Make sure that before going into another relationship you've moved on from your past because it woudn't be fair for the next person that'll love you whole heartedly while a part of you remains stuck in the past.
@@biplabkumar7386 honestly if you truly loved someone I don't think you'll ever fully fall back out your first true love will always hold a place in your heart even if you move on. You loved this person with everything you had a one point. Just like family you love family with everything you have or atleast some family. I know it's different but it's similar like when you then have your own children you'll still love your parents or whatever but you'll love your children more. You wholeheartedly loved someone so they'll always have a peace of your heart in some way or another even when you move on to find someone else to love. Even if you end up loving this person more the other person that was first will always have a place in your heart because they opened your heart to a whole new level of loving they where the one that made you experience it. So I personally don't think you'll ever have them lose a hold of some place of your heart I just think it gets less apparent when you find someone else that you fall in love with. If that makes any sense to anyone.
And that's why healing is important. You need time alone to be able to let go and completely detach from your past. It's lonely, not going to lie. Sometimes I miss being in a relationship, almost go running back to my ex but I know I can't. So, I cry and ask the universe to release the pain. It gets easier as you get stronger the more you sit, feel and let go of that darkness. Don't drag someone else into your mess just to make you feel good. You never will unless you heal. Love the song though😊
And that's why healing is important. You need time alone to be able to let go and completely detach from your past. It's lonely, not going to lie. Sometimes I miss being in a relationship, almost go running back to my ex but I know I can't. So, I cry and ask the universe to release the pain. It gets easier as you get stronger the more you sit, feel and let go of that darkness. Don't drag someone else into your mess just to make you feel good. You never will unless you heal. Love the song though😊
Sadly i could never recover from one of my ex's, only one who made me feel something special, and since i never dated again and it's been a year, i won't be able to ever forget her or forget how much I love her, i tried to get back with her but she definitely moved one, and pretty easily... , I tried to date new girls a few months ago but all i was doing was thinking and comparing her to my one ex that i loved, i don't think there will be enough time in the world for me to forget her completely, i live in constant pain since but i bear it and do what i have to do to go forward, and i have some crushes too, but i don't chase anymore, I've retired from this game ... I'm too fucked up from the previous relationship and that is reality, healing doesn't work the same or doesn't work for some
Well if she is everything you've ever wanted.. I refuse to force myself to love somebody new just to not be alone..being alone sucks but being alone with somebody is worse..
I completely agree. Its been 2 in a half years . I really miss my ex but I'm slowly healing but iv lost my nerve to date every again because I feel she was the one for me I don't know what to do 😢
I agree. After 6 years being in a relationship to get over someone previously and im still not. I wish id never gotten into a relationship bc now its been 6 years and i dont feel how i should feel and idk what i should say….
This song is a prime example of trying to move on before you’ve healed. There are too many relationships built on toxicity and trauma bonds. If you’re in a situation with someone new who is everything you’ve ever wanted, it’s picture perfect, and you don’t want to lose it…well…then hold onto it and don’t let go. If you’re unhealed, and you’re still pining for someone else, that new person will eventually leave bc they know their worth and they are not going to be an option. They know the kind of mutual, reciprocal love they want and deserve. They know they deserve to be a priority and treated right. When the new “perfect” person eventually leaves and you go back to live in your toxic past, guess what? You are going to realize what you had and what you let go of. Most people don’t realize what they have until it’s gone. You will realize you made a HUGE mistake and the regret is gonna hit you so hard knowing you had the most amazing person in your life who was everything you’ve always wanted, but you let it go because of your unhealed traumas and toxic behaviors. When that happens you will realize what a fool you were to hold onto your toxic past, and you will be heartbroken that you lost that new person. If that’s you, then do the work in yourself to heal; and then run back so fast towards that “perfect” person. Fight for that person you had in your life who was perfect for you in every way, but who you lost due to poor choices, unhealed traumas, toxic behaviors, and toxic masculinity/toxic femininity. It may be too late to get them back, it may not be, but if you don’t try you will never know. The right person is worth fighting for so if you have messed up…then apologize, make it up to them, fix it, prove to them you’ve changed, rebuild trust, and show them you truly love them every day. Don’t be the guy in this song. Heal from your past and appreciate the love that comes your way that treats you right, loves you right, and is so good to you. It’s rare, and if you are lucky enough to find it, hold onto it, because it doesn’t come along twice.
@@between_scylla_and_charybdis the best way to do that is to walk away and give that person time and space to heal on their own. In the meantime you heal yourself, work on yourself, take care of your kids, and focus on your life. If you are truly meant to be with them, they will come back when they are healed and ready. Staying together with a toxic unhealed person is not healthy for the relationship. Relationships work best when both people are ready and healed. It’s painful to separate but it’s often necessary for both people to work on themselves and heal. The relationship will be much better when they come back together with the right mindset, healed hearts, and the right heart posture.
Wow that was perfectly said! I am so happy that I have a good friend that I love and care so deeply for and I’m so happy for him to come back to my home to help me out so that we could be able to be closer to each other again and that he can have peace in his heart that I am happy for him because of all of the work he has put in his life to make him better than what he was before he left me and I am very proud of him and all of his efforts to make him the most beautiful person that I have been able to have in my life to have with my heart and I will always love him forever and always. He has a very special bond with me and he has always been my heart and soul but I don’t think that he is going to ever be able to be with me again because of this situation he is going through and I am going to have to leave the house for a while to go to work but I will definitely keep him in my life and I hope he can find a way to stay in my house for the long term so that we can live together and have peace in our lives and be happy for each other again and love each other in the same time we are in the same place that we love each other as we have in the same way that he will be there for the same things that I will always be there for him. I will always love him and he is a very special person that he will always be a very good friend and I know that I will always love and support him in whatever way that I can be.
This is why I want to move on and heal completely before jumping into another relationship. We were together for almost 4 years and its been almost 3 years since we broke up but I'm still on my way to healing. Edit: Its been a year since I commented this and I'm proud to say that I'm fully healed now and already had the courage to risk it again with someone new. So to all those who haven't healed yet, that time will come and you won't even notice it that much.
Almost 2 years in a relationship, now 4 years has passed I'm still healing 🥺 I did try to accept suitors but it's just not working out. 4 years in pain yet he's happily married and already have 1 beautiful daughter. No hate for him we both agree to separate that time due to career we weren't able to manage it, too much pressure as we work in same company, same department. It's really hard but I hope releasing it will make a difference 🤍 may we all heal to the things we cannot explain 🙏
I just happened to see this song and the lyrics hits me so hard. My husband had a very long past relationship (11 years.) She was his childhood sweetheart and her dream. So sad that she left him for another man which I think is my husband has a very big share why she left. We're together, sometimes happy sometimes fighting but deep inside him, behind his super strict aura. I still see the young boy that is so in love with his ex. He might have erased all the memories of them because their parting was painful but the fact remains that in his heart her ex owns the biggest space and me? I'll be the person who stays if he wants me to stay, the person that gave him kids and the person who'll love him unconditionally despite everything, I'll also be that person who will leave him if his ex and him have the perfect time to be together. (Her ex is married with kids too.) You can call me many names still from that moment that I ask God for him to be the one for me one of my many wishes is to make him happy and I think the thing that will make him genuinely happy is with the person he strongly loves... When that perfect moment arrives I will just watch him from the corner, I'll be happy too.
is this what we call woman in love....... you are so strong but i seriously want if that kind of situation ever comes your husband choose you and then you realize that you have created your own place in his heart.
After reading comments , i realised how wise am i to not jump into relationship..i dont regret staying single until i get my love of my life:) I remember my childhood bestfriend have proposed me and i rejected cuz i was not matured enough to be in relationship n i dont wanna end friendship cuz we never knew the future. And so he dated new girl and indeed our friendship still in good terms. And after ye broke up he again approach me again but i rejected again cuz i dont wanna be someone replacement just because we know each other better...and then he started to date another girl again.. and i am still glad to not jump into any relationship either its him or other cuz i dont wanna be part of replacement or traumatized. In conclusion i am happy,optimistic towards my life n goal with no relationship issue...and idk till now if my bestie was genuine about his proposals to me..but i can never accept him after seeing him dating girls in a row
People preach about fully healing and moving on before getting into a new relationship when they tend to forget how the ones in your memories helped shape you into a more mature person for the new person. It's not about leaving the past or forgetting that one person. It's about accepting that the person is gone and this new one, no matter how hard you try to hide it, will bump into those echoes of your ex (and you them), and it is then will you two truly be able work it out or not.
Cherish and appreciate what you have today..the past is the past for a reason...if your lucky enough to have love in your life today you are blessed...glass half full...
I'm crying hearing this songs, the lyrics is hurtful. I know how it feel like to be the that girl on the song he ever wanted, but he still seeing his ex deep down, and maybe he just falling inlove with me to feel how he did with her. To all people out there, please it's never a good thing to used someone or love someone just to moved on from your ex!
I've been in the girls' place and trust me the hurt's still there and it's been almost a year since we last talk. So please, before jumping to a new relationship heal first, or you'll never end the cycle. Be considerate to your new lover as well, think of how it will hurt or even possibly traumatized them. Been there and until now I'm still trying to heal. Feeling positive for the future tho, and I'll be okay. 💗
This song hits me hard, i found someone really special and she means the whole world to me. To me she made me into a better more expressive person, more loving than ever and i wouldn't be here if it weren't for her. It was the best relationship she had ever had, and i made her the happiest women alive, while making me feel happy as well. After a mutual breakup, we went our separate ways, she had things to do and work on for herself while i did the same. I still feel connected to her, and had proof of that. I can tell she's hurting as much as i am, and i cry from time to time because i miss her. we were each other's best friend, and I'm learning to keep going without her by my side. I lost contact with her a few monthes later, and so i wish i can be with her again. No one will compare to her, and I'm still healing. I can't bear the thought of being with someone else, because I'm betraying my heart if i do. So i locked my heart, and day by day i wait for her to comeback and unlock it again.
I haven't tried to love someone new because I know this is what will happen. I know because every good thing doesn't feel as good without her, all the memories I make are filled with a sense of her missing. Happiness is only genuine when being able to love, who the heart loves .
I recently got out of a 3.5-year relationship and it was my fault. I like my friend and he likes me back, but I know that I'm not ready and he understands that. We agreed that if we still like each other after I've recovered, we can be together. It's hard and I haven't moved on yet, but my ex has already gotten into another relationship. I want to take the time to become a better person, love myself again, and have moved on from my ex. The person I like now is absolutely amazing and incredible, and he deserves someone that loves him with all their heart. Lesson: Make sure you have healed and moved on from your ex before falling for someone else. It's wouldn't be fair to them. .....but this song is incredible
You know, I completely healed from the traumas caused by my first ex thinking that my 2nd should deserve my best, after giving my best, being in an yr of relationship with me he told me that he wanted to part our ways and broke up with me saying that he cannot continue our long distance. Which left me shattered and in heavy depression. Is their any suggestion for me?
@@shivikajhaschoice4074 Well, I'm not necessarily an expert so take my advice with a grain of salt. In my opinion, you should do your best to surround yourself with your loved ones, whether it's your family, friends, or even your pet, and try not to dwell too much on everything that happened. I'm so sorry that happened to you, I hope your depression hasn't gotten worse since you left your comment. Just reminisce about good memories and slowly put them away as just memories, and distract yourself with hobbies you love and enjoy! If it gets worse, don't be afraid to reach out for help from a friend or a professional. I know we don't know each other but you don't deserve to feel pain from this. I hope this helped, I just gave you what's working for me currently but it may differ idk. Again, I'm so sorry about everything you had to go through..
"But every second that we're together I still remember the way that you felt" This happened to me 😢I could'nt get him out of my mind and I now have to be single until whenever.
Lyrics ... I thought I saw you in the parking lot at 12:05, as I passed by I thought I heard you say my name but it was just my mind, I swear I'm fine … 'Cause I've been lovin' somebody new It's picture perfect, don't wanna lose it I still feel you on my skin, but I'm with her tonight … She's everything that I've ever wanted She makes me feel like I'm good enough But every second that we're together I still remember the way that you felt … But now that I'm with somebody different Tell me why I'm still seein' you Maybe I'm runnin', fallin' in love with, somebody new To feel how I did with you … I thought I'd sleep a little better if I'm not alone, but I was wrong And I hate it isn't true that I've been drivin' home to It's just not the same … 'Cause I've been lovin' somebody new It's picture perfect, don't wanna lose it But is she only on my skin? 'cause I want you tonight … She's everything that I've ever wanted She makes me feel like I'm good enough But every second that we're together I still remember the way that you felt … But now that I'm with somebody different Tell me why I'm still seein' you Maybe I'm runnin', fallin' in love with, somebody new To feel how I did … When it was your hand, I was holdin' so tight At the foot of your bed, when we swore on our lives Thought I'd finally moved on, fell in love with someone Is it ever gonna feel right? … She's everything that I've ever wanted She makes me feel like I'm good enough But every second that we're together I still remember the way that you felt … But now that I'm with somebody different Tell me why I'm still seein' you Maybe I'm runnin', fallin' in love with, somebody new To feel how I did with you 🥀💞 ~~~
I had listened this song 6and 7 times from this channel and I'm never get tired to listen,and so I put my comment here if someone like it I'll watch it again.❤❤❤LOVE IT💖💖💖💖💖
It's been 7 years but I keep feeling that emptiness from day one where we don't talk to each other anymore. She was truly everything I wanted..I still remember the laughs, the hugs, the kisses and everything in between. I still can't leave it all behind 🌚
Thank you Caleb for such a wonderful song! Some will understand my comment while others will not! Your song apply's to soooo many of us. Now im not just talking about Break up's. im speaking of us, Widower's and widows! Some of us were married many years to our spouces when abruptly they were taken from us! No matter how long we have been healing from our losses when we find another love there is allways a part of us that has feeling of guilt this is something that never goes away but we allways have moments here and there just as your words describe! Glimpses here and there, smells, etc. of things that once were often remind us of our loved ones. Youve touched many heart's with this song! Thank you from the bottom of our heart's!!
The moment you open your heart for somebody new, just know that you've already moved on. Because, there will be no THE OTHER ONE if you really LOVES the first person in the first place.
When I opened UA-cam today, This song was on my recommendation. Then I clicked on it. These lyrics made me crying. My ex & I discussed about same thing in this song yesterday. She told she still wants me but she can't move on from her current love. It's almost a year since our breakup. I still love her but I don't know what to do now. I'm depressed so badly.
Someone once told me.. "no matter how perfect your current relationship is, there's always someone in your past that you cannot forget".. for me, that someone is him..
The melody is so comforting, it contradicts the painful lyrics :< I hope everyone heals and realize something from this. Draw the line especially, if u know ur hurting someone too much..
How many months or a years it takes to move on from someone whom we truly loves from our heart? Cause everytime when I'm with someone new it's always remind me of that person, and it's hurts I can't gave the same love as they do! Sometimes love hurts🙂
Never hurt someone who's love you with all she/he had, while your heart and mind still lingers on your past.. you never know when you'll let them slips away slowly and the moments you realize it, you'll lose something even more precious than your past . The taste of regret is never sweets, my friend.. never ever do that mistakes... Good people rarely come twice...
😞I came here to search for this song that I saw on Facebook reels that I rarely watch videos. I only did because I was hurt and just wanted to busy myself not him. Yet I found this. Does he ever think like this or what we had was nothing? Thank God for His guide🙏🏽
if you are in soul connection, the song might be from him. and if not, the song might be from your Twinflame, the person you are going to meet one day. my Twinflame kept giving me songs when I was crying after my Ex. We met 2 years later ❤️
Exactly, don’t do that to someone else. Stay single, find your purpose, find your true north & that’s when all the right pieces will begin to fall into place, in divine timing, like a magnetized puzzle, fitting back all the parts of a formerly broken heart 💔 🥺🫶🏻
This is the exact reason I gave him another chance. I could of moved on but I knew in my heart this is how I would feel if I was with someone else. No one can ever have my heart like he does.
This song is sooo beautiful ❤️ the lyrics, the voice the melody... The meaning... Everything is perfect❤️ it's the last couple of hours of my 19th b'day and I'm glad I found this gem of a singer on such a special day to me❤️ new follower Wishing you all the best for the future ❤️
I'm honestly feeling so numb right now he cleared the history of our messages but to me it felt like he ended the history we had . I love him like everything.Whenever he seem's sad I get sad too ,whenever he smile's automatically there's a smile too .I don't know how did I even get so serious for someone but now I can't afford to loose him .He is the only one who held me tight when there was noone around.But now that he needs someone to hold onto I couldn't keep up the courage to be that someone for him.I know it's preety late but how could I ever accept that it's the end to us?How could I be in denial that you won't talk to me ever again?Please come back to me.
Mijn lieve Walther van mij! Wij hadden toch beloofd dat we bij elkaar zouden blijven. Ik wil bij jouzijn voor altijd! Want jij bent de grote liefde van mijn leven! Ik wil niemand anders dan jij!
Sad thing about this is that the man I am in love with would be singing this. I was the girl he was with, when he realized it, he left me. We are friends but I still love him. It hurts so much, not just because he is still in love with the other girl, but because he’s hurting. I just wish we could go back to when we first met..he’s on my mind 24/7 while she’s on his mind. It hurts so much but I understand that it’s hard to get over someone you loved that much. It has already been two years sense she broke his heart, I wish I could help him but I can’t.
The person i planned to spend my life with passed away and the person im with now is amazing, i love him a lot, he was also best friends with the person i lost. So we share that pain and he understands in such an amazing way that its ok for me to feel like this sometimes and miss my first love. ❤️💔 but, i did make sure before i jumped in that i wasnt doing it just to feel closer to the one i lost but also becuz i just love him for who he is, so the aspect of only thinking of the other person isnt tru in my case.
Sorry once you give your whole heart and all of you, you will never ever be truly over that love, that's why we're not meant to give our hearts to just anyone we can't. God told us about this thousands of years ago and hey a tip it hasn't changed so Love your Partner through everything, up downs left rights, if you can't fo this don't bother falling because it's dommed from go
sending hugs to the people who were hurt by this kind of people. I know they were trying to move on too, but you don't deserve being treated as a projection of someone else. (i've never even been in a relationship but this hurts)
This is why we are all so messed up with trust issues because no one ever really heals from the last person they were with. It’s not fair. 😢 Heal before you move on and give all of your heart to the next not half of it.
I've been in the shoes of the girl who was just there to make him happy but never really the person he needed. We sleep beside each other and he tells me he dreamed about her.
This song hits hard... Moving on is hard for us all. It may take years or maybe even never. But don't jump into a relationship because you miss your ex or just not wanting to feel alone. Not fair to the other person if you're having thoughts of an ex. It's been well over a year for me with my ex. While I feel I have moved on for the most part, I still have thoughts of the good times we had and miss them a lot or even thinking about the bad times and regrets This makes it especially hard with the fact she was my first. A lot of experiences we had together are very intertwined with a lot of things so it's like how can you not think about them? When I first broke up with her, I couldn't watch any tv shows or movies that had couples in them, going to the convenience store for snacks and just stuff like that. It would break me down uncontrollably because we did a lot of everything together so It felt new to me but in a sad way when doing things alone. I've definitely healed in this aspect without thinking of her and getting sad. But what gets me is at random times, I miss having that companionship. I want someone to hug, someone to go home to talk about my day, celebrate accomplishments or just the little things with, and watch movies together. I have someone I am Interested in but I'm scared to initiate because I don't want to hurt her because of me thinking of my ex. For example, what if we kissed and I think of my ex and just start crying? That's the fear I have. I'm just so scared of doing intimate things with someone else when all my intimate experiences have only been with one person. Idk if it's rational to be having that thought but I feel I have moved on but because of my intimate experiences with only being with one person, I fear doing it with someone else because I don't know what will go through my mind if it happens and I definitely don't want to have my ex rushing through my mind in those times which is why I'm holding off from trying to get close with someone. Ahhh I'm rambling and repeating what I'm saying. If you read this, have you got any tips, random stranger?
I feel the same and not being in any new relationships cause of the past triggers well though we have an ex in mind doesn't mean they stay in forever its been 3 years since my break up its very hard in the beginning as of now also feel like it doesn't hurt as much as it did in the beginning also love will find a way to our heart just be patient..... Time heals everything but don't just rush into new just heal urself first 🙂
Moving on is hard, I believe a part of you will always love her and that’s okay. It’s difficult being with someone new and opening your heart all over again, but if you really are interested in this other girl then you should go for it! Don’t let your past hold you back, you should be allowed to love and be with whoever you choose. I’ve gone through a similar relationship and he was my first love, it took me three years to get over him. It gets easier as time goes on, be patient with yourself. We all have fears and doubts, but we should all have a little faith. I believe in you and if you think you’re ready for someone new then I’d say go for it. If not, then that just means you need more time to heal and that’s okay too. (:
Try this: Imagine you are trapped under the rubble after a massive earthquake..not knowing if people would rescue you or making it out alive..would you be trapped thinking about your lost love or would you swear to fight for your life and never look back if you ever make it alive. Hopefully you will find your answer and not waste your life away
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Make sure that before going into another relationship you've moved on from your past because it woudn't be fair for the next person that'll love you whole heartedly while a part of you remains stuck in the past.
Totally agree 😢
But how do you move on from the person you once loved whole heartedly
@@biplabkumar7386 honestly if you truly loved someone I don't think you'll ever fully fall back out your first true love will always hold a place in your heart even if you move on. You loved this person with everything you had a one point. Just like family you love family with everything you have or atleast some family. I know it's different but it's similar like when you then have your own children you'll still love your parents or whatever but you'll love your children more. You wholeheartedly loved someone so they'll always have a peace of your heart in some way or another even when you move on to find someone else to love. Even if you end up loving this person more the other person that was first will always have a place in your heart because they opened your heart to a whole new level of loving they where the one that made you experience it. So I personally don't think you'll ever have them lose a hold of some place of your heart I just think it gets less apparent when you find someone else that you fall in love with.
If that makes any sense to anyone.
@@sophielees yeah soo true dear
Agreed!!
"Heal from your past or you'll bleed on those who didn't cut you"
Your right, its just so sad that some people are using someone to move on.
sasaktan Karin ulit😢
Who taught me this quote? ❤
I moved on years ago but it all behind me but I worry and sense he’s not quite ready.
And that's why healing is important. You need time alone to be able to let go and completely detach from your past. It's lonely, not going to lie. Sometimes I miss being in a relationship, almost go running back to my ex but I know I can't. So, I cry and ask the universe to release the pain. It gets easier as you get stronger the more you sit, feel and let go of that darkness. Don't drag someone else into your mess just to make you feel good. You never will unless you heal. Love the song though😊
And that's why healing is important. You need time alone to be able to let go and completely detach from your past. It's lonely, not going to lie. Sometimes I miss being in a relationship, almost go running back to my ex but I know I can't. So, I cry and ask the universe to release the pain. It gets easier as you get stronger the more you sit, feel and let go of that darkness. Don't drag someone else into your mess just to make you feel good. You never will unless you heal. Love the song though😊
Your comment gave me hope...and I'll remember this forever
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Sadly i could never recover from one of my ex's, only one who made me feel something special, and since i never dated again and it's been a year, i won't be able to ever forget her or forget how much I love her, i tried to get back with her but she definitely moved one, and pretty easily... , I tried to date new girls a few months ago but all i was doing was thinking and comparing her to my one ex that i loved, i don't think there will be enough time in the world for me to forget her completely, i live in constant pain since but i bear it and do what i have to do to go forward, and i have some crushes too, but i don't chase anymore, I've retired from this game ... I'm too fucked up from the previous relationship and that is reality, healing doesn't work the same or doesn't work for some
This is so me😪
I keep running back to my ex in as much as I know it's not my safe space.
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I was a sheltered homeless person , living on the beach in Hawaii struggled with alcohol & drug's. Jesus Christ healed me from all affliction. TYJ
That's really great! 🤍
That’s awesome! Jesus is Great
@@scola.sticker 😢😮
@@Lorignaltv yeah?
Amen! Jesus lives! 🙏🏼🤍🤍
Well if she is everything you've ever wanted..
I refuse to force myself to love somebody new just to not be alone..being alone sucks but being alone with somebody is worse..
This
I completely agree. Its been 2 in a half years . I really miss my ex but I'm slowly healing but iv lost my nerve to date every again because I feel she was the one for me I don't know what to do 😢
I agree. After 6 years being in a relationship to get over someone previously and im still not. I wish id never gotten into a relationship bc now its been 6 years and i dont feel how i should feel and idk what i should say….
This sound is so wonderful. The person who is reading this comment, I wish you great success, health, love and happiness!
Thank you ❤
I wish you u all the best as well ❤❤
The moment he sang “to feel how I did with you”, my heart shattered
I feel the same...😔
Same 🥺
@@reshmapai6326 have u heard this song?
ua-cam.com/video/XAZgjclptAk/v-deo.html
me too
This song is a prime example of trying to move on before you’ve healed. There are too many relationships built on toxicity and trauma bonds. If you’re in a situation with someone new who is everything you’ve ever wanted, it’s picture perfect, and you don’t want to lose it…well…then hold onto it and don’t let go.
If you’re unhealed, and you’re still pining for someone else, that new person will eventually leave bc they know their worth and they are not going to be an option. They know the kind of mutual, reciprocal love they want and deserve. They know they deserve to be a priority and treated right.
When the new “perfect” person eventually leaves and you go back to live in your toxic past, guess what? You are going to realize what you had and what you let go of. Most people don’t realize what they have until it’s gone. You will realize you made a HUGE mistake and the regret is gonna hit you so hard knowing you had the most amazing person in your life who was everything you’ve always wanted, but you let it go because of your unhealed traumas and toxic behaviors.
When that happens you will realize what a fool you were to hold onto your toxic past, and you will be heartbroken that you lost that new person.
If that’s you, then do the work in yourself to heal; and then run back so fast towards that “perfect” person. Fight for that person you had in your life who was perfect for you in every way, but who you lost due to poor choices, unhealed traumas, toxic behaviors, and toxic masculinity/toxic femininity.
It may be too late to get them back, it may not be, but if you don’t try you will never know. The right person is worth fighting for so if you have messed up…then apologize, make it up to them, fix it, prove to them you’ve changed, rebuild trust, and show them you truly love them every day.
Don’t be the guy in this song. Heal from your past and appreciate the love that comes your way that treats you right, loves you right, and is so good to you. It’s rare, and if you are lucky enough to find it, hold onto it, because it doesn’t come along twice.
@@between_scylla_and_charybdis the best way to do that is to walk away and give that person time and space to heal on their own. In the meantime you heal yourself, work on yourself, take care of your kids, and focus on your life. If you are truly meant to be with them, they will come back when they are healed and ready. Staying together with a toxic unhealed person is not healthy for the relationship.
Relationships work best when both people are ready and healed. It’s painful to separate but it’s often necessary for both people to work on themselves and heal. The relationship will be much better when they come back together with the right mindset, healed hearts, and the right heart posture.
So true...Thank you for this comment!
Wow that was perfectly said! I am so happy that I have a good friend that I love and care so deeply for and I’m so happy for him to come back to my home to help me out so that we could be able to be closer to each other again and that he can have peace in his heart that I am happy for him because of all of the work he has put in his life to make him better than what he was before he left me and I am very proud of him and all of his efforts to make him the most beautiful person that I have been able to have in my life to have with my heart and I will always love him forever and always. He has a very special bond with me and he has always been my heart and soul but I don’t think that he is going to ever be able to be with me again because of this situation he is going through and I am going to have to leave the house for a while to go to work but I will definitely keep him in my life and I hope he can find a way to stay in my house for the long term so that we can live together and have peace in our lives and be happy for each other again and love each other in the same time we are in the same place that we love each other as we have in the same way that he will be there for the same things that I will always be there for him. I will always love him and he is a very special person that he will always be a very good friend and I know that I will always love and support him in whatever way that I can be.
This is why I want to move on and heal completely before jumping into another relationship. We were together for almost 4 years and its been almost 3 years since we broke up but I'm still on my way to healing.
Edit: Its been a year since I commented this and I'm proud to say that I'm fully healed now and already had the courage to risk it again with someone new. So to all those who haven't healed yet, that time will come and you won't even notice it that much.
Same here 🥺
I'm proud of you
May you heal soon and find someone who truly loves you and you do the same
Almost 2 years in a relationship, now 4 years has passed I'm still healing 🥺 I did try to accept suitors but it's just not working out.
4 years in pain yet he's happily married and already have 1 beautiful daughter. No hate for him we both agree to separate that time due to career we weren't able to manage it, too much pressure as we work in same company, same department. It's really hard but I hope releasing it will make a difference 🤍 may we all heal to the things we cannot explain 🙏
You're doing great
I just happened to see this song and the lyrics hits me so hard. My husband had a very long past relationship (11 years.) She was his childhood sweetheart and her dream. So sad that she left him for another man which I think is my husband has a very big share why she left. We're together, sometimes happy sometimes fighting but deep inside him, behind his super strict aura. I still see the young boy that is so in love with his ex. He might have erased all the memories of them because their parting was painful but the fact remains that in his heart her ex owns the biggest space and me? I'll be the person who stays if he wants me to stay, the person that gave him kids and the person who'll love him unconditionally despite everything, I'll also be that person who will leave him if his ex and him have the perfect time to be together. (Her ex is married with kids too.) You can call me many names still from that moment that I ask God for him to be the one for me one of my many wishes is to make him happy and I think the thing that will make him genuinely happy is with the person he strongly loves... When that perfect moment arrives I will just watch him from the corner, I'll be happy too.
You are an angel. You deserve all the happiness in the world. Sending hugs in your way.
@@aivygile3569 Thank you, It means a lot to me.🫶
You deserve the world
@@varadgauthankar Thank you.🫶
is this what we call woman in love....... you are so strong but i seriously want if that kind of situation ever comes your husband choose you and then you realize that you have created your own place in his heart.
After reading comments , i realised how wise am i to not jump into relationship..i dont regret staying single until i get my love of my life:) I remember my childhood bestfriend have proposed me and i rejected cuz i was not matured enough to be in relationship n i dont wanna end friendship cuz we never knew the future. And so he dated new girl and indeed our friendship still in good terms. And after ye broke up he again approach me again but i rejected again cuz i dont wanna be someone replacement just because we know each other better...and then he started to date another girl again.. and i am still glad to not jump into any relationship either its him or other cuz i dont wanna be part of replacement or traumatized. In conclusion i am happy,optimistic towards my life n goal with no relationship issue...and idk till now if my bestie was genuine about his proposals to me..but i can never accept him after seeing him dating girls in a row
Full respects to you ❤
She was neither a price or a trophy to win . She is the reason why I'm living .
“Cause I’ve been loving somebody new” you need Jesus and he needs you
People preach about fully healing and moving on before getting into a new relationship when they tend to forget how the ones in your memories helped shape you into a more mature person for the new person. It's not about leaving the past or forgetting that one person. It's about accepting that the person is gone and this new one, no matter how hard you try to hide it, will bump into those echoes of your ex (and you them), and it is then will you two truly be able work it out or not.
Anyone feeling like this, stay single till you heal. Please do not give another person heart break when you are suffering from one. Be kind.❤
i don't want to feel like this, that's why i'm not jumping into a new relationship until i have fully healed from my past ones.
Cherish and appreciate what you have today..the past is the past for a reason...if your lucky enough to have love in your life today you are blessed...glass half full...
Never ever make someone as your rebound or be someone’s rebound. That’s just painful💔
I'm crying hearing this songs, the lyrics is hurtful. I know how it feel like to be the that girl on the song he ever wanted, but he still seeing his ex deep down, and maybe he just falling inlove with me to feel how he did with her. To all people out there, please it's never a good thing to used someone or love someone just to moved on from your ex!
Aww you dont deserve that kind of guy, girl. I pray and hope youll find someone true and love you for YOU. God bless
I've been in the girls' place and trust me the hurt's still there and it's been almost a year since we last talk. So please, before jumping to a new relationship heal first, or you'll never end the cycle. Be considerate to your new lover as well, think of how it will hurt or even possibly traumatized them. Been there and until now I'm still trying to heal. Feeling positive for the future tho, and I'll be okay. 💗
This song hits me hard, i found someone really special and she means the whole world to me. To me she made me into a better more expressive person, more loving than ever and i wouldn't be here if it weren't for her. It was the best relationship she had ever had, and i made her the happiest women alive, while making me feel happy as well. After a mutual breakup, we went our separate ways, she had things to do and work on for herself while i did the same. I still feel connected to her, and had proof of that. I can tell she's hurting as much as i am, and i cry from time to time because i miss her. we were each other's best friend, and I'm learning to keep going without her by my side. I lost contact with her a few monthes later, and so i wish i can be with her again. No one will compare to her, and I'm still healing. I can't bear the thought of being with someone else, because I'm betraying my heart if i do. So i locked my heart, and day by day i wait for her to comeback and unlock it again.
I haven't tried to love someone new because I know this is what will happen.
I know because every good thing doesn't feel as good without her, all the memories I make are filled with a sense of her missing. Happiness is only genuine when being able to love, who the heart loves .
I recently got out of a 3.5-year relationship and it was my fault. I like my friend and he likes me back, but I know that I'm not ready and he understands that. We agreed that if we still like each other after I've recovered, we can be together. It's hard and I haven't moved on yet, but my ex has already gotten into another relationship. I want to take the time to become a better person, love myself again, and have moved on from my ex. The person I like now is absolutely amazing and incredible, and he deserves someone that loves him with all their heart.
Lesson: Make sure you have healed and moved on from your ex before falling for someone else. It's wouldn't be fair to them.
.....but this song is incredible
You know, I completely healed from the traumas caused by my first ex thinking that my 2nd should deserve my best, after giving my best, being in an yr of relationship with me he told me that he wanted to part our ways and broke up with me saying that he cannot continue our long distance. Which left me shattered and in heavy depression. Is their any suggestion for me?
@@shivikajhaschoice4074 Well, I'm not necessarily an expert so take my advice with a grain of salt. In my opinion, you should do your best to surround yourself with your loved ones, whether it's your family, friends, or even your pet, and try not to dwell too much on everything that happened. I'm so sorry that happened to you, I hope your depression hasn't gotten worse since you left your comment. Just reminisce about good memories and slowly put them away as just memories, and distract yourself with hobbies you love and enjoy! If it gets worse, don't be afraid to reach out for help from a friend or a professional. I know we don't know each other but you don't deserve to feel pain from this. I hope this helped, I just gave you what's working for me currently but it may differ idk. Again, I'm so sorry about everything you had to go through..
@@shivikajhaschoice4074 what kind of trauma experience you have with your first ex. Is everything alright now?
"But every second that we're together I still remember the way that you felt" This happened to me 😢I could'nt get him out of my mind and I now have to be single until whenever.
Never rush to new relationship if you're not ready. Never play with the heart ❤️
This is right 👍
Lyrics
... I thought I saw you in the parking lot at 12:05, as I passed by
I thought I heard you say my name but it was just my mind, I swear I'm fine
… 'Cause I've been lovin' somebody new
It's picture perfect, don't wanna lose it
I still feel you on my skin, but I'm with her tonight
… She's everything that I've ever wanted
She makes me feel like I'm good enough
But every second that we're together
I still remember the way that you felt
… But now that I'm with somebody different
Tell me why I'm still seein' you
Maybe I'm runnin', fallin' in love with, somebody new
To feel how I did with you
… I thought I'd sleep a little better if I'm not alone, but I was wrong
And I hate it isn't true that I've been drivin' home to
It's just not the same
… 'Cause I've been lovin' somebody new
It's picture perfect, don't wanna lose it
But is she only on my skin? 'cause I want you tonight
… She's everything that I've ever wanted
She makes me feel like I'm good enough
But every second that we're together
I still remember the way that you felt
… But now that I'm with somebody different
Tell me why I'm still seein' you
Maybe I'm runnin', fallin' in love with, somebody new
To feel how I did
… When it was your hand, I was holdin' so tight
At the foot of your bed, when we swore on our lives
Thought I'd finally moved on, fell in love with someone
Is it ever gonna feel right?
… She's everything that I've ever wanted
She makes me feel like I'm good enough
But every second that we're together
I still remember the way that you felt
… But now that I'm with somebody different
Tell me why I'm still seein' you
Maybe I'm runnin', fallin' in love with, somebody new
To feel how I did with you
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litterly has it in the vid but ok
@@dylanleal999 some people like to know what the next lyric is makes it easier to sing along I guess 🤷♀️
Adea khasi ruh don taste mo ha music ..
@@auggiean1734 bro😊😊
Thanks
Just like Dean Lewis likes to write.
You gave us a perfect story that we pictured in our heads as we kept listening.
I had listened this song 6and 7 times from this channel and I'm never get tired to listen,and so I put my comment here if someone like it I'll watch it again.❤❤❤LOVE IT💖💖💖💖💖
Feel sad for the girl he’s with. It’s not fair for her to love with her whole heart just to remind him of how good his ex was.
As song writers we write about experiences and sometimes we get carried away in a story so most likely it's been a creative instinct
That was me
yes it sounds like a glimpse of us too
@@sela1847 exactly + its kinda annoying
True
You never forget your first true love.
There’s always that one person you can’t get over even if you learn to love another.
Or it is just about the amount of trauma that one person gave you that is what u didn't get over yet
I'm very glad this got recommended to me, I haven't been hearing newer good songs like these in a while! Beautiful song
Aku tahu kamu juga terluka, tp sebelum berpindah hati, pastikan kamu tak lagi menengok kebelakang krna itu akan menciptakan luka bagi org lain
Your music is therapy!! All your songs are about simple things in life. The lyrics are just GOLD!!
Sometimes it's good to be single...no complications no dramas. Love thy self first.
It's been 7 years but I keep feeling that emptiness from day one where we don't talk to each other anymore. She was truly everything I wanted..I still remember the laughs, the hugs, the kisses and everything in between. I still can't leave it all behind 🌚
Give yourself some time and space to heal. Don't rush everything because what's meant to you will always find it's way back to you.
This is the song that gave me strength to finally walk away ❤❤💯
Had been in this situation and now i lost both 😢and now i am stuck here all alone , just by myself
This song makes you realize a lot of things and the lyrics is well written as the song itself sound good.
Thank you Caleb for such a wonderful song! Some will understand my comment while others will not! Your song apply's to soooo many of us. Now im not just talking about Break up's. im speaking of us, Widower's and widows! Some of us were married many years to our spouces when abruptly they were taken from us! No matter how long we have been healing from our losses when we find another love there is allways a part of us that has feeling of guilt this is something that never goes away but we allways have moments here and there just as your words describe! Glimpses here and there, smells, etc. of things that once were often remind us of our loved ones. Youve touched many heart's with this song! Thank you from the bottom of our heart's!!
I'm not a widow but it's such a touching story and I felt a little bit of that hope you guys are strong enough to stil life on ❤😢❤❤❤
The moment you open your heart for somebody new, just know that you've already moved on. Because, there will be no THE OTHER ONE if you really LOVES the first person in the first place.
True
When I opened UA-cam today, This song was on my recommendation. Then I clicked on it. These lyrics made me crying. My ex & I discussed about same thing in this song yesterday. She told she still wants me but she can't move on from her current love. It's almost a year since our breakup. I still love her but I don't know what to do now. I'm depressed so badly.
Someone once told me.. "no matter how perfect your current relationship is, there's always someone in your past that you cannot forget".. for me, that someone is him..
Feel your feelings. Acknowledge that sadness but be loyal to the one your with and move on treasuring their love. ❤
Amazing song, definitely touching deepest spot in my heart.
Why man’s always suffering from love ❤️ in so beautiful way ?
Sakit plak hati aq dgr lgu ni. Klau tk move on lgi jgn bercinta laa oitt
Beautiful song and lyrics
Whyyyyy Am I cryinggggggg!? 😭😭 Why does this hurt so much!? I don't understand anymore 😭
The melody is so comforting, it contradicts the painful lyrics :<
I hope everyone heals and realize something from this. Draw the line especially, if u know ur hurting someone too much..
Okay! Congratulations for your somebody new! Be happy with her dear! Now i'm nobody to you!
How many months or a years it takes to move on from someone whom we truly loves from our heart? Cause everytime when I'm with someone new it's always remind me of that person, and it's hurts I can't gave the same love as they do! Sometimes love hurts🙂
Never hurt someone who's love you with all she/he had, while your heart and mind still lingers on your past.. you never know when you'll let them slips away slowly and the moments you realize it, you'll lose something even more precious than your past . The taste of regret is never sweets, my friend.. never ever do that mistakes... Good people rarely come twice...
"she's everything I've ever wanted" and "glimpse of us" sit together at the cafeteria lunch table.
I love him
also with "lips of an angel"
😢
it's unfair
+ be my mistake by the 1975
seeing your failure as something to learn from and accept the good taken from it and move forward doing better so you don't hurt the next person
😞I came here to search for this song that I saw on Facebook reels that I rarely watch videos. I only did because I was hurt and just wanted to busy myself not him. Yet I found this. Does he ever think like this or what we had was nothing?
Thank God for His guide🙏🏽
if you are in soul connection, the song might be from him. and if not, the song might be from your Twinflame, the person you are going to meet one day. my Twinflame kept giving me songs when I was crying after my Ex. We met 2 years later ❤️
And He is EVERYTHING i want too 🥺
Hope both r still together. ..😢..bcz ..this world is really cruel 🥺😣
This song means something to me I'm single now because I got hurt in a relationship I can't trust No one No more I need someone to talk to please
@@between_scylla_and_charybdis I just need someone to talk to please
Exactly, don’t do that to someone else. Stay single, find your purpose, find your true north & that’s when all the right pieces will begin to fall into place, in divine timing, like a magnetized puzzle, fitting back all the parts of a formerly broken heart 💔 🥺🫶🏻
Kikemsang i always see you even tho you're far far away from me🙌
This hits haaaaard
“Dont give your heart to someone has a broken one”
Whatever, I love this song ❤
I saw it on facebook. You're so great.
Sheet here was I thinking I was needy. Cudos uso...you the man.
This is the exact reason I gave him another chance. I could of moved on but I knew in my heart this is how I would feel if I was with someone else. No one can ever have my heart like he does.
This song is sooo beautiful ❤️ the lyrics, the voice the melody... The meaning... Everything is perfect❤️ it's the last couple of hours of my 19th b'day and I'm glad I found this gem of a singer on such a special day to me❤️ new follower Wishing you all the best for the future ❤️
I'm honestly feeling so numb right now he cleared the history of our messages but to me it felt like he ended the history we had . I love him like everything.Whenever he seem's sad I get sad too ,whenever he smile's automatically there's a smile too .I don't know how did I even get so serious for someone but now I can't afford to loose him .He is the only one who held me tight when there was noone around.But now that he needs someone to hold onto I couldn't keep up the courage to be that someone for him.I know it's preety late but how could I ever accept that it's the end to us?How could I be in denial that you won't talk to me ever again?Please come back to me.
talk of lyric heavy!!!!.....this is so deep runs into the core of being, feeling, intrigue @ caleb hearn you spoke feeling to existence/reality check
she's literally everything I've ever wanted❤️
Mijn lieve Walther van mij! Wij hadden toch beloofd dat we bij elkaar zouden blijven. Ik wil bij jouzijn voor altijd! Want jij bent de grote liefde van mijn leven! Ik wil niemand anders dan jij!
Sad thing about this is that the man I am in love with would be singing this. I was the girl he was with, when he realized it, he left me. We are friends but I still love him. It hurts so much, not just because he is still in love with the other girl, but because he’s hurting. I just wish we could go back to when we first met..he’s on my mind 24/7 while she’s on his mind. It hurts so much but I understand that it’s hard to get over someone you loved that much. It has already been two years sense she broke his heart, I wish I could help him but I can’t.
I understand. You deserve better 🫶
Not me but happy for them. Glad he found his boo. Lol. They been partners years. Happy 4 em
The person i planned to spend my life with passed away and the person im with now is amazing, i love him a lot, he was also best friends with the person i lost. So we share that pain and he understands in such an amazing way that its ok for me to feel like this sometimes and miss my first love. ❤️💔 but, i did make sure before i jumped in that i wasnt doing it just to feel closer to the one i lost but also becuz i just love him for who he is, so the aspect of only thinking of the other person isnt tru in my case.
Sorry once you give your whole heart and all of you, you will never ever be truly over that love, that's why we're not meant to give our hearts to just anyone we can't. God told us about this thousands of years ago and hey a tip it hasn't changed so Love your Partner through everything, up downs left rights, if you can't fo this don't bother falling because it's dommed from go
Oh my, this song is not only sad, it's also very painful.
sending hugs to the people who were hurt by this kind of people. I know they were trying to move on too, but you don't deserve being treated as a projection of someone else. (i've never even been in a relationship but this hurts)
sometimes moving on can get too difficult. Nothing works except someone else's love to heal it
My 🧸 is most definitely holding everything I've ever wanted... I love you leighann 4 yrs and still growing together 😘
o - o
the opening music was beautiful. You kept me with just the instrumental
he’s everything i’ve ever wanted
This is why we are all so messed up with trust issues because no one ever really heals from the last person they were with. It’s not fair. 😢 Heal before you move on and give all of your heart to the next not half of it.
It is so true…..LIFE GOES ON for the living, no matter what.
I wonder how can someone love somebody so much that they try to describe them like this man describes his women 🥺
If you love someone that much... No one will ever compare. Go back to the other one!
So true it is not fair to the new person to compete with your past
You have such a beautiful voice😍😍
You have a wonderful way with words …
Forever shivu 💜♾️....not like today's mens 💜♾️🔒
First time hearing this. Just jumped in and sang along. Blessings and Love 🙏❤️🙌👏👏
Esta canción es genial!
Hope the right man find this song when he already sure about his girl😇💗
Omg I've been waiting for this since I saw the chorus on Instagram
She's everything Ive ever wanted
I've been in the shoes of the girl who was just there to make him happy but never really the person he needed. We sleep beside each other and he tells me he dreamed about her.
This just made me cry. I can't believe that I haven't heard of you yet- like bro i've been missing out on this
Felt the lyrics to my core 🖤
This song hits hard... Moving on is hard for us all. It may take years or maybe even never. But don't jump into a relationship because you miss your ex or just not wanting to feel alone. Not fair to the other person if you're having thoughts of an ex.
It's been well over a year for me with my ex. While I feel I have moved on for the most part, I still have thoughts of the good times we had and miss them a lot or even thinking about the bad times and regrets This makes it especially hard with the fact she was my first. A lot of experiences we had together are very intertwined with a lot of things so it's like how can you not think about them? When I first broke up with her, I couldn't watch any tv shows or movies that had couples in them, going to the convenience store for snacks and just stuff like that. It would break me down uncontrollably because we did a lot of everything together so It felt new to me but in a sad way when doing things alone. I've definitely healed in this aspect without thinking of her and getting sad. But what gets me is at random times, I miss having that companionship. I want someone to hug, someone to go home to talk about my day, celebrate accomplishments or just the little things with, and watch movies together. I have someone I am Interested in but I'm scared to initiate because I don't want to hurt her because of me thinking of my ex. For example, what if we kissed and I think of my ex and just start crying? That's the fear I have. I'm just so scared of doing intimate things with someone else when all my intimate experiences have only been with one person. Idk if it's rational to be having that thought but I feel I have moved on but because of my intimate experiences with only being with one person, I fear doing it with someone else because I don't know what will go through my mind if it happens and I definitely don't want to have my ex rushing through my mind in those times which is why I'm holding off from trying to get close with someone. Ahhh I'm rambling and repeating what I'm saying. If you read this, have you got any tips, random stranger?
I feel the same and not being in any new relationships cause of the past triggers well though we have an ex in mind doesn't mean they stay in forever its been 3 years since my break up its very hard in the beginning as of now also feel like it doesn't hurt as much as it did in the beginning also love will find a way to our heart just be patient..... Time heals everything but don't just rush into new just heal urself first 🙂
Moving on is hard, I believe a part of you will always love her and that’s okay. It’s difficult being with someone new and opening your heart all over again, but if you really are interested in this other girl then you should go for it! Don’t let your past hold you back, you should be allowed to love and be with whoever you choose. I’ve gone through a similar relationship and he was my first love, it took me three years to get over him. It gets easier as time goes on, be patient with yourself. We all have fears and doubts, but we should all have a little faith. I believe in you and if you think you’re ready for someone new then I’d say go for it. If not, then that just means you need more time to heal and that’s okay too. (:
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Try this:
Imagine you are trapped under the rubble after a massive earthquake..not knowing if people would rescue you or making it out alive..would you be trapped thinking about your lost love or would you swear to fight for your life and never look back if you ever make it alive. Hopefully you will find your answer and not waste your life away
No because I’m also struggling with this
Past is a place to visit not a place to stay.