. DONT PROTECT UR SELF IF SHE HITS U TAKE IT ALL CALL THE POLICE AN GET PICTURES. This game is 100% free. 100% proven to work. Stop being emotional. Your job as a man is to care for NOT CARE ABOUT. Until u realize that it's gonna be tough.
Naw bruh, don't give up on her. Take a step back, she will see the evil in her mother. Had to do the same, and when my daughter hit 13, she now is 16 about to graduate high school, she realized who was doing the manipulation. She even made a song about me, and how much my encouragement and wisdom has brought her full circle and joy. Keep up the good fight, do what God has commissioned you to do brother
@@joreladams5719In some situations nothing good comes from staying. Especially when you’re emotionally tied. Irrational behavior is bound to come up. Think about why they tell lawyers and officers to stay away from certain cases because they are too close to them. So this is a tactical retreat of sorts but life is weird so it could very well be life long despite what I intend. So I must account for that outcome also. Ive come to understand that there is no such thing as fighting for your family in the way that we are used to as a society. It’s a joke and everyone just likes to see how much they can make the dad dance, while ignoring his suffering. But, the battle still needs to be fought. So it must become a very tactical one. Time, in addition to other tactics, are your greatest weapons. After analyzing my situation I’ve come to understand that children think they are fine when they are young. Like Kendra said, mom can do no wrong and when the child is with you it is a strained encounter. This is so true. But eventually the child will get older and will have questions. You just have to have everything in place for that time. If the situation with the mother is not toxic. Yes you must stay.
@@Observer4550 Save that bulljive, because this ain't it! Y'all co-signing this like it will magically get better. Y'all sound like cowards and it's pathetic! If you're scared to fight for your children and prefer to be deadbeats, then just say that, and NEVER complain about anything else in life going forward.
So true I have experience this with my daughter, and I'll tell you it's very painful and unnecessary. She is 34 years old we don't even have a good relationship. 😒
I'm sorry you went through that bro. Child Support made life harder for me as well. Once it ended, I was able to do much better. Hang in there man. And your life may be filled with challenges but, as long as you keep GOD first, work hard, and be the best Father you can be, you will come out on the other side of that storm and flourish! Believe that.
Same here, it's been 13yrs since I seen my daughter and son. It hurts !!! But we're trying to heal the wounds. Thankful that they understand some of what has happened.
I was trying to explain to my son the other day that I pretty much have to pay for everything twice when I pay child support and try to get him gifts myself for his bday and most of the gifts his mom buys is with my money
They really do dislike it I feel like I get under single women's skin when I talk about my husband he's so wonderful but I don't boast about it he's just an intricate part of my life so in daily conversation he comes up and I can just sense the them frowning up inside....its so disheartening My husband is my best friend, i lift him up as he does me......
I just want to know WHY do women do this to men? Why!?!?!? Why are they so evil? I’m so glad that I am married to a God fearing woman who isn’t like this. 4 children together and they love me. It’s no greater feeling in this world.
As-salaamu-alaikum sister. Thank you!!!! This is so true. I am going through this right now. She is alienating my daughter against me, my daughter no longer calls me and she is only 15. I always call. Thank you Sister.
Not we. The Black mothers who behave in this way. A better solution is to mobilize politically and demand corrective measures to ensure no more parental alienation. Share this video on all of your social media.
I never seen my father…but it’s not like my mother ever tried to help me find him. But now that I go thru the same things with my kids (who I never see) I understand why he wouldn’t ever want to come around😂😂
Modern black women that have a high body count and a bunch of kids are like NFL running backs. If they keep getting used and worn out, the next team will be hesitant to sign them
The problem is, women are upholding the lying sisterhood. Hell, my sister still believes amber heard. Women will not let go of supporting the sisterhood. Women can stop this at any time by calling each other out, just like men... But no.
I can feel this big time. So my teenage daughters expressed to me 2 years ago that they would like to stay with me and my wife instead of with my ex. So instead of allowing that my ex moved to another state with my children. All so she could continue to control the narrative about how she’s a single mom and all that. Now since it’s been a year she’s crying about the child support isn’t enough to help pay her bills and she might be evicted… oh well. 🤷🏾♂️
YAY!!! I'm delighted to hear that she is getting rewarded for her behavior. I hope and pray your girls are able to reunite with you. Share this video on all of your social media.
My ex told me to leave town once she dumped me so she can have this single mom narrative and threatened me with child support lol smh she wana make me look bad so much I couldn't believe it
Sister, it's like you're telling my story, both with my mother and later on with my now ex-wife. I would think it was only me and not a cultural thing if other brothers weren't giving the exact same account.
Gawd Almighty Kendra!!! You are so right it’s hard to imagine how evil a person has to be to do this. Delusional to think the truth will never be revealed.
Taking an example of a woman in Boston using the system to destroy a black family, Taking away the parental right of a foreign student to make money with the complicity of the department of children services, while this brother newly minted American citizen was away serving in the US NAVY, this brother ain't no druggie held a job ,no criminal record, never got even a call by the family court and found out about it years later, and the commonwealth of Massachusetts allows it to happen
I have been there. Kept me away from my daughter for 3 years despite getting child support . I had to lie to the county police and report my child missing just to get justice to the point she would be arrested if she did not pay the fee from going to jail.
When these women lie to their children in order to deceive them and corrupt their thoughts and feelings towards their father they are actually committing and abominable sin called "bearing false witness" and they are cursing themselves and their children. In this regard where the women have transgressed order and the man's right to raise his child or children in the knowledge and ways of the Lord the women therefore opens herself up to justifiable recompense. This is why single black mother's are at the top of the poverty food chain in America because their transgressions are great but the recompense is greater! Amen
Got a brother going through this right now with his son's mother. Won't let him see his son, lying about everything, and guess where she's getting it from? Her miserable psychotic mother. Living with her being miserable and bitter together, with his son in the middle of it. And the hold that the child support and court systems have on the mothers makes it virtually impossible for the rest of us to help. They'll just take take take money and do nothing unless major abuse by the mother can be proved. This stuff is ruining generations even as we speak. It's pure evil.
It is time for us to mobilize in every state and demand these laws be changed immediately and offer absolutely no compromise on our demands and vote every one of these SOB out of office and pay for the politician we want to give us the political favor we need.
I would like to share a story in my own personal life that resonates with exactly what this sister was speaking of . I'm 49 years old & very recently finally had the opportunity to share my side of the story with my now 23yr old son. I once upon a time did some things that I not proud of ( pookie & ray ray lifestyle ) but served my time & returned to society trying to better my life . I had my son back then which inspired me more to do right , unfortunately his mother was very toxic & didn't see long term as I did for the betterment of our son ... 🙄 eventually I was removed from the home due 2 my parole stipulations bcuz of domestic complaints made by my sons mother in which she constantly used my being on parole as a tool to manipulate the circumstances. As I continued to try and be in my son's life she would cause arguments, call police , use my being on parole as I said ( even had me arrested for false allegations of harassment on my own child) to keep me away. Eventually I did ... not bcuz I didn't care but it came detrimental to my production of being a productive citizen ... once she found out that I was on that track ( working , being productive, etc ) she took me for child support ... needless to say I never disputed it & agreed to pay such bcuz looking back I was defeated & kinda saw it as a way to be supportive in my son's life ... fast forward pass that ... I found out while I was paying the child support that my son was literally put in foster care bcuz SHE COULDNT HANDLE HIM & NOT ONLY THAT BUT ALSO APPLIED FOR SOCIAL SECURITY & LABELED HIM AS HAVING SOME SORT OF EMOTIONAL ISSUES, ADHD, ETC... I HAD NO IDEA BUT AS I WAS GOING TO COURT TO FIND OUT MORE ( BCUZ SHE WROTE ME OFF AS BEING ABUSIVE TO JUSTIFY MY ABSENCE ALONG WITH THE POLICE REPORTS ALSO MY CRIMINAL HISTORY TO BACK UP THE ALLEGATIONS ) THE ACS COULDN'T & WOULDNT GIVE ME ANY INFORMATION ABOUT HIM. THIS APPARENTLY WENT ON FOR YEARS UNTIL RECENTLY ... I FOUND OUT MY SON WAS INCARCERATED THROUGH THE DATABANKS OF LOOKING HIM UP , HE AGED OUT OF THE FOSTERCARE SYSTEM & GRADUATED TO THE JUDICIAL ONE 😔😔😔 I TRACKED HIM DOWN AND WROTE HIM A LETTER ASKING HIM TO GET IN CONTACT WITH ME IN WHICH HE FINALLY DID ... I EXPLAINED MY SIDE OF THE STORY AS TO WHY I WASNT AROUND & HE SHARED TO ME WHAT WAS TOLD TO HIM BY HIS MOTHER WHICH OBVIOUSLY WAS HALF OF THE TRUTH HE ALSO TOLD ME THAT HE NEVER RECEIVED A PENNY FROM THR CHILD SUPPORT WHICH WAS PROBABLY THE REASON HE STARTED LEADING A LIFE OF CRIME ... ( MY SPECULATIONS ) HE ALSO INFORMED ME THAT EVEN WHILE INCARCERATED CURRENTLY SHE LEFT HIM FOR DEAD 🙄😔 AND PROBABLY STILL COLLECT SSI BENEFITS FOR HIM. I THANK THE ALMIGHTY THAT IM IN BETTER SITUATION & GOTTEN MY LIFE IN ORDER TO BE THERE FOR HIM NOW AND WE RECONCILED ALOT OF THE DISCREPANCIES FROM THE PAST ... HE TOLD ME HE SPOKE TO HIS MOMS & TOLD HER HE SPOKE TO ME ... DONT YOU KNOW SHE CAUGHT A STRAIGHT ATTITUDE WHICH MY BECAME SUDDENLY ALARMED TO ... SMDH 🙄 WHICH KINDA HELPED MY STORY & KINDA ALLOWED HIM TO SEE THINGS IN MY PERSPECTIVE . ( BESIDES THE FACT OF ME TRACKING HIM DOWN TO WHERE HE CURRENTLY IS ) I TELL THIS STORY BCUZ IT HAD SIMILAR TRUTH TO EVERYTHING THIS SISTER EXPLAINING I WAS YOUNG BUT LEARNED ALOT FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCES WITH THESE HYENAS... I HOPE YOU BROTHERS DONT HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT & THE ONES THAT HAVE SIMILAR EXPERIENCES JUST KNOW THERE WILL BE A TIME THAT YOU GET TO TELL YOUR SIDE OF THE STORY. IVE SEEN SOOOOOO MANY BROTHERS, SONS , ETC GOING THROUGH SUCH & IVE ALWAYS TOLD THEM THAT THERES 2 SIDES TO THE STORY BEFORE YOU HOLD OPINIONS & TAKE THE MOTHER SIDE ... FIND OUT 1ST BEFORE DRAWING CONCLUSIONS. THANK YOU CRIMSON CURE FOR ALL THE ENLIGHTMENT & PLEASE BROTHERS TAKE HEED AND BE VERY CAUTIOUS WHO YOU PRO CREATE WITH 🙏 🙏🙏🙏
Your story is so good because it's one I can read again and again because as much as it pisses me off about what you as a man as a father what you have to go through and that it's sooo many women that put a man through this is just plain BS I'm a man myself and went through similar situations with my kids mother, It's like it's in a DNA for a lot of these women to have that same process to ruin the kids life and hurt the father's and the sad thing about it is that these young girls that's coming up are going to be the same way when they have kids and it's gonna keep going on and on. These women don't fear God because they feel like they are God, they feel like they have no one to answer to and the doors of heaven is just waiting for them to come in. God bless you man and keep doing your thing.
This happened with my dad and I. My dad tried to have a relationship with me but my mom wanted to be a part of it. If he didn’t want to include her she would start all kinds of drama with him.
I do the same thing. Your father most likely is the type of man who is an all-or-nothing man and won't compromise. He loves you but is never going to budge on including your mother in anything. He most likely became indifferent to her because she betrayed his trust and that was probably a non-negotiable for him. I have not spoken to my ex in over four years and never will again. I missed one visit with my daughter in four years because I was at a funeral when my aunt died which was almost 2,000 miles away.
Saddened to hear of your travail and pray that you come out of this nonsense with your sanity, focus, and resolve. Please share this video on all of your social media.
Please know the history of your state and city when it comes to custody battlegrounds. When you hear that some states favor women, don't take it lightly but continue to fight and not loose hope. Thank you my sister, you are so "inlightful," which is beyond insightful. I pray daily you are always intertwined in the grace and protection of "Yah-Wah."
This topic resonates with a lot of men....needs to be aired... you cover the salient points very truthfully...I appreciate your perspective... great work...
This is what my mom did to me to a T. I’ve finally woke up from her fantasy world and when I speak my truth she tells everyone in the family I’m crazy wtf 🤣
Me and my baby mama are enemies. everything I do and say is wrong. She want me to bow down to her, talk to me any type of way give her more money than I'm already paying child support on and her my kid more than her than the court order. All while controlling me, I can't do this or that, brainwash my kid to think her new man is daddy, I can't have any say so. Im only a babysitter whenever she don't feel like being around my kid. I'm trying to fight her in court I'm really am She doesn't work. When she did had a job she quit all of them. It only our child whenever she have a issue with me not being you
But you know what the sad part about it is not talking about the men but the women that find themselves in the situation and confront them others they still don't blame the mothers and say things like well that's my mother she did what she had to do and I still love my mother and as the saying goes mama can't do no some men do the same thing but generally the man is usually done with her...
I have so much to speak on this with, I never received an apology from my mother at all, am I wrong for purposely neglected her like she did me with my father? I've hated all the lies she told me behind him, until that day came and I spoke with him! Mothers are liars!!!!!!!
You just said something sista Kendra that alot of people don't consider.. what alot of these women will do is make it SO DIFFICULT for the man when he is trying to see his kids that eventually for his own peace and sanity he just leaves the situation and has too abandon his child
The problem with this whole situation is so many black women have mental health issues and the love of a black man cannot fix her issues. A woman with mental issues will wreck your entire life in a single moment and want even think twice about the hurt she has done. Messing up your money, your property or causing physical harm/ damage to you means absolutely nothing to them. This curse passes on from one generation to the next, the daughters are messed up, the sons are messed up and they produce more messed up kids. I'm 61 yrs old and it is so hard for me to trust a black woman that I may end up dying alone eventhough I have the finicial means to take care of someone special for life. (Hard work does pay off) I'm no angle but damn it shouldn't be this hard to bond with a black female.
Hi Kindra this is So true. As Kelvin Samuels would say. Have You heard your Father's side of the story? I start at the house of God. These same women go to church and lie to their children for years about the child's father. This is a good one. Now what little hope the father had about connecting with his children are pretty much gone. Please keep talking about this subject. The core of every man Not male is PEACE. Thankyou Kendra.
I can completely relate but how it applies to being wrongly accused. I was subject to a young man for 42 years thinking one thing and when we finally did talk the ugly truth came out. When we finally did speak, I explained that the mother's son when we were together was unfaithful and got pregnant while I was in school in North Carolina. Because of our situation, I requested a paternity test back then and she refused and periodically through out her son's life, although I never met him, I would ask for the test. It was only 2 years ago I was able to speak with him and explain my side of the story. We agreed to do paternity test and the results came back the way I thought they would, HEVWAS NOT MINE!!! if we would have done it 42 years ago. If this was done 42 years ago the drama and trama would not has exist. The unfortunate thing, how could this woman lie to her son about me being the Daddy and having him believe I'm not there as a father. Sad.
This scenario deserves so much more than a comment section and needs a video presentation with you and the man who is 42 and was lied to for so long. Please consider making a video with him on your cell phone or hire a videographer to film it and edit for you and him to upload on all social media. Share this video by the Crimson Cure on all of your social media.
I love how all of your channels are connected. Justpearlythings, rivah, DeeDee, d'nieka, mediocre...all of yall are passionate about getting this society back on track. I hope for your continued success...
THIS TOPIC NEEDS TO BE DEFINITELY TALKED ABOUT MORE OFTEN. BECAUSE THERE ARE SO SO MANY DEADBEAT MOMS OUT HERE WHO DON'T GET ANYWHERE NEAR THE ACCOUNTABILITY THROWN THEIR WAY LIKE DEADBEAT DADS RECEIVE ON A REGULAR BASIS.
Great analysis! You always deliver the most thorough breakdowns of how our women willingly make themselves tools, extensions, and overseers of the system of ws. A plan which is to totally and systematically destroy the Black fathers and ultimately Black nation by incentivizing and playing on the Black womans desire and inclination to want and have power.
But they are so arrogant they forget that they have to die and they think they can outsmart God, and I'm almost sure they offer God they ass not to go hell . But at that time daddy can't help
KENDRA THIS TOPIC IS WAY TO IMPORTANT TO NOT MAKE INTO A 3 OR 4 PART SERIES. THERE NEEDS TO BE A PART 2 3&POSSIBLY A 4 TO THIS PARTICULAR TOPIC. PLEASE DO SOME MORE PARTS TO THIS TOPIC. PLEASE!!!
These are immutable facts and alienation tactics;courts in Alabama amongst others in the nation are starting to recognize the nefarious triangulation methods don't by these scorned creatures.
She just described my whole situation with my ex. Yes after so much chaos and drama I had to make the painful decision never to come around her again. She took me through hell. Now I just pay my child support and tear up and my child pictures everyday. I miss my son 😢.
"Give your father the same grace you give your mother, and give your mother the same accountability you gave your father." ~ Kevin Samuels #GodfatherUndefeated
Damn that's deep, I never thought about that
Yep! I miss his content deeply!
That's the problem right there !
Wow
Loving fathers run off
by toxic single mamas-
then destroyed financially$$
by GYNO Courtroom dramas!
It’s going to backfire and it will be DEVASTATING to BLACK FEMALES THAT HAD CHILDREN. As a young BW married and a mother as well I believe us good BW need to start separating ourselves from these type of females I don’t care if it’s my mother I’m cutting her off if she has a “hyena” mind set
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I'm in my mid 40s now, and I met my father when I was 32 and heard his story. My mother was a POS, and to this day I don't have anything to do with her and will never have anything to do with her. Carrying a child for 9 months don't make you special, you will be judged by your character.
Gotdamn right. Sorry you had to go through that but believe me...I understand.
Dam, and I'm 33 and I haven't seen my son in years. Looks like it may be the same scenario for me.
I'm 65, I've done everthing under the sun to love and help my mother and she still to this very day treat me as if Iam a stanger or an ordinary person.
@@miyal-shamar9130 39 haven't seen MG daughter in 5 years. Broke my heart. I hope God doesn't forgive her.
The Most High Strengthen you fam! And your father too! We are going to win this battle over all who play the future of our people dirty.
Most High Bless!
"Black Women HATE when Black Men are LOVED!" That EXPLAINS so much when it comes to our current RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS.
It really does, I'm grateful cc summed it up like that ,it's so true...
Exactly. That's one of the main reasons the passport bros movement is so hated.
That's a lie for we have our children
@@vanessad410 ...U have your children?🤔
@@nonyabiz12 pay no attention to the trolls
Being black doesn't automatically make you a good mother, and being a mother doesn't elevate you to sainthood. My mom lied, stole money from me and tried to steal the little bit of money my dad left me. I'm glad to see brothers speaking out on stuff like this and it's good to know that I'm not crazy for actually being pissed at my own.
Blk mothers rob their kids blind. They will live off of free checks that were meant for the kids then when the kid grows up they are starting at square one with nothing because their mother wasn't even trying to raise the kids right and teach them how to be successful. Alot of Black women are only living to get free stuff out of people. They are the only group of women who only see marriage as a source of income.
I wasted seemingly 23 years of being a Stepfather. NEVER Be a Stepped on StepFather, it's all for naught. It's a backseat waste of time, energy, and life. Don't do it!
It’s the most unappreciated job on earth. Don’t do it!!
One of my good friends never knew his father, until way later in life, shortly before his father died. He then found out, that his mother kept my friend away from his father.
As a single father with physical custody, I see why boys raised by single moms have so many issues. Because to be even remotely successful as a single parent, you absolutely must be aware of and accept your own personal flaws, so to limit them from affecting your relationship with and ability to parent the child.
I'm a single father as well and I'll say one of the biggest challenges they have with self is consistency. They react when emotional when raising kids leaving the lessons lost then the kids react emotional as well. I seen it so many times dating single mothers and when I brought it to them they automatically shut down like, "You think I'm a bad mom" and get defensive.
Single fathers we know we have to lay a foundation and standard that we have to follow even when we don't want to. That's discipline. We can be in a good mood, watching the game, clowning, but if our kids violate we can switch to Dad mode, correct, and go right back to our good mood. That consistency and emotion taken out of the correction reaches kids much better than how an emotional single mother going off does.
I agree with the comments on this thread completely… I tell my son, now eleven, to learn from the mistakes of others, especially my own mistakes; which I tell him when it’s appropriate and relative to a current situation… I pour into his mind consistently, The Holy Scriptures and this phrase; that on his worse days, he MUST be better than I ever was on my best days… Without real masculine guidance from men, our future men won’t be men but some other version of a male… I salute all of you standing up for what is right and your rights…
@@MCClark I had a conversation about this with a sista back in my hometown. I live in Sacramento but I'm from Riverside it's east of LA came here in the military then stayed.
But too many brothas like myself that may have left their hometown to go to college, military, or a bigger market for business success.
It's like success has taken brothas out of the community more than the crack era. Even when they were high they'd give kids money and the game.
Us that leave just leave. Individual success has affected our community just as bad if not worse as the crack era as a collective.
@@TyroneDewayne
I think the issue with that is that the success that one finds elsewhere can’t be found in one’s city of origin… I’ll use myself for example, I’m an electrical engineer; plus, licensed in vibration analyst, thermography, sonography, laser alignment and laser measuring, all for industrial applications… Now, I’m from a city in northern Louisiana, there’s only a handful of employers that would even think on paying me what I’m worth, verses I can find employment all day long here in Texas…
That leaves the only option of starting my own company back in my hometown, which would mean I’d have to also establish training for those individuals interested in the industry I’m involved in…
The problem I see is this, first, there just isn’t much interest in STEM education in the black community as it should be, because many don’t see the value in it, and let’s be honest, there’s a better chance for someone to take a up a trade and make a decent to low six figure salary than a college grad to make that same amount in these current days…
Second, hardly any one, especially our younger generations, they don’t want to put in the work… Most today have this microwave mindset and want it all right now…
Our worse enemies most times are our own people, that crab in a barrel mentality… From those I’ve spoken to, thy is the number one reason why they don’t go back to where they came from…
But, these are just my opinions from observations and experiences…
@@MCClark let's be real if they had trade schools for our young brothas and sistas that are go getters but might not be built for a classroom there would be no black people left in the military and they know it.
They'll never have high school just be enough again they know especially with this generation of the youth there would be no military at all really.
But our people getting in our own way is an issue. I'll be real I'm retired after a workplace injury, only 41, after getting this money I'm looking at opening a business in the community. But you have to think what hood is beefing with what hood that might cause this location to have limited customers. Or color or any goofy thought a black potential business owner has to think about when he wants to put a black owned business in the black community. But we can't give up on our people smh 😂
A 60 year myth
that black fathers leave.
O the painful Judgment
these liars will receive!!!
🙏🏿🔥⚡️🌪
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@@elmahdi5 🙏🏿
Going through this very thing with my wife. She says she ain't perfect, but when I ask her what her flaws are, it's complete crickets. Me on the other hand, I'm spending 150 a week on therapy to figure out why I'm the way I am. I'm aware of my flaws and am desperately trying to fix them. Pray for me yall, it's tough right now
The Most High Bless and Keep You my brother. Keep praying, keep reading, keep listening to sister Kendra, Dr. T Hasan Johnson and APeaceful Life. Keep moving forward.
Peace and Blessings.
You live in Babylon that’s the problem
Waste of money if she isn’t in therapy as well
Prayers up brother
These are the days...
One question though
How is the journey through therapy really working for getting to the root of knowledge of your own self a little better
I'm not prying , please, no disrespect
I'm actually thinking about it for keeping in charge of myself indeed but I don't know....
Plus I heard it can be expensive
Praying brother 🙏. Stay strong
"Living in a van at Walmart with a toddler" is a video I just watched. In the comments were people applauding a black mother destroying her black son by living homeless in glee.
The conversation is no longer about "passports" or "high-value men" or "soft-era women". It's now a conversation about just plain human dignity and responsibility.
I saw this too!! I was like wow really?? She living homeless on purpose so she can make content. I honestly thought it was very sad to see her living like that with that little boy in tow. Where is his father?? Smh
That child is fine and child has shelter.
Where is the father. This narrative that the black woman is the problem is wrong. MEN can be good fathers BUT they choose not to.
@@sashawd9722 or she chose wrong. See black women have to start owning up to the shitty decisions they make. She chose that shitty man ad a shitty father. Thats on HER. She has the womb. Its her responsibility to make sure the man she lays down with is capable of being a father. She FAILED in that area just like 70% of black women. She obviously did not marry before she carried. Again. Black women have degrees but still can't manage their wombs right. Slow as fuck.
@@SuperTruthful that child is in an UNSTABLE environment. Brushing their teeth at walmart?? Living out of a van?? Why should the child suffer because the mom is a dumb ass who can vet men properly?? The child should have a 2 parent HOUSEHOLD. Not a one parent vanhold. Yall so fucking trifling.
As a Jamaican man I can say u on point it was interesting hearing my father's side. Its sad tho
One of MTR’s guests is my baby mom. He was real cool with her. She’s doing EXACTLY what he and most of us know as dead right WRONG. She’s been on his show 3 times. Had our son a year ago, moved away, sent pics and is breadcrumbing. 15 months and never met my first son.
Wow that's just pure evil. Black women done. America black women that is. I have never met a American black women that was not manly.
I know alot of single mothers that have dirty houses , Alot of western women dont like to clean, this is why men leave.
I was so up on my child support that the State refunded me support money after my daughter was 18 years old.
One of those lies are "You father didn't want you" The mom that deleted her daughter for loving the father more than her failed to brain wash her daughter.
I saw a lot of this growing up. In order for the smear campaign against the father to work the mother must remove him from the child's life.
The sad part is sometimes they are even lying about who they are telling that innocent baby who their Father is 😢
True
That why I said stayed away from single mother.
Man!! These comments from brothers make me want to call my parents and thank them for doing their best to still hold it together to this day for us, their children. Because I cannot imagine living years without knowing my father, my beginning, my guide, my sense of manhood. Damn! I’m sorry y’all are going through this brothers, keep your heads up.
They cry while they're lying
Ain't that the naked truth
I realized my son mother was being guided away from me by my mother and her mother… Straight on welfare…. While I was taking care of all of them… and others around us. Now my son mother, Mom was passed away she’s rebuilding a relationship with her father and my mother is sick an I am the only person at her bedside….. it’s crazy how the tables turn !!!
Textbook analysis of how it went in my case. She told my kids I cheated on her when she was the one caught cheating. Brainwashing to the tee.
Dennis Spurling had a live stream regarding this very issue and man it was hard to hold back the tears listening to the pain of some of these young men when they finally had the chance to have a real conversation with their fathers and get their side of the story. One young man summed it up perfectly when he said "My childhood was stolen from me" with tears in his eyes. You are correct when say that most of these modern women are Narcs. You sound like you have read the DSM-5 and if you are reading that you have definitely encountered a Narc
Which episode do Dennis show was this?
yeah his childhood was stolen cuz no man is not going to see his children. He's going to exhaust every avenue and bm don't do that
Parental alienation is the worst that one could go through
True to your word sis these are hyenas in human form
Crimson mentioned something extremely vital to finding a workable woman to have a family with. Ask her what her flaws are! The longer they take to speak the answer the MORE stubborn a wife she will be! A woman that is aware of her flaws will less likely lose respect for you down the road cuz she will not over inflate her own value which can make a woman leave and take the children believing they are all the kids need.
Makes sense
Whenever I hear stuff like this, I realize how fortunate I was to have a mother that never bad talked my father in front of us and always allowed us to call and visit him. I love you Mom.
Same .
I'm fighting for my son right now in County Family Court. My son is 4 years old. I'm representing my self! I will not wait to tell my son the truth. I will fight right now...to be active in my son right now. I love you for this message!!! Thank you for this message!!! Black single mothers are the chief cornerstone for the destruction of our black culture as well as the character of our off spring for at least the last 60 years.
Pay for a lawyer
Watch the Lead Attorney save up for lawyer.
praying for you Man. similar situation here. Keep it GOING!
Everything you have said is absolutely TRUE.......They some vicious creatures........not even human beings.......they have devolved to devil creatures..........
Facts,I find myself wondering why God would even create such a being
They can never Destroy us Black Father's they can try but they will never succeed you can never Destroy anything the Most High is in control of... Please Remember This....APTTMH..
Which fathers? The ones they pinned another mans child on? The ones where they dont even know their name? Or the fathers who are actually proven to be that childs fathers?
True
This is SO TRUE what Kendra is speaking and teaching!!! One day my father got so depressed and despondent over a HUGE argument he and my mother wash having , that he dropped his head like a field slave and almost started to leave the family. He told me, "Son, I want you to know that I will always love you and your sisters?! " I responded back to him and told him that I LOVED HIM SO MUCH. At that time he stayed and did not leave us. My mother gave me the MOST EVIL look like she was going to kill me !!!
49 years ago I met a "Baby Momma" with 1 infant...I had no children myself..and a very good Professional income future.. 2 years into the relationship she left me and Married the deadbeat Father .... Divorce him and came back to me ( SIMP ..I know...NOW!) with another child...I took care of everyone....after 5 years of Marriage and 2 more children ( she never worked ..just ran the streets..) she Divorced me and Married a Drug Dealer...she lied to my kids and told them horrible things to make them hate..it worked....it was the WORST DECISION of my young LIFE!... I'm recently Retired and doing VERY WELL Financially..at 67 ...but this discussion hits home to me as a "Good ."Black Man.... Don't DO IT..Men😐😐 ! B1
So your relationship with your children didn’t get better??
U did that yourself
Funny. I just found out that I had kids a set of twins, they are 6 now but I met them at 5, after that now I can't see them because of her, I been through this when I was a kids with my mother and father, this has to stop, afterwhile there won't be any more of us! I don't talk to my mother now and I'm not going to, I talk to my father more now than my mother!
Faaacts! This happened to me. My son came to me at 26 and said dad now i see who the problem was all of these years. I feel my life would have turned out different if you had been in it.
I’m broken now, just told my 11 year old a few days ago that I cannot be in her life anymore due to the consistent evil of her mother. My heart and soul literally cannot take it anymore. The only good thing that has come of this is that I have come up with a set of techniques that I’m sure will turn all of this around. Hopefully once and for all.
The hell you mean you CAN'T be in her life anymore? Unless you're being incarcerated, that is some straight bulljive! You aren't doing her ANY favors dipping on your child like that. Get your shit together bruh!
So you're problem is that u still care. Caring about your kids. IS THE BEST JUST TO HEAR THEM LAUGH or see them SMILE. Literally gives u life. U haven't leaned to completely cut off ur feelings or care about what the woman says. Men are assholes by nature. YOUR NOT BEING THAT ASSHOLE. UR NOT BEING THAT JERK. You don't have to be mean or evil, But u do have to do what it takes to keep BREATHING. So a couple of suggestions from a man with kids from 31 to 5. U keep see her. U keep talking to her, u keep being there for HER. Her mother doesn't want u to talk to her. Go get her a phone. She doesn't want u to see her start going up to her school. Before school or after. If she calls the police on u. EVERY TIME U TELL THEM YOUR DOING A WELFARE CHECK. BECAUSE THEY MOTHER IS UNSTABLE IN HER MIND. Don't yell do not raise ur voice. DONT PROTECT UR SELF IF SHE HITS U TAKE IT ALL CALL THE POLICE AN GET PICTURES. This game is 100% free. 100% proven to work. Stop being emotional. Your job as a man is to care for NOT CARE ABOUT. Until u realize that it's gonna be tough.
Naw bruh, don't give up on her. Take a step back, she will see the evil in her mother. Had to do the same, and when my daughter hit 13, she now is 16 about to graduate high school, she realized who was doing the manipulation. She even made a song about me, and how much my encouragement and wisdom has brought her full circle and joy. Keep up the good fight, do what God has commissioned you to do brother
@@joreladams5719In some situations nothing good comes from staying. Especially when you’re emotionally tied. Irrational behavior is bound to come up. Think about why they tell lawyers and officers to stay away from certain cases because they are too close to them. So this is a tactical retreat of sorts but life is weird so it could very well be life long despite what I intend. So I must account for that outcome also. Ive come to understand that there is no such thing as fighting for your family in the way that we are used to as a society. It’s a joke and everyone just likes to see how much they can make the dad dance, while ignoring his suffering. But, the battle still needs to be fought. So it must become a very tactical one. Time, in addition to other tactics, are your greatest weapons. After analyzing my situation I’ve come to understand that children think they are fine when they are young. Like Kendra said, mom can do no wrong and when the child is with you it is a strained encounter. This is so true. But eventually the child will get older and will have questions. You just have to have everything in place for that time. If the situation with the mother is not toxic. Yes you must stay.
@@Observer4550 Save that bulljive, because this ain't it! Y'all co-signing this like it will magically get better. Y'all sound like cowards and it's pathetic! If you're scared to fight for your children and prefer to be deadbeats, then just say that, and NEVER complain about anything else in life going forward.
So true I have experience this with my daughter, and I'll tell you it's very painful and unnecessary. She is 34 years old we don't even have a good relationship. 😒
THIS IS MY LIFE CHILD SUPPORT HAS RUINED ME AND MY SON RELATIONSHIP AND MY LIFE
Mine as well with my daughter.
Did this happen from marriage?
I'm sorry you went through that bro. Child Support made life harder for me as well. Once it ended, I was able to do much better. Hang in there man. And your life may be filled with challenges but, as long as you keep GOD first, work hard, and be the best Father you can be, you will come out on the other side of that storm and flourish! Believe that.
Same here, it's been 13yrs since I seen my daughter and son. It hurts !!! But we're trying to heal the wounds. Thankful that they understand some of what has happened.
@@Ms.Janell6669 ❤️❤️❤️
They do this everyday and it’s sad they don’t see what they be doing specially in the hood smh sec 8 queens smh
I was trying to explain to my son the other day that I pretty much have to pay for everything twice when I pay child support and try to get him gifts myself for his bday and most of the gifts his mom buys is with my money
They really do dislike it I feel like I get under single women's skin when I talk about my husband he's so wonderful but I don't boast about it he's just an intricate part of my life so in daily conversation he comes up and I can just sense the them frowning up inside....its so disheartening
My husband is my best friend, i lift him up as he does me......
I just want to know WHY do women do this to men? Why!?!?!? Why are they so evil? I’m so glad that I am married to a God fearing woman who isn’t like this. 4 children together and they love me. It’s no greater feeling in this world.
As-salaamu-alaikum sister. Thank you!!!! This is so true. I am going through this right now. She is alienating my daughter against me, my daughter no longer calls me and she is only 15. I always call. Thank you Sister.
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This is how "Son Husbands" are created.
My God, Crimson Cure just dropped BARS the entire 14 minutes and 05 secs out of the 16 min and 27 seconds of this video 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Prime Example: 50 Cents Son!!
Tragic. We're so brainwashed that we self destruct at basically all levels. We need to get it together as a people 👎 👎
Not we. The Black mothers who behave in this way. A better solution is to mobilize politically and demand corrective measures to ensure no more parental alienation. Share this video on all of your social media.
I never seen my father…but it’s not like my mother ever tried to help me find him. But now that I go thru the same things with my kids (who I never see) I understand why he wouldn’t ever want to come around😂😂
Modern black women that have a high body count and a bunch of kids are like NFL running backs. If they keep getting used and worn out, the next team will be hesitant to sign them
And who gives them this "body count"? Why do we care
The problem is, women are upholding the lying sisterhood. Hell, my sister still believes amber heard. Women will not let go of supporting the sisterhood. Women can stop this at any time by calling each other out, just like men... But no.
This is why a lot of times I’m not here for help unfortunately…
Also the simps are also upholding the sisterhood as well…
@@RaiderSteelerfanMaan ESPECIALLY them
FACTS FACTS FACTS FACTS FACTS…….and more FACTS!!!!! I’m a survivor 💔😢😞
Exactly why passport bros exist ✈️🙋🏾♂️
I can feel this big time. So my teenage daughters expressed to me 2 years ago that they would like to stay with me and my wife instead of with my ex. So instead of allowing that my ex moved to another state with my children. All so she could continue to control the narrative about how she’s a single mom and all that. Now since it’s been a year she’s crying about the child support isn’t enough to help pay her bills and she might be evicted… oh well. 🤷🏾♂️
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YAY!!! I'm delighted to hear that she is getting rewarded for her behavior. I hope and pray your girls are able to reunite with you. Share this video on all of your social media.
My ex told me to leave town once she dumped me so she can have this single mom narrative and threatened me with child support lol smh she wana make me look bad so much I couldn't believe it
Sister, it's like you're telling my story, both with my mother and later on with my now ex-wife. I would think it was only me and not a cultural thing if other brothers weren't giving the exact same account.
We bM love you for Bringing the truth.
Gawd Almighty Kendra!!! You are so right it’s hard to imagine how evil a person has to be to do this. Delusional to think the truth will never be revealed.
Im still tryna fully understand it
This should of been a longer video left me wanting more keep up the good work
Ikr ,wanted more of that this was a great show 👏
U ain't playing today!!Preach
It's even more horrible when the dude realizes his dad's family had money.......
Best explanation of this target assassination against the black man from his own kind and wonder why we call you in my 2pac voice
Taking an example of a woman in Boston using the system to destroy a black family, Taking away the parental right of a foreign student to make money with the complicity of the department of children services, while this brother newly minted American citizen was away serving in the US NAVY, this brother ain't no druggie held a job ,no criminal record, never got even a call by the family court and found out about it years later, and the commonwealth of Massachusetts allows it to happen
I have been there. Kept me away from my daughter for 3 years despite getting child support . I had to lie to the county police and report my child missing just to get justice to the point she would be arrested if she did not pay the fee from going to jail.
When these women lie to their children in order to deceive them and corrupt their thoughts and feelings towards their father they are actually committing and abominable sin called "bearing false witness" and they are cursing themselves and their children. In this regard where the women have transgressed order and the man's right to raise his child or children in the knowledge and ways of the Lord the women therefore opens herself up to justifiable recompense. This is why single black mother's are at the top of the poverty food chain in America because their transgressions are great but the recompense is greater! Amen
Got a brother going through this right now with his son's mother. Won't let him see his son, lying about everything, and guess where she's getting it from? Her miserable psychotic mother. Living with her being miserable and bitter together, with his son in the middle of it. And the hold that the child support and court systems have on the mothers makes it virtually impossible for the rest of us to help. They'll just take take take money and do nothing unless major abuse by the mother can be proved. This stuff is ruining generations even as we speak. It's pure evil.
It is time for us to mobilize in every state and demand these laws be changed immediately and offer absolutely no compromise on our demands and vote every one of these SOB out of office and pay for the politician we want to give us the political favor we need.
I would like to share a story in my own personal life that resonates with exactly what this sister was speaking of . I'm 49 years old & very recently finally had the opportunity to share my side of the story with my now 23yr old son. I once upon a time did some things that I not proud of ( pookie & ray ray lifestyle ) but served my time & returned to society trying to better my life . I had my son back then which inspired me more to do right , unfortunately his mother was very toxic & didn't see long term as I did for the betterment of our son ... 🙄 eventually I was removed from the home due 2 my parole stipulations bcuz of domestic complaints made by my sons mother in which she constantly used my being on parole as a tool to manipulate the circumstances. As I continued to try and be in my son's life she would cause arguments, call police , use my being on parole as I said ( even had me arrested for false allegations of harassment on my own child) to keep me away. Eventually I did ... not bcuz I didn't care but it came detrimental to my production of being a productive citizen ... once she found out that I was on that track ( working , being productive, etc ) she took me for child support ... needless to say I never disputed it & agreed to pay such bcuz looking back I was defeated & kinda saw it as a way to be supportive in my son's life ... fast forward pass that ... I found out while I was paying the child support that my son was literally put in foster care bcuz SHE COULDNT HANDLE HIM & NOT ONLY THAT BUT ALSO APPLIED FOR SOCIAL SECURITY & LABELED HIM AS HAVING SOME SORT OF EMOTIONAL ISSUES, ADHD, ETC... I HAD NO IDEA BUT AS I WAS GOING TO COURT TO FIND OUT MORE ( BCUZ SHE WROTE ME OFF AS BEING ABUSIVE TO JUSTIFY MY ABSENCE ALONG WITH THE POLICE REPORTS ALSO MY CRIMINAL HISTORY TO BACK UP THE ALLEGATIONS ) THE ACS COULDN'T & WOULDNT GIVE ME ANY INFORMATION ABOUT HIM. THIS APPARENTLY WENT ON FOR YEARS UNTIL RECENTLY ... I FOUND OUT MY SON WAS INCARCERATED THROUGH THE DATABANKS OF LOOKING HIM UP , HE AGED OUT OF THE FOSTERCARE SYSTEM & GRADUATED TO THE JUDICIAL ONE 😔😔😔 I TRACKED HIM DOWN AND WROTE HIM A LETTER ASKING HIM TO GET IN CONTACT WITH ME IN WHICH HE FINALLY DID ... I EXPLAINED MY SIDE OF THE STORY AS TO WHY I WASNT AROUND & HE SHARED TO ME WHAT WAS TOLD TO HIM BY HIS MOTHER WHICH OBVIOUSLY WAS HALF OF THE TRUTH HE ALSO TOLD ME THAT HE NEVER RECEIVED A PENNY FROM THR CHILD SUPPORT WHICH WAS PROBABLY THE REASON HE STARTED LEADING A LIFE OF CRIME ... ( MY SPECULATIONS ) HE ALSO INFORMED ME THAT EVEN WHILE INCARCERATED CURRENTLY SHE LEFT HIM FOR DEAD 🙄😔 AND PROBABLY STILL COLLECT SSI BENEFITS FOR HIM. I THANK THE ALMIGHTY THAT IM IN BETTER SITUATION & GOTTEN MY LIFE IN ORDER TO BE THERE FOR HIM NOW AND WE RECONCILED ALOT OF THE DISCREPANCIES FROM THE PAST ... HE TOLD ME HE SPOKE TO HIS MOMS & TOLD HER HE SPOKE TO ME ... DONT YOU KNOW SHE CAUGHT A STRAIGHT ATTITUDE WHICH MY BECAME SUDDENLY ALARMED TO ... SMDH 🙄 WHICH KINDA HELPED MY STORY & KINDA ALLOWED HIM TO SEE THINGS IN MY PERSPECTIVE . ( BESIDES THE FACT OF ME TRACKING HIM DOWN TO WHERE HE CURRENTLY IS ) I TELL THIS STORY BCUZ IT HAD SIMILAR TRUTH TO EVERYTHING THIS SISTER EXPLAINING I WAS YOUNG BUT LEARNED ALOT FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCES WITH THESE HYENAS... I HOPE YOU BROTHERS DONT HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT & THE ONES THAT HAVE SIMILAR EXPERIENCES JUST KNOW THERE WILL BE A TIME THAT YOU GET TO TELL YOUR SIDE OF THE STORY. IVE SEEN SOOOOOO MANY BROTHERS, SONS , ETC GOING THROUGH SUCH & IVE ALWAYS TOLD THEM THAT THERES 2 SIDES TO THE STORY BEFORE YOU HOLD OPINIONS & TAKE THE MOTHER SIDE ... FIND OUT 1ST BEFORE DRAWING CONCLUSIONS. THANK YOU CRIMSON CURE FOR ALL THE ENLIGHTMENT & PLEASE BROTHERS TAKE HEED AND BE VERY CAUTIOUS WHO YOU PRO CREATE WITH 🙏 🙏🙏🙏
@GreatKendra.. sure ... when would be the best time ? I'm @ work & have school afterwards so let me know.
Your story is so good because it's one I can read again and again because as much as it pisses me off about what you as a man as a father what you have to go through and that it's sooo many women that put a man through this is just plain BS I'm a man myself and went through similar situations with my kids mother, It's like it's in a DNA for a lot of these women to have that same process to ruin the kids life and hurt the father's and the sad thing about it is that these young girls that's coming up are going to be the same way when they have kids and it's gonna keep going on and on. These women don't fear God because they feel like they are God, they feel like they have no one to answer to and the doors of heaven is just waiting for them to come in. God bless you man and keep doing your thing.
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Can you do a video of all of these studs in the black community? (Black women that think they’re men)
Grateful my grandparents took me in 🔥
This happened with my dad and I. My dad tried to have a relationship with me but my mom wanted to be a part of it. If he didn’t want to include her she would start all kinds of drama with him.
I do the same thing. Your father most likely is the type of man who is an all-or-nothing man and won't compromise. He loves you but is never going to budge on including your mother in anything. He most likely became indifferent to her because she betrayed his trust and that was probably a non-negotiable for him. I have not spoken to my ex in over four years and never will again. I missed one visit with my daughter in four years because I was at a funeral when my aunt died which was almost 2,000 miles away.
Madam, you unknowingly anatomized my personal life. I endure disrespect from my 11 y/o baby daughter bc she is mom’s remaining link to get to me.
Saddened to hear of your travail and pray that you come out of this nonsense with your sanity, focus, and resolve. Please share this video on all of your social media.
Please know the history of your state and city when it comes to custody battlegrounds. When you hear that some states favor women, don't take it lightly but continue to fight and not loose hope. Thank you my sister, you are so "inlightful," which is beyond insightful. I pray daily you are always intertwined in the grace and protection of "Yah-Wah."
This topic resonates with a lot of men....needs to be aired... you cover the salient points very truthfully...I appreciate your perspective... great work...
This is what my mom did to me to a T. I’ve finally woke up from her fantasy world and when I speak my truth she tells everyone in the family I’m crazy wtf 🤣
CC, talking my business, how she know my daughter mother 😂 facts on facts. Bless you sister for speaking the truth about some of these black women. 🙏🏿
Me and my baby mama are enemies. everything I do and say is wrong. She want me to bow down to her, talk to me any type of way give her more money than I'm already paying child support on and her my kid more than her than the court order. All while controlling me, I can't do this or that, brainwash my kid to think her new man is daddy, I can't have any say so. Im only a babysitter whenever she don't feel like being around my kid. I'm trying to fight her in court I'm really am
She doesn't work. When she did had a job she quit all of them. It only our child whenever she have a issue with me not being you
But you know what the sad part about it is not talking about the men but the women that find themselves in the situation and confront them others they still don't blame the mothers and say things like well that's my mother she did what she had to do and I still love my mother and as the saying goes mama can't do no some men do the same thing but generally the man is usually done with her...
Peace to the Goddess I agree with you 💯% this Hyenas and Tawana need to be checked and call out to be accountable for there actions!!!!!
Ecclesiasticus 25:19
All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.
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That happened to me. ..this is A SERIOUS SYNDROME..
I have so much to speak on this with, I never received an apology from my mother at all, am I wrong for purposely neglected her like she did me with my father? I've hated all the lies she told me behind him, until that day came and I spoke with him! Mothers are liars!!!!!!!
You just said something sista Kendra that alot of people don't consider.. what alot of these women will do is make it SO DIFFICULT for the man when he is trying to see his kids that eventually for his own peace and sanity he just leaves the situation and has too abandon his child
The problem with this whole situation is so many black women have mental health issues and the love of a black man cannot fix her issues. A woman with mental issues will wreck your entire life in a single moment and want even think twice about the hurt she has done. Messing up your money, your property or causing physical harm/ damage to you means absolutely nothing to them. This curse passes on from one generation to the next, the daughters are messed up, the sons are messed up and they produce more messed up kids. I'm 61 yrs old and it is so hard for me to trust a black woman that I may end up dying alone eventhough I have the finicial means to take care of someone special for life. (Hard work does pay off) I'm no angle but damn it shouldn't be this hard to bond with a black female.
@@dman221 I've had a passport since 1989 and yes I've lived in a few foreign countries. It's a beautiful planet when you have the means to travel it.
Hi Kindra this is So true. As Kelvin Samuels would say. Have You heard your Father's side of the story? I start at the house of God. These same women go to church and lie to their children for years about the child's father. This is a good one. Now what little hope the father had about connecting with his children are pretty much gone. Please keep talking about this subject. The core of every man Not male is PEACE. Thankyou Kendra.
Every thing she just stated is so true, I know it happened to me exactly as she described
This video hit home. Had to listen TWICE.
Same here
I can completely relate but how it applies to being wrongly accused. I was subject to a young man for 42 years thinking one thing and when we finally did talk the ugly truth came out. When we finally did speak, I explained that the mother's son when we were together was unfaithful and got pregnant while I was in school in North Carolina. Because of our situation, I requested a paternity test back then and she refused and periodically through out her son's life, although I never met him, I would ask for the test. It was only 2 years ago I was able to speak with him and explain my side of the story. We agreed to do paternity test and the results came back the way I thought they would, HEVWAS NOT MINE!!! if we would have done it 42 years ago. If this was done 42 years ago the drama and trama would not has exist. The unfortunate thing, how could this woman lie to her son about me being the Daddy and having him believe I'm not there as a father. Sad.
This scenario deserves so much more than a comment section and needs a video presentation with you and the man who is 42 and was lied to for so long. Please consider making a video with him on your cell phone or hire a videographer to film it and edit for you and him to upload on all social media. Share this video by the Crimson Cure on all of your social media.
It happened to me…
I love how all of your channels are connected. Justpearlythings, rivah, DeeDee, d'nieka, mediocre...all of yall are passionate about getting this society back on track. I hope for your continued success...
Man she preaching.
THIS TOPIC NEEDS TO BE DEFINITELY TALKED ABOUT MORE OFTEN. BECAUSE THERE ARE SO SO MANY DEADBEAT MOMS OUT HERE WHO DON'T GET ANYWHERE NEAR THE ACCOUNTABILITY THROWN THEIR WAY LIKE DEADBEAT DADS RECEIVE ON A REGULAR BASIS.
Great analysis! You always deliver the most thorough breakdowns of how our women willingly make themselves tools, extensions, and overseers of the system of ws. A plan which is to totally and systematically destroy the Black fathers and ultimately Black nation by incentivizing and playing on the Black womans desire and inclination to want and have power.
This happens 90% of the time
But they are so arrogant they forget that they have to die and they think they can outsmart God, and I'm almost sure they offer God they ass not to go hell . But at that time daddy can't help
Talk sister! Oh my Yah I 🖤 u Crimson Cure. They have burned that social contract to the ground.
KENDRA THIS TOPIC IS WAY TO IMPORTANT TO NOT MAKE INTO A 3 OR 4 PART SERIES. THERE NEEDS TO BE A PART 2 3&POSSIBLY A 4 TO THIS PARTICULAR TOPIC. PLEASE DO SOME MORE PARTS TO THIS TOPIC. PLEASE!!!
The show "Raising Kanan" is a good example of this.
You nailed this! Went through the same thing.
These are immutable facts and alienation tactics;courts in Alabama amongst others in the nation are starting to recognize the nefarious triangulation methods don't by these scorned creatures.
She just described my whole situation with my ex. Yes after so much chaos and drama I had to make the painful decision never to come around her again. She took me through hell. Now I just pay my child support and tear up and my child pictures everyday. I miss my son 😢.
Thank you for sharing that knowledge