Assalamu Alaykum Sister Please can you do a video on how to deal with body insecurity in marriage? How to feel confident in your ownself. Jazakillahu khairan
I am a fairly new mom too - I have 5 month old twins. I had to make up last Ramadan and pumping helped maintain a good supply of breast milk for my babies. I plan to fast this Ramadan in sha'Allah. Excellent advice!
As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, JazakiAllahu khair for this video! May Allah swt give us a great and successful Ramadan! Allahuma ameen!!
Salaams I missed your content!! MashaAllah I’m so glad you’ve had a little girl! I’ve also had a baby boy recently and planning on fasting whilst breastfeeding too! May Allah make it easy for us Ameen. Love the mum content x
Beautiful sister, much respect. Alhamdulilah! Always right on time, right after Dhuhr. I drank Milk Thistle and Fennel tea helped me produce an abundance of milk when I nursed. I nursed my first for 3 years and my second for two years, Alhamdulilah. Thank you for sharing❤
Sounds very interesting I will research on that insha’Allah. Thank you very much for sharing and well done on your nursing for that amount of years,😮 it’s so commendable
@@NafisasPearlz 🤣♥️thank you so much. It was difficult at the beginning for sure. It was a pleasure to know I was giving them the best milk for their bodies. I had the guidance of my midwife but, I studied herbs for years when I was younger for health reasons. Western medicine has always scared me. The Milk thistle and fennel is safe for momma and baby. It also helps with colic the baby may be dealing with from time to time. Though some babies are more colicky than others. This was years ago for me. I know there are guidelines in Islam and I am still learning. So, I know you would know if the herbs are permissible or not. They are natural and not altered. It is just the plant dried. It is a beautiful journey and you are a such an amazing human being. Your daughter is so blessed to have such wonderful human beings and Muslims for parents, Alhamdulilah 🤲🏽♥️.
My little son will be disabled for life. My other baby is waiting for the diagnosis. Im a revert. I had a life full of family problems. I converted young. 4 y ago i left everything, my friends, job, part of family. Everything for the sake of Allah. Im struggling with my imaan. And I know its haram to think like this but I feel unloved and betrayed by Allah. Please make duaa for me.
my dear ukht you are not unloved by Him subhanAllah! your care and perseverance towards your children could be your entrance to a lofty rank in Jannah. May Allah make your struggles easy for you sis Ameen, continue making dua to maintain your imaan💗
My dear, it is normal to feel sadness for this news but do not let shaitan use it as an opportunity for you to lose your faith. You will be a great mother insha’Allah. May Allah make your journey in motherhood smooth and a means for you to enter Jannahtul Firdaus. ❤
Jzk Nasifa ❤. So excited for Ramadan🎉 May Allah help us to see it and be successful, Ameeen. Please when you make your video on meal preparing can you give tips for those who wish to try it for the first time. Jzk sister ❤
SubhanaAllah!!!! Thanks for sharing as always such beneficial knowledge videos my beautiful Sister Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah so enjoy watching and listening 🤲🏾🤲🏾🫶🏾❤️🌹
Asalamualaikum Warahmatullahi wabarakathu ❤️ MASHA ALLAH sister your taraweeh bag is already ready before 20days for Ramadan May Allah make it super easy for you to fast n pray taraweeh n much more love n love for the baby 💗💗💗💗🤗
Just a question about the pumping. Do you find that when you feed with a bottle prepared with previously pumped milk that it reduces your milk supply over time? Because you are producing less on the days that you feed with pre-pumped milk? My mother thinks this would happen but she isn’t familiar with the pump and store approach that many seem to do currently. Again, wonderful video. Love how you talked so holistically about the prep you’re doing.
I haven’t noticed any difference but then I still nurse her directly each day as well as using the pump so I haven’t gone a single day without nursing her directly. I believe once your milk supply is stable, it’s usually fine.
JazakiAllahu Kheir for this video. Just wanted to give my 2 cents worth about breastfeeding and fasting... Sometimes it is a lot for your body to fast everyday, last year I ended up with a pretty bad UTI so after finishing my antibiotics I had to just do one day on, one day off, cos fasting can affect milk supply as well, especially when your baby is young... Tho the year previous my other child was older while breastfeeding and that year I managed the whole month Alhamdulillah. Also for your taraweeh bag, throw in a nursing cover.. I've exclusively breastfed my kids Alhamdulillah, and a nursing cover is the one thing I don't leave the house with, even if I just fold it up in my pocket and don't take anything else with me lol.. thing with taraweeh is, the people and the sounds, bright lights when trying to nap and everything is so overstimulating for babies... Nursing can help sooth her better than a bottle... Tho I hope it goes well for you! My husband leads taraweeh, and as much as I'd love to go read behind him just one night even, I haven't been able to with kids... That, and I know how passionate he is about not bringing kids who disturb other people's prayer 😅 (he is all for bringing your kids to every other prayer cos it's shorter, and using that as a chance to teach them mosque etiquette - but not taraweeh (especially if it's the only time people bring their kids to the mosque), cos he gets complaints from both men and women about kids and babies, and he also finds it makes it difficult for him and the other readers on the days kids are being too loud) ... But I do hope it goes well for you.. I would suggest maybe these few weeks leading up to Ramadan, go for Isha and see how it goes with your baby's routine and then you'll know if you're able to manage her routine and going taraweeh..
Yes nursing cover is essential for mothers who nurse. As for people who complain about babies in the mosque I think the masjid have to make more accommodation for mothers to make it easier for them to attend the mosque. I have a masjid near where I see a lot of mothers with small children and a room is preserved for them, they are encouraged to attend if they can. I would also like to add that it not compulsory to pray all the rakahts of tarawee as the imam does so for me when I do go insha’Allah, I intend to pray half, finish off with my witr alone and go home when the imam takes a short break half way through. Again, women can pray at home if they want so none of this is a must! This is something I want to do because every year I have always attended tarawee since I was a teenager and I don’t want that completely broken because I have children. Love the idea of trialing out with isha prayers 👌🏾
Salam alaikum dear sister, I appreciate your video's. Thank for all your efforts, may Allah bless you with aafiyat. I would like to ask your for your advice in a personal case of mine. I have met a good muslim man, we are thinking about getting married. I have noticed a few red flags and I'm not sure what to do.
Walaikumsalam. Masha’Allah congratulations for making the intentions to go this year insha’Allah. Tarawee can last longer in some masjids compared to others so it might be a good idea to ask how many your masjid tends to pray but it usually lasts at least an hour with some break in between or no breaks at all. The imam will pray in two units of prayer and then finish off with witr. I also recommend you get there in time for isha so that you get a comfortable place to stand. You don’t have to stay for all of it but if you can then great. If you leave before tarawee in your masjid finished then remember to pray your witr separately before the night ends insha’Allah. In the first few days there may be a lot of people at the masjid and also on weekends and during the odd nights so try to get there early on those days insha’Allah. May Allah accept your efforts in his cause and all the best insha’Allah.
Walaikumsalam. No I don’t have any associations to recommend but I will say don’t ignore your local people, sometimes the people in need are right under our noses so maybe look into your local charities or ask your local mosque insha’Allah.
Mashallah tabarakallah, I wish I could breastfeed mine but I can't because I don't produce anything. Breast milk is truly the best though. Also, infacol is really good for when burps are stuck, and I always keep that in my bag.
You can't fast you're breastfeeding Allah gave you that freedom n opportunity. When baby sucks breast the breast produces what baby needs in that moment activated only by babys mouth machine won't get tailor made needs due to pump. Breastmilk is miracle from Allah that has different consistency vitamin for different time of day and melatonin for when baby need sleep. Pls try letting baby suck before pumping at least
Masha Allah. Welcome sister. long live. keep it up
MasaAllah sister You're an amazing mother beside being a good example to all of us as a Muslim. The effort you make for your baby is precious. 🌷
Congrats Nafisa 💕
اللهم بلغنا رمضان
O Allah, Allow let us live to witness the [holy] month of Ramadan❤
Great job!
May almighty Allah bless and your parent.
Ameen. Jazaka’Allahu khairan
Jazakhallah Khairan
Waiyakum
Assalamu Alaykum Sister
Please can you do a video on how to deal with body insecurity in marriage? How to feel confident in your ownself.
Jazakillahu khairan
Walaikumsalam.
That’s a great topic, I will add it to my list insha’Allah for after Ramadan.
Thank you for your input
I am a fairly new mom too - I have 5 month old twins. I had to make up last Ramadan and pumping helped maintain a good supply of breast milk for my babies. I plan to fast this Ramadan in sha'Allah. Excellent advice!
Oh wow, congratulations on your twins Masha’Allah. Good to hear this from a mum already doing it. May Allah make this Ramadan a success for us all. ❤
@@NafisasPearlz Allahumma Ameen! Congrats on your baby girl too. Keep up the good work! 👏🏾😊
Selam PLEASE BO FASTING WHILE BREASTFEEDING!--THIS IS CLEARLY WRITTEN IN THE HOLY QURAN AND AS A HEALTHCARE PROFESSIONAL I AGREE WITH IT 100%..
As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,
JazakiAllahu khair for this video! May Allah swt give us a great and successful Ramadan! Allahuma ameen!!
Walaikumsalam, ameen
Salaams I missed your content!! MashaAllah I’m so glad you’ve had a little girl! I’ve also had a baby boy recently and planning on fasting whilst breastfeeding too! May Allah make it easy for us Ameen. Love the mum content x
Jazakallah for your idea ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful sister, much respect. Alhamdulilah! Always right on time, right after Dhuhr. I drank Milk Thistle and Fennel tea helped me produce an abundance of milk when I nursed. I nursed my first for 3 years and my second for two years, Alhamdulilah. Thank you for sharing❤
Sounds very interesting I will research on that insha’Allah. Thank you very much for sharing and well done on your nursing for that amount of years,😮 it’s so commendable
@@NafisasPearlz 🤣♥️thank you so much. It was difficult at the beginning for sure. It was a pleasure to know I was giving them the best milk for their bodies.
I had the guidance of my midwife but, I studied herbs for years when I was younger for health reasons. Western medicine has always scared me.
The Milk thistle and fennel is safe for momma and baby. It also helps with colic the baby may be dealing with from time to time. Though some babies are more colicky than others.
This was years ago for me. I know there are guidelines in Islam and I am still learning. So, I know you would know if the herbs are permissible or not.
They are natural and not altered. It is just the plant dried.
It is a beautiful journey and you are a such an amazing human being. Your daughter is so blessed to have such wonderful human beings and Muslims for parents, Alhamdulilah 🤲🏽♥️.
Asalamalaykum sister alhamdullilah I breast fed all my 3 kids and loved it.
Just wanted to add breast feeding is only allowed for 2 years ❤️
Much luv 😍❤️ sis. Jazakalahu kheir.
احب مقاطعك 👍🌙🌙🌙
Thank you for your great content
Glad you enjoy it!
Masha,Allah good reminders.congratulations on your bundle of joy.I’m excited for the coming videos.
Thank you so much 🤗
Love the mom content!! Mashallah! ❤
Thank you ❤
Jazak'Allahu khaira, very useful to think about for those in that situation
Yes. Maa shaa Allah
Jazak Allahu khairan ..I was waiting for this vlog .
Waiyakum. Thank you for your patience
Masha'Allah
this is so helpful.....
Alhamdulilah
Ma sha Allah. Thank you for this video.
I love your videos 💕
love from Bangladesh ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My little son will be disabled for life.
My other baby is waiting for the diagnosis.
Im a revert. I had a life full of family problems. I converted young. 4 y ago i left everything, my friends, job, part of family. Everything for the sake of Allah.
Im struggling with my imaan. And I know its haram to think like this but I feel unloved and betrayed by Allah.
Please make duaa for me.
my dear ukht you are not unloved by Him subhanAllah! your care and perseverance towards your children could be your entrance to a lofty rank in Jannah. May Allah make your struggles easy for you sis Ameen, continue making dua to maintain your imaan💗
My dear, it is normal to feel sadness for this news but do not let shaitan use it as an opportunity for you to lose your faith. You will be a great mother insha’Allah.
May Allah make your journey in motherhood smooth and a means for you to enter Jannahtul Firdaus. ❤
My dear sisters thank you so mucb for your support.
I wont let shaytan trick me into feeling like im unloved. Thank you so so much.
SubhanAllah
May Allah ease your affairs and grant you peace and happiness. Ameen.
Masha Allah, so beautiful .Sister which book of tafseer do you recommend buying please?
JazakaAllahu khairan sis
Waiyakum
WalakumSalamWarukmatillahiwabarakatuhu
5:51 Aw, congrats hun!
Thank you
mashaAllah, such a useful video. I love you for the sake of Allah
May Allah whose sake you love me love you
@@NafisasPearlz Ameen 🤲🏽
Wonderful video nafisa thanks for your efforts!
My pleasure 😊
MashaAllah ☪️ ❤️
Jzk Nasifa ❤. So excited for Ramadan🎉 May Allah help us to see it and be successful, Ameeen. Please when you make your video on meal preparing can you give tips for those who wish to try it for the first time. Jzk sister ❤
Ameen. Ok insha’Allah I will bear that in mind insha’Allah. Jazaka’Allahu khairan
@@NafisasPearlz wayika
Thank you for sharing this with us sister ❤️ How have you been, are you well?
SubhanaAllah!!!! Thanks for sharing as always such beneficial knowledge videos my beautiful Sister Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah so enjoy watching and listening 🤲🏾🤲🏾🫶🏾❤️🌹
Jazaka’Allahu khairan
@@NafisasPearlz Aameen wa iyyaki Aameen🤲🏾🤲🏾🫶🏾
Asalamualaikum Warahmatullahi wabarakathu ❤️
MASHA ALLAH sister your taraweeh bag is already ready before 20days for Ramadan May Allah make it super easy for you to fast n pray taraweeh n much more love n love for the baby 💗💗💗💗🤗
Ameen. Jazaka’Allahu khairan.
I also use my bag whenever we go out so it’s not just for tarawee but when the time come insha’Allah, I’m all set.
Assalamaliekum
Thank you for the lovely video
Thank you too
Congratulations 🎉
Just a question about the pumping. Do you find that when you feed with a bottle prepared with previously pumped milk that it reduces your milk supply over time? Because you are producing less on the days that you feed with pre-pumped milk? My mother thinks this would happen but she isn’t familiar with the pump and store approach that many seem to do currently. Again, wonderful video. Love how you talked so holistically about the prep you’re doing.
I haven’t noticed any difference but then I still nurse her directly each day as well as using the pump so I haven’t gone a single day without nursing her directly. I believe once your milk supply is stable, it’s usually fine.
JazakiAllahu Kheir for this video. Just wanted to give my 2 cents worth about breastfeeding and fasting... Sometimes it is a lot for your body to fast everyday, last year I ended up with a pretty bad UTI so after finishing my antibiotics I had to just do one day on, one day off, cos fasting can affect milk supply as well, especially when your baby is young... Tho the year previous my other child was older while breastfeeding and that year I managed the whole month Alhamdulillah.
Also for your taraweeh bag, throw in a nursing cover.. I've exclusively breastfed my kids Alhamdulillah, and a nursing cover is the one thing I don't leave the house with, even if I just fold it up in my pocket and don't take anything else with me lol.. thing with taraweeh is, the people and the sounds, bright lights when trying to nap and everything is so overstimulating for babies... Nursing can help sooth her better than a bottle... Tho I hope it goes well for you! My husband leads taraweeh, and as much as I'd love to go read behind him just one night even, I haven't been able to with kids... That, and I know how passionate he is about not bringing kids who disturb other people's prayer 😅 (he is all for bringing your kids to every other prayer cos it's shorter, and using that as a chance to teach them mosque etiquette - but not taraweeh (especially if it's the only time people bring their kids to the mosque), cos he gets complaints from both men and women about kids and babies, and he also finds it makes it difficult for him and the other readers on the days kids are being too loud) ... But I do hope it goes well for you.. I would suggest maybe these few weeks leading up to Ramadan, go for Isha and see how it goes with your baby's routine and then you'll know if you're able to manage her routine and going taraweeh..
Yes nursing cover is essential for mothers who nurse.
As for people who complain about babies in the mosque I think the masjid have to make more accommodation for mothers to make it easier for them to attend the mosque. I have a masjid near where I see a lot of mothers with small children and a room is preserved for them, they are encouraged to attend if they can.
I would also like to add that it not compulsory to pray all the rakahts of tarawee as the imam does so for me when I do go insha’Allah, I intend to pray half, finish off with my witr alone and go home when the imam takes a short break half way through.
Again, women can pray at home if they want so none of this is a must! This is something I want to do because every year I have always attended tarawee since I was a teenager and I don’t want that completely broken because I have children.
Love the idea of trialing out with isha prayers 👌🏾
Salam MashAllah sister nafeesa
Walaikumsalam
Sister Anisa can you share the link of all the baby products you mention. JazzakaAllah
All done
Salam alaikum dear sister, I appreciate your video's. Thank for all your efforts, may Allah bless you with aafiyat. I would like to ask your for your advice in a personal case of mine. I have met a good muslim man, we are thinking about getting married. I have noticed a few red flags and I'm not sure what to do.
Sister what about microplastics that enter milk when u reheat
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Aits better fasting some days ain this month
Salam a3leykum, I've never been to Taraweeh before and I don't know what to expect, can someone explain please ? Barak الله oufikum
Walaikumsalam. Masha’Allah congratulations for making the intentions to go this year insha’Allah.
Tarawee can last longer in some masjids compared to others so it might be a good idea to ask how many your masjid tends to pray but it usually lasts at least an hour with some break in between or no breaks at all. The imam will pray in two units of prayer and then finish off with witr. I also recommend you get there in time for isha so that you get a comfortable place to stand.
You don’t have to stay for all of it but if you can then great. If you leave before tarawee in your masjid finished then remember to pray your witr separately before the night ends insha’Allah.
In the first few days there may be a lot of people at the masjid and also on weekends and during the odd nights so try to get there early on those days insha’Allah.
May Allah accept your efforts in his cause and all the best insha’Allah.
@@NafisasPearlz baarakallah oufiki !!! thank you so much 🤍🥺
Salam Nafisa, are there any associations you recommend to give to?
Walaikumsalam. No I don’t have any associations to recommend but I will say don’t ignore your local people, sometimes the people in need are right under our noses so maybe look into your local charities or ask your local mosque insha’Allah.
Mashallah tabarakallah, I wish I could breastfeed mine but I can't because I don't produce anything. Breast milk is truly the best though. Also, infacol is really good for when burps are stuck, and I always keep that in my bag.
And that is ok my dear, don’t feel bad for it, you are doing the best you can.
Subhhan Allah.what is youŕ baby name?
Salams do I have to take out my braids before doing ghusl after my period?
Walaikumsalam. From what I know yes. But Allah knows best.
You can also ask a more knowledgeable sheikh for clarification insha’Allah.
Carters, they last forever
I’ve heard that for those in the US.
We don’t have a Carters here in the UK.
You can't fast you're breastfeeding Allah gave you that freedom n opportunity. When baby sucks breast the breast produces what baby needs in that moment activated only by babys mouth machine won't get tailor made needs due to pump. Breastmilk is miracle from Allah that has different consistency vitamin for different time of day and melatonin for when baby need sleep. Pls try letting baby suck before pumping at least