This mindset is incredible because it makes you realize that your happiness doesn't come from or isn't attached to one specific thing or person. Your happiness comes from within and you create it yourself.
I was guilty of doing this. I accepted behaviour that hurt me deeply, because I didn't want to lose him. I didn't speak up because I didn't want to push him away. Now, I can't believe I allowed such disrespect. We all deserve to be treated with respect! Obsessing over anyone is unhealthy! I can admit that the whole relationship was unhealthy now.
you are blessed we are blessed what makes us stronger is the fact that we actually experienced a situation we felt it was not right not fair not respectful nevertheless, we did not settle for it let's help others learn about self concept self love self respect (boundaries, standards, & Co.) 😃 thanks Coach Natalie 🥰💞💅💯
100% and I just realised that I’ve even put friends on pedestals as well as exes. This has been a major kick in the behind. No wonder I’ve always gone through that “ oh you are great, what do you want to do blah blah blah” … time to shine. Even though I do shine but brighter .. thank you for the content !
That's exactly what I wanted to hear. When you know who you are, you feel much stronger and whatever happens in your relationship with SP will be fine anyway. Thank you Natalie. 🌹💯👍
Natalie this describes exactly what has happened to me. My SP came back but nothing has changed, despite what she promised. I have to raise my value, and my self perception. Thank you 💙
Amen to that Natalie! Excellent delivery of the content! A healthy relationship is what we deserve! Them being on a pedestal is lopsided bc we are the prize! 💕
You are such an eye opener, Natalie!!! Your videos have changed my thinking about how I see myself 100% and I feel so lucky I've come across your chanel because I felt like I am drowning in my negative emotions! You have saved me! I am working on my self concept daily and learning how to prioritise myself 😌thank you, thank you,thank you❤️
.... this was like a punch in my stomach. I felt SO CALLED out. .. You're truly changing my life Natalie. Maybe for the very first time ever. Thank you so much.
Thank You for being real. I believe you are going to help many to heal. I have noticed that this subject has been coming up regularly and was sensing within me, the need for something to be said along these lines. And you have said it so very well. I am of the persuasion that Kings & Queens / Gods & Goddesses should have a mutual understanding and respect. I like the way Abraham words it, "CO-Creators". I know the heartbreak of loss and the longing to return to a happier time, but as I am increasing in understanding I am growing in the assumption that as our Self-Concept evolves and progresses that our desires for enhancing relationships and significant others should evolve as well.
Hey I want to say that my higher self speaking through you to me, really what I needed, because I become so obssessed with my SP that I lost my peace and almost destroyed it completely
I will try to apply this thinking to my situation with my ex and the father of my children whom I don't want back. Not anymore. I'm just sad that he suddenly found a new 10 years younger girlfriend, they instantly moved together and are extremely happy. I was left with the kids and being alone. I'm feeling obsessed thinking of how well he is doing and how my life is so miserable. I try to be grateful and think about myself and not them, but it is so hard at this stage.
Oh my goodness Natalie 😳💡💡💡💡,, total lightbulb moment Thank you, Thank you, Thank you 😊 , Do you know sometimes you listen to different videos and sometimes you actually just “ Hear it ! “ I have over given in the past , you have just given me click moment , I don’t need them , I just need to pour more into me & stop being so giving , I hope you have a lovely day & Thank you again for sharing your own experience it means so much , I can’t wait to share how my life is changing 🥰 , Have a great day lovely lady xx
@Natalie, this is sounding EXACTLY like me RIGHT NOW!!! This has got to be one of the HARDEST things I have ever had to do in my entire life (51 years). I am in tears watching this because I know how much i need to listen to you.
He is the only one I CAN LOVE, not the opposite. I choose to love him because he is great but my mistake is to put him on a higher level than me... That's why I am not manifesting him at all...
I know that my SP isn't the only source of love or joy but he is the only person I want to date/marry. What did you do to put yourself on the pedestal? While still affirming for him? How did you prevent yourself from putting him back on the pedestal?
These dating coaches’ rules makes me anxcious. They all have stupid assumptions and rules. Some say u should Wait for at least 1 month in order to loved and taken serious bu him. Guess what we slept on the 3 rd date but still gonna get him commit to me it is done ✔️ huhhh 🙃
I agree! Sometimes we sabotage because we don’t feel we really deserve to be treated so well. That’s just my opinion. Although I told him to leave because I refuse to be lied to. Lol, I only put him on the pedestal when he filed divorce. It took me a while to realize all of this so I am glad you mentioned this.
I actually feel quite annoyed towards my sp. So I keep saying 'I'm letting go" or I don't care if he don't contact me. I'm still wound up. He should be pursuing me, contacting me etc...since manifesting and doing god state meditations etc I have so many others flocking to me...Accept him. Lol so annoyed 😒 lol xxx
I remember that feeling and i truly feel for you. Meditation and focusing on you just baby steps day by day will help. What can you do that will make you feel better right now? When you’re feeling better write sown you’re outcome of this situation and dream big. Much love to you ❤️
This mindset is incredible because it makes you realize that your happiness doesn't come from or isn't attached to one specific thing or person. Your happiness comes from within and you create it yourself.
Nailed it! Totally. Fill your own cup up and see how life transforms for you! Great message
Never let anyone dim your light. You are the writer director and star of YOUR story.
Yes!!!
I needed this. Thanks so much ❤️
I was guilty of doing this. I accepted behaviour that hurt me deeply, because I didn't want to lose him. I didn't speak up because I didn't want to push him away. Now, I can't believe I allowed such disrespect. We all deserve to be treated with respect! Obsessing over anyone is unhealthy! I can admit that the whole relationship was unhealthy now.
Well hello to the new you! Well done Melissa! Can’t wait for our next session xxxx ❤️❤️❤️
you are blessed we are blessed
what makes us stronger is
the fact that we actually experienced
a situation we felt it was not right
not fair not respectful nevertheless, we did not settle for it
let's help others learn about
self concept self love self respect
(boundaries, standards, & Co.) 😃
thanks Coach Natalie 🥰💞💅💯
I Love everything what you are saying, thank you Natalie 🙏
100% and I just realised that I’ve even put friends on pedestals as well as exes. This has been a major kick in the behind. No wonder I’ve always gone through that “ oh you are great, what do you want to do blah blah blah” … time to shine. Even though I do shine but brighter .. thank you for the content !
Now you mention it I did that with friends too! No more of that thank you very much! Great comment thank you and you’re welcome xxx
I have been putting my career on pedestal haha. You are not alone.
Once u stop obsessing them, they will come back...
Absolutely 💯
That's exactly what I wanted to hear. When you know who you are, you feel much stronger and whatever happens in your relationship with SP will be fine anyway. Thank you Natalie. 🌹💯👍
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Natalie this describes exactly what has happened to me. My SP came back but nothing has changed, despite what she promised. I have to raise my value, and my self perception. Thank you 💙
Amen to that Natalie! Excellent delivery of the content! A healthy relationship is what we deserve! Them being on a pedestal is lopsided bc we are the prize! 💕
You are such an eye opener, Natalie!!! Your videos have changed my thinking about how I see myself 100% and I feel so lucky I've come across your chanel because I felt like I am drowning in my negative emotions! You have saved me! I am working on my self concept daily and learning how to prioritise myself 😌thank you, thank you,thank you❤️
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Sometimes you don't know your doing it
You start day dreaming about them.
Your literally blind
Thank you for this Natalie ❤
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.... this was like a punch in my stomach. I felt SO CALLED out.
.. You're truly changing my life Natalie. Maybe for the very first time ever.
Thank you so much.
I did put him on a pedestal 😄
But i pulled back and told him i was taking a break and hope to catch up soon
I was anxious n obessed.
Thank you for one of the best videos iv seen so far in this journey!!!
Thank you so much that’s wonderful for you to say xxx
This is deep ❤️🤯
I love this. Thank you.
Thank You for being real. I believe you are going to help many to heal. I have noticed that this subject has been coming up regularly and was sensing within me, the need for something to be said along these lines. And you have said it so very well. I am of the persuasion that Kings & Queens / Gods & Goddesses should have a mutual understanding and respect. I like the way Abraham words it, "CO-Creators". I know the heartbreak of loss and the longing to return to a happier time, but as I am increasing in understanding I am growing in the assumption that as our Self-Concept evolves and progresses that our desires for enhancing relationships and significant others should evolve as well.
Very well said
Not anymore, feels great! Less resistance.,
indeed, 💙💚🧡💛💙💚🧡💛
powerful, encouraging message
thank you Coach Natalie 🚀🎉🎁💎
this video as a reminder...
we can do better!! ❤️🌈
Thanks Donna xxx
Hey I want to say that my higher self speaking through you to me, really what I needed, because I become so obssessed with my SP that I lost my peace and almost destroyed it completely
Wow ❤️
I will try to apply this thinking to my situation with my ex and the father of my children whom I don't want back. Not anymore. I'm just sad that he suddenly found a new 10 years younger girlfriend, they instantly moved together and are extremely happy. I was left with the kids and being alone. I'm feeling obsessed thinking of how well he is doing and how my life is so miserable. I try to be grateful and think about myself and not them, but it is so hard at this stage.
Oh my goodness Natalie 😳💡💡💡💡,, total lightbulb moment Thank you, Thank you, Thank you 😊 , Do you know sometimes you listen to different videos and sometimes you actually just “ Hear it ! “ I have over given in the past , you have just given me click moment , I don’t need them , I just need to pour more into me & stop being so giving , I hope you have a lovely day & Thank you again for sharing your own experience it means so much , I can’t wait to share how my life is changing 🥰 , Have a great day lovely lady xx
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@Natalie, this is sounding EXACTLY like me RIGHT NOW!!! This has got to be one of the HARDEST things I have ever had to do in my entire life (51 years). I am in tears watching this because I know how much i need to listen to you.
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He is the only one I CAN LOVE, not the opposite. I choose to love him because he is great but my mistake is to put him on a higher level than me... That's why I am not manifesting him at all...
I know that my SP isn't the only source of love or joy but he is the only person I want to date/marry. What did you do to put yourself on the pedestal? While still affirming for him? How did you prevent yourself from putting him back on the pedestal?
I didn’t that’s the point and therefore nothing changed. Now I’ve learnt and its all about you loving you becoming the person that is worthy of love
Desperation is the worst smell 😂
Thank you for this! When focusing on self concept then majority of the times, do we still affirm for sp then?🙏😊
Yes but in a way you’re not obsessed or so they want you
These dating coaches’ rules makes me anxcious. They all have stupid assumptions and rules. Some say u should Wait for at least 1 month in order to loved and taken serious bu him. Guess what we slept on the 3 rd date but still gonna get him commit to me it is done ✔️ huhhh 🙃
Ugh. I did this and feel so embarrassed.
me too in the past - there are a lot of us who do so i hope this helps xxxx
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What if they put you on a pedestal? ie. He said I deserve better & he’s sorry he couldn’t treat me like a queen?
I agree! Sometimes we sabotage because we don’t feel we really deserve to be treated so well. That’s just my opinion.
Although I told him to leave because I refuse to be lied to. Lol, I only put him on the pedestal when he filed divorce. It took me a while to realize all of this so I am glad you mentioned this.
Revise them as someone that wants to treat you like a queen by becoming that version too
@@amyleblanc5611 I think it takes practice to take them off the pedestal, my sp always manages to jump back on lol did you get him back or move on?
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop thank you, I was wondering the best way to use self concept to tackle this 💖
Just do what I say in all my videos about self concept take a look at them and even in the next few coming up xx
Please give me advice when this is your only child who you raised alone. I need help to change the situation. It's gotten really bad.
Write down what you want and remain faithful to it easier said than done but clarity really helps
I actually feel quite annoyed towards my sp. So I keep saying 'I'm letting go" or I don't care if he don't contact me. I'm still wound up. He should be pursuing me, contacting me etc...since manifesting and doing god state meditations etc I have so many others flocking to me...Accept him. Lol so annoyed 😒 lol xxx
My advice is when you feel this way do whatever you can to distract yourself from feeling this way by doing something for you. Xx
Thankyou, I have been feeling pretty manic with it all. I'm going to switch my focus back on me x
I remember that feeling and i truly feel for you. Meditation and focusing on you just baby steps day by day will help. What can you do that will make you feel better right now? When you’re feeling better write sown you’re outcome of this situation and dream big. Much love to you ❤️