Lol hell no. My mom is the queen of TAKE OVER spirit. That lady will turn my wedding into a family reunion and not give one flying f*ck about it😭😂🤚🏽 no mam. No mam.
Why is Adrienne so surprised when loni said how much the average wedding costs ... this girl is all about designer and her wedding cost my whole life I know she ain’t acting surprised...
I think she was more surprised because it's regular people that weddings cost an average of 35,000k, she knows she's a celebrity....I guess she's being realistic about us regular folks lol. I mean I was like hell no when Loni stated how much a wedding cost. I'm just going to elope I think lol.
@@serenanwokoye Definitely not. I understand that culture and tradition play a few roles in these things, but it doesn't make any sense for people to not have a say on a day that's supposed to be about them. Already told my mom - she can do what she wants on my traditional wedding, but she has to let me do what I want for the white wedding.
@Diana Taran I'm in an interracial relationship so the stress of planning the wedding with the families at war was awful! Eventually we just made the decision to choose our own happiness. The only person who was always on my side was my mom so once I got the go-ahead from her I really didn't care what anyone else thought. There was some drama with my husband's family but they still haven't gotten through with writing him off like they threatened to do so it's pretty much worked out.
My mom is helping pay for my wedding but she also wants me to have exactly what I want rather than what she thinks is best for me. She already had her own wedding to plan she doesn’t need to control all of mine, especially if you and your mom have very different tastes. Why would you not want to plan your own wedding with your future husband? No point in having a wedding if you two can’t work together to make it the most personal and meaningful celebration of your life. My mom doesn’t need that stress.
Hell no. Me and my mom have completely different taste in things. It won’t be MY wedding if I got my mom to plan it for me. I’ll ask for her input and leave her in charge with some things, but the whole wedding? No ma’am.
I would not let my mom plan the whole thing 😂 but I would let her join in on the fun of planning. At the end of the day, it’s my wedding and my special day 🤷🏾♀️. I love my mom so I would definitely involve her a lot though.
my mom didn't just plan my entire wedding but also got my dress and make up done by whoever she chose. I was always taught "Momma knows best". Now, 20 years later I've learned about narcissism.
I wouldn't mind it. She's not only my mama, but my best friend. She's got great taste and we usually agree on likes and dislikes. Mama, if you ever see this comment, go ahead and plan my future wedding if you like!
Hell yes, me and my mom are bestfriend she knows everything I love. She knows my dream wedding down to the flavor of cake. And include my hubz in ways I probably wouldn't even think too. Hell that woman could probably make my wedding more amazing than I could!🤣
My mom did plan mine. I was 800 miles away and everyone loved it. Had so much fun!! I was not stressed and she did an amazing job. Between here and my mother-in-law all details were done.
just because they pay doesn't mean they should have *their* way at *your* wedding. the bride and mom should either compromise or the mom should not pay at all..
My Mother won't just pick out all the wedding details... she will also pick out the GROOM... so if your reading this... please pray for my future... 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
That’s my situation right now lol my wedding is this December and I love that my momma respects my choices but I did let her take over all the decor decisions just because she’s amazing at it! And it takes the stress off me 😭❤️ plus she’s my bestfriend and knows all my tastes 💖 BUT never would I let her do the guest list cuz she would be bringing people I don’t even know lol
My mom planned my entire wedding because I was a couple states away. And she did an amazing job. I told her my theme and colors and she did everything I would of wanted. We have the same taste and style. And I loved everything she did.
Heck no! My Mom and I have different tastes and she would have stuff that I didn't like and I know there wouldn't be alcohol at the wedding lol. Like Tam Tam I would involve my Mom in helping me plan however there will be some things that I just want me and my fiancé to do without my parents involvement.
Funny enough I get my great sense of clothing taste from my aunt and party planning/decor from my father . I would let my dad plan my wedding bc his interior design skills are literally so peak (probably bc he’s picky and he just doesn’t throw out anything onto stuff when he plans )
I love Disney so my mom would just assume that I want Mickey and Minnie for everything and then it’ll end up looking like a birthday party instead so no lol
I wouldn’t let my mom plan my wedding. That is my best friend’s job. We have talked about it and my best friend would be a total bridezilla, he would cuss people out if they had something to say about my upcoming marriage and all that stuff, he would say it’s her day you don’t get an opinion of people were butting in the planning, and he would give me the wedding I would want too, so that’s why I would let him plan my wedding. He’ll be the wedding planner, the mother of the bride, the maid of honor, the minister, the wedding singer and everything in between.
Lol I got married at the court house. So it only cost as much as the license, we bought some nicer clothes, and a nice little cake less than 300$ for everything. 👍🏼🙃
My mom basically has planned my entire life. At my graduation party I had 400 people and I didn't even know half of those people. I dont even want to think about a wedding. But I know she disown me if I dont let her plan so, I do it anyway lol.
I would absolutely let my mom plan my entire wedding. I would actually trust my mom over any friends and a party planner. She has Impeccable taste and wouldn’t cut corners.
Never I want to plan my wedding with my fiancé tbh it’s a bonding moment for the married to be the wedding should represent the couple and what they like and not the mother of the bride
In my country the couple pays for the weeding, not the parents, if they can they will help you for sure, but the couple pays for everything, but they usually get, or mostly get their money back from guest cause we don't give gifts, we give money as presents. For me it's better this way, I don't need 4 toasters or Idk what, give me the money for that, that will help me more than those toasters. So basically the couple pays and most of the times they get their money back from the guests and sometimes they even make some profit, and sometimes no unfortunately
My mom if she was here would not she would be like its your wedding you plan it also I am planning on if I do get married on either just having something small or eloping I would much rather spend the money on travelling, a house or my possible future children.
If my wedding was planned by my mother I would have been married in a church, in june, big puffy white dress, and it probably cost $$$$$$$. I preferred out 10 people, in my backyard, $25 random off white dress (technically not a wedding dress), and homemade cake and brisket. It only cost us about $175 give or take.
My mom would be mad at me for even thinking of putting all that stress of planning on her! She'd start yelling at me for being inconsiderate lol. In our culture the man pays for it, but it's up to the bride who plans it.
Ehhhh. I see the point, but it’s your wedding. Just bc your mom pays for it (which is tradition although my momma won’t be doing it lmao) doesn’t mean that she should dictate it, bc what if you hate it? I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s tastes are 100% different than my moms. This is my wedding day. Maybe if she did it and I could oversee everything and be like yes or no.
Everyone in the comment section saying hell no but I'm over hear like why not 😅. Like if I plan my own wedding I'm making a list and when I'm done ticking everything off then we're setting a date even if it's 2 years later lol - but seriously my mom and aunt would probably still try to get my input and the end up getting annoyed with and annoying me because I would be like "Yeah that's fine whatever" and they would be all like "see it's your wedding so you need to be sure, we're just helping so yes or no etc etc" and my ass would get hella irritated with that because that's why I gave the responsibility to you cause I'm not with it. Anyway they could plan and handle everything but my dress tho
I'm Nigerian, my mom is practically already planning on who to invite to my wedding and I don't even have a boyfriend yet. We don't have your type of liberties!! 😂 My sister and I always joke about wanting to do a destination wedding because of it.
My mom could help plan my wedding but im not gonna let her make all the decisions. I want her apart of everything but i want the things i want and like. And she wouldnt wanna do all tht anyways she wanna b a guest and kickback nd enjoy. Tbh im finna go to the courthouse and then spend all the wedding money on a fat ass reception and get turnt tf up
Lol I have 3 mom figures in my life. My birth mom, I love her but hell no for the drinks hell no!! I am a drink guru. My other moms I would maybe let help but for the most part no. I would let them help with the wedding but only one of them gets my taste. But I’m like Tam I wanna see touches of me and my fiancé.
Hell no, my mom knows absolutely NOTHING about me and she has told me that. And it's sad because she raised me, but we never had a bonding relationship. I really don't know much about who my mom is either. I am happily married and I eloped in Japan then told my family a month later through text message.
No way I would ever let my mom plan my wedding or really much of anything involving my life. I plan to just elope and spend the first week with my husband and then have a get together like a bbq or something to celebrate with family and friends.
No she would not be planning my entire wedding! It would be extremely plain! I like bright colors and lots of bling! She would have me looking like the most basic mayonnaise ever! And that is rude to expect to have some say in what goes in someone else’s wedding just because you pay for it! If you’re going to do something nice for someone do it without any expectations back!
Lol hell no. My mom is the queen of TAKE OVER spirit. That lady will turn my wedding into a family reunion and not give one flying f*ck about it😭😂🤚🏽 no mam. No mam.
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Oh girl! Take over spirit!
Glenn CoCo 😂😂😂
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Why is Adrienne so surprised when loni said how much the average wedding costs ... this girl is all about designer and her wedding cost my whole life I know she ain’t acting surprised...
Girl yes lol! I know Adrienne and Tam' s wedding costed money! The only one who I could see being cost effective is Jeannie.
I think she was more surprised because it's regular people that weddings cost an average of 35,000k, she knows she's a celebrity....I guess she's being realistic about us regular folks lol. I mean I was like hell no when Loni stated how much a wedding cost. I'm just going to elope I think lol.
Adrienne still gets clothes from marshall's. Yea she's rich but she didn't forget how it felt to be broke. She's trying to stay rich.
US spends more on average in comparison to Europe. I can literally have a glamorous wedding for under 5k
April Triana she’s not average, shes rich. she’s surprised the average Americans pay 35k duh lol
I'm Nigerian. It was my mum's wedding. I just attended with my fiance and we were wedded. 🤣 I didn't know 80% of the guests there.
LOL! You're telling the truth, sis!
Would you do the same with your children?
@@serenanwokoye Definitely not. I understand that culture and tradition play a few roles in these things, but it doesn't make any sense for people to not have a say on a day that's supposed to be about them. Already told my mom - she can do what she wants on my traditional wedding, but she has to let me do what I want for the white wedding.
@@serenanwokoye Nope. I will only "help" and that's if I am asked to. I don't even support big weddings. I think they are unnecessary.
Same for Haitians. 😣😂
All these decisions make me wanna elope 🙃😅
Lol right ugh forget it
aksksksj right?? save that money & go on a nice honeymoon
I did! Don't regret it for a second
@Diana Taran I'm in an interracial relationship so the stress of planning the wedding with the families at war was awful! Eventually we just made the decision to choose our own happiness. The only person who was always on my side was my mom so once I got the go-ahead from her I really didn't care what anyone else thought. There was some drama with my husband's family but they still haven't gotten through with writing him off like they threatened to do so it's pretty much worked out.
Do that! More money for the honeymoon...
No. No. I haven’t even watched the video but no. 😂
I love Adrienne's look... but all the women look stunning
Ea Woman we love a vampy lip, dont we? 😍
@@emmm507 It just does the thing!... you just can't not make a statement
Welcome to Nigeria where the mothers are the wedding planners and maybe the bride cos they bring 80% of the guests to their wedding ( your wedding)
adeoti blessing yo I feel you
So true. It's no longer your wedding. It's your mums showcase with friends and family you barely know. 😂😂😂
I would hate that, I hate being showcased
Same in Desi weddings!!
Haha Congolese weddings too 😂
✨ I am absolutely IN LOVE with Adrienne’s look! The slick bun, the dark lip in constraint with the silver. Ugh, just gorgeous!
Hell no. She knows nothing about me. My likes. My style. My fav colors. I’ll let her input but but umm no
I'm too much of a control freak to let ANYONE plan my weekend, let alone my wedding.
I didn’t even watch the video but the answer to this question is NO! 😂 Never, not happening!
My mom is helping pay for my wedding but she also wants me to have exactly what I want rather than what she thinks is best for me. She already had her own wedding to plan she doesn’t need to control all of mine, especially if you and your mom have very different tastes. Why would you not want to plan your own wedding with your future husband? No point in having a wedding if you two can’t work together to make it the most personal and meaningful celebration of your life. My mom doesn’t need that stress.
Ashley Clanton Lmao white people
Adrienne deadass does always have a friend for EVERY situation 😂
Hell no. Me and my mom have completely different taste in things. It won’t be MY wedding if I got my mom to plan it for me. I’ll ask for her input and leave her in charge with some things, but the whole wedding? No ma’am.
I would not let my mom plan the whole thing 😂 but I would let her join in on the fun of planning. At the end of the day, it’s my wedding and my special day 🤷🏾♀️. I love my mom so I would definitely involve her a lot though.
my mom didn't just plan my entire wedding but also got my dress and make up done by whoever she chose. I was always taught "Momma knows best". Now, 20 years later I've learned about narcissism.
absolutely not, hell I wont even let her invite her “friends” that I dont know like that 🤷🏿♀️
I wouldn't mind it. She's not only my mama, but my best friend. She's got great taste and we usually agree on likes and dislikes. Mama, if you ever see this comment, go ahead and plan my future wedding if you like!
Aww... that's nice. I told mine just show up with a dress.
The ladies are looking gorgeous 😍😍
Hell yes!!! 100% trust my momma! She’s freaking awesome and knows how to throw a party and knows what I like and what I don’t 🎉🍾
Ok but Adrienne looks snatched tho😍😍
I asked my parents if they'd pay for my wedding and they both laughed LOOOOL!
I told mine, if you want all these people to attend, that I don't know or care, you're going to pay for them.
Hell yes, me and my mom are bestfriend she knows everything I love. She knows my dream wedding down to the flavor of cake. And include my hubz in ways I probably wouldn't even think too. Hell that woman could probably make my wedding more amazing than I could!🤣
Staceelynn Oulton that’s how I feel if my mom planned my wedding! I know my mamma gonna have an open bar
My mom did plan mine. I was 800 miles away and everyone loved it. Had so much fun!! I was not stressed and she did an amazing job. Between here and my mother-in-law all details were done.
Tamera’s hair is beautiful! She is stunning!
just because they pay doesn't mean they should have *their* way at *your* wedding. the bride and mom should either compromise or the mom should not pay at all..
If my mom planned my wedding it would be religious and in a church 😅 so no alcohol which is so boring!
Jesus turned water into wine... on a wedding... just sayin'.
What they said ^^
Damn, you gon pay AND plan it? YES. PLEASE.
XD my mom... she''ll probably be on the low-key making me think I'm planning it but its really her lol
My mom planned my 21st bday party and we turned TF UP!!!!!!! And she paid for all of it....so absolutely mom can plan the wedding!
Thanks but no thanks. Also, Adrienne owned this look tu-dayyyyy! She needs to wear this lipstick more often!!!
My Mother won't just pick out all the wedding details... she will also pick out the GROOM... so if your reading this... please pray for my future... 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
My deepest sympathy. I pray she finds a good match where you will be happy.
@@janedough6410 Lord you best believe I'd run away before ever accepting that! But thank you for the love 💙
i love adriennes vampy lip, and both tamera and jeannies tops!
That’s my situation right now lol my wedding is this December and I love that my momma respects my choices but I did let her take over all the decor decisions just because she’s amazing at it! And it takes the stress off me 😭❤️ plus she’s my bestfriend and knows all my tastes 💖 BUT never would I let her do the guest list cuz she would be bringing people I don’t even know lol
Is ades frienda a small group that all these relatable things happen to,or is she just got like a million friends.lmaooo
My mom knows me really well so I think she’d do a good job, but I still would let her plan the entire thing. 😂
Sure why not! She knows me well and would do a great job! :-)
No, because my mum and I aren't close like that.
She's controlling asf about my wedding already. So I'm just eloping 😂😂
Lol if it involved some type of prize I would. We have the same taste and she's pretty timely and logical like myself too.
My mom would not take on that additional work. I can’t even picture it 🤔🤯
My wedding would be LITTTT if my mom planned it! She picked my man and she wasn’t wrong with that! 🤣
My mom planned my entire wedding because I was a couple states away. And she did an amazing job. I told her my theme and colors and she did everything I would of wanted. We have the same taste and style. And I loved everything she did.
Heck no! My Mom and I have different tastes and she would have stuff that I didn't like and I know there wouldn't be alcohol at the wedding lol. Like Tam Tam I would involve my Mom in helping me plan however there will be some things that I just want me and my fiancé to do without my parents involvement.
Funny enough I get my great sense of clothing taste from my aunt and party planning/decor from my father . I would let my dad plan my wedding bc his interior design skills are literally so peak (probably bc he’s picky and he just doesn’t throw out anything onto stuff when he plans )
There’s so many Hell no’s on this comment section I don’t even need to add mine. 🤣🤣🤣
Yes but then no my momma would have us bankrupt she is all the glamour you could have....
Hell no! The whole church would be invited!
I love Disney so my mom would just assume that I want Mickey and Minnie for everything and then it’ll end up looking like a birthday party instead so no lol
I think it depends on the type of mom you have, I feel like a balance would be to ask for her opinion on whatever you feel comfortable with.
I'd be so happy if my mom and sister planned it together
Lol she doesn’t need that level of stress. She gets too crazy when stressed, let her enjoy her 60s in peace 😂
My mom planned my entire wedding and it was amazing.
Is it possible to see an episode where they all have their natural hair ? I would be boooomb
A lot of weddings these days are just about “looks” & impressing people...not even about the wedding itself anymore lol
I wouldn’t let my mom plan my wedding. That is my best friend’s job. We have talked about it and my best friend would be a total bridezilla, he would cuss people out if they had something to say about my upcoming marriage and all that stuff, he would say it’s her day you don’t get an opinion of people were butting in the planning, and he would give me the wedding I would want too, so that’s why I would let him plan my wedding. He’ll be the wedding planner, the mother of the bride, the maid of honor, the minister, the wedding singer and everything in between.
Lol I got married at the court house. So it only cost as much as the license, we bought some nicer clothes, and a nice little cake less than 300$ for everything. 👍🏼🙃
I helped my sister pick out her wedding dress ❤❤❤❤
My mom basically has planned my entire life. At my graduation party I had 400 people and I didn't even know half of those people. I dont even want to think about a wedding. But I know she disown me if I dont let her plan so, I do it anyway lol.
I would absolutely let my mom plan my entire wedding. I would actually trust my mom over any friends and a party planner. She has Impeccable taste and wouldn’t cut corners.
Never I want to plan my wedding with my fiancé tbh it’s a bonding moment for the married to be the wedding should represent the couple and what they like and not the mother of the bride
In my country the couple pays for the weeding, not the parents, if they can they will help you for sure, but the couple pays for everything, but they usually get, or mostly get their money back from guest cause we don't give gifts, we give money as presents. For me it's better this way, I don't need 4 toasters or Idk what, give me the money for that, that will help me more than those toasters. So basically the couple pays and most of the times they get their money back from the guests and sometimes they even make some profit, and sometimes no unfortunately
The mom should just help with wedding dresses in my opinion
I’d love to not have to plan my own wedding. Unfortunately I inherited the terrible planning gene from my mother. It’s just not gonna work 😪.
My mom’s not even donating 5 cents to my husband and my wedding which is great so now she can’t have an opinion on how we plan it.
I would so let my mom plan my wedding, she has great taste though the only thing i would do is pick the venue myself.
Does anyone know where Jeannie’s top is from? I like it!
Hell to tha naw naw naaawww
No thanks, my mom has no idea my tastes in anything there’s no way she would be planning my wedding.
My mom if she was here would not she would be like its your wedding you plan it also I am planning on if I do get married on either just having something small or eloping I would much rather spend the money on travelling, a house or my possible future children.
Yes because I don't care at all. My dream wedding is me doing nothing and just showing up or no wedding at all.
NO , me and my mom have different tastes completely. She probably wouldn't like the wedding i planned anyway lol.
If my wedding was planned by my mother I would have been married in a church, in june, big puffy white dress, and it probably cost $$$$$$$. I preferred out 10 people, in my backyard, $25 random off white dress (technically not a wedding dress), and homemade cake and brisket. It only cost us about $175 give or take.
There is a video that Addriane didn’t mention (her husband, her wedding in paris or her mansion) she died 😂
My moms a wedding/event planner and I love her but no, would not let her plan my wedding. She can help out and give me assistance but not plan it 😊
If your mom is Kris Jenner, yes, she can plan the wedding
Does anyone know a dupe to Adrienne’s lip colour? 😍😍🖤
My mom would be mad at me for even thinking of putting all that stress of planning on her! She'd start yelling at me for being inconsiderate lol. In our culture the man pays for it, but it's up to the bride who plans it.
I would if she is paying completely for the wedding
Ehhhh. I see the point, but it’s your wedding. Just bc your mom pays for it (which is tradition although my momma won’t be doing it lmao) doesn’t mean that she should dictate it, bc what if you hate it? I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s tastes are 100% different than my moms. This is my wedding day. Maybe if she did it and I could oversee everything and be like yes or no.
Everyone in the comment section saying hell no but I'm over hear like why not 😅. Like if I plan my own wedding I'm making a list and when I'm done ticking everything off then we're setting a date even if it's 2 years later lol - but seriously my mom and aunt would probably still try to get my input and the end up getting annoyed with and annoying me because I would be like "Yeah that's fine whatever" and they would be all like "see it's your wedding so you need to be sure, we're just helping so yes or no etc etc" and my ass would get hella irritated with that because that's why I gave the responsibility to you cause I'm not with it. Anyway they could plan and handle everything but my dress tho
I will let my mom do everything she better planner and she is an elegant woman I will take those days off
My mom planned my whole wedding
I'm Nigerian, my mom is practically already planning on who to invite to my wedding and I don't even have a boyfriend yet. We don't have your type of liberties!! 😂 My sister and I always joke about wanting to do a destination wedding because of it.
In the Middle East the grooms family pays and plans everything, even the dress and the couples house . Brides here just relax and look pretty lol
I CANNOT imagine spending that much on a wedding 😳
Arianna Hodges Eastern culture weddings are about 3 times that😊😊😊😊😊
My mom could help plan my wedding but im not gonna let her make all the decisions. I want her apart of everything but i want the things i want and like. And she wouldnt wanna do all tht anyways she wanna b a guest and kickback nd enjoy. Tbh im finna go to the courthouse and then spend all the wedding money on a fat ass reception and get turnt tf up
My fellows Nigerians/Africans know that it's no longer your wedding. It's your mums showcase with friends and family you barely know. 😂😂😂
I rather deal with the pressure.
Lol I have 3 mom figures in my life. My birth mom, I love her but hell no for the drinks hell no!! I am a drink guru. My other moms I would maybe let help but for the most part no. I would let them help with the wedding but only one of them gets my taste. But I’m like Tam I wanna see touches of me and my fiancé.
No, she already planned her own wedding and my quinceañera. So no, it's my turn.
My mom is too much I love her but she’s too much. I will get a wedding planner and at certain meetings she can come
My mom has terrible taste lol she’s very minimalistic so no I would not let her but like Tam I would have her involved in picking my dress
No, no, no and no! I'm African, my mom would invite the entire bloody continent
If she’s paying for it and not me. Sure.
My mom has good expensive taste and I live for it. She raised me she knows what I like.
No!
Hell no, my mom knows absolutely NOTHING about me and she has told me that. And it's sad because she raised me, but we never had a bonding relationship. I really don't know much about who my mom is either.
I am happily married and I eloped in Japan then told my family a month later through text message.
No way I would ever let my mom plan my wedding or really much of anything involving my life. I plan to just elope and spend the first week with my husband and then have a get together like a bbq or something to celebrate with family and friends.
My mom did
No she would not be planning my entire wedding! It would be extremely plain! I like bright colors and lots of bling! She would have me looking like the most basic mayonnaise ever! And that is rude to expect to have some say in what goes in someone else’s wedding just because you pay for it! If you’re going to do something nice for someone do it without any expectations back!
My mum didn’t even come to my wedding.... so no....