When Arthur Got FAT Shamed 🍕🍕🍕
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- Опубліковано 6 бер 2024
- My reaction to Arthur Weighs In when Arthur gains weight and has to deal with being husky which he considers fat. This is an issue I'm sure most of us has gone through at one point. Let's discuss this down below. Please don't forget to comment, like and subscribe. Thank You!!!
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During the pandemic, I gained over 60 close to 70 pounds. People fat-shamed me and called me unfeminine. I have managed to lose close to 40 pounds by going to the gym more regularly, drinking more water, and eating more fruits and vegetables. I still have the "junk food" but it's not an everyday thing and also, I try not to say that I'm on a diet because it's a lifelong journey. I try to stay away from toxic people who like to fat shame others because it's not a good feeling when people try to tear you down based on your appearance. Anyone looking to lose weight, know your worth. Do this for yourself and not to please other rude people.
Thanks for sharing that ‼ I gained weight over the pandemic as well and got more negative comments than I expected. After a while, I decided to get my health in better shape and felt so much better and energetic. I also noticed some ppl's attitude towards me change
“Our store doesn’t carry much in the way of husky size.”
Any other parent would’ve gone off on that clerk, but this is Arthur’s mom so…
I would have been in jail if someone said that to me or my kid
He should have known better than to say that. That was incredibly rude. That was a very snooty inappropriate thing to say.
My 9 year old nephew got called fat in school a few months ago and it made him feel so upset with himself that he refused to eat anything for most of the day, reminded to teach your kids that all bodies are beautiful because it’s not fun seeing a kid go through that.
Also promote healthy eating as well at a young age. I was fat shamed when i was a kid. Even though my parents made me feel better, it didn't help that they never taught me how to not overeat nor taught me about the dangers of emotional eating.
Im in my 20s now and have a firm grasp of not letting my emotions take over to binge on food.
If i was taught properly when i was younger, then my childhood would've been different.
Thing to consider is pants sizes are very inconsistent even in the same store!
Agreed
I used to be real big. I grew up in a family who, and I'm not joking, enabled me. I even tried to get off the salt and that only made my Mom fill the salt shaker up more. I don't know what she was trying to do, I don't. My Nan always used to make fat greasy food and loved to force feed me. I vaguely remember her putting me on her lap and shoving a burger in my mouth when I was younger. My Mom would always tell me that I looked fine, even though I was overweight. My doctors would tell me in the bluntest ways possible that I was overweight. They never tried to help me. They didn't even do anything about my hypertension. I got that from my Nan too. Skipped my Mom and went straight to me. I was 150 pounds girl at 5'0 in middle and high school. When I turned 21, I finally got help after I switched doctors and my doctor basically told me to work out more than I eat. I became horribly underweight (5'2 and 110 pounds) and had to switched doctors again. Now I eat what I want and exercise whenever I feel like it. I am now 5'2 and 128 pounds and I feel amazing. News flash; It's not about being fat or skinny, it's about being healthy and happy and confident
Thanks for sharing that ‼
"Now i eat what i want and exercise when i feel like it. I am now 5'2 and 128 pounds and i feel amazing" i wanna do this, but how can i get motivated to exercise? Any tips?
@@inserthahafunniusername9656 Do what I did and take it slow. Walk or run anywhere you can (not specifically the gym, but of you live in a place with a sidewalk, you should go for a jog or two) a little more every day 2-3 times a week. Do what you can, but don't overdo it. Try squats and jumping jacks or jumping rope or both. Everybody's body is different, but I still hope this helped you in some way or another
5’2 and 110 is not underweight ? I’m 5’3 and 105lbs and not underweight😭
@@inserthahafunniusername9656 I hope UA-cam doesn't take this reply down AGAIN. Do whatever makes you feel happy. I recommend cardio and taking it slow~
I had a longer reply. but as I said, I think UA-cam deleted it... Hope this helps you
I really love how your mother supported you in the most healthy way 8:54 When my sister found out she was pre diabetic. My mom would instill fear in her. You know you’re not suppose to eat that!!!! It got to the point where she wouldn’t hardly eat nothing sometimes. Because she didn’t wanna hear my mom and that’s no way to live. In my momma head she think she’s helping. That’s why I keep stuff to myself. Because I don’t need you to help me feel even worse.
Thanks for sharing that ‼ I know some parents want the best lives for their kids but they don't always deliver the message in the best way
@@TonyTurner Yessss! This is why awareness is key! Because we don’t realize how we be projecting on each other.
I had to cut out soda years ago not due to weight problems but other health reasons and I haven't had a sip in about 19 years and let me tell you that alone did wonders. I had more energy and lost a little weight. It was hard because everybody else around me would drink soda and I always felt weird asking for water and then kids would ask me (this was like high school) how come I wasn't drinking soda and I'd have to explain it. Now all those kids are just now discovering how to kick their soda drinking habits and I'm over here like "yeah been at this for years, lost my taste for it and I don't even miss it."
Flavored seltzer water is so good and a great replacement for soda. I typically just drink plain water but if I want a little something extra I go for the Sparkling Ice seltzer waters, so good! I admit my eating habits still need work but I try to incorporate more healthy food into my diet and limit the junk food.
I've always been a chubby person, from my first major growth spurt in middle school until my adult years, and got picked on for it. I didn't worry about it too much because in college I was walking everywhere, but I still gained more weight. My wake-up call was when I was in a health class and we talked about risk factors for diabetes and heart disease, and realized that I got a genetic double whammy from both sides of the family: my grandfathers had each died of diabetes complications and a third heart attack in their 60s.
I'm still struggling with mending my relationship with food to prevent the same from happening to me at a young age. Changing my perspective from dieting to "making healthy choices" has helped a lot. I can still enjoy foods I love but I'm moderating my portions and doing things like adding Oreo crumbs to low fat yogurt for example. I feel better knowing that I'm taking care of myself in more ways. ❤
There needs to be a balance between fatshaming and good criticism about weight. Childhood obesity is a bad thing need tackling for good reason. But also good thing to remember is not to do it in a nasty way.
Problems with the clothing industry. A lot of places cater more towards certain body types and sizes causing people that don't fit that mold to think something's wrong with their body when there's nothing wrong. Stores and factories play body favorites and it needs to stop.
Seltzer is bussin especially with ice.
YES‼🔥
Even though it's good to have friends and loved ones trying to get you on the right track to lose weight, but being aggressive and fear-mongering about it will lead people to develop eating disorders because they grew up with that mindset to the point it became trauma to them.
If you really want the people you care about to lose weight, don't act like a toxic diet couch; you'll probably screw them over in the future!
I found your videos searching for Aaliyah's story but now I've been on a video binge of your creations. I love yoyr down to earth persona and checking both sides of the coin in all situations.
Thank You ‼
Good discussion
Thanks ‼
@@TonyTurner no problem
I've struggled with my weight a lot. But now, I'm more determined to lose it, and I have a fitbit where I track my steps and calories, and walk on the treadmill a lot. However, I still do like to have junk food in moderation.
Thanks for sharing ‼ I think it really is all about moderation since junk food is so easy to get addicted to.
I've been big pretty much all my life I'm now losing COVID weight from the time I ended back in 2020
You should review some episodes of Hey Arnold or Rugrats, there's some episodes that tackle issues that we should analyze with a broader approach, like the Lila episode of Hey Arnold or analyzing Angelica from the Rugrats. Just some suggestions i think that would be good topics to review. There was an episode if Hey Arnold that tackled issues of childhood obesity especially with Harold's character.
I was thinking about the Harold weight episode too. Which Lila episode are you referring to?
@@TonyTurner The episode where Lila is new to the class and all the other girls were jealous of her.
I remember this episode, it’s around the time I got an ED. And stopped eating oof I was around 8 or 9 and was a chubby girl. McDonald’s every day, kids at school pointed it out so I stopped eating. I got healthy around high school doing yoga and working out everyday not eating fast food started getting a lot of compliments after I lost that weight. I remember family saying I was no longer chubby like I was as a child I was like thanks 🤷♀️
But to be honest I owe my weight loss to my crohns disease
People should try to stay a healthy weight for the sake of their heart health. It’s hard for that heart to pump properly if there’s extra weight. Plus the clotting risk.
I’m 4’11” and 104 pounds, and the clothing options for someone my size are even fewer. Most of the time I wear kids clothes, but I got a big ol booty so that doesn’t always work. I can’t even fit my waist and butt in the same size of pants because my waist is 2” smaller than waistbands are even made over here, my legs are 15” shorter than the average inseam is made for, and my butt fits in like a size 4. It’s dresses or nothing most of the time, and I’m not a girly girl so that kinda sucks
I'll be honest I've gained weight I've lost weight no one treated me any different also I've never been Body shamed I've always had good self image I'm never insecure about myself
Ur lucky, even though I've been losing weight my family still says I'm fat or say I look bigger
i love your content
Thank You ‼
It’s rough growing up in a household where everyone eats like garbage, but you’re the only one with a slow metabolism. 😭
My father is always on my case with my weight. I call walking every Saturday when i can but i treat myself to Starbucks on Fri and Saturday. But i walk to my job pn weekend which is about maybe about 40 or 50 blocks from my crazy apartment. I dont know exact miles. But its alot of blocks. But i am not doing nothing to strongly. But my father stresses over my weight smh..
Because you're still consuming heavy amounts of unnecessary calories and sugars / carbs.
I used to cut hard for 6 days while enjoying 1 day of eating out.
My weight loss was extremely slow because of this.
Now i cut hard everyday with no cheat days other than thanksgiving and somebody's birthday in the family.
Hey tony
Honestly doctor's need to be trained to look at other variables before saying you're overweight. There are other variables at play besides your age and height that are in play in determining what are healthy weights for them. The over generize system causes a lot of people try to fix nonexistent health problems and weight problems.
Not Arthur being husky.
While looking the exact same 😅
I'm a fat ass. Started developing health problems to the point where I had to change
Sometimes all it takes is that one doctor visit. Happened to me too
So this episode is where the meme comes from 😂
That kind like with the Tiana merchandise at Disneyland and with her merchandise online. It's hardly anything to pick from smh or there's nothing. Believe i know i am major Tiana fan and I go to Disneyland. My birthday is March 31st. I will be 40 n i hope i can meet her n they make that hard to smh. 😢 but the Lord always works it for me to meet her. But it alot of anxiety involved smh. N it shouldn't be to meet a princess. As stated her merchandise suck compare to the other princess. Maybe u can do a topic on that.
5:44 isn’t he the one with asthma?
I have really bad asthma plus a lot of other things which make it hard for me to exercise and due to the situation I’m currently in, I can’t diet
It's not a mystery though. You're right, I as a 5'4½" woman cannot eat the same as a 5'9" man and expect to not gain weight, or even better, my 5'7” dormate who is a woman and does sport, I cannot eat as much as she does and expect to not gain weight.
Weight pick up on for sure not big but i am not skinny lol
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Can u do stuff Doug..
#DisneyDiva ❤
I wish i had cat. Bc i will name it Jodeci 😂❤. N if i get a dog n i don't like dogs bc i am afraid..lol. but if i get one of those teacup dogs which could be expensive. Pets r expensive period but if get one that dog name will be 2pac.
I feel insecure about my looks
I relate to Arther
Straight up, if it's direct family member, as in sister, brother, mother, father, grandma, grandpa, it is not fat shaming, because I hate to break it to all you sensitive people, but using insults and calling you out in public is a great motivator to helping you lose weight. If it's a random kid at school or a rando on the street, then it's a problem. However, just like spanking your child when they mess up, you need to TELL the person why you are doing it before actually doing it, or else it will lead to self-conscious behavior and trauma. Take me for example, my mother, every time before spanking me, would sit me down and tell me WHY I was about to receive the punishment, and ultimately I grew up, now 30, with none of the supposed side effects of being spanked. The problem isnt the spanking itself, just like everything wrong with a kid's attitude, it's the parents' fault.
An honest wake-up call is a motivator. Straight up insults from anyone isn't actually motivating. There's a big difference between grandma going "kid, you're eating too much and moving too little, look at yourself, look and understand," and grandma going "oink, oink fatass, put down the fork, you embarrass me." Tough love isn't hate or insults, let's not get those two things any more intertwined than people already do. We got to make the distinction real again. Tough love is telling some one hard truth, not going out of your way to make a person feel bad about it. Family can be cruel minded in a lot of families so I wouldn't always give them a pass, but also if you don't have someone you trust enough to tell you like it is, you don't know what a family is at all, found or blood, you don't have anybody at that point.
Last I checked, your family using insults as "motivation" is abuse.
Very bad take. L
Back in 2004, this was called accountability. Now, it’s referred to as “body shaming” Codling societies flaws isn’t helping anyone. Fatfluencers are dying every day of body failures and documenting their struggles approaching death. I loved this episode because it showed Arthur putting in work to maintain a healthy lifestyle of eating kid junk food in moderation and staying active. It was an admirable goal for any kid to obtain and develop into adulthood. So what if he caught shade for being fat. Sometimes, we need to be humbled into action.
Treating people poorly because of how they look just means you're a bad person.
@@pusheenqueen519 A person is definitely more than the sum of their appearance. And, the content of their character is and should be the primary litmus of their value. But, let’s not lie to each other. We are all visual creatures, and, whether you agree or don’t to objective facts, both men and women judge each other’s value on their physical appearance. (What they look like and how the world reacts to them). Some people will be more civil about it than others. Either way, this is necessary social feedback to maintain social cohesion of basic social standards. Case and point, Arthur catching shade over his weight pressured him to get his life together. Versus the outcome of people “tolerating his lifestyle choice” in the way that fatfluencers want to coerce society into accepting unhealthy lifestyles.
Lol, no, that's being an as$hole and bully.
You clearly lack perspective on your case with this assessment you unnecessarily jabbered out.
You're the one doing the coddling with the enabling of such acts to prompt change, you're not even creating a good distinction of good or bad to urge change.
All you're doing is cherrypicking your claims and making them appear tactful, what about the fit or buffer people getting heart failure, not saying being those don't carry risk, but you seem to overlook that area.
Being treated by as$holes can carry long lasting effects even to adulthood when even being as fit as you can isn't enough and one gains an eating disorder.
Do better next time.
You won't.
@@lethalbox909You garbled together a cheap essay to further astute how much of an asshàt you really are when a legitimate response flattens your unstructured assessments in the purest way possible.
I can definitely see much peddled lies here as you claim you aren't, but let's break it down, we are all visual creatures.......but not everyone is the same, you seem to want to but certain people in boxes as viewed by your fragile senablities, this ain't always the case for different types of people's looks and shapes and what describes as obese to regular fat, you claim this is "nessacarry", but has the complete opposite effect, the character in question isn't even as the way y'all making it out to be.
Now I'm not vibing with fatfluencers (not a thing, y'alllove to create cheap buzzwordsfor the hell of it), but you ain't exactly crusading for fit and health on your end and force an even more unhealthy lifestyle down out throats.
Good concept but wrong character. Buster's gluttonous behind should have been the one featured in this episode. And he and Big Chunky Brain had the nerve to comment on Arthur's weight.
This is the worst episode of Arthur. It's out of character and doesn't make any sense, and, sorry not sorry for the hot take, but being fat IS NOT BAD, it's FINE to be fat, it's fine to WANT to be fat, fat does not equal unhealthy, and the hottest of all hot takes: there's nothing immoral about being unhealthy. At all. You are not a failed person for being unhealthy.
And god forbid you bring up how some people WILL ALWAYS BE FAT. Some people can only lose significant amounts of weight through literally almost killing themselves, because their bodies are naturally fat (god forbid you bring up the fact that the majority of diets don't work and you're almost guaranteed to gain back that weight AND the fact that being underweight is far more lethal than being overweight, too 🤭)
And the end is so stupid 🙄like yeah, of course his pants fit, it's 100% normal for people to fluctuate weight, especially pre-puberty and during puberty. The comments on this video are full of thinly veiled fatphobia and it's wack as fuck. Until people break down the actual functions and sources of fatphobia, like racism, ableism, classism, etc, y'all're never gonna grow as people.
The only positive part of this episode's approach to fat people is that it showed that clothing manufacturers rarely ever make anything for fat people. We're left with musty dusty ass bullshit because no company wants to be associated with fat people.
And while it would be great for us all to be able to make more consistently healthy lifestyle choices regardless of weight (which, again, is not a reliable measure of health and should not be your main health goal), that's also just not feasible for many, many systemic reasons, from overworking (stress is the number one overall negative health factor By The Way) and a lack of healthcare, to the food deserts that many people in America live in.