Living My Nightmare (Part 1)
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- Опубліковано 9 січ 2022
- Thanks for watching and letting me open up about what this last year has looked like for me.
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we are here for you Shyla!
You are on a grind for real
Your in the video
Yes we are! sloan always supported Shayla💜
You’re in the video!
Yes we are
I’m sensing a bit of healing. The fact she posted even a snippet of Landon’s face in these videos and was talking about her journey with him, it’s healing
When she said if it wasn’t for her daughter she wouldn’t be here it felt like she could’ve meant that both ways 🥺I’m so glad Shyla is healing and growing as a mother
They get it from their Dad
The part where she said “it was almost a exact replica of what my mother had went through” i lost it 😭 because that’s exactly how my life feels at this moment. 😩
i feel you so much sis 😩
Same🥺
It is never to late to value yourself.
Same 💔
Same here 🥺
You know you're healing when you can talk about your story with so much poise and clarity
^Facts agreed with her
exactly
true.
ELENI I LOVE UR BOOKS I DIDN TKNOW U KNEW SHYLA
Yessss!
Unless you’ve been in a narcissistic relationship it’s so hard to explain all of this without sounding crazy. Their families will always enable them as well. Ugh this kills me.
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Shyla has her issues too, idk y’all are just bypassing her violent actions
Yes explaining a conversation or an argument I should say with a narcissist makes ur head spin it doesn’t even make sense nor can u re explain what had happened . It’s confusing & makes no sense
@@prettygang720 nah you can't call abuse retaliation violence. You're literally part of the problem with this bullshit. Also all your other comments on Shyla's channel are weird and biased. Landon?
@@prettygang720 when you’re really hurt you tend to say things or act crazy but you won’t really know how that feels until you go through it
The mcbroom brothers always gave me a weird narcissistic vibe smh I’m so happy for you, on to bigger and better things queen! 💗
Shut up
Hundred percent
You know she is lying?
@@AlanMartinez-fn3ge You know she’s telling the truth
@@AlanMartinez-fn3ge how ?!
Shyla you will be a self made billionaire one day! Mark my words. With this level of strength and determination you will go places with your baby girl your haters could never imagine. I will continue to be your number one fan keep going and do not look back❤️
Bullying is never okay. I can remember seeing all the hate comments towards you. I can’t imagine what you felt. But I’m so glad you overcame it! You’re doing an incredible job as a mother and human being. God bless
If they want they can bully me! Bullying a woman?! Absolutely disgusting
I remember too. people were so mean. they micro analyzed everything she did/said
I always wondered why people shit on her?? She doesn’t deserve it
@@markzelinski4434 to be fair she did lie about something extreme.. she wasnt getting hate for no reason
@@Ashley-mp8sy have you seen what this familiar does? Their liars! She was brainwashed! My sister went through the same thing! The McBroom family are liars and sick sick sick people! This poor woman
Shyla did what Catherine can never do!!!!! Seriously so proud of you.
Agree!! It is only up from here!
The hate and association she gets from ace family is cancelled 100%
Stop comparing them weirdo
@@randombyrosa99 they are in similar situations so…
Just because shyla had a tough time with Landon doesn’t mean Catherine is going through the same thing with Austin. Landon & Austin are 2 different people. Is as if you’re saying if you’re related to a serial killer you’re one as well. Which isn’t the case. Landon may be abusive, that doesn’t mean Austin is.
I was in an abusive relationship for 7 years we have a 3 year old daughter. I finally left when she stood up for me it was a wake up call.. watching this hits home and gives me hope as a single mother that I can do anything 🤍
I’ve never seen her smile this much. I’m sooo proud of her.
seeing how easily he left her without a home without a car, without money, shows the type of person he truly is no matter what happens in a relationship she is the mother of your child she should have a good home a mansion like he does or at least a decent home because it’ll be ur daughters home too, a good person wouldn’t leave the mother of his child basically on the street. Or at least he could of offered to help her out while she got a job or something what an ass! He should be paying child support!
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But she wasn’t married to him
He literally posted the video of them fairly splitting up the assets they had together. They gave her a car and a bunch of shit she wasn't even entitled too. They're not married. The video is still up on UA-cam go watch it. Cause you're mistaken big time she got everything she asked for
Exactly!!!!! But like said before he doesn’t pay for anything, it’s all his family’s money. Oh and throughout the relationship Shyla was bringing in the money working two jobs then making videos, who does that? A Queen 💖
@Tina Tijerina I honestly feal like karma is different how in the hell can you wish her the abuse she was getting stop supporting that abuser it dosen't matter what he said his family always is trying to cover up his mess he makes when they were together all he would do is leave her and the baby todo shenanigans and then treat her like shit and follow his brothers ways who also is a bad husband and a bad man to his wife just cause they said they did something they did it recently to cover up the statement about how they left her without anything and first of all she was paying the car and bills she had stuff but it was under there name even the ring he said he was going to give her that guy is not someone you should be defending I'm not saying she's a saint but dosen't mean your are going to come over here and be belittling shyla like that get something better todo and stop ✋ putting negative comments.
Loved this so much! Men think they have so much control over women and im so glad to see her doing better and her own thing!
Cry about it
@@jIguess thats what im saying
@jess eo nah I’m a woman
@jess eo Radical feminists exist.
can you pweaaase not generalize UwU
(I am so sorry for making this comment what the fuck)
I needed to hear this!
I’m a mom of three boys, my oldest and middle son are on the autism spectrum.
I was in an extremely physically and emotionally abusive relationship with their father for six years. One morning, I got up, saw him (for the hundredth time) drunk again on the living room floor. I told myself this is the last time my kids and I will ever have to deal with this. I packed up, went to my parent’s apartment, and now I’m here.
I’m back at work, back at school getting my bachelor’s in psych, and going to figure it out.
We’ve got this!
I went through the same thing 😭 my son is on the autism spectrum
Shyla… this was raw. This is the girl we’ve all
known and love. The hardest conversations are the ones that are worth listening to. You are a beautiful soul and you’ll have a happy life. I’m so happy to hear ur side of this shitty story. You’re a Soulja girl. Keep ur baby close and find love in between. 💕 #ily
Landon breaking your heart was the best thing that ever happened to you, you’re a completely different person and we love it
“ on cam”
@@Tartebio no dear cause she’s in her most vulnerable part of her life rn and y’all have seen the ugly already. There’s nothing more to hide this is the real her
@@Aprokoheadquaters girl don’t worry thats most likely landons fake account trying to hate on Shyla cuz he’s a bum and no one likes him
I think Landon did nothing I mean to me just by looking at him he dosnt look like he would do something that bad
@@aceplays123 do rapists have a certain look? do robbers have a certain look? no. and just like that narcissists like landon don't have a certain look, they can look like anything u sound so delusional.
I just know Landon and his family is just watching this with hate IM PROUD OF YOU SHYLA !!! Literally drop your brand ASAP I’m ready to buy your merch
🙌🏽🙌🏽 I think its like comfy loungewear/ gym wear one that she put on her story yesterday !!
@@lolal3822 I'm hope so, it looked bomb
Same 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@@lolal3822 right I like the color can’t wait
quit bringing them both up on eachothers videos. we get it. shes a narcissist and so is he. both are immature and not putting their kid first
I love how you’re not just disappearing and you’re standing strong. Best revenge against a narcissist that wants to control you. You are a smart woman Shyla, happy for you 💜
Yes! 💜
Wow I’m literally in tears, “How did I end up in a relationship with a man as an exact replica of my father when I tried so hard not to get here!” I felt that in my soul. I can relate 💜 Just recently divorced and this healing journey has been the toughest 2 years of my life. Thank you for using your voice. I can relate 💕
Most people repeat the same habits that happened with their parents because it’s what we know. Our subconscious attracts us to people that are like our parents.
Yes I can relate to her I was 19 and I met exact same guy as my father tomorrow I will be 21 and we broke up three days later now am doing my UA-cam channel and focusing on me
When you said you fought so hard to not have a relationship or a guy like your dad and still got wrapped in the toxicity I felt that! Wow this speaks volumes so inspiring!
Same here
Same 😢😞
Wow…
Wow she’s using her kid for vid content
@@bigs1356 what are you even talking about ..
Getting out of an abusive/toxic relationship is extremely hard. I’m going through the process right now and I didn’t realize how isolated and how brainwashed I was into believing that the relationship I had with this person is how a relationship “should be”. Once those blinkers are off you realize and see what everyone has been telling you about for years.
Sending prayers your way
Just know ur so strong and you can do this!❤️❤️
Do you have kids with him ? How are y'all dealing with it ?
I am in a relationship that I doubt if it’s really healthy for me.. how can you recognise the signs?
@@princessbubblegum4073 right there with you unfortunately
She definitely looks happier without all the bad… like she’s always been beautiful but she glowed being happy!! I love her and soul and I’m sooo proud keep living for you and her l😫😫💗
The way she talks about everything, she looks that she find herself and peace after everything, so happy for her 🤍
I’ll never forget how awful the internet has been to Shyla, especially in the hardest moments of her life!! WE LOVE YOU!!!
@Tina Tijerina get a life stop ✋ hating got nothing better todo that spread negative thoughts and talk trash about other woman specially a mother who if you have negative thoughts you should look at your self and you situation and try to reflect .
@Tina Tijerina I'm with you that we don't know anything for sure.
But dude, you can't say that she's treated him bad either then!
Your comment is deprived of all logic on this earth, srsly, try to use your brain before typing.
A hope one day in UA-cam and many other public places or platforms a safe place for people and that judging is not allowed 🚫 and not public insulting and maybe putting people down will make you think about the consequences of your desition
@Tina Tijerina you need help miss girl.
@Tina Tijerina how do you know she’s psychotic? By the way you’re talking about someone you don’t know you really sound crazy yourself.
"Tough times don't last, tough people do"
You're a warrior Shyla created through trials and tribulations, my heart is with you beautiful!
this story is almost exactly like the book “it ends with us” so heart breaking.love you shyla!! ❤️
"I am thankful for my struggles because without them I wouldn't of stumbled across my strength".... Shyla u are an inspiration, don't ever stop or change who u are, because u are AMAZING X
girl .. just want to say that you are strong. Thank you for sharing your story.
And so are you Kiara! 🙏🏼❤️
That’s what happens when you’re genuinely a GOOD person. You will always come out on top. Stay strong.
She was never my favorite to watch but this Shyla right here ! I’m here to stay! The fact that u make me feel like waking up early and chasing my dream I love a motivational woman ❤️
gosh I just love her so much… literally she is a goddess, & handles things SO well. praying for you shyla.
The fact that you were so respectful to Landon after it all. And still strive to give your daughter the best life and yourself. You are a superhuman 💖
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what respect did she give him? she literally posted all the shit that already was brought up. she definitely shit talked him and included videos that were overly dramatic
@@cheyenneunderwood356 must be a fan of Landon
@@cheyenneunderwood356 abuse supporter.. Ill pray for u honey 💯
@@lifeofnicole2358 no one said it wasn’t her story. I’m just saying that this person said “she didn’t slander him” but she did lolll. and also, i’m not saying I support whatever. there are two very different sides of the story and both seem believable with each piece of evidence given on both sides. if it did happen, that’s horrible. do I still watch landon/the ace family, of course. just like I watch her 🤷🏻♀️🤣because you never know what is the truth. there is 3 sides to a story. his side, her side, and the truth.
She can hide her feelings and tears well…cause I would’ve started crying before even speaking
I love how much you’re glowing & I can tell you’re genuinely happy. I can’t wait for your journey Shyla. You really inspire us women that are going through the same situation.
I am so proud of you Shyla, you have come a long way. I have seen everything from day 1 and the progress of you inspires so many young women. Thank you so much!
“I tried so hard to runaway” and “ here I am like an exact replica” this touched my soul!!! Ive been in that EXACT same moment in life! Wow, Shyla, I cried hearing that. So real!!!
Same I got chills when she said that!
This!!
Saame!!
Don’t y’all just love seeing people thriving and bouncing back out of dark situations 😩🙏🏼 I’m here for it !
Yes 🙌🏽 🥺
I’m totally here for it
Yeah I just wanna give her a hug 😂😂😂
LOVE IT. yes escaping hell and making your own (which she was doing before his loser a$$) She wins. They are all going down, its a matter of time and she will come out clean as a whistle.
I just adore Shyla so much. She is so real. So authentic. It’s honestly refreshing. Everyone is always trying to make everything look a certain way. Make everything seem “perfect”. Shyla just keeps its real. You’re going to do BIG things Shyla. Bigger than you ever dreamed. So happy for you!!! ❤️
You have such a lovely, down to earth personality. So much respect for prioritizing your daughter and taking care of yourself!
As a woman and a mother of 3 little ones going through the same situation, I couldn’t help but tear up and realize how strong we are as women❤️ so proud of you Shyla
Yea
Proud of you as well! You have got this momma. One step at a time.
She a whole different woman, WE LOVE YOU SHYLA. So inspiring 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I don’t usually comment but you are truly inspiring to single mothers, i am a single mother in a rough time rn & this gave me the pick me up that I needed. ✨
We’re here for you babe don’t look back anymore learn from your mistakes and keep moving up you’ll get there! 💜
You described it perfectly! I didn't realize how bad my relationship was until I had my son. I remember the moment it clicked. I was sitting in the hospital bed, it was like 2am, I was breastfeeding, and I was staring at my sons father asleep on the couch. I knew in that moment that it was never going to work between us. I tried so hard because of the baby, but I knew staying was only going to make it worse for my son. Now 3 years later, my sons father has only seen him 3 or 4 times and is struggling with drug abuse. It makes me sad for my son. Sad because he deserves a father that will love him and be there in a way that I can't. 💙
OMG 🥺
Well your son is going to grow up and appreciate you so much for being mom and dad ❤️
I’m slowly realizing this now as 5 years in with our child…
@@Mm2k11 girl I feel you mines 3. Hurts so bad tbh ...
@@genesisorozco9669 thank you 🙏
I can see you falling in love with yourself and it looks good on you. Through pain we grow and learn to appreciate what truly matters. So proud of you, Shyla.
I just want to say thank you so much for this video!! Actually thank you from everyone for even posting at all. It feels so good to see a woman rebuild herself and actually thrive and get everything they deserve without the help of a man. Its so motivating and pushes me to keep on track with my own goals and dreams. So seriously THANK YOU SHYLA
This woman is inspiring n a great role model for girls n women. She has started healing cus she now can tell her truth without crying n it's growth, happiness, mentally healthy, she is an inspiration. God bless u shyla n u keep on keeping on.
Shes a liar why yall still belive this crap
@@luisbarrera6891 shut up😐
@@hanan2317 aww getting but hurt
Learn to spell!
Hey 👋🏽
It’s so refreshing to finally see this personal and vulnerable side of you! I’m happy to see you growing and glowing 🤍
Yes!!
“I was capable of going without something” -Shyla
So powerful
I am so proud of you . You are a super hero to many women/girls who may be going through the same thing . You’re giving us strength and faith.
I love you so much for this . Stay strong , you’re growing each day and it’s bringing you even closer to your purpose in life 🦋🤍✨
You're amazing and inspirational! I went through a toxic relationship it's been a few years and I'm still healing from it.. Seeing this helps me stay strong and realise I'm worth more I need to make something of myself again! Thank you Shyla! 💕
I’m rooting so hard for you, you’re inspiring so many single moms
I don’t know you that much Shyla, however watching this video feels like it’s a documentary on Netflix. thank you for sharing your story, I went through a similar thing as you. I am a single mother of an 8 yr old and let me tell you it is TOUGH! But not impossible
it made me cry when you said you didn’t know your strength til now. love you girl! thank you for sharing your story
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did u just copy this comment
@Comedian Cloud Well, there are 10 people on the account so one of them could be
God bless you my dear and your beautiful family! Where do I begin with the same ordeal pain that most of the women go through. I can only imagine what you went through, but here you are today much wiser and stronger 💪🏻 than EVER EXPECTED. I’m so proud of you 👏🏼 and commend you for all of your hard work ☝🏻🙌🏼🙏🏻💯❤️🥰
Y’all do know this is a fake account lmao ?
I am truly proud and excited for you! I cannot wait to see where this journey takes you and baby girl Soul. Your growth is inspiring! This self-love journey is going to be everything you've imagined 🙌🏼. Can't wait to join along ❤
I love this woman's honesty.
Breaks my heart that she went through so much bs. It’s so hard to see the abuse when you’re In the relationship but she’s right…kids really open your eyes. I’m so proud she walked away. Such a strong beautiful soul. You deserve all the happiness Shyla…
It’s so sad … you could see all the love she had/has for him and it’s so sad that Landon let this incredible women go. We all are here for YOU SHYLA
I would have left her too
@@jIguess why u replying to these comments? just dont watch her, obsessed asf😂
@@iidesiree6316 I’m replying to prove my point and to show my intellectual abilities
@jess eo yes, Male Power!
@@Peachylorry who tf is Landon
This realness. And openness is what UA-cam needs. Thank you so much. Keep doing what you love. Keep raising your beautiful little girl. And never give up on your dreams.
Shyla! You are helping so many moms right now. I was in your shoes with my daughters father this past year. The amount of pain and hardship we face. Having to start from scratch. It’s so scary and especially with a child. I understand how you feel. Thank you for this.
This video is so meaningful. When you said “I felt like I had no meaning to life until I had my daughter” I feel that so much
She’s back and she’s better. Thank you for feeling confident to speaking about your life. It’s truly amazing how a mother gets strength for their kids.♥️
😭 when you said “she’s literally all I have” my mom heart ached for you girl ! ❤️❤️ so glad you’re on the other side of this
I can’t explain how much I love you, we’re all here for you. This is your year you got this!!!
Emotional abuse is real!!!! So happy to hear someone acknowledge it and the affects it has on your mental health!!!
You are worth it. We see you, we believe you, we are here!!!
The smile on your face when you're talking about your brand and how you're proud of yourself is everything :)
She’s not making the focus what happened to her, but moving forward. I love that for her 🤍
Truly YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION Shyla!!💕 the strength, the poise, the braveness and just the honesty is sooooo refreshing especially on UA-cam!❤️👏🏼
and I’m soooo sorry you had to endure people tormenting and bullying you at your lowest point , LOVE YOU SHYLA!!💕
The fact that people said she had a bad attitude and critize her but in real life she was a victim of a manipulator
I’m going through the same thing Shyla. And when you said “you wake up in the morning and turn to see your daughter sleeping.” I felt that so muchhhh!!! Living couch to couch with my son. Being a single mom. Trying to stay strong. I needed this video. Thank you shyla
Sending you all the best vibes mama! Hope this year brings you magic 🥰
You got this girl ! I wish you the best and hope good things come to you and your family ❤️
The Lord renews our strength Praying for you in Jesus name amen
Just keep moving forward mama! You got this 💞
this video and the last are literally so inspiring. i went through a similar situation last year, i survived the abuse after 3 years of going through that in a 6 year relationship. my daughter and i are on our own and i know i did what was best for her and myself regardless of everything i had experienced. she’ll be 2 in June and i couldn’t be any more proud of how far we’ve come together.
thank you shyla for sharing your story.
you’re so brave and strong
you did what you felt was best for yourself and Soul and that’s all a mother could do.
immediately subscribed.
i found this because of Fool Coverage.
This video is so genuine. This is what people wanted to see. The real authentic Shyla! Congratulations 🎉🎊
I love you and you are a very strong woman. We got your back forever
Literally watching this while in the airport in tears. I’m having one of those moments, single mom of four, and struggling mentally. You aren’t alone ♥️
Such a strong person and mother!!! Don’t stop grinding and keep reaching for the stars shyla!!!
She’s healing and I’m so proud of you Shyla 🤍 I just know your daughter will thank you for everything and applaud you when she’s older
This video made me cry I’m am happy you are in a good place mentally and physically, there’s so many woman rooting for you and who have gone through similar situations. ♥️ I wish you and your daughter nothing but success and blessings. 🙏🏽
Shyla has gone through so much, I am so happy to see where she is today!!! She’s glowing!!!
I didn’t even know who you were until a few hours ago I’ve spent all morning watching your videos and learning about you. I’m so proud of you. You’re such a strong, powerful momma. You’re daughter is so lucky to have you. You will always be her biggest role model! You’re doing so great and I wish you every happiness and success in your life x
She gonna be the next Jordyn woods gonna step on everyone who wish to see her fail so proud of you 💕 this is so empowering
Your 1st name is so pretty!! 😀👌🏽🌹
Jordyn woods kissed her best friends sister’s man lmao, she deserved the hate
@@DN-jg8dl you also forget Tristen has a repeated act of cheating it wasn’t all Jordyn
@@DN-jg8dl he kissed her on her way out. Thats literally sexual assault. Nowhere does it ever say she kissed him back
@@DN-jg8dl girl…. khole stole Tristan from his first baby mama when she was still pregnant and he’s been cheating on khole til this day plus he just had another baby on her dumbass lmfaoo.
you’re the realest! you’re so strong! you seem like you’re at peace with everything ❤️ so happy for you
Awe the joy in her face is everything🥰 God has a plan for you and your beautiful baby girl❣️
I feel like most of us ladies have gone through some type of abuse in most of our relationships and we all at one time thought it was okay and that it was normal. But overtime we got fed up and realized everything they did to you was unacceptable and not normal. It took me over 7-8 years to realize abuse in every form. From physical to mental I’ve had it all and I let so many people use me because I thought as long as they claimed to love me that they did love me.
been there too, sending love to you @Bailey Xiong.
I’m so ready for part 2!!! The documentary style is where it’s at. You did an amazing job with this video Shyla. I’m so proud of you & happy that you’re finally healing ❤️ So much love , I’ve missed your content ! I never thought you were too much 😌
This seriously gives me so much hope I’m a single mom as well and the constant struggle everyday to get up in the morning and not feel like you have done anything in your life but than realize wow you are doing it slowly but surely !!! The moment you realize it it’s the best feeling You can do anything you put your mind too and my daughter is my no 1 to me always and supporter.
Wait they broke up?
My mom had barely worked and finally left my father when I was 13. We lived in a small bedroom for a year but we were at peace and ended up having our own place. You can do it too. Kids just want to be peaceful in a drama free love filled home.
this literally gave me chills, I love you sm shyla💗
I never watched the channel you used to upload to with your ex, but I can tell from listening to your story that you must’ve been so incredibly caught up in him and how he treated you. I’m tearing up writing this because I know so many friends who have been in abusive relationships, some have made it out and some are still stuck. All I can say is I admire your strength, courage and willpower to keep going, to stay strong for your daughter and for yourself. Men like him have to be held accountable and I know that’s a driving force for a lot of women, but it’s equally as important to simply detach and start to live your life for yourself. That’s the best revenge I think. You’re and incredible woman, I am so in awe and I know you’re setting a great example for your daughter. Thank you for speaking up and for telling your story. Sending you all of my love today, all the way from Sweden ❤️
You did that! Took on your daughter & your 2 dogs. While healing, learning, working & being a single mother. You did it. We see & hear you.
Children often say to us, We are there Hero’s, when in reality, our children don’t know they are our hero’s, They saved our lives, my son has saved me and gave me a purpose. My son is my hero.
Yes love this comment ❤️ so true!
Oh Shyla you ARE a superhuman especially to your daughter💛 we are here for you girl! So happy, proud, and excited for you and your journey. It’s true, once I become a mother I seen life in a whole different lense especially the BS us moms used to deal with while fighting PPD. You got out, and you will find yourself! Here for you and your journey! xx 💛🥂
So many people support you. I became a widow when I was 28. He was my best friend, the person my entire world revolved around since age 14. I had a miscarriage a few months before a tragic accident took him from me. It was really hard and I am still trying to figure out who I am and what my life is but I'm hopeful
💖 thank you for sharing this. I’m praying for you🤍🦋✨
Sending you love and light in your life journey 🤍
Wow I’m so sorry for both of your losses, you’re so strong🤍🤍
My condolences twice over!! I will pray for you Julia! 💔❤🌹
You’re gorgeous strong and so so worth it! Good luck❤️
Shyla, I’m going through the exact same thing thing as you right now. I’m glad you are being so open and honest, you made me realize I’m not alone. I’m not the only one, you give me hope and this video was very needed for me. Healing is such a lonely process
I work at a domestic violence shelter and I love that you’re bringing awareness to DV because it can happen to anyone! this is soooo important and so happy for you and that you’re healing! Much respects for you Shyla!
What’s meant for you will come to you easy. So happy for Shyla!🤍
She is so beautiful a family person she seems to have a kind soul. It's an honor to be part of her fan base
you have no idea how reassuring it is to see you grow into the healthiest version of yourself. I have been following you for some time now and I am beyond proud of who you're becoming, and beyond happy Souline has someone like you to look up to. you have been and continue to be SO brave, a huge inspiration for a lot of women, including the woman your daughter is going to become. and I know exactly what I'm talking about because Souline is going to be like me someday, with a heart full of pride and appreciation for her mom who did everything to protect her peace and well-being. looking forward to seeing more and hearing more from you, thank you for sharing your truth. love from Morocco!
Felt this video on so many levels! Thank you for being so raw, authentic & vulnerable with us. You’re so strong and inspiring. Keep that beautiful soul of yours. Keep going gorgeous! ❤️
Big ups to your friends that had you stay over in her sons room remember those people when you get up. Love this for you honey🤍✨
This also makes you realize that the traumas that we carry as a child can affect us in the future… this is why is so important to heal cuz without knowing we can transmit that to our children and it can affect them in their adult life. We need to learn to not blame anyone for our own traumas.
When we see abuse as children, we, without realising internalize it. If we don't learn to see abuse for what it is, we can end up in abusive relationships trying to resolve our childhood conflicts with other people. It's familiar to us and we end up attracting it. We think if the person loves us, or tells us he loves us, after being abusive, it's okay. It is not okay and should never be normalised. I feel like you have had therapy since I can see from what you are saying, you are starting to heal and see things for what they are. I am glad you moved away. Now you can truly shine, heal and who knows, in the future find someone who is caring and loving towards you.
I was horribly abused as a child. My marriage, which was 18 years. NO abuse. He wouldnt hurt a flea or its feelings. We are still close friends and great co parents. A year after we split I started dating someone who had been my best friend for more than 25years. I was an idiot. He abused his wife and the girl before me. But we knew each other perfectly, he would never hurt me... WRONG. I feel like a dummy. I have a psych education. And I didnt see the gaslighting. That literally started on our first official date. I am bipolar and was stable. But he took every change to undermine any success I had in therapy. He would threaten to leave me if I got better. (dummy red flag to myself) It took SEVEN years. During that time he would r*pe me in my sleep because I need meds to sleep I would wake up screaming, but in the morning he would tell me I wanted it. And then vicous verbal abuse. I caught him cheating with the girl before me on instagram, the day I found out I had cancer. And even then I was too weak to leave he had me convinced I was to crazy to live with out him telling me how. But then he dumped me for her. She a moron and good luck. If a man forced me to abort our twins (because she was gas lit too) and goes back . ...Im not dumb she prob never was gone. My gut knew but I didnt trust it. I dont know if I fell into my parent pattern there. Sorry for the long post. But I just want people too pay attention to who you are with. If you are crying everyday? NOT OK. If you no longer trust yourself. NOT OK. If your family and friends say you dont seem right. TRUST THEM,. Lots tried to save me. But I was blind.
@@jenniwilliams3295 Wow, thank you for sharing your story. Please don't feel guilty for staying or for missing what you now see as "obvious red flags" - You were in the throes of abuse and abusers have a knack for exploiting "weaknesses" and pressure points to keep you trapped. You did what you had to do to survive and you should never feel guilty for seeing the best in people no matter what they put you through. I'm really, really proud of you and I sincerely hope you are in a better and safe place, physically, mentally, and emotionally. Sending you all the love, strength, and well wishes in the world ❤️