I am a trans women and i have watched you for years. I had a sense that you were transgender because i went through the same thing. At first i thought i was gender fluid for 5 months. Then it hit me.... it was an excuse to deny the reality of my trans identity. I'm a woman and I'm glad you realized it also.
That’s awesome that you can come out and say this! Nothing wrong with changing labels : ) I used to identify as genderfluid, but now I just prefer nonbinary. Also, would you prefer exclusively she/her pronouns now?
Three years ago when I was questioning my gender I found you, and you were a really big help. I'm afab non-binary/genderfluid and almost completely closeted after being rejected, and it's so soooo amazing to see how you are thriving as yourself! Maybe someday I can be myself too :)
This warmed my heart. Congratulations. I have been following your videos since you came out as genderfluid and used that term myself too for a few years before realising actually trans earlier this year. Everyone has a different journey but they are all just as valid and important. I'm so excited for what the future holds as you continue to grow into the truth of who you are. And can only hope that you can feel comfortable sharing that journey with us on UA-cam also.
I kinda figured you were when you went to your job the first time as a woman. And there seems to be a few out there that are finding themselves. Nothing to be upset about you are who you are.
so happy to hear the news and hope everything goes wonderfully! I hope you and your wife (who is adorable btw and im very happy you meet her) are doing really good and have a fantastic life, and hope your transition goes smoothly. You help me when I was genderfluid and later on i realized i was trans and hearing you also coming out as trans and still have your genderfluid background really helps in some way. Also you look really beautiful !!!
I discovered your channel about two years ago when I was still heavily closeted. Your channel was one of the first influences in convincing me to come out. Like yourself, I identified as genderfluid for a brief period (and I still do today, from time to time), but very quickly figured out I'm solidly on the transfeminine end of the spectrum. Now, I've been on HRT for just over a year, and I've never been happier. And you are in part responsible for that, so from the very bottom of my hear, thank you! :)
I'm so glad that you've found a discovery in your gender identity. You sound so much happier now! I support you in your transition and I'm so happy that you and your wife are making the decision to have kids in the future. Lots of love your way, Grace! 💞😊
I wish you all the best! Good luck with everything, and know your viewers are behind you!💃💃 I thought I was transmasc, but I’ve felt pretty much constantly in between for the past year, so I can relate a little lol. It can change, and it’s totally okay when it does🙌
Go you! I have loved watching your videos for a longtime now, and they have helped to give me a great perspective towards my own gender identity, so thank you so very much for that! I consider myself gender fluid and have questioned whether I am actually transgender, and will continue to give that more thought, but for the time being, I am very happy being gender fluid. Lots of love and good energy to you! Thank you so much! :*
You were actually the person that helped me the most transitioning from being a transgender woman to genderfluid :) I actually present more male most of the time now but basicly identify as nonbinary or of no gender. I guess the presentation thing with me has lately more to do with me being lazy haha and I kind have to catch up with all the cool men styles I've been missing in the past years. Congratulations to your coming out! I don't know you personally but you've helped me so much and you have the loveliest aura about you! Good luck!
I know figuring things out can be hard and I’m really proud of you for embracing every second of it and using the scariness and unsureness to learn and grow! 💕
I am happy that you are happy. I hope to get there someday where I am truly happy with who I really am. I love both being a guy and a girl so I don't want to go as far as you but I will love to watch any video you make. For being a transvestite is who I am and I hope next year I can finally be who I really am and finally go shopping for women's clothes and dress up as a woman in public a lot. I want to thank you for being inspiring and making these videos. Keep up the great work and keep on being who you really are.
I’ve been unsubscribed for a while due to being busy and cutting down on the video load but I’ve always looked up to you and looked to you as a sort of inspiration. While I may not identify the same as you, you inspire me to be who I am unapologetically. Thanks for that. Btw subscribed again.
I started following you recently because you have a very lighthearted , refreshing attitude that make your videos fun to watch. I use you as a guidepost for my journey too.
Awesome! Thanks for explaining that for you this new label doesn't invalidate your previous experience and labels as I really needed to hear that. Also you and Michelle would both be great mums :) All the best, have a great week! -J
Congrats and welcome, sister! As someone who found your channel back in late 2016 when I first started exploring my gender identity and solidly identified as genderfluid your videos were amazingly educational and inspirational during that time period -- thank you! As someone who has since moved into full-on binary trans territory myself (identified as of February 2018, HRT since April 2018), I can say that HRT is wonderfully helpful (though, forestalling it to try for kids is definitely understandable) and the most immediate effects I noticed were an expansion in the depth & breadth of my emotional experience that I wouldn't give up for the world. Hopefully things go well for you!
Super happy for and proud of you! So glad you can live your life even more authentically than you were already! (I called this like 3 years ago, before I worked out I was trans myself lmao) We all get there eventually and I'm so happy for you for getting to this point 💛
Hey, sorry I'm pretty tardy to this pardy, but I just wanted to let you know how happy both this and you make me. I first started watching your videos years ago when I first began to really feel that something different to the accepted norm was going on with me in terms of gender, and I found you so supportive and lovely! To see this video now a few years on, how things have changed and how happy you are makes my heart glow! I'm still unsure about my gender, v v wibbly wobbly, but thank thank thank you for just being you and spreading so much love into the world X Hello from London X
I've been watching you for years now, since way back when I too identified as genderfluid! You were the only genderfluid youtuber I could find way back then, and even when I eventually came to terms with being fully transgender I found your videos so very supportive. Whether or not some people believe in genderfluidity, it's hard to argue that it does do some good for those of us who are trans but struggling to come to terms with it - it allows us to express our gender either way without feeling alone (one pro to labels I guess). It certainly did me a whole lot of good, and I can see it did the same for you too
It's interesting watching my online role models mature as I do, it's like ya'll are real ass people living somewhere in reality!? Makes me feel much less alone. Thank you, Grace for helping me be more of myself! I feel like I have tons to say but I just gush with happiness when I see new videos from you. Awesome to see you flourish
I think it's great that u had the bravery to share your story, because there are so many people who are scared to. Hun I just found your channel and I say as long as u are happy with who u are then that's what is most important. Big hugs and love xx
It is nice to hear how confident you are in announcing your new identity. Throughout the years, I've struggled with trying to keep myself in a box, and I'm thankful to be of a mindset that I no longer have to do that. Keep up the awesomeness, boss.
Congratulations on finding who you are. I am trying to find who I am and it is a scary time for me. I have been considering myself as Gender Fluid but as you have shown it might change. Also my family situation is scary right now as I came out of the Summer. My parents except me for being Pansexual but they tell me that I am male when I do not always feel like it. I started to wear more feminine clothing but my parents freaked out and my mom tried to take the clothes away from me. I have not worn them since and I have hid them.
Amazing going from this vid that I remember watching years ago to seeing the voice you have become now. Your journey is wonderful Grae, I'm always so proud of you 💜
I SOOOO LOVE YOUR VIDEOS, GRACE, YOU’RE AWESOME!! I SUPPORT YOUR TRANSITION!! Also I’m trying to transition actually, via HRT and potentially a vaginoplasty as well. But I need to figure out how to financially do that and a second bachelors degree.
Don't worry Grace. This changes nothing as far as I am concerned. I still support you 110%. Esp since I...um...kinda saw this video coming. In fact I even asked bout on your last video lol. Relatively the same thing happened to me in reverse. I identified as gender fluid for bout a year before coming out as trans. That's actually how I found your channel. But over time my girl days went away all together and my neutral day were few and far between. That's when i realized I am just a guy. I wish I hadn't been 28 before learning this but what can I do. I am now 30 and while I am out as ftm & living as male with my amazing best friend/roommate...hoping to replace roommate with gf in the near future...I am still at square one with my transition. Finding the money to start T is really hard to do. But I keep fighting. Anyway enough bout me. I am so happy for you. I can see just how happy you are in your skin and its a beautiful thing.
The impression I always got from watching you and this awesome channel of yours for the last 4 years was that you were constantly experimenting with both genders, trying to figure out which one matched you best. Congratulations on finding yourself. All the best for your transition. PS. I can 100% relate to sometimes feeling really girly and not so much at other times. Its very difficult and incredibly annoying but for me I feel as though I know the type of things that can lead me to a more consistent feminine feeling if that makes any sense.
I guess this took a lot of courage, even though you already came out. Every time it's just as scary as the first time. Grace, I support and you keep being the amazing and beautiful woman you are. Sending you lots of love from The UK.
I am so happy for you and your wife! I kinda dealt with the same thing before I came out as trans. Floated around the non-binary and genderfluid part of the spectrum, before finally figuring out that I was just trans femme. Also, HRT does take some time to kick in. I have been on it for a year and a half (as of today, actually) and things really didn’t start to kick in until about 6 months ago. Usually doctors tend to start you at a lower dosage before ramping it up. To that degree, everyone’s milage varies with HRT. Apologies for the essay, best of luck with everything!
Totes saw this coming :P Anyways so glad you came to terms with it and are happy, you and your videos are always a shining light on my day and I am so glad to hear from you again. I started HRT once but then I had to jump back into the closet, but you can start T blockers now, and it will/should prevent the testosterone from ravaging your body. And when you plan on having kids just drop them. Anyways, please please continue giving us updates and posting amazing content. Can't wait to hear from you again. :) Much Love!
You know what's fun, is when I watched your explaining genderfluidity video, I thought I was a biological female. Watching this now, I can relate! I'm a trans man! I've thought about this for a few years in fact and I've come to the conclusion I am in fact a man. So I can relate in a way! Not in the mtf way, but the fact that I am ftm. I hope maybe you see this and we can talk. I'm proud of you and I'm still sorta new to your channel but I have been watching you for a while now!
Wow, no shit sherlock. Love, hope the best possible future, for both of you. On an unrelated topic, how are you feeling about the new Doctor Who? Personally, i'm looking forward to it, i know you're a fan, what are your thoughts?
Aaaahhh! I'm so happy for you!! Figuring out who you are and what you're comfortable with has to be one of the greatest feelings. Hope everything goes amazing with you!! Also, you and your wife are goals.
I started watching your videos back when I identified as genderfluid aswell. I now identify as a transguy, so we’re kind of on the same boat haha. Wish you the best of luck :)
I'm so happy and excited for you! I followed a pretty similar path of finding myself, identifying as genderfluid for a while before realizing nope, I'm just a girl!! I started HRT and started living as a girl all the time and am happier than ever. I'm so glad you found what's right for you and that your partner is so wonderful. You two are too cute together!
For a while, I thought I was gender fluid I recently discovered about demi male so that's where I'm at right now. I love your videos and think that you're awesome, you helped me discover so much about myself (and frankly I love your doctor who references) so thank you
It’s very refreshing to see someone who is an adult and also not only recognizes the fluidity and diversity of gender, but has experienced it themself! As a trans identifying teen, constantly being told that gender is solidified from early development is very invalidating. I have been experiencing absolutely horrific gender dysphoria for the past few years, but did not show signs as a child. For a while I enjoyed being perceived as feminine, as it was what gave me the most praise. But once I was introduced to the transgender community, I realized how much more comfortable I am presenting as male. When my chest is flat and people call me “he” I feel the most myself. When that doesn’t happen, I feel awful. But, sometimes my dysphoria calms down a bit and I can wear a bikini with ease. During those times, being called “she” still doesn’t feel right, but there isn’t much pain that usually comes with it. I wish everyone realized that gender isn’t always set in stone. It can change over time. Most people just don’t want to admit it because it’ll “make the transgender community look like a joke” which is bullshit. People used to think that bisexuality was invalid and would exclude bisexuals from queer spaces. People get used to new identities over time. Also, people don’t want to accept the fluidity of gender because it’s scary to think that things can change. Through this logic, a transgender person could have a surgery to alleviate their dysphoria and then a few years later, identify with their gender assigned at birth. But, other people’s fears should not limit ones ability to express who they are. Some people are gender fluid. That’s just who they are.
Hey,I wanted to say thanks for sharing your journey on the screen,it helped me a lot in my self Discovery journey,being trans lesbian was too complicated subject for me to discover,when you are digging in to make sense of your personality and sexuality which is strange sometimes.i always wanted to be the girl who want to be with other girl,I wish you happiness 🌈💜
Hey Grace I’m so proud of you! I kind of had a hunch that you may end up being trans. I feel like we have been going through similar things. When I first found your videos I was questioning my gender. Since then I have told my best friends about my preferred name (Elizabeth) and they have been so accepting. I haven’t been able to get as far as talking to my parents about it yet..... (scary) but I do want to because I also hope to start HRT in the near future. My beautiful wife has been very supportive and my beautiful children have accepted me as well (I was lucky to get the whole kids the out of the way early). I really hope to talk more with you someday and swap stories and experiences. Stay safe!
I haven't changed my youtube account yet but I've been on hormones since April. I decided to go full-time female this afternoon and I'm not looking back.
I was not expecting this to be honest, but the entire video I just kept screaming in my head ".........WAIT SHE'S MARRIED TO HER?!" I thought you were just girlfriends! Congrats and everything! I'm so happy for you.....also your hairs beautiful!
Congratulations on this new self-discovery! I am cheering for you and wishing you well on this new-ish, not so unfamiliar journey. Also, just as well, good luck for the future with organizing new priorities be them babies or hormones. I sincerely hope you can enjoy every part of it, of course that goes for your lovely wife as well. On a random note, I really like your bedspread. I am really into designs, but especially for skirts, bedspreads, and make-up/tattoo art in case that helps to clarify, haha. It was a pleasure hearing from you again! 😄
Yay! Im so happy for you!!! As a trans girl (who’s in stealth 90% of the time) your channel has constantly inspired me and it makes me so happy to see you happier and I love you and can’t wait to see your journey grow wherever you go 🙌🏾🤟🏾💜😭😫
In truth you just managed to merge Grace and Grayden, so there's no need for bigendery anymore, and believe me, I'm glad to see you reach this point after so long.
I'm so proud of you and so happy to see how happy you are!! You've been my favourite since I started watching before i even came out and you've helped me and so many others with gender identity. Sending you lots of love & happiness from George/Georgia xx
So I identified as genderfluid for almost 2 years, but recently I've noticed I float around non-binary and masculine areas way more than feminine. I just say I'm genderqueer now, but I'm really nervous that one day I'll just discover I'm ftm. Not that theres anything wrong with that, I just hate how slowly I am discovering all this. Got any tips for someone who is going through the same thing you did but for the opposite side?
So Happy for you!!!♥♥ Some people find labels like "demiwoman" or "non binary woman" useful, but honestly my advice is express yourself in a way that makes you comfortable and worry about labels later
I knew it! Lol ages ago your videos help me first figure out that I was gender fluid and after awhile of being able to experiment with my gender I found out I was just trans.Its just a wonderful full circle to see you coming out as trans too. ^^. Thanks for the awesome videos and being such a big help. You're lovely, awesome, and effing magical. CONGRATULATIONS ^^!!
Literally same. I watched one video and was curious. And then I was like holy asshat! This is relatable! And I carried on watching, then I found stef and I was like holy asshat,! I'm actually just trans!
Hi Grace...Nice to see you again.....As you always said....Important is to be YOU....Of course I support your transition. Honestly I don't know how different is for you to be Transgender or Genderfuid but that's not the most important. If you're happy everything is perfect for me.
Cool that you came out! I’m happy for you but you make it sound like being genderfluid isn’t and can’t be trans. I’m fluidflux which is really similar to genderfluid and I am trans. Maybe you didn’t identify as trans while you identified as genderfluid but anyone who doesn’t identify wholly as their agab can technically say they are trans if they want to. I just wanted to make sure you knew because while this video was super sweet and nice, it did make me worry that it’ll confirm to certain people that genderfluid people can’t be trans. No matter what I’m super happy for you and I can’t wait to see more from you!💜
It's kind of wired that all of the gender fluid UA-camrs I found back in the day when I was starting to explore my own gender identity have since come out as simply just binary trans. :D And that journey happened to me as well: after a period of thinking I was fluid, I realized that the days when I didn't have dysphoria wasn't days when I was a male, they were just days when I didn't have dysphoria, so presenting male wasn't an issue, and it was only more comfortable because it didn't break the social norm. As for delaying HRT: it's the right way to go if you want to have kids, but here is one thing to consider. I'm one of those trans girls, who were pretty passable even before HRT just like you. Turns out the reason I was somewhat androgynous is that my hormone levels were all fucked up. Both my T and E levels were half way between normal male and female levels. Which was great in terms of passing, but sucked in terms of being almost sterile to begin with. They managed to extract enough sperm for artificial insemination, but naturally I probably wouldn't have been able to have kids. My point is, that since you do look pretty feminine to begin with, it might be a good idea to check on those sperm cells as soon as possible, just to stay on the safe side. :) If you have the same condition as I do, the earlier you have it checked the better chances you have to have children.
If you read this, please, answer me, because this video made me confused. It's not about you. It's about ME. Let me explain myself: 2 years ago I got into a deep identity crisis and I had no one to talk to except a few friends. I never felt happy to be born a woman and, in fact, I never felt female. I also never felt masculine. I know I'm not transgender, because I like many things about my female body and personality, but I was trying to find my true gender, since there are a lot of different genders. One of my friends said I could be genderfluid and so I strated to search about it, because I didn't know anything about it. When I started to search about it on youtube, one of the very first videos I saw was one of you explaining what genderfluid is and thanks a lot for that video, because it really helped me that time. But seeing you coming out as a trangender made me confused, because if my genderfluid reference (of, I don't usually watch your videos, but sometimes I do) come out as a transgender, I don't know what to think about genderfluid because it made me question myself again. I never met any genderfluid, to know if genderfluids usually came out as transgenders. That's why I'm confused. Ok, I still couldn't find out what gender I am (because now I even feel like a non-binary person), but I stoped searching about it (because it was making me really sad). How can you be a genderfluid a few years/months ago and now your not? Can a person change his/her gender during a life time? Is it possible? That's why I got confused. Sorry if I made any comment that made you feel disrespect. That wan't my intencion. Also, sorry for my bad english (because english is not my native lenguage).
I wrote it on your Facebook but I'll write it here too I hope love and peace and acceptance follows you on your journey to being Who You Are. And I hope you and your wife much love and luck with having a baby I am sure you will both make wonderful mothers
I sway still, but am much more comfortable now. If I ever find another, wife died, she'll have to be someone who loves whoever I am and will encourage and take my hand helping me further along the way. I am also a "male lesbian" as I heard someone say once. Transition...is not in my books and at 61 it's ok, I'm not dysphoric. Peace...
I’m genderfluid and i have also been more on the female side....(i was born female) yet I do have my days.... days that I wanna be a guy so bad. I am a weird human.... atm i DONT know what I’m feeling I’m just.... whatever. But my thing with pronouns still stands. They don’t matter to me call me he, she, her, him, they, them, call me it for all I care!
I'm so proud of you and everything! love your videos!!! and this is extremely relatable BTW. same thing. it's like a war almost. male and how things "used to be". then female and new and exciting and scary and fresh.
At a point I did identify as genderfluid but now I am nonbinary trans feminine. I want to go on hrt but sadly I can’t because I am still closeted and with my not so lgbtq+ supportive family. I use they/them.
I identified as gender fluid for like 7 years, before ending up at demigirl. Shit is confusing and hard to figure out. There's not exactly a user manual.
I did the same thing, just reversed. I was in denial about being male, so I decided to be male “half the time,” but I know that was not true. I’m a full blown trans male.
How long were you in the closet before you came out at genderfluid because I don't feel 100% male or female at the moment but I feel like where my parents are older if I came out as genderfluid they would be confused and wouldnt support me. Also im happy for you and I didn't know you were married . congrats hope you guys are happy ❤
i used to identify as genderfluid but then i started not feeling it anymore for some reason. now i just identify as a cis girl who doesn't give any effs about gender roles 😁
Heh, this is funny to me because At First I thought That I was FTM But Then I identified as Genderfuild But Now I really don't Care for Gender anymore. But Thank you for Making videos on being genderfuild. It really helped me On accepting Who I am.
I am a trans women and i have watched you for years. I had a sense that you were transgender because i went through the same thing. At first i thought i was gender fluid for 5 months. Then it hit me.... it was an excuse to deny the reality of my trans identity. I'm a woman and I'm glad you realized it also.
That’s awesome that you can come out and say this! Nothing wrong with changing labels : ) I used to identify as genderfluid, but now I just prefer nonbinary. Also, would you prefer exclusively she/her pronouns now?
Three years ago when I was questioning my gender I found you, and you were a really big help. I'm afab non-binary/genderfluid and almost completely closeted after being rejected, and it's so soooo amazing to see how you are thriving as yourself! Maybe someday I can be myself too :)
This warmed my heart. Congratulations. I have been following your videos since you came out as genderfluid and used that term myself too for a few years before realising actually trans earlier this year. Everyone has a different journey but they are all just as valid and important.
I'm so excited for what the future holds as you continue to grow into the truth of who you are. And can only hope that you can feel comfortable sharing that journey with us on UA-cam also.
I’m trans too! I identified as genderfluid and now I’m a trans male. I’m proud of who I am and you should be too :)
I kinda figured you were when you went to your job the first time as a woman. And there seems to be a few out there that are finding themselves. Nothing to be upset about you are who you are.
so happy to hear the news and hope everything goes wonderfully! I hope you and your wife (who is adorable btw and im very happy you meet her) are doing really good and have a fantastic life, and hope your transition goes smoothly. You help me when I was genderfluid and later on i realized i was trans and hearing you also coming out as trans and still have your genderfluid background really helps in some way. Also you look really beautiful !!!
I discovered your channel about two years ago when I was still heavily closeted. Your channel was one of the first influences in convincing me to come out. Like yourself, I identified as genderfluid for a brief period (and I still do today, from time to time), but very quickly figured out I'm solidly on the transfeminine end of the spectrum. Now, I've been on HRT for just over a year, and I've never been happier. And you are in part responsible for that, so from the very bottom of my hear, thank you! :)
I'm so glad that you've found a discovery in your gender identity. You sound so much happier now! I support you in your transition and I'm so happy that you and your wife are making the decision to have kids in the future. Lots of love your way, Grace! 💞😊
I wish you all the best! Good luck with everything, and know your viewers are behind you!💃💃 I thought I was transmasc, but I’ve felt pretty much constantly in between for the past year, so I can relate a little lol. It can change, and it’s totally okay when it does🙌
Go you! I have loved watching your videos for a longtime now, and they have helped to give me a great perspective towards my own gender identity, so thank you so very much for that! I consider myself gender fluid and have questioned whether I am actually transgender, and will continue to give that more thought, but for the time being, I am very happy being gender fluid. Lots of love and good energy to you! Thank you so much! :*
You were actually the person that helped me the most transitioning from being a transgender woman to genderfluid :) I actually present more male most of the time now but basicly identify as nonbinary or of no gender. I guess the presentation thing with me has lately more to do with me being lazy haha and I kind have to catch up with all the cool men styles I've been missing in the past years. Congratulations to your coming out! I don't know you personally but you've helped me so much and you have the loveliest aura about you! Good luck!
I know figuring things out can be hard and I’m really proud of you for embracing every second of it and using the scariness and unsureness to learn and grow! 💕
I am happy that you are happy. I hope to get there someday where I am truly happy with who I really am. I love both being a guy and a girl so I don't want to go as far as you but I will love to watch any video you make. For being a transvestite is who I am and I hope next year I can finally be who I really am and finally go shopping for women's clothes and dress up as a woman in public a lot. I want to thank you for being inspiring and making these videos. Keep up the great work and keep on being who you really are.
I’ve been unsubscribed for a while due to being busy and cutting down on the video load but I’ve always looked up to you and looked to you as a sort of inspiration. While I may not identify the same as you, you inspire me to be who I am unapologetically. Thanks for that. Btw subscribed again.
I started following you recently because you have a very lighthearted , refreshing attitude that make your videos fun to watch. I use you as a guidepost for my journey too.
Congratulations on becoming You. You were and are beautiful. Thanks for sharing your journey with us. ❤️
Awesome! Thanks for explaining that for you this new label doesn't invalidate your previous experience and labels as I really needed to hear that. Also you and Michelle would both be great mums :) All the best, have a great week! -J
Congrats and welcome, sister! As someone who found your channel back in late 2016 when I first started exploring my gender identity and solidly identified as genderfluid your videos were amazingly educational and inspirational during that time period -- thank you! As someone who has since moved into full-on binary trans territory myself (identified as of February 2018, HRT since April 2018), I can say that HRT is wonderfully helpful (though, forestalling it to try for kids is definitely understandable) and the most immediate effects I noticed were an expansion in the depth & breadth of my emotional experience that I wouldn't give up for the world. Hopefully things go well for you!
Lol thats pretty much what happened to me but im ftm.
Saaaaame lol
me too lol
Holy shit, same 😂
I've been following you channel for a long while now and wanted to say you were a huge inspiration in deciding to transition myself!
Super happy for and proud of you! So glad you can live your life even more authentically than you were already!
(I called this like 3 years ago, before I worked out I was trans myself lmao)
We all get there eventually and I'm so happy for you for getting to this point 💛
Hey, sorry I'm pretty tardy to this pardy, but I just wanted to let you know how happy both this and you make me. I first started watching your videos years ago when I first began to really feel that something different to the accepted norm was going on with me in terms of gender, and I found you so supportive and lovely! To see this video now a few years on, how things have changed and how happy you are makes my heart glow! I'm still unsure about my gender, v v wibbly wobbly, but thank thank thank you for just being you and spreading so much love into the world X Hello from London X
I've been watching you for years now, since way back when I too identified as genderfluid! You were the only genderfluid youtuber I could find way back then, and even when I eventually came to terms with being fully transgender I found your videos so very supportive. Whether or not some people believe in genderfluidity, it's hard to argue that it does do some good for those of us who are trans but struggling to come to terms with it - it allows us to express our gender either way without feeling alone (one pro to labels I guess). It certainly did me a whole lot of good, and I can see it did the same for you too
It's interesting watching my online role models mature as I do, it's like ya'll are real ass people living somewhere in reality!? Makes me feel much less alone. Thank you, Grace for helping me be more of myself! I feel like I have tons to say but I just gush with happiness when I see new videos from you. Awesome to see you flourish
I think it's great that u had the bravery to share your story, because there are so many people who are scared to. Hun I just found your channel and I say as long as u are happy with who u are then that's what is most important. Big hugs and love xx
It is nice to hear how confident you are in announcing your new identity. Throughout the years, I've struggled with trying to keep myself in a box, and I'm thankful to be of a mindset that I no longer have to do that. Keep up the awesomeness, boss.
Congratulations :) my perception of your lovely self hasn’t changed and you haven’t lost a regular viewer. Keep enjoying life!
Congratulations on finding who you are. I am trying to find who I am and it is a scary time for me. I have been considering myself as Gender Fluid but as you have shown it might change. Also my family situation is scary right now as I came out of the Summer. My parents except me for being Pansexual but they tell me that I am male when I do not always feel like it. I started to wear more feminine clothing but my parents freaked out and my mom tried to take the clothes away from me. I have not worn them since and I have hid them.
Amazing going from this vid that I remember watching years ago to seeing the voice you have become now. Your journey is wonderful Grae, I'm always so proud of you 💜
Love youuuuuuuuuu 💕❤️💕
I SOOOO LOVE YOUR VIDEOS, GRACE, YOU’RE AWESOME!! I SUPPORT YOUR TRANSITION!!
Also I’m trying to transition actually, via HRT and potentially a vaginoplasty as well. But I need to figure out how to financially do that and a second bachelors degree.
Don't worry Grace. This changes nothing as far as I am concerned. I still support you 110%. Esp since I...um...kinda saw this video coming. In fact I even asked bout on your last video lol. Relatively the same thing happened to me in reverse. I identified as gender fluid for bout a year before coming out as trans. That's actually how I found your channel. But over time my girl days went away all together and my neutral day were few and far between. That's when i realized I am just a guy. I wish I hadn't been 28 before learning this but what can I do. I am now 30 and while I am out as ftm & living as male with my amazing best friend/roommate...hoping to replace roommate with gf in the near future...I am still at square one with my transition. Finding the money to start T is really hard to do. But I keep fighting.
Anyway enough bout me. I am so happy for you. I can see just how happy you are in your skin and its a beautiful thing.
The impression I always got from watching you and this awesome channel of yours for the last 4 years was that you were constantly experimenting with both genders, trying to figure out which one matched you best. Congratulations on finding yourself. All the best for your transition.
PS. I can 100% relate to sometimes feeling really girly and not so much at other times. Its very difficult and incredibly annoying but for me I feel as though I know the type of things that can lead me to a more consistent feminine feeling if that makes any sense.
I guess this took a lot of courage, even though you already came out. Every time it's just as scary as the first time. Grace, I support and you keep being the amazing and beautiful woman you are. Sending you lots of love from The UK.
I am so happy for you and your wife! I kinda dealt with the same thing before I came out as trans. Floated around the non-binary and genderfluid part of the spectrum, before finally figuring out that I was just trans femme.
Also, HRT does take some time to kick in. I have been on it for a year and a half (as of today, actually) and things really didn’t start to kick in until about 6 months ago. Usually doctors tend to start you at a lower dosage before ramping it up. To that degree, everyone’s milage varies with HRT.
Apologies for the essay, best of luck with everything!
Totes saw this coming :P Anyways so glad you came to terms with it and are happy, you and your videos are always a shining light on my day and I am so glad to hear from you again. I started HRT once but then I had to jump back into the closet, but you can start T blockers now, and it will/should prevent the testosterone from ravaging your body. And when you plan on having kids just drop them. Anyways, please please continue giving us updates and posting amazing content. Can't wait to hear from you again. :) Much Love!
You know what's fun, is when I watched your explaining genderfluidity video, I thought I was a biological female. Watching this now, I can relate! I'm a trans man! I've thought about this for a few years in fact and I've come to the conclusion I am in fact a man. So I can relate in a way! Not in the mtf way, but the fact that I am ftm. I hope maybe you see this and we can talk. I'm proud of you and I'm still sorta new to your channel but I have been watching you for a while now!
Wow, no shit sherlock. Love, hope the best possible future, for both of you. On an unrelated topic, how are you feeling about the new Doctor Who? Personally, i'm looking forward to it, i know you're a fan, what are your thoughts?
Get it sister! So proud of you coming out. Your videos are super educational and informative! Keep being true to yourself
Aaaahhh! I'm so happy for you!! Figuring out who you are and what you're comfortable with has to be one of the greatest feelings. Hope everything goes amazing with you!! Also, you and your wife are goals.
I’m happy for you, your excitement is contagious!
I started watching your videos back when I identified as genderfluid aswell. I now identify as a transguy, so we’re kind of on the same boat haha. Wish you the best of luck :)
I'm so happy and excited for you! I followed a pretty similar path of finding myself, identifying as genderfluid for a while before realizing nope, I'm just a girl!! I started HRT and started living as a girl all the time and am happier than ever. I'm so glad you found what's right for you and that your partner is so wonderful. You two are too cute together!
For a while, I thought I was gender fluid I recently discovered about demi male so that's where I'm at right now. I love your videos and think that you're awesome, you helped me discover so much about myself (and frankly I love your doctor who references) so thank you
It’s very refreshing to see someone who is an adult and also not only recognizes the fluidity and diversity of gender, but has experienced it themself! As a trans identifying teen, constantly being told that gender is solidified from early development is very invalidating. I have been experiencing absolutely horrific gender dysphoria for the past few years, but did not show signs as a child. For a while I enjoyed being perceived as feminine, as it was what gave me the most praise. But once I was introduced to the transgender community, I realized how much more comfortable I am presenting as male. When my chest is flat and people call me “he” I feel the most myself. When that doesn’t happen, I feel awful. But, sometimes my dysphoria calms down a bit and I can wear a bikini with ease. During those times, being called “she” still doesn’t feel right, but there isn’t much pain that usually comes with it. I wish everyone realized that gender isn’t always set in stone. It can change over time. Most people just don’t want to admit it because it’ll “make the transgender community look like a joke” which is bullshit. People used to think that bisexuality was invalid and would exclude bisexuals from queer spaces. People get used to new identities over time. Also, people don’t want to accept the fluidity of gender because it’s scary to think that things can change. Through this logic, a transgender person could have a surgery to alleviate their dysphoria and then a few years later, identify with their gender assigned at birth. But, other people’s fears should not limit ones ability to express who they are. Some people are gender fluid. That’s just who they are.
Hey,I wanted to say thanks for sharing your journey on the screen,it helped me a lot in my self Discovery journey,being trans lesbian was too complicated subject for me to discover,when you are digging in to make sense of your personality and sexuality which is strange sometimes.i always wanted to be the girl who want to be with other girl,I wish you happiness 🌈💜
Hey Grace I’m so proud of you! I kind of had a hunch that you may end up being trans. I feel like we have been going through similar things. When I first found your videos I was questioning my gender. Since then I have told my best friends about my preferred name (Elizabeth) and they have been so accepting. I haven’t been able to get as far as talking to my parents about it yet..... (scary) but I do want to because I also hope to start HRT in the near future. My beautiful wife has been very supportive and my beautiful children have accepted me as well (I was lucky to get the whole kids the out of the way early). I really hope to talk more with you someday and swap stories and experiences. Stay safe!
@Bonidee Lee well its more of she figure she was a she. And not hate till take drugs...
I haven't changed my youtube account yet but I've been on hormones since April. I decided to go full-time female this afternoon and I'm not looking back.
I was not expecting this to be honest, but the entire video I just kept screaming in my head ".........WAIT SHE'S MARRIED TO HER?!" I thought you were just girlfriends! Congrats and everything! I'm so happy for you.....also your hairs beautiful!
Congratulations on this new self-discovery! I am cheering for you and wishing you well on this new-ish, not so unfamiliar journey. Also, just as well, good luck for the future with organizing new priorities be them babies or hormones. I sincerely hope you can enjoy every part of it, of course that goes for your lovely wife as well. On a random note, I really like your bedspread. I am really into designs, but especially for skirts, bedspreads, and make-up/tattoo art in case that helps to clarify, haha. It was a pleasure hearing from you again! 😄
I love you Grace! Im so damn smiley after watching this video 💞💞
So proud of you Grace!!
Yay! Im so happy for you!!! As a trans girl (who’s in stealth 90% of the time) your channel has constantly inspired me and it makes me so happy to see you happier and I love you and can’t wait to see your journey grow wherever you go 🙌🏾🤟🏾💜😭😫
In truth you just managed to merge Grace and Grayden, so there's no need for bigendery anymore, and believe me, I'm glad to see you reach this point after so long.
I'm so proud of you and so happy to see how happy you are!! You've been my favourite since I started watching before i even came out and you've helped me and so many others with gender identity. Sending you lots of love & happiness from George/Georgia xx
So I identified as genderfluid for almost 2 years, but recently I've noticed I float around non-binary and masculine areas way more than feminine. I just say I'm genderqueer now, but I'm really nervous that one day I'll just discover I'm ftm.
Not that theres anything wrong with that, I just hate how slowly I am discovering all this. Got any tips for someone who is going through the same thing you did but for the opposite side?
So Happy for you!!!♥♥ Some people find labels like "demiwoman" or "non binary woman" useful, but honestly my advice is express yourself in a way that makes you comfortable and worry about labels later
So happy for you! Watched you progressed so far. Glad you're comfortable with who you are and who you used to be. Stay cool 💕
I knew it! Lol ages ago your videos help me first figure out that I was gender fluid and after awhile of being able to experiment with my gender I found out I was just trans.Its just a wonderful full circle to see you coming out as trans too. ^^. Thanks for the awesome videos and being such a big help. You're lovely, awesome, and effing magical. CONGRATULATIONS ^^!!
Literally same. I watched one video and was curious. And then I was like holy asshat! This is relatable! And I carried on watching, then I found stef and I was like holy asshat,! I'm actually just trans!
i’m so happy for you and proud of you and i support you 900%!! i love you and i hope you have a smooth transition! (also congrats on wifing it up lol)
Hi Grace...Nice to see you again.....As you always said....Important is to be YOU....Of course I support your transition. Honestly I don't know how different is for you to be Transgender or Genderfuid but that's not the most important. If you're happy everything is perfect for me.
As someone who has gone through of lot of her life genderfluid do you have any advice for someone who is in the closet at college?
Very well done and you have someone who loves you that will help you throughout the transition when it happens which is brilliant.
Cool that you came out! I’m happy for you but you make it sound like being genderfluid isn’t and can’t be trans. I’m fluidflux which is really similar to genderfluid and I am trans. Maybe you didn’t identify as trans while you identified as genderfluid but anyone who doesn’t identify wholly as their agab can technically say they are trans if they want to. I just wanted to make sure you knew because while this video was super sweet and nice, it did make me worry that it’ll confirm to certain people that genderfluid people can’t be trans. No matter what I’m super happy for you and I can’t wait to see more from you!💜
It's kind of wired that all of the gender fluid UA-camrs I found back in the day when I was starting to explore my own gender identity have since come out as simply just binary trans. :D And that journey happened to me as well: after a period of thinking I was fluid, I realized that the days when I didn't have dysphoria wasn't days when I was a male, they were just days when I didn't have dysphoria, so presenting male wasn't an issue, and it was only more comfortable because it didn't break the social norm.
As for delaying HRT: it's the right way to go if you want to have kids, but here is one thing to consider. I'm one of those trans girls, who were pretty passable even before HRT just like you. Turns out the reason I was somewhat androgynous is that my hormone levels were all fucked up. Both my T and E levels were half way between normal male and female levels. Which was great in terms of passing, but sucked in terms of being almost sterile to begin with. They managed to extract enough sperm for artificial insemination, but naturally I probably wouldn't have been able to have kids. My point is, that since you do look pretty feminine to begin with, it might be a good idea to check on those sperm cells as soon as possible, just to stay on the safe side. :) If you have the same condition as I do, the earlier you have it checked the better chances you have to have children.
If you read this, please, answer me, because this video made me confused. It's not about you. It's about ME. Let me explain myself: 2 years ago I got into a deep identity crisis and I had no one to talk to except a few friends. I never felt happy to be born a woman and, in fact, I never felt female. I also never felt masculine. I know I'm not transgender, because I like many things about my female body and personality, but I was trying to find my true gender, since there are a lot of different genders. One of my friends said I could be genderfluid and so I strated to search about it, because I didn't know anything about it. When I started to search about it on youtube, one of the very first videos I saw was one of you explaining what genderfluid is and thanks a lot for that video, because it really helped me that time. But seeing you coming out as a trangender made me confused, because if my genderfluid reference (of, I don't usually watch your videos, but sometimes I do) come out as a transgender, I don't know what to think about genderfluid because it made me question myself again. I never met any genderfluid, to know if genderfluids usually came out as transgenders. That's why I'm confused. Ok, I still couldn't find out what gender I am (because now I even feel like a non-binary person), but I stoped searching about it (because it was making me really sad). How can you be a genderfluid a few years/months ago and now your not? Can a person change his/her gender during a life time? Is it possible? That's why I got confused. Sorry if I made any comment that made you feel disrespect. That wan't my intencion. Also, sorry for my bad english (because english is not my native lenguage).
I wrote it on your Facebook but I'll write it here too I hope love and peace and acceptance follows you on your journey to being Who You Are. And I hope you and your wife much love and luck with having a baby I am sure you will both make wonderful mothers
yay girl feels amazing coming out good luck with any thing you do
I sway still, but am much more comfortable now. If I ever find another, wife died, she'll have to be someone who loves whoever I am and will encourage and take my hand helping me further along the way. I am also a "male lesbian" as I heard someone say once. Transition...is not in my books and at 61 it's ok, I'm not dysphoric. Peace...
We all love you for who you are and Thank you for being you.
So happy for you! 💕💕💕
Always gonna love you girl!
Not actually a surprise! I love your journey, have fun.
So proud of you Grace!!
I’m genderfluid and i have also been more on the female side....(i was born female) yet I do have my days.... days that I wanna be a guy so bad. I am a weird human.... atm i DONT know what I’m feeling I’m just.... whatever.
But my thing with pronouns still stands. They don’t matter to me call me he, she, her, him, they, them, call me it for all I care!
You are an inspiration 🧡
I'm so proud of you and everything! love your videos!!! and this is extremely relatable BTW. same thing. it's like a war almost. male and how things "used to be". then female and new and exciting and scary and fresh.
Congrats on the discovery, and good luck on your future plans to have kids :)
I support your decision 100%
We love you girl, go for it and congratulations!
Your videos make me really happy
You can also be genderfluid AND transgender. I’m transgender and non-binary. 🤷🏼♀️
Well done for figuring out who you are!
At a point I did identify as genderfluid but now I am nonbinary trans feminine. I want to go on hrt but sadly I can’t because I am still closeted and with my not so lgbtq+ supportive family. I use they/them.
...I’m glad you found this out
I'm really happy for you!
I identified as gender fluid for like 7 years, before ending up at demigirl.
Shit is confusing and hard to figure out. There's not exactly a user manual.
I learn so much.... thanks!!
XD im bisexual transgender and i wanna change my gender at 15 or 16😓 so when i have to come out?
I did the same thing, just reversed. I was in denial about being male, so I decided to be male “half the time,” but I know that was not true. I’m a full blown trans male.
Do you know any genderfluid channel that make consistent videos like you?
How long were you in the closet before you came out at genderfluid because I don't feel 100% male or female at the moment but I feel like where my parents are older if I came out as genderfluid they would be confused and wouldnt support me.
Also im happy for you and I didn't know you were married . congrats hope you guys are happy ❤
Cutie patootie! Damn I've been following you for years. You've changed a lot
This happened to me too xD
It's totally fine to change labels :D
i used to identify as genderfluid but then i started not feeling it anymore for some reason. now i just identify as a cis girl who doesn't give any effs about gender roles 😁
Good for your girl glad u had the bravery to come out and be yourself support hugs and sparkles from a unicorn :)
Happy for you girl.
I am genderfluid and very happy for your decision to hrt💖
Thanks for being so authentic I appreciate it💚
I just found your channel and I love it so muchh
I was gender fluid as well nd im now pre hrt trans female happy for u hun nd hope u nd ur wife r happpy ☺
Heh, this is funny to me because At First I thought That I was FTM But Then I identified as Genderfuild But Now I really don't Care for Gender anymore.
But Thank you for Making videos on being genderfuild. It really helped me On accepting Who I am.