To the couple wanting a baby: There's nothing wrong with using a surrogate to carry your baby because the DNA is 100% those who donated the genetic material and the surrogate acts as a rental womb. It is important that you find someone you trust. Unless it's a family member willing to be your surrogate, it's best to involve a lawyer who can draw up the proper paperwork to protect you from losing your baby to the surrogate (sounds crazy, but there are cases where the surrogate refused to hand over the baby---even though it's not her child biologically---and the court sided with the surrogate). Good luck!
To the couple that want a surrogate woman. I recommend you both wait and take your time to search for a competent surrogate woman who does not drink and do drugs. You only have two eggs left so don't ruin it for yourself. It doesn't have to be a relative or Hmong lady that can carry your baby. Search for someone who abides the rules and will do everything she can to raise this baby for you both. Make sure she understands not to get attach to the baby too. Go over everything with the person before doing anything. Take your time to find a better surrogate female. There are people out there who are willing to help. Keep spreading the words. The right person will come forward. Wish you both the best of luck. 💕
Baby question: I say NOOOO. If your husband don't even approve of her then don't do it because she's going to get pregnant and can 1. Make your husband turn against you and say I can get pregnant, your wife can't so just choose me. I can give you all the kids you want. 2. He can end up cheating on you with her and say it's all your fault bc you brought her into his life. 3. She's a divorcee. She has nothing to lose but you have a lot to lose. 4. Etc etc etc.... I say do it with someone you guys do not have ties to. There are a lot of programs to help set you up with healthy candidates that you can choose, asain or not. And they will help set up rules and papers to sign such as you get the baby and there should be no more contacts with each other.
Question #2: I would not move forward with that decision. I see cases like that prior and they have issues later in life. I never trust anyone meaning later who knows that lady won’t caused problems for you and your husband. She could take your husband away from you due to carrying your baby. I won’t go this route.
Secret 1 with the jealous wife: your wife has insecurity problems. This can be very toxic and dangerous in relationships especially marriage. Trust is important in a marriage, you need to have a deep talk with her and assure your love for her that she needs to work on her insecurities in order to make this marriage work. Help her do this to make her love herself, maybe makeup, new clothes, a weight loss journey, but she needs to heal and have a self love journey. If she doesn’t love herself and have confidence in herself she will never stop being insecure. It might be a trauma within her that she needs to deal with. It will take a while but if she reflects and changes it will get better. If you want to make it work, be patient and always be reassuring to her to improve her confidence. If you don’t want to deal with it and want to leave her then it’s up to you.
For couple that wants babies: There is nothing wrong with not having children. Enjoy each other's company and live your life. Nowaday having children or not makes no differences. Most of us will end up in the nursing home regardless. If you can't have, it is meant to be. Be thankful for what you have.
Story #1 ur wife has possessive issues. She needs counseling. Story #2 use a meska surrogate. Do not let ur friend carry because u are setting them up for an affair. Don't u listen to all these hmong stories? Use meska agency will be safer for u.
Q2 txhob cia rau tus poj nrauj yug nawb viv ncaus cia rau nej ib tug kwvtij tus ooj niam yug zoo dua vim koj cov tsis muaj txiv ntawv ib pliag lawv yuav dib yus tus txiv ces neej puas vim kuv pom dua lawm cov ze kuv nawb.
Couple want baby❤ yes it's ok. Just talk to her make sure she don't drink n sleep w, alot guys, plus protect herself. U need 2 make paper agreement. I also want to do 2.❤
To the infertility couple...choose someone you both agree to. You dont have to find your own relative you can ask the doctor to refer to who they partner with and choose someone asian. I think its the best if they are not related because that xan cause a lot of issues.
Non, phooj ywg zoo nplaum cas los tsis muaj hnub ntseeg siab tau li nawb Koj nploog koj tus txiv cov los thiab Nrhiav lawm tus zoo dua tsam koj xav txog lig......mam nrhiav thiab thov vaj tswb thiab ua neeb yiag thov kev pab ntawm Buddha thiab...kev thov ua koj tas yog yuav muaj tus haum ne los txog neb ib hnub twg.....thov tshuas yam zoo rawm neb li siab ntxaws❤
Q2: You both have to agree on a person. Make sure they don’t drink, smoke or do drug. Make sure it’s someone you really know and trust it’s your baby that another person is carrying.
Story 1- OMG!!! RUN!!! WHY PUT UP WITH CRAZINESS!!! LEAVE!!! Or else just do the same thing back to her!!! Always accuse her of cheating and looking at guys too!! Get her a taste of her own medicine and craziness.
Q2: to be honest. You guys don’t need kids. Take your money to travel and love each other. If you guys have kids who grow up to be a bad kids than it’s not good
Q1: nws khib yus ces yog ib qho zoo tab sis muab khib dhau cais lawm ces tsis zoo thiab. Coj nws mus ntsib psychologist or therapist. Don’t give up on her if that’s the only bad thing about her. You need to stand up for yourself. Q2: If your husband don’t agree then don’t do it. You can use surrogate from someone else with healthier lifestyle. You both have to agree
About the lady who gets jealous of everything . She’s insecure and doesn’t have trust etc . I can’t stand people like that .. if it was me , I would leave 🤷🏻♀️
Jealous wife, brother turn around and do the same on her. Accuse her for liking every man and boy in her eyes sight. Hit her that you dreamed of her cheating. Screaming at her that in silent thinking she thinks about other man.
The secret with the daughter with kids that went to live with her mom who has a boyfriend: why did you hide this from your mom? You know he’s not a good guy and yet you allowed him to stay with your mom and hurt her even more. I’m glad she eventually left him but what if he also did what he did to you with your nieces or other sisters and they are also holding in that secret? If it happened to you first you should speak out but I know it’s harder said and done for a victim. At least he’s out your family’s life now but I would still tell your mom what happened.
Last question about baby: Do not ask your friend to do it. Do not ask relatives to do it. I suggest having that doctor refer you out to a surrogacy program! They will find someone for you and contract everything in place! Do everything right and accordingly. You do not want your friend to do it and later down to road, your husband flip his hands on you. That is a possibility. Girl, no!!!!!
Q2 do you really want a child? Don’t even hesitate. Just do it. You are lucky to have a friend who is willing to help you. This is your only chance. Whether your husband approves or not, take the chance so you can have a child.
#2 koj yuav tau noj kom koj lub cev zoo thiaj muaj tau me nyuam muaj ib tug tshuaj thaib hu tias หมอเส็ง haus kom roj tshav zoo neeg twb siv muaj me nyuam ntau lawm thiab yog koj tseem muaj % muaj me nyuam ces siv cov tshuaj ntawv rau kom koj roj tshav zoo thiaj muaj me nyuam tau
Tus kwv tij aw qhov koj tus poj niam khib 2koj ntawv mas tej zaum yog koj li khoom nchav heev pob poj niam tua tsis tau koj li yus khoom loj ces poj niam thiaj khib xwb txhob txhawj os
Q#2 no, if you do, you might have a child but loose your husband to that poj nrauj, not because she's bad but your husband will want her because she can have more kids for him.
Q2: yog neb sib hlub ob leeg txau siab ces tsi muaj menyuam los kav liam mas. Niam tsev koj muab koj cov zua qe rau poj nrauj ib pliag nws cia lis yuav xav los yuav koj tus txiv ces koj yuav nyuaj siab xwb mas
Q2. The only condition is that she stop drinking and stop using drugs. If she agrees to this two condition, then I agree that she should carry your baby.
? 1 that is the only way you both will achieve your wish, but there is one thing that you must be careful with your husband and the woman . This is because your husband may change him mind with…….. however, if both of you truthfully with each other.
Q1. Yuav kom kho tau koj tus pojniam txojkev khib ces koj txhob txwm khib nws lim hiam li nws khib koj li ko ib ntus xwb ces nws dhuav koj thiab tsis khib koj lawm mas
Hais rau tug sister muaj tsis taus me nyuam: tsuav poj nrrauj kam ris neb tus me nyuam xwb ces kav tsij nrawm nroos xwb tsam poj nrauj pauv siab lawm os. Neb yuav tau muaj ib tsab conteact kom zoo xwb ces tau lawm.
Q1: me tub kuv pab koj nyuaj siab kawg vim cov niag poj niam coj li ko tsi zoo li nawb! Peb cov niag niam ntxawm coj phem li koj niag pom niam no...After sib nrauj tag es mus yuav lawv tus txiv muab lawv tus niam lij nrauj kiag li lawm os...Siab phem li nws seb yus puas uv tau mus txog hnub tuag lawm xwb os.
Story1: your wife is very insecure. Ask yourself: what have you done in the past that made her insecure? My husband is not handsome either, but sometimes I do get jealous. It’s a feeling you can’t control. Have you try to make her feel loved and beautiful? If not, then you need to remind her that you love her.
yog kuv los yeej tsis kam rau tus poj nrauj ntawv carry thiab vim nws haus2 cawv haus beer tsam ib pliag tau me nyuam xiam tsis puv pua nawj thiab yog ua cas neb thiaj pheej xav muaj me nyuam luaj na me nyuam niam no siab phem kawg twb tsis hlub tsis fwm niam txiv li lawm os lawv
Question 1: Very jealous people like your wife is dangerous. You either be with her or divorce her and go MIA. Question 2: Your husband should have an open mind especially surrogacy is the last option.
Q2: don’t do it bc your husband will end up hooking up with the divorced lady. If you’re that desperate then divorce your husband first and find someone else that’ll be happy without kids either you. Bc you’re going to end up divorced anyways
She crazy. She’s one of those obsessed people. If I were u I’ve probably leave, that’s just my opinion. Not trying to ruin your marriage. Be careful or else u might get it that’s just the way it goes or not lol.
Question #2: your husband is right! You’re about to get yourself some headache and potentially ruin your own marriage too. Can’t trust people too easily now a day especially if they are not your family.
Nope, better not to ask someone you’re related to or acquainted with to become your surrogate. Mus ntiav lwm leej lwm tus xwb thiaj yuav tsis muaj abtsi los cuam tshuam.
Q1: Mes kwv awb yog phem npaum koj es nrog uas neej tsis taus lawm ces nrauj kiag cia nyias mus nyias xwb los mas. Maybe you like the drama she creates for you.
Q2: To me, the issue wouldn't be bc she's a poj nrauj. Her personality, trust, and lifestyle would be my concerns. If she's a party poj nrauj, my answer would definitely be no. A healthy baby is a priority.
Question 2: you and your husband’s options are limited. I would say go with your friend as the surrogate mom but make sure all the terms are spelled out. Make sure you have an attorney to help you with all the legal stuff. Good luck.
Question 2: you guys are beggars but choosers. As long as someone is willing to carry your baby you can’t be so Picky. Not too many women are willing to be surrogate mom. Women that agree to carry baby will also agree to not do things that will harm the baby like drinking. Just choose whoever is willing to Carry the baby!!!
Q2 Yog koj tus ua niam tsev twb tso zuas qe kawg lawm es muaj tsis tau me nyuam tsis hais ntau, yog tus pojnrauj twb kam es koj tus txiv tsis kam ces kawg tsum xwb. Yuav kam ces kawg ib tug pojnrauj thiaj yuav kam lawm xwb os nawb. Txhob muab xav tias nws yog pojnrauj es nws yuav tsis zoo lub zuas qe yog koj thiab koj tus txiv li ua ke tus pojnrauj tsuas yog ua tu pab yug thiab yug kom txog thaum yug xwb. Ua ib tug surrogate mother tsis yooj yig cuag li ib tug niam thiab os nawb.
I dont agree. What if you agree to it and your husband and the lady ens up having an affair. Don't think it won't happen. Anything can happen. Have you not heard enough of stories about mens/spouses having an affair with divorcee. You allow it then it will happen behind doors. This is for the couple using the surrogate.
Q1: Tell your wife to call me. 😊 Q2: Surrogacy all the way!!! I'm sorry you can't carry a baby to term, but please do surrogacy! Poj nrauj or not, childbirth is NO EASY FEAT!!! Your hubby should consider her kindness that she's willing to carry your baby for you! Not a lot of hmong ladies out there would do that!!! I'm sure she knows not to drink when she's pregnant.
Question 1: if what you’re telling is all true, your wife is crazy and too insecure. She needs to go so you can save your sanity. You can also have her get therapy if you want to save your marriage.
Question #1: you paint yourself to be perfect, do no wrong, however I’m having hard time believing you Lol. I’m not a jealous person, but as a woman I like to listen to your wife’s version before passing judgment. Perhaps, she’s insecure of herself. However, you have to cause something to create this behavior and for her to lost trust in you. Most men are snakes in nature. If you are innocent like you said then prove it to her. Building trust begins with good communications. Good luck!
Sister aw bad ideas. Koj muab rau poj nrauj carry koj tus baby ces lwm hnub poj nrauj thiab koj tus txiv nkawv sib tham lawm os. Ces nws los ua koj niam yau los yog koj tus txiv yuav nws lawm.ces muab koj pov tseg lawm os. Koj tsis hnov may Vang cov neej neeg los. Bad ideas
Q1 Koj muab nws nrauj xwb mas, tsis tas yuav lawm os koj twb muaj mental issue lawm, tsis ntev koj pw ces plawv yuav nres tau ov. Ib koj muab the ultimatum question seb nws puas txais tau li saum no nws tsis kam ces kawg nrauj xwb os nawb.
Q1 your wife is very insecure. You need to stand up for yourself. It’s not a healthy marriage. I have a cousin in his 50s, who had a wife like yours. He took her to the relatives and said he can’t marry her anymore. Her jealousy and torment will make him have a stroke. Once she knew he was serious, she changed and began to back off her accusations and jealousy. They are still married 40+ years.
Teb rau tus kwv tij uas poj niam khib khib... koj tus poj niam muaj mental issue lawm os.. kuv tus niam tij ces zoo nkaus li koj tus ko kiag thiab. Kuv niam tij mas tej niam ntxawm lam tsuas lus los yog zaum noj mov ntsia siab ncaj los yog family pictures es cov niam tij niam ntxawm nyob ze kuv tij laug xwb ces tus niam tij no yeej liag kiag tias lawv thab kuv tij laug li lawm..Txawm yog kuv niam kiag cov duab uas thaij ntog kuv niam xwb nws tseem khib thiab muab cov duab txiav tagbtib si li lawm..txawm tias niam yog niam los nws tseem khib tib si.. kuv tij laug ces yeej mloog tsis tau ib tug poj niam nav loob hu nkauj hauv tsheb los saib tau ib tug ntxhais hu nkauj li. Niam tij mas zoo li cia li npab vwm tag li lawm niam hnub niam niam tij cia li coj tij laug khia mus ua twj cuab lawm tsis xyaw hmoob li lawm.... Tus poj niam no kuv ces mag nraug lawm tab si tij laug muaj 8 tug me nyuam me me ces cia li yoog kom tag tgiab tij laug los kuj hlub nws thiab ces tij laug cia li yoog lawm xwb.. tu siab kawg li nawb lub neej poj niam mental illness jealous li cov no
Haha thaub aw Kuv niag tseem phem tshaj koj niag lawm thiab os Kuv niag mas nws Pom tsis tau Leej twg zoo nraug li Pom tus nws nyiam Ces nws Yeej ntsia ntsoov kom tus txiv neej ntawd paub yog tus txiv neej ntawd tsis los thab nws Ces nws txawm mus thab lawv lawm ntag nws twb tsis paub lawv los txhob txwm nrhiav lus tham luag ua maum dev thab txiv dev hos nws Pom tej txheeb ze tej txiv loj siab mas tseem muaj plhus nug kiag tus poj niam ntawd tias koj tus txiv loj siab es nws qhov khoom loj li cas. Tiam sis txog ntawm nws khib kuv mas Kuv ntsia tsis tau ib tug poj niam Tom kev tshuam li os yog muaj ib tug poj niam los dua kev los yog tav kev es Kuv tseem ntsia thiab Ces nws Yeej tawg ncuav rau kuv lawm xwb os kuv yeej hais tsis tau tias tus poj niam zoo nkauj li os twb tsis hais compliment ib tus poj niam os twb hais tsis tau tias lub tsheb zoo nkauj li os…Good luck brother
To the couple wanting a baby: There's nothing wrong with using a surrogate to carry your baby because the DNA is 100% those who donated the genetic material and the surrogate acts as a rental womb. It is important that you find someone you trust. Unless it's a family member willing to be your surrogate, it's best to involve a lawyer who can draw up the proper paperwork to protect you from losing your baby to the surrogate (sounds crazy, but there are cases where the surrogate refused to hand over the baby---even though it's not her child biologically---and the court sided with the surrogate). Good luck!
To the couple that want a surrogate woman. I recommend you both wait and take your time to search for a competent surrogate woman who does not drink and do drugs. You only have two eggs left so don't ruin it for yourself. It doesn't have to be a relative or Hmong lady that can carry your baby. Search for someone who abides the rules and will do everything she can to raise this baby for you both. Make sure she understands not to get attach to the baby too. Go over everything with the person before doing anything. Take your time to find a better surrogate female. There are people out there who are willing to help. Keep spreading the words. The right person will come forward. Wish you both the best of luck. 💕
Yes, children's are wonderful..😊
Baby question: I say NOOOO. If your husband don't even approve of her then don't do it because she's going to get pregnant and can
1. Make your husband turn against you and say I can get pregnant, your wife can't so just choose me. I can give you all the kids you want.
2. He can end up cheating on you with her and say it's all your fault bc you brought her into his life.
3. She's a divorcee. She has nothing to lose but you have a lot to lose.
4. Etc etc etc....
I say do it with someone you guys do not have ties to. There are a lot of programs to help set you up with healthy candidates that you can choose, asain or not. And they will help set up rules and papers to sign such as you get the baby and there should be no more contacts with each other.
Question #2: I would not move forward with that decision. I see cases like that prior and they have issues later in life. I never trust anyone meaning later who knows that lady won’t caused problems for you and your husband. She could take your husband away from you due to carrying your baby. I won’t go this route.
#1 brothers you are not alone
Secret 1 with the jealous wife: your wife has insecurity problems. This can be very toxic and dangerous in relationships especially marriage. Trust is important in a marriage, you need to have a deep talk with her and assure your love for her that she needs to work on her insecurities in order to make this marriage work. Help her do this to make her love herself, maybe makeup, new clothes, a weight loss journey, but she needs to heal and have a self love journey. If she doesn’t love herself and have confidence in herself she will never stop being insecure. It might be a trauma within her that she needs to deal with. It will take a while but if she reflects and changes it will get better. If you want to make it work, be patient and always be reassuring to her to improve her confidence. If you don’t want to deal with it and want to leave her then it’s up to you.
For couple that wants babies: There is nothing wrong with not having children. Enjoy each other's company and live your life. Nowaday having children or not makes no differences. Most of us will end up in the nursing home regardless. If you can't have, it is meant to be. Be thankful for what you have.
#2. You should be graceful that your friend is willing to help out but her drinking also effect your child. Think carefully.
Story #1 ur wife has possessive issues. She needs counseling.
Story #2 use a meska surrogate. Do not let ur friend carry because u are setting them up for an affair. Don't u listen to all these hmong stories? Use meska agency will be safer for u.
Q2: yog koj yeej ntseeg tus ntxhais pojnrauj ces kawg sim xwb yog twb txog qhab tsis muaj hauv kev lawm..cov menyuam tsis yog yus mas lawv yeej tsis tshuav attach nrog yus tabsis yog koj hlub tus menyuam tiag tus menyuam yeej hlub koj thiab..
#2 seb neb puas muaj cov muam ces cia thov seb lawv puas kam xwb os yg tus poj niam lwm xeem ces tsum nawb mog txhob ntseeg txiv neej heev2
Question 1: don’t stay with that crazy lady. This is waay too much! Never heard of such jealous woman.
lol first story, same as my wife, just have to educate them
Q2 txhob cia rau tus poj nrauj yug nawb viv ncaus cia rau nej ib tug kwvtij tus ooj niam yug zoo dua vim koj cov tsis muaj txiv ntawv ib pliag lawv yuav dib yus tus txiv ces neej puas vim kuv pom dua lawm cov ze kuv nawb.
Q#1 tsis zoo nraug tej zaum yaj phom zoo ne poj niam thiaj khib ciaj khib tuag pob
Possibility that jealousy is a residual factor from generational trauma.
Q2. If he's not willing to, don't press on it. Vice versa.
Couple want baby❤ yes it's ok. Just talk to her make sure she don't drink n sleep w, alot guys, plus protect herself.
U need 2 make paper agreement.
I also want to do 2.❤
S #1 not your fault don’t feel bad
#.. Pregnancy never ever a good Idea at all!.
To the infertility couple...choose someone you both agree to. You dont have to find your own relative you can ask the doctor to refer to who they partner with and choose someone asian. I think its the best if they are not related because that xan cause a lot of issues.
Non, phooj ywg zoo nplaum cas los tsis muaj hnub ntseeg siab tau li nawb
Koj nploog koj tus txiv cov los thiab
Nrhiav lawm tus zoo dua tsam koj xav txog lig......mam nrhiav thiab thov vaj tswb thiab ua neeb yiag thov kev pab ntawm Buddha thiab...kev thov ua koj tas yog yuav muaj tus haum ne los txog neb ib hnub twg.....thov tshuas yam zoo rawm neb li siab ntxaws❤
Q2: You both have to agree on a person. Make sure they don’t drink, smoke or do drug. Make sure it’s someone you really know and trust it’s your baby that another person is carrying.
Story 1- OMG!!! RUN!!! WHY PUT UP WITH CRAZINESS!!! LEAVE!!!
Or else just do the same thing back to her!!! Always accuse her of cheating and looking at guys too!! Get her a taste of her own medicine and craziness.
Q2: go get a surrogate mother
?#1 ha ha cas funny ua luaj. Twg twg kom koj pheej ntsia lawv pob tws mis loj loj les es thaub
Q2: don’t do it. Its better to go with someone else you don’t know. After the deal is finished, your relationship with the surrogate is over.
Q2: to be honest. You guys don’t need kids. Take your money to travel and love each other. If you guys have kids who grow up to be a bad kids than it’s not good
Q1: nws khib yus ces yog ib qho zoo tab sis muab khib dhau cais lawm ces tsis zoo thiab. Coj nws mus ntsib psychologist or therapist. Don’t give up on her if that’s the only bad thing about her. You need to stand up for yourself.
Q2: If your husband don’t agree then don’t do it. You can use surrogate from someone else with healthier lifestyle. You both have to agree
About the lady who gets jealous of everything . She’s insecure and doesn’t have trust etc . I can’t stand people like that .. if it was me , I would leave 🤷🏻♀️
Nrhiav kiag ib tug stranger xwb zoo dua.
Jealous wife, brother turn around and do the same on her. Accuse her for liking every man and boy in her eyes sight. Hit her that you dreamed of her cheating. Screaming at her that in silent thinking she thinks about other man.
Koj tus txiv hais yog lawm raws li kuv Xav xwb ov
Nws khib vim txiv neej coob dua pojniam ne. Qhuav siab lau koj. Ntxim muab tsij khib nyiab lawm xwb
Poj niam khib txiv its a. Normal
The secret with the daughter with kids that went to live with her mom who has a boyfriend: why did you hide this from your mom? You know he’s not a good guy and yet you allowed him to stay with your mom and hurt her even more. I’m glad she eventually left him but what if he also did what he did to you with your nieces or other sisters and they are also holding in that secret? If it happened to you first you should speak out but I know it’s harder said and done for a victim. At least he’s out your family’s life now but I would still tell your mom what happened.
Last question about baby: Do not ask your friend to do it. Do not ask relatives to do it. I suggest having that doctor refer you out to a surrogacy program! They will find someone for you and contract everything in place! Do everything right and accordingly. You do not want your friend to do it and later down to road, your husband flip his hands on you. That is a possibility. Girl, no!!!!!
Koj muab rau poj nrauj lwm hnub ces koj tus txiv mus ua poj nrauj tus lawm xwb os
You should’ve told your mom when it happened. It might’ve saved her from marrying the cheater. It doesn’t do any good to tell her anymore.
Q2 do you really want a child? Don’t even hesitate. Just do it. You are lucky to have a friend who is willing to help you. This is your only chance. Whether your husband approves or not, take the chance so you can have a child.
#2 koj yuav tau noj kom koj lub cev zoo thiaj muaj tau me nyuam muaj ib tug tshuaj thaib hu tias หมอเส็ง haus kom roj tshav zoo neeg twb siv muaj me nyuam ntau lawm thiab yog koj tseem muaj % muaj me nyuam ces siv cov tshuaj ntawv rau kom koj roj tshav zoo thiaj muaj me nyuam tau
Tus kwv tij aw qhov koj tus poj niam khib 2koj ntawv mas tej zaum yog koj li khoom nchav heev pob poj niam tua tsis tau koj li yus khoom loj ces poj niam thiaj khib xwb txhob txhawj os
Q#2 no, if you do, you might have a child but loose your husband to that poj nrauj, not because she's bad but your husband will want her because she can have more kids for him.
Q2: yog neb sib hlub ob leeg txau siab ces tsi muaj menyuam los kav liam mas. Niam tsev koj muab koj cov zua qe rau poj nrauj ib pliag nws cia lis yuav xav los yuav koj tus txiv ces koj yuav nyuaj siab xwb mas
Q2. The only condition is that she stop drinking and stop using drugs. If she agrees to this two condition, then I agree that she should carry your baby.
? 1 that is the only way you both will achieve your wish, but there is one thing that you must be careful with your husband and the woman . This is because your husband may change him mind with…….. however, if both of you truthfully with each other.
Q1. Yuav kom kho tau koj tus pojniam txojkev khib ces koj txhob txwm khib nws lim hiam li nws khib koj li ko ib ntus xwb ces nws dhuav koj thiab tsis khib koj lawm mas
Q1. She is crazy and she is going to make you crazy. I think you should dump her. You can not keep this up.
Leave her
Hais rau tug sister muaj tsis taus me nyuam: tsuav poj nrrauj kam ris neb tus me nyuam xwb ces kav tsij nrawm nroos xwb tsam poj nrauj pauv siab lawm os. Neb yuav tau muaj ib tsab conteact kom zoo xwb ces tau lawm.
Yog Koj yuav tso neeg nqa Koj tus me nyuam ko qhov zoo tshaj ma muab rau cov uas yog Koj tus txiv lub xeem nqa ma zoo tshaj nawb
Yg kaw mas yg kj xav li ko los zoo mas kj kam no muab rau kv pab kj xwb yom
Q1: me tub kuv pab koj nyuaj siab kawg vim cov niag poj niam coj li ko tsi zoo li nawb! Peb cov niag niam ntxawm coj phem li koj niag pom niam no...After sib nrauj tag es mus yuav lawv tus txiv muab lawv tus niam lij nrauj kiag li lawm os...Siab phem li nws seb yus puas uv tau mus txog hnub tuag lawm xwb os.
Question #1 have you ever done anything to earn the mistrust?
Story1: your wife is very insecure. Ask yourself: what have you done in the past that made her insecure? My husband is not handsome either, but sometimes I do get jealous. It’s a feeling you can’t control. Have you try to make her feel loved and beautiful? If not, then you need to remind her that you love her.
Q#1 ces kuv tus txiv ua kiag li koj rau kuv ntag lo tab sis tiag2 mas nws yog tus mus ua li ntawd naw
yog kuv los yeej tsis kam rau tus poj nrauj ntawv carry thiab vim nws haus2 cawv haus beer tsam ib pliag tau me nyuam xiam tsis puv pua nawj thiab yog ua cas neb thiaj pheej xav muaj me nyuam luaj na me nyuam niam no siab phem kawg twb tsis hlub tsis fwm niam txiv li lawm os lawv
Tsis xav kom poj nrauj carrier baby ces mus nrog hospital tham kom Dr nrhiav hauv hospital seb puas muaj cov nurse los sis poj nais maum carrie ma? Kuv ua hauj lwm nyob hospital es twb muaj ib tug pog social worker twb carrie baby rau tib neeg laiv nkawv khub niam txiv es kawm siab tau hauj lwm zoo tiam sis tus niam tseem ua txoj hauj lawm carrie baby rau tib neeg thiab ov aib pog twb carrie 4 plab lawm ov now tseem carrier ib plab twb yuav yug soon.
Question 1: Very jealous people like your wife is dangerous. You either be with her or divorce her and go MIA.
Question 2: Your husband should have an open mind especially surrogacy is the last option.
Mus nrhiav cov neeg neb tsis paub xwb os
Tsum kiag tsam koj neej puas o nyob twj ywm tsis muaj me nyuam Los ok
Q2: don’t do it bc your husband will end up hooking up with the divorced lady. If you’re that desperate then divorce your husband first and find someone else that’ll be happy without kids either you. Bc you’re going to end up divorced anyways
She crazy. She’s one of those obsessed people. If I were u I’ve probably leave, that’s just my opinion. Not trying to ruin your marriage. Be careful or else u might get it that’s just the way it goes or not lol.
Kuv xav tias tos nws khib thiab khoo li ko los.
Yav nram ntej tus txiv twb ua tub sab ua dav nyiag yaim quav me ntsis lawm os.
How come you have two channels? Is there a difference? Im just wondering. 🙂 Ive always listened to the other channel.
Question #2: your husband is right! You’re about to get yourself some headache and potentially ruin your own marriage too. Can’t trust people too easily now a day especially if they are not your family.
Q1: kuv mas yeej dhua cov txiv neej khib pojniam kawg thiab os.tabsis kuv hos tsis mag khoom sab npaum koj os..kuv xav tias koj tus pojniam yeej muab khib over dhau lawm os..nws muaj mental jealousy dhau lawm os..ntxim li mob dhau os..koj tsis xav muaj mob ces tso pog tseg zoo dua hlub koj tus kheej zoo dua os..
Q1: I have a cousin. She was in a relationship just like yours, her ex was a narcissist. Your wife needs helps
?: Ur lucky to have a friend to carry a baby for u.
Nope, better not to ask someone you’re related to or acquainted with to become your surrogate. Mus ntiav lwm leej lwm tus xwb thiaj yuav tsis muaj abtsi los cuam tshuam.
question 2 es neb them pes tsawg rau qhov lawv pab yug menyuam rau neb o
Q1: Mes kwv awb yog phem npaum koj es nrog uas neej tsis taus lawm ces nrauj kiag cia nyias mus nyias xwb los mas. Maybe you like the drama she creates for you.
Very insecure and scary wife. Seek counseling, and if she refuses, leave before it gets worse.
Q2: To me, the issue wouldn't be bc she's a poj nrauj. Her personality, trust, and lifestyle would be my concerns. If she's a party poj nrauj, my answer would definitely be no. A healthy baby is a priority.
Question 2: you and your husband’s options are limited. I would say go with your friend as the surrogate mom but make sure all the terms are spelled out. Make sure you have an attorney to help you with all the legal stuff. Good luck.
Q1: She’s psycho. “Make up your mind of what you’re going to do”. If you decided to leave then move far, far away.
Question 2: you guys are beggars but choosers. As long as someone is willing to carry your baby you can’t be so Picky. Not too many women are willing to be surrogate mom. Women that agree to carry baby will also agree to not do things that will harm the baby like drinking. Just choose whoever is willing to Carry the baby!!!
Q2 Yog koj tus ua niam tsev twb tso zuas qe kawg lawm es muaj tsis tau me nyuam tsis hais ntau, yog tus pojnrauj twb kam es koj tus txiv tsis kam ces kawg tsum xwb. Yuav kam ces kawg ib tug pojnrauj thiaj yuav kam lawm xwb os nawb. Txhob muab xav tias nws yog pojnrauj es nws yuav tsis zoo lub zuas qe yog koj thiab koj tus txiv li ua ke tus pojnrauj tsuas yog ua tu pab yug thiab yug kom txog thaum yug xwb. Ua ib tug surrogate mother tsis yooj yig cuag li ib tug niam thiab os nawb.
I dont agree. What if you agree to it and your husband and the lady ens up having an affair. Don't think it won't happen. Anything can happen. Have you not heard enough of stories about mens/spouses having an affair with divorcee. You allow it then it will happen behind doors. This is for the couple using the surrogate.
Tsim nyog koj rov nug koj tus kheej hais tias ua cas koj ho tso cai rau koj poj niam coj li ko.
Q1: Tell your wife to call me. 😊
Q2: Surrogacy all the way!!! I'm sorry you can't carry a baby to term, but please do surrogacy! Poj nrauj or not, childbirth is NO EASY FEAT!!! Your hubby should consider her kindness that she's willing to carry your baby for you! Not a lot of hmong ladies out there would do that!!! I'm sure she knows not to drink when she's pregnant.
Question 1: if what you’re telling is all true, your wife is crazy and too insecure. She needs to go so you can save your sanity. You can also have her get therapy if you want to save your marriage.
To the brother with the jealous wife grow some balls bro
Question #1: you paint yourself to be perfect, do no wrong, however I’m having hard time believing you Lol. I’m not a jealous person, but as a woman I like to listen to your wife’s version before passing judgment. Perhaps, she’s insecure of herself. However, you have to cause something to create this behavior and for her to lost trust in you. Most men are snakes in nature. If you are innocent like you said then prove it to her. Building trust begins with good communications. Good luck!
Q1. Maybe you are looking, like looking lol. Try not to look or talk so much about other women in front of her. Otherwise, do what you gotta do.
Hmong yog tsi hlub hmong lawm
Sister aw bad ideas. Koj muab rau poj nrauj carry koj tus baby ces lwm hnub poj nrauj thiab koj tus txiv nkawv sib tham lawm os. Ces nws los ua koj niam yau los yog koj tus txiv yuav nws lawm.ces muab koj pov tseg lawm os. Koj tsis hnov may Vang cov neej neeg los. Bad ideas
Q1 Koj muab nws nrauj xwb mas, tsis tas yuav lawm os koj twb muaj mental issue lawm, tsis ntev koj pw ces plawv yuav nres tau ov. Ib koj muab the ultimatum question seb nws puas txais tau li saum no nws tsis kam ces kawg nrauj xwb os nawb.
Ist secret take your wife to a doctor she needs help she's got mental issues
Q1 your wife is very insecure. You need to stand up for yourself. It’s not a healthy marriage. I have a cousin in his 50s, who had a wife like yours. He took her to the relatives and said he can’t marry her anymore. Her jealousy and torment will make him have a stroke. Once she knew he was serious, she changed and began to back off her accusations and jealousy. They are still married 40+ years.
Teb rau tus kwv tij uas poj niam khib khib... koj tus poj niam muaj mental issue lawm os.. kuv tus niam tij ces zoo nkaus li koj tus ko kiag thiab. Kuv niam tij mas tej niam ntxawm lam tsuas lus los yog zaum noj mov ntsia siab ncaj los yog family pictures es cov niam tij niam ntxawm nyob ze kuv tij laug xwb ces tus niam tij no yeej liag kiag tias lawv thab kuv tij laug li lawm..Txawm yog kuv niam kiag cov duab uas thaij ntog kuv niam xwb nws tseem khib thiab muab cov duab txiav tagbtib si li lawm..txawm tias niam yog niam los nws tseem khib tib si.. kuv tij laug ces yeej mloog tsis tau ib tug poj niam nav loob hu nkauj hauv tsheb los saib tau ib tug ntxhais hu nkauj li. Niam tij mas zoo li cia li npab vwm tag li lawm niam hnub niam niam tij cia li coj tij laug khia mus ua twj cuab lawm tsis xyaw hmoob li lawm.... Tus poj niam no kuv ces mag nraug lawm tab si tij laug muaj 8 tug me nyuam me me ces cia li yoog kom tag tgiab tij laug los kuj hlub nws thiab ces tij laug cia li yoog lawm xwb.. tu siab kawg li nawb lub neej poj niam mental illness jealous li cov no
Q 1. I think need to see counsellor for your problems
Haha thaub aw Kuv niag tseem phem tshaj koj niag lawm thiab os Kuv niag mas nws Pom tsis tau Leej twg zoo nraug li Pom tus nws nyiam Ces nws Yeej ntsia ntsoov kom tus txiv neej ntawd paub yog tus txiv neej ntawd tsis los thab nws Ces nws txawm mus thab lawv lawm ntag nws twb tsis paub lawv los txhob txwm nrhiav lus tham luag ua maum dev thab txiv dev hos nws Pom tej txheeb ze tej txiv loj siab mas tseem muaj plhus nug kiag tus poj niam ntawd tias koj tus txiv loj siab es nws qhov khoom loj li cas. Tiam sis txog ntawm nws khib kuv mas Kuv ntsia tsis tau ib tug poj niam Tom kev tshuam li os yog muaj ib tug poj niam los dua kev los yog tav kev es Kuv tseem ntsia thiab Ces nws Yeej tawg ncuav rau kuv lawm xwb os kuv yeej hais tsis tau tias tus poj niam zoo nkauj li os twb tsis hais compliment ib tus poj niam os twb hais tsis tau tias lub tsheb zoo nkauj li os…Good luck brother
#1. Your wife has mental issues or you did something to trigger her insecurity. Be honest.