@@rajlaxmipathak2281 the ans to ur 1st sentence......don't live together toh don't live , may b they might have planned for some time that they'll b in long distance for some settlements in their respective careers , u never know🤷♀️......over to ur 2nd sentence, woh sab panchaat parents ko nahi chahiye , what is the wife is infertile?? What if she has some problem in conceiving ??? What if the husband isn't really doing well w his quality of sperms?? ...... also , what if the couple has a certain family planning??? ........kya kya kisam k problems aarahe hai bhai aajkal is desh me🤦🏻♀️ jo pehle k dowry wagaira problems the wahi solve nahi hue hai , upar se ye maa baap ka bhi jhel lo thoda sa🤦🏻♀️ this parent children relationship has become more of a business deal i feel nowadays!😑
It's better to live more independently after 18 and try to pay your tuition fee for undergraduation . Rather then spending a whole lot from parents and have huge expectation from them . Or wasting your parents money for just 2 day show off wedding . It's better to spend less on wedding and try to reduce it as a wedding ceremony rather than a Bollywood glamourous party In this way , there parent could have saved their own retirement money too so that they could have hired helper rather than forcing their daughter in law to live with them ( as she does have her parents too and have spent fortune in her studies too ) and When given a option What would u rather choose An Indian life style or modern world lifestyle I would choose modern I don't care if I would graduate little bit late due to funds saving but the main thing attributing to is that less mental pressure No wonder why India stands at almost last in world happiness index . Have a life
@@Hanzala_Siddique does the family know if th couple can have children? So many couples are murdered, or kill each other because of parents who are demanding, I old try to give them back the mo ey the spent on my schooling an leave for a far off place.
Why parents are always considered as victims and children as offenders? There could be lots of reasons why the couple didn’t have kids: - they didn’t want them - they couldn’t due to infertility - their marital life may already be at stake Stop looking at children as a means of investment. They seem to have looked everything through the lens of money and return of investment. Expectations hurt. Children owe nothing to their parents. They didn’t choose to be born. Giving money and educating is part of parenting and f-ing constitutional right, which may or may not include love. Money is NOT love. Don’t produce children. If you do, don’t expect back anything in return. If you are a good person, you don’t have to keep reminding them what good stuff you have done to them in all those years. That’s classic example of parental abuse. They will know it anyway and be grateful.
Only sane comment ! Most of the parents see their children as some kind of investment , who they will reap benefits out when they will grow old 😂 It was their decision to bring their son into this world .. they are deamanding things as if bande ne birth k sath contract sign kia ho unka khyl rakhne ka P.s :- taking care of parents is a good thing but you can't force sm1 ye dunia he or yaha aisa he hota he .
@Al-Dajjal It's better to live more independently after 18 and try to pay your tuition fee for undergraduation . Rather then spending a whole lot from parents and have huge expectation from them . Or wasting your parents money for just 2 day show off wedding . It's better to spend less on wedding and try to reduce it as a wedding ceremony rather than a Bollywood glamourous party In this way , there parent could have saved their own retirement money too so that they could have hired helper rather than forcing their daughter in law to live with them ( as she does have her parents too and have spent fortune in her studies too ) and When given a option What would u rather choose An Indian life style or modern world lifestyle I would choose modern I don't care if I would graduate little bit late due to funds saving but the main thing attributing to is that less mental pressure No wonder why India stands at almost last in world happiness index . Have a life
@Al-Dajjal so what? It’s a choice, plus not having babies will be good for the population as well. Regardless it’s a couple’s choice & should always be that way.
Elon Musk once said "My children didn't choose to be born, I chose to have children. They owe me nothing I owe them everything". I mean not taking care of their parents is wrong but like this weird obsession of having grandkids is totally wrong. It's couple's personal choice.
Ofcourse a billionaire will do just fine without having his kids own anything to him but this cant be said for middle class people . As it's lot harder for them to raise kids with proper education and resources provided.
@@arzoosharma5721 i wonder how they will rise their grandchildren as both both parents and grandparents dont have money how will they solve this problem 🙃😕😕
@@roshinid8281 That's why it's important to be in right mindset and emotionally , financially , mentally fit before having kids. But it's too much for few people to understand.
1:56 He says its hard for him to survive and has nothing left. Then how the hell having a grandchild would help that situation. 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ Just Indian things you know
They’re willing to die in starvation if they at least get a grandkid. Otherwise they want to be paid back all the money, like pilot training costs, so they can at least live out their elderly years properly.
Indirectly They wanna sue daughter in law for not having grandkid just like how an ordinary in law does in this country . She is lucky that she is having her husband side with her opinion at this moment .
Genuine and non selfish parents are always right in this case seems like they are greedy Their decisions might be wrong but their intentions never be wrong
Yes but parents who love their children will NOT* ask for any sort of compensation Also.. Yes your point is absolutely correct But do the parents really want their sons love and attention? They were just desperate for the money they invested in him
To be fair they aren't suing him for not having a kid. Their culture dictates that you should spend all your money on your child to be successful, and that children in return looks after the parents. They said that they wanted to be looked after since they spent all their money on sending their son to the US to become a pilot. They would have taken a grandson as an alternative to that. There's a big difference. If you owe me money and can't pay and I say ok, cut my grass for a year instead, that is not the same as me saying I lent you money so you have to be my gardener now. The video title is misleading.
@@ultravisitors No its not. The ultimate aim in life is to be happy, if having a kid makes u happy then good for u but no one should ever be forced to have a kid as that kid will prob face neglect their whole life and no one deserves that.
There are so many murders of Indian wo en, I don't even know why they bother to get married. This man in austrailia set his wife on fire because she was from a poor family and could not pay the dowry, she died. She was trying to tell the police, but because she could not explain they misunderstood. Minutes austrailia 60 did the story, it's happening in America, UK, Canada because these horrible parent kno there are in a foreign country so no one will know. Just too many Indian Indian are being murdered. This poor woman has to be very careful she does not get murdered. I feel very sorry for them. I remembered when Sagdguru wife died, no one tested to see if she was poison. Now the movie star they all get away with it
So children should be allowed to sue parents for lack of investment in them as well? Like they never gave mein pocket money in lakhs so according to me I also wasn't really properly taken care of..so I should sue them as well? If in the end it's investment which they redeem in old age then why not question their investment as well..
First pouring all your money on your kids and then blaming him for not having saving is wrong on so many levels. No matter how much you love your kids , it should be your responsibility to secure your future first as no one can be trusted in today's time and being dependent on someone for finances is not ideal. Do help your kids but it should not come at the cost of having nothing left for yourself. Having kids or not is choice of couple , this is emotional blackmailing at it's best .
They live in a different society to yours. In Indian culture parents are expected to spend all their money making sure their children are successful and children are expected to support their parents. Most families operate by having their sons and daughters in law live with them in their home till they die... and the cycle continues. Don't criticise the parents for living in a society where they are expected to spend all their money on their child. Spending all their money on their child being successful is how you secure your future in their culture. This is literally why they have the law where you can sue them if they don't look after you.
@@zoolio I do know this is part of Indian culture but that doesn't make it right . For well being of everyone this needs to change and my intention is not to criticise but to just share my point of view . Thanks for ur comment tho
@@arzoosharma5721 I agree it's not right, but anyone living in a certain culture has to follow the social norms. Imagine if in a tribe in Africa, where a woman is expected to cook and maintain the home, and the husband is expected to hunt for food. Let's say one day he decides he doesn't want to get food. Society falls apart. Changes need to be made, but not at the expense of those following the norms. His decision to not support his parents who sent him to the US to become a pilot (which in itself is insane, how mant parents in the US would support their child wanting to be a pilot) is selfish. He chose the most grandiose career, which came with a huge amount of money, which also entailed him having to be supported in a country where the living costs are 300% higher than India. He took advantage of the social norms to an extreme level, and now decides he doesn't want to follow them.
@@zoolio You made some great points , however aren't we still making assumptions that child is not supporting them ? In entire video they said of having no savings but when they said that their son don't sends them money ? I think if that was the case ,they would have mentioned it for sure. Secondly , asking money for sustenance is one thing but they are only doing it to get grandchild ,you can see how messed up it is...also how can a couple with no saving can say that they will raise their grandchild ?. Also , their son and wife lives at different places for job purpose shows how difficult their life already is...how they can expect their daughter in law to come and stay with them ? I hope you can see ,what I am trying to point out .
He should counter-sue for them birthing him and the law firm for taking such a ridiculously case. He didn’t ask for this crap! As a parent I say, kids don’t owe us anything for raising them responsibly. Period.
The fact that parents expecting anything from children itself feels so weird for me. Giving birth to children expecting them to pay back like you invest money and expect a profit later is actually doing business. It has got nothing to do with love and affection. I am also a mother of two married children never not even once I thought that I have done something for them and I wil neverl expect something from them. This mother's day when they greeted me and said thanks I actually said thanks to them for making me a mother. It is a privilege to have children.
We honestly have no right to expect anything from our future kids when it was our choice to bring them into this world. They owe us nothing but we owe a lot actually.
Exactly I myself feel so bad that my parents chose to give me birth nd I m only 21 my parents doesn't give a damn about me do not pay well for my studies nd make me feel like burden I wonder if owe them or they owe me bcoz i didn't chose to be born. We r 3 siblings why did they bother to give birth to 3 child nd then give us lecture everyday about how they don't have money to spend on us why bother?
Just ask the daughter in law who will keep a baby for nine months, the struggle just to satisfy her in laws,,, after they are done playing with the baby, the mother has to only take care of the baby,,, what is this society, when will it change??? 😖
@@khusbumahapatra9651 Yes your point is absolutely correct But do the parents really want their sons love and attention? They were just desperate for the money they invested in him
@@aaryameshram7060 yes but having a grandchild won't solve their money issues, it may give peace for some but after some time money will be the real problem
@@khusbumahapatra9651 when this couple will get older they will have lots of money 😂 but not the child , what will they do with money? Just spend money for themselves and die afterwards lol. Reproduction is the law of nature .. They can be single and enjoy their life or focus on the career , but a day will come when they will think what was all this about? Building a career , earning money and then the death is ultimate truth .
@Nitish Kumar no it is not duty technically. parents should save money for themselves because children are not your slaves or nurses to take care of you everytime
The decision to have kids solely lies on the couple so I don’t agree with the parents there. But if they have spent so much on his higher studies (assuming it was him who wanted to go abroad), supported him when he was unemployed and also paid for his wedding, I believe that he has a responsibility to pay them back for it, esp now that they aren’t financially stable.
@@whoopsie9934 I agree that the son should help them financially. No doubt there. But it's weird how they are willing to raise a child by themselves and sue the couple for 5 cr. if the child is not given to them.
He didn't ask to be born. His passion was to study something he like and he did he didn't mess up. He has got a good job he's supporting them financially for sure otherwise they would've mentioned that. He only married for a year and is staying at different places. He's not interested in having a baby that's his choice. These parents thought like they just gave birth to a robot who could do everything they want I'm pretty sure that they've been mentally torturing him for all these years. They are looking the relationship as an investment. Pitty of them. It's quite bad to say that he should pay them back as it was his choice to study something that costs alot. He didn't even asked to be born that the reason he going through all these are they going to pay him a billion rupees which wouldn't even be enough as now he's insulted before the whole world, No they won't pay that. Similarly he shouldn't pay them as they are this toxic.
If parents do their kids favour by spending money on them, then they should expect compensation only in terms of money, not by demanding to produce kids for their own pleasure.
Partly agreed and partly disagreed. Agreed that parents should not demand grandchild, because their intention here is clearly blackmail. They don't have money to maintain themselves, son and daughter in law don't live together and are too busy to have children, who will take care of the grandchild? They can sue for not taking care of them, to either get monetary compensation or have their son/bahu live with them to take care of them. But asking for a grandchild doesn't add up with their narrative. Disagreed that parents should only expect compensation in monetary terms. They raise children using money AND blood and sweat. Their love is not exchangeable for money.
The words he’s using openly that they should be ‘given’ a grandchild itself is dangerous. This man treats children as possessions. That’s how he’s treating his own son. I can’t imagine how they must be treating their daughter in law. A grandchild within 1 year or 5 crore, what sort of comparison is this !
True ! It sounds like he needs pet more than grand kid. And why wld the couple painstakingly birth a child and give it to them . Did they give their son to their parents ?
What rubbish are you saying man !! I get that asking for a grand child is a grandfathers right .. making one is the parents choice ..thier decision none to interfere .. but dont mistake their demand for a grandkid as possesion or asking for a pet ..
@@harshgoel8411 it sure seems like one. I also prefer to ignore such legal cases .Its show the regressed state of the country and we have bigger issue to tackle . They wasted courts time they shld compensate the court .
The judge is gonna dismiss the case in the FIRST HEARING !! Nobody can sue an ADULT MARRIED COUPLE for deciding to NOT CONCIEVE. IT'S THEIR CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHT.
I mean , according to me this is nonsense . But Hindu marriage act has something known as restitution of conjugal rights , it may also have something regarding this issue too .
This couple looks wicked……psychotic types,who want to harass their son and daughter in law for no reason whatsoever.All the crying and all looks like crocodile tears…..just nautanki.
They have complete right to sue thier son and daughter in law for not taking care of them, but suing them for not giving a grandchild is straight out illogical and somewhat selfish🙇♀️
@@twoshakesofaratsass4748 that will be a null case cause it's in our culture that a girl has to go to her in laws some day, but a girl's parents can must sue if thier son in law is harassing them
It is when your parents pay for all your education, support you for 2 years when you have finished your education, and also say they will take on the full burden of looking after your child when you have it so you can continue with your career. Of course it is down to the person if they want to have a child or not, and they may have lots of reasons why they don't want to, but not being affordable isn't the case here.
@@DisciplinedTrader27 Aren't you making assumptions by saying he betrayed them. What did he do. Do you really think he's not helping them If they are financially broke they won't say that they would raise the child the only real problem these parents have is that the son is not ready to give birth to a child which is his choice. They are asking money instead which shows what thier real priority is. His son is now insulted before the world is he going to pay back for that. Don't judge the son due to stereotypes. I think he's a good guy. If these parents really loved him they would never talk about money and all. Pity of them they don't deserve him.
This couple is wrong on so many levels. First spend without future plan, secondly harrass own son. Thirdly, you didn't spend money on that girl's upbringing For what would she pay back?
@@shubhamjohri290 They are legally connected when they got married. If a husband files a divorce it will be his obligation to pay for his spouse's well being. If a wife files a divorce she won't have any money or any part of spouse's property and in the same manner she has to secure her (ex) spouse's well being by giving money. Whether you have child or not. We see men mostly pay for their women after the divorce. It's because they file the divorce, not the woman.
Or maybe they already have enough money for themselves but just want to emotionally blackmail their son and get some sympathy from the people and the media?
Without any offence to their emotions, I personally feel that reproductive rights of women are over marriage expectations. If they really like children, they can adopt any orphan. Why to emphasise on having our own footprint to express love & care.
His only son should file a case against their parents that why did they bring him to this world. Because of which he has to suffer so much in this world. Ridiculous....
@@rajlaxmipathak2281 there are other pains in life apart from just getting a job. What is it that the best of riches commit suicide? It's not about money only. This complaint itself is surrogate complaint. The couple has asked for a grandchild or 5 cr. What if their son gives them a grandchild and no money. Elderly couple says that they will bear the child. How can a pilot's son live with poor nearly begging grandparents.
@@wangxi9823 well i don't know the inside story but they're also saying that the young couple don't live together..i think they're demanding a grand child so that after having a baby the young couple will live together like a proper family..
@@rajlaxmipathak2281 see at present time individuals are more focused towards their career and money. The social and financial security is a major concern clearly being shown by the elderly couple. It's upto the couple and their priorities. The elderly couple has nothing to do with it.
@@aditigupta7222 Parents try to provide the best facility to their kids so that they can grow up, get good jobs and support themselves and the parents in old age. The parents here are wrong to demand a grandkid, but right to demand that their son/bahu take care of them or pay up. Agreed that the parents were unwise if they spent all their life savings on the kid's future, but that doesn't delete the son's responsibility towards them at any rate.
He said...he gave all his savings for his son......his son didn't ask to be born you know.....if he has given birth to a child...it was his responsibility to take care of him ....(ofc) I don't expect him to spend all his life's savings on that child....apart from that....what his son does in his life , how he wants to live is up to the child
Why would you assume parents have responsibility to care for child? Children are simply byproducts of sexual gratification. They can leave their child in a dumpster for all they care. Many animal parents enjoy a good time together, lay their eggs/babies and leave them to fend for themselves. On the other hand, if you think it is the parents' responsibility to look after the child as far as the human species is concerned, then you can't disregard the child's responsibility to reciprocate this love and care later in life when the parents need his/her support. The law of the land recognizes this fact. A child also has responsibility to look after parents.
@@shubhamjohri290 then the parents better not conceive and bring to conclusion their filthy lust driven sexual activity. There's so much struggle and suffering in this world and the child is, in a way, forced to face all of that. Why should a son or daughter owe anything to their parents? Were they asked if they wished to be born in this goddamn world? Atleast, were they ever asked if they are happy with this so called "gift" of a human life?? I really pitty such stupid parents who look at their children as a matter of old age investment. They deserve absolutely zero attention and care from their children.
@@shubhamjohri290 I as an offspring ...it is my responsibility to take care of my parents...and that is where it ends. How in gods name is it my responsibility to reproduce for them....don't I have any free will ? And as per your argument if parents are not responsible for children and it is just products of sexual gratification. In that case it should be legally not wrong to abandon a child on the street, don't you think Also in a reverse scenario... how ridiculous would it be that...I as a child sue my parents because they did not give me a sibling ?
It's better to live more independently after 18 and try to pay your tuition fee for undergraduation . Rather then spending a whole lot from parents and have huge expectation from them . Or wasting your parents money for just 2 day show off wedding . It's better to spend less on wedding and try to reduce it as a wedding ceremony rather than a Bollywood glamourous party In this way , there parent could have saved their own retirement money too so that they could have hired helper rather than forcing their daughter in law to live with them ( as she does have her parents too and have spent fortune in her studies too ) and When given a option What would u rather choose An Indian life style or modern world lifestyle I would choose modern I don't care if I would graduate little bit late due to funds saving but the main thing attributing to is that less mental pressure No wonder why India stands at almost last in world happiness index . Have a life
I agree that parents or relatives shouldn't force their children to have kids. However, the son should pay his parents the amount spent for his education at least. It's only fair that he returns back the favour after all.
How's that fair where's a relation and love if it's all about money. He should look after them if he loves them and they shouldn't talk like that about money. If they are talking they are not loving thier child but investing on him for the days when they can't do things properly. The son doesn't leave them for suffering they don't deserve him.
It's so sounds so stupid ... Why that son should pay the compensation??? I mean producing a child was their own choice and now there son is taking a long in making them grand parents so now they want compensation ....
Decision is on his son whether he wants to return the money his parent paid for his tuitions or not. If he didn't forced his parents for money and If it's not logged on any legal paper nobody can help, and having a baby is a decision of couples not his parents.
That's very selfish of you to assume that someone's love, blood, sweat and dedication to you is unconditional. That you can continue to receive their care without somehow reciprocating it. It's a thought full of entitlement. Do you love your parents on the condition that their love to you is unconditional? In which case, your love itself is conditional and you can't really expect unconditional love from them.
@@shubhamjohri290 i never said my love is unconditional , it never was and it never will be! But people always say "parents always love their children unconditional, selfish children leave them" So, where is unconditional love? It's not! Even parents are selfish and if so, u can't expect your kids to definitely take care of u in old age. It was your choice to give birth, not the kids choice! So why are kids bound to take care of you? It was your selfish greed to have a child not their! Parents are more selfish than their children!
This is insane! It's alright to have hopes but not the ones that are torturing and unrealistic. They are either psychopathic or are doing this as a hatred towards their daughter in law. Sad but true. This is what keeps the Indian society on a drawback,even when the nation grows and becomes stronger
They brought him into this world, it's their responsibility to spend and take care of their child. No parents should expect or demand return for doing their job.
What's wrong with you guys? Teaching kids ,it's okay to be ungrateful. Like what! The fact that you think parenting is just some 9-5 job is ridiculous.
@@Vor567tez kids do not tell parents to produce them...it was their choice.... children do not owe parents just for giving birth and taking care of basic expenses
Fault is from both sides. 1. It is the responsibility of grown up children to take care & give respect to their elderly parents (both his/her parents as well as his/her in laws) 2. As in this case it's seen that the parents have spent all their money on their son, thus now it's their child's duty to support the parents. 3. Also parents need to understand that children should also be given their personal space. 4. Parents/In laws should never force a couple to have a kid anyhow within a year. Every couple needs time to understand each other. Above all women's body is not a machine that it can produce child anytime whenever desired. To bear a child huge responsibility comes, when a couple thinks they are ready for a child then only they should. 5. It's not bad to keep expectations but putting pressure to bear a child within a year it's the sign of an uneducated person. And even if a woman bears a child and if the couple fails to take care of the child then the child will be mentally as well as physically unfit.
To have kids or not, it is their decision not yours. You gave your everything for him, that was also your decision, as you decided to be his parents not vice versa. If you understand and respect your son and daughter-in-law may be they will also want to live with you and take care of you. Jabardasti bacha krk kon khush rahega, wo ya aap, aap log buzurg ho gae ho, kuch time baad apko khud chaie hoga koi khayal rakhne wala.
Exactly! To all those who wanna know abt a parent's right , do checkout a poem called On Children by Kahlil Gibran ..... he says that , in God's pov , ur children are not ur children but my children, the parents are just a medium for a child's arrival into the world , the parents shouldn't CONTROL CONTROL their children's life
Children are by-products of sexual act. You don't have to take their consent to have sexual act. And anyway their consent is unobtainable before they are born.
@Andhrudu u r behaving like these parents.... having an offspring is a choice ,not an obligation.Moreover they may hav sm other reasons or problems.It is completely subjective issue .They shud take care of their parents (in case they r really not doing so)but the other part is not just.
If one doesn't have a child within 2-3 years of marriage, everyone starts talking about the problems boy and girl might have, and mostly about the girl, " there is something wrong with her" or always ask them why they don't have kids. It's up to them when they want to have a child when they are ready. Society questions if they are going to benefit from all of this.
On one side they are " humare paas kuch nahi bacha" and on another "humein baccha do hum sambhal lenge"🤔🤔 Uncle ek hi sambhal lete to Aaj yedin nahi aata. Yes parents are children's responsibility ofcourse, they deserve all your love n respect in first place, but this uncle took it too far.
The parents are so about themselves. Choosing to have a child or not is very personal. They also mentioned that the son is a pilot, obviously he won't be able to spend quality time with anyone in that job. Imagine the level of stress and pressure the son would be in now. Completely wrong in all levels.
What parents or children think or not think is irrelevant from what is logically correct. That if a child is loved and cared for, then he has to love and care for the parent. And vice versa.
Shame on such a father and mother!!! Why the hell this this world behaves like this, that being parents means Masters and their children should be their copies or servants or be like how the parents want them to be. How the hell that old couple can force their son to have child if he isn't ready yet or don't want to have. It's his choice. If the parents can't live with a grand child they should have asked their son in his teenage itself what would he want (though it's a nonsense idea). If the teenage boy would deny the parents should have kicked out the boy outta the home. It would have been better for the boy then to hear his father calculating the total cost he made to raise the boy. Disgusting!!!! The parents can demand justice if their son and daughter in law tortured them, or left them in their old age or miss treated them. But they can't ask any justice because it doesn't make even a sense if their son and daughter in law are not ready to become parents yet. I am feeling bad for the son because he would be blamed by the world and would be accused of being a bad son who leaves his parents in the old age. The parents should be behind the bars using the benefit of their old age. He is suing his son and asking for compensation just because their son isn't ready to become a father yet. Their intention is clearly understandable. They are asking either for a grand child or a money. If they are so financially weak, what would a grand child do a good to them? That in fact would add a lot of expenditure to their present ones. Raising a newly born kid is so expensive. I don't understand that. If they are financially weak they should ask for compensation not a grand child. Suing their son and accusing of mental torture is all a way to get a grand child. This mindset in Indian society will never be eradicated I guess. Parents forcing their sons and daughter in law to have kids as soon as possible.
@@surajmaurya2553 no it is not a mutual decision। a person incapable of holding an embryo in his body should have a say in what should go on in a woman's body। cut down on your ever pervasive mansplaining।
@@preronaghosh3654 hope you didn't missed your biology classes, having baby between the age of 21-32 is good for baby's and mother's health .. you can stretch the age to 35 , she has to decide quickly , if she decides do do it later , she will be responsible for the risk associated to her and babys health .. so don't skip the biology classes indeed. It would be better for he to live a black and white life while watching other couples live a colourful life, once the age increases she would think about it, but the time would have been passed.
On seeing the thumbnail I thought it's a video about kids torturing their parents but after reaching the end of this video I found it was totally reverse . Is marriage only for having a 'baccha' ...😑😑
Those who don't have kids run pillar to post to have kids with any medical methods .. Everything in this nature reproduces to keep the generation running , from small insects to the humans. This is the rule of nature..
Yeah worst parents who paid for their son’s abroad studies, wedding, and supported him when he was unemployed....ever thought that maybe they’re doing this out of desperation since they’re short on money after spending everything on their son? Although I agree that demanding a grandchild is ridiculous and they’re wrong for that.
@@whoopsie9934 dude its the duty of a parent to provide for their children , if they didn't want to do that why did they even give birth to him lol ? How they are asking him the money back like shameless guys . Also you never know if the son cared for his parents or not ? Why beleiving them without hearing the child.
@Saahil In most western countries, parents have a responsibility towards their child only until they’re 18. Some are even kicked out and asked to fend for themselves and pay for their own education. So if they’ve paid for his abroad education (assuming its him who wanted to study abroad), also his wedding and supported him when he was unemployed, these were all favours not responsibilities of the parent. If the parents are barely surviving, its quite clear that he isn’t supporting or taking care of them.
As per Indian law parents have legit ground to sue them if they don't fulfil Their responsibility towards their elderly parents..but suing them because they don't want to have children of their own won't stand in court as it is the right and decision of the couple alone.
Grandson is the fake reason for suing him ,the main reason is MONEY The fact that they are trying to be like oh I'm deeply hurt and mentally traumatized because my son is not getting married or having a baby and then asking him for such a huge amount of money for emotional damage is so sick !!
They could have just asked for compensation for their expenses as they've spend their money on his education . But forcing someone to have a biological child is statutory rape .
Sister donot disrepect india like that I understand that their many prejudices here but its because of our traditions that marriages last longer in india perhaps for the whole life
@@shubhombora9633 ha dude i know i am just saying it in a funny way ..i am aware of my culture and it's richness and i am proud .plss don't take it seriously 🙏
it is a childs duty to take care of his or her parents. obviously suing them for not having a grandchild is wrong but i think they are only doing it out of desperation since they have no money for themselves to survive.
We can understand they want some love of having grandparents but they have to also understand that it's up to their son and his wife what they want for future
Good lord. If they want a kid THIS badly, go to an Indian ophanage and adopt one. This is so weird and manipulative. Your son has his OWN life. He is his own individual.
This is wrong on so many levels. I'm not saying children shouldn't take care of their parents but having kids or not is solely the couple's own choice isn't it?
Mere dadi ji mere bachpan mai akhsar kahte the ki "jab jab tu bada hita chala jayrga tab tab tuje ye samaj bht h ajeeb sa lagega" 😊 Dadi ji ap ne sehi kaha tha
The world is overpopulated and it's better not to have kids and further depletes it's resources. But theirs son and daughter in law must help parents financially.
Thank you brut! U help me a lot to learn english And I think u will , because your pickup words are great , seriously I wasn't know what's sued ....But now I know And yes I watch you only for word not for news😍
Never hold expectations from anybody. The minute you do that you will experience disappointment and sadness when it is not met. Parents who bear children for the sole purpose of benefiting themselves is a selfish reason. Having said that , children that are loved unconditionally, clothed, fed and educated should themselves realize that they should take care of their parents and love them unconditionally.
I'm sorry? Why else would anybody want a child but for selfish reasons? It's for the continuation of the human race, the family values and genes. And for the parents to have someone to care for them in old age when their eyesight, hearing and strength slowly diminishes. No act in this world is completely selflessly altruistic (done without selfish reasons).
There's a way through which you can kill yourself without much pain, we get that way in most hospitals, it's usually those old-aged people who're suffering from any severe painful diseases and they get that type of death. Old-age is all about physical issues, why take help of anyone? When you can die a painless death easily, when your body has stopped working without any ease.
Many people donate money to poor people's, for there education, just because they want to increase positive aspects in this world and contribute to social welfare dude. What about them?
Our teacher while teaching ecology gave example of parent and child as mutualism which means each has benifit from each other.. I disagreed that time thinking of the superior love i guess i was wrong
Yeh sab natak hai... You chose to have children you wanted to make your already busy life more hectic by chosing to have children..... And now you are saying that humara jitna paysa tha bete pe uda dia.. Toh bhaii agar ye sab hi bolna hota toh bachcha payda hi kyun kia.... World population is increasing, there's is hunger poverty, and many more issues already existing...then why to give birth to an innocent life and expect things from them? Your son and daughter in law are really sensible for making this choice.
That's right. Now is literally the time to stop having children as the world's population seem to be getting increasingly out of control. This old mediaeval mentality of having 7,8,9,10,11,12 children in a single house needs to be eradicated.
Is it even ethical to bear child for some sort of bargain. That's what we are reduced to .... we are so shallow. Give and take you spend on me ... so that I spend on you.
@@therealmr.incredible3179 Suing their children because firstly they don't care for their parents who spend every last penny on their children! Secondly, inheritance !
At 1:56 he's saying he has nothing left whereas at 1:27 he's saying just give a baby we'll raise them lol.. how self contradictory.. how can he raise a child when he can't take care of himself 🤣🙄🤣 also those crocodile tears...
Soory sir nd madam but Their personal choice they birth child or not Nd i agree they must take care of you guys But forcefully asking for grandchild. It's not good attitude
There are two stories floating one is parents spending their entire savings on the son's education and marriage, the second one is suing son and daughter in law for not bearing a child. The son should just return the money and start take caring of parents, let their be a new beginning. Suing son for a child is a cheap way. This case will not stand against the judge. Eventually the son will payback the money and starts taking care of the parents as it supposed to be. Brut media is famous for making Till ka Taarad.
No he shouldn't return the money as it was his parents own choice to spend this much money on their child and taking care of their child is their own responsibility
And if he paybacks then money and he shouldn't take care of his parents, either payback money and be free or don't payback money and take care of the parents
Indian parents need to respect their adult children as individuals and stop pressurizing them to be a certain way. The constant emotional blackmail drives them away!
This dynamic is so messed up. Giving so much manipulatively secretly hoping he will do what they want later is messed up. Him taking their money despite knowing this is also messed up. People stop taking and giving to your parents transactionally. If you know they are being manipulative, just figure out life on your own. The baggage is not worth it.
Taking care of the parents is what they should sue for...
But grandchildren 🙄
@@rajlaxmipathak2281 the ans to ur 1st sentence......don't live together toh don't live , may b they might have planned for some time that they'll b in long distance for some settlements in their respective careers , u never know🤷♀️......over to ur 2nd sentence, woh sab panchaat parents ko nahi chahiye , what is the wife is infertile?? What if she has some problem in conceiving ??? What if the husband isn't really doing well w his quality of sperms?? ...... also , what if the couple has a certain family planning??? ........kya kya kisam k problems aarahe hai bhai aajkal is desh me🤦🏻♀️ jo pehle k dowry wagaira problems the wahi solve nahi hue hai , upar se ye maa baap ka bhi jhel lo thoda sa🤦🏻♀️ this parent children relationship has become more of a business deal i feel nowadays!😑
@@rajlaxmipathak2281 Both are fucking pilots, they have different flights everytime
It's better to live more independently after 18 and try to pay your tuition fee for undergraduation .
Rather then spending a whole lot from parents and have huge expectation from them .
Or wasting your parents money for just 2 day show off wedding .
It's better to spend less on wedding and try to reduce it as a wedding ceremony rather than a Bollywood glamourous party
In this way , there parent could have saved their own retirement money too
so that they could have hired helper rather than forcing their daughter in law to live with them ( as she does have her parents too and have spent fortune in her studies too )
and
When given a option
What would u rather choose
An Indian life style or modern world lifestyle
I would choose modern
I don't care if I would graduate little bit late due to funds saving but the main thing attributing to is that less mental pressure
No wonder why India stands at almost last in world happiness index .
Have a life
They are mentally frustrated and just need a reason to live happily.
They are not in condition to make sound decision.
@@Hanzala_Siddique does the family know if th couple can have children? So many couples are murdered, or kill each other because of parents who are demanding, I old try to give them back the mo ey the spent on my schooling an leave for a far off place.
Why parents are always considered as victims and children as offenders?
There could be lots of reasons why the couple didn’t have kids:
- they didn’t want them
- they couldn’t due to infertility
- their marital life may already be at stake
Stop looking at children as a means of investment. They seem to have looked everything through the lens of money and return of investment. Expectations hurt. Children owe nothing to their parents. They didn’t choose to be born. Giving money and educating is part of parenting and f-ing constitutional right, which may or may not include love. Money is NOT love. Don’t produce children. If you do, don’t expect back anything in return.
If you are a good person, you don’t have to keep reminding them what good stuff you have done to them in all those years. That’s classic example of parental abuse. They will know it anyway and be grateful.
Only sane comment ! Most of the parents see their children as some kind of investment , who they will reap benefits out when they will grow old 😂
It was their decision to bring their son into this world .. they are deamanding things as if bande ne birth k sath contract sign kia ho unka khyl rakhne ka
P.s :- taking care of parents is a good thing but you can't force sm1 ye dunia he or yaha aisa he hota he .
Because people are dumb...
Couple should file reverse case against their parents for infringing upon their private life & harassing them.
pakka response, I agree with you, ankita19871.
That's right. Narcissistic parents sees children as an investment.
really hoping for a time when parents no longer consider children as their investment option
read what i said again thanks
@@marshyeIIow bro i agree
@Al-Dajjal It's better to live more independently after 18 and try to pay your tuition fee for undergraduation .
Rather then spending a whole lot from parents and have huge expectation from them .
Or wasting your parents money for just 2 day show off wedding .
It's better to spend less on wedding and try to reduce it as a wedding ceremony rather than a Bollywood glamourous party
In this way , there parent could have saved their own retirement money too
so that they could have hired helper rather than forcing their daughter in law to live with them ( as she does have her parents too and have spent fortune in her studies too )
and
When given a option
What would u rather choose
An Indian life style or modern world lifestyle
I would choose modern
I don't care if I would graduate little bit late due to funds saving but the main thing attributing to is that less mental pressure
No wonder why India stands at almost last in world happiness index .
Have a life
@Al-Dajjal so what? It’s a choice, plus not having babies will be good for the population as well. Regardless it’s a couple’s choice & should always be that way.
@Al-Dajjal yeah its ok and alright to not have kids.And it solely depend upon the couple.
Elon Musk once said "My children didn't choose to be born, I chose to have children. They owe me nothing I owe them everything". I mean not taking care of their parents is wrong but like this weird obsession of having grandkids is totally wrong. It's couple's personal choice.
Ofcourse a billionaire will do just fine without having his kids own anything to him but this cant be said for middle class people .
As it's lot harder for them to raise kids with proper education and resources provided.
Then why they chose to have kid at first if they can't even provide good facility
@@arzoosharma5721 i wonder how they will rise their grandchildren as both both parents and grandparents dont have money how will they solve this problem 🙃😕😕
@@roshinid8281 That's why it's important to be in right mindset and emotionally , financially , mentally fit before having kids. But it's too much for few people to understand.
yes 👍🏻
1:56 He says its hard for him to survive and has nothing left. Then how the hell having a grandchild would help that situation. 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ Just Indian things you know
You can always sell children to make money or make them beg on signals or both.
Also he said "hum pal lenge tum hume bacche de do"
They’re willing to die in starvation if they at least get a grandkid. Otherwise they want to be paid back all the money, like pilot training costs, so they can at least live out their elderly years properly.
Exactly.
@@AshishKumar-no9ns what bro, are you serious? 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭
Indirectly
They wanna sue daughter in law for not having grandkid just like how an ordinary in law does in this country .
She is lucky that she is having her husband side with her opinion at this moment .
👍
This is enough proof to tell that parents are not always right
Genuine and non selfish parents are always right in this case seems like they are greedy
Their decisions might be wrong but their intentions never be wrong
@@pachovachvaja thier devastating effects are irreversible and damage is also irreversible choose your words before barking 🤡
N they can adopt a grand kid too..
Parents suing their kid for not taking care of them is ok, but Suing them for not having a kid 🤷♂️
What if the son shells out 50 million rupees??? In logo ka naatak tab bhi band nahi hoga. Emotional blackmailing toh chalta hi rahega.
Yes but parents who love their children will NOT* ask for any sort of compensation
Also..
Yes your point is absolutely correct
But do the parents really want their sons love and attention?
They were just desperate for the money they invested in him
And suing them for not having a *son* is 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
To be fair they aren't suing him for not having a kid. Their culture dictates that you should spend all your money on your child to be successful, and that children in return looks after the parents. They said that they wanted to be looked after since they spent all their money on sending their son to the US to become a pilot. They would have taken a grandson as an alternative to that. There's a big difference. If you owe me money and can't pay and I say ok, cut my grass for a year instead, that is not the same as me saying I lent you money so you have to be my gardener now. The video title is misleading.
@@wangxi9823 arre waah, ab cheeni bhi Hindi bol rahe hai
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Happens only in India where the societal belief is that the ultimate aim of life is to get married and have children.
Population ka maachuda dega
Don't know about marriage, but having kids *IS* infact the ultimate aim of Life.
Idiot it is for compensation. Grandchildren wali baat media masala dalne ke liye focus kr rahi hai
They just want happiness...from their son..coz they spend all their money and life on him...but they didn't receive anything!!
@@ultravisitors No its not. The ultimate aim in life is to be happy, if having a kid makes u happy then good for u but no one should ever be forced to have a kid as that kid will prob face neglect their whole life and no one deserves that.
This is hilarious 😂
They should sue their son if he is not taking care of them but pressurizing him to have children is wrong
Nothing is ok.
There are so many murders of Indian wo en, I don't even know why they bother to get married. This man in austrailia set his wife on fire because she was from a poor family and could not pay the dowry, she died. She was trying to tell the police, but because she could not explain they misunderstood. Minutes austrailia 60 did the story, it's happening in America, UK, Canada because these horrible parent kno there are in a foreign country so no one will know. Just too many Indian Indian are being murdered. This poor woman has to be very careful she does not get murdered. I feel very sorry for them. I remembered when Sagdguru wife died, no one tested to see if she was poison. Now the movie star they all get away with it
Why should they sue their son? Who forced them to give birth?
So children should be allowed to sue parents for lack of investment in them as well? Like they never gave mein pocket money in lakhs so according to me I also wasn't really properly taken care of..so I should sue them as well? If in the end it's investment which they redeem in old age then why not question their investment as well..
where thw fuck contract that you can sue ? no child ever asked to be in your shitty house and populated city. so how any mf can sue the chind ?
First pouring all your money on your kids and then blaming him for not having saving is wrong on so many levels.
No matter how much you love your kids , it should be your responsibility to secure your future first as no one can be trusted in today's time and being dependent on someone for finances is not ideal.
Do help your kids but it should not come at the cost of having nothing left for yourself.
Having kids or not is choice of couple , this is emotional blackmailing at it's best .
They live in a different society to yours. In Indian culture parents are expected to spend all their money making sure their children are successful and children are expected to support their parents. Most families operate by having their sons and daughters in law live with them in their home till they die... and the cycle continues. Don't criticise the parents for living in a society where they are expected to spend all their money on their child.
Spending all their money on their child being successful is how you secure your future in their culture. This is literally why they have the law where you can sue them if they don't look after you.
@@zoolio I do know this is part of Indian culture but that doesn't make it right . For well being of everyone this needs to change and my intention is not to criticise but to just share my point of view .
Thanks for ur comment tho
@@arzoosharma5721 I agree it's not right, but anyone living in a certain culture has to follow the social norms. Imagine if in a tribe in Africa, where a woman is expected to cook and maintain the home, and the husband is expected to hunt for food. Let's say one day he decides he doesn't want to get food. Society falls apart. Changes need to be made, but not at the expense of those following the norms. His decision to not support his parents who sent him to the US to become a pilot (which in itself is insane, how mant parents in the US would support their child wanting to be a pilot) is selfish. He chose the most grandiose career, which came with a huge amount of money, which also entailed him having to be supported in a country where the living costs are 300% higher than India. He took advantage of the social norms to an extreme level, and now decides he doesn't want to follow them.
@@zoolio You made some great points , however aren't we still making assumptions that child is not supporting them ?
In entire video they said of having no savings but when they said that their son don't sends them money ? I think if that was the case ,they would have mentioned it for sure.
Secondly , asking money for sustenance is one thing but they are only doing it to get grandchild ,you can see how messed up it is...also how can a couple with no saving can say that they will raise their grandchild ?.
Also , their son and wife lives at different places for job purpose shows how difficult their life already is...how they can expect their daughter in law to come and stay with them ?
I hope you can see ,what I am trying to point out .
@Arzoo Sharma Why would they be financially struggling if their son is taking care of them? I don’t think he’s supporting them financially.
He should counter-sue for them birthing him and the law firm for taking such a ridiculously case. He didn’t ask for this crap! As a parent I say, kids don’t owe us anything for raising them responsibly. Period.
"Kids don't owe us" the point is not about owing , it's about teaching children to be greatful . This is relationship not business.
The fact that parents expecting anything from children itself feels so weird for me. Giving birth to children expecting them to pay back like you invest money and expect a profit later is actually doing business. It has got nothing to do with love and affection. I am also a mother of two married children never not even once I thought that I have done something for them and I wil neverl expect something from them. This mother's day when they greeted me and said thanks I actually said thanks to them for making me a mother. It is a privilege to have children.
@@Lat1111 Exactly.
@@Lat1111 time is there...you will get to know whether u have expectations or not...a relationship without expectation is not relationship...
@@Vor567tez exactly why the law shouldn't be dragged into this
We honestly have no right to expect anything from our future kids when it was our choice to bring them into this world. They owe us nothing but we owe a lot actually.
Very true.
Exactly I myself feel so bad that my parents chose to give me birth nd I m only 21 my parents doesn't give a damn about me do not pay well for my studies nd make me feel like burden I wonder if owe them or they owe me bcoz i didn't chose to be born. We r 3 siblings why did they bother to give birth to 3 child nd then give us lecture everyday about how they don't have money to spend on us why bother?
The brutal truth!
Just ask the daughter in law who will keep a baby for nine months, the struggle just to satisfy her in laws,,, after they are done playing with the baby, the mother has to only take care of the baby,,, what is this society, when will it change??? 😖
But yes at the same time,, the son is responsible for not taking care of them.. Fault is from both the sides
@@khusbumahapatra9651 Yes your point is absolutely correct
But do the parents really want their sons love and attention?
They were just desperate for the money they invested in him
@@aaryameshram7060 yes but having a grandchild won't solve their money issues, it may give peace for some but after some time money will be the real problem
@@khusbumahapatra9651 yes exactly💯💯 that's my point
If money is really the issue then they should not even think of child
@@khusbumahapatra9651 when this couple will get older they will have lots of money 😂 but not the child , what will they do with money? Just spend money for themselves and die afterwards lol.
Reproduction is the law of nature ..
They can be single and enjoy their life or focus on the career , but a day will come when they will think what was all this about? Building a career , earning money and then the death is ultimate truth .
What nonsense.Its the couples choice whether or not to have kids.
oh
Whether hota hai uncle
@@rahulrajhans3121 twitter?lol
Apna bacha dedo bro
@Nitish Kumar no it is not duty technically. parents should save money for themselves because children are not your slaves or nurses to take care of you everytime
The decision to have kids solely lies on the couple so I don’t agree with the parents there. But if they have spent so much on his higher studies (assuming it was him who wanted to go abroad), supported him when he was unemployed and also paid for his wedding, I believe that he has a responsibility to pay them back for it, esp now that they aren’t financially stable.
But it's so weird that they want a grandkid within a year or compensation.
@An Earthian I agree but I feel like they’re doing this out of desperation since they’re struggling financially :/
@@whoopsie9934 I agree that the son should help them financially. No doubt there. But it's weird how they are willing to raise a child by themselves and sue the couple for 5 cr. if the child is not given to them.
He didn't ask to be born. His passion was to study something he like and he did he didn't mess up. He has got a good job he's supporting them financially for sure otherwise they would've mentioned that. He only married for a year and is staying at different places. He's not interested in having a baby that's his choice. These parents thought like they just gave birth to a robot who could do everything they want I'm pretty sure that they've been mentally torturing him for all these years. They are looking the relationship as an investment. Pitty of them. It's quite bad to say that he should pay them back as it was his choice to study something that costs alot. He didn't even asked to be born that the reason he going through all these are they going to pay him a billion rupees which wouldn't even be enough as now he's insulted before the whole world, No they won't pay that. Similarly he shouldn't pay them as they are this toxic.
@@fabtins1993 no no they mentioned they married their son off in 2016.
If parents do their kids favour by spending money on them, then they should expect compensation only in terms of money, not by demanding to produce kids for their own pleasure.
Now you're talking business.
Partly agreed and partly disagreed. Agreed that parents should not demand grandchild, because their intention here is clearly blackmail. They don't have money to maintain themselves, son and daughter in law don't live together and are too busy to have children, who will take care of the grandchild? They can sue for not taking care of them, to either get monetary compensation or have their son/bahu live with them to take care of them. But asking for a grandchild doesn't add up with their narrative.
Disagreed that parents should only expect compensation in monetary terms. They raise children using money AND blood and sweat. Their love is not exchangeable for money.
Ooiih...
Kya baat hei, wah wah
Very true
@@shubhamjohri290 absolutely.... as i said .... its a surrogate complaint. They dont want money it just a guise. What if the son pays 5 crore.
The words he’s using openly that they should be ‘given’ a grandchild itself is dangerous. This man treats children as possessions. That’s how he’s treating his own son. I can’t imagine how they must be treating their daughter in law.
A grandchild within 1 year or 5 crore, what sort of comparison is this !
True ! It sounds like he needs pet more than grand kid. And why wld the couple painstakingly birth a child and give it to them . Did they give their son to their parents ?
What rubbish are you saying man !! I get that asking for a grand child is a grandfathers right .. making one is the parents choice ..thier decision none to interfere .. but dont mistake their demand for a grandkid as possesion or asking for a pet ..
@@harshgoel8411 it sure seems like one. I also prefer to ignore such legal cases .Its show the regressed state of the country and we have bigger issue to tackle . They wasted courts time they shld compensate the court .
@@harshgoel8411 It's nobody's right to 'demand' a child from someone else
He should counter sue them for Rs. 1 for giving birth to him.
😂
Agreed. Only few knew power of Rs. 1.
Lol
😂😂😂😂
@@shilpasri8777 😅🤣
The judge is gonna dismiss the case in the FIRST HEARING !!
Nobody can sue an ADULT MARRIED COUPLE for deciding to NOT CONCIEVE. IT'S THEIR CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHT.
I mean , according to me this is nonsense . But Hindu marriage act has something known as restitution of conjugal rights , it may also have something regarding this issue too .
i would not be surprissed if they asked their son for grandson only 😂😂
Haha true
they had son of their own and he turn out to be shit , maybe if they had had daughter they would be better now
Actually they want grandson only but couldn't say this in front of camera 💀
sometimes parents go too far and replace their children 's happiness with their expectations.
True
"sometimes"....
Always🥲
This couple looks wicked……psychotic types,who want to harass their son and daughter in law for no reason whatsoever.All the crying and all looks like crocodile tears…..just nautanki.
They have complete right to sue thier son and daughter in law for not taking care of them, but suing them for not giving a grandchild is straight out illogical and somewhat selfish🙇♀️
This case will not stand infront of court, finally the case will be dismissed.
@@niksri412 okay thankyou
So every parent of an Indian girl can sue their son in law for taking away their daughter?
@@twoshakesofaratsass4748 that will be a null case cause it's in our culture that a girl has to go to her in laws some day, but a girl's parents can must sue if thier son in law is harassing them
@@twoshakesofaratsass4748 hahha good one 😜😜
It's not affordable to have children in this day and age.
It is when your parents pay for all your education, support you for 2 years when you have finished your education, and also say they will take on the full burden of looking after your child when you have it so you can continue with your career. Of course it is down to the person if they want to have a child or not, and they may have lots of reasons why they don't want to, but not being affordable isn't the case here.
@@zoolio it is. You have to feed the children too
Brother watch the full video first
their parents spent all their savings on their son and he betrayed them
@@DisciplinedTrader27 Aren't you making assumptions by saying he betrayed them. What did he do. Do you really think he's not helping them
If they are financially broke they won't say that they would raise the child the only real problem these parents have is that the son is not ready to give birth to a child which is his choice. They are asking money instead which shows what thier real priority is. His son is now insulted before the world is he going to pay back for that. Don't judge the son due to stereotypes. I think he's a good guy. If these parents really loved him they would never talk about money and all. Pity of them they don't deserve him.
This couple is wrong on so many levels. First spend without future plan, secondly harrass own son. Thirdly, you didn't spend money on that girl's upbringing
For what would she pay back?
Why should a husband pay compensation to divorced wife in a childless marriage? For what is the husband paying back 🤪
@@shubhamjohri290 They are legally connected when they got married.
If a husband files a divorce it will be his obligation to pay for his spouse's well being.
If a wife files a divorce she won't have any money or any part of spouse's property and in the same manner she has to secure her (ex) spouse's well being by giving money.
Whether you have child or not.
We see men mostly pay for their women after the divorce. It's because they file the divorce, not the woman.
@Annisha Actually you’re wrong. About 70% of the divorces are initiated by women yet men have to pay most of the times.
@@whoopsie9934 there's a difference between initiating and filing.
Or maybe they already have enough money for themselves but just want to emotionally blackmail their son and get some sympathy from the people and the media?
Without any offence to their emotions, I personally feel that reproductive rights of women are over marriage expectations.
If they really like children, they can adopt any orphan. Why to emphasise on having our own footprint to express love & care.
True.
Eat, sleep, marry, make babies, repeat.
This is Indian society in nutshell.
@@lol311 add die than repeat
@@lol311 yes I agree as an indian
His only son should file a case against their parents that why did they bring him to this world. Because of which he has to suffer so much in this world. Ridiculous....
@@rajlaxmipathak2281 there are other pains in life apart from just getting a job. What is it that the best of riches commit suicide? It's not about money only. This complaint itself is surrogate complaint. The couple has asked for a grandchild or 5 cr. What if their son gives them a grandchild and no money. Elderly couple says that they will bear the child. How can a pilot's son live with poor nearly begging grandparents.
@@wangxi9823 well i don't know the inside story but they're also saying that the young couple don't live together..i think they're demanding a grand child so that after having a baby the young couple will live together like a proper family..
@@rajlaxmipathak2281 see at present time individuals are more focused towards their career and money. The social and financial security is a major concern clearly being shown by the elderly couple. It's upto the couple and their priorities. The elderly couple has nothing to do with it.
There's already such case from Mumbai
@@aditigupta7222 Parents try to provide the best facility to their kids so that they can grow up, get good jobs and support themselves and the parents in old age. The parents here are wrong to demand a grandkid, but right to demand that their son/bahu take care of them or pay up. Agreed that the parents were unwise if they spent all their life savings on the kid's future, but that doesn't delete the son's responsibility towards them at any rate.
Indian parents and their expectations are truly unbelievable
He said...he gave all his savings for his son......his son didn't ask to be born you know.....if he has given birth to a child...it was his responsibility to take care of him ....(ofc) I don't expect him to spend all his life's savings on that child....apart from that....what his son does in his life , how he wants to live is up to the child
Why would you assume parents have responsibility to care for child? Children are simply byproducts of sexual gratification. They can leave their child in a dumpster for all they care. Many animal parents enjoy a good time together, lay their eggs/babies and leave them to fend for themselves.
On the other hand, if you think it is the parents' responsibility to look after the child as far as the human species is concerned, then you can't disregard the child's responsibility to reciprocate this love and care later in life when the parents need his/her support. The law of the land recognizes this fact. A child also has responsibility to look after parents.
@@shubhamjohri290 then the parents better not conceive and bring to conclusion their filthy lust driven sexual activity. There's so much struggle and suffering in this world and the child is, in a way, forced to face all of that. Why should a son or daughter owe anything to their parents? Were they asked if they wished to be born in this goddamn world? Atleast, were they ever asked if they are happy with this so called "gift" of a human life?? I really pitty such stupid parents who look at their children as a matter of old age investment. They deserve absolutely zero attention and care from their children.
@@shubhamjohri290 I as an offspring ...it is my responsibility to take care of my parents...and that is where it ends.
How in gods name is it my responsibility to reproduce for them....don't I have any free will ?
And as per your argument if parents are not responsible for children and it is just products of sexual gratification.
In that case it should be legally not wrong to abandon a child on the street, don't you think
Also in a reverse scenario... how ridiculous would it be that...I as a child sue my parents because they did not give me a sibling ?
It's better to live more independently after 18 and try to pay your tuition fee for undergraduation .
Rather then spending a whole lot from parents and have huge expectation from them .
Or wasting your parents money for just 2 day show off wedding .
It's better to spend less on wedding and try to reduce it as a wedding ceremony rather than a Bollywood glamourous party
In this way , there parent could have saved their own retirement money too
so that they could have hired helper rather than forcing their daughter in law to live with them ( as she does have her parents too and have spent fortune in her studies too )
and
When given a option
What would u rather choose
An Indian life style or modern world lifestyle
I would choose modern
I don't care if I would graduate little bit late due to funds saving but the main thing attributing to is that less mental pressure
No wonder why India stands at almost last in world happiness index .
Have a life
I agree that parents or relatives shouldn't force their children to have kids. However, the son should pay his parents the amount spent for his education at least. It's only fair that he returns back the favour after all.
They spent around 60 lakh..if we take interest in mind . It still should not be more than 1.5 cr at best..suing for 5 cr is stupid.
How's that fair where's a relation and love if it's all about money. He should look after them if he loves them and they shouldn't talk like that about money. If they are talking they are not loving thier child but investing on him for the days when they can't do things properly. The son doesn't leave them for suffering they don't deserve him.
It's so sounds so stupid ... Why that son should pay the compensation??? I mean producing a child was their own choice and now there son is taking a long in making them grand parents so now they want compensation ....
Did the son get to decide to be born? Did he get to decide at 4 years old if he even wanted to go to school? Raising children is not business.
Decision is on his son whether he wants to return the money his parent paid for his tuitions or not. If he didn't forced his parents for money and If it's not logged on any legal paper nobody can help, and having a baby is a decision of couples not his parents.
And people say parents love is unconditional🤦♀️
Edit: not my opinion! Ok?
That's very selfish of you to assume that someone's love, blood, sweat and dedication to you is unconditional. That you can continue to receive their care without somehow reciprocating it. It's a thought full of entitlement. Do you love your parents on the condition that their love to you is unconditional? In which case, your love itself is conditional and you can't really expect unconditional love from them.
@@shubhamjohri290 love is always conditional, everyone loves conditionally only.
@@shubhamjohri290 Totally agreed, Sir.
@@shubhamjohri290 i never said my love is unconditional , it never was and it never will be! But people always say "parents always love their children unconditional, selfish children leave them"
So, where is unconditional love?
It's not!
Even parents are selfish and if so, u can't expect your kids to definitely take care of u in old age. It was your choice to give birth, not the kids choice! So why are kids bound to take care of you? It was your selfish greed to have a child not their! Parents are more selfish than their children!
This is insane! It's alright to have hopes but not the ones that are torturing and unrealistic. They are either psychopathic or are doing this as a hatred towards their daughter in law. Sad but true. This is what keeps the Indian society on a drawback,even when the nation grows and becomes stronger
Kuchh bhi
Why you blame everything on the society if one couple blackmails their son to have a child?
@@shubhamjohri290 because they are a part of this society and their mindset is what most people have
@@shubhamjohri290 most people are like this... they are suing thats why we know about them.. or else this is very common.
They brought him into this world, it's their responsibility to spend and take care of their child. No parents should expect or demand return for doing their job.
What's wrong with you guys? Teaching kids ,it's okay to be ungrateful. Like what!
The fact that you think parenting is just some 9-5 job is ridiculous.
@@Vor567tez I think kids should visit their parents and spend time with them and take care of them
@@Vor567tez kids do not tell parents to produce them...it was their choice.... children do not owe parents just for giving birth and taking care of basic expenses
@@sreelakshmielayath20 then stop celebrating mother's day and father's day and stop complaining about mother's being treated as unpaid servant
Fault is from both sides.
1. It is the responsibility of grown up children to take care & give respect to their elderly parents (both his/her parents as well as his/her in laws)
2. As in this case it's seen that the parents have spent all their money on their son, thus now it's their child's duty to support the parents.
3. Also parents need to understand that children should also be given their personal space.
4. Parents/In laws should never force a couple to have a kid anyhow within a year. Every couple needs time to understand each other. Above all women's body is not a machine that it can produce child anytime whenever desired. To bear a child huge responsibility comes, when a couple thinks they are ready for a child then only they should.
5. It's not bad to keep expectations but putting pressure to bear a child within a year it's the sign of an uneducated person. And even if a woman bears a child and if the couple fails to take care of the child then the child will be mentally as well as physically unfit.
Not agree form 3 to 5 point
@@anuragkr3026 ok so tell your points...we might understand your point of view too
Very well said asmita nath 💯💯
@@anuragkr3026 why?
Only 46% of youth is employed. In such critical country producing kids is criminal
Ridiculous, they can surely demand respect, love and even money... But having a child is one's own rights... How can court interfere in that
To have kids or not, it is their decision not yours. You gave your everything for him, that was also your decision, as you decided to be his parents not vice versa. If you understand and respect your son and daughter-in-law may be they will also want to live with you and take care of you. Jabardasti bacha krk kon khush rahega, wo ya aap, aap log buzurg ho gae ho, kuch time baad apko khud chaie hoga koi khayal rakhne wala.
Exactly! To all those who wanna know abt a parent's right , do checkout a poem called On Children by Kahlil Gibran ..... he says that , in God's pov , ur children are not ur children but my children, the parents are just a medium for a child's arrival into the world , the parents shouldn't CONTROL CONTROL their children's life
There would be a time when you will be parent , and you will understand 😂...
Very true 👌
The deal was either 5cr or a grandchild...
Son and daughter in law have a responsibility to take care of parents. Law recognizes this fact. But yes, demanding child is not logical.
The guy should counter sue em for giving birth without his consent.
💯🤷 exactly
Children are by-products of sexual act. You don't have to take their consent to have sexual act. And anyway their consent is unobtainable before they are born.
@@shubhamjohri290 he was just saying it in a sarcastic way....
@@aaryameshram7060 some people don't understand sarcasm
Omg..... can't stop laughing.Wat a thinking.Thank God I m not jugde....mujhe to court mei hi hasi aa jaati.
@Upsc Quickies My pleasure 🙏😇
@Andhrudu u r behaving like these parents.... having an offspring is a choice ,not an obligation.Moreover they may hav sm other reasons or problems.It is completely subjective issue .They shud take care of their parents (in case they r really not doing so)but the other part is not just.
Parents decision not to have a child is a good decision
If one doesn't have a child within 2-3 years of marriage, everyone starts talking about the problems boy and girl might have, and mostly about the girl, " there is something wrong with her" or always ask them why they don't have kids. It's up to them when they want to have a child when they are ready. Society questions if they are going to benefit from all of this.
This is example of one of many pyscho parents in India.
On one side they are " humare paas kuch nahi bacha" and on another "humein baccha do hum sambhal lenge"🤔🤔 Uncle ek hi sambhal lete to Aaj yedin nahi aata. Yes parents are children's responsibility ofcourse, they deserve all your love n respect in first place, but this uncle took it too far.
😅 yeah ... also uncle looks kinda young... he can still earn ... it is the gig economy after all.😁
The parents are so about themselves. Choosing to have a child or not is very personal. They also mentioned that the son is a pilot, obviously he won't be able to spend quality time with anyone in that job. Imagine the level of stress and pressure the son would be in now. Completely wrong in all levels.
money for wellfare is fine and all but the logic that we need money or grandson is kind of not comparable
Children should not think of their parents as "ATM".
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Parents should not think of their children as "Investment".
What parents or children think or not think is irrelevant from what is logically correct. That if a child is loved and cared for, then he has to love and care for the parent. And vice versa.
@@shubhamjohri290 not needed, if someone loves me then I am not obligated to love them back.
sure they will sue their own grandchild for not having kids too stupid society
Shame on such a father and mother!!! Why the hell this this world behaves like this, that being parents means Masters and their children should be their copies or servants or be like how the parents want them to be.
How the hell that old couple can force their son to have child if he isn't ready yet or don't want to have. It's his choice. If the parents can't live with a grand child they should have asked their son in his teenage itself what would he want (though it's a nonsense idea). If the teenage boy would deny the parents should have kicked out the boy outta the home. It would have been better for the boy then to hear his father calculating the total cost he made to raise the boy. Disgusting!!!!
The parents can demand justice if their son and daughter in law tortured them, or left them in their old age or miss treated them. But they can't ask any justice because it doesn't make even a sense if their son and daughter in law are not ready to become parents yet. I am feeling bad for the son because he would be blamed by the world and would be accused of being a bad son who leaves his parents in the old age. The parents should be behind the bars using the benefit of their old age. He is suing his son and asking for compensation just because their son isn't ready to become a father yet.
Their intention is clearly understandable. They are asking either for a grand child or a money. If they are so financially weak, what would a grand child do a good to them? That in fact would add a lot of expenditure to their present ones. Raising a newly born kid is so expensive. I don't understand that. If they are financially weak they should ask for compensation not a grand child. Suing their son and accusing of mental torture is all a way to get a grand child.
This mindset in Indian society will never be eradicated I guess. Parents forcing their sons and daughter in law to have kids as soon as possible.
I totally agree with you.
@@nanny8673 Yeah... Thanks...
It is not even their son's choice। it is their daughter-in-law's decision- whether to carry a life in her womb or not।
I think it should be mutual decision rather than flagging unnecessary feminism
@@surajmaurya2553 no it is not a mutual decision। a person incapable of holding an embryo in his body should have a say in what should go on in a woman's body। cut down on your ever pervasive mansplaining।
It a couple decision with women veto .
@@preronaghosh3654 ok then tell the daughter in law to take all the responsibility of the child because it's only her choice😌😌
@@preronaghosh3654 hope you didn't missed your biology classes, having baby between the age of 21-32 is good for baby's and mother's health .. you can stretch the age to 35 , she has to decide quickly , if she decides do do it later , she will be responsible for the risk associated to her and babys health .. so don't skip the biology classes indeed. It would be better for he to live a black and white life while watching other couples live a colourful life, once the age increases she would think about it, but the time would have been passed.
Are o chacha , we’re already 142 crore+ aur kitna bada family chaiye apko🙂🙂
On seeing the thumbnail I thought it's a video about kids torturing their parents but after reaching the end of this video I found it was totally reverse .
Is marriage only for having a 'baccha' ...😑😑
Those who don't have kids run pillar to post to have kids with any medical methods ..
Everything in this nature reproduces to keep the generation running , from small insects to the humans. This is the rule of nature..
Worst parents ever.
Yeah worst parents who paid for their son’s abroad studies, wedding, and supported him when he was unemployed....ever thought that maybe they’re doing this out of desperation since they’re short on money after spending everything on their son? Although I agree that demanding a grandchild is ridiculous and they’re wrong for that.
@@whoopsie9934 dude its the duty of a parent to provide for their children , if they didn't want to do that why did they even give birth to him lol ? How they are asking him the money back like shameless guys . Also you never know if the son cared for his parents or not ? Why beleiving them without hearing the child.
@Saahil In most western countries, parents have a responsibility towards their child only until they’re 18. Some are even kicked out and asked to fend for themselves and pay for their own education. So if they’ve paid for his abroad education (assuming its him who wanted to study abroad), also his wedding and supported him when he was unemployed, these were all favours not responsibilities of the parent. If the parents are barely surviving, its quite clear that he isn’t supporting or taking care of them.
Real face of parenting in India. I think American's one is lot better as the parents never think to rely on their children.
They also have bad parents but yes...one thing I like about their culture is that they keep very low expectations..
Did these two demons die? Or are they still living?
Filing case for not getting taking cared of is needed. But this is utter Disgrace.. Any individual after 18 have a choice of their own.
Tf is wrong with these parents ?
This can happen only in India
Having kids or not it is individual choice but. Not living with their parents and treating them in this way that they did nothing. it is not fair.
As per Indian law parents have legit ground to sue them if they don't fulfil Their responsibility towards their elderly parents..but suing them because they don't want to have children of their own won't stand in court as it is the right and decision of the couple alone.
Grandson is the fake reason for suing him ,the main reason is MONEY
The fact that they are trying to be like oh I'm deeply hurt and mentally traumatized because my son is not getting married or having a baby and then asking him for such a huge amount of money for emotional damage is so sick !!
They could have just asked for compensation for their expenses as they've spend their money on his education . But forcing someone to have a biological child is statutory rape .
This happens only in my country 😂...
Mera Bharat Mahan 😂........
yeah
Sister donot disrepect india like that I understand that their many prejudices here but its because of our traditions that marriages last longer in india perhaps for the whole life
@@shubhombora9633 ha dude i know i am just saying it in a funny way ..i am aware of my culture and it's richness and i am proud .plss don't take it seriously 🙏
They should adopt a child. Rather than behaving like a child.
They refused for puppy in his childhood so he is refusing for kids now.
it is a childs duty to take care of his or her parents. obviously suing them for not having a grandchild is wrong but i think they are only doing it out of desperation since they have no money for themselves to survive.
What if the son gives them a grandchild and gives them nothing else. No money nothing and even deserts their own child.
Exactly this.
@@wangxi9823 Abe sale wahi toh manga un parents ne...
You’re just giving them the benefit of the doubt.
And a lot of times the parents force their children to pursue expensive post secondary education.
They are asking for child if they don't have money are they going to sell the child to have the money seriously have a common sense
how could you force anyone to give birth rubbish
What sort of parents are they
How to solve temper tantrums of parents..a big question now a days
We can understand they want some love of having grandparents but they have to also understand that it's up to their son and his wife what they want for future
Good lord. If they want a kid THIS badly, go to an Indian ophanage and adopt one. This is so weird and manipulative. Your son has his OWN life. He is his own individual.
Absurd!
Also he has mentioned that he has nothing. Wonder what he will give his grandchild. .......or will he sue his son again?
They thinks giving birth to children is the ultimate aim of marriage. Wtf
This is wrong on so many levels. I'm not saying children shouldn't take care of their parents but having kids or not is solely the couple's own choice isn't it?
Mere dadi ji mere bachpan mai akhsar kahte the ki "jab jab tu bada hita chala jayrga tab tab tuje ye samaj bht h ajeeb sa lagega" 😊
Dadi ji ap ne sehi kaha tha
The world is overpopulated and it's better not to have kids and further depletes it's resources. But theirs son and daughter in law must help parents financially.
Right 👍👍👍
Its their choice to have kids, but they should give money to them as they raised him...
Parents who love their children don't sue their child for money....
You can also say children who love their parents won’t abandon them esp when they’re financially unstable.
@@whoopsie9934 ohh ..yes even that is wrong!! If they abandoned their parents...that very wrong....
Did they?
@@aaryameshram7060 not completely true, different scenarios, different justification
@@antithanos5246 um yeah ...maybe ryt!
Thank you brut!
U help me a lot to learn english
And I think u will , because your pickup words are great , seriously I wasn't know what's sued ....But now I know
And yes I watch you only for word not for news😍
They can demand money to live comfortably, or others, but forcing for a baby, is baseless.
Never hold expectations from anybody. The minute you do that you will experience disappointment and sadness when it is not met.
Parents who bear children for the sole purpose of benefiting themselves is a selfish reason.
Having said that , children that are loved unconditionally, clothed, fed and educated should themselves realize that they should take care of their parents and love them unconditionally.
I'm sorry? Why else would anybody want a child but for selfish reasons? It's for the continuation of the human race, the family values and genes. And for the parents to have someone to care for them in old age when their eyesight, hearing and strength slowly diminishes. No act in this world is completely selflessly altruistic (done without selfish reasons).
There's a way through which you can kill yourself without much pain, we get that way in most hospitals, it's usually those old-aged people who're suffering from any severe painful diseases and they get that type of death. Old-age is all about physical issues, why take help of anyone? When you can die a painless death easily, when your body has stopped working without any ease.
Many people donate money to poor people's, for there education, just because they want to increase positive aspects in this world and contribute to social welfare dude. What about them?
The son should Siu his parents for not giving him a sibling. Then only the parents will take back the case.
Our teacher while teaching ecology gave example of parent and child as mutualism which means each has benifit from each other.. I disagreed that time thinking of the superior love i guess i was wrong
As a orphan I see this as an absolute win
How do you manage in society and can you explain how orphan s struggle in society please make vlogs I am interested to know
this is what happen when u don't have your own purpose in life u will create purpose in others (like your children and grandchildren)
Yeh sab natak hai... You chose to have children you wanted to make your already busy life more hectic by chosing to have children..... And now you are saying that humara jitna paysa tha bete pe uda dia.. Toh bhaii agar ye sab hi bolna hota toh bachcha payda hi kyun kia.... World population is increasing, there's is hunger poverty, and many more issues already existing...then why to give birth to an innocent life and expect things from them? Your son and daughter in law are really sensible for making this choice.
That's right. Now is literally the time to stop having children as the world's population seem to be getting increasingly out of control. This old mediaeval mentality of having 7,8,9,10,11,12 children in a single house needs to be eradicated.
Johnny Depp and Amber Turd - "We have an absolutely wild legal battle going on...."
Indian couple - "Hold our Chai and Samosas" 💀
Done with earth time for mars 😅
How are they going to take care of the grandchild if they themselves are striving to survive.
Caring parents who spend every bit of their income is the permanent responsibility of the child!
Yes. Suing to have a child? No.
@@therealmr.incredible3179 why not ? .in West it common that bill have condition of blood- grandkids before certain year of marriage .
Is it even ethical to bear child for some sort of bargain. That's what we are reduced to .... we are so shallow. Give and take you spend on me ... so that I spend on you.
@@therealmr.incredible3179 Suing their children because firstly they don't care for their parents who spend every last penny on their children!
Secondly, inheritance !
@@wangxi9823 How you think our civilization survived, if we just give without expecting anything in return then we are ending up with nothing
Let's face it, Asian parents are bad at drawing the line of boundaries with family members.
Another business deal gone bad. This mother and father wants to be paid for their love. How extraordinarily selfish. The kids didn't sign no contract.
You have to produce it before one year 👶, so start the drill quickly 😂😂
Bhai sahab 😂
😂
The epitome of parental pressure!
I hope the son counter sue them for their stupidity. Children didn’t sign a contract to give you a grandchild.
It's their decision to have child.They can adopt if they want kid
At 1:56 he's saying he has nothing left whereas at 1:27 he's saying just give a baby we'll raise them lol.. how self contradictory.. how can he raise a child when he can't take care of himself 🤣🙄🤣 also those crocodile tears...
Soory sir nd madam but
Their personal choice they birth child or not
Nd i agree they must take care of you guys
But forcefully asking for grandchild.
It's not good attitude
There are two stories floating one is parents spending their entire savings on the son's education and marriage, the second one is suing son and daughter in law for not bearing a child.
The son should just return the money and start take caring of parents, let their be a new beginning.
Suing son for a child is a cheap way. This case will not stand against the judge. Eventually the son will payback the money and starts taking care of the parents as it supposed to be.
Brut media is famous for making Till ka Taarad.
If he pays back money he is not obliged to take care
No he shouldn't return the money as it was his parents own choice to spend this much money on their child and taking care of their child is their own responsibility
And if he paybacks then money and he shouldn't take care of his parents, either payback money and be free or don't payback money and take care of the parents
Indian parents need to respect their adult children as individuals and stop pressurizing them to be a certain way. The constant emotional blackmail drives them away!
This dynamic is so messed up. Giving so much manipulatively secretly hoping he will do what they want later is messed up. Him taking their money despite knowing this is also messed up. People stop taking and giving to your parents transactionally. If you know they are being manipulative, just figure out life on your own. The baggage is not worth it.
Lol lets see when the guy countersuing them for not giving him siblings😆
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