Facts 💯 these simps keep having to learn the hard way.. there is just too much info about this nowadays, whereas when we where growing up there wasn't much
@@rogerblewett5595 Todays simp was yesterday’s RBG leader. You pro blacks need to show respect to these stepfathers since y’all too cowardly to check Keisha 😂
@@landonbrown9943 brothers gotta stop feeding into delusional thinking. There’s no such thing as a step anything. The more dudes create a title for being a sucker by cleaning up just to get access to some roast beef, the more these chicks will think they’re settling for dudes they know they don’t qualify for.
Yeah. I can't defend him on this. He is yelling in front of his boy. Calling his mother a thot in front of him. That boy sees that crap. This could have been handled better.
@@calebhenderson6507, the mom sound petty, and the son’s Father is prolly also FOS. He prolly one of them dudes talk about what he gonna do, but always broke or too busy. The mom prolly always sittin in the barbershop with the son.
@user-cs1mc4vg7q ain't no probably about it. That mother was petty on that child support crap. But that dude is an emotional Karen. He is out here making things worse for his son.
@@calebhenderson6507well said. He’s setting a terrible example for his son and the cycle of toxicity will continue. Someone has to be the adult in the situation.
@fortis17 that's the thing. Just because he is a black man does not mean I will not defend him. If anything, we hold each other accountable more than anyone else. I understand his pain if he is actually trying to be consistent (i dont know if he is or not), but this could make things worse for him. Him being recorded could make this worse for him. Dude is teaching his son to be an emotional Karen.
@@criticalthinker907 and women quit giving boys men’s rewards. Making babies with the class clowns has the community a circus. We have growing up to do. There’s too much playing house, going with temporary feeling causing lifelong consequences, and arrested development. There are too many adult aged teen minded people.
@@AGElite87yeah I was just watching him to see what clown things he would say next but I don’t even look at his vids anymore. He spews the same ridiculous stuff.
Because there are a lot of crazy baby mamas out there too. Like the lady who's video I saw a long time ago that cut the braids out her baby's hair after the father got it done
AGREE w this message for those UNDER 30 or those who r successful... However, the older u get, the harder the NO KIDS expectation bcms (statistically speaking)... which means u may be single for the remainder of ur life... just saying 😬
@@kennymason3849 I don't think it's that. I think that the ones who ARE like that are always in the spotlight and talked about. You never hear ANYTHING positive about the single mother. There are waaay more single mothers out here doing what they are suppose to do and not expecting ANYTHING and are humble. But that's not interesting or fit the narrative of " single mothers are not good". I mean just think about it. What would really be interesting about a normal single mother? NOTHING, because there's no DRAMA. There is nothing ENTERTAINING to record,post or gossip about a regular baby mama. So of course the loud mouthed,lazy, entitled single mothers are posted and talked about the most. But it causes alot of people to group us ALL together.
@@hundreds2696 actually iv seen to many scenarios of this happening with becy n maria also. ITS NOT GLORIFIED like it is in black community but it does happen on the regular. Sadly this is American culture
He felt disrespected that another man was taking his child to get a haircut. Way too emotional over something that is growing back in a couple weeks. If he’s involved father, he’ll have plenty of haircuts to attend.
This man don't give a damn about his son, if he did, he would have paid for a haircut. If you truly give a damn about his son, he wants her to be with a man who will who will take your son to get a haircut.
@@uriyahbonafide4194 BS. They didn't understand why he was upset over a haircut. The shop was trying to get Bio dad to leave without escalating the situation and having this $#!+ be on the news and reflecting bad on the shop. If you listen closely, the guy taping was wondering why the step dad didn't do violence to the bio dad or stop him from taking the kid. They thought the step dad should have reacted more strongly.
Shout out to the step father simp for not engaging in a physical fight that could land him in jail, but let this be a lesson not to date single mothers.
That little boy is probably glad to have any stable Black man in his life. The community has more than enough who don't and grow up doing the same thing, getting someone pregnant and running away. Funny thing about many of you is that you never ever criticize the sorry @$$ men who help to create single motherhood. It's like a whole generation of black men who are growing up never taking responsibility for their own actions. It's always someone else's fault. You feed off of one another, especially since the internet. it provides you with comfort to know you are not alone in feeling rotten about yourself. It's sad to read some of the comment.
Boyfriend handled it best he could. He stayed calm and unafraid...but wisely let dude take his son. Hope this wakes him up. He need to leave that woman. Don't play step-dad to small children
As a child from a single-parent home, I saw firsthand how both sides weaponize us as a child without any concern for our well-being. They use tactics like involving stepparents to criticize each other, saying things like "He's a better father than you ever were" or vice versa. Meanwhile, the child is being traumatized by their actions, while others praise and justify the parents' behavior. The child is often told to sit down and be quiet, despite the emotional turmoil they are experiencing.
If 🎉I was the boyfriend I would’ve told the owner and the father, ok in order to keep the peace in your shop, I’ll leave and the father can pay for the haircut and take him home. That is the best way.
The father is pos. Typical Pookie who ain’t got nothing going on. The way the father behaved especially in front of the son was terrible. But the boyfriend needs to leave the relationship it’s not worth it.
This is the dark side of dating a single mother. This is what those advocates for dating single mothers always "conveniently" never discuss. 🤔 Sorry but as a childless man, this is why i stay away from single mothers. Risk vs reward factor is not favorable. Too many childless women out here to start my own family with instead of dealing with scenarios like this. Too many brothas out here are in jail or were unalived because of crap like this. Shows you that these single mother advocates don't really care about us men. So fellas, start caring about your own selves. No matter if these people try to shame or guilt trip you its YOUR life at the end of the day.
The mom is to be blame bc she took that privilege from the father bc he missed a payment on his child support. She did that out of spite and to punish him. The situation didn’t have to happen. The alternative would have been she takes her son to get his hair cut, especially if she know BD is emotional and has a temper. She was trying to teach him a lesson.
@dominiquec1389 Well, he said he could pay it, so why hasn't he? Seems like he's playing about his responsibilities. That has nothing to do with how he conducted himself in public, though. How he responds to situations is on him and him only!
Ofc, but she’s not entirely innocent if she deliberately told the bf to take the kid just bc the dad skipped a payment. It’s spiteful what she did. And yes clearly he’s emotionally immature but I’m sure she knows that and knew he would react, possibly hoping he would get arrested if things got out of hand.
Even though I don't date single moms (for many reasons lol), i have give step dad his credit for being the more mature man here. Because even if the dad wanted to take his son out, he acted like a total loser here... raising hell in front of his son. Calling his mom a hoe in front of him. He was acting like a bih in this one. This could work against him in especially now that it is recorded. Sometimes you even if you have good intentions (not saying he did or not) you gotta be smart when dealing with this stuff. Or things will end up even worse.
It’s not about the child getting a haircut, it’s about the baby’s mother having her new boyfriend taking the boy to the barbershop and not consulting with her baby’s father beforehand.
Why in the world does he need to tell the baby's father that he's going to take the child he's taking care to the barber shop. You're silly lol. The negro mad because he don't have access to her whenever she needs something.
Consulting with the father? The biological father is a deadbeat daddy. Does the mother have to consult the deadbeat on what food to buy for the kid or cloths to buy? The dad was putting on a show and the people in the shop new it.
@@FlavoredGenuine As a deadbeat, The only thing he needs to know is his son's education and medical emergencies and nothing more. Now a involved father is on a need to know on everything, unlike the deadbeat
@@silverquis You’re looking over the fact that the baby’s mother put her boyfriend in danger knowing it’ll upset the father of their child and I’m not excusing him for threatening that man. It could have ended differently, had she called the father to take the child to the barbershop so they can spend time together and that’s what being a co-parent is all about.
All This Over Something You Should've Been Doing Anyway As A Man is Baffling 😲. And Sad Part About It Is The Little Boy Watching ALL Of This Smh 🤦. That's Why I Don't Deal With Single Mothers 💯
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Once again we see that playing stepdaddy is a thankless task .
Nah This is the wrong message. Fellas be careful or just reframe from dating single moms. Because you got good stuff going on and everything to lose and you can get caught up because she chose to have babies with that loser. That guy was a pookie and chose him.
The absent father was mad and was then called out for not paying child support for everyone in the shop to hear. That changed opinions of him in that shop. Phil you don't know what the hell is going on so you shouldn't be taking a side. The only thing for sure is that the dad appears to a deadbeat. Also, what if he doesn't have any child visitation and has taken the kid? Now what? It also appears the biological dad may have been watching the home for how did he know where the kid and step dad were? If you notice, the step dad told the bio dad to move back and the bio did without hesitation. He was wolfing.
The brother did the right thing and let the father take his son. Legally he probably doesn't have any custody rights. Technically that's almost kidnapping
I seen this video last week. My opinion is still the same about the father not handling the situation correctly. Both parents involved seem to have a seriously dysfunctional relationship going on in terms of parenting & communication. The whole barber shop drama is why I would NEVER date women w/kids. If you're single person w/o children date ppl who don't have kids. The other dude in the video should just leave the chick he dealing with alone before he get hurt or have to hurt somebody.
Say what you wanna say the father should have approached the situation different he's out-of-pocket with his emotions he should have never went that route wrong on all levels
Its a haircur not a tattoo! Dude needs to calm down and stop all that goofyness. He only cares because someone else showed him up. Way too emotional 😂 A mature man would be smart. Give the boy friend a break, take the kid out for ice cream or a treat after. Something a father would actually do
The mother does not have to cater to her son’s father if he’s not catering to his own son. He wants to do what he wants not what’s best for his son. He knows the barber shop is a hot spot for fathers and sons and he wants everybody to see him making him look like he’s a good father. U can’t blame the mother, he needs to take accountability. The stepdad/ boyfriend was not wrong. This is the problem no matter the situation men always say it’s the mother’s fault instead of placing the blame on who deserves it and in this situation it’s the father.
He isn't thinking straight. If he was smart, he'd be happy to work with the stepdad who is also looking after his son in his absence, rather than someone who is just in it for the mother.
Once again this proves my DAMN POINT young Men when you date a single Mom if the Dad is still in the picture eventually you are going to lock horns with the kid Father.
He didn't look like a good father with all that rah rah, and cursing he is deficient as a parent, and it's showing. He isn't thinking about his son at that point pull the guy aside tell him handle it that way if you had a problem. Tell her that's between you and her the guy may not have known. Always talk to the biological parent and get permission, because that's not your child it will keep a lot of issues down.
He said that because he's been taking care of all the daddy duties that the kid needs. Bio dad has been MIA. That barbershop will never see that kid in that shop with his bio father. The step daddy or mother will be the next person seen with that kid.
Yes. I can't defend him on this. Because if you don't want to take care of your financially you can't pick and choose. Plus this dude raising hell in front of that boy and calling his mom a thot even though he laid with her in front of child. With that being said this is reason number 18 on why I dont date single moms.
@calebhenderson6507 What about the mother? How do you know she is financially capable considering she is clearly being petty over child support, and he has another man taking care of her son for her? Also, tensions run high when it comes to one's child. Sure, he could have handled it better but I'm not going to dog someone for being human. He could have done far worst to that guy like physical harm him.
@tman229 he did enough. Acting like a mitch in front of his son like that. And yes, he could have done worse, but that is not something to reward saying he could have done worse but didn't. He still messed up. Then you threathen another man who ain't have nothing to do with his BS. Plus, if he aint paying child support, then what is doing? Plus acting like this will only make things worse as far as him seeing his child, especially since it is recorded. Emotional men like him should not be around they sons like that. you only teaching that boy how to be move like an emotional person. He made a fool of himself and his kids. The mother might have been petty with the child support thing. But that's not an excuse for you as man to act like some ghetto chick in the hood. Plenty of way he could have handled this. He is basically the biggest Karen of this situation.
The biological Dad was doing waaaaaay too much. I understand feeling like that is your responsibility, but setting that kind of poor example and threatening someone helping your child is crazy. I don't know the full backstory and kudos to the boyfriend for avoiding a physical confrontation. I think the father still wants the mom and that is the source of the anger.
1. She should have asked the father to take his son to get the haircut. 2. If the father ain't 💩, then go take the son herself or go with the boyfriend together. 3. Leave them Pookies & Ray-Rays alone, you can tell he one of them with all that hollering and screaming. 4. Either, leave these baby mommas alone, if you are dating them, vet thoroughly about their baby fathers, move accordingly.
@@itsgreat7150 Kept her butt at home? Really dude? Does a little kid need two adults at a barbershop to get a damn haircut? It's a boy. If a man is around, that's a man's duty. If it was a little girl then the mother would be expected to take her to the beauty shop not the father. Are you that clueless?
I've never had a situation like this, but I guess I got out before it escalated to that. Was with a single mother for 3 years but only met her son twice - I got her a little drunk once and everything came out. We split shortly after that. The entire relationship and its strange nature made so much sense now. The father of her son had access to her all this time and they were likely planning on getting back together.
The new guy needs to reevaluate this, seeing though as how the clown is putting on a show to ruin the "relationship" between the new guy and baby mother. Pookie know good and well he could care less about the kid.
The boyfriend was wrong because the father said HE TOLD HIM NOT TO DO THIS before but he took the kid anyway. I bet the mom pushed the boyfriend up to doing it and probably called him a punk if he didn’t. Lesson learned my brother. MOVE ON FROM HER. She still getting clapped up by BD anyway. That’s part of why he so emotional about the situation too.
And that’s another reason why I can’t take a baby mamas seriously because if the daddy’s alive eventually we’re going bump heads and knowing myself it’s only gonna go 1 way why would any self respecting man put himself in a situation like that when he could go over sea and get a physically fit childless woman ready to get on his program and I can’t have another man’s influence in my household are relationship and women don’t understand why I hit it😊 and get ghost
Was that the proper way to handle it over a haircut?!? He called the Mother a Thot in front of his son! Why is there no push back on that?!? Even if the Mother is wrong for how she handled that! There’s more than 1 perspective
I feel bad for the little boy being in that drama, also for mr boyfriend but he did that to himself glad he let that man take his son without conflict cause that would be dumb on his end. Father got rights boyfriend dont. Fellas leave single moms alone! Especially if father is in the picture or walking distance. 🚶🏾♂️🏃🏾♂️💨
Uncle Phil, I get what you're saying but that man could have handled that a lot better than he did. He didn't have to go up in there, yelling, screaming and cursing. He could have pulled that brother aside and say hey man let me to rap to you for a little bit and that's all it could have been. Then he could have called the mother outside of the camera and set up a family meeting and get things straight like that. Not all on social media with all of that berating ; acting crazy and looking like a fool. I'm not saying that that the mother was right but the father was clearly out of line here. He was acting like an overly emotional effeminate simp.
@perrykeshahwalker5321 yeah. 1. He threatened another man 2. He cursing and raising hell in front of his own son 3. He calling his mom a hoe in front of him 4. It's all being recorded, so even if he had good intentions (im not saying he did or not), this could make things worse if he wants to see his son again. Overall, the dude is too emotional, and he embarrassed not only another man. But he embarrassed his son. Imagine that boy going to places knowing his son will be known to for being a part of this foolishness. You can have good intentions, but if you are acting like a Karen and you want results, it will not happen.
This was about the fragile ego, not his son. What grown man acts this way? The kid has more tact than his father. Whole man is acting a complete 🤡 in public and disrespecting his son, another black mans business, etc....and somehow this allllll falls back on the woman.....crazy as hell. Like I'm in the twilight zone.
Fellas leave single mothers alone. Being step daddy is so overrated
All risk, no reward.
Facts 💯 these simps keep having to learn the hard way.. there is just too much info about this nowadays, whereas when we where growing up there wasn't much
@@rogerblewett5595
Todays simp was yesterday’s RBG leader. You pro blacks need to show respect to these stepfathers since y’all too cowardly to check Keisha 😂
@@landonbrown9943 brothers gotta stop feeding into delusional thinking. There’s no such thing as a step anything. The more dudes create a title for being a sucker by cleaning up just to get access to some roast beef, the more these chicks will think they’re settling for dudes they know they don’t qualify for.
@landonbrown9943 At least one of my boys is a stepdad. I wouldn't go for it myself, but I'm glad he's doing alright.
The Son will never forget this 🤡 scenario..
Exactly... like wow dad, you corny as F, smh.
Leave these SINGLE mothers alone guys. Unless you want to be in JAIL or 13 feet under the grave
BINGO. Ding, Ding, Ding. Ring the Bell. You are 1000% right. 👍👍👍👍
@@itsgreat7150let me add. Don't date a woman that got crazy exes
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@@clockehvac1240 same goes bro. Women that got a lot of ex-boyfriends
Step-father
Silly way for the father to handle that. Thats why its not worth it to date single mothers.
Yeah. I can't defend him on this. He is yelling in front of his boy. Calling his mother a thot in front of him. That boy sees that crap. This could have been handled better.
@@calebhenderson6507, the mom sound petty, and the son’s Father is prolly also FOS. He prolly one of them dudes talk about what he gonna do, but always broke or too busy. The mom prolly always sittin in the barbershop with the son.
@user-cs1mc4vg7q ain't no probably about it. That mother was petty on that child support crap. But that dude is an emotional Karen. He is out here making things worse for his son.
@@calebhenderson6507well said. He’s setting a terrible example for his son and the cycle of toxicity will continue. Someone has to be the adult in the situation.
@fortis17 that's the thing. Just because he is a black man does not mean I will not defend him. If anything, we hold each other accountable more than anyone else. I understand his pain if he is actually trying to be consistent (i dont know if he is or not), but this could make things worse for him. Him being recorded could make this worse for him. Dude is teaching his son to be an emotional Karen.
BF wasting his time dealing with a woman linked with a man child like that. He’s the type to take a life and get life over this.
Agreed
The mother was wrong, she should have let the father do it. She put her boyfriend in danger. That brother needs to run from that relationship.
WITH THE QUICKNESS!!!!
@@ceanne0218 The boyfriend put himself in danger.
He better get the hell up outta there
Step dad not boyfriend
AGREED 💯
This incident definitely have ended his relationship with the mother. 🤷♂️😒👎🚫
Yup
Only a fool would date a single mother. All risk no reward.
Children say no to drugs
Men say no to single Mothers
@@criticalthinker907 and women quit giving boys men’s rewards. Making babies with the class clowns has the community a circus. We have growing up to do. There’s too much playing house, going with temporary feeling causing lifelong consequences, and arrested development. There are too many adult aged teen minded people.
This shows what Dr. Umar pretends to not understand.
People but especially black men need to stop listening to Umar. Situations like this is Umar wants good brothers to go through.
@@AGElite87yeah I was just watching him to see what clown things he would say next but I don’t even look at his vids anymore. He spews the same ridiculous stuff.
Men don't date single women with children, and women don't date single men with children🤔
Because there are a lot of crazy baby mamas out there too. Like the lady who's video I saw a long time ago that cut the braids out her baby's hair after the father got it done
@@JemJam2976Yeah that was crazy
AGREE w this message for those UNDER 30 or those who r successful... However, the older u get, the harder the NO KIDS expectation bcms (statistically speaking)... which means u may be single for the remainder of ur life... just saying 😬
SO NOBODY WILL DATE ANYMORE ?
That bio dad still have emotional attachment to his child's mother that's why he was acting emotional like that
But the daddy isn't doing anything for the boy. The daddy just got mad cause he saw another man getting his son a haircut
The biological dad looks like prison may be in his future ... the boyfriend would be a better father
@@talleytaylor1747 Are you friggin stupid?
A better father, better role model and a better chance at a good future.
Don’t Date Single Moms
Don't date dead beat dads!!!!!
@@Tobit-p2mfound the single mom😂
Someone needs to create a dating app for childless people, Because finding a childless woman is very rare
On my soul!!!! 🙏🙏 I wish
Genius comment!!!!
@@bama2dabone229 Eff a dating app! Get your passport instead!
Actually it's not
@ThugNinja Yeah if you like 18 year olds
He also was just performing for the camera and audience! Selling woof tickets don’t scare anyone and he didn’t cash any of them in!
It’s no win in being a proud step daddy ..: both these dudes are fools
nowadays it’s shamed! too many reasons for that but that’s another story!
being a 💀 beat dad is 💯💯💯💯💯 more shameful than being a stepdad!
Being a stepdad is a drag too.
@@RTA6226both are a mess TBH..
This is why I don't date single moms
Same here
I don't trust any young single moms out here these days
I appreciate u saying " young women" and " now days" cause all single mothers are not like that
@@tamearaharris63yeah, but to many of them are.
@tamearaharris63 yes ,the younger are clueless
Where you think the young ones learned this BS from? 😂 stop sparing feelings. They are NOT worth the investment
@@kennymason3849 I don't think it's that. I think that the ones who ARE like that are always in the spotlight and talked about. You never hear ANYTHING positive about the single mother. There are waaay more single mothers out here doing what they are suppose to do and not expecting ANYTHING and are humble. But that's not interesting or fit the narrative of " single mothers are not good". I mean just think about it. What would really be interesting about a normal single mother? NOTHING, because there's no DRAMA. There is nothing ENTERTAINING to record,post or gossip about a regular baby mama. So of course the loud mouthed,lazy, entitled single mothers are posted and talked about the most. But it causes alot of people to group us ALL together.
It’s not worth it. The boyfriend handled it well.
The boyfriend was cool and calm and didn't flinch. If another man is doing your duties it's more your fault that he's doing it.
The boyfriend is a fool!
Is not his job to take the next man son to the barbershop
He tried to intimidate him and failed miserably. Leave Bw alone, Becky or Maria won’t put you through this
@@hundreds2696 actually iv seen to many scenarios of this happening with becy n maria also. ITS NOT GLORIFIED like it is in black community but it does happen on the regular. Sadly this is American culture
He felt disrespected that another man was taking his child to get a haircut. Way too emotional over something that is growing back in a couple weeks. If he’s involved father, he’ll have plenty of haircuts to attend.
He's a beta growing up with a single mom
Who raised this emotional dude 😂
You know who. A single mother.
@TheLb360 yeah this dude was an emotional Karen on this one.
😂
😂🤣😅 That dude is soo emotional he must have had a tampon lodged up his azz and it’s gonna take more than surgery to get it out.
BM are emotional as a collective
Leave them baby mama's alone.
This man don't give a damn about his son, if he did, he would have paid for a haircut. If you truly give a damn about his son, he wants her to be with a man who will who will take your son to get a haircut.
Agreed!! This was about ego not about his son.
He was just mad cause another man was doing something that he should have been doing and chose not to do for whatever reasons!
Exactly.
You can’t say that because we don’t really know whether he involved in his son life or not.
@@tonythegreat3737 , Well we know he's not paying his support so it's fair to say he's not doing other things.
@@winluvwinluv3734He may be backed up on child support but that doesn’t necessarily mean he not active in his son’s life.
You see how Bw are
You gotta pay to see your kid. This is why I tell guys don’t don’t deal with them
The barbershop staff should have escorted the father out of their business. Call 📞 the police 🚔
No that's his son and they understood why he was upset.
@@uriyahbonafide4194 Why was he upset? Why was he calling his own son "MY MOTHER FUCKING SON". Why was he giving off angry single female energy?
@@sbolden123 yep
@@uriyahbonafide4194 BS. They didn't understand why he was upset over a haircut. The shop was trying to get Bio dad to leave without escalating the situation and having this $#!+ be on the news and reflecting bad on the shop. If you listen closely, the guy taping was wondering why the step dad didn't do violence to the bio dad or stop him from taking the kid. They thought the step dad should have reacted more strongly.
@@thewanderer6388 You can always catch more bees with honey than you can with vinegar. Always!
I dated one single mother and her BD got jealous and kept intervening. Learned my lesson real quick to never deal with them again.
Shout out to the step father simp for not engaging in a physical fight that could land him in jail, but let this be a lesson not to date single mothers.
That little boy is probably glad to have any stable Black man in his life. The community has more than enough who don't and grow up doing the same thing, getting someone pregnant and running away. Funny thing about many of you is that you never ever criticize the sorry @$$ men who help to create single motherhood. It's like a whole generation of black men who are growing up never taking responsibility for their own actions. It's always someone else's fault. You feed off of one another, especially since the internet. it provides you with comfort to know you are not alone in feeling rotten about yourself. It's sad to read some of the comment.
it's not that serious and he's probably not even paying child support or seeing his kid on a regular basis.
Doesn't matter.... Biology is biology. If the boyfriend wants a child...he should have his own with the mother... Period
It doesn't matter because thats still that man's son.. women have to stop playing these silly games and be held accountable for their foolishness
You are part of the problem
Exactly
She played games....that's not cool. Ain't going to jail behind some tail ❕
The most dangerous thing in the world, is a man who’s loud and emotional. The strongest thing in the world, is a man who is silent and calm.
Women aren't gonna like Phil's take.
@@complexblackness OR TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR THE FALLOUT!!!
That’s why I absolutely never dated a woman who had children with someone else. I ran from them.
Boyfriend handled it best he could. He stayed calm and unafraid...but wisely let dude take his son. Hope this wakes him up. He need to leave that woman. Don't play step-dad to small children
If this guy is behaving like this in public [in front of the child] imagine what he acts like in private.
As a child from a single-parent home, I saw firsthand how both sides weaponize us as a child without any concern for our well-being. They use tactics like involving stepparents to criticize each other, saying things like "He's a better father than you ever were" or vice versa. Meanwhile, the child is being traumatized by their actions, while others praise and justify the parents' behavior. The child is often told to sit down and be quiet, despite the emotional turmoil they are experiencing.
How many boyfriends have you seen come and go
If 🎉I was the boyfriend I would’ve told the owner and the father, ok in order to keep the peace in your shop, I’ll leave and the father can pay for the haircut and take him home.
That is the best way.
This is one of the other reasons why Black men should avoid dealing with Single moms especially those that have kids out of wedlock.
Say no to single moms.
The father is pos. Typical Pookie who ain’t got nothing going on. The way the father behaved especially in front of the son was terrible. But the boyfriend needs to leave the relationship it’s not worth it.
Dating single mothers just ain’t it man. This is going to be one of those moments that the son will remember for a long time.
And with your advice, grow up to act just like his bio dad starting the cycle all over again.
What a Loser smh
@Taino76 I know! The father is a loser too!
@@SYSBMNOW that's the Loser I meant
This is the dark side of dating a single mother. This is what those advocates for dating single mothers always "conveniently" never discuss. 🤔
Sorry but as a childless man, this is why i stay away from single mothers. Risk vs reward factor is not favorable. Too many childless women out here to start my own family with instead of dealing with scenarios like this. Too many brothas out here are in jail or were unalived because of crap like this. Shows you that these single mother advocates don't really care about us men. So fellas, start caring about your own selves. No matter if these people try to shame or guilt trip you its YOUR life at the end of the day.
Baby daddy drama comes sooner or later.
Why did you put no accountability on the bio dad for not being able to control himself? Everything men do can't be blamed on women.
Because he started his point clearly. No on single moms ❌❌❌
Thats fine go for what you want but to not address his behavior as inappropriate is crazy@IntelligentBlackBrotha
The mom is to be blame bc she took that privilege from the father bc he missed a payment on his child support. She did that out of spite and to punish him. The situation didn’t have to happen. The alternative would have been she takes her son to get his hair cut, especially if she know BD is emotional and has a temper. She was trying to teach him a lesson.
@dominiquec1389 Well, he said he could pay it, so why hasn't he? Seems like he's playing about his responsibilities. That has nothing to do with how he conducted himself in public, though. How he responds to situations is on him and him only!
Ofc, but she’s not entirely innocent if she deliberately told the bf to take the kid just bc the dad skipped a payment. It’s spiteful what she did. And yes clearly he’s emotionally immature but I’m sure she knows that and knew he would react, possibly hoping he would get arrested if things got out of hand.
Even though I don't date single moms (for many reasons lol), i have give step dad his credit for being the more mature man here. Because even if the dad wanted to take his son out, he acted like a total loser here... raising hell in front of his son. Calling his mom a hoe in front of him. He was acting like a bih in this one. This could work against him in especially now that it is recorded. Sometimes you even if you have good intentions (not saying he did or not) you gotta be smart when dealing with this stuff. Or things will end up even worse.
It’s not about the child getting a haircut, it’s about the baby’s mother having her new boyfriend taking the boy to the barbershop and not consulting with her baby’s father beforehand.
Why in the world does he need to tell the baby's father that he's going to take the child he's taking care to the barber shop. You're silly lol. The negro mad because he don't have access to her whenever she needs something.
Consulting with the father? The biological father is a deadbeat daddy. Does the mother have to consult the deadbeat on what food to buy for the kid or cloths to buy? The dad was putting on a show and the people in the shop new it.
@@thewanderer6388Even if he’s a deadbeat, he’s still has a right to visit his child and know what’s going on.
@@FlavoredGenuine As a deadbeat, The only thing he needs to know is his son's education and medical emergencies and nothing more. Now a involved father is on a need to know on everything, unlike the deadbeat
@@silverquis You’re looking over the fact that the baby’s mother put her boyfriend in danger knowing it’ll upset the father of their child and I’m not excusing him for threatening that man.
It could have ended differently, had she called the father to take the child to the barbershop so they can spend time together and that’s what being a co-parent is all about.
All This Over Something You Should've Been Doing Anyway As A Man is Baffling 😲.
And Sad Part About It Is The Little Boy Watching ALL Of This Smh 🤦.
That's Why I Don't Deal With Single Mothers 💯
Once again we see that playing stepdaddy is a thankless task .
She did put that man in danger
Nah This is the wrong message. Fellas be careful or just reframe from dating single moms. Because you got good stuff going on and everything to lose and you can get caught up because she chose to have babies with that loser. That guy was a pookie and chose him.
The absent father was mad and was then called out for not paying child support for everyone in the shop to hear. That changed opinions of him in that shop. Phil you don't know what the hell is going on so you shouldn't be taking a side. The only thing for sure is that the dad appears to a deadbeat. Also, what if he doesn't have any child visitation and has taken the kid? Now what? It also appears the biological dad may have been watching the home for how did he know where the kid and step dad were? If you notice, the step dad told the bio dad to move back and the bio did without hesitation. He was wolfing.
Single mothers are the worst only good for recreational use.
Some dudes like sloppy seconds. This is a 304 country.
Yeah if I was the boyfriend I'd would've ended the relationship with the mother
Ain’t no puzzy worth the drama that can come, ain’t no way I would mess with a single mom with a father that’s a pookie.
The mom should have order a order of protection so that he can’t see his child because the baby dad is crazy.
Just make sure that she also cuts that child support off as well if that's the route she wants to take
Thats going too dam far
@@sunsoza8320 I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate your OutKast avi. Salute to you !
He already not paying😂@@joelbreezy3116
She chose him
Why the hell would he date a single mom? That should had been a red flag right there.
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He ain't gonna be taking his son nowhere if he assaults this man
No good deed goes unpunished!
The brother did the right thing and let the father take his son. Legally he probably doesn't have any custody rights. Technically that's almost kidnapping
I thought the same thing what if the cops showed up right now who's in the right? Damn sure not the guy in the blue🤔
The boyfriend went out like a 🐱 He need to leave that situation, she dangerous lol
@@kennethwatts4390 he definitely needs to. I wouldn't say that he was a punk
I seen this video last week.
My opinion is still the same about the father not handling the situation correctly. Both parents involved seem to have a seriously dysfunctional relationship going on in terms of parenting & communication. The whole barber shop drama is why I would NEVER date women w/kids. If you're single person w/o children date ppl who don't have kids.
The other dude in the video should just leave the chick he dealing with alone before he get hurt or have to hurt somebody.
Say what you wanna say the father should have approached the situation different he's out-of-pocket with his emotions
he should have never went that route wrong on all levels
Yes! Uncle Phil is right! No glove, no love!
Is that an issue when we are dying every day people are homeless and starving if you were there another man wouldn't be😮
Its a haircur not a tattoo! Dude needs to calm down and stop all that goofyness. He only cares because someone else showed him up. Way too emotional 😂
A mature man would be smart. Give the boy friend a break, take the kid out for ice cream or a treat after. Something a father would actually do
If you play step daddy be prepared to be disrespected.
The mother does not have to cater to her son’s father if he’s not catering to his own son. He wants to do what he wants not what’s best for his son. He knows the barber shop is a hot spot for fathers and sons and he wants everybody to see him making him look like he’s a good father. U can’t blame the mother, he needs to take accountability. The stepdad/ boyfriend was not wrong. This is the problem no matter the situation men always say it’s the mother’s fault instead of placing the blame on who deserves it and in this situation it’s the father.
It's not worth going to jail or losing your life. RUUUUNNNN!!!!!!!
He isn't thinking straight. If he was smart, he'd be happy to work with the stepdad who is also looking after his son in his absence, rather than someone who is just in it for the mother.
@@onehundredsaints Are you friggin crazy?
Stg dudes a 🤡
The biological dad is a clown… stay away from single moms!
Once again this proves my DAMN POINT young Men when you date a single Mom if the Dad is still in the picture eventually you are going to lock horns with the kid Father.
Step-dad = the boy is his son
That's why some people won't be with someone who doesn't have any kids
He didn't look like a good father with all that rah rah, and cursing he is deficient as a parent, and it's showing. He isn't thinking about his son at that point pull the guy aside tell him handle it that way if you had a problem. Tell her that's between you and her the guy may not have known. Always talk to the biological parent and get permission, because that's not your child it will keep a lot of issues down.
I don't even have kids and I would have lost it when he said "aint he OUR boy."
He said that because he's been taking care of all the daddy duties that the kid needs. Bio dad has been MIA. That barbershop will never see that kid in that shop with his bio father. The step daddy or mother will be the next person seen with that kid.
Disagree with Phil on this one! It was the Dad fault
Wtf
Yes. I can't defend him on this. Because if you don't want to take care of your financially you can't pick and choose. Plus this dude raising hell in front of that boy and calling his mom a thot even though he laid with her in front of child. With that being said this is reason number 18 on why I dont date single moms.
@calebhenderson6507 What about the mother? How do you know she is financially capable considering she is clearly being petty over child support, and he has another man taking care of her son for her?
Also, tensions run high when it comes to one's child. Sure, he could have handled it better but I'm not going to dog someone for being human. He could have done far worst to that guy like physical harm him.
A lot of misguided men in the comments complaining about the mother. The father is acting like a complete Mitch here.
@tman229 he did enough. Acting like a mitch in front of his son like that. And yes, he could have done worse, but that is not something to reward saying he could have done worse but didn't. He still messed up. Then you threathen another man who ain't have nothing to do with his BS. Plus, if he aint paying child support, then what is doing? Plus acting like this will only make things worse as far as him seeing his child, especially since it is recorded. Emotional men like him should not be around they sons like that. you only teaching that boy how to be move like an emotional person. He made a fool of himself and his kids. The mother might have been petty with the child support thing. But that's not an excuse for you as man to act like some ghetto chick in the hood. Plenty of way he could have handled this. He is basically the biggest Karen of this situation.
I feel for the child, crazy everyone, the kid don't need to be hearing or seeing this.
The woman did nothing wrong.
The man dating a single mother is a fault for dating a single Mom. His fault.
The biological Dad was doing waaaaaay too much. I understand feeling like that is your responsibility, but setting that kind of poor example and threatening someone helping your child is crazy. I don't know the full backstory and kudos to the boyfriend for avoiding a physical confrontation. I think the father still wants the mom and that is the source of the anger.
1. She should have asked the father to take his son to get the haircut.
2. If the father ain't 💩, then go take the son herself or go with the boyfriend together.
3. Leave them Pookies & Ray-Rays alone, you can tell he one of them with all that hollering and screaming.
4. Either, leave these baby mommas alone, if you are dating them, vet thoroughly about their baby fathers, move accordingly.
I mean it's a hair cut. At the least the boyfriend is helping out. I know some men that won't help a kid that's not theirs.
@@MiniWolfKid Those men are not obliged to those children when they’re not biologically theirs.
There are some men who won't help a kid who is theirs.
Dude is waaaaaay too emotional. I bet he was raised by a single mother. This is why we need black fathers inside the home.
Or a step dad who cares about the mother and kid. Every kid isn't so lucky. and some community's crime stats prove it
Does anyone care about the child……SMH!
Yea that was the point of the video the father got rights the boyfriend don't so he took his son. 🤷🏿♂️
Not the single mother. You notice she kept her butt at home.
What's her name: Keisha 😂😂
@@itsgreat7150 Kept her butt at home? Really dude? Does a little kid need two adults at a barbershop to get a damn haircut? It's a boy. If a man is around, that's a man's duty. If it was a little girl then the mother would be expected to take her to the beauty shop not the father. Are you that clueless?
Alot of women like seeing that type of drama, to feel like they got a "bout it" man, way too toxic!
I've never had a situation like this, but I guess I got out before it escalated to that. Was with a single mother for 3 years but only met her son twice - I got her a little drunk once and everything came out. We split shortly after that. The entire relationship and its strange nature made so much sense now. The father of her son had access to her all this time and they were likely planning on getting back together.
Bro look really crazy not gone lie.
The new guy needs to reevaluate this, seeing though as how the clown is putting on a show to ruin the "relationship" between the new guy and baby mother. Pookie know good and well he could care less about the kid.
Good and well indeed.
This is sad and it gave me a headache…. I feel sorry for the little boy 😢
Exactly! if you don't plan on being with the woman forever or having a kid by her, you should Wrap it up!!!
More like don't sleep with her at all! Problem 100% solved.
He could have lost his life or freedom for no reason. Not worth it at all.
The boyfriend was wrong because the father said HE TOLD HIM NOT TO DO THIS before but he took the kid anyway. I bet the mom pushed the boyfriend up to doing it and probably called him a punk if he didn’t. Lesson learned my brother. MOVE ON FROM HER. She still getting clapped up by BD anyway. That’s part of why he so emotional about the situation too.
And that’s another reason why I can’t take a baby mamas seriously because if the daddy’s alive eventually we’re going bump heads and knowing myself it’s only gonna go 1 way why would any self respecting man put himself in a situation like that when he could go over sea and get a physically fit childless woman ready to get on his program and I can’t have another man’s influence in my household are relationship and women don’t understand why I hit it😊 and get ghost
I think it’s a skit the dude in the black got caught smirking
Was that the proper way to handle it over a haircut?!? He called the Mother a Thot in front of his son! Why is there no push back on that?!? Even if the Mother is wrong for how she handled that! There’s more than 1 perspective
The dude is a man child calling the woman names because he was embarrassed.
I feel bad for the little boy being in that drama, also for mr boyfriend but he did that to himself glad he let that man take his son without conflict cause that would be dumb on his end. Father got rights boyfriend dont. Fellas leave single moms alone! Especially if father is in the picture or walking distance. 🚶🏾♂️🏃🏾♂️💨
He mad cause he couldnt pay child support 😂😆😂😆
I totally agree on your perspective 💯
I wouldn't date because of situations just like this.
The father should take the mother to court. I know for fact what the mother just did is contempt of court.
Silly ego...
Uncle Phil, I get what you're saying but that man could have handled that a lot better than he did. He didn't have to go up in there, yelling, screaming and cursing. He could have pulled that brother aside and say hey man let me to rap to you for a little bit and that's all it could have been. Then he could have called the mother outside of the camera and set up a family meeting and get things straight like that. Not all on social media with all of that berating ; acting crazy and looking like a fool. I'm not saying that that the mother was right but the father was clearly out of line here. He was acting like an overly emotional effeminate simp.
@perrykeshahwalker5321 yeah.
1. He threatened another man
2. He cursing and raising hell in front of his own son
3. He calling his mom a hoe in front of him
4. It's all being recorded, so even if he had good intentions (im not saying he did or not), this could make things worse if he wants to see his son again.
Overall, the dude is too emotional, and he embarrassed not only another man. But he embarrassed his son. Imagine that boy going to places knowing his son will be known to for being a part of this foolishness.
You can have good intentions, but if you are acting like a Karen and you want results, it will not happen.
Damn it, kesha.
That's Why I Don't Deal With KEISHAS. SYSBM4LIFE Non-KEISHAS ONLY!!!
This was about the fragile ego, not his son. What grown man acts this way? The kid has more tact than his father. Whole man is acting a complete 🤡 in public and disrespecting his son, another black mans business, etc....and somehow this allllll falls back on the woman.....crazy as hell. Like I'm in the twilight zone.
Loudest one is the weakest one