Why all this long winded bull shit. The second she proposed spending a weekend or one night with another man you should have understood your marriage was over. No need to engage in verbal bull shit.
shaming tactic... women always go straight for where they feel a man is most vulnerable emotionally, men restrain themselves way more than women do, in conflict a man in a fight is going straight for the jaw to either knock someone out or get them wobbling on their feet. only cowards go for the balls... and thats exactly how women fight, their target is the balls ( emotionally speaking ) off the bat, because they are never taught of the consequences for a lack of self restrain in comparison to men, generally speaking.
This happens both ways. That is why I honestly do not hang out with others of the gender I am attracted to alone when I am with someone. I go with my partner, or a large group of others as chaperones, or not at all. Because I prefer NOT to even leave a chance of an accusation or a chance of it happening, because I've been cheated on and I don't like it. So I don't give myself a chance to let it happen.
The SECOND she started doing things behind her husband's back, and entertaining inappropriate thoughts about someone else, she CHEATED. Maybe not physically at that point, but at the very least emotionally.
There's an old song by the R and B group Slave...that has these words: Upper persuasion, for the lower invasion.".The problem with sexual penetration is that emotional penetration comes first. Emotionally? I could not agree more.
Her: It won’t change how I feel about you. What he should say: It will certainly change how I feel about you. Of course, if her feelings won’t change, but she will do thus, then he will know that she doesn’t feel about him the way he thought she did.
He is at fault, but nick isn't the biggest person at fault. It was Molly who made a conscious decision to do this. This is no mistake... This was intentional.
If she thinks he fantasizes about his prenuptial girlfriends, she doesn’t understand him at all. It says more about how her mind works, which sadly is not based in reality.
The AP is Nick, so who is Andrew that is brought up at 7:31. Where did Andrew come from? The story is totally inane that a wife, who supposedly loves Billy, wants to have sex with Nick. She has already cheated by wanting sex with another man. Once a cheater, always a cheater. The biggest bastard is Nick, going after a married woman.
Ladies never ever believe that a true man will ever love you enough to share you with someone else. If you take energy and effort into another relationship it is cheating and it is over.
Definitely, depending on where she lives, If they are still married she could still get part of anything he has purchased. If anything he should have had them drawn up before she left....here is your copy, you will find my signed copy here on the table Sunday when you come back.....actually even if she changed her mind I would still divorce her....but hoped if she still decided to have her fling knowing he had divorce papers made up it might ruin her 'fun weekend' lol
@@davidnash8208 David we are supporting the brotherhood. By calling out the weak men in these stories we stop the destruction of the brotherhood. How do you make something acceptable? By normalizing it. When we normalize cheating, gaslighting and mental and emotional abuse it makes it acceptable for women and men to do it. We have to fight against the narrative to forgive when someone mentally physically or emotionally hurts you. Whether it’s a man or woman it’s OK to walk away!
another load of crap from a cheater, she has already cheated and it only half way done, dump her and be better off, she will cheat, she already has. then she realizes it has hurt them and then decides to do it anyway, geez. dumb, dump her. Karma
One thing leads to another we often hear; it really should be stated: one thing ALWAYS leads to another. What Molly and all the other people who believe that they can cheat once or enter into a single affair and it will just end there is living in la la land. That's how it all starts: it usually starts out fairly innocently and soon after it gradually increases and if you are not careful, there could be an avalanche. What these people fail to realize is: what will be the future response to their spouse if the AP's performance outshines that of their partner? The new excitement, the increased pleasure, there is no way that this can strengthen the marriage unless the other person is some kind of weirdo.
If you ever find yourself in the position to beg not to cheat or worry over if she'll cheat leave. If you stay, you are the problem not her. Something these stories always love to miss. The husband is always written so pathetically.
I never begged a woman to do or not to do anything. My 2nd wife threatened to leave once. She had tried everything but crying so far that night. When she realized nothing she tried was going to work she let the tears flow. I ignored it. Finally she said she was going to her daughter's house ( about 150 miles away). I stayed silent and just looked at her. She left and I said nothing. I ignored the whole issue when she started her fit. She stayed gone about an hour then came back. She looked embarrassed. But she was fine after that. She now knew that if she didn't want to be there she was free to leave.
Have all the relatives and friends come over at 10:00. Tell them it's a surprise and yell surprise when she comes down the stairs. Announce to everyone Molly is going to spend the weekend with a guy from her job. Walk out the door and drive away.
Cheating is cheating, no matter how you look at it. You cannot sugarcoat or cover it up once you’ve done it. Don’t expect trust or love or true love I should say ever again. You may as well go live under a rock. And that is pretty much what I went and told my ex. Now she lives with a drunken idiot that she thinks is some kind of trooper just because he stays with her. He hasn’t worked in years. 😮
She wants to cheat, and expect that her husband should just sit home and wait for her!! Talk about being delulu!! Her justification is that her husband slept with other women Before they met!!!
How can you possibly reason with someone who flatly refuses to acknowledge the facts? How can it be possible to change someone’s opinion who believes in the truthfulness of a blindly held opinion?
This is too incredulous to be a true story. The husband told her clearly several times what would happen if she spent the weekend with her co worker. Any other wife would have either called it off and worked on the marriage or suspended plans till the heat died down then been careful in her next liaison.
Continued: Any one Red Flag, signals the relationship is over. Leave her immediately. Trying to solve the problem is almost always impossible, she's already left you.
He's so cruel.... He flowers for algernoned her with romance before her weekend getaway and then left her high and dry for it all when she came back. Wounded soldier of love, I stand and salute thee 🫡
the thing I don't get is the man, pursuing a married woman, like is he not self aware to know that his kink is a threat to his well being at best, and his life at worse? how arrogant do you have to be to believe yourself untouchable? that he is paint a target on his back for the most primal of vengeance for his part in causing pain...
He said...if you keep this up our relationship is over.....NO dude it is already over....she will never accept your answer and will always hate you for denying her. Heck...even if you let her cheat she might feel guilty and still blame you...no win...its over dude.
Do the people that feel their spouses love for them is strong enough to allow them to cheat realize that the stronger and deeper the love is , the deeper the hurt is?
We all know that this story is just the work of the writer's imagination but the sad thing is that there are cheaters out there that are actually this, I want to say Neave, but I have to say what it really is and that is stupid.
All women think this way. They are just afraid to go through with it. How is she going to take him to an another level of passion on Monday? That means she’s been holding back. I would have left the first time she mention this. Only a simp would except this situation.
No woman is worth all the bullshit. Never let them see you cry . And NEVER beg a woman for anything. They should always KNOW that cheating will without doubt mean divorce. Never put up with that crap. Been there. Kicked her to the curb after 6 years. Never get caught up with the emotion. I went from love to hate in an instant.
Run forest run. Shes already planning to cheat and is trying to justify it as not cheating by asking permission. Get up take her ring back and file for divorce. Even if she swears she'll give it up she will just do it behind your back anyway.
Infidelity starts at any wifes, Romantic meeting, Date, talking, lunch meeting, Not necessarily when the Sexual Act takes place. Wife, You go out the Door, to yor Date, the locks will emmediately changed, ill be at the Lawyers office , next.
Husbands in these stories always put up with the stupid long pointless conversation. All the husband needs to say is "Hell NO". And to keep interrupting her and saying the same thing. Constantly breaking her train of thought. One last thing. NEVER let her see you cry. You can never do that.
The issue here is that she has been taken in by Nick and enjoyed the flirting between them. While she says this is only about the experience with another man, if that is true then her husband should pick the other person - then it isn't an emotional affair, only sex. That's not what she wants.
Her co-worker was "Nick" and she became fixated on him. She was attracted to Nick. They were getting closer. She decided she would pursue the relationship with Nick. Then out of the blue at 7:30 she decided to spend the weekend with "Andrew"?! Hubby is named "Billy." Who is Andrew? I hate it when bad narrative memory or inconsistent rewrites of other stories ruin the story. Noped out right after that as that kind of sloppy writing would continue and ruin the story. Your mileage may vary.
5 years ? It took her less end 5 years to cheat on him ! No kids ? Yep she wated long enough to get half of his stuff and money ! Atlest she dont get child support
All the cheater lines. Only loves him but will become someone else's 304. Should have thought about that before getting married. If they only want to be with you and care about you, then why destroy you ? It's becoming a pattern people. Don't get married
11:22 At the very least to this point she's engaged in an emotional affair. 38:11 At this point it's clear it's over, as I stated she has emotionally cheated. Not to mention she's also gone out on dates and kissed him, so in a sense it has already moved past an emotional affair. Why is he drawing this out and trying to do the date night thing to stop her?
STILL, A story that makes my blood boil. We all know why ? How many Molly wives are out there. Glad im now 8 yrs Amicably Divorsed, ( to an East Asian Angel of a woman. )
I dont understand you're my only i have no feeling for him i just want to spend one night with him i dont love him i love only you THEN WHY DO YO WANT TO SLEEP WITH THIS GUY?
Why all this long winded bull shit. The second she proposed spending a weekend or one night with another man you should have understood your marriage was over. No need to engage in verbal bull shit.
This woman takes stupid to a whole new level.
She said it herself that it's not cheating if we both agree, but she's not listening to him when he doesn't agree.
Anytime you have sex with someone other than your spouse or partner it's cheating.
Why do these immature, self-centered women always call their husbands childish?
Projection?
shaming tactic... women always go straight for where they feel a man is most vulnerable emotionally, men restrain themselves way more than women do, in conflict a man in a fight is going straight for the jaw to either knock someone out or get them wobbling on their feet. only cowards go for the balls... and thats exactly how women fight, their target is the balls ( emotionally speaking ) off the bat, because they are never taught of the consequences for a lack of self restrain in comparison to men, generally speaking.
Being with another man is not cheating, if I don't think it's cheating. WTF kind of thinking is this?
It isn't cheating because she says it isn't, duh! /s
This happens both ways. That is why I honestly do not hang out with others of the gender I am attracted to alone when I am with someone. I go with my partner, or a large group of others as chaperones, or not at all. Because I prefer NOT to even leave a chance of an accusation or a chance of it happening, because I've been cheated on and I don't like it. So I don't give myself a chance to let it happen.
A very low iQ narcissist
The minute she said that I would be gone
Smart move you made Houdini look slow with that exit strategy!
The SECOND she started doing things behind her husband's back, and entertaining inappropriate thoughts about someone else, she CHEATED. Maybe not physically at that point, but at the very least emotionally.
You are correct.Cheating is ANYTHING that you can't tell your spouse about.
There's an old song by the R and B group Slave...that has these words: Upper persuasion, for the lower invasion.".The problem with sexual penetration is that emotional penetration comes first. Emotionally? I could not agree more.
My heart is only your but my body is for the streets😂😂😂😂😂
Ha!
Imagine the double yellow line down her back 😂😂😂
Her: It won’t change how I feel about you.
What he should say: It will certainly change how I feel about you.
Of course, if her feelings won’t change, but she will do thus, then he will know that she doesn’t feel about him the way he thought she did.
Another delusional cheater, dump her and ghost her
Isn't it funny! Stupid people fall out of the stupid tree and hit every stupid branch on the way down
I found that also applies to the Ugly tree
This is the best comment here
😂😂😂😂😂
Nick is a scoundrel, going after a married woman.
No man should go after a married woman nor should a woman go after a married man.
He is at fault, but nick isn't the biggest person at fault. It was Molly who made a conscious decision to do this. This is no mistake... This was intentional.
Scoundrel is the least name I would call him.
If she thinks he fantasizes about his prenuptial girlfriends, she doesn’t understand him at all. It says more about how her mind works, which sadly is not based in reality.
The sad thing there are women out there that think like this.
Single and divorced "friends" keep and make married and friends in relationships single!
They are told exactly what will happen, yet refuse to believe it.
The AP is Nick, so who is Andrew that is brought up at 7:31. Where did Andrew come from?
The story is totally inane that a wife, who supposedly loves Billy, wants to have sex with Nick.
She has already cheated by wanting sex with another man. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
The biggest bastard is Nick, going after a married woman.
It wasn't what she thought it would be. The guy was boring in bed 😂😂😂
Ladies never ever believe that a true man will ever love you enough to share you with someone else. If you take energy and effort into another relationship it is cheating and it is over.
This woman is sick in the head
i would already contact a lawyer to start drawing up papers
Definitely, depending on where she lives, If they are still married she could still get part of anything he has purchased.
If anything he should have had them drawn up before she left....here is your copy, you will find my signed copy here on the table Sunday when you come back.....actually even if she changed her mind I would still divorce her....but hoped if she still decided to have her fling knowing he had divorce papers made up it might ruin her 'fun weekend' lol
🔥✊🏾simp!…Simp!!…SIMP!!!…Taking Too L🤔ng To Handle Your Business!!!…👊🏾💯
Thanks for the heads up
@@davidnash8208 David we are supporting the brotherhood. By calling out the weak men in these stories we stop the destruction of the brotherhood. How do you make something acceptable? By normalizing it. When we normalize cheating, gaslighting and mental and emotional abuse it makes it acceptable for women and men to do it.
We have to fight against the narrative to forgive when someone mentally physically or emotionally hurts you. Whether it’s a man or woman it’s OK to walk away!
OP sorry for your dire straits. Well written post thanks for you work.
Scorched Earth!!!
another load of crap from a cheater, she has already cheated and it only half way done, dump her and be better off, she will cheat, she already has. then she realizes it has hurt them and then decides to do it anyway, geez. dumb, dump her. Karma
Right from the "Cheaters Handbook"
One thing leads to another we often hear; it really should be stated: one thing ALWAYS leads to another. What Molly and all the other people who believe that they can cheat once or enter into a single affair and it will just end there is living in la la land. That's how it all starts: it usually starts out fairly innocently and soon after it gradually increases and if you are not careful, there could be an avalanche. What these people fail to realize is: what will be the future response to their spouse if the AP's performance outshines that of their partner? The new excitement, the increased pleasure, there is no way that this can strengthen the marriage unless the other person is some kind of weirdo.
It's over the second those words come out of her mouth!
5 years. No kids ? Cut your losses
Yeah ! She defentley monkey branching !
Luckily for Billy, if not more pain for him to break up the family.
Right now I'm baffled. I have no words
I want you to meet him ??? Hahaha
Karma was not harsh enough
Billy tried the pick-me dance. It never works.
When your wife or husband wants to leave LET THEM GO
"I'm a whore. Why doesn't he love me enough to get over it?"
If you ever find yourself in the position to beg not to cheat or worry over if she'll cheat leave. If you stay, you are the problem not her. Something these stories always love to miss. The husband is always written so pathetically.
I never begged a woman to do or not to do anything.
My 2nd wife threatened to leave once.
She had tried everything but crying so far that night.
When she realized nothing she tried was going to work she let the tears flow.
I ignored it.
Finally she said she was going to her daughter's house ( about 150 miles away).
I stayed silent and just looked at her.
She left and I said nothing.
I ignored the whole issue when she started her fit.
She stayed gone about an hour then came back.
She looked embarrassed.
But she was fine after that.
She now knew that if she didn't want to be there she was free to leave.
She is already wayward
Amazing how ALL of these are basically wanting intimacy needs, from either M/F and not getting it from their partner.
Have all the relatives and friends come over at 10:00. Tell them it's a surprise and yell surprise when she comes down the stairs. Announce to everyone Molly is going to spend the weekend with a guy from her job. Walk out the door and drive away.
Whoops. She's asking to have an intimate relationship with him after all
Cheating is cheating, no matter how you look at it. You cannot sugarcoat or cover it up once you’ve done it. Don’t expect trust or love or true love I should say ever again. You may as well go live under a rock. And that is pretty much what I went and told my ex. Now she lives with a drunken idiot that she thinks is some kind of trooper just because he stays with her. He hasn’t worked in years. 😮
If she really loved her husband she would not get into an emotional relationship because evidently something is missing.
What a disturbing way of thinking she actually thought that was love?!?
Remember ladies no grown ass man will ever love you enough to share you
In my opinion, being with another man does not constitute cheating, and I do not believe that it does. What kind of thinking is this, exactly?
She wants to cheat, and expect that her husband should just sit home and wait for her!! Talk about being delulu!!
Her justification is that her husband slept with other women Before they met!!!
She is untrustworthy.
Cheating doesn't begin as physical. It begins with inappropriate communication, and builds up.
How can you possibly reason with someone who flatly refuses to acknowledge the facts? How can it be possible to change someone’s opinion who believes in the truthfulness of a blindly held opinion?
She's A-moral , unaware of moral preccepts.
Thoughts, planning, fantasies of another is ongoing betrayal. When it surfaces it’s over, divorce. Linguistic gymnastics is a sure sign.
She left her wedding ring on the nightstand? DIVORCE
This is why there is domestic violence 😂😂😂
love happy endings!!🥰👏
Billy = Super simp
Whuuuuuuu the long good-bye......long lesson.
I would have said okay,then, the next morning I would have met with my lawyer
This is too incredulous to be a true story. The husband told her clearly several times what would happen if she spent the weekend with her co worker.
Any other wife would have either called it off and worked on the marriage or suspended plans till the heat died down then been careful in her next liaison.
Once a cheater always a cheater
Continued: Any one Red Flag, signals the relationship is over. Leave her immediately. Trying to solve the problem is almost always impossible, she's already left you.
He's so cruel.... He flowers for algernoned her with romance before her weekend getaway and then left her high and dry for it all when she came back. Wounded soldier of love, I stand and salute thee 🫡
A good story
So, it isn’t love but she hoped that the weekend would be full of love and connection???
the thing I don't get is the man, pursuing a married woman, like is he not self aware to know that his kink is a threat to his well being at best, and his life at worse? how arrogant do you have to be to believe yourself untouchable? that he is paint a target on his back for the most primal of vengeance for his part in causing pain...
that molly never listened. she would have been better off single.
He said...if you keep this up our relationship is over.....NO dude it is already over....she will never accept your answer and will always hate you for denying her.
Heck...even if you let her cheat she might feel guilty and still blame you...no win...its over dude.
These stories make a person not want a relationship
Do the people that feel their spouses love for them is strong enough to allow them to cheat realize that the stronger and deeper the love is , the deeper the hurt is?
We all know that this story is just the work of the writer's imagination but the sad thing is that there are cheaters out there that are actually this, I want to say Neave, but I have to say what it really is and that is stupid.
Billy's immature? Wtf? Deciding to destroy your marriage vows is a act of Maturity?
All women think this way. They are just afraid to go through with it.
How is she going to take him to an another level of passion on Monday? That means she’s been holding back.
I would have left the first time she mention this. Only a simp would except this situation.
No woman is worth all the bullshit.
Never let them see you cry .
And NEVER beg a woman for anything.
They should always KNOW that cheating will without doubt mean divorce.
Never put up with that crap.
Been there.
Kicked her to the curb after 6 years.
Never get caught up with the emotion.
I went from love to hate in an instant.
Wake up girl.U really F up.billy don't ever come back.its over😂😂😂😂
Her behavior was immature not his..
Run forest run. Shes already planning to cheat and is trying to justify it as not cheating by asking permission. Get up take her ring back and file for divorce. Even if she swears she'll give it up she will just do it behind your back anyway.
Infidelity starts at any wifes, Romantic meeting, Date, talking, lunch meeting, Not necessarily when the Sexual Act takes place.
Wife, You go out the Door, to yor Date, the locks will emmediately changed, ill be at the Lawyers office , next.
Husbands in these stories always put up with the stupid long pointless conversation.
All the husband needs to say is "Hell NO".
And to keep interrupting her and saying the same thing.
Constantly breaking her train of thought.
One last thing.
NEVER let her see you cry.
You can never do that.
Tell hrr it WILL AFFECT YOUR HEART
The issue here is that she has been taken in by Nick and enjoyed the flirting between them. While she says this is only about the experience with another man, if that is true then her husband should pick the other person - then it isn't an emotional affair, only sex. That's not what she wants.
This man is Dumb!!! From the beginning, be Done with her and spare your heart that Pain.
Sure is a lot of begging in this story! From both people
8 minutes in all I heard from the wife is me me me and my husband. Stupid is as stupid does
Her co-worker was "Nick" and she became fixated on him. She was attracted to Nick. They were getting closer. She decided she would pursue the relationship with Nick. Then out of the blue at 7:30 she decided to spend the weekend with "Andrew"?! Hubby is named "Billy." Who is Andrew? I hate it when bad narrative memory or inconsistent rewrites of other stories ruin the story. Noped out right after that as that kind of sloppy writing would continue and ruin the story. Your mileage may vary.
Same story Come upp with a new one😂😂😂
5 years ? It took her less end 5 years to cheat on him ! No kids ? Yep she wated long enough to get half of his stuff and money ! Atlest she dont get child support
All the cheater lines. Only loves him but will become someone else's 304. Should have thought about that before getting married. If they only want to be with you and care about you, then why destroy you ? It's becoming a pattern people. Don't get married
I hate stories like this where the husband simps and doesn't stand his ground.
All that useless conversation,,
I don't think you can remove your liability in a mortgage note so easily.
The lady in this story is crazy or she felt her husband was.
How can an intelligent professional woman be so tone deaf in morals? Of course this is fiction. Good story though.
11:22 At the very least to this point she's engaged in an emotional affair.
38:11 At this point it's clear it's over, as I stated she has emotionally cheated. Not to mention she's also gone out on dates and kissed him, so in a sense it has already moved past an emotional affair. Why is he drawing this out and trying to do the date night thing to stop her?
Flip the switch ask her if you were unfaithful what would she do before she tells about her affairs issues. She will answer her own question
This is just a story but if this really happens - it is craziness in all of its totality! What is love combined with cheating?
This story is another version of one I came across.
I will admit I didn't listen to all of the story too boring but I stick to my other commet
This 304 is in lalalala land
STILL, A story that makes my blood boil. We all know why ?
How many Molly wives are out there.
Glad im now 8 yrs Amicably Divorsed, ( to an East Asian Angel of a woman. )
Nick was a loser
I dont understand you're my only i have no feeling for him i just want to spend one night with him i dont love him i love only you THEN WHY DO YO WANT TO SLEEP WITH THIS GUY?
Now that was one long winded crap filled story. Could have done this in under 10 minutes.
This has been posted before
Does no one ever edit these stupid stories?
Funny.. women seem to think that every man BB is immature.
7:29 andrew. who is andrew?