That’s actually so real. I will be bawling over nothing. Pure rage over someone breathing in my direction. And have no clue why, and then the next day when it all just clicks is pure joy, then the dread of having to deal with my period, but joy
I’m so sorry this happens to you PMS is a real and diagnosable disorder that causes severe disruption of daily living You deserve a future free from this pain Please speak to your doctor about how to help prevent and manage this There are treatment options
The newest research showed in mri that the female brain actually changes during pms and menstrual cycle. Its entire constitution is different. And it’s changing on us so frequently of course it’s a lot of work to manage and control.
@@PCB_2021no its not. Many women believe its Supposed to "hurt" and be all "crazy". But its not. A certain discomfort here and there, maybe a little pain, but more? Might actually be an underlying issue that can be helped with
✨ THIS ✨ The most validating video. I feel this way always the week before mine. No one tells you this is sometimes NORMAL for SOME women. Thank you for posting ✨✨✨
I’m so sorry this happens to you But this is not technically normal, PMS is a real and diagnosable disorder that causes severe disruption of daily living You deserve a future free from this pain Please speak to your doctor about how to help prevent and manage this There are treatment options (edit, spelling)
@@elizabethmichels8250 It is normal if it happens to almost all women with periods. At this point we need to realize that is indeed a thing. I've never met a woman that doesn't PMS lmao
@conikavideos8119 It will interfere. Not that we're freaking bipolar, but it sure will influence our emotions. I can always tell I'm about to have my period if I'm crying or being overly sensitive/stressed
@@PCB_2021 nope. PMDD is PMS on steroids. PMDD causes feelings of depression, anxiety, paranoia, hopelessness, fits of anger, etc. You cannot function at work or in relationships (you’re either crying randomly due to becoming hyper sensitive to everything, have brain fog and can’t focus, or are snapping and yelling at people) Women that have PMDD also struggle with suicidal thoughts or have tried to commit suicide. The week or two before your period, you become a different person, and then once you get your period, BAM, you’re back to normal like there was never a problem to begin with. It’s a vicious cycle every single month.
I actually track my period for this exact reason. I expect the rage, I expect a super strong 2 day depression and meal prep cause I know I won't be able to cook or even eat maybe. Then when it hits I know why it hit and I try to be as gentle as possible with myself those days and try to avoid conflict with people as much as possible to not blurt out the wrong things
That’s so smart - going to start doing this. I struggle so hard for a few days just doing anything- going from work to home in a daze and then just curling up in bed and passing out. If I start tracking my zero days as I call them and see if I can prep for them it would be amazing.
This!❤ exactly me. When I started tracking my cycle it all clicked. Im able to self assess and emotionally re-regulate easier. The feelings still come unfortunately😂 God bless the women and Pms prep
Same I track my period so I know why I'm feeling the way I'm feeling I look at my calendar like oh it's time ! I warned my husband than we all be good if I get out of control ❤😂😊
YESSSSSS! And the worse part is we act like this, we can't figure out why we're in such a rage, then see aunt flo and go oh....it's like we forget every freaking month!!!! Like why? Why do we forget when it happens every months for decades! 😂😂😂😂😂
And if your loving bf or husband points out that it could be aunt flo coming, you rip his head off😅 followed by a sweet and soft sorry the next day😂 its not just you ladies who thinks "how do they keep forgetting about this"? Men think the same too😂
Not me I started tracking to remember because it almost got in the way of my money, I was so heated and confused at work one morning and started praying about leaving then 3 days later got my cycle and realized why I was so emotional and ready to walk out of work. Since then I remind myself to consider this everytime I feel over emo
The mood swings are so unbelievably real. Yesterday i was everywhere but on my feet, thats how i felt. I was all over the show while trying really hard not to snap at any family members and isolate myself to calm down on my own. Very stressed and upset panicking about failing my class. Then i realized what time of the month it is... yesterday was NOT a great day. I was definitely overthinking everything. Its always the week before period that things hit hard. And to think i was just thinking the other day "huh, usually us women have moodswings around this time, but i feel fine. I must be lucky".
Tracking my cycle has seriously changed my life.. it feels so validating to be feeling like shit and get a notification “you might be acting like you just ran away from the asylum today. Log in your symptoms”. It’s such a relief… Makes me understand my body better and respect it. I now consult my calendar before booking any event that I know will demand more from me.. I’m not crazy!! I’m just cyclical ✨😌 Feels empowering..
I track and she’s a reliable 28 day Miss ma’am but it never really sticks, I just think this time my rage and discomfort and general awful feeling is totally normal and justified. Then the blood comes and it’s like oh, oops, my bad, haha SORRY!
as a woman, i have never had such a struggle where i get mad from absolutely nothing. instead during my periods i only want even more love and attention from my husband than before. i feel like having this control is a blessing because it makes life easier for the both of us ❤
Im the same way. I dont act any certain way other than being a little more cuddly. Sometimes (not all women) I feel like they use their period as an excuse to act a certain way and try to justify it. I understand hormones throw emotions for a loop.
@@Skullykittiebefore I had my son, it didn’t matter where I was in my cycle, I was super chill. Never noticed a bit of rollercoastering emotions. After I had him (at 28 years old) everything changed.
I don't think I've ever gotten MORE cuddly from hormones before, let alone during my tomato juice week, it always makes me more irritated by literally everything and so I usually just stay in my room unless I have somewhere to go To be fair tho, I'm not cuddly in general unless I'm extremely sad and need a hug before I go hibernate in my room
He knew and said nothing. Because he knows his wife needed that scream. And his wife didn’t need him asking if she was okay. Women think their men are clueless but in fact we see and hear more than you know.
Oh men are clueless. But only when they are with the woman that was not meant for them 🤦♀️ When it's their woman, they actually care and are so attuned... 🤷♀️
Facts. I’ve never been surprised by female hormonal imbalances. I could always sense if my lady was expecting her monthly visit, often more accurately than the lady. A good partner will pay attention, know, and act accordingly ❤😊
Its so weird how emotional I suddenly feel when moments ago I was perfectly fine, and I'm always thankful im not loosing it my body is just warning me in advance about what is about to come
I have the most self hating and existential thoughts before my period, literally yesterday in the shower I thought about changing my name and reinventing my entire self maybe that will help me separate myself from me and maybe then I can start loving myself 😂 I look down and oh, she’s here
This makes me feel so much better. 😂😂😂😂 I was literally thinking of checking myself into a psych ward......then I started Ms ma'am the next day. Phew......were good. 😅
Girl I'm pregnant for the first time in my 30s and I nearly forgot what the cycle feels like. I don't want to go back to having periods again. Being pregnant is the most emotionally stable I've ever been 😭
Yesss the feral scream!! Once I start to feel this way and act out, my boyfriend goes “oh honey you’re period is about to be here” gives me all the extra hugs and love I need until I feel the whooshing drop. Mother Nature is here!!
This is so true. Thankfully, my husband has an outstanding sense of humor and while I would be so irritated that I could not look at him or talk to him, would need to get as far away from him as possible or i would snap and direct all my rage at him, he would just laugh at me being completely insane. This would happen in an instant. I would be totally fine, then one tiny little thing would trigger me and would become so enraged that I would literally need to self isolate to prevent myself from commiting crimes.
Once when I was in my period, I was unreasonably angry and my poor husband was just eating his food and playing a game. I got so genuinely angry at the sound of him chewing and I felt like I was about to explode into a full rage before I stopped myself and thought wait thats actually such a stupid reason to be mad at a person and then I just burst into laughter and my husband looked at me with concern, completely unaware of the mental warfare that just went down in my head. When I told him about it he just laughed with me. 😂
Well, as a guy who has asd and is over stimulated by a shit ton. I feel ya, some days i feral scream into my pillows when i get home from a stressful day. I definitely wont get the period pain tho, sorry you have to deal with it.
I was just explaining this to my husband this morning 😂 it’s almost like a little security blanket like “ the world isn’t really ending….you’re just getting your period “
Wait. What part did you have taken out? If you had your uterus removed and still bleed, you should talk to your dr. That's not a good thing. If you had your ovaries removed and still have PMS/periods, you should talk to your dr. Hormones cause periods and those hormones are triggered by ovaries. So if you don't have the triggering agent, something is wrong. If you still have your ovaries and a part of your uterus, ignore me. But if you have either no uterus or no ovaries, call your doc. Just to be safe. Hope all is well. (Also, I also had a partial hysterectomy. Everything gone except the ovaries for me. Just saying this so you'll know I'm not just randomly talking about stuff that I don't know anything about. That said, I know there are various degrees of hysterectomy where different amounts and parts are taken. But I'm also concerned if you don't have either the ovaries or the uterus so I commented.)
You got a rollercoaster of emotion, I on the had is just one, sadness. Days or a week before my period, I am melancholic for no reason. I'll be happy hanging out with my friends and suddenly when it gets quiet and I'm by myself, it'll start as a gloomy feeling and if I see or reminded of something sad, a memory, a story, or a video, whatever, it'll trigger this really unhappy feeling, and I sometimes only feel a bit better if I cry. then after that, I'm back to normal me. This really made me realize that I need a present partner if I'll ever be pregnant. I think my hormones would send me to post partum disorder for a while. And I'll be needing someone to hold me if ever I crumble.
Relatable af!! I hate that feeling and then I feel so hurt in my soul for the way I've felt and that my family has had to feel it from me but I ALWAYS put myself in check as they don't deserve that.❤
I'm crying and laughing at the same time watching this, I'm 47 and peri menopausal I'm on a heavy period right now and everything and every one is just annnnooooyyying! I've tried telling pmy family how I'm feeling and noone understands but there's millions of us women out here that do and it's so refreshing to see someone talking about it the WAY IT IS! 😂😞😄😞😊 I'm just so down at the moment, I split with my partner of 6 years 2 weeks ago so I'm alone and really needed this thanks 😊❤
It's like before my period I'm having mental breakdowns think I need a therapist and a couple days later I get my period. And I'm like OHHHHHH makes sense😂
I have pmdd it’s so shit, I completely lose it. It’s how I know it’s coming, I catch myself being waaaay angrier or depressed than usual, check the tracker app and it’ll say I’m 12 days out. It’s always 12 or less days before it comes. It’s so frustrating
So true! I just randomly cry from the slightest inconvenience and I internally ask "Why am I being such a little b right now 😭?" Then a day or so later, boom! 😂
Yup, accurate. I had a mental breakdown in high school in front of my parents and cursed them out. Next day I went to swim practice, went back home and apologised. My parents called it “shark week” bc the only thing that made me feel better was when I was in a pool swimming 😂.
@ why? There’s nothing wrong with it. She felt overstimulated and angry so she handled her emotion in a responsible way that harmed no one else. What would be the issue?
@@AllieK-sz6gh oh I didn’t mean it in a negative way. I love this video, and it was kinda a joke cause what are the chances of her actually seeing this 😂😁😁
😂 so true! I’m always either really irritated or really depressed right before auntie Flo shows up and it’s always a question of did my antidepressant suddenly stop working? And it’s always her😒😓
Yes, this is so true. I always get worried that my meds stop working or that maybe I havent been eating properly but then after a whole week of worrying excessively she arrives to tell me that I havent gone insane. And I cant believe I always forget that this could be a possibility so every month I go around feeling awful for nothing 😭
That hormone dip that messed with the nervous system is so real and so so so awful 😢 we need extra care I’ve been married 21 years and my husband still can’t and won’t figure it out that we just need some extra care
I put my tracking in my Husband's calendar. I explained (with video proof) that our brains and chemistry change. Now, I get flowers once a mothe because he didn't realize that for a solid week every month, his existence infuriated me and his lack of extra care reinforced it. I told him I chose him and didn't need him so if he chooses or needs me, he better choose to be more caring when his calendar reminder chimes each month. Took 11 years, but he's almost fully trained. 😅
as a trans man at first i was like "oh geeze, drawing lines between what men and women will or won't understand, here we go 🙄" But it got to the end and i was like "oh. she's right. I could never understand how that is relieving or satisfying. finding im on my period is horrifying and causes dysphoria and dissociation every time." lol
So many comments relating to the video and im like. "this is the most insane thing ever. I cannot understand." Well I am glad some people find a good side to periods 😂
@@theGhostSteward Yeah man, i totally get that "as a man I'm not supposed to... blank" feeling. whether it not supposed to have mood swings, not supposed to have cramps, not supposed to be bleeding, not supposed to a bunch of other nonsense things that aren't necessary connected to periods. It's rough. It goes like, "yeah sure every other man is allowed to cry except me because i have to prove myself." 😭
as an autistic person knowing I'm on my period means knowing I'm going to have a full week of Emotional Disregulation, which I *already have,* turned up to eleven. I don't get the relief aspect personally, but I do understand where it comes from... it is rather affirming to know why you're feeling the way you are.
THANK YOU 😊... I found cutting way down on sugar and salty products... a week before "Tha Arrival" made a huge difference on the stress and tension felt in the body (from bloating) ❤❤❤
I've been doing this for around 8 months now (since it became SOMEWHAT regular) Gamechanger. Honest gamechanger. Helps me to not rip into colleauges, be more patient when i devoure a whole box of chocolate (or choc-cockies) and to not answer people via text when they REALLY piss me off. I tell them i'm too stressed right now, gonna answer in a few days. What i do, AFTER my period started and the madness vanished away.. 😅❤
As someone with bpd and pmds i relate ALOT. But x 100. I acually loose my god damn mind. And somebody breathing in a sertain way (OR CHEWING 😫) just makes my skin crawl and anger me on another level. It have sadly controlled my whole life. But it is better now! I have a spiral so that i have not gotten my period in years 😅. Sorry for my bad english but i think you get the point 😂 And i am glad that you felt better in the morning! ❤
I feel this in my soul. Every time aunt flow is making her comute for her visit im the most irrational and irritable person, so much so that i question my sanity until she arrives and the relief knowing im not crazy is amazing
Look into PMDD! Your story sounds so similar to what I have been going through the past several years, there is hope & ways to manage!! Our cycles should give us strength, not make us ashamed or feel crazy
i just wanna say i haven’t seen any of your videos since the panera lemonade video and the difference between you in that and regular you is so vast lol that video was one of the funniest videos i’d seen so thank you. also yes, period validation happened to me last week and it’s an amazing feeling (and then you suffer for days)
oooooo, yeah, been there... every month ..😂😂 i love when it goes from angy to "im a terrible person for being angy" to angy again to dam breakage. i swear after that its like brain goes "oh." and calms down. 😂😂
My wife to a T, I love her but Jesus christ if there's a good and all loving God then why the fuck do women have 2 weeks of forced bipolar disorder?! Like dude wtaf and she hates it probably more than I do. Because where I've learned to cope and take anything said in those moments with a grain of salt; she's losing her shit and crying and trying to figure out why she's so sad. At that point I just feel bad because there ain't shit I can do except try and calm her down.
My hyperthyroidism "mirrored bipolar disorder" and got me misdiagnosed as a teenager because of how hard it fucks with your hormones. Big relief when I got it all figured out Not exactly the same, but dudes can have disregulated hormones too. Life is a wild ass ride
You are hilarious. I’m 52 and ‘the curse’ still catches me by surprise somehow, almost every month. Such a relief when I realize that’s what’s been going on. 😂🙃🤦♀️
Wanting to claw clothes off your skin because everything touching your skin feels horrible happens to me sometimes, I feel like I’m dying. It never occurred to me it could be related to my period 😮
Thanks for us men understand this bullshit that you guys go through every month. 😂But atleast i am thankful there are women like you who actually explain it 😂
Much respect for not terrorizing your husband with this. Men want to fix things. You recognize it's something he can't fix. But believe me. He knows and he does care.
First time I watched this, I was like what feeling are you talking about and then boom I'm right there with you... today I woke up and yeah yesterday was nuts
This morning my boyfriend noticed that I got my period before I noticed. I had used the toilet during the night and didn’t flush to avoid waking him. He high-fived me 😂 He was like “yeah, get that demon out!”
"Do I need a psychiatrist or a tampon?" 🤔 So relatable! 🤣🤣🤣
Vitamin D Ladies
Every.single.month
The most relatable statement I’ve heard in my 32 years of life.
Truth
Honesty so true
That’s actually so real. I will be bawling over nothing. Pure rage over someone breathing in my direction. And have no clue why, and then the next day when it all just clicks is pure joy, then the dread of having to deal with my period, but joy
Im not nuts I jusr have pmdd
I’m so sorry this happens to you
PMS is a real and diagnosable disorder that causes severe disruption of daily living
You deserve a future free from this pain
Please speak to your doctor about how to help prevent and manage this
There are treatment options
The newest research showed in mri that the female brain actually changes during pms and menstrual cycle. Its entire constitution is different. And it’s changing on us so frequently of course it’s a lot of work to manage and control.
@@elizabethmichels8250 This is a joke right?
@@PCB_2021no its not. Many women believe its Supposed to "hurt" and be all "crazy". But its not. A certain discomfort here and there, maybe a little pain, but more? Might actually be an underlying issue that can be helped with
"Then my sweet husband was BREATHING and making noise" lmao 🤣
I legit almost break up with my husband every time my period is about to arrive 😂😂😂 and feel too guilty to apologise
I felt that in my whole chest lol sometimes they just be doing nothing and it irritates me haha
She's so real for that😂😂😂😂
@@cynthiamacaringue5650Women almost never apologize. No offense really.
@@ShadoCroc women YOU know
Girl, did I need this! The relief/"oh, thank God" that comes with the arrival. These uteruses really be doing us dirty.
So true. So don’t miss it.
Always a relief when Ms. Mam arrives and wipes the crazy slate clean
✨ THIS ✨ The most validating video. I feel this way always the week before mine. No one tells you this is sometimes NORMAL for SOME women. Thank you for posting ✨✨✨
I’m so sorry this happens to you
But this is not technically normal, PMS is a real and diagnosable disorder that causes severe disruption of daily living
You deserve a future free from this pain
Please speak to your doctor about how to help prevent and manage this
There are treatment options (edit, spelling)
@@elizabethmichels8250 It is normal if it happens to almost all women with periods. At this point we need to realize that is indeed a thing. I've never met a woman that doesn't PMS lmao
PMS is one thing, try looking into PMDD and asking your doc about it if it comes on so strong it interferes with daily life
@conikavideos8119 It will interfere. Not that we're freaking bipolar, but it sure will influence our emotions. I can always tell I'm about to have my period if I'm crying or being overly sensitive/stressed
@@PCB_2021 nope. PMDD is PMS on steroids. PMDD causes feelings of depression, anxiety, paranoia, hopelessness, fits of anger, etc. You cannot function at work or in relationships (you’re either crying randomly due to becoming hyper sensitive to everything, have brain fog and can’t focus, or are snapping and yelling at people) Women that have PMDD also struggle with suicidal thoughts or have tried to commit suicide. The week or two before your period, you become a different person, and then once you get your period, BAM, you’re back to normal like there was never a problem to begin with. It’s a vicious cycle every single month.
I actually track my period for this exact reason. I expect the rage, I expect a super strong 2 day depression and meal prep cause I know I won't be able to cook or even eat maybe. Then when it hits I know why it hit and I try to be as gentle as possible with myself those days and try to avoid conflict with people as much as possible to not blurt out the wrong things
That’s so smart - going to start doing this. I struggle so hard for a few days just doing anything- going from work to home in a daze and then just curling up in bed and passing out. If I start tracking my zero days as I call them and see if I can prep for them it would be amazing.
This!❤ exactly me. When I started tracking my cycle it all clicked. Im able to self assess and emotionally re-regulate easier. The feelings still come unfortunately😂 God bless the women and Pms prep
Wow meal prepping for it is so smart! I've been struggling lately, I'll have to give it a try. Do you have any food prep recommendations?
Same I track my period so I know why I'm feeling the way I'm feeling I look at my calendar like oh it's time ! I warned my husband than we all be good if I get out of control ❤😂😊
Very relatable ❤😢
YESSSSSS! And the worse part is we act like this, we can't figure out why we're in such a rage, then see aunt flo and go oh....it's like we forget every freaking month!!!! Like why? Why do we forget when it happens every months for decades! 😂😂😂😂😂
And if your loving bf or husband points out that it could be aunt flo coming, you rip his head off😅 followed by a sweet and soft sorry the next day😂 its not just you ladies who thinks "how do they keep forgetting about this"? Men think the same too😂
Oh my god, yesssss amnesia
I'm going to put it in the same category as giving birth to multiple children. You know the experience, but yep siblings are made.
Not me I started tracking to remember because it almost got in the way of my money, I was so heated and confused at work one morning and started praying about leaving then 3 days later got my cycle and realized why I was so emotional and ready to walk out of work. Since then I remind myself to consider this everytime I feel over emo
Because it doesn't feel like hormones but the emotions and the rage feel like sooo real! 😂
You articulated yourself so well here 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I sincerely appreciate your contributing to society today!!!
The mood swings are so unbelievably real. Yesterday i was everywhere but on my feet, thats how i felt. I was all over the show while trying really hard not to snap at any family members and isolate myself to calm down on my own. Very stressed and upset panicking about failing my class. Then i realized what time of the month it is... yesterday was NOT a great day. I was definitely overthinking everything. Its always the week before period that things hit hard. And to think i was just thinking the other day "huh, usually us women have moodswings around this time, but i feel fine. I must be lucky".
So true. She's not exaggerating at all.
so theres another redhead.... ;)
Nope, she's not. My wife is like that. I've learned the signs and know what to avoid saying. 😅
Yeah I had a mental breakdown the other day when I couldn't open a bottle. Next morning I got my period.
Tracking my cycle has seriously changed my life.. it feels so validating to be feeling like shit and get a notification “you might be acting like you just ran away from the asylum today. Log in your symptoms”. It’s such a relief… Makes me understand my body better and respect it. I now consult my calendar before booking any event that I know will demand more from me.. I’m not crazy!! I’m just cyclical ✨😌 Feels empowering..
What app do you use?
@ I’m using Flo 🖤
I'm getting better at this, but it feels like all the best and most neccessary things happen when I need to slow the train down! 😔
I track and she’s a reliable 28 day Miss ma’am but it never really sticks, I just think this time my rage and discomfort and general awful feeling is totally normal and justified.
Then the blood comes and it’s like oh, oops, my bad, haha SORRY!
Unfortunately I can't book my events around my period but now I can plan how to handle it by tracking my cycle.
Yes! I nearly cried at work 2 days ago. Yesterday She arrived! Herself explains everything. I'm not a weak Bish.
Hahaha. I was sitting on my couch 2 days ago just crying over everything and then here She was. 😂
I FEEL this comment. When I act like that, I don't know her. Who is she?
lmao.....its so unfair to us for real lol...and then when they try to gently ask if your time of the month
@@HouseJens The smart ones go straight to the store 😂
Hahahaha I soo love this!! The hormone jump is a well blessing yet curse at the same time. God bless you beautiful.
as a woman, i have never had such a struggle where i get mad from absolutely nothing.
instead during my periods i only want even more love and attention from my husband than before.
i feel like having this control is a blessing because it makes life easier for the both of us ❤
Im the same way. I dont act any certain way other than being a little more cuddly. Sometimes (not all women) I feel like they use their period as an excuse to act a certain way and try to justify it. I understand hormones throw emotions for a loop.
@@Skullykittiebefore I had my son, it didn’t matter where I was in my cycle, I was super chill. Never noticed a bit of rollercoastering emotions. After I had him (at 28 years old) everything changed.
I don't think I've ever gotten MORE cuddly from hormones before, let alone during my tomato juice week, it always makes me more irritated by literally everything and so I usually just stay in my room unless I have somewhere to go
To be fair tho, I'm not cuddly in general unless I'm extremely sad and need a hug before I go hibernate in my room
FRR
as much as I hate periods, sometimes getting it is the biggest relief
YESSSSSSSS
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Omg its so validating to hear you say this... i feel like a monster, i know its coming when i get irrationally mad at everything. 😅
Literally had to get a period tracking app bc of it, so ik when it’s coming
Right!!??!
Ifeeeeeeeelthis
And on behalf of Men: We’re okay with that. And thank you for not taking g it out on him. Well done!
that relief i feel when i realize im acting like a deranged lunatic cuz my hormones are whack and not because im actually crazy is awesome lmao
Real sh*t. Pay attention men. Kudos to this woman’s honesty.
He knew and said nothing. Because he knows his wife needed that scream. And his wife didn’t need him asking if she was okay. Women think their men are clueless but in fact we see and hear more than you know.
Truth
Oh men are clueless. But only when they are with the woman that was not meant for them 🤦♀️
When it's their woman, they actually care and are so attuned... 🤷♀️
If you think he didn’t notice, you’re delulu. But it’s nice that they know to play it cool and support you and wait it out.
Of course we know. Perks and downsides of her cycle. We do know, and we endure the downsides as we enjoy the perks that are her ovulating days.
Facts.
I’ve never been surprised by female hormonal imbalances. I could always sense if my lady was expecting her monthly visit, often more accurately than the lady.
A good partner will pay attention, know, and act accordingly ❤😊
The accuracy is top-tier. ✨💗
Same! Got home from the store today and aunt Flo came. Now idk who's aunt this is... but someone needs to come get her ass 😂
Omgg same but mine are called aunty Rose 😅
I'd say call Progressive to get her, but that Flo is actually chill.😅
Who is Aunt Flo?
@jena4192 Your period
I felt that 😂
Its so weird how emotional I suddenly feel when moments ago I was perfectly fine, and I'm always thankful im not loosing it my body is just warning me in advance about what is about to come
This made me smile because it’s so real 🥲
Idk why, but the skittering of your nails across the table was so satisfying.
I have the most self hating and existential thoughts before my period, literally yesterday in the shower I thought about changing my name and reinventing my entire self maybe that will help me separate myself from me and maybe then I can start loving myself 😂 I look down and oh, she’s here
i never reply to comments but god damn im so glad im not alone!!! Everything seems pointless and real at that time, so misleading tbh
lol...isn't it strange how that is...
This makes me feel so much better. 😂😂😂😂 I was literally thinking of checking myself into a psych ward......then I started Ms ma'am the next day. Phew......were good. 😅
I thought Ms ma’am was a mistress or something.
@@PIANOPRINCESSANANYAnah it’s the monthly uninvited guest
Girl I'm pregnant for the first time in my 30s and I nearly forgot what the cycle feels like. I don't want to go back to having periods again. Being pregnant is the most emotionally stable I've ever been 😭
yeah no, would dump my gf if she acted like a maniac like that. my life is too short to deal with such nonsense
Yesss the feral scream!! Once I start to feel this way and act out, my boyfriend goes “oh honey you’re period is about to be here” gives me all the extra hugs and love I need until I feel the whooshing drop. Mother Nature is here!!
This is so true. Thankfully, my husband has an outstanding sense of humor and while I would be so irritated that I could not look at him or talk to him, would need to get as far away from him as possible or i would snap and direct all my rage at him, he would just laugh at me being completely insane. This would happen in an instant. I would be totally fine, then one tiny little thing would trigger me and would become so enraged that I would literally need to self isolate to prevent myself from commiting crimes.
Uggh!!! The truth! Last week I was truly worried about myself. Then yesterday- Oh. 🙄
So relatable! Also the nail tap walking noise made me unreasonably happy
ASMR
This is the most relatable video I’ve ever seen lol. Thank you!! 💗😂
This might be THE most relatable thing I’ve ever seen. 😂
Once when I was in my period, I was unreasonably angry and my poor husband was just eating his food and playing a game. I got so genuinely angry at the sound of him chewing and I felt like I was about to explode into a full rage before I stopped myself and thought wait thats actually such a stupid reason to be mad at a person and then I just burst into laughter and my husband looked at me with concern, completely unaware of the mental warfare that just went down in my head. When I told him about it he just laughed with me. 😂
Well, as a guy who has asd and is over stimulated by a shit ton. I feel ya, some days i feral scream into my pillows when i get home from a stressful day. I definitely wont get the period pain tho, sorry you have to deal with it.
I was just explaining this to my husband this morning 😂 it’s almost like a little security blanket like “ the world isn’t really ending….you’re just getting your period “
Yeah, men think PMS and periods are the same thing. They are not. PMS is so bad that periods can actually be a relief (mentally speaking that is).
Truer words have never been spoken!
I had a partial hysterectomy 12 years ago, and about every 3 or 4 months, I get pms & spot for a day.
Wait. What part did you have taken out?
If you had your uterus removed and still bleed, you should talk to your dr. That's not a good thing.
If you had your ovaries removed and still have PMS/periods, you should talk to your dr. Hormones cause periods and those hormones are triggered by ovaries. So if you don't have the triggering agent, something is wrong.
If you still have your ovaries and a part of your uterus, ignore me.
But if you have either no uterus or no ovaries, call your doc. Just to be safe.
Hope all is well.
(Also, I also had a partial hysterectomy. Everything gone except the ovaries for me. Just saying this so you'll know I'm not just randomly talking about stuff that I don't know anything about. That said, I know there are various degrees of hysterectomy where different amounts and parts are taken. But I'm also concerned if you don't have either the ovaries or the uterus so I commented.)
@sortaamy3003 Thanks for your concern🤗
😂 Nothing like feeling crazy, and then having proof your not 🤣 cramps and all 😅
You got a rollercoaster of emotion, I on the had is just one, sadness. Days or a week before my period, I am melancholic for no reason. I'll be happy hanging out with my friends and suddenly when it gets quiet and I'm by myself, it'll start as a gloomy feeling and if I see or reminded of something sad, a memory, a story, or a video, whatever, it'll trigger this really unhappy feeling, and I sometimes only feel a bit better if I cry. then after that, I'm back to normal me. This really made me realize that I need a present partner if I'll ever be pregnant. I think my hormones would send me to post partum disorder for a while. And I'll be needing someone to hold me if ever I crumble.
THIS IS A WOMAN. Anyone confused about what is a woman?! Just watch this on a loop. Thanks for posting this.
Relatable af!! I hate that feeling and then I feel so hurt in my soul for the way I've felt and that my family has had to feel it from me but I ALWAYS put myself in check as they don't deserve that.❤
"Oh I'm not crazy I'm just bleeding profusely" 😂
LMAOOO
lol omg I can’t even express how on point this is.
Her nails walking was so calming to me. Asmr 💅
It's true! The emotional crap, bloating crap and feeling completely ugly all happens before the period...it sometimes is worse than the actual period.
I'm crying and laughing at the same time watching this, I'm 47 and peri menopausal I'm on a heavy period right now and everything and every one is just annnnooooyyying! I've tried telling pmy family how I'm feeling and noone understands but there's millions of us women out here that do and it's so refreshing to see someone talking about it the WAY IT IS! 😂😞😄😞😊 I'm just so down at the moment, I split with my partner of 6 years 2 weeks ago so I'm alone and really needed this thanks 😊❤
It's like before my period I'm having mental breakdowns think I need a therapist and a couple days later I get my period. And I'm like OHHHHHH makes sense😂
I have pmdd it’s so shit, I completely lose it. It’s how I know it’s coming, I catch myself being waaaay angrier or depressed than usual, check the tracker app and it’ll say I’m 12 days out. It’s always 12 or less days before it comes. It’s so frustrating
So real!!! I love it when I find out that I’m not really a monster. 🤣🤣🤣
So true! I just randomly cry from the slightest inconvenience and I internally ask "Why am I being such a little b right now 😭?" Then a day or so later, boom! 😂
I found that on exactly the day I was questioning my mental health and realised what it was 😂😂😂
Yup, accurate. I had a mental breakdown in high school in front of my parents and cursed them out. Next day I went to swim practice, went back home and apologised. My parents called it “shark week” bc the only thing that made me feel better was when I was in a pool swimming 😂.
SEND THIS TO BRETT COOPER!!
For what reason?
@ so she can see it
@ why? There’s nothing wrong with it. She felt overstimulated and angry so she handled her emotion in a responsible way that harmed no one else. What would be the issue?
@@AllieK-sz6gh oh I didn’t mean it in a negative way. I love this video, and it was kinda a joke cause what are the chances of her actually seeing this 😂😁😁
@ oh okay i got you! Sorry for misinterpreting
This is the most real and relatable thing ever! I cannot agree more!❤😂😅
So relatable! It’s insane what women go through when we get our exclamation marks ‼️
😂 so true! I’m always either really irritated or really depressed right before auntie Flo shows up and it’s always a question of did my antidepressant suddenly stop working? And it’s always her😒😓
Yes, this is so true. I always get worried that my meds stop working or that maybe I havent been eating properly but then after a whole week of worrying excessively she arrives to tell me that I havent gone insane. And I cant believe I always forget that this could be a possibility so every month I go around feeling awful for nothing 😭
That hormone dip that messed with the nervous system is so real and so so so awful 😢 we need extra care I’ve been married 21 years and my husband still can’t and won’t figure it out that we just need some extra care
I put my tracking in my Husband's calendar. I explained (with video proof) that our brains and chemistry change. Now, I get flowers once a mothe because he didn't realize that for a solid week every month, his existence infuriated me and his lack of extra care reinforced it. I told him I chose him and didn't need him so if he chooses or needs me, he better choose to be more caring when his calendar reminder chimes each month. Took 11 years, but he's almost fully trained. 😅
I hate it when they're breathing and making noise. 😂❤
as a trans man at first i was like "oh geeze, drawing lines between what men and women will or won't understand, here we go 🙄"
But it got to the end and i was like "oh. she's right. I could never understand how that is relieving or satisfying. finding im on my period is horrifying and causes dysphoria and dissociation every time." lol
So many comments relating to the video and im like. "this is the most insane thing ever. I cannot understand." Well I am glad some people find a good side to periods 😂
I felt that. Cause it's hard to explain how miserable I feel with my periods (+mental illness) cause "as a man, I am not supposed to act out"
@@theGhostSteward Yeah man, i totally get that "as a man I'm not supposed to... blank" feeling. whether it not supposed to have mood swings, not supposed to have cramps, not supposed to be bleeding, not supposed to a bunch of other nonsense things that aren't necessary connected to periods. It's rough. It goes like, "yeah sure every other man is allowed to cry except me because i have to prove myself." 😭
as an autistic person knowing I'm on my period means knowing I'm going to have a full week of Emotional Disregulation, which I *already have,* turned up to eleven. I don't get the relief aspect personally, but I do understand where it comes from... it is rather affirming to know why you're feeling the way you are.
IM SO EXCITED. Gosh, as a Jett AND Cass fan, both my favorites being in the art terrifies me.
THANK YOU 😊...
I found cutting way down on sugar and salty products... a week before "Tha Arrival" made a huge difference on the stress and tension felt in the body (from bloating) ❤❤❤
Truth be told . May we all just nod. 😊
This is me. I am putting a reminder on my calendar right this minute bc I always forget..and yet it is every month!
I've been doing this for around 8 months now (since it became SOMEWHAT regular)
Gamechanger. Honest gamechanger. Helps me to not rip into colleauges, be more patient when i devoure a whole box of chocolate (or choc-cockies) and to not answer people via text when they REALLY piss me off. I tell them i'm too stressed right now, gonna answer in a few days. What i do, AFTER my period started and the madness vanished away.. 😅❤
Doing this now. Every 28 days! And maybe I'll add a reminder for the week before with a little demon emoji 👹
@@bodyofhope 😄 i use the ⚡️ lightning one 🤟
As someone with bpd and pmds i relate ALOT. But x 100. I acually loose my god damn mind. And somebody breathing in a sertain way (OR CHEWING 😫) just makes my skin crawl and anger me on another level. It have sadly controlled my whole life. But it is better now! I have a spiral so that i have not gotten my period in years 😅. Sorry for my bad english but i think you get the point 😂 And i am glad that you felt better in the morning! ❤
She would be absolutely gorgeous with the right makeup 😊
This is so real and relatable.
I feel this in my soul. Every time aunt flow is making her comute for her visit im the most irrational and irritable person, so much so that i question my sanity until she arrives and the relief knowing im not crazy is amazing
Antacid help with PMDD. TAKE IT A WEEK BEFORE YOUR CYCLE
Look into PMDD! Your story sounds so similar to what I have been going through the past several years, there is hope & ways to manage!! Our cycles should give us strength, not make us ashamed or feel crazy
Yep, same sht every time i forget it's coming🙈
i just wanna say i haven’t seen any of your videos since the panera lemonade video and the difference between you in that and regular you is so vast lol that video was one of the funniest videos i’d seen so thank you. also yes, period validation happened to me last week and it’s an amazing feeling (and then you suffer for days)
😂😂😂 for real tho! When I start feeling like that I’m like oh here come miss ma’am!
I felt thiiiiis!!! Yes yes and yes! Absolutely 100%
“Breathing and making noise” is SOOO RELATABLE
I understand they’re doing nothing but I can’t possibly think straight when they’re just chilling
3rd Option: Calling a psychiatrist… get a tampon… or take a pregnancy test 😅
oooooo, yeah, been there... every month ..😂😂
i love when it goes from angy to "im a terrible person for being angy" to angy again to dam breakage. i swear after that its like brain goes "oh." and calms down. 😂😂
So real. I was sobbing on ft with my bf one day and i thought i was losing it then next day there she wassss
The accuracy that and feeling like I need to see a doctor because I can not stay awake for 2 days straight 3ird day... She was here.
I appreciate the sentiment, but there very much are men who menstruate.
.....how dare he breathe?! The nerve!!!!
.....too bad "mad cow disease" was taken, its more accurate than "pms"
My wife to a T, I love her but Jesus christ if there's a good and all loving God then why the fuck do women have 2 weeks of forced bipolar disorder?! Like dude wtaf and she hates it probably more than I do. Because where I've learned to cope and take anything said in those moments with a grain of salt; she's losing her shit and crying and trying to figure out why she's so sad. At that point I just feel bad because there ain't shit I can do except try and calm her down.
I remember those days. menopause is truly a blessing
Hilarious! And sooooo true! I'm 73 and glad I no longer have to deal with this.
My hyperthyroidism "mirrored bipolar disorder" and got me misdiagnosed as a teenager because of how hard it fucks with your hormones. Big relief when I got it all figured out
Not exactly the same, but dudes can have disregulated hormones too. Life is a wild ass ride
That so funny, but I totally get it. It's always the rage lol
You are hilarious. I’m 52 and ‘the curse’ still catches me by surprise somehow, almost every month. Such a relief when I realize that’s what’s been going on. 😂🙃🤦♀️
Bahahaha somehow sneaks up 😂 I hear you
I relate to this so hard!😂
I have PCOS and Manic Depression, so me getting my 🔴 in these moments is like hitting all 7s in a slot machine window. 😅
Wanting to claw clothes off your skin because everything touching your skin feels horrible happens to me sometimes, I feel like I’m dying. It never occurred to me it could be related to my period 😮
I can never take a person seriously over their problems when they have such beautiful thick hair.
Soooooo relatable!!!!!! Amen that is what it means to be a woman
Thanks for us men understand this bullshit that you guys go through every month. 😂But atleast i am thankful there are women like you who actually explain it 😂
Much respect for not terrorizing your husband with this. Men want to fix things. You recognize it's something he can't fix. But believe me. He knows and he does care.
I’m so proud of Sarah!!!!!! You dead ass inspired my influencer journey. Much love you to you ❤
First time I watched this, I was like what feeling are you talking about and then boom I'm right there with you... today I woke up and yeah yesterday was nuts
This morning my boyfriend noticed that I got my period before I noticed. I had used the toilet during the night and didn’t flush to avoid waking him.
He high-fived me 😂 He was like “yeah, get that demon out!”