MOVING TO UNIVERSITY VLOG! Organising My Room, Freshers & Dealing With Homesickness

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  • @Chirpingcherub
    @Chirpingcherub 4 роки тому +180

    I think “homesickness” at uni depends on your family relationship like i really don’t get on with my family at all (we live in the same house but we can easily go a week without saying a word to each other) so uni for me is a relieve break from my family and feel safer at uni 💜 but not everyone is the same it depends on a lot of ur situations

    • @samuelbenneh5084
      @samuelbenneh5084 2 роки тому +9

      Yh it will be a relief in terms of freedom but I’ll still miss them

    • @anannonymouscoverartist
      @anannonymouscoverartist Рік тому +2

      If I get to go to uni I will miss some members of my family but others? Who have made me feel like shit most days and are as selfish as they come? I won't miss. I think I'll be home sick for at least a week but I think after that I'll be fine. Uni honestly wasn't my plan but after I applied and got a conditional offer immediately?? I'll miss my pets too. Mitzy and Midnight. Both fucking annoying but adorable most of the time. I one hundred percent agree with you. There are people in my household I'm not gonna miss and I'll be glad of a break from.

    • @Yourmomsfavourite69
      @Yourmomsfavourite69 Рік тому +2

      Me too I can’t wait to leave!

    • @Chirpingcherub
      @Chirpingcherub Рік тому +1

      @@Yourmomsfavourite69 good luck I’m on my last year if uni I have one exam in a couple of weeks that got delayed because of Covid I was supposed to have it last year but it’s a practical exam so these things happen. I hope u have a great time at university and remember to stay safe, also it’s hard but try prioritise studying early you will have less stress nearer the exam if you a half hour a day every day it doesn’t seem so bad.

  • @rajeshwari3971
    @rajeshwari3971 4 роки тому +138

    Meanwhile boys packing : i got these 4 T-shirts and couple of jeans and and thats it . Oh wait i forgot my toothbrush

  • @flossssssy
    @flossssssy 5 років тому +177

    I can’t believe how much stuff you took!! Your new friend seems really sweet, I like how she treated vlogging so normally. Have you watched holly Gabrielle’s vlogs on homesickness? I remember she found leaving home reallly difficult but she adapted quite well

    • @TalitiaHill
      @TalitiaHill  5 років тому +15

      I know I took sooo much but I’ve been using it all so definitely worth it😉 Thank you for the recommendation, I will give it a watch😊

    • @flossssssy
      @flossssssy 5 років тому +10

      Talitia Hill if you don’t get the chance to watch it (it’s 25 mins, lol), basically, she went to Cambridge and was about to drop out because she was so homesick but she saw the university welfare team and ended up sticking it out. She still got upset every time she left home but was able to cope a lot better and she actually came top of her whole year!

  • @meganduffin6772
    @meganduffin6772 4 роки тому +138

    watching this is so scary knowing i'm leaving for this uni in 4 weeks!! so nerve racking but its good to be able to watch someone do it before I do so I know what to expect

  • @chantalantar2959
    @chantalantar2959 5 років тому +91

    I was thinking about transfering to Oxford Brookes next year to complete my masters and your videos really helped me decide and see the real experience since its a big move from Lebanon to the UK! Really loved your content, very genuine, thank you so much!😊

    • @yves5767
      @yves5767 2 роки тому

      did you do it?

    • @chantalantar2959
      @chantalantar2959 2 роки тому

      @@yves5767 No, I ended up moving to Barcelona and studying there for a year

  • @libbynevens4215
    @libbynevens4215 5 років тому +53

    Hey x your doing amazing! I am 13 and I’ve been going to boarding school since I was 11. I live 4 hours away from my parents and leaving them is the hardest part. Keep up and don’t give up!❤️

  • @carlaroberta8073
    @carlaroberta8073 4 роки тому +18

    I have watched many uni move in vlogs and you are one of the very few people who were completely raw about the whole experience. I am lucky enough to have good universities in my city and not have to move away, but I could relate so much to what you had been feeling throughout this process, because I am a homely person as well, and your video made me cry because I could relate so much with you. I respect you deeply for being able to be so real about this experience

  • @mrsagathahudson5227
    @mrsagathahudson5227 5 років тому +40

    Big hugs to you. Your parents are awesome, I loved your pets and your room looks amazing. Good luck at University and I hope the homesickness improves as you get into your course. It is hard for teenagers to leave home, it's a bit of a shock. I hope you settle down and enjoy are independent living. Remember to ask for help if you can't settle, there's help out there if you need it.

  • @eviewhitmarsh-knight6420
    @eviewhitmarsh-knight6420 5 років тому +111

    hey sis, you’re doing AMAZING. this vlog was so real and lovely and it’s so refreshing to see :) you seem so sweet and genuine and i would love to be your friend haha. i completely get about being a home bird and dependant on your family, i’m completely the same. you’re doing so incredibly great and you should be proud of yourself! i hope you have the best time at uni, sending you so much love xxx

    • @TalitiaHill
      @TalitiaHill  5 років тому +7

      Such a lovely comment, thank you so much! Message me on Instagram we can chat🥰xx

    • @eviewhitmarsh-knight6420
      @eviewhitmarsh-knight6420 5 років тому +2

      ahhh will do! 😊xx

  • @grethelcongcong4030
    @grethelcongcong4030 5 років тому +16

    Hi, Talitia. I've experienced that too during my university years, I thought I can't do it because I feel homesick and sad. I almost decided to stop going to uni. I am so thankful, I have a supportive mom. I know it is really difficult but it will pass, you can do it! I am looking forward to your vlogs!

  • @natashadoole6498
    @natashadoole6498 4 роки тому +19

    Should be going to Uni in September (virus permitting). I hate being away from home to the point where I struggle even staying at my boyfriends house 😬 you made me feel so normal about feeling so worried thank you so much ❤️

  • @orlaciramary
    @orlaciramary 3 роки тому +7

    I'm moving to uni this year and i'm so sad to leave my cat :(I also love how honest you are about uni, because I know I'm gonna feel the same way.

  • @kateadams5230
    @kateadams5230 4 роки тому +12

    This video made me so scared for when i'm going to go to uni after next year. I love how honest you are though thank you for that. I completely agree with you that some people lie about the experience. I feel that i'm so similar to you, saying goodbye to my cat is going to be so harddd. :(((

    • @char6980
      @char6980 4 роки тому +1

      i agree, i really don’t want to leave my cat :(

  • @charliivideos
    @charliivideos 5 років тому +6

    So reassuring to see someone post such an honest vlog! I moved to Brookes too this year and honestly struggled so bad with the homesickness - so reassuring to see someone feel the same way! x

  • @patspadd8243
    @patspadd8243 5 років тому +7

    Hello Talitia and I’ve seen your part one and two videos regarding your moving out of home into university campus as with sorting out your home equipment for transportation then locating to campus is a brain ache such as the organisation but then the fact that you’re living away from your family and pets and living somewhere new is a heart ache due to the home sickness but with the practical stuff done then it’s all about getting over the home sickness and pursuing your studies and making new friends with your fellow students now onto me I’ve experienced from aged seven to twelve young years of age being sent to a long way from London to Devon to attend boarding school and I constantly suffered home sickness every time I went back from half term and full term though the time I had was interesting and exciting at least half of the times due to good teaching methods as there’s less pupils in the class room and we went on adventurous trips on days out also may I add I went to boarding school in Bedfordshire aged twelve to sixteen though it wasn’t so bad as I was there a bit shorter time and obviously not too far from home but then also I went home for odd weekends and when I was in the leavers class I went home for leavers weekends and although I had a few or so friends in the first school the second school was not as good as the boys were older and most were from London compared to the first one and because of that they were more streetwise and had a nasty edge ok now back to you I hope you consider yourself lucky that your not too far away living wise and your family are good caring people and that your fellow students are kind of grown up so therefore you should get along very nicely so that’s it from me for now so until then take care and cheerio

  • @lcaroline1100
    @lcaroline1100 5 років тому +9

    Can I just say as a graduate who moved off to uni, you won’t use half of this 🙃 I did the same and took way too much to uni but then you end up spending money on new stuff and living in a small room you take it all back home and it just mounts up in your absence.
    Best of luck, uni is hands down the best part of life for most people!

  • @x.martha.x8340
    @x.martha.x8340 4 роки тому +16

    AAAAHHHH I LOVEEEE ur accent, I’m English as well but moved to Thailand at four so my accents sort of gone which is sad but yours is gorge

  • @toniannaw
    @toniannaw 5 років тому +19

    Best of luck at Brookes! I’m from Oxford such a lovely honest video!

  • @mishaelgeorge4264
    @mishaelgeorge4264 5 років тому +4

    Hope you feel better about being away from home soon! College can be such good fun! ❤️ sending love your way

  • @SandileMotlhabane
    @SandileMotlhabane 9 місяців тому +1

    hi...im looking to apply for scholarships for my masters and I cam across your channel...Im so in love with your Uni video..This is the second Im watching...Girl..Im sad and happy about the possibility of getting one and living abroad but i would be sad to leave my family behind... Ooh my gosh...living vicariously through this rn....

  • @rachellewabissa5233
    @rachellewabissa5233 5 років тому +17

    Wow you are such an organised person! This all looks good so far :)
    You got this! You can do this. :)

  • @AGiftedJourneyx
    @AGiftedJourneyx 2 місяці тому

    You were strong. Going home during the first night would have been such an easy decision for you, I don't doubt it, but you did so well. Just some love for your past self x

  • @katrinadempsey1123
    @katrinadempsey1123 4 роки тому +1

    I really admire your connection with Charlie!!

  • @IrisElodie
    @IrisElodie 3 роки тому +1

    my comfort video 🥰🥰

  • @4adeeb
    @4adeeb 4 роки тому +4

    I Chose not to move out in my first year, I'm transferring unis next year and moving out. This video was such a huge help into what I'll end up forgetting. Tysm!

  • @avinashbhogun
    @avinashbhogun 2 роки тому

    This was a recommended video, no idea why as I've left studies many moons ago! Was an interesting watch and given this was some time ago; I hope you had/have a good experience. Onwards and upwards! :)

  • @megandockerty2296
    @megandockerty2296 5 років тому +4

    Love you! You’ve done so well I’m so proud xx

    • @TalitiaHill
      @TalitiaHill  5 років тому +1

      Love you so much Meggy! Thank you🥰xx

  • @phanthuananh8687
    @phanthuananh8687 4 роки тому

    I'm applying to Oxford Brookes for 2020. Your vlogs are making me so excited :)
    OMG FINALLY SOMEONE VLOGGING OXFORD BROOKES UNIII🙌🏻🙌🏻keep it going girllll

  • @char6980
    @char6980 4 роки тому +6

    thank you for this, i am so dependant on my family emotionally & i get homesick :( im so nervous for september if i do get into this uni and i’m so worried i’m not gonna make any friends x

  • @ClairePhippen
    @ClairePhippen 5 років тому +3

    Hope you have an amazing time at Brookes! I graduated from there last year and it's a great uni! Good luck! ☺️

  • @l.n.9462
    @l.n.9462 3 роки тому +1

    I like ur room, I feel relaxed looking at it and it kind of reminds me of this hotel I went to.

  • @mitchellrbvjanessacdd6035
    @mitchellrbvjanessacdd6035 4 роки тому +1

    Love you! You’ve done so well I’m so proud xx
    Best of luck at Brookes! I’m from Oxford such a lovely honest video!

  • @emilybeeney7265
    @emilybeeney7265 5 років тому +2

    I’m a fresher and I felt completely the same this year ! It’s getting easier but I’m in my 4th week and still get sad at some times ☹️xx

  • @jonathanemptage1593
    @jonathanemptage1593 2 роки тому

    It is so hard but after a few weeks it gets so much easier.

  • @tigerdove7792
    @tigerdove7792 3 місяці тому

    I thought your hand was mine for a second 😂 we have matching nails! 🤣😄

  • @Straycatpopy
    @Straycatpopy Рік тому

    I just moved in yesterday and ive cried so much cause of homesickness and its difficult being in a new city alone

  • @tigerdove7792
    @tigerdove7792 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm going to miss my pets the most, I homeschool myself and i also look after the animals the most, I'm going to miss my cats a lot:( and dogs and pet chicken and fish and snails and everyone, I'm very excited to go to university because i can get away from my crazy sister, she is actually crazy, she goes to multiple doctors to try to cure some of her crazy but some of it is just apart of her, she has always been extremely jealous and controlling, and I've always found it hard to try not to just be nice, I'll miss my mum but I'm going to be too excited to go to university! I will never drink or smoke, i know a lot of people like drinking, i don't, and in my dads side of the family you can get addicted to drinking easily? I'm not sure if i have it but i know that i am not going to ever drink, i can't be pressured into it, my mum thinks I'm*special* because I've always been mature and had commen sense, I'm just not dumb, she snuck out of her house to see her boyfriend at my age! And to go to a party! I'm an introvert i guess, but not really, i just don't like being near annoying people, I'm going to try to get a family dorm or whatever it was called, i am planning to get married and have a kid maybe before 18 maybe while in university, just soon and it would really help if my soulmate just randomly walked up to me and asked me out then later asked me to marry him then we had a baby:) I'm trying to speed run life😂 I'm a teenager and already found a university that I'm going to, probably, I'll probably change it and if my future husband really wants to go to a specific place then I'll go with him! I don't care where we are going as long as i am with whoever my soulmate is:) and i hope be likes the cold because i can't focus in the heat:)

  • @guydennell7421
    @guydennell7421 2 роки тому +3

    Meanwhile, lads: I got 7 hoodies, a few pairs of shorts, my pc and xbox.
    Oh shit toothbrush

  • @zanderallan4373
    @zanderallan4373 4 місяці тому

    I hope my mum stays with me to help me organise my room ❤

  • @johnh912
    @johnh912 3 роки тому

    8:35 within 5 seconds the mood changes completely 😂😂😂

  • @whatsappcloud4392
    @whatsappcloud4392 2 роки тому

    I remembered my uni days

  • @IrisElodie
    @IrisElodie 3 роки тому +1

    love this video x

  • @cheekmunks1415
    @cheekmunks1415 4 роки тому +1

    Hey, just found your channel! Homesickness is real...& normal...felt it when I left for uni in Australia...took 1 week for me...but once I was done, I didn't want to leave! Looking fwd to my masters in the UK...it's so fun meeting new people & having your independence...hope it'll be the same for you too!

  • @IrisElodie
    @IrisElodie 3 роки тому +1

    watched this 4 times today

  • @ameliaxox_965
    @ameliaxox_965 4 роки тому

    aww good luck at uni 🌸

  • @lottiegreenwood1505
    @lottiegreenwood1505 4 роки тому

    Love these vids so much

  • @alexiasmith5631
    @alexiasmith5631 4 роки тому

    The noise in the bathroom is the extractor fan there should be a switch or something somewhere to turn it on and off

  • @ImranHassantoIndia
    @ImranHassantoIndia 4 місяці тому

    You and your mom is very lovely and pretty ,

  • @lemondrizzle3055
    @lemondrizzle3055 4 роки тому

    I love the video!

  • @evebebb8230
    @evebebb8230 2 роки тому +1

    Quick question, it may sound wierd but I don't intend it to be wierd, but whet uni is this and is it in the UK, my friend thought it looked pretty and wanted to know, also love your content!

  • @Emily-lk9cf
    @Emily-lk9cf 4 роки тому +1

    Yes I am so scared to go to university

  • @jonathanemptage8845
    @jonathanemptage8845 4 роки тому

    It's really tough at my first uni I don't think 1 day went by where something didn't make me cry and it was small stupid things like accidentally dropping a tea spoon while making a cup of tea in the end i decided i wasn't ready so i let and whens somewhere else the next year I still cried when I moved in but adjusted much better and actually was happy after a couple of days but yeah the 24 house of crying is quite normal the first time.

  • @Nik-dc4ti
    @Nik-dc4ti 4 роки тому +1

    This will be me crying about leaving my cat and dog 😂

  • @maisypattison5621
    @maisypattison5621 3 роки тому

    I’m not even at uni yet and Ik an Alexa is gonna be essential 😂

  • @gracedavies5235
    @gracedavies5235 4 роки тому

    i might be dumb and not heard it if you said it but which accommodation did you move into? x

  • @karina-6622
    @karina-6622 5 років тому

    Loved this video 😊

  • @aysemmelek6030
    @aysemmelek6030 3 роки тому

    Is that Chaucer house accommodation at Portsmouth because I stay their to.

  • @jaguarstar7426
    @jaguarstar7426 4 роки тому

    I feel like I should have made this my firm instead of my insurance. The accommodation is soooo much better

  • @ellabaker1008
    @ellabaker1008 4 роки тому +3

    im watching this at age 14.....

  • @nevancoffey9156
    @nevancoffey9156 5 років тому +4

    Can’t believe you got into uni lol

    • @georginacat7667
      @georginacat7667 4 роки тому +8

      She got into oxford brookes! My cat could get in there and shes dead

    • @jessysmith7953
      @jessysmith7953 4 роки тому +1

      georgina cat how rude

    • @georginacat7667
      @georginacat7667 4 роки тому +1

      @@jessysmith7953 rude but true

    • @sophielouise2284
      @sophielouise2284 4 роки тому

      @@georginacat7667 its not that easy to get into, its BBB to get in??

    • @georginacat7667
      @georginacat7667 4 роки тому

      @@sophielouise2284 bbb in what?

  • @stormygacha3074
    @stormygacha3074 4 роки тому +1

    Ok this might be a stupid question but I'm just a dumb 14 year old. But can you live off campus. Like go to school there but live in a house close to the school?

    • @apple8127
      @apple8127 4 роки тому

      Yes you can, the dorm rooms do add to your debt so many people dont use them :) hope that helps

    • @apple8127
      @apple8127 4 роки тому

      Stormy Gacha /\

  • @Dickinbaus
    @Dickinbaus 4 роки тому

    what course are you doing?

  • @tomasgarciag
    @tomasgarciag 4 роки тому +2

    English college dorms are way better than American dorms I swear😭

    • @georginacat7667
      @georginacat7667 4 роки тому +3

      Nah... these rooms are for spoilt rich kids! Lots of uni accommodation is shit... and actually teaches you to be an adult... unlike these pansies.

    • @Nmohamed44
      @Nmohamed44 4 роки тому +3

      @@georginacat7667 jealousy isn't cute 💀💀

    • @SophieIsTheBest100
      @SophieIsTheBest100 4 роки тому +3

      I think the biggest difference is most US dorms are shared bedrooms (I think?) Where’s in the UK it’s very rare to have to share a room with someone, you normally have your own

    • @sophielouise2284
      @sophielouise2284 4 роки тому +1

      @@georginacat7667 as someone going to Brookes, the accommodation she's staying in is actually cheaper than most of the accommodations (its the cheapest ensuit option) its just coz its a brand new accommodation that it looks so nice

  • @joshuathompson7333
    @joshuathompson7333 4 роки тому

    Wait so you moved in and then moved back in a few days later

  • @coletanco
    @coletanco 4 роки тому

    what's the name of your hall? is it in headington? tysm.

  • @whimsicallybichy
    @whimsicallybichy 4 роки тому

    Listening to Americans and UK people say that $200 is a lot while in my currency, $200 is nothing

  • @maliakab2659
    @maliakab2659 4 роки тому

    any tips on sticking fairy lights mine won’t stick

    • @YA-rk6fo
      @YA-rk6fo 4 роки тому +1

      Hey, I use command hooks, like the really mini ones and they are clear so you barely see them

  • @meganduffin6270
    @meganduffin6270 4 роки тому

    What accommodation is this? :)

  • @ellie6415
    @ellie6415 3 роки тому

    You seem so lovely! xx

  • @suziemeinke9311
    @suziemeinke9311 5 років тому +1

    What are you studying?

  • @katiejaynerothwell1135
    @katiejaynerothwell1135 2 роки тому

    I start in September 😭

  • @georgierose2725
    @georgierose2725 4 роки тому

    Alpro yog is the best!

  • @kayaadore9423
    @kayaadore9423 4 роки тому

    is this your freshman year?

    • @georginacat7667
      @georginacat7667 4 роки тому +3

      You dont have freshmen in the uk

    • @kayaadore9423
      @kayaadore9423 4 роки тому

      @@georginacat7667 I'm not in the UK

    • @YA-rk6fo
      @YA-rk6fo 4 роки тому

      Kamille Benjamin instead of freshman year in the uk, it’s first year !

  • @lauratrulock6101
    @lauratrulock6101 5 років тому

    Love this video so much I just uploaded my first two days of uni video I’d love it if you checked it out xxx

  • @milliereid5646
    @milliereid5646 4 роки тому

    Who is charlie

    • @mayagarg6054
      @mayagarg6054 4 роки тому

      Millie Reid I think her boyfriend

    • @georginacat7667
      @georginacat7667 4 роки тому +4

      From watching the vlog.... her slave

    • @Nmohamed44
      @Nmohamed44 4 роки тому +1

      @@georginacat7667 wtf is up with these hate comments, you're an obsessed fan 💀💀💀

    • @georginacat7667
      @georginacat7667 4 роки тому +1

      @@Nmohamed44 yes a fan often criticises her idol

    • @Nmohamed44
      @Nmohamed44 4 роки тому

      @@georginacat7667 extreme fans yes.