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  • "It seems so ordinary, and turns out to be almost impossible. Either there is an ugly compromise -- like man and wife -- or else passion that eventually turns into hate. Why is there always ugliness between men and women?"
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  • @OSHOInternational
    @OSHOInternational  3 роки тому +21

    *This is a preview of a longer talk available exclusively for members of this channel* here 👉 ua-cam.com/video/JnmX7issZcc/v-deo.html . Sign up today to get access to 100+ talks on various subjects and themes. Plus an ongoing *series of full length talks* with a new talk published *_everyday_* . Click on the *JOIN button* or use this link or the to activate your membership 👉 ua-cam.com/channels/S0s6BFzIcvC2gTH52_vBEA.htmljoin and _start listening today_ 💕

    • @astronaut_69
      @astronaut_69 3 роки тому +6

      I understand that people need money to survive on this 3D hologram called planet Earth but this is knowledge and should be for free.
      Don't you think so ?

    • @OSHOInternational
      @OSHOInternational  3 роки тому +6

      @@astronaut_69 Dear Friend, Here is a link to a video, where *Osho* responds to ".. *_why is it necessary to sell bliss? Why can't you give it away?_* " ua-cam.com/video/yRo_L1RiGWw/v-deo.html . Maybe you are also interested in hearing *Osho's* response to the question " *_Why must everybody who wants to do meditation or listen to the lecture pay for this?_* " Available here 👉 ua-cam.com/video/5ow31uad0Iw/v-deo.html 💖Perhaps upbringing and conditioning makes people think that anything ' _spiritual_ ' should be free. Osho's insight is that the mind gives scant value to anything that is free. Nothing around Osho was free. He reminded us again and again of the importance to remember that freedom comes only from responsibility and one such responsibility is that of paying. Osho has responded to many questions in this regards. *Some text excerpts here* , another excerpt is available as video from a press interview. " _You are ready to go to the movie and pay for it; why should you not pay for your meditation and the lecture if you want to hear it?_ " " _You ask why you have to pay here? The price that is asked is nothing; it is just the beginning of learning a certain lesson_ : that *one has to pay for everything, and ... CERTAINLY for meditation* -- _because it is the highest thing in life_ ." " *You pay for everything in life, why not for your meditation?* " 💖

    • @StepUpyt
      @StepUpyt 3 роки тому +1

      @@OSHOInternational Life is a vast phenomenon..! One needs money to explore many!

    • @isktroboma
      @isktroboma 3 роки тому +2

      This is your interpretation, what you have chosen as an answer.
      Maybe because it's the one that suits you?
      Buddha was asked three times, by three different people, if God exists.
      Buddha replied in three different ways.
      To one he said that he exists, to another he said he didn't exist and to the third he remained silent.
      The world understands things in its own way.
      Otherwise, my bliss is freely available to anybody who can appreciate it,
      who is vulnerable to it, who is open to receive it. There is no price tag on it.
      But those who cannot understand anything unless they pay for it,
      for those poor people we have to put price on everything.@@OSHOInternational

    • @sunnydayy5504
      @sunnydayy5504 3 роки тому

      The price for misinterpreting Bhagwan Osho's words like "giving away, everything has a price" will cost u more coz it was his job to decide and he decided that wisdom must be free... please don't be greedy be just like The Ocean - open to all.. Osho said himself before leaving the body too

  • @oshosampath
    @oshosampath 3 роки тому +314

    The most daring, courageous statements ever made in the history of mankind...

    • @eyeofthegods302
      @eyeofthegods302 2 роки тому +3

      Agreed

    • @mnmnmn0097
      @mnmnmn0097 Рік тому +2

      Not the courage. Behaviour beyond decorum.
      No code of proper ways.
      Destructive.

    • @Advait_Deshmukh_11
      @Advait_Deshmukh_11 Рік тому +4

      @@mnmnmn0097 You need code to be happy? What if your wife develops feelings for another man? Where will that code go?

    • @dominic6055
      @dominic6055 Рік тому +2

      I always believed the same principles prior to knowing Osho, but nobody listenes to me LOL

  • @rameshdevasi6720
    @rameshdevasi6720 3 роки тому +202

    "Don't fall in love, rise in love" - osho

  • @rameshdevasi6720
    @rameshdevasi6720 3 роки тому +266

    "Don't let your love degrade into marriage" - OSHO

    • @ADeeSHUPA
      @ADeeSHUPA 2 роки тому +1

      @Block Chain ReALLY

    • @ayushmaurya1912
      @ayushmaurya1912 2 роки тому +4

      @Block Chain bullshit

    • @adkl4433
      @adkl4433 2 роки тому +11

      @@ayushmaurya1912 The majority confuse love with ownership. Will you love your wife just as much when she chooses another? Not saying there isn't love with married couples but love needn't be institutionalized. Many marry out of fear, and have kids out of fear, and stay together out of fear.

    • @Mani-qz6rs
      @Mani-qz6rs 2 роки тому +2

      I feel osho in your words🙏

    • @yashawngray9289
      @yashawngray9289 Рік тому +1

      @@adkl4433
      Says who ?and who are you to speak for
      All the ppl ?

  • @leahmaepelaez-abangan3833
    @leahmaepelaez-abangan3833 3 роки тому +70

    "Truth belongs to the moment.." Wow

  • @nagor4054
    @nagor4054 3 роки тому +130

    He is absolutely correct. I have been married and now single. Marriage is an outdated societal pathology that we must awaken from.

    • @NikhilMathew122333
      @NikhilMathew122333 2 роки тому +1

      What happened?

    • @iiiDaExista
      @iiiDaExista 2 роки тому +4

      Wtf man :)) I think for some people marriage is best thing that could happen ..we are all here as we should be ..some get married some don't and here we are . No problem In that . It's just discernment of each and everyone to have his own experience . Nobody forces man and woman to get married ..this is just a joke . But the Foundation for it .. it's not a joke , it's just a path

    • @kishanshivakoti256
      @kishanshivakoti256 2 роки тому +2

      That awakening comes from marriage 😁🙏.

    • @iamasmurf1122
      @iamasmurf1122 2 роки тому +6

      @@iiiDaExista you clearly don’t understand marriage means you own other people ! You enjoy owning others ? As your slave or something

    • @chidambaramc4958
      @chidambaramc4958 2 роки тому +2

      @@iiiDaExista I understand that you are not from India or from a country in Indian Subcontinent when you said 'Nobody forces man and woman to get married'.

  • @DeepValueOptions
    @DeepValueOptions 3 роки тому +248

    Perfect for Valentine’s Day! Thank you!

  • @troyootipep5
    @troyootipep5 3 роки тому +150

    "If you can talk to a chair then you must be a chair.." - Osho

    • @sunmeetmathadu1634
      @sunmeetmathadu1634 3 роки тому +3

      Means what? Can you explain ?

    • @shreyasj6437
      @shreyasj6437 3 роки тому +8

      @@sunmeetmathadu1634 Only a chair can understand the language of other chairs. For better understanding substitute chair for bird.

    • @troyootipep5
      @troyootipep5 3 роки тому +11

      @@sunmeetmathadu1634 it means it takes one to know one basically

    • @ADeeSHUPA
      @ADeeSHUPA 2 роки тому

      @@troyootipep5 eLABoRATe

    • @neosannyasin8022
      @neosannyasin8022 2 роки тому

      😄 👍

  • @shubhamchoubey7361
    @shubhamchoubey7361 3 роки тому +110

    Lovers don't deceive to each other, they are saying the truth but the truth belongs to that moment. 🙏❤

  • @humancumalienhumancumalien3947
    @humancumalienhumancumalien3947 3 роки тому +82

    Because they don't love the person. They usually are involved in making images of each other and only love the image. No sooner that image is broken they become annoyed. Annoyance then create a conflict and is followed by fear and ultimately hate.

    • @ariziman
      @ariziman 3 роки тому

      .Maybe Osho completes his concept in the full video, but he hasn't come to express that we start with physical attraction, but eventually we must come to love the burgeoning spirit of God within the other person. They are attracted so as to reveal their misconceptions and resolve them as they hold false images of who we really are. Patient love will slowly resolve the lies within us.

    • @vishal_on_yt
      @vishal_on_yt 3 роки тому +6

      So you're sharing krishnamurti's thoughts here. 😄👍🏻

    • @giovannijohnson5944
      @giovannijohnson5944 3 роки тому +8

      @King Dingeling This isnt true man. i used to be into all these hypergamy concepts and mgtow and all that shit. and after a few months of regular meditation i attempted to just be myself and say whatever i felt to girls and surprisingly enough it didnt change much about how attracted they were to me contrary to my former beliefs. i then realized that most of the time "i said i love you", or "i cant live without you" was simply from a mindset of scarcity and i actually didnt love them. i was simply attached to the validation and sex they could provide. More meditating brought me to a new level of confidence which allowed me to see how little i actually cared about most women besides their affection validation and sex. I came to a very comfortable place within myself that saw past those things with then allowed me to meet girls i ACTUALLY cared about and then mixed with honestly the relationships just worked out perfectly without effort because i no longer was attached or needed validation or sex.

    • @offthechainfitness
      @offthechainfitness 3 роки тому +1

      @@vishal_on_yt Good call! I was happy to see someone sport JK for this.

    • @kasyapvarma647
      @kasyapvarma647 3 роки тому

      @@vishal_on_yt 'freedom from the known '

  • @ashvinbaldania
    @ashvinbaldania 3 роки тому +26

    Love is not about somebody
    Love is not some kind of act
    Love is the way you are .

  • @erikafreebird6449
    @erikafreebird6449 3 роки тому +99

    OSHO's mind was so in tune with unseen truths. Miss him.❤

  • @pa4760
    @pa4760 3 роки тому +88

    Me as a women, if somebody tells me to get married, I'll show them this video!

    • @manni06
      @manni06 3 роки тому +2

      kudos to you, 💯

    • @gowtham6822
      @gowtham6822 3 роки тому +12

      But in the end you will get married anyway.

    • @pa4760
      @pa4760 3 роки тому +13

      @@gowtham6822 why did you say that? Its absolutely possible to stay unmarried.

    • @Lockheed_007
      @Lockheed_007 3 роки тому +3

      @@gowtham6822 abe gawar

    • @Chuckle215
      @Chuckle215 2 роки тому +1

      Your hormones will push you to get pregnant

  • @yourlife7783
    @yourlife7783 3 роки тому +31

    he was very ahead in his times, even today people can't think like this

    • @rrr5_Finance2
      @rrr5_Finance2 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly

    • @vivekjasrotia5906
      @vivekjasrotia5906 3 роки тому

      Ya bt today know about the German culture...everything possible on this earth

  • @WeAreAllOneNature
    @WeAreAllOneNature 3 роки тому +111

    Summary :- Osho said here that marriage is ugly and not natural. Marriage is a promise for your whole life, but your attraction to someone cannot remain the same for ever. Later the partner will not look so beautiful and then both will feel imprisoned. By repeating the same words, and the same acts, passion turns to hate. In a more intelligent world, people will love, but make no contracts. They will be true to each other and the moment the joy goes, they will say ''the time has come to depart.'' Friendship is not possible between the jailer and the imprisoned.

    • @WeAreAllOneNature
      @WeAreAllOneNature 3 роки тому +32

      I believe that marriage was created to protect women. Instead of a man impregnating a woman, then abandoning her for a younger woman, the vows of marriage created security for a mother. In the tough olden days, eg 13th century, imagine how hard it would be for a single mother of 6 children.

    • @MorusAlba1975
      @MorusAlba1975 3 роки тому +12

      @@WeAreAllOneNature Yes, marriage is not necessarily ugly. It can be, but under normal circumstances it is a mutually beneficial relationship, even when the romantic love has gone.
      In regards to the modern era, I think it might be a good idea to implement a "parenthood marriage" i.e. a commitment to remain together (on a day to day basis) until the youngest child of the family has reached the age of, say, twelve. Because the current state of affairs, the "Cosmopolitan state of affairs" (glorification of single motherhood even while the kids are just two or three years old), is ugly and destructive too. Rather than marry for love, people should marry as a commitment to raising one or more children together (sure, assisted by the commune if that is the situation, but still: that particular father remains the primary guardian of his children, ensuring no pedophile or other predator will harm them).

    • @subbukuppu9143
      @subbukuppu9143 3 роки тому +4

      Nice conciliation.

    • @WeAreAllOneNature
      @WeAreAllOneNature 3 роки тому +9

      @@MorusAlba1975 Interesting. I think that in the 21st century, Osho's idea is good and ok for those who want that. In developed countries, I feel that being a single mother is a perfectly ok option, so long as the father pays maintenance money towards raising the children. Social shame should be poured upon fathers who don't pay. The law should enforce it properly. Surely these days there is no need for the presence of a father to protect children from paedophiles. Does the police and prison system not prevent that? It should do. If a married couple hate and despise each other, I believe strongly that it is better for the children if the parents just divorce. A hateful home atmosphere is poisonous for everyone. A civilized society has good support and rules in place. But why is it taking so long?

    • @michaelwesleyii5079
      @michaelwesleyii5079 3 роки тому +6

      I dont think marriage is ugly, but it definitely can be. Imagine a world where individuals are trained in yoga, tantra and qi gong, I think marriages would go a bit better.

  • @ramubhaipatel478
    @ramubhaipatel478 3 роки тому +94

    You guys should translate Osho’s hindi speech in English and put it in your channel
    Osho had said many many amazing things in hindi that I think people needs to listen that .

    • @naresh4958
      @naresh4958 3 роки тому +18

      No one can translate osho. It not the words which are magical but the place from where they are coming. It is better to listen osho directly even if you don't understand words ...

    • @nibin2259
      @nibin2259 3 роки тому +12

      @@naresh4958 easy to say that when you are indian who speaks hindi.

    • @robinc9987
      @robinc9987 2 роки тому +5

      So true. His real depth can be known only through Hindi speeches.

    • @mysmartieteevee3036
      @mysmartieteevee3036 Рік тому +1

      Start a channel doing it. You will get lots of views as I don't see anyone doing it.

  • @oshosampath
    @oshosampath 3 роки тому +51

    I listened to this two decades ago, it shocked me so much that I fell in love with this man in depth...

  • @yacovmitchenko1490
    @yacovmitchenko1490 2 роки тому +14

    Osho gets to me in his own unique fashion: he can look dead serious, say insightful things, and be so damned funny all at the same time. Osho here has presented the predicament of humans in such a way that I felt sad and laughed out loud simultaneously.

  • @miPratikPatil
    @miPratikPatil Рік тому +14

    Imprisoned and jailer cannot be friend.
    Legend Osho 🙏🏻🌹

  • @alchemist_D4910
    @alchemist_D4910 3 роки тому +7

    I was JUST talking about this...we CAN be friends and marriage is optional and its all a level of unconditional love...maturity...nonjudgement and freedom from societal acceptance!💥we are the change💥

  • @vbudnar9688
    @vbudnar9688 3 роки тому +96

    There is hardly anything that I disagree with in Osho's words. His wisdom probably came from his ability to be non- hypocritical

    • @jermainroberts361
      @jermainroberts361 3 роки тому +3

      nobody is infalibale/perfect.. we are all flawed by nature

    • @soniatiwari9986
      @soniatiwari9986 3 роки тому +9

      @@jermainroberts361 I don't think so. You see nothing is wrong or right or flawed or perfect it's the way it is. You're just a piece of life trying to survive evolved over millions of years ( one of the finest creations of nature again I would say finest word is not right to use as nothing is good or bad it is all created by nature who are we to judge with our small minds)

    • @mindfularyan579
      @mindfularyan579 3 роки тому +3

      When u'll learn the real philosophy instead someone's individual opinion then u'll find many things to disagree

    • @williamwilson7857
      @williamwilson7857 3 роки тому

      even with what you don't agree, it is not because of false words but your ignorance

    • @Gokul-305
      @Gokul-305 2 роки тому +2

      @@mindfularyan579 Philosophy is also somebody else's view point of life but it makes sense because philosophers are also just like us we agree or disagree with the viewpoint of the philoshopher depend on our values in life.

  • @Rkt88196
    @Rkt88196 3 роки тому +32

    A true Master. Thats so true

  • @shubhamchoubey7361
    @shubhamchoubey7361 3 роки тому +20

    Master osho says each and every words very deeply which is the phase of everyone's life. We must learn from him and understand our mind. Thanks for uploading this video on Valentine's Day🙏 😇

  • @SubscriberswithVideosCha-qt9vi
    @SubscriberswithVideosCha-qt9vi 3 роки тому +52

    Hi random person. I just want to tell you that you will pass your exams and every other things you do. Be positive on what you do and one day all your hard work will pay off. Have a good day

    • @chandanuu
      @chandanuu 3 роки тому +2

      What is this? A random bullshitt?

  • @udhayapragash7898
    @udhayapragash7898 3 роки тому +6

    This is the highest form of knowledge... You take it..you live.. don't take it..you are finished..

  • @ashu175181
    @ashu175181 3 роки тому +8

    He was ahead of his time.

  • @lifeofdarshit
    @lifeofdarshit 2 роки тому +15

    No person in this whole planet who is truly devoted to his passion will tell you that they have mastered their art. They will always say that there is so much more to learn. This whole planet is designed in a way that there is a depth in everything.
    OSHO is right, it is right that love will fade away, it is right that after some time the habits will irritate you but that will happen if you are a primitive human being and have not gone into the depth of your own self. Only a person who know themselves can now someone else. So with time it is important that your love should also evolve.
    No passion follower switches their passion if they want to master their art. Similarly, if you want to master your love then you need to go beyond just physical after one time or these problems will prevail as OSHO said.
    Please note that OSHO also mentioned in his talks about Mystery of Feminine that if you understand the mystery of a feminine then you will understand it for all.
    So the choice is yours, whether you want a surface primitive love or a love which evolves with time.

    • @srishti3579
      @srishti3579 Рік тому +1

      This video has left me with so much of confusion

    • @rahelasajinovic814
      @rahelasajinovic814 9 місяців тому +1

      Where he talks about mystery of feminine

    • @IvanPolyansky
      @IvanPolyansky 4 місяці тому

      so…. why should we marry anyway then?

  • @BODHILOTUS2020
    @BODHILOTUS2020 3 роки тому +5

    OSHO is the one and only Master of Master Rebelion boldly loudly throughout the world traveled and taught the truth! love you my beloved Master

  • @mitalibhattacharya823
    @mitalibhattacharya823 2 роки тому +5

    I just worship this man....

  • @deepakm.s7737
    @deepakm.s7737 3 роки тому +12

    Love is the true freedom. 🌬💗

  • @unnikrishnan5345
    @unnikrishnan5345 3 роки тому +16

    You are the heaven Osho! The ultimate Guru👍🙏

  • @walterfoxx8075
    @walterfoxx8075 3 роки тому +4

    He makes so much sense is unbelievable

  • @praharshkainthola2418
    @praharshkainthola2418 2 роки тому +4

    I bow down before you Master 🙇🏻‍♂️
    Master of the Masters: OSHO 🙏🏿🌍

  • @user-nt4nm4fb3u
    @user-nt4nm4fb3u 2 роки тому +6

    He is directly conveying the truth of human nature & how to get evolve with it to walk the path of awakening. This is relevent to not only for marriage but for all aspects of human life experience.🙏🏽❤ This is totally resonating. As long as you put lables to the nature of your existence(sleeping state/ Ignorance) u will not be able to realize this rather u are just going to be in the sate of illusion.

  • @etfeddiecrosley92
    @etfeddiecrosley92 3 роки тому +5

    To say marriage is the ugliest institution is like saying having children or planting trees is. He is talking about the relationship between one & another as a control,property, exploitation. Many animals mate for life, nothing wrong with it. People can make any good thing bad, that's the real take away.

  • @prasadraopilli1764
    @prasadraopilli1764 3 роки тому +4

    There is no need for marriage and there is no need of divorce, but friendship is possible.

  • @prasadraopilli1764
    @prasadraopilli1764 2 місяці тому

    Osho ji was 100 years ahead. Mind blowing

  • @AtulKumar-ls3zq
    @AtulKumar-ls3zq 3 роки тому +7

    This video tested my patience

  • @hidemytracks
    @hidemytracks 3 роки тому +52

    Kyon ke 'W' is opposite of 'M' 😇

  • @SuperThushi
    @SuperThushi 2 роки тому +5

    The truth belongs to the moment : OSHO

  • @govind.vijayakrishnan
    @govind.vijayakrishnan 2 місяці тому

    But to be loved by somebody completely , like nobody else exists in the whole world, even though it could be a lie, is a whole different feeling

  • @sahilmeena2537
    @sahilmeena2537 2 роки тому +1

    Every time there is no dislike on osho's video ...I have not seen zero dislike on any other videos.

  • @jonathan14808
    @jonathan14808 2 роки тому +1

    You've got to love the reggae touch at the end ...!

  • @antonyarulprakash3435
    @antonyarulprakash3435 3 роки тому +3

    Dear you are never apart from me.but now I understand living unnatural is also an aspect of nature and truth and lie are binaries needed for nature's existence!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @yogeeshc9403
    @yogeeshc9403 3 роки тому +5

    Intellectual genius

  • @pa4760
    @pa4760 3 роки тому +8

    "Marriage is the worst institution created by man. It has been invented so that he can monopolise women" ~ Osho

    • @Chuckle215
      @Chuckle215 2 роки тому +1

      Lol women need marriage, not men. But agree with Osho marriage is a pain in the ass, men don't need it at all

    • @sh6161
      @sh6161 2 роки тому +1

      We don't need that anymore

  • @jokerking530
    @jokerking530 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for uploading this...as a free

  • @gurpreetkapoor5576
    @gurpreetkapoor5576 3 роки тому +5

    THE GREATEST OSHO 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @vk250958
    @vk250958 3 роки тому +4

    Truth expressed directly!

  • @AmanKumar-nz5kl
    @AmanKumar-nz5kl 2 роки тому +8

    Osho are trying to break our cages ✨💐

  • @realkg8573
    @realkg8573 2 роки тому +2

    It's not like am not listening but his nails are just so cute 😍

  • @k.ramuprince754
    @k.ramuprince754 3 роки тому +4

    Tanks for uploading this video

  • @shubhamchoubey7361
    @shubhamchoubey7361 3 роки тому +5

    Every words of Osho is like truth flowing from the mouth of God. He is great because he not judge anything what is natural, the Indian society does not deserves a great master like him that's why he move to other place. Gratitude 🙏❤

    • @rrr5_Finance2
      @rrr5_Finance2 3 роки тому

      Not everyone in India bro.. The problem is almost everyone from poor to middle class which constitute the maximum percentage of this nation are only and only busy in wealth accumulation until the day they die. Their only God is money. This is a rat race. We've almost completely forgot how urgent the spirituality is, so still today we give no importance to spirituality. this reason makes Osho move out of this country to a developed country where people have no money problem (at least max of them) and are now risen above from their basic necessities so that they can understand and give importance to spirituality. 🙏😇
      Also there can be other reasons as well which i'm not aware about.

  • @indiakarnan
    @indiakarnan 3 роки тому +6

    Life is the Natural process,
    I hope, the future humans must understand you more.
    Great Master OSHO....

  • @Musika1220
    @Musika1220 3 роки тому +8

    How beautifully said, logical and truthful !

  • @theWarriorUnknown
    @theWarriorUnknown 2 роки тому +2

    OSHO is really cool light years ahead of the majority, he really hits the nail on the head.

  • @AbhishekPatel-vi6ut
    @AbhishekPatel-vi6ut Рік тому +1

    "Truth belongs to the moment"

  • @vigneshkumar9378
    @vigneshkumar9378 3 роки тому +3

    Osho points to the beautiful world where mind is free from all bondages, yet meditation or awareness is only the key to it.

  • @murugan0723
    @murugan0723 3 роки тому +1

    How could anybody can have this much clarity, he always talks only the absoluteness nothing but the absolute reality, If anybody ever lived on this planed is to be termed as God, it has to be this Man, He has given more to mankind than all the so called God has ever contributed combined together..!

  • @bAWA_
    @bAWA_ 3 роки тому +2

    This is brilliant .Genius.

  • @sjinnider
    @sjinnider 5 днів тому

    bro had the courage to confront the most hypocritical and controlling institution in history

  • @franciscusjohannesburger3720
    @franciscusjohannesburger3720 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the video !

  • @bosesebi6685
    @bosesebi6685 2 роки тому +2

    there is truth in this, but then, there are also made to be together couples who would do it the same with or without the paper.
    And it is not all about passions, there are respects, restraints, even some cheating but still choosing and loving that original one.

  • @pankajjkaggarwal
    @pankajjkaggarwal 3 роки тому +4

    Only truth nothing else 💯

  • @innatecharisma
    @innatecharisma 3 роки тому +4

    Syncronicity - lol. Just had an 'experience' where this video comes handy

  • @StepUpyt
    @StepUpyt 3 роки тому +5

    Society has to swim in this path to reach the more modern realms in the upcoming ages, otherwise there would be no more prosperity than material prosperity with pangs of misery in the heart!

  •  Рік тому +1

    Im dancing to the song at the end 🎉

  • @nadagh3235
    @nadagh3235 Рік тому +1

    I think marriage is a more traditional thing than a religious one. Religion added to it so people will obey and commit. With all respect to Osho, he is a great thinker. Men, of course, will like that idea of no commitment to marriage and they can have fun with all sorts of women they fall in love with, but it is not the same case for women, women prefer long-term relationships. Another issue is the children, and how they can deal with multiple fathers and mothers!- In my humble opinion, instead of saying marriage is bad or not, it is rather important for both men and women to be aware of the psychology of each other and they try to emphasize freedom and give themselves a break from time to time.

  • @everydayfun9531
    @everydayfun9531 2 роки тому +1

    I think one reason why It's Hard for men and women to be Friends with each other is that u can't be Friends cause once that Person Develops Feelings For that Person it's not a Friendship anymore its a Mutual Relationship both People Want to Build with Each other instead!

  • @oneplustv3391
    @oneplustv3391 3 роки тому +5

    7:44 Things like this comes with knowledge.....you can see the pain in osho eyes.........womens ftw

  • @shreya_utensils4572
    @shreya_utensils4572 3 роки тому +4

    Kaash ek dharm hota jisme osho ka baate hoti atleast wo practical aur sachai hota

  • @stephenmains7370
    @stephenmains7370 3 роки тому +1

    So true, when are women going to understand, its not about them!

  • @ribakism
    @ribakism 3 роки тому +6

    wow that was strong

  • @SujeetSingh-rd7oc
    @SujeetSingh-rd7oc 3 місяці тому

    There are people who 'will' be my friends if I keep away from girls. It's like ghosts visiting again.

  • @arunkumarsharma1447
    @arunkumarsharma1447 3 роки тому +2

    ॐ Right awaking, Gratitude, Param Guru Ji

  • @ajay1521992
    @ajay1521992 3 роки тому +6

    Hi @OSHO International. Plz share some videos where Osho spoke about commercialism. Thanks 🙏

    • @ajay1521992
      @ajay1521992 3 роки тому +1

      @OSHO International. I request you to share the last namaste darshan of OSHO, the day before he left his body.

    • @OSHOInternational
      @OSHOInternational  3 роки тому

      Dear @@ajay1521992 Please have a look at this link 👉ua-cam.com/video/V60LZqHW63A/v-deo.html Perhaps this is what you are looking for? Love, OSHO International Team

    • @ajay1521992
      @ajay1521992 3 роки тому +1

      @OSHO International did Osho appeared for silent darshan at 18th Jan, 1990? If you have that video plz upload. Thanks 🙏

  • @massimorevelli1560
    @massimorevelli1560 3 роки тому +2

    Simply beautiful

  • @stevansiregar8853
    @stevansiregar8853 2 роки тому +3

    Married only to your soulmate or stay single forever, unless you may experience hell

  • @zane62135
    @zane62135 2 роки тому +3

    I think he makes a good point here but he doesn't take into account various issues that would arise from his ideology. To start, many women would be impregnated by men who would then abandon them, leaving said women to raise the kids by themselves. And all the ugly / undesirable men would be pissed off because women would only sleep with the best looking men - this would make society unstable.
    Marriage was created to foster strong societies. Without some expectation of monogamy, it would be utter chaos. Children would be abandoned, men would be killing each other, etc. This is exactly why these idealistic free-love communes never last. Humans are naturally jealous creatures and they get extremely upset when the person they love starts sleeping with someone else. At they point they will leave the commune or sabotage it.

    • @yacovmitchenko1490
      @yacovmitchenko1490 2 роки тому +4

      Partly correct. The child alimony part makes sense. As for jealousy, many married couples sleep around anyway. It's called adultery. So jealousy arises irrespective of marriage. It's not clear to me to what extent marriage has contributed to a stable society. Is it really stable? Isn't it already in chaos? In fact, marriage may have harmed society because marriage often entails a lot of dishonesty and hypocrisy. (That itself is a sign of disorder.) Many parents can remain married without loving each other, and that rubs off on the children, who wind up suffering. People hope for security through marriage, but the fact is that there is no security in this world, and this ceaseless striving after security may in fact be contributing to growing insecurity - and chaos.

  • @rosywings8465
    @rosywings8465 3 роки тому +12

    Yes, What you said is true by all means but if we go by that we have to tolerate free sexually then. Who will take the responsibility of the children then born out of free sex between a man and a woman since they are not married?

    • @maysumraza8198
      @maysumraza8198 3 роки тому +7

      Osho has an answer for that too. He said once that there should be communes where children should grow up and learn all the good things. These communes should be run by highly responsible and morallly good people. In many marriages 1 of 2 people can be abusive and children learn to be abusive from that parent or the whole personality of the child is destryoed.

    • @sasabrina35
      @sasabrina35 3 роки тому +2

      Don't have children ... But if it is the will of both, then both must take responsibility and adjust the dynamics of the parents to take care of their children in a healthy and safe way, and this does not necessarily have to be a marriage.

    • @shrikanthujband507
      @shrikanthujband507 3 роки тому +3

      In some other discourses osho says that children born should be the responsibility of the entire community so that the child will have many uncle and aunt. The child as a result wil be a multi dimensional human as he will observe and live many people around him thus enriching his life.

    • @BIKRAMSARKAR-kd3lt
      @BIKRAMSARKAR-kd3lt 3 роки тому +4

      @Rosy_Wings Right Question, dear. Osho have also answered That question. I will share you That vedio or you can find that in this channel also. As per him A Man and a Woman should develope LOVE inside themselves which is totally free from lust. He said, there are two things - one is Lust centric Love and another is Love centric Lust. He is in the favour of second one as this helps in spiritual upliftment of human being and the first one leads to downfall of human nature. Both man and woman should develope a Lust-free-Love deep inside themselves.

    • @ramubhaipatel478
      @ramubhaipatel478 3 роки тому +1

      Osho had answer this same question already in his one speech -
      Commune

  • @amnestylost
    @amnestylost 2 роки тому

    The sad thing is that there are very smart, very calculating, and very mean and well dug-in people in the establishment who will spit in the face of this man's wisdom and those who agree with these ideas.

  • @KAALNEMI59
    @KAALNEMI59 2 роки тому +1

    Just like seeing a puppy for pet lovers but when it turns aggressive 😂😂🙏
    From the perspective of m n w both 🙏

  • @NGC7000
    @NGC7000 6 місяців тому

    I hate marriage. It’s not even a contract between two people, it’s a contract with the society in which you live. This’s why divorce is so costly.

  • @aagatdabral5271
    @aagatdabral5271 2 роки тому +1

    So fucking profound, life changing!

  • @amiraboodi2075
    @amiraboodi2075 2 роки тому

    It is hard for me to agree with him. Yes, season will change. But, maybe,we should be with each other even in difficult moments of life. When spring goes. Maybe we should try to create beautiful moments for our family.
    It is not a beautiful thing to be with a person just for honeymoon.

  • @Pink-tj3ex
    @Pink-tj3ex 2 роки тому

    well said!

  • @SujeetSingh-rd7oc
    @SujeetSingh-rd7oc 5 місяців тому

    Just by looking at a few names man's godliness depends upon his relationship with others including women. That is again a mutual agreement to a consolation. Whereas something coming from one's own individual experience may help in the transmission of lamp to the entire existence. This lamp does not depend upon the bondage of all the old ways to keep control by having man at the centre of existence. Then real lamp and real transmission are possible rising above all the barriers to equality.

  • @parthsarthy8120
    @parthsarthy8120 2 роки тому +1

    The last voice I want to hear when I am dying is of Osho

  • @OneBeingOne
    @OneBeingOne 3 роки тому +1

    Truth has been told bluntly.

  • @SujeetSingh-rd7oc
    @SujeetSingh-rd7oc 5 місяців тому

    These are not mundane issues. This needs immediate attention and if you're ignoring them you are chauvinist.

  • @fujimuto4277
    @fujimuto4277 3 роки тому +6

    Dear Osho,
    I wish you could listen to what I'm writing now:
    Obviously this topic of "relationship beween man and woman" is not a simple matter for humanity on its current "level of consciousness". It seems to me that from your perspective or "viewing angle" you are not seeing the dilemma anymore. The dilemma is this: Humanity on its current "level of consciousness" is still clinging strongly to the concept of "family".
    Any human being who is born in this world still needs a father and a mother and ideally also siblings in their life.
    At least there needs to be a home in the outer world and family is exactly that to humanity.
    Humanity is still desperately looking for "that"(which is only real within us) in the outer world. Even though there are more and more people who wake up and discover "that", the search for a home in the world of forms/ or illusions is still too intense. This means that humanity is still forgetting their fundamental and transcendental nature too easily and too often.
    When a human being becomes an adult and realizes that his family/his parents won't be there forever, this human being goes on a quest to build up its own family. It will look for a partner and give birth to new family members together with its partner. Yes, the parents(=original family) of that human being may not be there anymore but now at least there are other people that this human being can trust and rely on during any phase of its life. This circle of trustworthy people, this home now consists of the partner and the child/ or children.
    Humanity is still looking for a "constant" in the world of fleeting things. It is still looking for assurance in the world of illusions.
    Do you see the dilemma?
    How can there be such a thing like a "circle of trustworthy people" when people can change like any form?
    And yet humanity is desperately trying to simulate the real home which can only be "found" within us.
    Dear Osho, the people and the world you are envisioning are not and is not here yet. Humanity's sleep is still too heavy.
    There is still a need for this "bondage" called "marriage". There is still a need for two people to agree to commit to one shared life and thus be there for each other no matter how dark or bright life is currently.
    If human beings act like they are truly free (even though they aren't) then there will be tremendous suffering.
    Your wisdom, Osho, is a blessing to you because you have been dwelling in transcendence or "samadhi" for the most part of your life. Your perspective has become vast. This is unfortunately not the reality for a lot of human beings.
    A family which consists of a father, mother and their children is still necesssary for a lot of human beings. Yes, marriage is a bondage but it is unfortunately still a necessary bondage.
    However, one can be tied and still be able to cultivate freedom, love, happiness and all the other treasures which are hidden truly within us. And then hopefully one day the new humanity will have arrived and the whole world will be home or family to each human being.

  • @supravanaik1926
    @supravanaik1926 Рік тому

    Miss you Osho 💓💓

  • @atman9867
    @atman9867 3 роки тому +1

    One of his best talks.

  • @saemae1169
    @saemae1169 3 роки тому +3

    Osho my love

  • @michaelfriscia8166
    @michaelfriscia8166 2 роки тому +1

    Because women don't act like friends they act like adversaries.

  • @oshin9166
    @oshin9166 3 роки тому +1

    I wonder what if one person falls out of love but the other is still in love, what then?, has osho talked anything about that, if so, please let me know.

  • @Lumalnatti11
    @Lumalnatti11 3 місяці тому

    In a better more intelligent world people will love, but will not make any contracts, it is not a business..... The nature of Life.

  • @ahmedshinwari
    @ahmedshinwari 3 роки тому +2

    Dont' get me wrong, I like Osho. I have benefited from his wisdom. However, moving forward, the flaws;
    1- Beauty is illusion, passion is misleading. How many times must we fall for it to realize that this is not the right direction.
    2- When materialistic world (passion, lust, mindless pleasures) fails you, shouldn't you turn inward?
    3- Also, Osho does not touch the alternative for children to take birth and grow under the safety of marriage.

    • @afridibinsayed9864
      @afridibinsayed9864 2 роки тому

      Stop using children to preach your bullshit repressed moron

    • @solinvictus2045
      @solinvictus2045 2 роки тому +1

      @@afridibinsayed9864 Be quiet

    • @afridibinsayed9864
      @afridibinsayed9864 2 роки тому

      @@solinvictus2045 my quiet won't hide the fact how much delusional you bunch of morons are

  • @tourdhorizon97
    @tourdhorizon97 7 місяців тому

    No more novelty, we have to leave for another new territory 😅

  • @sunnydayy5504
    @sunnydayy5504 3 роки тому

    The price for misinterpreting Bhagwan Osho's words like "giving away, everything has a price" will cost u more coz it was his job to decide and he decided that wisdom must be free... please don't be greedy be just like The Ocean - open to all.. Osho said himself before leaving the body too