Can You Go to a Strip Club If You're in a Relationship?

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  • Опубліковано 4 лип 2012
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  • @cornerstonemasonry299
    @cornerstonemasonry299 7 років тому +217

    I don't go to strip clubs. I'm 34, married 11 years with an 8 year old. It would make my wife feel unwanted and I try to show my son how to be a male with integrity.

  • @dallaslevy7298
    @dallaslevy7298 4 роки тому +60

    I feel like you shouldn’t go to the strip club if you are in a relationship. If one you guys was to go to a regular club and found out your love one was dancing with someone else. You’ll be upset. So why go to a strip club??

    • @mariamacruz107
      @mariamacruz107 4 роки тому +12

      Dallas Levy exactly but hella ppl don’t get that it’s annoying

    • @marklouis677
      @marklouis677 Рік тому +2

      ​@dankpuffalous6260 and why would we need to go if we have a woman at home.. its very very disrespectful

  • @hyacinthdibley
    @hyacinthdibley 7 років тому +25

    That young couple has LOADS to learn.

  • @miranda23ize
    @miranda23ize 8 років тому +66

    Is she crazy....when was it ever acceptable for women to go to strip clubs? I feel like its always the men going and women have to deal with it like its a normal thing for men to do when its actually not. Strip clubs are not for people in relationships unless you go together or unless youre only going for the experience and NOT going for back rooms or anything else that is shady. Those things become addicting for some people. Its just unnecessary. Porn is fine for both partners to a CERTAIN LIMIT cuz again, it can become addicting and it can ruin relationships. There needs to be trust, honesty, and a balance because ofcourse each partner is still going to need an escape sometimes and still be attracted to other people, but it just depends how you go about doing the whole porn and strip club thing. Communication is key. OH AND I LOVE KEVIN AND HIS WIFE :D RELATIONSHIP GOALS LMAO & she is very pretty!!

    • @shayekmiah8956
      @shayekmiah8956 8 років тому +24

      I wouldn't go to a strip club if I was single let alone married.

    • @miranda23ize
      @miranda23ize 8 років тому +4

      thats good! im very glad you think that way. Shayek Miah

    • @swing2gether
      @swing2gether 6 років тому

      Miranda Tiffany you sound like a boring, conceded person.

    • @sidneymihecoby4703
      @sidneymihecoby4703 5 років тому +2

      If there is trust, neither partner should be worried if the other goes to a strip club.

    • @erikasolorioo8302
      @erikasolorioo8302 5 років тому

      Sidney Mihecoby well what if your partner has a lil too much to drink if the stripper wants to have sex with him that’s an issue plus it’s no fun when you get to be the one staying home all day and he gets the weekends all the time ☹️☹️

  • @mtsaddas
    @mtsaddas 12 років тому +35

    Yup i agree not only disrespectful but its cheating to have another women all over you.

  • @GossipGurl807
    @GossipGurl807 10 років тому +25

    The First Couple Is Just Amazing

  • @vopat
    @vopat 10 років тому +19

    Imagine living with Kevin & His wife! They're Hilarious! lol.

  • @sweetangel1051
    @sweetangel1051 11 років тому +3

    Lol I loved the crowd's reaction when she said 'Magic Mike' and when they showed the pic :)

  • @DragonBellyTravels
    @DragonBellyTravels 10 років тому +22

    NEVER, EVER bicker in public. They should have just had fun with their differences like the older couple did…they'll learn - hopefully.

  • @4lifebambi
    @4lifebambi 11 років тому +6

    kevin and his wife are just too perfect and so hilarious!!!!

  • @prachioza
    @prachioza 12 років тому +6

    i love kevin and his wife! so refreshing

  • @ayodejiogunbiyi625
    @ayodejiogunbiyi625 8 років тому +86

    if u relationship u don't go to strip club cos it cheating

    • @miranda23ize
      @miranda23ize 8 років тому +6

      +ayodeji ogunbiyi I agree

    • @miranda23ize
      @miranda23ize 8 років тому

      ***** you're welcome!

    • @jamesdean5181
      @jamesdean5181 7 років тому

      nah its not

    • @miranda23ize
      @miranda23ize 7 років тому +12

      James Dean If your partner doesn't approve, that's cheating. Atleast in my opinion.

    • @jamesdean5181
      @jamesdean5181 7 років тому

      its just cheating if you have sex, or anything else with another one. in strip clubs you just watch, zero touching.

  • @amys7849
    @amys7849 7 років тому +22

    if your gf or bf ok with it then its ok cuz thats their buisness. i personally would not want a guy thats into a club like that cuz im sure the strippers make offers for more money and that would make any guy consider and be tempted,and im sure he would want a lap dance and i would not want my man rubbing on a other woman. its more aboutbi to t trust strippers and think a faithful man could easily change in a place like that. plus sometimes a guy could try thats it then get hooked going alot.

    • @miranda23ize
      @miranda23ize 4 роки тому

      I agree

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 3 роки тому

      @@miranda23ize my wife and I Have done a few things and might be cool with it. But we've been married a long time, which is different then couples who are newlyweds.

    • @miranda23ize
      @miranda23ize 3 роки тому +1

      @@kbanghart Yeah it just depends on the couple. As long as you both have a conversation about things and you are okay with it, then thats all that matters. I agree, though, that the longer you are with someone, the more secure you become and the more trust you have (usually).

    • @RosaGarcia-sl7xl
      @RosaGarcia-sl7xl 3 роки тому +2

      Women go to strip clubs too tho and have guys rub all over them and a lot of them cheat on there boyfriends/husbands in strip clubs too so why don't you women ever say anything about that!! Sexist femenazis!! 😑😡🤬😤

    • @siobhangallagher2576
      @siobhangallagher2576 3 роки тому

      @@RosaGarcia-sl7xl you would be pissed if your wife GAVE a lapdance to another man

  • @damo9961
    @damo9961 5 років тому +9

    I started seeing my current gf 6 months ago. We had a conversation she said it'd annoy her if I went to strip clubs. I was like "fine, Im ok with that I dont really like them anyway, plus I know how Id feel if you went to see strippers."
    She was lke "Oh that'd bother you? The girls at work and I have made plans to go see a male revue in a few months"
    lol she still doesnt understand how its a double standard. Somehow men taking their clothes off is better or something.

    • @daniellee7969
      @daniellee7969 4 роки тому +3

      Its not. Ive seen some stuff go down in a male strip club. Females get rowdy too.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 3 роки тому +1

      @@daniellee7969 my wife sure did

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 3 роки тому +1

      Are u still together?

    • @siobhangallagher2576
      @siobhangallagher2576 3 роки тому

      @@kbanghart yeah how would you feel if your wife GAVE a lapdance to another man

    • @marklouis677
      @marklouis677 Рік тому

      I'd actually leave her if that was my woman.. not saying you should.. but yeah it attacks our feelings and insecurities as people..

  • @kyralynch1697
    @kyralynch1697 2 роки тому +9

    ..no it’s not them being young .. when you in a relationship it’s common respect you don’t go see half naked girls shit fully mostly dancing when you can get a show from your loved one .

  • @sportygal1991
    @sportygal1991 12 років тому +14

    No. You should no go to a strip club white you are in a relationship because it is desrespectful and can give doubts to your current relationship.

    • @sidneymihecoby4703
      @sidneymihecoby4703 5 років тому +1

      If it gives the partner doubts then it wasn't a good relationship to begin with.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 3 роки тому +1

      My wife has, and we're good .

    • @siobhangallagher2576
      @siobhangallagher2576 3 роки тому

      @@kbanghart would you be okay with her GIVING A LAPDANCE at a club

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 3 роки тому

      @@siobhangallagher2576 Yes that would be fun to watch

  • @Mashaz.official
    @Mashaz.official Рік тому +2

    Fresh story - went yesterday to a s.c with my current bf almost 2 years . It was all fun until he forced me to take a lap dance from a gay dancer which I didn’t want to but it happen and after it was done he was acting kinda weird and jealous said now it’s his turn and he wants 2 dancers on him .. eventually came 1 danced on him he was looking at my reaction and was feeling uncomfortable I could tell but I also noticed when he saw I wasn’t looking he was staring at her grabbing her bun and slapping it I was shocked and felt bad . First I got a lame dance by a gay dancer that my bf forced me to!! And after he was trying to get me mad with 2 dancers . My heart broken don’t do this to yourself.

  • @kenikstone
    @kenikstone 12 років тому +1

    I DO KNOW HOW TO TURN OFF CAPS LOCK. BUT MY KEYBOARD GOT WATER IN IT. I SO NEED A NEW ONE. SORRY.

  • @lovelightning8718
    @lovelightning8718 2 роки тому +3

    To each their own, I don't like my own sweat. I only think of germs and I get turned off

  • @kenikstone
    @kenikstone 12 років тому +1

    HEY DO ANY KNOW IF FOX PICK UP HER SHOW FOR A FULL 52 WEEK SEASON ?

  • @carmenjazz5546
    @carmenjazz5546 7 років тому +4

    Yes it is- as long as I can go also!

  • @SaimaAkhtarherboymyles
    @SaimaAkhtarherboymyles 5 років тому +4

    Everyone has insecurities men included. When you’re in a relationship where every insecurity and everything is exposed and have that strong bond than for me personally I would let him go. It’s not cheating as I trust him to do the right thing. If he really cared and loved me he wouldn’t let anything happen between him and any girl that isn’t me. Also you can’t use the excuse “alcohol will influence his choices” that’s not right. Alcohol is a substance which gives you the courage and confidence to do what your conscious had in mind the whole time. So if my said boyfriend went to a strip club and he did anything than he truthfully didn’t care for me and love me the way the says even though he does love and care for me. It’s just not that love and care he preaches. Just a thought.

    • @RosaGarcia-sl7xl
      @RosaGarcia-sl7xl 3 роки тому

      Women go to strip clubs too tho and have guys rub all over them and cheat on there partner in strip clubs so why don't you women ever say anything about that!! Sexist femenazis!! 😡🤬😤

  • @Nelliesezso
    @Nelliesezso 10 років тому +1

    her couch sort of looks like a real version of rules of engagement looool

  • @Lanallaby
    @Lanallaby 12 років тому +1

    I HOPE SO !!!!!!!

  • @xmelanietapia
    @xmelanietapia 12 років тому

    Ellen and bethenny should really go on a show together

  • @OfficialYass
    @OfficialYass 12 років тому +1

    She & Ellen Are Executive Producers.

  • @jennnan1
    @jennnan1 12 років тому +1

    Kevin is so funny! :DDD

  • @EEN63
    @EEN63 12 років тому +1

    So funny!!!

  • @Treedomm
    @Treedomm 11 років тому +1

    that's my birthday too lol

  • @cyndiadawsonhammonds93
    @cyndiadawsonhammonds93 3 роки тому

    Yes!!!

  • @SaveTheZebra
    @SaveTheZebra 12 років тому +2

    very funny kevin nealon but i wish i heard some sincere answers!

  • @rien05
    @rien05 11 років тому +4

    Lol, I love the different vibes from the two couples.
    You have the 7 year marriage couple that is joking and openly fine with each other talking about these topics.
    Then you have the 2 year marriage couple in a tension sort of jealous state that get annoyed at each others answers.
    It's such a classic moment xD

  • @nimsZo3
    @nimsZo3 10 років тому +1

    lol omg he was joking!

  • @angelreyes-pt5ez
    @angelreyes-pt5ez 2 роки тому

    If this stage looks familiar it’s because this was Ellen’s Stage Bethany used for her Test run shows.

  • @calientelangman8115
    @calientelangman8115 12 років тому

    Omg he is soooooo funny!!! Lmaoooo @michelle Obama comment... Too funny!

  • @nybsbfan18
    @nybsbfan18 11 років тому +1

    strange conversation.

  • @Lanallaby
    @Lanallaby 12 років тому +1

    I LOVE KEVIN'S WIFE

  • @JeNvAn9
    @JeNvAn9 11 років тому

    LOL

  • @kenikstone
    @kenikstone 12 років тому +2

    THAT`S SUCKS. FOX NEED A GOOD SHOW LIKE THIS IN THE AFTERNOON. AND E NEWS SAID HER SHOW BEAT THE VIEW LAST WEEK. SO FOX NEED TO PICK THIS SHOW UP. KENI K

  • @Maclovesyouu
    @Maclovesyouu 12 років тому +1

    0:55 hahaa ( x

  • @Nothingsmatter90
    @Nothingsmatter90 10 років тому +3

    I don't like that Melissa feel the need to brag about the people she have met. She just do it in a bad way haha :P It's a different on braging and braging.

    • @TheYeahMan55
      @TheYeahMan55 9 років тому +5

      GeeTay Tapia yeah you can tell her relationship is not going to last very long.

  • @megaboy28
    @megaboy28 7 років тому +1

    no..no..and NO.

  • @Shelbot24
    @Shelbot24 11 років тому +4

    wow i cant believe that women is 41, she is so beautiful.

  • @Xcutiepie1234X
    @Xcutiepie1234X 12 років тому

    I feel kinda special .. ^o^

  • @dan020350
    @dan020350 6 років тому

    -.- I feel this is not a topic Bethany wanted to talked about .......

  • @iimogenn93
    @iimogenn93 12 років тому

    I think she is just a summer show, while there is no Ellen.

  • @2222bigtimerush
    @2222bigtimerush 12 років тому +2

    DO YOU KNOW HOW TO TURN OFF CAPS LOCK ? I do.

  • @masoncat1
    @masoncat1 12 років тому

    Kevin's wife is hot, funny, and maybe a lil freaky lol.

  • @robertthompson3941
    @robertthompson3941 Рік тому

    😅”Jiraight”?

  • @deborahhardaway8919
    @deborahhardaway8919 6 років тому

    The first couple is funny,number2 is stale,the guy needs to jump in an talk,he acts like he just met his wife,every time she comments

  • @jastervega4647
    @jastervega4647 Рік тому

    Crushes? Is this host serious? She makes that statement like "everyone has them and it totally ok,"... um no thanks. And Hollyweird wonders why a 10 year marriage there is pratically a unicorn.

  • @JennaSytyle
    @JennaSytyle 12 років тому

  • @xxcandycrossbonesxx
    @xxcandycrossbonesxx 12 років тому +1

    lol instead of "woopsy daisy" its "woopsy, i sat on a daisy"

  • @user-jw1bl4hq9j
    @user-jw1bl4hq9j 7 місяців тому

    Absolutely NOT IF YOU ARE A MALE ……EVERYONE KNOWS WHY MALES ARE GOING THERE AND ITS NOT THE DANCE ……

  • @Teekayhuey_TK
    @Teekayhuey_TK 5 років тому +1

    I'm going to be honest I've been to the strip club and if it's a shitty one no one once to be there but if it's a good strip club never ever go to the strip club. Cause damn.

  • @pontiacGXPfan
    @pontiacGXPfan 4 роки тому

    WTF is Doug Wilson doing here?

  • @crossdressingthug3443
    @crossdressingthug3443 Рік тому

    Wow these talk shows are so annoying. They drain tf out of my energy

  • @robertthompson3941
    @robertthompson3941 Рік тому

    ARE
    They all”Straight”?

  • @LittleGuy1984
    @LittleGuy1984 10 років тому +1

    I went with a friend because I got a free ticket and I wanted to leave less than halfway. Horrible movie and I don't even like what's his name? Channing whatever lol

  • @breea07
    @breea07 12 років тому

    honestly, magic mike is a shit movie

  • @francesvandeburgt4173
    @francesvandeburgt4173 3 роки тому +1

    Men see that as their fantasy but why cant get that at home?

  • @mistaflinstone72
    @mistaflinstone72 6 років тому +1

    *If my girlfriend got grinded on by magic mike she would have a glorious experience.. something she shouldn't miss out on if she wanted.. goodness FUCK it's just a fantasy?? My woman is loyal. So am I. We enjoy escaping reality when we can (just use your imagination rite??)*