Tracey Roby Pray my friend, God works the unworkable, I promise you. Trust HIM and speak aloud asking for a healing IN ALL AREAS of this life we have to live. May you find peace in your present and future endeavors, God bless❤
This song is what it feels like when your husband leaves you after a 20 year marriage. It took a whole damn year to repair my body and it was a bad five years! So much better now and life is good!
2 years ago this was my story for a whole 5 years and had no way to cope, then here comes Mary. Thank you Mary, she sang to me and in turn i got strong!!!!!!
Yeah we called angry and bitter... especially us and yet, we give birth to nations. We are the strength, we nurture, support dreams, encourage beyond belief. Such a sad state of affairs...
Yes, she has always been a sister in my head since day one. Her songs are my life. It never fails. Each and every song on every album speaks of my life. it's like she is always right there with a soundtrack of my life since "What's the 411" to the last album "London Sessions" it freaks me out sometimes how so accurate her songs are to my life. We are indeed kindred Capricorn sisters I tell ya.
Oh man it’s like she is singing my story. I heard this for the first time today and I’m crying so hard. I was literally beaten to death and brought back to life in the hospital and was in a coma for two weeks. It “took a whole damn year” before I could walk. Ten years later I’m still dealing with the after affects of a broken spine and tbi. Mary touched my heart with this. Love her so much! ❤
This song makes me cry 😔😔😔😔 because I’ve been in a relationship that was very bad and toxic. But listening to Mary always makes me feel better ❤️🩹 and take my pain away
Same here💔 a toxic abusive 5 year relationship with someone who has schizophrenia that ended recently due to his failure to control or medicate.Still love him to this day but I need to love myself again
I was a victim of domestic abuse until I finally stood up and said NO DAMN MORE!! This gets to me as Miss Mary J. Says it so well ,It took me a long time to be able to trust again Nobody could say it better Than Mary J. ✌❣
+Laura Reynolds Look, I love Mary but some of us women don't want to hear music about pain in relationships all the time. I love all different genre of music and I love and enjoy Rihanna's and Beyonce's music, so I disagree with you.
Winter Took Most Of My Heart, Spring Punched Me Right In The Stomach, Summer Came Looking For Blood, And By Autumn I Was Left With Nothing. Man, All Of Mary J Blige Songs Got Some Type Of Meaning Behind It. I Love This Song. ❤❤❤
When you get sexually abused by an immediate family member, then marry a man that doesn't love you or your worth for 17 years...you can't help but be a mess underneath. BUT GOD HAS THE LAST WORD.....I HAVE PREVAILED, now I know God puts ppl in our lives for a reason so that we can become who we were meant to be. God bless!
when this song came out I was in a abusive relationship I put up with it for a long time but as I listen to mary j blide it gave me motivation as the song says toke me a long year but its a song but people go thru relationships like that it did help me tho mary j blide is one of my favorite artists and alot of her songs touches people and helps them go on with life and all the bullshit that man and people put u thru
This is my song and story. Thank you for singing what I didn't have the words for; literally- bad 5 years. Took a whole damn year to repair my body. Thank you.
It still sends chills up my spine! 1st time I’ve heard this in a bit more than 5 yrs...and the very first time I heard it, I broke down sobbing in my car because this was exactly where I was at then!!! My, my...what God can do when we really let go. NOBODY should ever have to experience that feeling of being treated as a whipping boy. Brush it off u survivors!!! Much love!!
A MARY J FAN FOR LIFE. Mary, Mary SISTA U better tell!!! It's REAL. And your voice, sends chills down my spine. Lord have mercy. Keep singing. Keep telling LIFE Stories!!!
I can ONLY imagine the story of those who this directly speaks to: all of us in some way. My heart goes out to us all that we don't let our pains reduce us. Mary's singing is always therapy:)
Mary always come out with an anthem for me at the right time. He just don't know what he did to me my heart my soul and mind and this time he can't smooth this one over marriage is hard when you fall in love with someone who doesn't have a soul
I just got out of an abusive relationship and was pregnant with my son. When i seen the girl at the beginning of the video run and lock the door was just a huge reminder to me that i made the right decision to leave that toxic life/relationship. Anyone going through any type of abuse i beg you to please GET OUT AND LEAVE FOR GOOD! god bless
Forreal 🙋♀️ I don't trust nobody but you " God " and I've been broken for 40yrs and I'm going on 44 and still broken!! Can't nobody heal me nor fix me but our God!! " I feel you Mary " and I've always loved you from my teenage yrs!! You've always been one of my #1 top female artists !! I felt you're pain through this song and I relate to the lyrics as well!! ❤ you " Mary J Blige And I Alway's Will Forreal!! 👏🏿😥 🥺💯🖐👉🙌👊🤝🙏✍
I wouldn't say Mary music is depressing, I would say sing about everyday life. Shit that goes on in "Real" relationships," Beyonce and rihanna sing about the same Shit. Beyonce song I ain't sorry talking about cheating she wondering why she's not good enough. Mary is in a class all by herself. I really don't put her in a category with Bee and Rhianna. Mary is a Legend. And besides Mary is a Capricorn she puts her heart and soul in all her music. ♑ is the best, We were here 1st. we are the beginning.
Meryl Fluence Thanks for the positive comment, I wish they bring back the Anita baker, Regina belle, Micki Howard music hade meaning......Regina belle sings gospel now. but I love her music back in the dayz 📀🎼🎶🎤🎶🎵
Ms Lady I totally agree cause not one person can say they can't relate to the hurt..the pain with that tone. I absolutely love Mary J Blige because you feel that emotion. I mean paint the picture bless it lol ❤️💯👌🏾
My sister is finally in rehab for her addiction when I here this song all I can is think is her I know when she finally get her self together this song will hit a spot for her I pray to god I eventually get my sister back it took a while damn year to repair my body word hit deep for us all❤️❤️
People will never understand and most of the time you don't understand yourself the true nature of what you are or have gone through...live life and you will learn
Made me cry so hard It's so true that you look all good from above But it stabs you so hard from the inside And it stays there .. that knife stays there And each flashback twist it so you bleed again ... and again for years.
How does she always KNOW just how some of us feel out here?! The first time I heard this I thought, "My God, it sounds like she wrote it for me!!" :) Love this woman, her voice, her heart & her honesty!!
This song makes me tear up. When I first heard it, I bawled my eyes out. Mary always has that effect on me. That's why I love her music. It always finds a way to sway my soul.
Underrated Song that don't get the spins it deserved! Mary Dear, you are a Beast & I have been a true fan since 92 when it all started! I wish you and Amy Whinehouse could have collaborated together, no one can sing about pain like you two great Women! 💯
19yrs gone just walked out the door. 10yrs still trying to get over it. I laughed and cried when my daughter sat a bottle of rum and Coke for us and sang,"Love Don't Live Here Anymore." Prayers always to get over the hurt.
OMG. She is a blessing to so many people just cause so many of us are going threw the same thing.. she is a blessing to a lot of ladys who needs to hear this song.. it not alone Mary has been threw alot all her song are her experiences. At one point I use to say she should sing to the Lord gospel.. But has she continues to come with these songs and literary changes women mind... she needs to know how she make them stronger I have been listening to her since real love her begging with uptown record. I've listened to her song at my time of need and she help me stay strong and all my girls... keep up the great work... if u would start a non profit for battery women or man uptown u would have slot of supporters and people from all over will help you... stay true and never change....
Mary J just know how to bring pain in a song! And speak to people hearts of what they are going through. No other women can do it better. Thank you ma'am!
I love Mary J Blige and always will her songs makes a huge impact on my life and it strengthen me to be lifted up and stay strong 💪 no matter what pain or obstacles I go through God got us all and never give up on your faith
See winter took most of my heart And Spring punched right in the stomach Summer came looking for blood And by autumn, I was left with nothing DAMN MARY
And now she’s receiving her flowers. To whoever may be reading this, remember - it might be hard but just as far as you’ve gone into the dark, you’ll go even farther into the light.
My heart and prayers goes out to ANY and EVERY one who has EVER been sexually abused and/or mistreated.
Sean Sherrod Thank you.
Thank you, Blessing to you for the prayers.
Sean Sherrod eve
Sean Sherrod ,ty. It wasn't easy, but I can say I am a living witness & praying several can be strong enough to leave.🙏🙏🙏
Sean Sherrod Thanks You
"I may seem good on the surface but I'm a mess underneath" I think most of us have felt this way at least once in our lives.
ekcj1 Haha
ekcj1 me right now...man this song is speaking to me so deeply I just feel like screaming.....
ekcj1 Feeling it now...
Absolutely
Tracey Roby Pray my friend, God works the unworkable, I promise you. Trust HIM and speak aloud asking for a healing IN ALL AREAS of this life we have to live. May you find peace in your present and future endeavors, God bless❤
This song is what it feels like when your husband leaves you after a 20 year marriage. It took a whole damn year to repair my body and it was a bad five years! So much better now and life is good!
glad to read your doing better! :-)
my life story 😢😢
Michelle R Auerbach mine walked out after 13 years on father's day weekend. it hurts so bad.
Michelle R Auerbach
I'm sorry!😐
Michelle R Auerbach OMG TRUTH BE TOLD TODAY
Winter took most of heart
Spring punched me right in the stomach
Summer came looking for blood and by Autumn I was left with nothing
+Angela Guess Chin up beautiful
Idont know what i was singing for the other parts but i was saying this brain punched my right in the stomach and i was like what
+Nolie Fani Thanks it's up, just brought back painful memories
Angela Guess your words our of beauty with pain yet lovely enter twined I feel you very nice
Jherrie Gulley Mary J words are beautiful always
2 years ago this was my story for a whole 5 years and had no way to cope, then here comes Mary. Thank you Mary, she sang to me and in turn i got strong!!!!!!
glad u bounced back ma
Same here doll...she spoke I cried I came back stronger than ever...
+Natasha L Thank you for caring
TRUTH
I feel ya on this. I had breast cancer, dealing with lupus. I listened to this coping with all of this while she sang what my heart was feeling.
nobody will ever understand the amount of pain us strong women hold in.... We don't mean to take it out on the world..
Yes honey yess. sheesh. and when we finally explode...not so pretty
🙌🏽👑
Yeah we called angry and bitter... especially us and yet, we give birth to nations. We are the strength, we nurture, support dreams, encourage beyond belief. Such a sad state of affairs...
Amen Sister !
truth
Mary can sing about pain like no one else can
Sure can!!! Absolutely do not drink alcohol and listen to MJB pain songs =😭😭😭
yes girl gives me chill bumps
Her music both cuts us and helps us heal at the same time.
Alicia keys
Agreed, but Toni Braxton is second.
Mary is a true song story teller I tell you that woman
Yes, she has always been a sister in my head since day one. Her songs are my life. It never fails. Each and every song on every album speaks of my life. it's like she is always right there with a soundtrack of my life since "What's the 411" to the last album "London Sessions" it freaks me out sometimes how so accurate her songs are to my life. We are indeed kindred Capricorn sisters I tell ya.
Oh man it’s like she is singing my story. I heard this for the first time today and I’m crying so hard. I was literally beaten to death and brought back to life in the hospital and was in a coma for two weeks. It “took a whole damn year” before I could walk. Ten years later I’m still dealing with the after affects of a broken spine and tbi. Mary touched my heart with this. Love her so much! ❤
This song makes me cry 😔😔😔😔 because I’ve been in a relationship that was very bad and toxic. But listening to Mary always makes me feel better ❤️🩹 and take my pain away
Same here💔 a toxic abusive 5 year relationship with someone who has schizophrenia that ended recently due to his failure to control or medicate.Still love him to this day but I need to love myself again
Who else hit the like button before the video even started to play?
Jennene Campbell I do because I know she going to keep it real 🎤💕
That would be me
Jennene Campbell me too..lol
Jennene Campbell Me.. its about the beat and her voice colour
Jennene Campbell me😂😂😂😭😭
I was a victim of domestic abuse until I finally stood up and said NO DAMN MORE!! This gets to me as Miss Mary J. Says it so well ,It took me a long time to be able to trust again Nobody could say it better Than Mary J. ✌❣
Mary's music has gotten me through many tough times. Her music has helped me understand myself enough to give up. Much love and respect
Mary J. Blige can really sing all of her songs have a meaning and a message
Yes they do.
So true
Worrrrd 👑
!!!
Big facts
Wish America treasured Mary like the Brits do...spending too much dime on Beyonce and Rihanna.
amen 🙌
amen 🙌
So agree. Hearing Mary's music makes me "feel" something.
+Laura Reynolds Look, I love Mary but some of us women don't want to hear music about pain in relationships all the time. I love all different genre of music and I love and enjoy Rihanna's and Beyonce's music, so I disagree with you.
Conchetta Mex, I hear you, and I'm not here to change anyone's mind. :)
Winter Took Most Of My Heart, Spring Punched Me Right In The Stomach, Summer Came Looking For Blood, And By Autumn I Was Left With Nothing. Man, All Of Mary J Blige Songs Got Some Type Of Meaning Behind It. I Love This Song. ❤❤❤
Me, about 7 years ago, but God is good. He brought me through that storm. Sing it Mary! It took me 3 years, not one!!
When you get sexually abused by an immediate family member, then marry a man that doesn't love you or your worth for 17 years...you can't help but be a mess underneath. BUT GOD HAS THE LAST WORD.....I HAVE PREVAILED, now I know God puts ppl in our lives for a reason so that we can become who we were meant to be. God bless!
I love how Mary J gets a song out. It sincerely comes from her heart and soul. ❤❤
Shot out to Emeli Sande for writing this song for Mary. The London Sessions album is one of Mary’s best!
when this song came out I was in a abusive relationship I put up with it for a long time but as I listen to mary j blide it gave me motivation as the song says toke me a long year but its a song but people go thru relationships like that it did help me tho mary j blide is one of my favorite artists and alot of her songs touches people and helps them go on with life and all the bullshit that man and people put u thru
9 years stayn strong.
Healing has taken awhile for me - I can totally relate... Thank you for this beautiful music.
to exist is to suffer, to live is to endure those sufferings. but there are people who live their life with wounds that cannot be healed.
so tru
+문태옥 I wish it wasn't so but it is.
Deep
I was beaten when I was pregnant,I was stalked for 5 yrs after! This song means so much and the courts do nothing!
Words can't describe just how much I love and adore this woman... I love you, Mary!!!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you I love you Mary we can hang out sometime and cry and laugh together.
ViXenBeats 8 ....lo
ViXenBeats how about no I can do without
No no no no no no
ViXenBeats gyu7
This is my song and story. Thank you for singing what I didn't have the words for; literally- bad 5 years. Took a whole damn year to repair my body. Thank you.
This song brings shivers down my spine
It still sends chills up my spine! 1st time I’ve heard this in a bit more than 5 yrs...and the very first time I heard it, I broke down sobbing in my car because this was exactly where I was at then!!!
My, my...what God can do when we really let go.
NOBODY should ever have to experience that feeling of being treated as a whipping boy.
Brush it off u survivors!!! Much love!!
A MARY J FAN FOR LIFE. Mary, Mary SISTA U better tell!!! It's REAL. And your voice, sends chills down my spine. Lord have mercy. Keep singing. Keep telling LIFE Stories!!!
Meryl Fluence
This lady brought me through some s***💯❣️
I can ONLY imagine the story of those who this directly speaks to: all of us in some way. My heart goes out to us all that we don't let our pains reduce us. Mary's singing is always therapy:)
See winter took most of my heart
And Spring punched me right in the stomach
Summer came looking for blood
And by Autumn, I was left with nothing
Mary music is real. This song really got me feeling some kind of way :(
Mary IS REAL💯👏🏽🙏🏽👊🏽✊🏽💪🏽
I LOVE THIS WOMAN!!!! FROM 1992, is when I first heard of her till now. I go to EVERY SINGLE concert even if its by myself!!!!TEAM #maryjblige
Mary always come out with an anthem for me at the right time. He just don't know what he did to me my heart my soul and mind and this time he can't smooth this one over marriage is hard when you fall in love with someone who doesn't have a soul
I just got out of an abusive relationship and was pregnant with my son. When i seen the girl at the beginning of the video run and lock the door was just a huge reminder to me that i made the right decision to leave that toxic life/relationship. Anyone going through any type of abuse i beg you to please GET OUT AND LEAVE FOR GOOD! god bless
this is why we love mary.......... mary went back to basics,,,,classic mary
Wow. This video actually brought me to tears. What a beautiful song to carry such an important message.
Forreal 🙋♀️ I don't trust nobody but you " God " and I've been broken for 40yrs and I'm going on 44 and still broken!! Can't nobody heal me nor fix me but our God!! " I feel you Mary " and I've always loved you from my teenage yrs!! You've always been one of my #1 top female artists !! I felt you're pain through this song and I relate to the lyrics as well!! ❤ you " Mary J Blige And I Alway's Will Forreal!! 👏🏿😥 🥺💯🖐👉🙌👊🤝🙏✍
Shit I’m a man and I can relate to this song!!! Shit men deal with and endure a lot, as well!!
Yess!!!
This lady makes you feel the pain I love me some Maryj😍😍
I wouldn't say Mary music is depressing, I would say sing about everyday life. Shit that goes on in "Real" relationships," Beyonce and rihanna sing about the same Shit. Beyonce song I ain't sorry talking about cheating she wondering why she's not good enough. Mary is in a class all by herself. I really don't put her in a category with Bee and Rhianna. Mary is a Legend. And besides Mary is a Capricorn she puts her heart and soul in all her music. ♑ is the best, We were here 1st. we are the beginning.
Ms Lady Well said, couldn't have said better. Mary says it with Class and her own Style!!❤❤
Meryl Fluence Thanks for the positive comment, I wish they bring back the Anita baker, Regina belle, Micki Howard music hade meaning......Regina belle sings gospel now. but I love her music back in the dayz 📀🎼🎶🎤🎶🎵
Ms Lady I totally agree cause not one person can say they can't relate to the hurt..the pain with that tone. I absolutely love Mary J Blige because you feel that emotion. I mean paint the picture bless it lol ❤️💯👌🏾
that just about sums it rite up. well said
Ms Lady 2mnwnv n2n. Ah. . 2nw
Mary is so relatable....ALWAYS RIGHT ON THE MONEY!
Yes indeed! You got that right, she know what songs to drop at the right moment.
I keep so much pain inside I don't think I could go on without listening to Maryj she helps me to stay strong through it all with the help of God
This ain't just for the ladies thankyou Mary your pain is my pain along with the rest of America
My sister is finally in rehab for her addiction when I here this song all I can is think is her I know when she finally get her self together this song will hit a spot for her I pray to god I eventually get my sister back it took a while damn year to repair my body word hit deep for us all❤️❤️
Queen 👑
People will never understand and most of the time you don't understand yourself the true nature of what you are or have gone through...live life and you will learn
Mary you must have known through God I was going to need this tonight...
God bless you Mary your songs are a Ministry to Bless hurting people everywhere!!!!
2021 still listening to ths
Made me cry so hard
It's so true that you look all good from above
But it stabs you so hard from the inside
And it stays there .. that knife stays there
And each flashback twist it so you bleed again ... and again for years.
This girl has a way with connecting with your pain. I cried (so much) off of this song. Mary feels like an old friend.
This song hit home.. It was year in Nov. and after 5 yrs.. I have finally healed…
+Myisha Curtis :-) for you.
I'm in the process too Sis❤
God bless
Mary,Mary I'm Sooo proud of You My Sister!!! Yesss you hear Me LOUD and Clear!!!!
Gurl....you really do know how to make someone cry :(
I luv her music its reality and soo real.
No 1 fan since day 1... U the best Ms. Mary
This song helps me on those hard days and reminds me that it's going to take some time to repair my soul... thanks MJB
I love you Mary.Your songs make me strong
only the one !!! much. 🇷🇼🇷🇼🇷🇼🇷🇼
How does she always KNOW just how some of us feel out here?! The first time I heard this I thought, "My God, it sounds like she wrote it for me!!" :) Love this woman, her voice, her heart & her honesty!!
First time actually listening to this song this morning ❤. N it’s on repeat now😍
This song makes me tear up. When I first heard it, I bawled my eyes out. Mary always has that effect on me. That's why I love her music. It always finds a way to sway my soul.
Mary spoke to us all in this song.
welcome back Mary!!, looking and sounding amazing!!, loving the new music!, some real soulful music with banging!!, lit!, beats!!, loving it!!
Man you can not listen to this song and not feel pain smh love it
amazing! instaphamous worked! ?
Longer than a year Mary 😩😩😩
Underrated Song that don't get the spins it deserved! Mary Dear, you are a Beast & I have been a true fan since 92 when it all started! I wish you and Amy Whinehouse could have collaborated together, no one can sing about pain like you two great Women! 💯
I love this song so much because it tell my life .Thank you it will help me so much .Love you always
I'm still trying
My niece put this up on fb for everyone to see..Now I see! "no more drama" (Mary j) killing it!!
THIS IS A SERIOUS SISTA RIGHT HERE-
#pleasebelieveme
Man I felt this song but God gon prevail for me
Who's here in 2020 reflecting and can relate. Gonna take me more than a damn year to repair me. So broken, so hurt. But time heals all trauma.
She’s an Legend this always been my favorite pain song from Mary💛👌🏾
Bless your soul, Mary. Your music gives me the strength and motivation I need to keep going on.
This woman speaks to my soul!!! I love her 👑
Mary is the truth, since 1992 to now she had shown a lot of us how to over come a lot of things in our life.
19yrs gone just walked out the door. 10yrs still trying to get over it. I laughed and cried when my daughter sat a bottle of rum and Coke for us and sang,"Love Don't Live Here Anymore." Prayers always to get over the hurt.
This song is strong and real!
OMG. She is a blessing to so many people just cause so many of us are going threw the same thing.. she is a blessing to a lot of ladys who needs to hear this song.. it not alone Mary has been threw alot all her song are her experiences. At one point I use to say she should sing to the Lord gospel.. But has she continues to come with these songs and literary changes women mind... she needs to know how she make them stronger I have been listening to her since real love her begging with uptown record. I've listened to her song at my time of need and she help me stay strong and all my girls... keep up the great work... if u would start a non profit for battery women or man uptown u would have slot of supporters and people from all over will help you... stay true and never change....
I can't find this album in stores, and I don't shop online..! But this album is cold blooded hot!
Justin Wantou I believe this is from her album "London Sessions"
Justin Wantou I found my CD in target
Justin Wantou But of course it was around when it first came out
Mary J is an original. This is a really classie singer. She's original, love Mary J
2020 Corona Virus Outbreak MJB Bangs 💕
Yess
A Goddess in servitude
the fact that this song's video was posted a whole damn year ago
Naya Martin your comment was a whole damn year ago lol 😎
Lol
Smh
Mary J just know how to bring pain in a song! And speak to people hearts of what they are going through. No other women can do it better. Thank you ma'am!
I felt this on another level when it came out. Still touches my heart.MJB spoke from the soul on this one.
I love Mary J Blige and always will her songs makes a huge impact on my life and it strengthen me to be lifted up and stay strong 💪 no matter what pain or obstacles I go through God got us all and never give up on your faith
😍😍😍 I feel you Mary! I keep hitting repeat! my life in one song
Good music like this isn't appreciated anymore... this should have over 100m views
See winter took most of my heart
And Spring punched right in the stomach
Summer came looking for blood
And by autumn, I was left with nothing
DAMN MARY
Mary must had read my dairy, cus this song reflects too much of my life
shawn preston That's what's always been so special about mary's music
Tamika Youmans ?????
+boomdog saint alwayysss its Mary song for every mood, every fucked up situation good also
Yes!
Yes!
She will always reign..QUEEN
Debarim 11:26-28. Debarim 32:15-47. Qam Yasharahla ammi.
Absolutely addictive...
And now she’s receiving her flowers. To whoever may be reading this, remember - it might be hard but just as far as you’ve gone into the dark, you’ll go even farther into the light.
A whole damn 2020!!!
music therapy!
I have been a fan since she first came out and she still going strong true queen of soul.
It took me a whole year to recover and now I’m working on my physical health. I’m not giving up on me💜
Aww Mary, why do u wann' make me cry at this time of the year?