I know it's been a long time since this was posted but I watched it when you first posted it and never decided to say anything until now but thank you my life did get much better
Of all the "It Gets Better" videos I've seen, yours is the most sincere, heart-felt one by far. I could feel the pain you went through as you recounted your high school experience. It brought back some rather unpleasant memories of my own. You come across as an honest and caring person! Somebody is going to be very fortunate to have you as his parrtner. Thanks for posting.
How can anyone who looks as good as you ever look in the mirror and be disappointed? You are absolutely gorgeous! You also seem to have an amazing personality as well. I'm so glad to have stumbled across your channel :-)
What a wonderful testimony. I cried with you and I cried about the pain I dealt with in middle and high school. Living in the south, there have been times that I still deal with the hate, but Wow, it has gotten so much better. There were times when I was younger that I didn't think I could take it anymore and now I am so glad I stuck it out. Thanks again for this inspiring video.
Thank you for staying so strong throughout your life. Beyond that, Thank You for trying to help other people. When I look at the world, it is hard to see anything but Hate. It is very reassuring to see people who want to be there to support others and care as much as you do. I barley know you at all but I can tell you are a very outgoing and loving person. I have been out since 2004 and there really aren't to many people who get it like you do. Thanks again!
A lot of other people have made 'It gets better' videos that i liked, or even loved, but yours is the only one that brought be to a few tears (i can be super sensitive too x3) thank you, so much for posting this.
Absolutely awesome! Your caring and sensitivity shine through this video - as well as your strength! It's such a tragedy that any kid - gay, disabled, geeky, or whatever - has to go through what you went through. But you have come through it a whole and wonderful person...someone who will go so much further in life than any of those less fortunate kids who gave you such grief - and they are less fortunate. You're the true winner here!
I have grown up with many hardships, & I can tell folks that, how we perceive ourselves & our situations makes all the difference. Some people who have been through bad things in life fail to overcome them, because they identify themselves solely through what has happened to them. Those who overcome such events typically redefine themselves, so as to not let these events define them. This change in perspective allows them to let go of the anger, hate, etc, eating them up inside.
there is no possible way I could ever let my child be treated this way day after day after day. I cannot imagine it!! You are an amazing young man. Thank you and God Loves You. Never forget that. . . .
Its people like you that make the world a better place. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm straight but have always stood up for anyone who needed it. My uncle is gay and so I was exposed to it right from the beginning, I love him with all my heart and would defend him to the end if he needed it. You are beautiful.
I have shared this as it is far more reaching than any professionally produced information on bullying....I had ADHD without knowing as a child and not understanding me, I was treated mercilessly...your video is amazing and courageous...thank you for all youth who suffer in silence...Bruce/Oshawa/Canada
i stumbled upon your video just now right after my mom told me "Born this way" is her favorite song. she made cry so i was remembering how i was before i came out and well that brings me here. i really love your vid. You are a strong person and i totally admire you. sorry for the long message.
Tyler, thank you so much for this. I was in such a low. This showed me that I'm not alone in this and that as they say "It Gets Better" Thank you. You truly touched me. This was probably the most inspiring video I've seen. :) Thank you for taking the time to share your message and be there for those in need
I am so sorry about all the pain you encountered. Thank you for sharing your story and your message. It does get better but I wish it was better now. I wish it was better for all the kids still in school today. I wish that people cared more and hated less. The damage that is done sticks with us. Yes it gets better but it shouldn't have to be bad for anyone. Sorry I am venting. You are a strong person just like so many of us that make it through it. I just wish it was better now for everyone.
Jesus!!! When you got to the part about reading the note from your best friends and seeing what they really thought of you - I choked up. No one deserves that. That sort of thing is devastating to a teen. You are smart and courageous. Best of luck to you always.
I am so sorry you had to deal with that. I so glad that you know now that it does get better! You are a really special person! + Rt. Rev. Robert D. Hall
I just wanted to thank you so much for making this video. to this day i am 100% happy with myself because of this. It was so nice to be able to see and here what it was like with someone else, and to hear that it does get better. Thanks again, and much love - Matt
Dude you are pretty AH-MAZING! ! ! I was picked on all of my middle school and I hated it. Once I went to high school, I told myself that what happened in middle school was not going to happen in high school and it didn't. No one knew about me until after I graduated. I have only told a few and they totally accept me for who I am and I am just thankful for that. If anyone ever needs someone to talk to, you can talk to me because I dislike bullying and I know how it feels to be bullied.
You are wonderful to put this up here. I cried with you. What you said is true it will get easier. I look back at the shitheads who gave me a hard time at school and see how much better I've done with my life than them. They were NOT true friends at all. Good on you young man.
While viewing this video, I just balled into tears. I had 2 "best friends" who Kind of did the same. The didn't like how I was different and that lead me to my low my self esteem. Now that im in college, i don't see them, and now i love being me. Im trying to get my life together . Ughh its so liberating ! This video made me cry bc its brought back memories. All the suffering helps you mature. Just remember, It does get better :)
wow .... i feel for you man your school life almost mirrors mine your a remarkable young man i wish i would have grown up and gone to school with you i would have had your back im glad your doing better now stay strong and i hope you have a great life and find someone to share it with take care
You got through it and it got better. And you are a beautiful person and thank you for sharing this, you may have or will save some lives with this video. Thanks Tyler
Thank you, Tyler, your courage and confidence are so very meaningful and moving. I admire you and your ability to communicate so clearly and intimately. You're brave and proud. What an inspiration!! You've spoken to such an important issue and done so brilliantly. Cheers, Chppsss
Good luck friend hope things go well for you, and also for everyone else in a bad situation. Not all of us get a good story all the way through. Mine personally was dragged out for five years ending after a three month nightmare. It does get better it always does :)
This was really inspiring.. the fact that you actually showed emotion.. and how it had affected you.. make everyone else feel like their not alone in this world. and it does get better. learn from the bad days and make it better
Vids like yours are a great service, as they serve to educate bullies as to the impact of their actions, they educate those who are bullied that, if you got through it, so can they. Most importantly, your vid shows kids who may be being bullied today is that, they are not alone, that there is a possibility for a brighter future, & that there are some options, like changing schools, home schooling, etc. Keep up the great work.
You've impressed me a great deal with your courage and with your ability to endure what your tormentors threw at you. You're a survivor, and I hope you help others to survive. I, too, was bullied at school. I'm not gay, but I was bullied by a certain cowardly gang. Fortunately, I was able to take care of myself physically. I dealt with the ringleader and the other "heroes" just melted away. Not every kid is so fortunate, I know. It makes me very angry when I hear of kids being bullied, no matter what the reason.
I never cry at any video really, but this brought a hard truth back to me, that yeah I am scared, scared of a lot of things, scared of people, especially when I know I haven't got one friend I can turn to for advice or help. In the Uk we go through 6 years of high school and for those 6 years I was basically a loner, I didn't last into my last year I was forced out by bullies and the hatred of my so called friends, videos like this make me realize I am not alone even when I feel like crap
This is such a great video because you are real Real, REAL. What you tell about yourself comes from deep down inside you. What tremendous courage you have shown, and hey if the cost of that is a few tears, I'll bet we are all sharing them with you.
thank you for this. at 25 i am still at times haunted by the past in my dreams but i wake up and remember life truly is better now. it makes me so sad that there are children in this world that simply dont realise that. keep being yourself. we are all behind you :)
Hello you great boy. I just watched this video today. I have had a horrible week, but watching you has made me feel braver. Thank you. I wish I could give you a hug
You're such a beautiful person both inside and obviously on the outside as well. I'm sorry that you had to go through everything that happened! It really breaks my heart to know what others go through, personally I never dealt with those situations and I can only imagine how hurtful it must! I guess thats why we have to stick together! All of my love goes to the many who have and are dealing with similar affairs. Thank you for uploading!
Tyler, thanks first for making this video. That takes real guts. Secondly, and more importantly, thank you for showing your emotions. It just shows how human you are and the pain that you went through is the same pain that so many are still going through. The pain is real, but, IT DOES GET BETTER! You are brave - you are a hero! Thank you for your post.
I absolutely love you right now. I'm so glad to watch this video...I was so tired of watching people talking shit, faking cries or talking about their relationship instead of encouraging people to stand up and survive...I wasn't bullied (not for my sexual orientation, at least), so I can't imagine that, but anyway, this is one of the few videos that seem true to my eyes, so thank you for sharing your story and be happy!
I just wanna say.. thanks so much for posting this video..this really hits home to me because my friend committed suicide because she was bi and just couldnt take the pressure..i support the It Gets Better campaign all the way and im really glad that so many support support it too..thanks
You are absolutely amazing. I don't ever comment on videos but I made a youtube account solely to comment and tell you you are so inspirational. I hope everyone gets to see this video and the ignorance of the weak minded to end.
i know how you feel. my friend had to transfer high schools last year. and we're both sophomores now. when she was gone her FRIENDS talked shit about her and i felt soooo bad. i'm glad she transferred because she was taking so much crap she couldn't take it anymore. i want to say thank you for sharing. and that there are people who get treated like this. that's why everyone should be treated with respect, even if they dont treat you with respect.
You are amazingly strong and inspiring. Being more than old enough to be your father, I would have been infinitely proud to have had a kid like you. The world is so much a better place when people like you exist. Take care of yourself and be happy!!
You're an angel and you're video will save lives - guaranteed. Honestly Tyler, you're one of the most genuine, likeable, courageous young lions supporting this urgent cause! We wish you every happiness.
Tyler, I've been going through all the "It Get's Better" videos on UA-cam because I'm going through a rough time right now because I'm gay. I just want you to know that out of all the videos I watched today, YOURS was the one that spoke to me the most. I was not bullied (much) in high school, and I'm not bullied now in college. But I'm feeling for al the kids who HAVE been bullied and who are BEING bullied. Thank you. Just, Thank you.
You are amazing! I get so upset sometime that some people feel as though they have to right to degrade someone else's existence. You represent the best and most incredible people in the world. I just wish people will watch this video and be affected by your words!
Tyler, you are amazing and inspiring. Your honesty touched me and countless others. Your deep humanity and noble soul shines through your eyes and your smile. There are literally millions of us out there who would move heaven and earth to wipe those tears from your eyes, but you've got it right. Keep shining, you diamond, and keep spreading the message of hope. And don't let anyone get you down, ever.
I kinda wanted to give you a big hug throughout this video. it's interesting how much my elementary school life was so similar to yours, execpt it was because of my weight, not my nerdiness. I just brushed it aside but it still hurt. My life wasn't [isn't] bad so I can't sit here and try to act as if it was. I just want to be able to help others out, just like you did with this video.
Hey man - thanks for sharing... my feelings are mixed because it's a true shame that this crisis has gotten to the point where people have to do this to provide support for pure ignorance and stupidity (those that are doing the bullying) but that shame, I feel, is well over shadowed by the meer fact that so many people are willing to come forward and share their stories with one simple hope - that his/her story helps one person make it one more day... Thanks again!
That was fantastic - So very proud of who I am and seeing all of these people speaking out and verbalizing their thoughts and emotions regarding such an important issue makes me feel like Im part of something much bigger.
aw. it made me so sad to see you crying. i want to give you a big hug! But you are so right, i mean i haven't had to go through that per-say but i do get down and you are right things will happen people even "friends" can get jerks but you are worth so much more and deserve so much better and if people dont see that then they arent worth your time and one day esp. once your out of school you find people who like you for you and who you want to be around and who you chose to see. :)
I'm not saying people who do bad things shouldn't be held responsible, I'm simply saying becoming a survivor vs being a victim is to stop focusing on the fast, so you can work on the here & now to begin achieving future goals. There are two definitions of forgive, the 1st is to remove responsibility from someone for some action, which is why many people struggle with letting go. The other is to no longer identify yourself with the hurt, anger, & pain, of an event, so you can move on.
good on you Tyler, proud of you, you should be so proud of yourself for making this video, I am so glad that it got better for you!!! #HappyDays #Inspire
Simply an amazing video, really great and heartfelt. I know exactly where this is coming from as I was much the same way. The movement from high school to college was simply amazing. Going from being the kid who was wispered about and hated by people who didn't even know me to a place where I was treated as equally as everyone else was amazing. Now, along with my wonderful friends, I too have found that it gets better and right now, it's at its best. :)
Wow tyler you are absolutely amazing, and its ok to cry. I cried when I told my one of my counselors at my school about whether or not my parents will still love me after i come out to them.
...need to hang on! Everything will be all right! I want to say THANK YOU for giving us your testimony and showing that you made it through, that certainly will give other gays outer HOPE and STRENGTH to keep on going! Best of luck to you, from a friend (if I may) from Brazil!
Your message was so inspiring. Thank you for posting it. After all of your pain you are so equipped to empathize with other young people. The question that we should all be asking is: "Why are kids being bullied in high school?" How is that acceptable? There should be zero tolerance for homophobia in school. Rather than asking gay kids to "hang on...it gets better", we should be making high school a safe place.
Hello, Tyler - good on you. You're a brave, brave lad. High school/secondary school is such a hard time because there's so much peer pressure during those years and I'm so glad you ended up somewhere where you could be happy. I'm not gay, but I was teased at my school for how I looked and for my interests, both by kids my age and sometimes by younger kids because I was often alone, so I can relate. By the time I was sixteen I learnt to ignore them and things just picked up from there. Well done.
Thank you Tyler, you are an amazing, intelligent and sensitive young man. Although I am too old for being like you I still envy you for the way you are. Love.
Hey Tyler this video made me cry, it opened up some old wounds. Your right, it does get better.Though the past will always sting a little. But just don't let it take over your life.
Thank you. Your words and honesty were truly inspirational to me, and to everyone who saw this video. I was bullied every single day of my life till I got high school done. And I can tell you that it was pretty damn hard. And it's very hard to talk about it for me, so I admire allot your courage in doing this. Wish you the most beautiful happy ending you could dream off. Pedro from Portugal
Very moving Video. Thank You for sharing your story. I to know it gets better. I never had it hard like most people, but I know how hard it is to just be yourself. Keep doing what you do. Much Brother Love, Kevin
Great Message and you are a hero for putting in on you tube for the world to see. Very proud of you! Your right, It does get better!
Tyler, you rock, man. Thanks for that message :)
I know it's been a long time since this was posted but I watched it when you first posted it and never decided to say anything until now but thank you my life did get much better
Of all the "It Gets Better" videos I've seen, yours is the most sincere, heart-felt one by far. I could feel the pain you went through as you recounted your high school experience. It brought back some rather unpleasant memories of my own. You come across as an honest and caring person! Somebody is going to be very fortunate to have you as his parrtner. Thanks for posting.
Thank you for being who you are!
from a teen councillor in North Carolina... thank you, you're an amazing guy and i loved this video.. you made me cry and for a good reason
How can anyone who looks as good as you ever look in the mirror and be disappointed? You are absolutely gorgeous! You also seem to have an amazing personality as well. I'm so glad to have stumbled across your channel :-)
What a wonderful testimony. I cried with you and I cried about the pain I dealt with in middle and high school. Living in the south, there have been times that I still deal with the hate, but Wow, it has gotten so much better. There were times when I was younger that I didn't think I could take it anymore and now I am so glad I stuck it out. Thanks again for this inspiring video.
you look so cute , i feel bad that no one would stand up for you ! glad that you are who you are ;)
God bless you, Tyler. You're sending a heartwarming message that is truly touching lives and giving hope.
Your a handsome boy(:
Thank you for staying so strong throughout your life. Beyond that, Thank You for trying to help other people. When I look at the world, it is hard to see anything but Hate. It is very reassuring to see people who want to be there to support others and care as much as you do. I barley know you at all but I can tell you are a very outgoing and loving person. I have been out since 2004 and there really aren't to many people who get it like you do. Thanks again!
A lot of other people have made 'It gets better' videos that i liked, or even loved, but yours is the only one that brought be to a few tears (i can be super sensitive too x3) thank you, so much for posting this.
Absolutely awesome! Your caring and sensitivity shine through this video - as well as your strength! It's such a tragedy that any kid - gay, disabled, geeky, or whatever - has to go through what you went through. But you have come through it a whole and wonderful person...someone who will go so much further in life than any of those less fortunate kids who gave you such grief - and they are less fortunate. You're the true winner here!
I have grown up with many hardships, & I can tell folks that, how we perceive ourselves & our situations makes all the difference. Some people who have been through bad things in life fail to overcome them, because they identify themselves solely through what has happened to them. Those who overcome such events typically redefine themselves, so as to not let these events define them. This change in perspective allows them to let go of the anger, hate, etc, eating them up inside.
there is no possible way I could ever let my child be treated this way day after day after day. I cannot imagine it!! You are an amazing young man. Thank you and God Loves You. Never forget that. . . .
I love how genuine you are in this video. Thank you thank you thank you.
Its people like you that make the world a better place. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm straight but have always stood up for anyone who needed it. My uncle is gay and so I was exposed to it right from the beginning, I love him with all my heart and would defend him to the end if he needed it. You are beautiful.
I have shared this as it is far more reaching than any professionally produced information on bullying....I had ADHD without knowing as a child and not understanding me, I was treated mercilessly...your video is amazing and courageous...thank you for all youth who suffer in silence...Bruce/Oshawa/Canada
i stumbled upon your video just now right after my mom told me "Born this way" is her favorite song. she made cry so i was remembering how i was before i came out and well that brings me here. i really love your vid. You are a strong person and i totally admire you. sorry for the long message.
Tyler, thank you so much for this. I was in such a low. This showed me that I'm not alone in this and that as they say "It Gets Better" Thank you. You truly touched me. This was probably the most inspiring video I've seen. :) Thank you for taking the time to share your message and be there for those in need
I am so sorry about all the pain you encountered. Thank you for sharing your story and your message. It does get better but I wish it was better now. I wish it was better for all the kids still in school today. I wish that people cared more and hated less. The damage that is done sticks with us. Yes it gets better but it shouldn't have to be bad for anyone. Sorry I am venting. You are a strong person just like so many of us that make it through it. I just wish it was better now for everyone.
Jesus!!! When you got to the part about reading the note from your best friends and seeing what they really thought of you - I choked up. No one deserves that. That sort of thing is devastating to a teen. You are smart and courageous. Best of luck to you always.
If people try to bring you down,it just means your above them.So keep your head held high
Loved your story.
what kind of people break others heart? feel like crying seeing you cry, wish you all the happiness in this world
I am so sorry you had to deal with that. I so glad that you know now that it does get better! You are a really special person! + Rt. Rev. Robert D. Hall
I just wanted to thank you so much for making this video. to this day i am 100% happy with myself because of this. It was so nice to be able to see and here what it was like with someone else, and to hear that it does get better. Thanks again, and much love - Matt
Dude you are pretty AH-MAZING! ! ! I was picked on all of my middle school and I hated it. Once I went to high school, I told myself that what happened in middle school was not going to happen in high school and it didn't. No one knew about me until after I graduated. I have only told a few and they totally accept me for who I am and I am just thankful for that. If anyone ever needs someone to talk to, you can talk to me because I dislike bullying and I know how it feels to be bullied.
You are wonderful to put this up here. I cried with you. What you said is true it will get easier. I look back at the shitheads who gave me a hard time at school and see how much better I've done with my life than them. They were NOT true friends at all. Good on you young man.
While viewing this video, I just balled into tears. I had 2 "best friends" who Kind of did the same. The didn't like how I was different and that lead me to my low my self esteem. Now that im in college, i don't see them, and now i love being me. Im trying to get my life together . Ughh its so liberating ! This video made me cry bc its brought back memories. All the suffering helps you mature. Just remember, It does get better :)
wow .... i feel for you man your school life almost mirrors mine your a remarkable young man i wish i would have grown up and gone to school with you i would have had your back im glad your doing better now stay strong and i hope you have a great life and find someone to share it with take care
You got through it and it got better. And you are a beautiful person and thank you for sharing this, you may have or will save some lives with this video. Thanks Tyler
Thank you, Tyler, your courage and confidence are so very meaningful and moving. I admire you and your ability to communicate so clearly and intimately. You're brave and proud. What an inspiration!! You've spoken to such an important issue and done so brilliantly. Cheers, Chppsss
Good luck friend hope things go well for you, and also for everyone else in a bad situation. Not all of us get a good story all the way through. Mine personally was dragged out for five years ending after a three month nightmare. It does get better it always does :)
Tyler come back!!!
Please 🥺🙏
Thank you for having the COURAGE to tell your story.
I feel you here, man. I've had similar experiences and I know what it's like. I'm glad you made this video and I'm glad you're still around. :)
This was really inspiring.. the fact that you actually showed emotion.. and how it had affected you.. make everyone else feel like their not alone in this world. and it does get better. learn from the bad days and make it better
I am glad to hear that you love who you are - stay true to self, ALWAYS ! ! !
You sir are brave, and a good man, I wish you the best! Thanks for sharing your story, it really does get better!
Thanks for the amazing post, buddy! So true and heartfelt. You have unquestionably made a difference with this video....
Vids like yours are a great service, as they serve to educate bullies as to the impact of their actions, they educate those who are bullied that, if you got through it, so can they. Most importantly, your vid shows kids who may be being bullied today is that, they are not alone, that there is a possibility for a brighter future, & that there are some options, like changing schools, home schooling, etc. Keep up the great work.
You've impressed me a great deal with your courage and with your ability to endure what your tormentors threw at you. You're a survivor, and I hope you help others to survive. I, too, was bullied at school. I'm not gay, but I was bullied by a certain cowardly gang. Fortunately, I was able to take care of myself physically. I dealt with the ringleader and the other "heroes" just melted away. Not every kid is so fortunate, I know. It makes me very angry when I hear of kids being bullied, no matter what the reason.
I am so proud of you. You are brave, and kind, and cute, and smart. Wow. And, most importantly, you are an inspiration. Thank you for that.
I never cry at any video really, but this brought a hard truth back to me, that yeah I am scared, scared of a lot of things, scared of people, especially when I know I haven't got one friend I can turn to for advice or help. In the Uk we go through 6 years of high school and for those 6 years I was basically a loner, I didn't last into my last year I was forced out by bullies and the hatred of my so called friends, videos like this make me realize I am not alone even when I feel like crap
This is such a great video because you are real Real, REAL. What you tell about yourself comes from deep down inside you. What tremendous courage you have shown, and hey if the cost of that is a few tears, I'll bet we are all sharing them with you.
thank you for this. at 25 i am still at times haunted by the past in my dreams but i wake up and remember life truly is better now. it makes me so sad that there are children in this world that simply dont realise that. keep being yourself. we are all behind you :)
Hello you great boy. I just watched this video today. I have had a horrible week, but watching you has made me feel braver. Thank you. I wish I could give you a hug
You're such a beautiful person both inside and obviously on the outside as well.
I'm sorry that you had to go through everything that happened! It really breaks my heart to know what others go through, personally I never dealt with those situations and I can only imagine how hurtful it must! I guess thats why we have to stick together! All of my love goes to the many who have and are dealing with similar affairs.
Thank you for uploading!
Tyler, you are an incredible person! I hope you never forget that. Thank you so much for making this video.
Tyler, thanks first for making this video. That takes real guts. Secondly, and more importantly, thank you for showing your emotions. It just shows how human you are and the pain that you went through is the same pain that so many are still going through. The pain is real, but, IT DOES GET BETTER! You are brave - you are a hero! Thank you for your post.
You are so inspiring, thank you for sharing your story. Thank God there are strong people like you in the world.
I absolutely love you right now. I'm so glad to watch this video...I was so tired of watching people talking shit, faking cries or talking about their relationship instead of encouraging people to stand up and survive...I wasn't bullied (not for my sexual orientation, at least), so I can't imagine that, but anyway, this is one of the few videos that seem true to my eyes, so thank you for sharing your story and be happy!
I just wanna say.. thanks so much for posting this video..this really hits home to me because my friend committed suicide because she was bi and just couldnt take the pressure..i support the It Gets Better campaign all the way and im really glad that so many support support it too..thanks
You are absolutely amazing. I don't ever comment on videos but I made a youtube account solely to comment and tell you you are so inspirational. I hope everyone gets to see this video and the ignorance of the weak minded to end.
awe i would give you the biggest hug :) keep being strong hun youre an inspiration to everyone
i know how you feel. my friend had to transfer high schools last year. and we're both sophomores now. when she was gone her FRIENDS talked shit about her and i felt soooo bad. i'm glad she transferred because she was taking so much crap she couldn't take it anymore. i want to say thank you for sharing. and that there are people who get treated like this. that's why everyone should be treated with respect, even if they dont treat you with respect.
You are amazingly strong and inspiring. Being more than old enough to be your father, I would have been infinitely proud to have had a kid like you. The world is so much a better place when people like you exist. Take care of yourself and be happy!!
You're an angel and you're video will save lives - guaranteed. Honestly Tyler, you're one of the most genuine, likeable, courageous young lions supporting this urgent cause! We wish you every happiness.
Great video Tyler. What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger. Thank you for sharing.
You're really doing a service by sharing these personal thoughts. Thank you.
With friends like that who needs enemies? Being such a beautiful human being I am sure that now you have true friends around you.
Tyler, I've been going through all the "It Get's Better" videos on UA-cam because I'm going through a rough time right now because I'm gay. I just want you to know that out of all the videos I watched today, YOURS was the one that spoke to me the most. I was not bullied (much) in high school, and I'm not bullied now in college. But I'm feeling for al the kids who HAVE been bullied and who are BEING bullied. Thank you. Just, Thank you.
I started sobbing halfway through this video. I raise my glass for you, man. I'm so happy for you. Thank you.
You are amazing! I get so upset sometime that some people feel as though they have to right to degrade someone else's existence. You represent the best and most incredible people in the world. I just wish people will watch this video and be affected by your words!
you make a difference and the world a better place. you inspire me. thank you!
Tyler, you are amazing and inspiring. Your honesty touched me and countless others. Your deep humanity and noble soul shines through your eyes and your smile. There are literally millions of us out there who would move heaven and earth to wipe those tears from your eyes, but you've got it right. Keep shining, you diamond, and keep spreading the message of hope. And don't let anyone get you down, ever.
omg, you are an amazing person for making videos like this to help kids with their struggles
Never Apologize for being or reacting merely out of sensitivity. Sensitivity is a strength and a gift.
I kinda wanted to give you a big hug throughout this video.
it's interesting how much my elementary school life was so similar to yours, execpt it was because of my weight, not my nerdiness. I just brushed it aside but it still hurt. My life wasn't [isn't] bad so I can't sit here and try to act as if it was. I just want to be able to help others out, just like you did with this video.
Hey man - thanks for sharing... my feelings are mixed because it's a true shame that this crisis has gotten to the point where people have to do this to provide support for pure ignorance and stupidity (those that are doing the bullying) but that shame, I feel, is well over shadowed by the meer fact that so many people are willing to come forward and share their stories with one simple hope - that his/her story helps one person make it one more day... Thanks again!
That was fantastic - So very proud of who I am and seeing all of these people speaking out and verbalizing their thoughts and emotions regarding such an important issue makes me feel like Im part of something much bigger.
We love who you are!!
You courageous young man!!
This just became my new favorite video! you are such an inspiration to kids and teens everywhere! Thank you for being you :)
i wanted to go give you a hug when you started crying!! very touching
aw. it made me so sad to see you crying. i want to give you a big hug! But you are so right, i mean i haven't had to go through that per-say but i do get down and you are right things will happen people even "friends" can get jerks but you are worth so much more and deserve so much better and if people dont see that then they arent worth your time and one day esp. once your out of school you find people who like you for you and who you want to be around and who you chose to see. :)
I love his voice, so gentle!
I'm not saying people who do bad things shouldn't be held responsible, I'm simply saying becoming a survivor vs being a victim is to stop focusing on the fast, so you can work on the here & now to begin achieving future goals. There are two definitions of forgive, the 1st is to remove responsibility from someone for some action, which is why many people struggle with letting go. The other is to no longer identify yourself with the hurt, anger, & pain, of an event, so you can move on.
good on you Tyler, proud of you, you should be so proud of yourself for making this video, I am so glad that it got better for you!!! #HappyDays #Inspire
Simply an amazing video, really great and heartfelt. I know exactly where this is coming from as I was much the same way. The movement from high school to college was simply amazing. Going from being the kid who was wispered about and hated by people who didn't even know me to a place where I was treated as equally as everyone else was amazing. Now, along with my wonderful friends, I too have found that it gets better and right now, it's at its best. :)
I love your hair! Thank you for telling your story and inspiring others, it's truly awesome.
awww man your story really touched me
there needs to be more people like you out in the world!
Wow tyler you are absolutely amazing, and its ok to cry. I cried when I told my one of my counselors at my school about whether or not my parents will still love me after i come out to them.
...need to hang on! Everything will be all right! I want to say THANK YOU for giving us your testimony and showing that you made it through, that certainly will give other gays outer HOPE and STRENGTH to keep on going! Best of luck to you, from a friend (if I may) from Brazil!
Man how can somebody possibly bully you.. ur an amazing person man! people should take more time to know you better.. they would regret it in no time!
Your message was so inspiring. Thank you for posting it. After all of your pain you are so equipped to empathize with other young people.
The question that we should all be asking is: "Why are kids being bullied in high school?" How is that acceptable? There should be zero tolerance for homophobia in school. Rather than asking gay kids to "hang on...it gets better", we should be making high school a safe place.
Bless you! I can feel some of your pain. I didn't have it as bad as you did but it was still enough. It does get better.
Hello, Tyler - good on you. You're a brave, brave lad. High school/secondary school is such a hard time because there's so much peer pressure during those years and I'm so glad you ended up somewhere where you could be happy. I'm not gay, but I was teased at my school for how I looked and for my interests, both by kids my age and sometimes by younger kids because I was often alone, so I can relate. By the time I was sixteen I learnt to ignore them and things just picked up from there. Well done.
When you started crying i did too ... Your video is great! Stay strong Tyler!!
OUTSTANDING!! Your video is using UA-cam in the most constructive, positive way! Thanks for sharing, Tyler.
You are amazing, Tyler. :)
Thank you for being you, and for inspiring us!
You know what? You are AWESOME !!!
Your being makes this world a better place to live!
Thank you very much for sharing.
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Nattawut From Thailand
Thank you Tyler, you are an amazing, intelligent and sensitive young man. Although I am too old for being like you I still envy you for the way you are. Love.
you're a bro man. Keep up on trucking. We're all so proud of you!
Hey Tyler this video made me cry, it opened up some old wounds. Your right, it does get better.Though the past will always sting a little. But just don't let it take over your life.
Thank you. Your words and honesty were truly inspirational to me, and to everyone who saw this video. I was bullied every single day of my life till I got high school done. And I can tell you that it was pretty damn hard. And it's very hard to talk about it for me, so I admire allot your courage in doing this. Wish you the most beautiful happy ending you could dream off. Pedro from Portugal
Tyler, this is amazing and brought me to tears. reminded me of me so much...it's so true!
you are amazing, and so inspirational. thankyou for reminding me that it will get better one day.
Very moving Video. Thank You for sharing your story. I to know it gets better. I never had it hard like most people, but I know how hard it is to just be yourself. Keep doing what you do.
Much Brother Love,
Kevin
Your Brilliant Tyler! Thanks for sharing please don't ever stop spreading the Love.