-mom comes home and finds grandmother drunk while watching kids -daughter got access to a bottle of pills -mom gets upset at grandmother over it -dad says he doesn’t feel comfortable with a negligent drunk woman watching their kids “Waaah but it isn’t fair that my mom doesn’t get to see the kids waaah” Wtf is this nonsense?
Don’t you love when parents prioritize equal family time between grandparents over them actually being comfortable with their kids caretaker and not leaving them with an alcoholic
"My mom hasent seen her grandchildren for weeks " her mother legit had all day with them and instead she was watching TV with alcohol while the one child was speedrunning obesity and the other suicide 💀
Exactly lmfaoo and the fact that she (the mom) wouldn't let her mother-in-law babysit the kids when she clearly wants someone else to take care of the kids...this story is just contradicting itself 🤦🏻♀️
Fr! That other grandmother was doing her job and did care for the kids, and the mother blocks her from her husband’s phone?? She’s way more qualified than your own mother, lady!
@@RandomPerson-b9sd It could’ve worked if their toxic parent-child relationship was acknowledged, but that’s above Dhar Mann’s writing IQ of 11 years old
Love how the wife is more concerned about the fact that her alcoholic mother doesn't spend enough time with the children than the actual safety of her own children.
It’s not really that ridiculous or sad, she’s a grandmother meaning she’s lived her life already, she wants to spend time with her grandchildren lmao. The parents should be happy because they get a break from them, it’s also possible that she does have a life outside of it but maybe she rather spend her days with her family 😂
I feel like that's a sad reality for most of the elderly. I mean, imagine, all of your best friends have died before you did, your spouse is dead, your children are all grown up and have their own lives. I mean, sure, you can make new friends, find hobbies, but sometimes it's not like that. It's low-key why I fear about not having kids cause if I do end up outliving most of my friends while not having a spouse, I might end up quite lonely. I think it's the joy being around children too, your own flesh and blood. But yeah, it is very sad that the grandma doesn't have much outside of seeing her grandchild. There's only so much sewing, book reading and stamp collecting until you need human interaction
The husband is the most passive man in the universe. One of his kids almost swallowed a bottle of pills under the watch of his alcoholic mother in law and all he can muster up is a pitiful, “uh, honey, not to be rude but I’m kinda not comfortable letting your addict mother watch the kids again…”
Atleast he tried to get through to her. The mom literally saw Berkeley with pills in her hand, yet she still thinks it’s unfair that her mom doesn’t get to see the kids when she proved that she couldn’t watch them for three hours?
yes. thats an insta-divorce. The gaslighting, trying to separate me from a loved one, putting your own desires above the needs of your children, leaving them in a neglectful environment with someone suffering through addiction despite them vocalizing that they wanted to stay with someone else. you're not just a bad partner, you're a bad parent.
Agreed, would have divorced and tried to remove custody from the partner so that I could keep the kids. I.e the father should have divorced his wife and try to make sure that the mother has lost custody of the kids and that the father has full time custody of them.
Agreed, but all of those red flags would have shown up within the first 6 months. At this point the dad should know what's. This is why you need to be more picky about who you hook up with. Now that you created two kids, good luck to them, I guess, I really can't think of any suggestion on how to make things better. You could get a divorce but in the US that will just mean the insecure manipulative narcissist and the lush become the primary caretakers. 0 ways that turns out better for the kids.
My father is a recovered alcoholic nowadays and I am sure he would rather be there when I was growing up than drinking, he wasn't doing that "for fun", so it was good to see August say people don't just choose to become addicted.
10:54, hell yeah this is divorce worthy. I'm not staying married to a woman who won't even let me see my mother or let my children see my mother either
We're on the same page about this video, August. I also didn't like how the mom's alcoholism was so breezily portrayed and how no one ever suggested getting her some kind of help. The epilogue even shows that now that the two grandmas can co-babysit, the alcoholic's daughter and son-in-law don't seem the least bit concerned about her problem or the fact that she's STILL getting drunk in the presence of her granddaughters. And yeah, if I were in Brad's shoes (funnily enough, you were totally right about that being the husband's name), I would definitely divorce someone if they blocked someone on my phone for as petty and self-centered a reason as "I don't want your mom spending time with our kids if my mom is too irresponsible to do the same!"
I think a lot of us would have. Honestly I really don't get how the wife can't see the correlation between her mom getting drunk and not getting to see the kids as often. Put two and two together, wife.
I love how the mom just grab the pills from her daughter and tells her mom what would had happened if she took any, instead of asking her daughter if she swallowed any of her pills and possibly needs to take her daughter to the hospital!
Hmm I mean yeah that would have been the responsible thing to ask I believe but I feel like it's kind of easy to tell if she took any cuz the cap was still on and if she couldn't get it off she probably wouldn't have to put it back yk?
Honestly, this video shows a mom with multiple symptoms of insecure narcissism. Munchhausen by proxy would fit the character very well. It's highly likely that the mom is hoping the daughter did take some pills so she can use that to garner sympathy from the community. Although, I doubt Dhar Mann puts that much thought into anything.
-Comes home to find the grandma drunk -the daughter drinking chocolate syrup and is most likely sick -finds the other daughter trying to open a bottle of pills "OmG bUT It'S SUPER UnFaiR fOR mY mOM tO NoT SEe tHe KiDs! WAHHH!!!" This woman would let her kids see a family member who is a literal pedophile because it would be "unfair"
At this point the father should file a divorce and cut ties with the mother. Who would stay with a selfish person who's gaslighting and manipulating her husband?
Honestly, one of my grandmas was a lot like that. She abandoned my dad and his brothers when my grandpa died, then showed back up 20 years later like nothing happened.
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom Oh, don't worry I'm fine. Most of this stuff happened when I was too young to remember. Everybody really made the best of it
The way they downplay alcoholism kind of pisses me off a lot. It's not a joke. I drank for 7 years damn near daily. And I just hit 3 weeks of no drinking. It's a serious addiction, never thought I'd of gotten addicted. Thank you for throwing your frustration about this at Dhar mann
I feel like both of the grandfathers chose to just lay down and die after they read the script. They took one look at it and just noped themselves out of existence.
Honestly, Dhar Mann has been portraying alcoholics in a negative light for a long time and it's about time someone addressed it. Every time a kid has a tragic backstory it's ALWAYS an abusive alcoholic parent. I know that DOES happen, but it's EVERY SINGLE TIME and he never addresses the fact that alcoholism is a serious issue and that not every alcoholic is an abuser or a bad person. For someone who supposedly cares about every hated on group in society, he has NO sympathy for people suffering from alcoholism. It's hard enough to deal with addiction and get shamed by society because of something that isn't their fault, the last thing they need is to be vilified by one of the world's biggest UA-camrs
Mom: is a child predator, addicted to cocaine, marijuana and is a drug dealer, a alcoholic and a serial killer Daugher: She dOesn'T geT tO sPend time wITh My kIds
tf is wrong with this mum she's basically saying "I don't want your mum who loves the kids, gives them attention, knows they exist, cooks for them, etc to take care of our kids. I want my alcoholic mum who gives the kids drugs and doesn't even know they exist to take care of them."
What kind of mother argues to let her drunk, high mom watch children over a seemingly sober, much more pleasant mom? And she's arguing that her mother doesn't get to seem them but with the size and age of that woman and the amount of alcohol missing from that bottle she isn't seeing them anyways
in dhar mann the grandma could be a serial killer, child predator and be doing cocaine and she would be arguing that she doesnt get to see the kids much
I love how the mom just talks about the grandmothers like they're objects, and then she gets manipulated by the mom in the stupidest, weakest way possible. It's like they both think that they are above everyone involved, but they are both beneath said people at the same time. One of the main rules I live by is "anything is possible," and can't figure out what the hell is going on.
So… okay Dhar Dhar, we’re just going to brush over the fact that the mom tried to isolate her husband from his mother, she was trying to force her kids to be babysat by a negligent grandparent (who needs help, not grandkid time!), the other grandmother kidnapped the kids right from the babysitter without telling anyone, and worst of all… the mom THREW AWAY a perfectly good, homemade bread pudding?? Pure evil
As much as I dislike children and the idea of giving birth to them, I would’ve been a way better parent than her, and I wouldn’t let an alcoholic, irresponsible relative of mine watch over them, no matter how much they beg
The alcoholic grandma didn’t even spend time with the girls when she visited. Sometimes you just have to admit when you don’t have the mother you wanted and decide that for the safety of your children that they can’t stay with grandma alone anymore. There’s nothing stopping the mother from taking the kids to visit her mom. Also throwing away Mary’s Corningware out of spite is beyond the pale.
i’d say it’s divorce worthy, when she literally blocks the husbands mom when her mom is an alcoholic so she shouldn’t be babysitting the children… lady needs therapy. straight clickbait should’ve been titled “selfish mother who has no worries about child’s safety”
I've struggled with alcohol abuse for years. I know I've let loved ones down but, there are high functioning alcoholics that really just torture themselves. Not out of choice, but because the claws of addiction are buried too deep. I agree with August. Addiction has been horribly represented in this.
To me the mom has serial killer vibes since she blocked her husbands moms number, wants to let her kids be with an alcoholic, and when husbands mom shows up to check on him, she just speedruns a conversation and tries to keep her away from checking in him. Like she could have killed her husband and shes trying to keep anyone who finds her suspicious away.
A paraphrased version of what the mom says: “your mother always sees the kids while mine never does” Even though you just made it painfully clear that she can’t be trusted to watch the children.
I would be furious! Not only that she blocked his mother who didn't do anything wrong but also because she kept insisting that the kids be neglected because her mother was an addict. I would hope that maternal instincts would have overridden her mommy issues by now. The one thing that the paternal grandma did wrong was just taking the kids. That's 100% wrong. That's legally kidnapping.
I am a Grandmom (actually a Mom Mom)and my Granddaughter is my EVERYTHING!!!! If my son and his wife tried to take her away from me I would not be as nice as this Grandmom is being!
We are not just telling stories, we are telling people to just get adopted by their mother in law when their mother as a drinking problem instead of getting her help.
3:36 There are so many things wrong with this time stamp. #1: Do you want your kids to be safe or NOT?! GRANDMA IS DRINKING, AND IS NOT LOOKING OVER THE KIDS!!! SHE IS ASKING FOR HER CHILDREN TO END UP IN THE HOSPITAL!! #2: She knows Grandma is not acting responsibly. Yet she wants her children to be around her, even after what she SAW. A mother needs to protect their children. Not end up harming them because of their "needs" #3: Grandma is DRUNK. ONE OF HER GRANDCHILDREN ALMOST DID DRUGS BECAUSE OF THIS!!
I feel like im gonna explode SO …. Let me get this straight she - blocks her husbands mom from his phone and expects them to never notice?? - doesnt try to possibly get help for her mom with her acoholism or idk maybe just all 3 of you be around the kids wouldnt that solve the problem too?? -doesnt inform her kids common knowledge pills or asks if they are alright - throws away perfectly good food that someone spent their time making - has the audacity to convince to cancel this vacation, which if they did would be wasting not only her husbands time but a ton of money - seems to not have any decent relationship with her mother in law, cause she only realizes now after one short story that she is a good granny?? These kids look 7 and 10 at least she is realizing this now?! She treats her like shes never met her before. And because she feels BAD her mom can’t be around the kids??? Then find a solution if you cant do it now COMPROMISE WITH YOUR HUSBAND LATER don’t just do crap without thinking about the consequences and act unreasonably selfish. there are so many good lessons and NONE OF THEM ARE IT
This video is insane. I see a divorce coming, a fight over custody… the mother clearly will continue enabling her own mother so that’s gonna get worse over time. That’s a lot of trauma for the kids, the husband, husband’s mom, and frankly the other grandmother too because she’ll probably feel responsible. But hey, at least we learned a fun moral from this family’s gradual destruction! Dammit this is the worst one Dhar Mann’s made in my eyes.
Ah yes, more great life lessons from the great Dhar Mann. -An alcoholic relative or some other loved one can be around your kids and drink all they want as long as there's another person present. Don't encourage that loved one to go to rehab, just let them be an alcoholic. It's okay for them to watch your kids if someone else is there, just let them drink themselves to death. -If you have an alcoholic mother who clearly isn't the right person to be watching your kids, keep your spouse's more responsible and loving mother from seeing them because even though your own mom's a drunk and one of your kids almost poisoned herself under her watch, it's not fair that your spouse's mother gets to see them more than she does. -If your spouse is an evil conniving person who tried to sabotage your and your kids' relationship with your mother, don't divorce them. Get mad for about two seconds but immediately forgive and comfort them after they apologize and just forget the whole thing. Really outdid yourself this time Dhar, VERY good lessons for families to learn 😒
A lot of characters in these videos who have done something wrong tend to get the "easily forgiven" treatment, but this particular example was just ridiculous. The mom in this story just gets off easy without so much as a scolding from her husband or MIL. They immediately understand her and put it all behind them. I'm dumbfounded.
She deserves a divorce. The husband told her that she didn’t trust her mother with the kids, and she takes his phone and blocks his mother out of spite.
Ironically enough it’s just been revealed that Dharr Mann heavily mistreats and underpays the actors that work for him and they’re all protesting against him. August’s assumption that Dharr Mann’s channel was just to gain in revenue and not actually about the “life lessons” was a bullseye So Dharr man not only takes advantage of a mostly child audience but he also underpays his workers. Apparently he’s also gone to jail too.
The other grandma didn't really seem abusive or anything, like she seemed like she would be an okay grandparent if she visited them while sober with other people there. Makes me feel weird that they just cast her aside, but the mom gets forgiven when she was arguably the worst person in the video.
This era of Dhar Mann videos makes me appreciate the videos back in 2018-2021, & even some of the videos on early 2022. I think it all started with "Kid Pulls Fire Alarm To Skip Test".
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Went from teaching decent important life lessons to....this
Why not just have your damn mother there when you are both there. Boom, she gets to spend time with them, and you can leave when a level of trust is built. Also: "The only thing I think about is my grandkids"... What about your actual son? Also also: The husband's mother needs to pick up on "I need to call the cops" vibes. Everything the wife has done screams she killed someone and was trying to hide it from the mother.
I love you August, this if the first dharr man that has hit me personally. My gma was the rock. she raised me and my life situation, gma helped way more than anyone ever did. when she decided it was enough, i died a little for a while. its been hard.
10:54 I’m am not sure about divorce, though I would be very concerned and possibly consider divorce. I mean the mum is pretty selfish, cos her mum is like a hazard around children so it’s not unfair for him to not wish the grandmother to be with the kids.
Oh, joy! Another AugustTheDuck exposes Dhar Mann video! At this point, I'm convinced that Dhar Dhar Binks has left this planet and went to a galaxy far far far away. Overall, on a scale of 1 to 10 on the clickbait scale, it's a 9. It's very close to 10, though. Also, please update the end card soon.
My thought after watching dhar Mann video: divorce the wife, Her being jealous of her husbands mother mother makes sense but to throw out HIS MOTHERS FOOD is a whole mother level of disrespect DIVORCE THE WIFE
my dad used to struggle with achoholism and this pisses me off because it really affected my familys life, thankfully we are all healing, but it doesnt change the fact i would never replace my father no matter how much he drinks. this shows dharr mann doesnt care about what he puts in the video but completely about money. I am completely stunned about how they treated the mother. instead of trying to help her out they throw her to the dirt and take the "better" option.
I get that we need to be understanding of a situation and take a person feelings into account but even that has it's limits and the end of the story kind of crosses that
I can help you with that alcoholism part, take it from a former alcoholic. I resent that same thing, making it out as a joke. It is not a joke, and not all alcoholics are violent or lazy. I was high functioning, and a very pleasant drunk. I had a job, a home, everything. The only reason I quit was because it almost killed me, and I'd like to live a little longer. Alcoholism is not black and white, it's a spectrum, and it is very difficult to escape. I'm one of the lucky ones. Does that help?
4:28 seriously? when i was their age i watched things like henry danger or the amazing world of gumball. why are they watching content meant for toddlers at that age? and btw, the mother does seem a bit of a Karen. i mean seriously, she cares more about her mother getting to see the kids than her kids own safety and constantly rejects the other grandmother who is clearly just trying to be nice. and also i don’t understand the husband. i mean when i have a wife, if she blocked my mom out of my life and put my kids in danger, unless she had a very good explication i would consider the divorce papers
When i was small i liked to watch SpongeBob but my overprotective mom forced me to watch Mickey Mouse and little Einstein since they were “educational shows” and SpongeBob wasn’t lol
One of my grandparents lives close by while another is half way across the country so I barley see them but it’s kinda good I don’t see them too much since my grandmother smokes
I understand what August meant about alcohol addiction being a weird problem. The mom wants the alcoholic grandma to be the good grandma. But it’s like she can’t see that alcoholism is the problem. The mom is more focus on the grandmother being a grandmother instead of worrying about the grandma’s alcoholism. 10:39 for the poll yes this is divorce worthy. Why place the children with the alcoholic grandmother instead of the normal sober one (Mary). The mom said she is upset because her alcoholic mother can’t see the the grandkids. The mom acts like if the alcoholic grandmother sees the kids the alcoholism will just go away.
When the grandma was trying to justify why she kidnapped her grandkids, I actually said out loud "Okay?! Fucking and?!" She deadass committed a crime AND caused the parents to miss an important flight. The fuck is this?!
I don't know about the rest of people, but the alcoholic people I had the misfortune to encounter, brought nothing but pain and tears to the people around, no matter how much you try to help them. One even almost got us all arrested. So, they might not all be the same, God bless, but you know, different perspectives.
Yeah no, the moment she tries to defend her mother even though she’s blatantly unfit to take care of kids and needs serious help is the moment I whip out the papers.
-mom comes home and finds grandmother drunk while watching kids
-daughter got access to a bottle of pills
-mom gets upset at grandmother over it
-dad says he doesn’t feel comfortable with a negligent drunk woman watching their kids
“Waaah but it isn’t fair that my mom doesn’t get to see the kids waaah”
Wtf is this nonsense?
Who knows
@@AugustTheMexicanDuck no one will know
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom probably
Bruh if my wife is okay with leaving our kids with an alcoholic, I'm gonna go get some milk with my kids
@@Black_Knight_-BK- thats considered kidnapping fyi please do not "get milk" with your children
Don’t you love when parents prioritize equal family time between grandparents over them actually being comfortable with their kids caretaker and not leaving them with an alcoholic
My favorite thing 😒
It's ok. It's not real. It's just an act.
personally I believe you should leave your kids with an alcoholic so they know what it's like when I become one
@Lae 🏝🐚 yes?
@@artcastro6750 so?the point of these videos is to apparently teach kids about these things.and even then you can't criticize a piece of media?
"My mom hasent seen her grandchildren for weeks " her mother legit had all day with them and instead she was watching TV with alcohol while the one child was speedrunning obesity and the other suicide 💀
Exactly lmfaoo and the fact that she (the mom) wouldn't let her mother-in-law babysit the kids when she clearly wants someone else to take care of the kids...this story is just contradicting itself 🤦🏻♀️
When s that round halloween lady
Fr! That other grandmother was doing her job and did care for the kids, and the mother blocks her from her husband’s phone?? She’s way more qualified than your own mother, lady!
@@RandomPerson-b9sd It could’ve worked if their toxic parent-child relationship was acknowledged, but that’s above Dhar Mann’s writing IQ of 11 years old
Love how the wife is more concerned about the fact that her alcoholic mother doesn't spend enough time with the children than the actual safety of her own children.
Or the fact that her mother is a severe alcoholic and needs help.
And the father goes along with it! 🤦♀️
Quantity over quality
thay bothered me to
The Dad Looks Like 2017 IDubbz
What’s so sad is that the grandmother has NO life outside her grandchildren. That’s just ridiculous and sad.
Who's that round halloween lady
Its also partially the mother's fault what happened. Maybe if she wasnt so envious
It’s not really that ridiculous or sad, she’s a grandmother meaning she’s lived her life already, she wants to spend time with her grandchildren lmao. The parents should be happy because they get a break from them, it’s also possible that she does have a life outside of it but maybe she rather spend her days with her family 😂
fr tho
I feel like that's a sad reality for most of the elderly. I mean, imagine, all of your best friends have died before you did, your spouse is dead, your children are all grown up and have their own lives. I mean, sure, you can make new friends, find hobbies, but sometimes it's not like that.
It's low-key why I fear about not having kids cause if I do end up outliving most of my friends while not having a spouse, I might end up quite lonely. I think it's the joy being around children too, your own flesh and blood.
But yeah, it is very sad that the grandma doesn't have much outside of seeing her grandchild. There's only so much sewing, book reading and stamp collecting until you need human interaction
The husband is the most passive man in the universe. One of his kids almost swallowed a bottle of pills under the watch of his alcoholic mother in law and all he can muster up is a pitiful, “uh, honey, not to be rude but I’m kinda not comfortable letting your addict mother watch the kids again…”
Lmao true, normal husbands would be like "BITCH WE ARE NEVER LEAVING OUR KIDS WITH YOUR MOM"
I mean I would give a light scolding at least. Chastize her a little bit!
Guess he's a soyboy
Racism is not taco bell
Atleast he tried to get through to her. The mom literally saw Berkeley with pills in her hand, yet she still thinks it’s unfair that her mom doesn’t get to see the kids when she proved that she couldn’t watch them for three hours?
@@t1mburt0nsdandruff it's eedee*
yes. thats an insta-divorce. The gaslighting, trying to separate me from a loved one, putting your own desires above the needs of your children, leaving them in a neglectful environment with someone suffering through addiction despite them vocalizing that they wanted to stay with someone else. you're not just a bad partner, you're a bad parent.
Agreed, would have divorced and tried to remove custody from the partner so that I could keep the kids. I.e the father should have divorced his wife and try to make sure that the mother has lost custody of the kids and that the father has full time custody of them.
Antler..
@@imanepinkshe should’ve put her kids’ safety over her desires.
@@t1mburt0nsdandruff yeah, but she's selfish so the father should divorce and take the kids away from the mother.
Agreed, but all of those red flags would have shown up within the first 6 months. At this point the dad should know what's. This is why you need to be more picky about who you hook up with. Now that you created two kids, good luck to them, I guess, I really can't think of any suggestion on how to make things better. You could get a divorce but in the US that will just mean the insecure manipulative narcissist and the lush become the primary caretakers. 0 ways that turns out better for the kids.
Yes. Divorce worthy. This isn't a normal response to stress, and is definitely not the first step. You don't jump straight to those kinds of actions.
But... those plane tickets were nonrefundable! I guess divorce will have to wait until after the vacation is over. 😉
The wife is basically mad that her husbands mom is a actually responsible grandparent compared to hers
As a recovering alcoholic thanks for realizing we aren't just villains and idiots. Respect August 🙏
That’s what I’m saying!❤️
I mean, villain no but idiot yeah
Yes
My father is a recovered alcoholic nowadays and I am sure he would rather be there when I was growing up than drinking, he wasn't doing that "for fun", so it was good to see August say people don't just choose to become addicted.
@@Ukiby3000 exactly. Being in my 20s myself it's definitely not a choice to get addicted. It all happens before you know it
10:54, hell yeah this is divorce worthy. I'm not staying married to a woman who won't even let me see my mother or let my children see my mother either
Hypocrisy and an invasion of privacy. She really went for the double kill huh
@@Black_Knight_-BK- yeah, and her husband is so accepting🫥
@@Black_Knight_-BK- and stupidity. There's a clear reason your mom doesn't see her grandkids as often if she's a drunk.
Agreed, divorce worthy. Family is important.
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom she married the most patient man in human existence
I’m convinced dhar mann is an undiscovered alien species from Area 51
Exactly
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@@karmaApples318 :0
He's a robot I saw him being made by the aliens
I think he actually has autism TBH, like i've always said in August's videos, I think he portrays his schools like special needs schools in the UK.
We're on the same page about this video, August. I also didn't like how the mom's alcoholism was so breezily portrayed and how no one ever suggested getting her some kind of help. The epilogue even shows that now that the two grandmas can co-babysit, the alcoholic's daughter and son-in-law don't seem the least bit concerned about her problem or the fact that she's STILL getting drunk in the presence of her granddaughters. And yeah, if I were in Brad's shoes (funnily enough, you were totally right about that being the husband's name), I would definitely divorce someone if they blocked someone on my phone for as petty and self-centered a reason as "I don't want your mom spending time with our kids if my mom is too irresponsible to do the same!"
Would’ve been an instant deal-breaker for me. I’m not about to be married to someone who’s as mentally mature as our own kids.
I think a lot of us would have. Honestly I really don't get how the wife can't see the correlation between her mom getting drunk and not getting to see the kids as often. Put two and two together, wife.
I would divorce too if my husband blocked someone in my Phone for a stupid reason specially if it's a family member
Common sense
I love how the mom just grab the pills from her daughter and tells her mom what would had happened if she took any, instead of asking her daughter if she swallowed any of her pills and possibly needs to take her daughter to the hospital!
Hmm I mean yeah that would have been the responsible thing to ask I believe but I feel like it's kind of easy to tell if she took any cuz the cap was still on and if she couldn't get it off she probably wouldn't have to put it back yk?
Honestly, this video shows a mom with multiple symptoms of insecure narcissism. Munchhausen by proxy would fit the character very well. It's highly likely that the mom is hoping the daughter did take some pills so she can use that to garner sympathy from the community. Although, I doubt Dhar Mann puts that much thought into anything.
Honestly I assumed the other girl had taken them given she was fucking catatonic on the floor
@@mellow_mallow Thats wild and true
@@ghoul-san3208 not at all, are you joking 😂
the lids very easy to get back on. Getting it OFF is 10x harder than getting it back on by design
If I was this husband I would’ve divorced her immediately
Honestly me too
The first argument, I would go:
"Your mom see our kids? I am CONCERNED for the SAFETY of our kids!"
@@mikeycat18 octogreat gran... BEEP GRANNY LOU NOISE.. I LIKE THE WILD THINGS SRE
“We aren’t just telling stories, we are making people resent their family members, clickbaiting people, and in general making peoples lives worse”
-Dhar Mann* 😂
100% facts
And making people watch Clang Invasion
One unrealistic thing about Dhar Mann videos is that the mom sometimes calls their son "that boy", sounding like they're not their son
@@Coolharry64 fr
-Comes home to find the grandma drunk
-the daughter drinking chocolate syrup and is most likely sick
-finds the other daughter trying to open a bottle of pills
"OmG bUT It'S SUPER UnFaiR fOR mY mOM tO NoT SEe tHe KiDs! WAHHH!!!"
This woman would let her kids see a family member who is a literal pedophile because it would be "unfair"
that woman would let her kids see a pedophile thats addicted to cocaine because it would be "unfair"
Do you even know what pedophile means?
@@toshani3018 yes, an adult who is romantically and/or sexually attracted to minors
At this point the father should file a divorce and cut ties with the mother. Who would stay with a selfish person who's gaslighting and manipulating her husband?
@@sh1t_nugget I know right??? Like it's so stupid
You see, we’re not just telling stories, we are teaching kids to reject their grandma.
Honestly, one of my grandmas was a lot like that.
She abandoned my dad and his brothers when my grandpa died, then showed back up 20 years later like nothing happened.
@@the_inquisitive_inquisitor I feel sad for you🥺 get better soon ❤
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom Oh, don't worry I'm fine. Most of this stuff happened when I was too young to remember. Everybody really made the best of it
@@the_inquisitive_inquisitor ok
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom Thanks for the well-wishes at any rate. I hope you're having a good day
Whatever happens, Don’t let yourself become a victim of Clickbait.
25 likes and no replies? lemme fix that
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom 2 likes and no replies I got you !
Hold on how is this comment 47 mins ago but the vid came out 45 mins ago????
@@tanzpenhalluriack3299 thanks brother 😎
@@theemptycoffeecups7801 early timing
The way they downplay alcoholism kind of pisses me off a lot. It's not a joke. I drank for 7 years damn near daily. And I just hit 3 weeks of no drinking. It's a serious addiction, never thought I'd of gotten addicted. Thank you for throwing your frustration about this at Dhar mann
I promised myself to not to drink any type of alcohol, I am abstemious
I feel like both of the grandfathers chose to just lay down and die after they read the script. They took one look at it and just noped themselves out of existence.
Agreed.
The worst thing about this is that these parents actually thought it was okay to name one of their kids, "Berkley".
Who in the right mind would want to name their child "Berkley"
@@mikumujs Morons and people who want to rig their child's life before it could even get a chance.
Yeah. Yale is better.
I wonder if anyone has ever been named "Moonny"?
@@favoritemustard3542 Or Vanderbilt and called them Vandy.
Honestly, Dhar Mann has been portraying alcoholics in a negative light for a long time and it's about time someone addressed it. Every time a kid has a tragic backstory it's ALWAYS an abusive alcoholic parent. I know that DOES happen, but it's EVERY SINGLE TIME and he never addresses the fact that alcoholism is a serious issue and that not every alcoholic is an abuser or a bad person. For someone who supposedly cares about every hated on group in society, he has NO sympathy for people suffering from alcoholism. It's hard enough to deal with addiction and get shamed by society because of something that isn't their fault, the last thing they need is to be vilified by one of the world's biggest UA-camrs
That's stereotypes for ya.
@@KarenMyComputerWife ironic, considering Dhar Mann makes videos about how false and harmful stereotypes can be
@@lilfizz1619 Hypocrisy at its finest.
The plot of Doom (2016) makes more sense than the plot of this awful Dhar Mann video
Also, Every animal in the fossil record has never seen such Bullsh*t before
Mom:is an alchoholic
Daughter:"She dOesn'T geT tO sPend time wITh My kIds"
The mom would let a family member who is a literal pedophile watch her kids, that's how hypocritical she is
Mom: is a child predator, addicted to cocaine, marijuana and is a drug dealer, a alcoholic and a serial killer
Daugher: She dOesn'T geT tO sPend time wITh My kIds
We aren't just making stories we're making lies
Dhar Mann in 2059: WeRe NoT JuSt TeLlIng StOrIeS, WeRE EnDiNg LiVeS
More like clickbaiting lives
_True stories_ are a small portion of *stories in general.*
😂😂😂
We're just telling stories, & NOT changing lives
tf is wrong with this mum she's basically saying "I don't want your mum who loves the kids, gives them attention, knows they exist, cooks for them, etc to take care of our kids. I want my alcoholic mum who gives the kids drugs and doesn't even know they exist to take care of them."
Guess what fire arm ready hydrants
They are mummies lmao cause their old lol. Sorry I'm from the Americas
What kind of mother argues to let her drunk, high mom watch children over a seemingly sober, much more pleasant mom? And she's arguing that her mother doesn't get to seem them but with the size and age of that woman and the amount of alcohol missing from that bottle she isn't seeing them anyways
in dhar mann the grandma could be a serial killer, child predator and be doing cocaine and she would be arguing that she doesnt get to see the kids much
@@creeperminecraft294 lol wth
I love how the mom just talks about the grandmothers like they're objects, and then she gets manipulated by the mom in the stupidest, weakest way possible.
It's like they both think that they are above everyone involved, but they are both beneath said people at the same time.
One of the main rules I live by is "anything is possible," and can't figure out what the hell is going on.
the title should've been evil mother gatekeeps kids from their grandmother 💀💀
And from her son.
So… okay Dhar Dhar, we’re just going to brush over the fact that the mom tried to isolate her husband from his mother, she was trying to force her kids to be babysat by a negligent grandparent (who needs help, not grandkid time!), the other grandmother kidnapped the kids right from the babysitter without telling anyone, and worst of all… the mom THREW AWAY a perfectly good, homemade bread pudding?? Pure evil
Ikr? I fucking love bread pudding!
As much as I dislike children and the idea of giving birth to them, I would’ve been a way better parent than her, and I wouldn’t let an alcoholic, irresponsible relative of mine watch over them, no matter how much they beg
If the moms argument is that the grandmother never gets the kids, why not just have supervised visits?
Consent to knocking over the cones
One kid ate a lot of chocolate and the other almost got into pills. They seem too young to not be watched by someone 24/7 for three days
The alcoholic grandma didn’t even spend time with the girls when she visited. Sometimes you just have to admit when you don’t have the mother you wanted and decide that for the safety of your children that they can’t stay with grandma alone anymore. There’s nothing stopping the mother from taking the kids to visit her mom. Also throwing away Mary’s Corningware out of spite is beyond the pale.
i’d say it’s divorce worthy, when she literally blocks the husbands mom when her mom is an alcoholic so she shouldn’t be babysitting the children… lady needs therapy. straight clickbait should’ve been titled “selfish mother who has no worries about child’s safety”
“,instantly regrets it
“When my mom isn’t able to.”
Have your mom go to rehab then start talking about her having more visitation with the kids
The mom is really mad her *DRUNK* mother can't see her kids.
The narcissism the mother has is crazy 💀
Cateogry whirring
I've struggled with alcohol abuse for years. I know I've let loved ones down but, there are high functioning alcoholics that really just torture themselves. Not out of choice, but because the claws of addiction are buried too deep.
I agree with August. Addiction has been horribly represented in this.
To me the mom has serial killer vibes since she blocked her husbands moms number, wants to let her kids be with an alcoholic, and when husbands mom shows up to check on him, she just speedruns a conversation and tries to keep her away from checking in him.
Like she could have killed her husband and shes trying to keep anyone who finds her suspicious away.
A paraphrased version of what the mom says: “your mother always sees the kids while mine never does”
Even though you just made it painfully clear that she can’t be trusted to watch the children.
I would be furious! Not only that she blocked his mother who didn't do anything wrong but also because she kept insisting that the kids be neglected because her mother was an addict. I would hope that maternal instincts would have overridden her mommy issues by now. The one thing that the paternal grandma did wrong was just taking the kids. That's 100% wrong. That's legally kidnapping.
I am a Grandmom (actually a Mom Mom)and my Granddaughter is my EVERYTHING!!!! If my son and his wife tried to take her away from me I would not be as nice as this Grandmom is being!
Lots of characters in these videos who have done wrong tend to get the "easily forgiven" treatment, but this particular example was just ridiculous.
Multimillionaire doesn't pay his actors fairly, he lives to regret it.
Split circle unevenly
We are not just telling stories, we are telling people to just get adopted by their mother in law when their mother as a drinking problem instead of getting her help.
Consent to doing this isn't consent to doing that.. Consent to knocking over the cones..
3:36 There are so many things wrong with this time stamp.
#1: Do you want your kids to be safe or NOT?! GRANDMA IS DRINKING, AND IS NOT LOOKING OVER THE KIDS!!! SHE IS ASKING FOR HER CHILDREN TO END UP IN THE HOSPITAL!!
#2: She knows Grandma is not acting responsibly. Yet she wants her children to be around her, even after what she SAW. A mother needs to protect their children. Not end up harming them because of their "needs"
#3: Grandma is DRUNK. ONE OF HER GRANDCHILDREN ALMOST DID DRUGS BECAUSE OF THIS!!
Mom: My grandma deserves the kids more than yours does
Every damn wine bottle in existence: No the HELL she does not
My smoke alarm blinked
I feel like im gonna explode SO …. Let me get this straight she
- blocks her husbands mom from his phone and expects them to never notice??
- doesnt try to possibly get help for her mom with her acoholism or idk maybe just all 3 of you be around the kids wouldnt that solve the problem too??
-doesnt inform her kids common knowledge pills or asks if they are alright
- throws away perfectly good food that someone spent their time making
- has the audacity to convince to cancel this vacation, which if they did would be wasting not only her husbands time but a ton of money
- seems to not have any decent relationship with her mother in law, cause she only realizes now after one short story that she is a good granny?? These kids look 7 and 10 at least she is realizing this now?! She treats her like shes never met her before.
And because she feels BAD her mom can’t be around the kids???
Then find a solution if you cant do it now COMPROMISE WITH YOUR HUSBAND LATER don’t just do crap without thinking about the consequences and act unreasonably selfish.
there are so many good lessons and NONE OF THEM ARE IT
Now he's being called out by his original actors for being a horrible boss. "Whatever happens in the dark always comes to light."
My smoke alarm just went 😊" blink" 😊
This man needs an Oscar for the SOFTEST DAD IN THE WORLD💀💀💀💀💀
Next video: Dhar Mann changes name to Dhar Womann, misogynist gets angry - he lives to regret it.
This needs to be a video 🤩
🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL.
This video is insane. I see a divorce coming, a fight over custody… the mother clearly will continue enabling her own mother so that’s gonna get worse over time. That’s a lot of trauma for the kids, the husband, husband’s mom, and frankly the other grandmother too because she’ll probably feel responsible. But hey, at least we learned a fun moral from this family’s gradual destruction!
Dammit this is the worst one Dhar Mann’s made in my eyes.
Ah yes, more great life lessons from the great Dhar Mann.
-An alcoholic relative or some other loved one can be around your kids and drink all they want as long as there's another person present. Don't encourage that loved one to go to rehab, just let them be an alcoholic. It's okay for them to watch your kids if someone else is there, just let them drink themselves to death.
-If you have an alcoholic mother who clearly isn't the right person to be watching your kids, keep your spouse's more responsible and loving mother from seeing them because even though your own mom's a drunk and one of your kids almost poisoned herself under her watch, it's not fair that your spouse's mother gets to see them more than she does.
-If your spouse is an evil conniving person who tried to sabotage your and your kids' relationship with your mother, don't divorce them. Get mad for about two seconds but immediately forgive and comfort them after they apologize and just forget the whole thing.
Really outdid yourself this time Dhar, VERY good lessons for families to learn 😒
The only one evil in this video is the actual mother.
A responsible grandmother is the worst thing in her eyes.
Divorce sounds reasonable right now
The hell. Who writes these scripts? I'd have ended that with divorce. 😂
A lot of characters in these videos who have done something wrong tend to get the "easily forgiven" treatment, but this particular example was just ridiculous. The mom in this story just gets off easy without so much as a scolding from her husband or MIL. They immediately understand her and put it all behind them. I'm dumbfounded.
She deserves a divorce. The husband told her that she didn’t trust her mother with the kids, and she takes his phone and blocks his mother out of spite.
@@t1mburt0nsdandruff Completely inexcusable on her part. You're right. He really should have divorced her.
@@owenogletree6374 It’s Dhar Mann, of course the bad person will get a dumb redemption arc instead of getting punished
@@t1mburt0nsdandruff Unless if it's Mikey, of course.
@@owenogletree6374 Mikey? Was he a Dhar Mann character? I haven’t watched a lot of his stuff
"We're not just telling storys, we're clickbaiting little kids."
Ha! So true!!
@@Annagiraffelover77 true red lamp that burns out sooner than the people alarm light jn the other room
@@brownbrownbrown2938 yep
Ironically enough it’s just been revealed that Dharr Mann heavily mistreats and underpays the actors that work for him and they’re all protesting against him.
August’s assumption that Dharr Mann’s channel was just to gain in revenue and not actually about the “life lessons” was a bullseye
So Dharr man not only takes advantage of a mostly child audience but he also underpays his workers. Apparently he’s also gone to jail too.
Wait what? I did hear about him going to jail before but the actors protesting against him?? U mind spilling the tea for me? ☕
I heard about that on Twitter lol but I wasn't rlly sure what happened
11:26
I think I was just so pissed at how cringe i got looking at that scene-
After that one the divorce letter was being mailed to her
So you see, we aren't just telling stories, we are clickbaiting and teaching people to lie
Yep
The other grandma didn't really seem abusive or anything, like she seemed like she would be an okay grandparent if she visited them while sober with other people there.
Makes me feel weird that they just cast her aside, but the mom gets forgiven when she was arguably the worst person in the video.
yeah but the mom wants their kids to be with the just the drunk grandma that gives the kid pills
This era of Dhar Mann videos makes me appreciate the videos back in 2018-2021, & even some of the videos on early 2022. I think it all started with "Kid Pulls Fire Alarm To Skip Test".
Went from teaching decent important life lessons to....this
Aaaaand your comment is popular teach me da we
@@Infernobusinessboi I lost da wae
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom maaaaan
Fr 2020-2021 era dhar mann was the best
@@Infernobusinessboi get hobby
Came for dharr mann, stayed for the duck man 🦆
When it comes to this situation this is where divorce should be involved. In divorce we trust
Changing lives and changing up his vids. Gotta love Dhar Dhar
I got a new nickname
Dhar the Hedgehog
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom The Ultimate Life Changer
@@PhoenixEnforcer76 Dhar goes fast
Why not just have your damn mother there when you are both there. Boom, she gets to spend time with them, and you can leave when a level of trust is built.
Also: "The only thing I think about is my grandkids"... What about your actual son?
Also also: The husband's mother needs to pick up on "I need to call the cops" vibes. Everything the wife has done screams she killed someone and was trying to hide it from the mother.
Yeah
This channel is my life support if it were every to get abandoned or deleted I would die
I do have to say the mother isn’t nearly as cartoonishly evil as most Dhar Mann villains are
From now on I will only watch dar dar videos through your channel. Keep them coming. Your narration is gold
I love you August, this if the first dharr man that has hit me personally. My gma was the rock. she raised me and my life situation, gma helped way more than anyone ever did. when she decided it was enough, i died a little for a while. its been hard.
So instead of getting help for her own mom she pushes away her mother in law what lesson is this
And dhar mann gets praise and profits a lot off of these
Every time I watch a new Dhar Mann video a little piece of my soul dies.
11:03 Gotta give credit where it’s due - Brad’s reaction is the most REALISTIC thing in this video I think.
ive been binge watching all your dharman vids
i stayed home from school to watch them
Dhar mann is getting worse every year everyday every second
The mother's actions are definitely divorce worthy.
Danny reflecion daina on the criling WHEN YOU..
@@brownbrownbrown2938 What?
No worries 😂 That intro has been the best thing I’ve seen/heard this week
10:54 I’m am not sure about divorce, though I would be very concerned and possibly consider divorce. I mean the mum is pretty selfish, cos her mum is like a hazard around children so it’s not unfair for him to not wish the grandmother to be with the kids.
10:45 yes
I felt pain through my entire body when I saw the bread pudding go into the trash can
I am NOT seeing her ever again after this.And I’m taking the kids,there is no way I’m letting her see them ever again.
Oh, joy! Another AugustTheDuck exposes Dhar Mann video! At this point, I'm convinced that Dhar Dhar Binks has left this planet and went to a galaxy far far far away.
Overall, on a scale of 1 to 10 on the clickbait scale, it's a 9. It's very close to 10, though.
Also, please update the end card soon.
My thought after watching dhar Mann video: divorce the wife, Her being jealous of her husbands mother mother makes sense but to throw out HIS MOTHERS FOOD is a whole mother level of disrespect
DIVORCE THE WIFE
I like how you have so much energy to watch a 20 min video of dhar man thats a power
Yep
I started watching August when I saw him in my recommendations and now he’s one of my favorite UA-camrs
you know... as someone who's been in foster care there's this really cool thing called "supervised visits"
When August makes a Dhar Mann video I click immediately
Always
@@AugustTheMexicanDuck frowny francis anny ann ann
@@brownbrownbrown2938 Don't get it
my dad used to struggle with achoholism and this pisses me off because it really affected my familys life, thankfully we are all healing, but it doesnt change the fact i would never replace my father no matter how much he drinks. this shows dharr mann doesnt care about what he puts in the video but completely about money. I am completely stunned about how they treated the mother. instead of trying to help her out they throw her to the dirt and take the "better" option.
I get that we need to be understanding of a situation and take a person feelings into account but even that has it's limits and the end of the story kind of crosses that
11:10 forget divorce, this might be a murder.
My mom is physically disabled from a TBI and when she calls I *answer.*
Even if the grandmother had a rocket launcher it’s still the moms fault
‘I was so upset with my mom I put our children in harms way’ there, fixed that line.
2:50 “do you see this?” well, yes because you’re holding it in your hand in front of me 😂
I can help you with that alcoholism part, take it from a former alcoholic.
I resent that same thing, making it out as a joke. It is not a joke, and not all alcoholics are violent or lazy. I was high functioning, and a very pleasant drunk. I had a job, a home, everything. The only reason I quit was because it almost killed me, and I'd like to live a little longer.
Alcoholism is not black and white, it's a spectrum, and it is very difficult to escape. I'm one of the lucky ones.
Does that help?
4:28 seriously? when i was their age i watched things like henry danger or the amazing world of gumball. why are they watching content meant for toddlers at that age? and btw, the mother does seem a bit of a Karen. i mean seriously, she cares more about her mother getting to see the kids than her kids own safety and constantly rejects the other grandmother who is clearly just trying to be nice. and also i don’t understand the husband. i mean when i have a wife, if she blocked my mom out of my life and put my kids in danger, unless she had a very good explication i would consider the divorce papers
When i was small i liked to watch SpongeBob but my overprotective mom forced me to watch Mickey Mouse and little Einstein since they were “educational shows” and SpongeBob wasn’t lol
One of my grandparents lives close by while another is half way across the country so I barley see them but it’s kinda good I don’t see them too much since my grandmother smokes
haha 2:00 "Right off the bat" then an ad for harry potter pops on
I understand what August meant about alcohol addiction being a weird problem. The mom wants the alcoholic grandma to be the good grandma. But it’s like she can’t see that alcoholism is the problem. The mom is more focus on the grandmother being a grandmother instead of worrying about the grandma’s alcoholism.
10:39 for the poll yes this is divorce worthy. Why place the children with the alcoholic grandmother instead of the normal sober one (Mary). The mom said she is upset because her alcoholic mother can’t see the the grandkids. The mom acts like if the alcoholic grandmother sees the kids the alcoholism will just go away.
When the grandma was trying to justify why she kidnapped her grandkids, I actually said out loud "Okay?! Fucking and?!"
She deadass committed a crime AND caused the parents to miss an important flight. The fuck is this?!
I don't know about the rest of people, but the alcoholic people I had the misfortune to encounter, brought nothing but pain and tears to the people around, no matter how much you try to help them. One even almost got us all arrested. So, they might not all be the same, God bless, but you know, different perspectives.
Yeah no, the moment she tries to defend her mother even though she’s blatantly unfit to take care of kids and needs serious help is the moment I whip out the papers.
ngl 9:50 hurt cause i took my grandma being around for granded, and never awsnered her calls, she died in november.
my condolences